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| 19 | The claim is not "women have a magical misogyny detector." The claim is "misogynistic men who have trouble getting dates are often bad at hiding their misogyny."In addition to this player types target vulnerable women which is why the red pill is so fixated on young even newly 18 year old girls. Players themselves sense other vulnerabilities more specific to the one girl or woman they are targeting and exploit that too. They know to target abused, insecure, or desperate women while incels just try to trick any random woman to be with them using red pill tactics. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/24 05:59 AM |
| 12 | Is it okay to body shame men?It’s not conditional. The people who do it are just in the wrong and may try to justify. They may have and will have all sorts of excuses before just saying what they did was wrong. They might also seek out friends or already have friends who accept this behavior which makes it seem like no one is calling them out. And since body shaming is awful but not a criminal offense or physical assault some people may expect the person who was shamed to move on quickly unless they have dealt with being bo… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/03/24 10:13 AM |
| 2 | More on MRAIt doesn’t really matter if he’s the father of MRA because they all believe this stuff anyway | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/24 02:08 AM |
| 2 | More on MRA/s ? Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/24 02:05 AM |
| 11 | What's the point of ditching the black/red pill when nothing will changer/whenwomenrefuse | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/24 11:38 AM |
| 4 | Do women in traditionalist countries have better morals than western women?Apparently this person just seems to think if his partner is into gang bangs she’ll just hide it and tell him after they get married or something. So much so it’s a major fear for him. This may be worth unpacking for op. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/24 02:46 AM |
| 4 | Manosphere exit surveyYou have some great videos that helped a lot. Not only on the manosphere content but in that area too. I like that you are looking at the black manosphere too which I think usually goes unnoticed. As a black girl obviously I want that kind of stuff to be called out and examined. Thank you. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/01/24 03:54 AM |
| 5 | PearlYes, but given the plethora of different women I’ve seen in relationships just walking around in my life I don’t think her being tall should make it as hard to find love. I think her insecurities and how good she may or may not have been at socializing is definitively the “killer” here in terms of her being able to find a relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/23 09:56 PM |
| 4 | PearlI did used to wonder this when I heard the same comments about Pearl! Many people who have autistic tendencies or are just autistic (but perhaps not diagnosed or misdiagnosed) go in search of help with socialization. This pattern is a known pattern among autistic people. Of course in this day and age it’s really easy to bump up on red pill channels, videos and beliefs. The red pill is designed to take advantage of the insecure and socially isolated. I don’t know enough about her life to give any… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/23 09:54 PM |
| 8 | Insecure that my partner would leave for a Black GuyExactly, he gave himself straight away believing in that awful stereotype. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/11/23 09:02 PM |
| 25 | Not red pill really but I get really tired of how society tells men the only acceptable emotion we can express is anger.Haha, definitely not. They are very patriarchal. Can’t have men asking for help and taking care of themselves…for some reason. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/23 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Honestly anyone looking for self improvement advice should stay off YouTube or only watch Munecat and FD signifier/ signified b sides and his friends.I think HealthyGamer is pretty good as well. Especially for young men dealing with mental health issues who are also aware or in the redpill community but he’s not overtly political like FD Signifier. His angle is that of mental health and improvement since that’s what he was trained in. He even offers coaching and other programs. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/23 12:22 AM |
| 9 | *Barbie* movie has a message that seems aligned with this subI think that last part wasn’t supposed to mean anything extremely deep like you’re reading into it. Instead it seems like a sort of joke. The build up almost makes it seem like she is walking into a new job or something exciting but instead it’s just an ordinary thing lots of women do. This scene does show that Barbie has fully become and accepted being a human woman. Of course in the beginning used to be a doll and didn’t have those parts so the gynecologist visit implies that she has fully bec… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/23 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Have some women also fallen into the red pill ideology?I had/have a similar thing happening with my father as well. My dad has been influenced by religion, his upbringing and who knows what else. Obviously being raised this way influenced me and the way I thought. Though I don’t feel like I fell as deep down the rabbit hole as I’ve seen others. I was susceptible to picking up redpill beliefs and thoughts. For that reason (upbringing) but also my own personal reasons. I don’t think he consumed any redpill content or identified with redpill until rath… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/23 11:31 PM |
| 8 | Is being stoic in a modern relationship a good strategy?Even more troubling is that op’s second example of a situation where he would give a stoic response was his partner falling in love with him. This to me seals the deal that op desires to lack emotions to some extent. Not only in the face of unpleasant circumstances but also good ones. He does not even want to relish in one of the great joys of life, apparently. This makes me wonder if he would then be able or willing to reciprocate love if he got any. Surely love requires some ounce of joy or ca… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/23 02:57 AM |
| 7 | Is being stoic in a modern relationship a good strategy?I would feel terrible if I feel in love with someone and I found out their mindset was “Cool. It is what it is.” This isn’t even advice I just came here to point out how goofy that line of thinking is. And sort of heartless. I’d never seen a bigger red flag. Seems like op desires to be emotionally absent. I can’t speak for how accurate that is to the stoic philosophy but it is undesirable in my eyes. Others may have different opinions but I would set a new record with how fast I run away from so… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/23 02:36 AM |
| 5 | another no girlfriend postI honestly relate to how you’re feeling about this situation. I wish I could offer you some sort of help but I’ve dealt with something similar and I’m not even sure what to say about it. I hope you all the best. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/23 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Do you have autism (high functioning)/aspergersI was just thinking about this the other day. Yesterday I took the RAADS-R, a screening tool for autism. Some of the questions pertained to whether or not a person had ever searched for ways to behave to look normal, if they were considered a loner and if they found socialization a mystery. I was reflecting on that and thinking. Assuming these things are true of autistic individuals if one of these individuals (likely undiagnosed) has gone online searching for information pertaining to socializa… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/23 06:17 PM |
| 10 | Don't understand why y'all hate redpill when everything they say is not all falseThis must be a troll. “I am still a virgin at 26 because I am 5’8”..” Buddy, it’s not your height. Also, what goes through your mind when you see the comments left by men happily in relationships at your height? What goes through your mind when you go outside and see a man that height or shorter with his children or wife? I bet you have a bunch more excuses for instances such as those but since men can get laid (and have happy relationships) at that height we can both agree height isn’t what’s s… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/23 06:01 PM |
| 6 | Don't understand why y'all hate redpill when everything they say is not all falseRollo Tomassi | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/23 05:55 PM |
| – | I think the reason the red pill sorta clicked with me is my relationship with my mom has always been bad ever since 2005 when she married a man who me and my brother hate because he has put hands on us in the past and constantly verbally abuses us.I definitely understand. And actually I believe the relationship I had with my mother factored into why I accepted some of the red pill ideas myself. We have always had a bad relationship even when I was a young child. It involved me being physically grabbed by her, her constantly arguing and screaming at me and me running away. She was also emotionally unavailable and excepting the three years I was homeschooled she was distant when it came to my schooling and interests. The last two years are … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/23 03:29 AM |
| 8 | Help my parents red pilled meThis sub as a pinned post for deconstructing from red pill ideas. You may want to incorporate that into your solution. It probably cannot change the ideas of your parents even if you show them but it will help you to separate yourself from some of the toxic ideas spread by red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/23 01:42 PM |
| 27 | Men here who fully left the red pill, how is dating for you now?She told you why she left. That she has “too many walls up.” I suspect she is not ready for a relationship and that has nothing really to do with you. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/23 07:15 PM |
| 2 | If women want their male partners to be more vulnerable, why is it that there are so many stories of men who opened up and were ridiculed/dumped/cheated on soon after?Yup 100%. I remember I spoke to someone who was a friend at one point online. He seemed pretty cool but after a while it became clear that something was bothering him. I encouraged him to let it out either by talking to someone or journaling in a private journal. He rejected both ideas. He told me he had no other friends and told me therapy would be unhelpful to him as a guy. Although I support therapy I don’t want to be idealistic its not a perfect system and I’ve definitely met some people in … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/23 03:00 PM |
| 5 | q4w: For all the strong, independent females, why is it so bad to be dependent on one man for the rest of your life?Exactly that’s what I was wondering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | q4w: For all the strong, independent females, why is it so bad to be dependent on one man for the rest of your life?Here’s an idea. Some women would like to do stuff. If they are dependent on a man that means whatever project they want to do they have to ask for money to fund it. No matter if it’s as small as some simple redecorating or as big as building a tiny home. They would have to depend on the man and thus be limited and have to wait around until he has the money. Once you factor in multiple children if the couple has kids and everything that goes into that, a house, car, maybe pets and then any hobbie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 11:16 PM |
| 12 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingNo, no,no sir you’re preaching the truth actually. Thank you for waking me up to my own stupidity. (Obviously being sarcastic as well) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 11:21 AM |
| 24 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingThis. OP must really just have ignored this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:37 AM |
| 45 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingSocial skills plays a huge roll in this. So much so that if they are bad enough then an attractive person would still struggle to date. I guess OP missed this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:35 AM |
| 6 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?I am not very articulate and don’t have the years of life to back me up but something tells me relationships are still a need on both side even though financially it may not be needed or even for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 02:36 PM |
| 6 | PornIs it that it pressures them to “step their game up”? Or that it pressures them to do stuff that could be uncomfortable, physically hurtful or just isn’t it for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want relationships more than men when they have everything already?Also you can’t really raise a child with those “alternative” options, haha. Can’t start a family either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with a promiscuous guy wanting to settle with a virgin.No I haven’t seen it posted sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 09:21 PM |
| 2 | There is nothing wrong with a promiscuous guy wanting to settle with a virgin.I believe you so don’t think it’s that but I’m just curious where are some of these studies? I’d like to read them myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 10:05 PM |
| 6 | There is nothing wrong with a promiscuous guy wanting to settle with a virgin.Stated perfectly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues?Exactly. I want marriage but not the marriage that this society is giving. Maybe when I grow up I’ll still be able to get my version if I meet the right person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Have age identifiers been considered?I’m actually 16F but I don’t debate. I just read because I’m curious or I leave a joke here and there. If the sub became 18+ well heck I’d have to wait like two years to use it again. But it’s a major time waster so it would be a good thing lol. If I do offer any opinions I make sure it’s only on a specific case and not a generalization and I make sure it’s apparent that I don’t know anything or have that life experience to know anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 12:52 AM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on men who will not marry women whose parents are divorced?I love your pfp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 12:42 AM |
| 4 | Where did you get your opinions about women?I was taught by my dad that I should never have to pay for anything once I get married because I’m a woman. I then told him of people like you (men who feel women only look toward them for money) and he just said “…Well…” This isn’t gonna solve your problems or anything but I just thought you might find it interesting. He still hasn’t really gotten back to me about that and instead just insist that I as a woman should feel comfortable not having the responsibility to pay for anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Where did you get your opinions about women?Uh oh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 11:49 PM |
| 3 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?Just trust me bro I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 04:11 AM |
| 2 | "Niceness" is not as positive as people think, *especially* in relationshipsI hate that I couldn’t read that subtitle with out hearing the song. “Why do good girls like bad guys…” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 12:39 AM |
| 6 | I feel that the great resignation has striking similarities to manosphere outrage over women losing interest in dating them.Where can I read about this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere are women who do. I seldom receive such attention so anytime I do I like it. Even on the rare occasion it’s something strange or gross I’ll still be secretly flattered because someone thought positively about the way I look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 07:55 PM |
| 5 | are you flattered if someone ugly asks you out ?I’d think it was flattering because at least someone is asking me out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 08:36 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: how many compliments do you get per day in real life?Zero per day. If I go out I may get compliments on my outfit if I’m dressed up. If I’m not dressed up no compliments typically. Usually the compliments are from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 08:32 AM |
| 6 | Q4All: Would you rather marry your average looking best friend; or a really hot person you have nothing in common withNo questions asked my best friend. I don’t like strangers even if they are “hot” and marrying one is just too close for comfort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 12:01 AM |
| 3 | Pros Vs Cons of Marriage Mega-ThreadI won’t claim I know what it’s like to age or to be old because I don’t but I’ve always thought it was odd that when young people make all these claims about their future they never seem to ponder how being old may influence those goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Men don't owe women friendshipNo you haven’t hurt my feelings I was just saying in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Men don't owe women friendshipOf course. That’s how life works. But that’s not something to say to someone who just lost a good friend lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Men *and* Women - what makes you a throwback and why should someone not give you a chance?I’m a child. Pretty sure that’s good enough to be a throwback . Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Men don't owe women friendshipExactly. That’s the point of my comment. That’s why I said, “I wish we could have stayed friends.” because this articulates how I valued the friendship and simply wished it hadn’t changed but since it has we both go our separate ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Are men inferior to women, are men more biologically oppressed?As a girl who’s gone through periods of life where is it completely different (men are better than woman) this is a trip to read lol. Interesting point of view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Are men inferior to women, are men more biologically oppressed?Well yes if that woman is a certain kind of woman. The ugly ones not so much. You have to be a woman who meets all the prerequisites to get these benefits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Men don't owe women friendshipHaha I guess so. I personally have known a lot of straight fun guys who didn’t want to fuck me…Wait a second lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:21 AM |
| 3 | Men don't owe women friendshipI’ve experienced similar situations and I did want to be friends but I recognized that the friendship would be different and so saying “I want to be friends” doesn’t properly articulate the feeling. The feeling is, “I wish we could have stayed friends.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:18 AM |
| 5 | Men don't owe women friendshipI don’t mean to be rude but I have no idea why women want to be friends with “gay guys.” Why not just make friends with who it clicks with? Gay, straight, ace and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Men don't owe women friendshipThis should go for everyone. I’d do the same (not give friendship and just love on) and have done it. What’s wrong with it? Nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:10 AM |
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