Agree. LVM will use your sensitivity to say that you are “crazy”. Every time I would cry to my narc ex after he upset me, he would say “this is crazy. Why are you crying again? This is too much. I’m done with this convo”
This is so true. I told myself that the next time I have to cry in front of a guy when communicating, it means he is not the right person for me. It’s your body signalling that person is unhealthy for you. In a healthy relationship with a HVM, the women do not get upset to the point they are crying to prove a point.