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| 1 | Depression made me a chick magnet wtf?Yeah, you got their interest by being funny and not aggressive. | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 03:40 PM |
| 4 | Depression made me a chick magnet wtf?I think they just fixated on you for whatever superficial reasons. Once a woman is fixated, normal principles go out the window. When you're depressed are you irritable? That generally puts them off. | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 01:16 PM |
| 104 | How do you actually attract the calm, grounded guys instead of the high-energy party types?You have to actively look for and engage with them. They are not hustling like the energizer bunnies who will jump right in your face. | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 08:33 PM |
| 3 | How do you play it when a “taken” girl at the gym keeps coming up to talk to you?Be friends. Don't flirt except ironically. Enjoy her company. She may have single friends. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 01:40 PM |
| 38 | If she’s not showing enthusiasm…NEXTNukes are expensive, don't waste them on low value targets. Just walk. | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 12:57 AM |
| 29 | Is it worth paying for Tinder?No, no app or service is worth paying for. The free versions are largely a waste of time too. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 12:32 PM |
| 1 | How much differently do women treat you when they think you have money/good job etcI don't know why you would want to mess around with religious girls or those under 25. I might be convinced to compromise on the latter, but I want nothing to do with the former. | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How much differently do women treat you when they think you have money/good job etcIf they are doing anything different, it's too subtle for me to notice. I dress nicer than most, but not lavishly. My car is a Honda Civic, and I don't want a more expensive yet less useful and reliable vehicle. My watch should be a giveaway, but it seems only a few people are paying attention. | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | from 1 to 10, how bad is it to cry in front of a woman?At least 11. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Older waitress flirted with me at a salsa club, gave me her number, but our 'date' felt like I was just a ride for her — what happened?You didn't punch out the second she disclosed she had a BF. Just pay your bill and leave. There is nothing there for you. | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 03:17 PM |
| 2 | How to flirt with men and approach them?Talk to them. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it rude to approach someone at a restaurantWhat? Really? | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 07:46 PM |
| 21 | Shes hot but she’s a sexually repressed virginHooking up with her would risk a nasty blow-up with her family. She would need to break with her family to even have a relationship with you outside of marriage. Marrying her is the only way to be with her and not set things on fire. Don't let your little head do the thinking. | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 01:48 PM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts about pulling girls to the toilet?I think it's completely tactless as a standard practice. It would only make sense as a rare expedient for when the tension is explosive, there are no other options, and there is a reasonable chance of no being interrupted (or it's so hot that you don't care). | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Do you hit on girls that work in service ?I avoid eye contact if I can. | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 09:14 PM |
| 96 | should you fuck mids for experience ?Never pursue anyone that you're not genuinely attracted to. People are not for you to use to scratch an itch. | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Girl says I HAVE TO bring her a gift on our first dateI would explain that such a request in this context is considered presumptuous and rude. I don't know if that practice is typical in Ukrainian culture, but this is not Ukraine. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Should I hook up with girls I don’t find attractive just to gain experience/wins?I would not do anything that does not conform to your feelings. | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 10:20 PM |
| 1 | How Can I Encourage Men to Approach Me?Your relationship goals are problematic. While many men are open to casual sex with an attractive partner, real intimacy is reserved for a committed partner whom they have come to trust. Dating multiple men will also immediately shut down any emotional investment or sharing. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Having trouble getting men interestedBeyond the obvious, be fun and easy to talk to. I think that one of major problems with our society and culture is that for many people dating is a miserable experience. We do it because it will supposedly lead to something good, but would otherwise never bother with it. If you are pleasant to date, men will want to date you. They may even fight. | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 06:47 PM |
| 47 | Direction needed for neighbourhood milfStay away from married women. It's a great way to get shot. | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Not attracted to women anymoreI think what you're going through is a damn good reason for consider therapy. This is obviously screwing with your head and should not be allowed to persist. | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 11:32 PM |
| 17 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!OF girls also do this professionally. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 08:24 PM |
| 6 | What to do if Girl grinds her ass on mine in the club.Dance with them. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 01:06 PM |
| 7 | Do men get weirded out/overwhelmed by sudden affection?It's jarring. We are not used to others explicitly expressing appreciation of us as people after we grow up. It's always about what we accomplished. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?Meds generally do not "fix" depression and anxiety; They are considered to be effective if the patient's symptoms lessen. Often, additional therapies are needed to manage a patient's mental illness. Certain medications can also have negative psychological side effects such as emotional blunting and reduced libido. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 04:57 PM |
| 33 | How do I (22F) make a move on my uni professor (around 30M)Any responsible professor would avoid this situation like the plague. | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 05:33 PM |
| 4 | Your coolest stories or other ways to convey value?I have always had good luck with showing up at her door with a field dressed deer slung over one shoulder and a rifle on the other. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 07:24 PM |
| 2 | As a black woman how can I be more attractive to men in everyday settings?You don't have to take the lead per say, but you should never underestimate how oblivious a man can be. You gotta throw the hook in front of the fish before it will bite. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 01:03 AM |
| 2 | As a black woman how can I be more attractive to men in everyday settings?You got it backwards. Look for men that interest you and engage with them. As long as they aren't gay or taken, your chances are good. What will handicap you is being passive. Men have lives and going about our daily business we often encounter women that we consider attractive. Most times we just keep moving though as there is always something that needs doing or some place we need to be and we might not even notice her in the crowd. Besides, we're a stranger and most of us don't want to be a c… | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 12:55 AM |
| 0 | Is it good to ask a girl how her valentines was?Either she's with someone, single and bitter (and you're reminding her), or single and fine with it (and you're reminding her of the bullshit she's not having to put up with). | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Are southern states bad for dating in general?I've found that my irreligion is a definite handicap as a lot of socialization happens via church | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 01:53 PM |
| 16 | Got rejected last time I approaches but she’s still staringIt will stop if you ignore her. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 02:34 PM |
| 12 | What’s the best US City for a single man?Yeah, but then you have to live in Vegas... | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 02:05 PM |
| 9 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?Keep the ones with kids away. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 01:28 AM |
| 6 | Girls never check me out..?Men can also be staggeringly oblivious or at least I know I am. | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 02:21 PM |
| 6 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?This both makes sense and is completely alien to my mode of thinking. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 12:33 PM |
| 1 | I struggle with enticing women through text. I need help.I agree that you need to move past texting ASAP. It's a terribly dry mode of communication. You really want to get face-to-face (or mask-to-mask), but even a phone call is better. When texting, just get a conversion going and FFS don't send any dick pictures. As soon as you're talking, suggest coffee or a phone call. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 12:29 PM |
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