| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 56 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity. | Fundamentals | GreenPandaSauce | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:49 PM |
| 5 | Beach game? | Escalation & Calibration | GreenPandaSauce | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Phone calls before dates? | Conversation | GreenPandaSauce | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | How to handle this situation? | Conversation | GreenPandaSauce | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Is this something I can fix or it's just, something that happens? | Escalation & Calibration | GreenPandaSauce | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 09:52 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Beach game?I feel like that's the vibe cause setting yourself up for expectations gets tiring tbh | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How to cold approach during the daytime in parks?the only hesitation I have is if I'm being annoying. I'll go talk to anyone all day, but if I cant read anyone that makes me uncomfortable. I wanna be cool and swift, not some creep. if a girl is entertaining my convo then im hella comfortable but if I get rejected I dont wanna be there. I'm not in the business of being foreceful and I feel I gotta work on the rejection aspect, well handling it better ig? | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:40 AM |
| 1 | How to cold approach during the daytime in parks?I see this at the beach often, but wonder, isn't it a bit too aggressive if theyre minding their own business. e.g. girls at the gym with headphones are 'off limits' cause it's a bad look to do that. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Beach game?it usually goes over better when you use baby oil. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Beach game?right lol | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:33 AM |
| 3 | How to get over lost time?fym most girls love older men. I feel once I hit my 30s it's gonna be even better. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:29 AM |
| 3 | A few things I've learned online dating as a man. I really wish I could have told myself this a year ago:tbh i've video chatted before a date and then the girl ghosted me lol. I always do better in person, video chats are good after yall know each other IMO. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:23 AM |
| 11 | A few things I've learned online dating as a man. I really wish I could have told myself this a year ago:I once read that coffee dates were a bad idea and i was like fym. Theyre dope, and rather inexpensive. tbh if youre social and you vibe it'll go somewhere if not then f it. Have had a few girls insist I take them out for dinner and I was like nah lol | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:21 AM |
| 22 | A few things I've learned online dating as a man. I really wish I could have told myself this a year ago:Lots of emotionally unavailable people too. People usually head to OLD following a shit break up. Take that as you will. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Beach game?the thing is, is there a way to approach when she's in her own world? I'm very big on playing off energy - if she makes it obvious she wants me I'm game but if she's meh then fuck it honestly. In hit on a chick on a beach on miami when she took a selfie and I asked if she needed one. She was also eye fucking the shit out of me but still.. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Beach game?Yeah that's good and usually i do something like that. Stupid fun, but there was this girl just in her suit and nothing else. The book had a boring ass cover and I'm just like "damn not much to work with". It's usually easier when there's something to work with, a nice bag, hat, outfit, etc. My problem is sometimes i can't seem to see anything that stands out. I obviously can't comment in her suit, that'd be weird as fuck lmao. Like if she had a hat I'd totally do that, and i would have said som… | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Beach game?Yeah i hate being "forceful". When i feel i belong, i fucking shine. Maybe that's something i should work on? | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Beach game?Oh I've done one in college literally walked up to a girl sitting alone at the cafeteria and asked if i could keep her company that was a fun one but Lowkey feel it was a bit aggressive (what if she wanted to say no). I guess what makes me nervous is being somewhere I'm not wanted. Like if i can tell a girl isn't into me then i don't wanna be there, it's a waste of time and can make me look bad especially if others can see. Not tryna be " that guy" and this is a local beach and i see familiar fa… | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Beach game?And what do you do in a park | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Is this something I can fix or it's just, something that happens?Flirted a bit yeah, we held hands but didn't kiss or anything. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Is this something I can fix or it's just, something that happens?We got drinks for like 2 hours and then we walked around and we got ice cream. There was a good amount of laughter and it felt chill. What do you mean too committed? I'm curious if maybe I am relaying that subconsciously | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Is this something I can fix or it's just, something that happens?Most of it was just asking when you're free, then ending the Convo. Little small talk. I don't express much interest. "Alright see you then" | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Phone calls before dates?I called her cause fuck it and she picked up and went "who is this" nice to know she didn't save my number. One hand we never met so I get it on the other hand fuck you i don't wanna hang now. Kinda a turn off lol. Every girl gets save first name followed by town name or app name or if i met them at a bar...hey it's something | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 05:23 AM |
| 2 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.Agreed | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 04:18 PM |
| 2 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.I'm moving out soon :) I could drive it's just the place barely has parking and I don't want a DUI. BUT tbh I wanna live somewhere that has a bunch of people and things to do, even tho I like rural areas 😂 | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 04:24 AM |
| 12 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.I live on long island and she's at a friends that's a bit far, the Uber ride would be 35 minutes and since it's a Friday night and Ubers are limited price gouging happens. So Uber will be around 80-120, plus drinks, etc. It sucks man. If it was somewhere closer it wouldn't be a big deal but it's like 25 miles away lol. Usually people split it and it's not bad but since I'd go solo it's all taken on by me. Drinks aren't cheap either plus covers... Yeah I'll pass. Usually I try to keep a night und… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 03:32 AM |
| 3 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.Agreed! | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 03:31 AM |
| 5 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.Do appreciate the advice but seeing as it would cost 400 for this chick that I don't even know not I'm just wait for Sunday. I'll meet her friends next weekend. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 03:18 AM |
| 4 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.Nah it was a 40 min drive so I hit up another girl on hinge and scheduled the date for sunday. Didn't really feel like spending legit close to 100 on Uber each way, and driving I'd be boring sober and a buzz kill saying no to drinks. If they were closer I'd 100 percent go out. After Sunday I'm gonna do what you basically said with her friends, unless we don't hit it off. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 03:11 AM |
| 6 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.Yeah I gotta meet her first | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 01:47 AM |
| 2 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.Yeah it's gonna be s bit difficult. Even being interested it's also just matching up I'll just see her Sunday damn. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.Yeah it would be diff it was just us two...her friends being there really throws the balance and mood into question | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:37 AM |
| 5 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.Our first date is sunday but she extended an offer for tn haha. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:22 AM |
| 21 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.I mean if we dont hang tn we will sunday, our date is then but she extended the offer for tn and I'm on the fence. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:22 AM |
| 2 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.Yeah she is down to 1:1 sunday, but extended an offer for tn. I do wanna go, but I don't like I'm not in control of the situation. And she's gonna be occupied with friends, not tryna be needy. They could also suck and expect free shots and shit lol. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:21 AM |
| 1 | How to handle this situation?Fair. If she wants to talk she will talk, you're right. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | How to handle this situation?Ig. Just figure she will be going thru the airport unpacking Monday and Tuesday she'd be home. Feel like for next time in this situation it may be better to just set something up before hand then follow up but ig it doesn't really matter | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | How to handle this situation?Sound advice. Should woo her right away! | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How to handle this situation?Flies in Monday so maybe Tuesday would be better? | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 09:53 PM |
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