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Male models have about as much to do with getting in shape to attract women as open class bodybuilders. Which to say, nothing/not at all. People who try to act like lean tissue doesn’t improve 90% of people’s appearance are as delusional as people who think they need to hop on steroids to get the job the done. Hitting the weights 2-3 times a week could probably get most men under 40 somewhere around the Fight Club physique in a year or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:14 PM
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I don’t talk about men past 30. Don’t be fat and make more money than the women you try to date. Cost of living where I’m at isn’t super high, but it’s higher than bumfuck nowhere and a guy in his 20’s making 40k a year (if not less) can still get laid and find a gf. Barring physical or mental disabilities, this isn’t a high bar. As far physical characteristics, once you’re under 5’7 things seem to get pretty difficult, so I have no comment on that, other than try to max out your wealth and heal…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:55 AM
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Most of mine happened while sober. Still would if I used/went back to Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:28 PM
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It’s beyond that. It’s nationally recognized fame chad level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:22 PM
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I dated a girl that was really into getting me gifts. I thought, okay, I guess we do this (I’m not a huge fan of gifts, generally). Part of me thought it might just be a honeymoon phase thing. Eventually, one gift I got her for some occasion or another became an argument and she started talking about how much effort and thought she puts into what she gets me and I realized the point was probably never really about showing me love or affection, it was putting me in a place where I was forced to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:18 PM
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37% of women, and out of those women, most of them probably won’t find you attractive assuming you’re average looking. Those are awful odds, bringing it down to 18%, which is probably unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:27 PM
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It almost just comes off like a weird bragging post/pull yourself up by your bootstraps thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:53 PM
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It seems like a lot of people get into the groove of going out every Friday/Saturday when they’re college age and they ride that out into their 30’s if they don’t have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:56 AM
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I was thinking OP is under valuing being a 7 in real life. I would classify myself as a solid 7/10 from about 17-21 and it felt like a super power, let alone what it must be like for guys who are actually “chad tier”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:54 PM
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Most of my hook-ups or ONS were with women who would seemingly date me. I figure that’s pretty much what usually happens for other guys too, and women who are putting themselves in positions like that seem to be fine with nothing more happening, for whatever reason. Maybe some of them are holding out on fucking the right guy one night that wants to actually date them but I don’t know if that’s very common. So essentially, I still look at it more like you’re just a guy that would normally be in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:11 PM
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The incel/black pill communities possibly being autistic, combined with the red pill community being overrun by angsty teenagers and divorces, makes things hard to parse out. I think people on PPD aren’t quite familiar enough with these communities to understand the nuance in the people that tend to make them up. Incel communities, in particular, are a group that are simultaneously over represented by teenagers and young people jumping the gun because of inexperience, while the factors of being …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:44 PM
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So it’s best to be a smug prick and accuse someone of trauma dumping? I can’t think of a single circumstance I’ve ever been in where telling someone that they’re “trauma dumping” would be a productive decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:55 AM
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I’m not sure what the point of your post is, but I’ve only ever heard “trauma dumping” used as an insult or in a negative fashion. And to me it comes off as a sort of psychopathic thing to say to someone. Probably a phrase we’d be better off without.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:03 AM
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Good thing it always works out for the better, the longer you avoid facing the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:18 AM
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Nothing, probably living a better life than most, if it isn’t related to your economic status. To me, hell looks like being a person that bounces between relationships that only last 1-3 years. I’d rather be a virgin or a degenerate sex fiend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:22 AM
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A lot of people in here are fighting ghosts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:56 AM
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Me too, not the most attractive bunch. I’m probably a 6/10, maybe 7/10 when I was 18-20. Back home I may as well be Leonardo Dicaprio in Titanic. This woman is a 5 or 6 with an attitude like she’s an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:28 PM
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I can’t imagine that claiming women are stupid or calling for the removal of their rights would be popular among most of the people in here - including Red Pill flairs. There was a guy pretty enthusiastic about removing women’s right to vote being the first step in things going in the right direction, and I’m pretty sure everyone gave a collective “Hmmm . . . 😶” in response. That said, I’m pretty sure OP isn’t even thinking about that kind of thing, I have a feeling their headspace in regards to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:50 PM
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This is kind of unrelated, but watching the TikTok, it occurred to me how weird it is that an unexceptionally attractive person can have an attitude like this. Then I looked her profile and realized she’s from West Virginia.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:22 AM
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Any time she seems way too eager and into me early on makes me a little uncomfortable. There’s also a certain approach to ask about future living situations, work, and things like that which make me uncomfortable. Women seem to do it in one of two ways, either naturally in casual conversation, which is fine, or in a way that comes off more like they’re probing or interrogating me, which makes me want to tell them to get fucked and walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:54 AM
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Completely nonexistent, my father was gone by the time I was 5. My mother had custody rights taken away from her when I was 11 due to abuse, I was taken in by my grandmother, who’s verbally abusive and growing up as a teenager with her just opened my eyes to how someone ends up like my mother. My Grandfather was completely absent at home; he was away for work most of the time and retired later than he had to. As long as I’ve been alive his routine was go to work, come home and eat dinner, drink …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:47 PM
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Ah yes, the days of old, when warriors would come back home to literal loot, women, and land after their legs got blown off in Vietnam. And Thank God for that time of prosperity when the ruling group, all the men, patted each other on the back and drove their new Ford Model T’s around all day while the woman-slaves worked in the oil fields and the mines. What a time to be a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:03 PM
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Patriarchy meant men getting thrown to the wolves, equality means men getting thrown to the wolves, and now women can lend a helping hand in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:57 AM
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Yeah, ignorance is bliss. I hope that steak tastes good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:35 AM
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Actually, for a while, there was a conspiracy that a lot of PUA and dating guru’s in the space are closeted homosexuals doing this whole charade to find young men to have sex with. There was one guy in particular that was going on rants and rattling off dozens of names, including Rollo Tomassi, and suggesting that they were putting together the speaking events as a sort of a gay sexcation/orgy set-up. Eventually a red pill guy put together a call with the dude accusing people of being closeted, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:29 AM
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Not sure about red flags for someone who’s “abusive” exactly, but there’s a certain tactic to handle confrontations that I would consider unacceptable and emotionally manipulative, whether intentional or not - that I got experience with in one relationship. Things that were a fairly big deal, whether it was related to her or how she felt, or something that would probably get a “reaction” or cause distress in our relationship on my end, was almost always kind of snuck into conversations unexpecte…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:10 PM
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It’s bizarre to me that there is a “blue pill” when the “red pill” was just about abandoning false narratives about the state of human reproduction or providing information for men about it where none existed. The Blue Pill was relying on whatever your boomer parents, peers, and television show you about relationships. The Blue Pill doesn’t offer anything. As much as I don’t agree with a lot of people associated with the MRA movement or tradcons, that was where a lot of the first proactive and u…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:49 PM
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Yeah, and all these women that walk around smelling like a sushi restaurant am I right? Too bad all these disgusting humans can’t clean themselves or have any common decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:24 PM
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A lot of people associated with MGTOW abandoned the acronym from 2015-2017. There were too many people making content that appealed to the lowest common denominator. It looked like the blind leading the blind, and they all happen to be resentful 16-30 year olds or divorcees. There are still sub-communities that encapsulate the better aspects of MGTOW, namely just having a realist view of things since these are supposedly people who willingly opted out of pursuing marriage or children, for one re…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:11 PM
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You just did it again. We are not a monolith. Because I am a woman I know we are not. I’ll just drop it because it feels kind of like it will devolve into semantics but there’s definitely a hint of some kind of irony or contradiction here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:20 PM
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Women aren’t a monolith. You would have to be a woman to understand us. Doesn’t that sound funny to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:42 PM
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A lot of women show their true colors online. There have been women who don’t feel the need to virtue signal or “mask” when they define their wants and feelings about men and relationships on the internet for years. We’ve had like over a decade of knowing women’s generalized wants for height and earnings. What we understand about male and female sexual behaviors is a scrambled picture that becomes clearer every year as new information comes in. You can get to know understand women like everyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:32 PM
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If they’re only going in it for the sex, bar hags and strippers might be the best service in town.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:10 PM
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Casual conversations about those kinds of things usually came up like that for me within the first 4-5 dates, usually at dinner or in the car to and from wherever we were going. That said, I’ve never had a problem being pretty forward about what I want and how I feel about things, and asking women what they want as far as basic boundaries and expectations. My ex girlfriend used to tell me about weird arguments and conversations that her friends would be having months or years into their relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:47 AM
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When I was 13 a girl in class touched my shoulder from behind and said I had a hair on my shoulder. Her friend told her “What the fuck is wrong with you”. I later found out she had a crush on me, so it was definitely a weird move and not social unawareness. A middle aged woman leaned close to me from behind in a shitty gas station a few years ago, I saw it out of the corner of my eye in the reflection of a mirror that I guess is there for employees to see around the store, I have no fucking idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:21 AM
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My first serious girlfriend/partner had a box built like an aircraft carrier. I didn’t really mind and had nothing to compare it to at the time, but I had trouble finishing pretty often, which is kind of insane considering my age at the time. She also had the most insane labia I’ve ever seen in person, which again, I didn’t have much to compare it to so I just thought “okie dokie”. Now I think my N-count is approaching or around 20ish and I’ve never had sex with a woman that had a similar situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:46 PM
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I’d say it’s just a general problem in society. Almost none of the couples I knew in High School and college, including my ex-girlfriends, ever talked about planning their education and career in a way that would help sustain or minimize stress the relationship. I reciprocated that approach. You know which ones are still together? The two I know that did. One couple stayed within an hour each other going through college, the other couple stayed within 2 hours of each other, saw each other just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:29 PM
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I’ll read testimonials and get something out of them. Typically I’ll just leave my ideas or observations in one comment then not bother replying to most people because I’m on mobile and there’s no chance I’m formatting a reply with citations and digging up sources on my phone just to argue with an anonymous person online. If someone reads something I say and they do some research in their own or it’s just food for thought, cool; if someone thinks whatever I said is complete bullshit, that’s also…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:21 AM
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I briefly went to an art school in the north east and my options were pretty limited. The ratio of males to females wasn’t very good, huge drop/transfer rate of freshmen students, and if I’m being honest- the most attractive women I met were being hounded by dudes from day 1, from what I saw. If I got matches on Tinder with attractive women, it was usually girls from BU and not my own college. I transferred to a school in central Florida and immediately was matching with dozens of women as attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:24 AM
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Getting approached by women was always a red flag for me. My LTR’s both pursued me heavily and I took it as a red flag - I don’t really think those were false flags in hindsight, any girl in a hook up situation that pursued me hard was an automatic “I need to get checked for STD’s if we have sex”. I would never want to live in a world where women approach me harder than what we’re in right now, as someone who only casually dates or hooks up with women. It would just make it harder to feel women …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:46 PM
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It’s hilarious to me that the red pill has swung so full retard that they now deny scientific genetic determinism now that we have more and more information/statistics/studies backing it up. Even now Rollo is tweaking because Mate switching theory is catching up to contradict the stupid shit in his book and life philosophy. As an apathetic person in regards to gender, race, the future of relationships and all that, it’s wild watching the pendulum swing so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:39 PM
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I think you’re smoking crack since you’re the one who initially linked inceldom to relationship counseling and you can’t follow the conversation due to a potential deficit in reading comprehension and critical thinking. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:27 PM
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If you identify as a “Red Pill Man” and believe in relationship counseling you may want to rethink your identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:17 PM
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To your last point, I already said it in my first reply, it’s deeper than just “getting laid”. Who cares if they get laid once with someone uglier and more fucked up than them? That does nothing for someone’s life or ability to maintain a stable relationship with someone. This is where “inceldom” becomes more than a black & white meme about neckbeards and angry teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:11 PM
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Do you want me to cite things? It’s definitely not most men, but I’m pretty sure we’re both one google search away from finding statistically significant evidence that points in the direction, that some portion of men are basically incels. I’m curious what your point is in being to opposed to the idea that some men were born “fucked” in life, in all the ways I previously mentioned, when we all understand that terminal illness deal some people a bad hand in life, and things like height dictate wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:51 PM
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In my experience, it’s about the same as far as intention, but in practice the attention I got when I was younger was a lot different than my ex girlfriends. My ex would get guys working at subway flirting with her when she wore a low cut shirt. Her getting hit on was actually pretty normal because she was well endowed and pretty attractive. When I worked on the beach I usually only got advances from gay men and older women. Standard flirting stuff. There’s an asymmetry there. Young men don’t ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:43 PM
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This is so ridiculous I thought the comment was a joke. If you actually believe that incels don’t exist you have a fundamental misunderstanding of reality right now. I’m taken aback to listening to guys like Chris Williamson talk about incels and guys who were born down on their luck, because it seems like he can’t fathom what a life like that really looks like. There’s probably millions, or at least thousands, of men who are essentially incels in America and Canada by combinations of thing like…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:11 PM
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One of my ex-LTR’s use to casually slide massive relationship stressors into conversation out of nowhere. I believe this passive stuff is more of a woman’s tendency and they underestimate how much it will absolutely shatter a man’s faith in the relationship in the same way a man’s blow-up might make her second guess everything. That guy might be wound tight but I don’t have a problem believing he all of a sudden stumbled into a cataclysmic hit towards his faith in the marriage because his wife i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:27 PM
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Of all the people that are going to murder you today, it’s probably not someone that dumped tons of evidence in the way of text and/or dating app messages through their phone. Even if that isn’t enough, I’m assuming every girl I went on a date with, at least in college, mentioned it to at least one of her friends. So pragmatically, if your tinder date plans to murder you they also have to be someone ready to go to prison (not likely). As an adult I’ve had some situations that felt dicey . . . bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:12 PM
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I have my doubts. I probably wouldn’t want my hypothetical children living with someone else’s children, especially if they’re older than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:44 PM
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I don’t want children, but I would much prefer a daughter to a son. I think it would be much easier for myself/partner and for her to go through life. Both of my friends have daughters and I fully anticipate that, as long as nothing goes traumatically wrong, it will be much easier for them to raise their kids than if they had sons. The system, public education specifically, is just a smoother ride for females than males. That advantage in school makes everything that comes after easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:50 PM
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Care to share what it is? Edit: Of course not, it’s more fun to talk condescendingly to other users without substantiating anything you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:39 PM
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No, it takes a long time to figure out what the issue is, and you may never find a good answer or know the truth about it. I had a couple multi-year long relationships and did not enjoy either of them. I’ve dated a couple women for a few weeks since and just cut things off early, even though nothing was going wrong. The hook-ups are always fine. I’m only 26, but I’m pretty certain I’m just happier by myself - I guess only time will tell, but I doubt my thoughts that marriage and children are not…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:35 PM
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Even if I strike up a random conversation with an attractive woman in a place like the grocery store line and she seems interested/possibly flirting, I’m still always assuming she’s not and going on with my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:01 PM
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The idea is that the womb and women’s role in reproduction is so valuable that we inherently value women more than men. So this is one of the aspects where this line of thinking comes from. There’s also court statistics and a few studies that suggest that both men and women, are biased in favor of women compared to men in most situations where their actions are called into question, so while that doesn’t necessarily reflect the idea that women are loved unconditionally directly, it does paint th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:41 AM
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That doesn’t mean your options for women improve the older you get. Would you rather start a family with a woman that’s 21 when you’re 24 or a woman who’s 27 when you’re 30. I’ve listened to a lot of older guys talk about dating and relationships and learned that the older people get, the more established their life becomes and the harder it is to make rash decisions or up-end your life for someone else. The idea of sleeping around and peaking at 35 then settling down is the most ridiculous red …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:20 PM
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Posts like these make me feel like I live on a different planet. I’m 26M and I have yet to encounter a drought that wasn’t self-imposed, I’m also very average looking and on the shorter side (5’9). I can only imagine things steadily get worse the closer to 30 you get but as of right now I can still bet on going to a bar and getting looks and conversations with women 20-35 pretty easily. For reference I live in a coastal tourism town. Perhaps LA is killing his love life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:21 AM
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MRA’s used to be a large and vocal part of the manosphere and if you listen closely enough to what most of them say you’d quickly realize they’re just tradcons. The PUA content only exploded because of Andrew Tate’s momentum and guy’s doing a worse version of Kevin Samuel’s show. There’s always been a push/pull between tradcons, PUA’s and MGTOW ideas with an ebb and flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:44 PM
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