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Obviously, if the singleness was a choice. It's not a choice if there weren't any options to choose from in the first place. It's just that, in general, a lot of men equate success to having a romantic relationship, but this mindset is not as prevalent in women. In the pool of people who actively choose to not be a romantic relationship, there are more women than men. These people you're referring to are obviously not in that same pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:37 PM
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I think you're unwell. Also, have you never taken a biology course in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:34 AM
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Lol, how silly. First, your "friend" having a preconceived notion about a girl, then getting mad that she didn't fit that idea is entirely on him, not her. Second, the only logical reason why he would be upset that she likes casual sex with other men except him is he befriended her solely for the reason of sleeping with her. In that case, it's not female deception but a case of male entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:48 PM
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I think it's mainly getting influenced by what stay at home mums/wives/girlfriends present their lives as on social media. When times are tough and getting a job to sustain yourself seems more and more difficult, the idea of having a rich man taking care of all your needs obviously sounds very appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:09 PM
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Not all people want a sugar relationship... Didn't we already have another post like this yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:48 PM
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If you're not getting matches on dating apps, I don't think you'll do much better in real life other than feeling the sting when she rejects you right there and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:22 PM
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Isn't this what you would call a sugar relationship? If this is what you really want, isn't it quite simple?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:04 PM
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To me, online dating has replaced cold approach as another shallow form of dating. Just that women don't have to worry about their safety when turning down a guy in real life. I think that it's a net positive overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:33 AM
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Conflating personal opinion with some sort of universal truth or principle for something as complex as romantic relationships shows a severe lack of critical thinking. If you've already labelled this as some sort of truth, it means you have no intention of actually listening to any argument that challenges your viewpoint, so why label it as a debate? Just go on a meaningless rant about women somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:28 PM
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No, why would they be? If it turns into them actively resenting women and developing fantasies of physical violence towards them, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:01 PM
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So in other words no, you don't really have much first-hand experience and are otherwise just projecting your own insecurities or whatever rage bait you see on you tiktok feed onto all women instead, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:04 PM
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I think that complete dependency on a romantic partner is very unhealthy for both parties involved. She seems to be quite immature, and I feel such people should learn how to be more independent before jumping into a relationship. Your discomfort towards her is valid, I don't see any justification as to why you need to put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:09 AM
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How would you know what they're looking for in a relationship if they're not actively in one with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:04 AM
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If the women you regularly encounter have this mindset, all it means is that you don't have much to offer in a relationship other than monetary benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:32 AM
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Never had flings, don't intend to. The girls you wanted just weren't interested in you. But if thinking some imaginary "Chad" is turning them into alpha widows helps you cope, go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:34 AM
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Isn't men's loneliness epidemic about not being able to find a romantic partner? How does the deliberate exclusion of women in primarily male spaces help with that? Won't it exacerbate the issue? And I'm pretty sure the Boy Scouts organization was basically cancelled due to the mountain of sexual abuse cases committed by: men (gasp). So, letting girls into the organization is simply a PR move in their attempt to "restore" their image and make people overlook the much more horrendous scandal in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:22 AM
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Women tend to be much less blunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:24 AM
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Alot of men here sure seem to love writing their NSFW fanfic of Chad PSA: Just because a woman doesn't want to sleep with you, it just means she doesn't find you attractive. It doesn't mean she's banging some imaginary "Chad" on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:23 AM
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It's funny how alot of guys on this sub like to dictate which type of men women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:37 PM
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With that big of a time gap, it'll be very difficult a find a job that can sustain her and allow her to retire comfortably. Alimony should be paid up till the point when she remarried (if she does). Giving up financial independence is a sacrifice, and she should be compensated for that sacrifice. It's a privilege given to the husband when he's allowed to fully focus on his career, and it's something he owes her. Alot of men seem to want women to bear the brunt of childbirth and childrearing, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:41 AM
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Because women are nowhere near as horny as men. Blame your testosterone for that. For alot of women, casual sex is not something they actively seek out. Women have higher risk of contracting STDs and have to bear the implications of unplanned pregnancy. Alot of men can't seem to understand the disparity in sex drive, and like to project their own desires onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:52 PM
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So? In general, liberal values serve women better compared to conservative values. No surprise that a greater proportion of young women are leaning left.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:25 PM
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Alot of lonely men projecting their own fears and feelings onto women who aren't dependent on men again I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:01 PM
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It's like this: Happily married / Happily single < Single <<< Bad marriage / relationships It's really not some propaganda machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:28 PM
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Communicate. Tell the other person directly that you want monogamy. If she's hesitant, just cut your losses and walk away. If you have hard boundaries, it's up to you to communicate and enforce them. Don't assume someone can just read your mind or let them string you along when you already know this is not what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 08:49 AM
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On dating apps the only thing you can see and judge by are picture so 1. But in real life its different, probably 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:02 AM
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What makes you think that's a loss for women? It's pretty clear she doesn't care much about your pleasure anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:45 AM
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I mean, you can just speak with your partner directly and discuss how to make it exciting. I think openly discussing it with anyone outside the relationship is very disrespectful to your partner, be it male or female. You're both adults, communication shouldn't be that foreign of a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:53 AM
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It might surprise you, but even women who aren't models are allowed to have standards and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:03 AM
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Women expect an 9/10 and then wonder why she can’t get commitment. If a woman was making this post, calling herself a "9/10" and complaining why she seemingly can't a guy that meets her standards, I was sy the same thing to her. But your post is focused on men who keep getting by rejected. I’m sorry but you can’t just blame this all on the man. And each person's dating life and subsequent failure is their own responsibility, no one else's. What's there to assign blame to? Let alone women. The wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:05 PM
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Again, I don't really think much of self-proclaimed ratings, be it man or woman. Your "rating" in the dating marketplace, if there is one, is based on how the gender you're attracted to views you. If the type of woman you're interested in is constantly rejecting you, then it's safe to say you're not nearly as attractive as you think you are. Either lower your standards, continue struggling, or try to improve yourself. And frankly, I think it's more delusional to somehow feel entitled to dictate …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:38 PM
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Yeah, I'm not sure where all these self-proclaimed ratings "6/10", "5-7" come from. If by your own standards, you can only get "3/10" women, then accept that to women, you're a "3/10" man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:40 PM
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How do you know that the women that your friends are pursuing have this standard? Did they tell you? Or is it another "women aren't a monolith"? If they keep getting passed over, then they should lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:08 PM
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Have higher standards. Don't compromise on boundaries, don't have sex earlier then you're comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:57 PM
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Why not? A relationship is not a god given right, it's a conscious decision made by 2 individuals. I'm saying if no ones buying what you're selling, maybe it's a faulty product.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:42 PM
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I don't understand what part of my response is disingenuous. I'm specifically referring to men who behave in a certain way. This exact conversation has been had many times but essentially this claim you're making is disingenuous and a justification to always blame men for their situation. Situation? Each person's love life is solely their responsibility, what is there to blame someone else for? If you're putting in a lot of effort and have nothing to show for it, then lower your standards. Men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:37 PM
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The reason why it's a jailable offense when a guy does it is because of the physical implications for the woman. She's the one having to bear the physical burden of pregnancy or the risk of it. No matter how you try to convince yourself, the financial implications of a pregnancy cannot compare to actually going through it or even an abortion. In most places, including the US, you do not have to give child support if you give up your parental rights. There's such a thing as self-control. Having s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:08 PM
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I don't think you understand what the term "nice guy" is. It's meant to describe men who put on a facade, pretending to be friendly to women they want to sleep with, then turn to insulting / demeaning or rude when she declines his offer. Just because a guy is being nice to a woman does not entitle him to any romantic or sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:52 AM
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Another "everyone else is the problem, except me". You should take accountability for your own problems, including if you can't find a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:40 AM
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Condoms and vasectomy exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:45 AM
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You can replace the "women" with "I" then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:33 AM
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For the Nth time, people aren't a monolith. This is a public forum, where people can express their individual viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:28 AM
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Lol, I'm not sure if you're being delusional on purpose. The only thing that will likely occur more frequently is both men and women getting scammed romantically by increasingly convincing fake profiles created using LLM's both on dating apps and on other platforms. Men will likely be targeted more since they're more desperate and needy of female attention. Dating apps will likely create some of these fake profiles on their own to increase engagement on their apps and get more lonely people to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:07 AM
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Considering how recent women's rights are, I really don't like to believe that the vast majority of sex and relationships in human history was "duty sex", survival sex, and domestic violence. I mean, romantic relationships are a pretty recent phenomenon. There's an attraction gap for sure, and you can blame women for having too high standards or men for not putting in enough effort. Point is, it's not going anywhere. More people and women in particular are choosing solitude over having romantic …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:04 AM
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I think it's just because in most places, women don't need men for financial independence anymore. Previously, when women had far less opportunities to make a living for themselves, many flaws in a partner could be ignored as long as they could provide a steady paycheck. In general, I think both genders need each other alot less. With that, there's a lot less motivation to persevere through trouble in a relationship, or even be in one in the first place. From my anecdotal experiences, for women …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:53 AM
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With how desperate you sound, nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:53 PM
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R u OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:08 AM
2

I don't really see women bashing on single moms, they're usually quite empathetic. I think most people are including men. It's usually on those manosphere podcasts where I see men bashing single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:38 AM
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It depends, context matters. When it comes to relationships and men telling women to "take accountability", sometimes it's helpful advice to self reflect. Other times it's used to victim blame women for a man's bad behaviour or some weird projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:05 AM
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Because if you could, you wouldn't be complaining about it here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:59 PM
1

Just curious, are you a man or a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:38 PM
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I have no issues with porn actresses, but I strongly dislike Bonnie Blue as she is a predator. She's purposefully targeted teenage boys of barely legal age to engage in sex acts, which she then records and posts online for monetary gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:35 AM
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i don't think you realize how unappealing that sounds to continue a friendship with a woman, if she thinks we aren't relationship material but only friendship material. It's only unappealing if you make female friends solely for the intention of dating them. If so, I don't really care. i have a 5'3 friend that would jump into defend me if i was randomly mugged, size isn't an excuse Your friend is male, right? Size and strength aren't the same thing. Men are much stronger than women, and if a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:27 AM
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Wow, lots of red flags in one post. I'll try to answer, but I doubt you'll actually listen. This basically comes down to whether or not they think you're good enough for their friend. If they don't want to introduce you, the answer is obvious. Just because you're their friend, doesn't mean they consider you to be an good romantic partner. Especially if they value said female friendship. You do realise that women are physically weaker than men right? I would be more than happy to call for help if…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:31 AM
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Every woman is different. Trying to generalise won't give you any insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:05 PM
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If you're the type who can easily attract girls, then maybe low to moderate chance. If you’re not, then basically none. You’ve already admitted you have zero relationship experience, so that’s a huge factor. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:15 AM
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As always, the answer is money
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:05 AM
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Because men are alot shallower than women when it comes to looks. What other reason would you have in order to try to hit on a complete stranger in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:50 PM
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I think many people have a more romanticised view on relationships than is healthy. When you make the mistake of prioritizing looks over character, this is what happens. It's not a gender specific thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:43 AM
2

Very well said!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:37 AM
5

Then why do they marry deadbeat men with no jobs? Why do they have children they can't afford to raise? These seem like choices to me. Bad ones in fact. There are many reasons why a woman becomes a single mother, yet you purposefully chose to look at only certain cases of irresponsibility to apply to the whole group. Most women don't intentionally have children with inadequate partners, and being a single mother is often a last resort, not just something you decide on a whim You can start a char…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:10 PM
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Get over yourself. Most women don't become single mothers by choice. There is no need to make their lives and their children's lives worse by purposely denying them help. Your seemingly bitterness and resentment towards these women is illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:23 AM
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From your responses, you seem to be more mad about these single moms not reproducing with you. There are many more areas to complain about when talking about where your tax dollars go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:07 AM
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Are you mad that a single mother has more dating options than you do? Else, I can't think of a reason why you would feel a need to make a long post about women you are not interested in dating anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:33 PM
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