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| 2 | Two ways Tinder/online can mess with your game | Greencat36 | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 05:45 PM |
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| 1 | How to hookup with my flat mate?As the previous comments have said, hang out and get drunk together. You may already be friend zoned though as the 2-month period I’m assuming has been platonic. Depends how the vibe has been I guess. | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Do men normally hit their peak later than women?I’m 37 now and do way better with women - average age 21 - 30 - than I did when I was younger. Last year I hooked up with the hottest women I’ve hooked up with in my entire life. A big part is looking after yourself - so I look about 30 - and having the grounding and confidence that comes with maturity (if you’re doing it right, I.e. working on your social skills, career etc). | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Two ways Tinder/online can mess with your gameThe thing is, I was getting extremely poor reactions until I learned game. I still get 'the look' if my vibe is off. Looking good can certainly make it a less bumpy landing, but again, I looked the same as I do now when my game really sucked and I wasn't getting anywhere with girls back in my early 20s. Sets have a high likelihood of hooking when my eye contact and tonality are good and when my vibe is positive yet dominant. Eg. I'll tease a girl with breaking rapport tonality with a smile on my… | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 07:06 PM |
| – | Why do girl lose interest (apparently) after being super interested in the beginningThere's a fucking myriad of reasons why this can happen. Important to remember that girls don't attach as much value to these things as we do until after sex. This is why it's important to facilitate the hook up as soon as possible. Until then she can flip at any point. Can still happen after of course, but it's much less likely. P.S. This literally happened to me today. Went out with a girl last week. Date went great. Met up for a quick coffee before I flew to Miami for a week - wanted to keep … | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 01:08 AM |
| 2 | SCOTT JACK from magnetic interaction IS A LIAREven his youtube adverts are shit. There's a really annoying one where he opens a girl and then turns to her buddy and is like "hello friend" in a really obnoxious way which in itself is terrible game (be nice to the friend and tease the target). | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Why am I too fucking scared?!I started off when I was 23 by doing 5 ‘pre-approaches’ a day. By that I mean making short comments to girls offering value. So I might compliment a girl on what she’s wearing, compliments someone’s style, tattoo, the book they’re reading etc. It’s not good game per se, but it gets you started with interacting with strangers. It’ll also make you feel good about yourself if you approach it offering value and not expecting something in return. Just start from the premise that you want to make othe… | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you prevent them from losing interest when there's a long wait before a date?This is hard and always will be. Instagram helps. Video messages are good because it's much closer to real life game than text: you can show your personality a bit more. Also, try to send value-giving text rather than basic ones asking questions such as "how was your day". | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Get depressed seeing men with women way way out of there league.This should inspire you. Be thankful you're not one of the 'looks are everything' dudes who can't see this stuff. | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 01:10 PM |
| – | Why am I too fucking scared?!Set very small goals to begin with and go from there. | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Pros and cons of wording your invite for a date "Let's meet up later to get some food or drink. What's your schedule like?" It sounds very platonic and could be mistaken for such. But saying "I'd like to take you out on a date" puts more pressure on her. Your experiences using similar wordings?The game is played in person, not over text, so it shouldn't really matter as long as you get her out. As you get better you'll learn how to make conversations flirty and sexual very quickly anyway, so even if there's a platonic vibe for the invite once she's out you can dial it up. That said, sometimes I'll do the platonic invite then, once she's agreed to it, I'll text "Wear something cute so we match". I got that from Jeffy I think (RSD), but it adds a little man-to-woman without putting too … | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 10:06 AM |
| 1 | To those of you who went from having zero game to straight up ballers, how’d you do it?I was effectively an incel at 23. Had one girlfriend at 16, broke up at 17 then no more girls for 6 and a half years. Last year I worked for Real Social Dynamics at a coach (aged 36) in Europe and the US and hooked up with a lot of girls, including strippers, models etc. Consistency is the main thing when you start. Consistency and field reports. Also analysing what your weak spots are and not coasting on the areas where you are strong. The big change for me was when I started to internalise pos… | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I want to make the switch from dating apps to irl interactionsGot you. In Vegas a lot was in clubs: both GA and table game. In Europe more of a mixture: so more daygame in the summer/bars and then clubs in the winter. I do more night game than daygame. | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 01:37 PM |
| 1 | I want to make the switch from dating apps to irl interactionsSpent 6 months last year in a very rural area where I didn't game at all. Work stuff. So the 26 girls were essentially in six months - in the UK, Europe and Vegas. | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 01:34 PM |
| 1 | I want to make the switch from dating apps to irl interactionsJust moved back to London. Was in Vegas before working for RSD (yes actually) lol. Hbu? | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 01:30 PM |
| 1 | I want to make the switch from dating apps to irl interactionsJust to add: last year (2019) I f-closed 26 girls. About 7 were from dating apps and the rest I met irl. Only one of the tinder girls was an 8 (the rest were 6s and 7s pretty much) while a majority of girls I f-closed in real life were 8s (there were a few 9s in there too). There's really no comparison imo in terms of quality. | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 01:01 PM |
| 1 | I want to make the switch from dating apps to irl interactionsDating apps are a great way for girls who are 5s, 6s and 7s to hook up with guys 8+. If as a guy you even have average game irl though you should be going out to meet women instead, because they will be hotter. I'm so tired of meeting average girls from dating apps who turned out to be using pictures from years before when they were hotter etc. One of the reasons it's harder for guys too - and I'm a guys who's probably 8.5-9 in looks - is because dick is abundant and low value on these apps. Gir… | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Direct v/s indirect game?I find it hard to do anything other than direct in the day, unless I have natural proximity (she's serving me in a store or something and we naturally just get chatting). Nightgame is usually indirect. Direct doesn't really work on the hottest girls imo. With them disqualification is a better strategy. | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with flakey hot girls"It's not uncommon for me to have to invite a hot girl out 5 or more times before she agrees to the first date. 10's just have SO many fucking options, and I'm not Channing Tatum, so I have to be persistent and charming. And it pays off fairly frequently." 100% this. My pride is always like "yeh fuck her, ignore", but actually getting laid means acting totally nonchalant, doing cool stuff (and letting her see that on social media such as Instagram) and trying to get her out again at a later date… | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 12:20 PM |
| 1 | What is the one thing you learned from PUA's that got you the most "bang" for your buck.What you feel they feel. Sounds very woo-woo but once you have your 'vibe' down game becomes a whole lot easier. | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Master the basics of Frame Control | Women by Todd Valentine Exercise |"Even getting a confident frame is technical, you selectively interpret reference experiences" Exactly. It's super-important to get the technical side down initially too because then you will start getting more positive reference experiences, which feeds into core confidence. It's ultimately those reference experiences that will bring about identity-level change where you control the frame naturally. But you have to start somewhere. And when you don't have those positive reference experiences, y… | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 11:40 AM |
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