Greenglitteringshore Archive

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1	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband I misunderstood the study. That was not intentional on my part. I understan that it was his opinion, but it was based on his own observations directly from that population of people. No, you can't tell what books I've read or not read. I know very few feminist authors actually. Don't put that on me because that's just your assumption But we're not talking about ideas. We're talking about lived experience. We're talking about reality. I do challenge biases. But if I say, that I've been sexually a…	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 06:37 AM
1	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband Okay thank you for clarifying. I think I may have missed your original point(s) and I'm sorry about that. I agree with you on everything you've said here actually. What I've noticed is that men aren't taken seriously when they do come out about this stuff. Like its a joke. Often what I hear more of, is men cheering the victim on because he "scored" (in reality, he was abused) and then society sort of falls in line to invalidate it. On this particular topic, I've spoken to more women who take it …	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 06:16 AM
1	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband k	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 06:01 AM
0	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband Seek therapy	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 05:46 AM
1	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband We're not talking about all violence was my understanding though. I'm speaking to male violence against women. Sexual abuse/assault is included in that as I am concerned. As for men being shot by police, it's much more likely for black men or men of color to be shot by police then white men	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 04:57 AM
0	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband I did and something stood out to me: ""Men will not ask for assistance because they feel shame being beaten or dominated. It's complex."" - If this is true globally, it suggests that men feel ashamed for being "dominated" by a woman. Well, abuse isn't exactly dominance. It's just abuse. And if men feel ashamed for being dominated by a woman....doesn't that make you take pause? Why is it always about men needing to be dominant over women instead? So much that it makes him feel shame for being abu…	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 04:37 AM
1	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband To some extent I agree with you. However, just because society is catching up and changing does not mean that all women are automatically believed and their abuser held accountable. We hear about certain cases in the media or over social media, but that doesn't make up all victims. There are still many instances where women aren't believed or taken seriously. That's very much a part of the whole package of oppression against women..and really anyone who faces oppression disproportionately. Gasli…	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 04:22 AM
-1	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband "Some may have been"s ass. Landowning aristocracy only could vote. There were still people who couldn't vote after women "fought for their right" to vote. It depends on what point in history you're referring to. "Yet here you are bitching at me and yelling me how culturally intrinsically evil my penis is instead of preaching at those people." "Bitch" is a gendered insult often used against women or anyone who is considered femine..for example, men who are considered more effeminate. "Bitching" i…	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 04:07 AM
1	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband Not the result of, but rather trying to highlight a point that it's different for women. It's tied to an entire history of their abuse by men. That's not the same for men. We can argue this in the same circle for the next 15 years and not get anywhere. I do want to say that after reading more posts in this group I've determined that is largely a positive thing for men to be able to talk about double standards, and empower eachother against socially accepted abuse by women. But there is also a he…	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 03:52 AM
-1	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband Less likely dosen't mean it isn't happening to men. But yes, women are disproportionately effected by domestic violence by men.	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 03:36 AM
-1	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband There is an entire history to support my claim that violence against women is normalized and acceptable. If you choose to deny it thats on you. Times are changing, yes, because women have changed those times by speaking out against these things and standing up for themselves even if it killed them	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 03:15 AM
1	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband Finding a hard time wording that last part. Oppression is oppression plain and simple. But it's simply not the same for men as it is for women in terms of what's socially acceptable and historical contexts. But you know.. I'm certain that very little of what I say here will be considered seriously. The whole premise of this subreddit is like one big "no, you!". If men in this group cannot accept that when feminists (or even just women who don't nesecarily idenitfy as such) speak out about oppres…	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 02:56 AM
-2	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband No, I didn't miss it. I read what you wrote and I can understand if my response seems to suggest I didn't understand it. "Because men are 9 times less likely to talk about it. We applaud and congratulate women who come out, even over very minor things like an awkward kiss that feminists will call rape. But then we attack and disbelieve men when they come out. So they keep quiet." I understand that men are considered less likely to open up about abuse by women (or other men, if they aren't straig…	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 02:41 AM
-5	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband It may be that it is less acceptable in terms of women not putting up with it and society slowly changing in response, but that dosen't mean it isn't happening altogether. That dosen't mean it isn't still a crisis for women and a reality for them. Just like racism, there are still many racists (we just watched a largely white supremacist group storm the capitol, we learned from the FBI that white nationalism and supremacy are huge threats) But there are also less white racists than there were le…	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 01:07 AM
-1	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband iterally they engage in rape apologetics over the rate of sexual assault against men by women. So, when a young teenage boy is sexually assaulted by a woman...he is often considered "cool" by his peers. They cheer it on and commend him for "scoring". A quick example of this would be to open up youtube and look at the comment section on a video of a teen boy who was sexually groomed by his teacher. You'll see that there is an abundance of comments, by men, saying that "Well when I was a teenager …	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 12:58 AM
-10	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband The norm is that violence towards men is acceptable to a large extent. A very large extent. It's never been the other way around and still isn't. I won't disagree that there are ways men get abused in relationships by women and it's considered "okay" because she's a woman. But that's not all women. However, violence against women is normalized across the entire globe, historically speaking and present day. There are more female victims of murder, rape, abuse and torture by men worldwide than the…	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 12:43 AM
3	Germany: Show about domestic violence with omitting male victims I have noticed a generations long trend of men cheering on young teen boys who get sexually abused by their female teachers as "scoring". Can we talk about that? Why is this idea so socially acceptable among men? I feel that it alienates male victims and causes them to keep silent about their abuse.	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 12:29 AM
1	A few things I as a teenager have to say. This is incorrect. People can be oppressed anywhere, and you aren't the sole decision maker on who is oppressed or not..because it isn't about an opinion, it's about behavior. It's about the way people treat one another. Abuse or oppression can happen to anyone, anywhere at any time. It just disproportionately effects others...but that dosen't mean all people can't be oppressed. Male or female. It can happen to anybody. You've taken the idea of disproportionate oppression against women out of co…	/r/MensRights	01/03/21 12:14 AM
2	A few things I as a teenager have to say. All people can be oppressed. From Wikipedia, here is a definiton of the word: "Oppression is malicious or unjust treatment or exercise of power, often under the guise of governmental authority or cultural opprobrium. Oppression may be overt or covert, depending on how it is practiced." But...some groups of people suffer more oppression than others. Disproportionately. Pointing that out does not negate the fact that you can also be oppressed by somebody.	/r/MensRights	28/02/21 11:58 PM
5	hypocrisy I think that there are certain social norms that are toxic and they get passed around from person to person. Growing up, I was always told that clean shaven men are "better looking" or whatever. It's stupid because... men grow beards, and nobody should feel ashamed that they grow facial hair. It's kind of like when men tell women their tits aren't big enough, or that they "look like a man" with short hair. Its corrosive either way. If this incident really bothers you, I suggest speaking up for y…	/r/MensRights	28/02/21 11:52 PM
-9	Being friends with a woman... Abandonment by feminists? That's not a core tenet of feminism to abandon people just to traumatize them. Why did you make this about feminism, when it is actually about abandonment and the trauma associated with a false rape accusation?	/r/MensRights	28/02/21 11:49 PM
-27	Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband Anyone can be abused. Woman or man. But its much less likely for straight men to be abused by their female spouse. Women coming out about their stories, and the over arching social norm that violence against women is still acceptable to some extent, does not erase that men can experience the same abuse that women go through.	/r/MensRights	28/02/21 11:46 PM