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1	How To Potentially Stop Arguments & Use Them To Strengthen Relationships Thank you :). Sorry I'm on my phone and new to Reddit so I don't know how to quote another person's response yet, but you've brought up some very valid points and great food for thought. Maybe previous fights or disconnect from other people in his past caused him to react similarly when he feels threatened or just disagreed with. And he doesn't want to be perceived that we are different but bridging the gap between us seems insurmountable, so instead of accepting the situation as is, he gets ang…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/16 02:21 PM
1	How To Potentially Stop Arguments & Use Them To Strengthen Relationships I suppose you have a point. It's hard to look vulnerable when he looks angry instead. Still, it's hard for me to comprehend that he's angry because he's afraid. To me they're diametrical emotions and one does not always lead to the other, although sometimes it can manifest as such and you can see some association. I think anger can be on its own as a standalone state of being, without any input from other feelings, maybe due to some injustice sensed or his need to be seen as right. It seems to m…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/16 01:17 PM
4	How To Potentially Stop Arguments & Use Them To Strengthen Relationships Also, one time we got into a fight again because I felt he was being disrespectful and not supportive due to an issue that occurred. I told him very plainly why I felt upset, but he didn't want to change because he didn't think it was a problem. So we were at an impasse. In times like that, I usually withdraw because part of me felt hurt and part of me was afraid that this was going to come up again in the future. But I bore through it and spoke up first. I told him that I didn't want to fight b…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/16 11:43 AM
7	How To Potentially Stop Arguments & Use Them To Strengthen Relationships My bf has a very bad temper. I used to often get into big verbal spars with him and it drove me up a wall. One day, after a very dramatic fight (and threats of breakup), we had a cooling period. In that time, I wrote up a long checklist of issues that I felt we needed to work on and instances of what happened (examples to reinforce my point.) One of the things I told him in bullet points, was how we can keep his temper in check. Because his flare-ups push me to be more angry and then combined, w…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/16 11:32 AM
2	What's your opinion on pet names? Me and my bf are pretty liberal with the use of "hun, baby, bb, butt, love and occasionally darling and sweetheart." If we're feeling grumpy about each other, we call each other dumbbutt (cuter form of dumbass) and jerkface. Sometimes I call him Jer(k)cules. We have pretty much stopped referring to each other by names unless we're in the company of others. I used to be against the sappy puppy titles as I find them really patronizing and removes the individual identity from the relationship. But …	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/16 09:59 PM

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