| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 34 | I feel some type of way | LTR/MARRIAGE | Greenveins | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/19 10:16 PM |
| 20 | Am I wrong for having to be assertive at my job? | ADVICE | Greenveins | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/20 01:13 PM |
| 8 | Are birthdays not supposed to be a big deal? Do I need to grow up? | LTR/MARRIAGE | Greenveins | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/20 03:08 AM |
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| -1 | What do you bring to the table?What do men bring to a marriage? He spent the majority of his years being a bachelor because mommy took care of him and the first woman who offered to cut a steak for him he married but stupidly didn’t court long enough to find out she had princess syndrome and after the hearty divorce he’s now scorned and emotionally unavailable. she’s losing her youth and age well he needs a pill to get his dick hard and starts to bald by 30. It’s not like there’s not dildos to replace that flaccid dick or you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 05:49 AM |
| 10 | Am I wrong for having to be assertive at my job?Thank you. He had to come BACK to my office to pick up the rest of his empty-weight tickets and he stood there like 🧍🏿as I was finishing up. He didn’t say not a word even as I told him thanks, have a good day... had to laugh a little, mans was not having none of it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/20 02:02 PM |
| 3 | How to be "fun" when you're together 24/7we don't have children so when he wanted to convert the spare bedroom into a gaming room/his own personal chill spot I was more than happy to help. A lot of it is finding time to pass the time on your own time. Sure we play board games, and watch a lot of tv but theres a lot of times where we are in the same room and just say nothing. Oddly enough it forms a unspoken bond that will allow you both to have a good time without the anxiety of always having to do something. that being said i hope he … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/20 03:00 AM |
| 2 | BurnoutAs others have suggested large batches of things that can be carried over into the next day might help! Soups/ crock pot ideas/ baked casseroles all take a few minutes of your day but it’s nice when you can leave it to sit and not worry about extra prep. Make something in the croc pot today and then take the time to sit and reflect/medicate or however you destress. Good luck OP! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/20 02:34 PM |
| 20 | BurnoutThe beauty of having kids is making them do the small chores you hate doing yourself ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/20 02:31 PM |
| 2 | I hate my own cookingSeasoning, and cook with passion. You can taste the sad in a meal when you’re cooking and not in the right frame of mind. Also, TAKE YOUR TIME! cook one thing at a Time until you’re alright with multi tasking. Third, find cheap recipes that will last you a couple of days. That way if it’s a flop at least it was cheap and you have it to eat on for the following day | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 06:14 AM |
| 5 | Avoiding online shopping while working at home and spending more time on my phoneI catch myself window shopping a LOT. I think I have cart items in both wish, amazon, AND Etsy 😅 my thing is to keep my monthly spending the same and as long as I don’t go through with the purchase, I can still budget when payday comes and little by little with patience I’ll accumulate all of the things I want. I just find it better to still buy things that make me feel good but instead of maxing out a credit card I just budget a little more and work towards it | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/20 04:29 PM |
| 28 | What are some unwritten rules you follow in your home for the sake of your SO?Idk, unless I’m so turned off from a argument I don’t refuse my partner. I don’t see a reason to flat out say no when there’s not one to present, is sort of my feelings on it. there’s a grey area where sex means passion, love, intimacy, touch, it’s their love language. It’s more than gettin off to some people, and if I had a need I wanted met I would hope my partner would try and accommodate to the best of their ability That being said, if i seriously am not in the mood then I don’t just lay the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Movies were the nerdy, dorky, "nice" guy gets the hot girl are almost always made by men for men, yet TRP still blames women for "misleading" themNo, I’m talking about poor me pity party bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/20 06:39 AM |
| 6 | Movies were the nerdy, dorky, "nice" guy gets the hot girl are almost always made by men for men, yet TRP still blames women for "misleading" themA lot of it is confidence, like yeah Seth rogan is funny but if he was self sabotaging and constantly made jokes about how he was never good enough then it’s an absolute turn off. I think his mindset is more similar to a male who has good looks and a fit bod and that’s why people like him are more likely to be with an attractive partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 03:08 PM |
| 2 | How are you keeping yourself occupied during quarantine?Cleaning, playing runescape on my laptop or work on a craft, I like doing puzzles or smoking a little herb and watch some Netflix. I’ve become a hermit over the years lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/20 12:29 AM |
| 3 | How to handle female friend who has been really irritating me the last couple of months?Tell her she needs to start paying 10$ a week to use your wash and if she doesn’t comply then bye bye | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/20 11:14 PM |
| 4 | How to handle female friend who has been really irritating me the last couple of months?I’m a bit of a ghost. Once I had it up to here with someone I start to distance myself and start creating excuses not to hang. Work, car, family, etc. and honestly, if you don’t feel like opening the door then you don’t have to. You don’t owe her much of a explanation other that “I don’t feel like hanging” today. She’s not going to stop with the comments | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/20 05:25 PM |
| 27 | What is being submissive to you? I’m loving to read the threads here but it’s all so philosophical! What is a practical everyday example of submission? Thank you!Knowing when to just go with what he says. I'm opinionated, but when he has reasons for something I don't argue. Not saying I bend over on everything but I respect him enough to know when to let it go | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/20 07:37 AM |
| 4 | When Is the Best Time to Tell Him?try dating older, traditional men too. it seems like with young men these days being a man who takes care of their family is a dying breed. i was 18 and found that most men around my age didnt want to settle down (cant blame them) and their main focus was to date around whereas i wanted something more serious. so i started expanding my horizons and although its not much of an age gap i did meet someone who was mid-to late- twenties who was looking to open the next chapter in their life and want … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/20 11:34 PM |
| 0 | If it’s in her benefit, it’s qualities of a “real” man.I pop in every now and again but mostly lurk bc this subredit is supposed to be a spot for men amd I really shouldn't be here being a woman... I feel like feminists have ruined relationships for a lot of men here and there's a lot of red pill women such as myself who believe in more traditional values and believe men should be respected and we are here to support them- not ruin their lives. As for the negative comments, well, they're all entitled to them. | /r/MGTOW | 29/01/20 03:32 PM |
| 12 | If it’s in her benefit, it’s qualities of a “real” man.Women shouldnt label what a real man should be when we get to say men have no right telling us anything about our body, period. Every time I hear a female talk about wanting a guy with basically everything they don't have ex: a house, job, car, I just think of a leech. Why can't people just be with someone because they make them feel good and not because they have material things? It's fkn stupid. I never push the subject of marriage or upgrading the house or car to my long time partner and he h… | /r/MGTOW | 28/01/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Are birthdays not supposed to be a big deal? Do I need to grow up?My family is... a lot... if you get what I mean | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/20 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Are birthdays not supposed to be a big deal? Do I need to grow up?I ended up buying a better vacuum, he gave me the money for one after telling him my issue! It really cut my time down to merely minutes now and I just made sure to do one hour of housework a day. He changed jobs so he even helps with dishes. he was using the Hoover when I came Home today | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/20 05:08 AM |
| -2 | Are birthdays not supposed to be a big deal? Do I need to grow up?We're only in our 20's, hon. there's no need to rush | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Are birthdays not supposed to be a big deal? Do I need to grow up?How is a wedding anniversary any different than a unmarried anniversary? we will be doing the same thing we are now just with wedding bands on so I don't see him really changing his mind on anniversarys just because it's a wedding one... this will be a conversation I'll have to have with him | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Are birthdays not supposed to be a big deal? Do I need to grow up?Sometimes he goes with me to deal with family on holidays | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/20 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Are birthdays not supposed to be a big deal? Do I need to grow up?I wouldn't say brush them off but I know he's a super introvert so it's draining for him to go out with me every single time a holiday comes so there's maybe a couple times he obliges me... it's just I literally never know which time he's gonna come, but I'll take your advice and instead do something for me like book a spa treatment and really just treat myself | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Are birthdays not supposed to be a big deal? Do I need to grow up?He grew up religious but had an absent dad who would make empty promises. He told me how his mom would wrap presents up and say they were from his dad, and my dad did the same for me with my mom but I coped with it in a different way than he did... he just doesn't give a damn about anything because of it. To him it's just another day- and his mom is the same way! It's just hard sometimes 😩 I moved away from my friends so the only way I can get fulfillment on these days is if I drive 2 hours to s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Are birthdays not supposed to be a big deal? Do I need to grow up?Thank you for this, my bf has had a very rough childhood and that probably Made him feel the way he does about it all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/20 03:43 PM |
| 9 | Am I really being abused?sleep on the couch if you can't make yourself useful in the bed Repeat that over to yourself. Does that sound healthy? He's degrading you because you told him "no.", and even if he doesn't understand how much energy it takes you to keep up with the house and appearance it still doesn't mean your worth is just that of a sex doll. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/20 02:41 AM |
| 7 | What's your easy, go-to dinner?Very similar to My version is Taco soup. Kidney beans, black beans, chili beans. Pinto beans, can of corn, rotel, and a packet of taco seasoning. I add meat to mine but it's vegan friendly | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/19 06:57 AM |
| 6 | Being a feminist:most likely. mom peaced out to go chase the magic dragon so i grew up without that "motherly" love, so as a...woman... i figured if i dont have that natural instinct to swoon over a child then theres really no point raising one. husband doesnt like kids and jokes around that if we had one id end up forking out double the money to buy games and other electronics since he doesnt share so im perfectly fine not having brats and we can go spend our disposable income on something we actually enjoy. | /r/MGTOW | 22/12/19 07:26 PM |
| 8 | Being a feminist:My husband purchased a blow dart set with a very large tribal mask when he was absolutely fucked and now it's centered beautifully above the fire place because fuck kids and fuck not being able to display drunk purchases and fuck being with someone who's just going to bitch over every single purchase. Idk how I got here but I'll see my way out | /r/MGTOW | 22/12/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | What do you get for someone who doesn’t want anything?Does he have any other interests? Does he like any popular tv show that would have merch? Does he game? Enjoy the outside? My husband is the same way but I bought him something for his PlayStation and a new pair of joggers and his eye lit up when he seen it. "I know I said I didn't want anything but I'm so glad you got this" i wanted to scream TOLD YA SO!!! But I hugged him and instead said I was glad he liked the gifts | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/19 06:59 PM |
| 4 | What are some tips to be a better listener when your man talks?Sometimes when in discussion I want to cut him off and I just remember to tell myself "let him speak." And after he finishes I'll wait a moment, by the time he finishes what he was saying I usually don't make the comment I was going to say earlier usually because it was covered by him or I realized my comment would have been the wrong thing to say. When he speaks about something he really likes, look him in the eyes and not at your phone or tv. If he talks about a show you know nothing about, it… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I hate this regret so much:) glad to hear. im sure whatever you do he will LOVE it! good luck and i hope everything works out <3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/19 02:55 PM |
| 6 | Why have a hairstyle your husband hates?really want bangs, bf hates a fringe on me despite buying hair pierces to show the appearance i have a fringe. he cant get with it so i dont push the matter, simple. i hate hearing women talk about doing tings to spite their husband, i remind them he could do the same thing just as easily but they dont want to hear it | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/19 10:51 PM |
| 2 | I hate this regret so muchDoesn't matter what happened in the past, it's never going to come back. You should be focusing this energy in things you can do to make his, and your life better. Being a virgin means nothing, it's all about how you treat someone in a relationship | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 10:53 PM |
| 3 | The Coming Burst of the SJW BubbleJust Like the new ghostbusters. Haven't seen it, don't wanna see it, idc how much I like Melissa McCarthy. It will never be as good as the original | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/19 11:56 PM |
| 4 | Boyfriend cancelled date to play videogamesDoes he prefer to be completely by himself when gaming? Everyone deserves to have their own space, but it's also nice just to be near your partner under the same roof, even if both parties are preoccupied with something. Is it possible for you to Bring over a pizza or cook something yummy and you two have a quick bite to eat together? I do this quite often and will lounge on the couch with my laptop while he plays on the PS4. Works out amazing because we both have headsets on and aren't Botherin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 06:07 PM |
| 10 | How does one unlearn years of feminist conditioning??I feel like you can be both in a relationship. I believe any gender should learn to do all things; cook, change a tire, clean, work, & be able to do stuff around the house. For instance, my bf works hard all day meanwhile I have a very vanilla job. Should I expect him to mow the yard because its been normalized that men do that job? No. I'm going to do it because it's important I know how to start one up & take care of those things so it's one less thing he has to worry about. I learned it's ok … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/19 11:22 PM |
| 22 | How does one unlearn years of feminist conditioning??You can do both (: it's important to be independent and strong when you're on your own, just remember to love and respect your partner and the attitude will be returned! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you’re young and ugly?Learn to cook and every man will fall before you lol. I'm a bit opposite. boys ignored me because I was always 20 pounds overweight so I had to do other things like being feminine but with my own style, be myself and not afraid to hide the things I like & being independent. Saving 30$ out of your check and going clothes shopping every month does wonders. Even if it's a pair of shoes or a single pair of pants, it gives you such a nice boost of self esteem seeing something new one cute. Learn to d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a man whose ego can't deal with you knowing better than he doesI dated a guy who had a seriously high IQ, but he was also a high functioning autistic person so his social ques lacked. I reminded him that just because he's book smart, doesn't mean he knows everything. And I often let him stick his foot in his mouth and having to face situations head on, rather than me doing the clean up. It humbled him a bit, but I also made progress by basically coercing him into thinking something was his idea when it was mine. "You don't think it would work this way, do y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/19 06:48 PM |
| 5 | How do you deal with RBF(Resting Bitch Face)? 19FPersonality, personality, personality. I avoid people's gaze a lot and Its something ive been working on for sure. if someone is talking to you, you can start by looking at them for a few seconds, nod, chime in on the convo, then if it becomes too much look somewhere else while you recharge. Repeat. As a 5'5 180 lb female, I feel you on a spiritual level when it comes to dealing with body issues. But I promise you, you can show your worth in so many different aspects other than having a nice bod… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/19 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Taking the Effort to Dress More Feminine WORKS!im the same way, but i notice that when you're wearing clothes that you actually like and feel comfortable in you start looking at yourself differently. being forced to wear an xxl tshirt you dont like feels way different than finding a xxl shirt that looks cute and compliments your frame. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/19 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Taking the Effort to Dress More Feminine WORKS!ever since my long time bf landed a job that allowed us to start spending money on clothes, its been a total game changer! i look cute, im able to afford clothes that make me feel feminine, i dress a lot nicer. it makes me feel so damn good about myself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/19 12:05 AM |
| 7 | Why is it hard for some women to be feminine ? Shouldn't it come naturally ?I feel like some girls think that being femine means weakness. I was raised by my dad and I had to learn to be feminine as I got older and it was easy for me to learn behaviors, although it was sometimes a struggle. I was afraid that acting in a certain role meant that I was a lesser and that's far from the case. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/19 01:31 PM |
| 1 | What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory?I'm glad I have a spouse that wants me to better my education. Right now I'm stuck working a minimum wage job and forced to work cruddy hours that never allows us to see each other. There's a place offering CNA classes by our house and once I get certified I'll be able to not only make more, but will be able to find a job that allows me home by 7pm and off weekends. hell, for once I'll be able to have health insurance. Win win for both of us! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/19 09:01 AM |
| 1 | I feel some type of wayhe expects for it to be really clean when he gets home 2x a week | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/19 09:57 AM |
| 1 | I feel some type of wayi tidy up a bit when im home after work a bit, but the deep cleaning usually happens 2x a week when im home by myself just to get things ready for my work week which starts on a Saturday and ends on a Tuesday. 10 hour shifts usually makes me mentally checked out so ill come home and pick up a bit when im cooking. im definitely going to order a new one next Tuesday when i get my check, ive been peeping out amazon and found one i really like | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/19 11:37 AM |
| 1 | I feel some type of wayI like the idea of kids because he's so freaking good with them and he would be an amazing dad, I would just love to work some things out beforehand | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/19 10:16 AM |
| 1 | I feel some type of wayHe's been at this for about 3 weeks and I can tell he's coming out of his funk. It was a situation where he would stay in a single room all day and play video games, the house wasn't trashed but dishes would sit in a sink or the laundry would pile up and it was left for me to do. I guess he dug a hole and was trying to breath after it got so deep. Just sort of gave up. But now that he's making money he's so happy and doesn't want to focus his attention on gaming and instead wants to sit by me an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/19 08:53 AM |
| 3 | I feel some type of wayI feel a lot better after writing out that post and reading some of the comments. And you're right, I didn't have to stay. I love him and I believe when someone get down you don't pack up and leave. Maybe I should see counseling for myself to work through some of the resentment and learn to let go. When you said "fuck it someone has to do it" that's so totally true. And I feel it helps me knowing I'm the one doing it. No one wants to live in filth and having a clean space gives me a clear head | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/19 08:40 AM |
| 3 | I feel some type of wayMaybe I'll suggest counseling. It seems like when I bring it up he downplays it because my job is lesser. I feel like I get gaslit because he makes a point to make me feel like I'm nagging for no reason What I want is for him to respect a clean living space and not trash it just because he knows I'll clean it up the next day | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/19 08:36 AM |
| 3 | I feel some type of wayThank you. I'm horrible at bringing up things at a bad time, should I wait until a day when he's off work rather than flank him when he just gets off work? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/19 08:30 AM |
| 1 | I feel some type of wayweed is still illegal in my state so I'm currently getting clean so I can work part time at a local nursing home but it pays more. His job provides a lot of benefits and it pays weekly so he's very happy with it but just tired when he comes home :/ we do eat dinner together and cuddle and he shows me attention so I'm not sure if my feelings are justified when I get a little aggravated picking up dirty clothes that leaves a mess behind | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/19 08:29 AM |
| 4 | I have to submit or I lose my familyMy worry is that if she was submissive before the baby, she may have some sort of resentment now that she has to take on the motherly dependent role. She may be suffering from PPD which most women do go through after birth and it's something that's not going to fix itself | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/19 03:19 PM |
| 2 | I have to submit or I lose my familyIt's a child, babies are going to wine no matter what. You two are both new parents and you're probably dealing with PPD!! If I were a man who wanted a submissive woman I wouldn't go and find an overachiever I would have went for a woman who's already in a situation where's she's independent but ok with being a stay at home mom. It would have been something I would have brought up way before marrying her and way before bringing a child into the world. If I were a man I could not expect a woman t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/19 03:17 PM |
| 21 | I have to submit or I lose my familySeems like all give and no take. Nothing wrong with respecting the man your husband is, but why does he get to make demands and force you to submit when you've been the dominate one all of your life? That being said; If he suggests something, do it and don't make a negative comment or voice your opinion if it's the opposite of his. Tell yourself that if he makes a suggestion that's reasonable, it's not worth fighting over and comply. Tell yourself this every day if you have to: "he's only making… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/19 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Me and my SO broke upi have a ton of cuttings i can give you, i have a "lucky" jade tree and a Gollum jade- also known as ogre ears, that i can always send off! the jade is perfect for those who like bonsai and even if you remove some leaf's they can sprout and give you pups | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/19 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Me and my SO broke upit was baad. i didnt know cactus's bloomed and this one had a "halo" of perfectly symmetrical flowers all the way around its prickly head! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/19 12:49 PM |
| 7 | Me and my SO broke upThis sounds stupid by get into succulents or other indoor plants. I was MASSIVELY depressed to the point I shut myself in my room and play video games all day. One day I picked up a cactus, and he was ugly and blue but so was me. Later on I watched him grow and thrive and eventually bloomed for me and I cried an ugly cry but goddammit I felt so good for successfully giving this plant some love. And that little boost of self confidence allowed me to go out and get more plants and I may be a crazy… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/19 04:03 AM |
| 6 | Share your online dating success story!i was on a few sites and both dates i went on were ok, only one guy sort of lied about his appearance but over all a decent person. but i put my focus on "meet me" & this guy with a goofy profile pic messages me, and idk. something about him just made me smile. When i say goofy, im talking about the type of unflattering meme face with a droopy eyelid sort of picture that you would send to your best friend. i guess it was that sort of confidence. we talked for a month, he finally got the courage … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/19 08:04 PM |
| 4 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.This so much. I'm the type of person to go out of their way to do at least 90% of the things listed, but Ive watched my boyfriends mothers' relationship go down the tube in the past 7 years and it's all bubbling over. Every single thing you have listed has been a complaint by my boyfriends stepdad. He bought a brand new house and put it on a ton of acres. She hates the drive and hates the location so She quit her job to be a "SAHM" (I guess mom would be replaced with wife). Then she whined about… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Meal for two ideas/ meal planning advice?Crock pot for sure a must have. Frying oil, either a deep fryer or something fry shit on, Spatula, kitchen knife, can opener, pizza cutter. For me, I keep the following seasonings: garlic powder, onion powder, season-all salt, a bulb or garlic And ofc pepper. Some dinner ideas for 2 is spaghetti, salad, garlic bread. Tacos, home made pizza, lasagna, hamburgers. DONT BE AFRAID OF ALLRECIPES.COM so many delicious casseroles came from that website. Crock pot recipes: chili, (including every other t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 04:57 AM |
| 6 | We hit 20,000 members. Lurkers and Newbies come out and say hi!hi. preferred lurker and long time plant hoarder. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/17 02:15 AM |
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