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| 4 | Why do girls want to do only foreplay but not have sex?I've also said no after foreplay. Generally wasn't vibing or wanted them to work harder. It can be really different for women. Here's rough stats from when I was newly single. 230 guys that hit on me 100+ got an immediate rejection <40 lasted more than a few days of chatting About a dozen I spoke with on the phone (all wanted to do drinks/coffee/hookup) Did drinks with 6 Got naked for 3 Slept with 2 (each lasted several months.) | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 06:39 AM |
| 5 | Why do girls want to do only foreplay but not have sex?Having a clean and inviting home Going at her pace, playing the long game and not expecting anything. She should be able to say "stop" or "no". When you stop you can clarify "do you need me to slow down, do you need to take a break or are we finished and onto cuddles?" Then following up with questions like "are you okay? Did I go too deep?" With consent following up with "are you sure?" "I think you're incredibly attractive, but I only want to do what you're comfortable with" Checking in with he… | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 06:11 AM |
| 0 | Why do girls want to do only foreplay but not have sex?Wait, you're having a girl suck your dick on the first night and you're complaining? 🫠🫠🫠 | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 12:24 AM |
| 15 | Why do girls want to do only foreplay but not have sex?The only reason I hooked up with him was because I felt comfortable. I knew he was happy just eating me out, that I could have said "thank you" and headed home whilst he was still fully clothed and I would be invited back. The lack of pressure and making it feel safe was what changed things for me. Most girls will take longer or may never feel that level of safety. Seduction these days is more about making women feel safe being desired than making yourself desirable. As a feminist, I fully suppo… | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Married in a rutI found libido fairy on Instagram to be a great resource for sex within a relationship. Generally it's about making intentional time, working on the lead up, not requiring sex but increasing intimacy. Taco Tuesday where you give her a backrub and get her off purely for her is a great initiative. Closely followed by blowjob and beer Wednesdays (if you do a great job Tuesday, you get a better blowjob). Regular date nights, reducing her mental and emotional load and bringing back touch that doesn't… | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 02:05 PM |
| 84 | Why do girls want to do only foreplay but not have sex?Some friends are no sex on the first date/first time. But if you give good head they'll come back. You can be super mid, but with a great head game, no pressure and relaxed attitude women wanting to stay single will keep coming back. It'd just be a numbers game then to get regular options. An ex hookup once got me with "we won't fuck, I just want to eat you out". We'd hooked up a few months prior and I was a month into (what was meant to be) 3mths no sex. After over an hour of him fully clothed … | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 09:36 AM |
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