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Yeah that one had me scratching my head too. Tinmen is a gift
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 11:34 AM
5

You give hope to a bleak society by rebelling with your compassion
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/25 01:52 PM
3

I can regularly be found in left leaning circles but I will never let the conversation turn into a hate speech against anyone including men. If people start using generalizations in language I immediately speak for myself and engage them in a thoughtful exchange challenging those ideas. Mindless hate is easy to beat
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/25 01:21 PM
0

Oh you're a revolutionary? It appears you're a failed revolutionary because you've done nothing. Educate me more please. I need more tips on how to keep doing it wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/25 08:08 AM
3

Turning racists is one of the strongest markers you can get that your message is effective. You wouldn't understand that though would you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/24 06:30 PM
4

You are why we have such a hard time keeping allies. You don't care about improving anything just having a moral high ground is enough.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/24 12:49 PM
2

This is LOST on so many people, bravo
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/24 12:44 PM
1

Thank you. It's important that we stay focused and avoid caving in to hysteria.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 10:51 AM
17

This whole thread. Just really nice to feel seen.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/24 01:42 AM
1

Not even remotely
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/24 09:14 AM
3

If you need advice ask a normal human being that you're close to. Not Reddit. These people are often extremely delusional or just plain ignorant/unexperienced but they hear their bs validated time and again here so they feel like experts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/24 12:16 PM
24

My gf was a feminist. Very open to communication. We started dating and she would send me funny clips where comedians would make fun of the male condition. Often it would be men doing it in a very "men suck and they are trash but not me I am funny" kind of way. She honestly didn't think it was a problem but as we grew our relationship and talked more she became more interested in the data around mens issues. Fast forward to today. She calls herself an egalitarian and has no love for feminism. He…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/24 09:54 AM
6

Then you make friends with people who have your back only to find out they hate women and you are left pissed because WHY CANT WE JUST NOT PICK A GODDAMN SIDE FOR EVERY FUCKING THING
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/24 09:49 AM
3

There it is. That is just sad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/24 12:25 AM
6

No way
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/24 02:35 PM
1

I got a different message from his books
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/24 03:02 PM
5

How do we feel about David Goggins? My personal opinion is that he is a strong role model but to imitate the man would be pretty insane.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/24 01:35 PM
1

They are diseases that impact society as a whole. You have to take into account the festizio.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/24 02:34 AM
1

I don't disagree with you here. I think we can succeed where they tend to fail in how we utilize language. We all know how annoying it is to hear these claims that men are violent or we do the vast majority of the crimes. Sure that statistic is correct but it says nothing about the vast majority of non violent men or men who are victims. All in all I feel like we should focus our language to be more accurate than theirs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/24 12:40 AM
3

I am sure this isn't lost here, but obviously not every woman thinks alike. I like this subreddit because it understands that concept, much like all men are not the same
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/24 08:42 PM
2

While I agreed with the OP you adjusted my perspective so effectively that I now stand firmly with your perspective. It's sound, it's logical and most importantly, it's fair.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/24 01:23 AM
3

I didn't even know that existed! I think if it gets marketed towards men they will jump on it. The only problem of course is cost. Surely this will be more expensive
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/24 09:45 AM
11

I think male therapy should have a focus on activities. Fishing and talking, bag work and chatting between rounds, hiking and communicating, etc. Something that allows us to use our hands/bodies to create or build and the talking will likely come more easily.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/24 01:29 AM
30

I brought that up and the apologetics were wild. Any kind of contortion that needed to be done to make it okay to judge men as super predators was performed happily.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/24 09:47 AM
13

One thing I have been noticing, at least in the cat call department, is there is typically a couple guys in any given location that do it and they do it NON STOP. This handful of dudes makes it feel like its constantly always all men doing it but it's genuinely just like one or two very annoying very loud assholes. I think if we really dig deep and look into cat calling we will find the same person "working" an area being named over and over again but often times women do not look at the guy and…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 11:34 AM
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Yeah she REALLY worked hard to get him to do it. Pulled out all the stops and really played into his mental health issues to push him. There was so much culpability there and to say that she was justified or at the very least not serving just as much as her victim is soooo bizarre
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/24 07:09 PM
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Been saying this forever. If it isn't men it'll be an ethnic group, if not them then poor people, if not them then a religious group, etc ad naseum as long as the main target is never the people in power
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/24 12:39 PM
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I am inclined to agree with you. It struck me as satire. Comedy should be allowed to dip into these areas no matter the gender, the audience can then determine if it's actually funny or not. Watching the ad didn't strike me as anything more than an attempt to sell men something. I didn't pay attention to the actual product (I have ad blindness).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/23 01:46 AM
2

Thank you! I will always insist there is room for all of us to have our grievances addressed we just need to get past fighting with one another over scraps.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/23 12:16 AM
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Yep somehow it's still misogynistic. One way or another through alchemy and magic it is always misogyny.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/23 03:08 PM
42

And record suicide rates
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/23 03:07 PM
2

They were claiming it was fine that women have to face roll backs on roe, at least back when I subbed to MRA. I don't understand how their loss of autonomy was a win for men and they made it clear my thinking was in the minority there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/23 08:01 PM
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Too much for my tastes. I couldn't be bothered to stay when you get flamed for even suggesting simple things like, "women should not lose rights to create what you might consider more fairness. We should get rights installed if you want fairness" Basically don't bring someone down, bring others UP. They weren't havin it. Edit to answer your questions. The last two are a bit misogynistic if I am being as fair as I can be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/23 09:56 AM
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Too much for my tastes. I couldn't be bothered to stay when you get flamed for even suggesting simple things like, "women should not lose rights to create what you might consider more fairness. We should get rights installed if you want fairness" Basically don't bring someone down, bring others UP. They weren't havin it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/23 09:52 AM
3

I cannot explain my luck in this regard. To your question on her religion, she actually didn't shove it in my face or anything like that she was super respectful of my lack of faith. I just told her that if she ever had questions about how I get on without a god she could ask and before I asked anything about her beliefs I would first ask permission to inquire. I told her I admired her intellect so much that if she found a reason to believe, then it must be a good one and I could respect that. I…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/23 01:24 PM
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Weirdly enough, I asked my gf to watch that documentary with me. I asked her to just bear with me on it and assured her I would do the same for her. She brought a fuckin notepad and paused regularly to take notes. I admire her deeply for that. The documentary finished and I asked her thoughts to which she replied, "I need to think about this." Fast forward to today (this was 2 years ago), she is an avid advocate for women's rights AND men's rights. This has resulted in her being kicked out of fe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 08:00 PM
1

I like it, it's an attention grabber with that much text
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/23 02:49 AM
4

Good on you, I couldn't agree more
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/23 05:46 PM
13

This should be on a T shirt and on fucking billboards
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/23 05:45 PM
3

Great question, I would not be surprised if you found any on the indie side of things. OH octopath traveler 2 has a male that my gf thought for sure was a girl but nope just a samurai with long hair but his sprite did surprise me when he spoke. He is definitely one that I am gonna pick first because his story looks really cool.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/23 05:18 PM
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I agree with what you're saying and I just want to add that if you play some videogames you can find some really amazing male leads that are far from traditional masculine. Games like Lost Odyssey, many Final Fantasy games, Xenoblade Chronicles 3 main character I thought was a girl but nope it's a dude and he is super badass and compassionate as ever loving fuck. There are many more if you want more I can share!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/23 04:11 PM
6

Essentially downplaying the violence in the relationship?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/22 12:22 AM
2

I left that sub after seeing a bunch of fellows there tell me I am wrong for feeling the following: Women own their bodies and should be free to abort as they see fit. Men should be free to opt out of child raising if they see fit. The solution to the reproductive rights is not to take away women's rights but to elevate men's to that level. In so many words they kept insisting that fairness meant teaching women a lesson by taking that right away. Blew my mind and revealed that place was not for …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/22 08:02 PM
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Can anyone shed some light on why she made the remark that sociology is basically useless when attempting to help men? Genuine curiosity. Is there something inherently going on in these sociology classes that is harmful to men? I am sure she obviously had a much closer look but I never took sociology so I am clueless about that piece.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/22 12:45 AM
0

Oh shit you're still going and drawing conclusions. This may come as a surprise to you but I am well aware that men are getting absolutely destroyed in court and it is a vile thing to do to them. I would be thrilled to see that change! In my opinion it takes precedence over women's rights. That being said, I do not advocate nor do I need, nor will I condone having so much as a mild infringement on women's rights as some kind of solution to the inequality I face. We will not get the allies we nee…
/r/MensRights14/09/21 04:51 PM
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Already did. You just don't agree. That's fine it's just sad is all, I really liked this group but at least there is still TheTinmen
/r/MensRights11/09/21 08:44 PM
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Sure thing man. Good luck to you guys.
/r/MensRights11/09/21 08:35 PM
0

We don't have a uterus, is that...confusing? So they can choose whether or not to support a life in it as they deem fit. I can't believe I have to explain that I also think men should have 0 repercussions if they choose not to raise a child when the woman decides to keep it.
/r/MensRights11/09/21 08:13 PM
1

Uh I do not like menslib what the fuck are you ranting about?
/r/MensRights11/09/21 08:11 PM
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I'm all set with this sub. I'll continue advocating for men's rights but not the way it's done here. Here is a twisted version where y'all want government to tell women what they can and can't do with their bodies.
/r/MensRights11/09/21 08:11 PM
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I mentioned women having the right to abort being restricted, I got downvoted a bunch for that. I don't see autonomy as a privilege but as a right.
/r/MensRights11/09/21 05:39 PM
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Well let me specify rights. I specifically meant rights.
/r/MensRights11/09/21 04:04 PM
0

Yet again I have to specify the difference between privilege and rights? How is that a mystery here?
/r/MensRights11/09/21 03:07 PM
1

A vile way to think. You are simply wrong. Do better for men then, you should be ashamed.
/r/MensRights11/09/21 03:05 PM
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So we should make things worse for women to make things equal? That logic is backwards.
/r/MensRights11/09/21 02:34 AM
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Well I am not going to be part of the reason it isn't ideal just because I want some revenge
/r/MensRights10/09/21 11:53 PM
0

You just refuse to acknowledge my point. It's cool man. I didn't expect that from this sub but I see what's up now.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 10:56 PM
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Alright I guess that answers that. Unequivocally you should have full rights to whether someone uses your body for anything. The government does not have a right to tell you that you have to do anything with your body. Whether or not I agree with it (I personally feel like they are killing a person) I don't want uncle sam mandating things for me, for you, or for them.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 10:26 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/pkfwbs/theres_a_war_on_women/hc3l2pg/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
/r/MensRights10/09/21 10:12 PM
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Oh you did respond. So you don't want men to have the same respect and rights women have?
/r/MensRights10/09/21 10:03 PM
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I mean, thanks for all this information that I already know. I consider myself egalitarian but you sidestepped my question entirely. Did I word it in a way that didn't make sense?
/r/MensRights10/09/21 10:02 PM
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And in that sense we are in agreement. I get the sense this group seems to dislike women as a whole. I find that concerning because I joined thinking this was a place that showed the best men had to offer. Being realistic and using facts/data and supporting one another. It no longer feels that way.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 09:50 PM
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How does wishing for men's rights to reach the level women's right are at go against men's rights?
/r/MensRights10/09/21 09:48 PM
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Why not seek equality by bringing men up to the standard women have?
/r/MensRights10/09/21 07:11 PM
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I am in agreement and fully understand that. The mass downvotes tells me that this is very much a place that seems uninterested in hearing anything that even hints at an opposing view. I'm always all about men's rights but I am seeing now that this isn't the place to be.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 06:41 PM
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I have no qualm with this line of reasoning. Totally in agreement.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 06:39 PM
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You also misquoted me, was that on purpose?
/r/MensRights10/09/21 02:48 PM
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Rights, not privilege. Specifically rights. I got downvoted for disagreeing with a dude the other day when I told him it was wrong to take away autonomy for women just because we have no rights when it comes to reproductive issues. I don't think raping people is a privilege that you or I would want anyway so that was a bad example.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 02:47 PM
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Doesn't bother me one bit if it's done well. I couldn't care less what genitals that have. Sadly they tend to write the new character in ridiculous ways that don't feel organic at all.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 02:01 PM
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Men's lib seems to be fine with male circumcision and mensrights seems to think a good way to reach equality is by taking away women's rights vs getting our rights to match theirs. (My experience with both groups has shown me this much at least)
/r/MensRights10/09/21 01:51 PM
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Why are you being downvoted? If there is no war on women and it's all imagined then why do people think women should have rights removed? Is that what this sub is after all?
/r/MensRights08/09/21 11:35 PM
2

It would be hilarious if men refused to have sex as a show of solidarity for these women refusing to have sex. It makes me think of that spiderman meme where they are all confused pointing at one another. Like ok, here we are all totally okay with not having sex. Now what? Full fap September?
/r/MensRights08/09/21 12:28 PM
5

Oh now an assumption! You're killin' it. What else ya got? Strawman? More ad hom? How about shifting some goalposts or special pleading?
/r/MensRights06/09/21 11:12 PM
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That's common knowledge however they are not winning per capita, that would be Rochester. I am guessing you were unaware of that.
/r/MensRights06/09/21 10:47 PM
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Logical response!! Thank you for trying.
/r/MensRights06/09/21 10:45 PM
5

Simps gonna simp
/r/MensRights06/09/21 10:41 PM
7

Chicago? Yo what drugs are you using right now I want some! Lmao
/r/MensRights06/09/21 10:40 PM
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You make absolutely 0 sense whatsoever. I am giving you a pass and assuming you are extremely intoxicated and high on some kind of hallucinogenic drug to write out all that drivel in such a short period of time.
/r/MensRights06/09/21 10:40 PM
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So now just random pics of women with text in the picture is supposed to mean something? I can see if the OP is dating the girl in the pic but besides that it seems pretty much out of the blue to post here.
/r/MensRights06/09/21 10:34 PM
1

My gf got me flowers twice and left me a note and it was probably the sweetest thing anyone has ever done for me in a romantic sense! I didn't even know I liked flowers!
/r/MensRights04/09/21 08:03 PM
2

That sounds about right at least for me. We need to all realize we are the scapegoats and our political affiliation is being used to keep men, who are already being shit on, fighting amongst one another. A tale as old as time and we can't buy into it.
/r/MensRights01/09/21 05:06 PM
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Hilarious that you're being downvoted for calling him to apply his logic to his own argument. I also lean left and very strongly support men's rights. (Granted that makes my story anecdotal and worth nothing in this case). However caring about ourselves is not a political position it's just the moral thing to do.
/r/MensRights01/09/21 01:45 PM
1

It was the line about depending on a man for survival that threw me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:06 PM
1

This is an interesting response. I am curious why wouldn't you just "team up" with a friend be it female or male instead of getting into a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:43 AM
0

Sam Harris is just the best! Loved his audio book/podcast Making Sense. What a delight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:08 PM
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You're absolutely right, mate
/r/MensRights19/07/21 03:47 AM
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It was my absolute pleasure. It's easy to feel like the odd man out when you try to be fair, but caring, while avoiding inner biases and logical fallacies, in a world that slings them at you without relent. I think people like you are out there but they tend to prefer to stay out of things. Seems like that might be changing and I am thrilled about that!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:50 AM
2

Idk who you are but you are an absolute rare gem in a world full of people simply hunting for scapegoats to simplify the worlds problems. The blame is shifted at a group so humanity can easily direct its unresolved rage. Said group will take heat for as long as necessary and the powers that be will just shift the blame again, all the while making sure no one does exactly what you are proposing. The idea that we can understand the struggles of other human beings, show compassion in spite of what …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:07 PM
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I had a feeling you would just move the goal post as soon as you got not one but six examples. Nothing would satisfy your request, you're here to make bad faith arguments
/r/MensRights05/06/21 08:40 AM
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You guys sound kind of awesome not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:26 PM
1

You can't arrest them for a crime they haven't yet committed. I would prefer not to wait for them to commit the crime and let them spend their miserable lives using a doll vs someone's daughter, sister, mother, aunt, grandmother, niece. Is the idea nice? Absolutely not. I would also be content letting serial killers live out murder fantasies in a simulation instead of targeting actual human beings. This does not mean I like them or think they are morally correct in any way. We simply don't have …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:40 PM
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It's a sex toy, a disembodied simulated vagina would also qualify as one as well as a penile substitute or a mega vibrator. There are also machines that can be used to auto thrust. All of those seem fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 02:56 AM
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While I personally feel weird about sex dolls, I have heard some women argue that those should also not be allowed. Hey if you can have a dildo collection, then Billy should be allowed his sex doll. I've even heard the idea that sex dolls teach men to treat women like property. I contend those men will likely never BE with a real woman long enough to have any meaningful impact in how women feel about THEM. Additionally if they are intent on being violent, it is far preferable that they act out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:53 PM
1

What part of go fuck yourself did you misinterpret?
/r/MensRights15/05/21 05:41 AM
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You're the first person on reddit to actually annoy me with an unwarranted cunty attitude. Then projected your issues with feminism onto me immediately afterwards? Nah dude. GFY
/r/MensRights15/05/21 02:22 AM
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I am not a feminist I am an egalitarian but goddamn you're doing a good job of making me wish I was. Is this how you get men to stay away from that kind of crap? By berating them with your bullshit?
/r/MensRights15/05/21 12:27 AM
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Holy shit man. It was a suggestion and this is your response? It genuinely seemed like the middle ground you would potentially have been looking for. Veryyyy sorry for whatever may have happened was just trying to help. God fucking damn.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 11:15 PM
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Check out r/menslib it might be exactly what you're looking for, it is precisely what I was seeking this sub was just a stepping stone
/r/MensRights12/05/21 02:27 PM
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I never comment in this subreddit, but I will today. You are absolutely correct that the answer is not to inflict harm onto women who did not have anything to do with it. It's a case by case issue and you cannot just paint people with broad strokes and hope for ANY meaningful change other than a bigger revenge circle. If you want something to end because it is unjust, don't seek to perpetuate it against those you despise, end it for good. Emotionally it is tempting to wish to see these things ha…
/r/MensRights17/04/21 11:40 PM
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Man I don't even believe in god and I still love the way you communicate. Yet another bullshit dividing line that is irrelevant in the grand scheme of things. Cheers to you my friend.
/r/MensRights29/03/21 07:16 PM
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You are a very rare and very special breed of human. Please never give up hope and never give up this mindset. The real joke is that men and women are separate, we are humans with some slightly different issues but we are far more alike than different and someone is laughing while we fight amongst one another. Edit for spelling
/r/MensRights29/03/21 02:00 PM
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Ah ok I must've come in pretty late
/r/MensRights07/03/21 04:22 PM
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Maybe I didn't look hard enough but it looked like a majority of people, including women, said he was NTA but if I had to look hard for it then it seems that this might not be the case in this particular post. Edited to add NTA
/r/MensRights07/03/21 04:05 AM
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Came here to say exactly this. Us vs them is a pretty old tired way of fighting the system and it absolves the system when the system is to blame.
/r/MensRights22/11/20 03:11 PM
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I thought I wasn't understanding the point red made for a reason and since it is still early maybe I am brain farting but nope. Red just has a double standard built right in.
/r/MensRights20/11/20 03:53 PM
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It is
/r/MensRights14/11/20 02:35 PM
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Very nice, nice to see this kind of effort for a good cause
/r/MensRights12/11/20 03:30 AM
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Oh definitely! Got anything peer reviewed or nah?
/r/MensRights03/11/20 11:58 PM
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You're a complete waste of time. I feel sorry for the people who actually interact with you day to day.
/r/MensRights03/11/20 11:46 PM
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Are you okay? Why are you so bent out of shape? I offered to cite studies which is the opposite of anecdotal evidence. Surely you understand how studies work.
/r/MensRights03/11/20 11:32 PM
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Oh you're one of THOSE people. Would you like me to cite some studies?
/r/MensRights03/11/20 09:45 AM
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Not eating for a few days will do wonders for your health. I do it regularly
/r/MensRights03/11/20 05:08 AM
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Look up the X3 protocol and save yourself countless hours in gyms and running. Your life will change completely
/r/seduction13/07/20 03:54 PM
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