Grey_0ne Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Women love romance but men do romance. The day you realize that Dollar General's tiny ass thing of $2 confidence is less value for dollar than Walmart's big ass tub of $16 confidence; you won't need to shop around for it anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 03:06 AM
2	Women love romance but men do romance. Lol... 90 percent of everything written in this sub sounds a lot like someone who's never been in an actual relationship, but I get what you're saying. I do have to throw a bone to the initial concept here though since I was with a woman who was constantly "testing" me. Shit wasn't cool, but I was too desperate back then to just say "this isn't how relationships are supposed to work". But I was smart enough to not shape my whole ass worldview around it... Which I guess is how I managed to not en…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 10:04 PM
32	Women love romance but men do romance. Ever dawn on anyone here that if you're "having to go to great lengths to prove your love", you're probably just with the wrong person? Likewise if all she's doing in the relationship is "sitting there and looking pretty". I mean; I totally understand being thirsty in your early 20s and thinking that you should put up with that kind of shit - But get some confidence, treat women as people and find women who do the same in return.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 06:37 AM
–	Women who tell men to "be confident" as a solution to dating issues are unaware that there has been a decades long societal shift to prevent most young men from developing ANY confidence to start with, which stunts the ability to ever develop relationships later. You say all of that like men work any different. The world is full of stories of dudes who pretend to be a woman's friend when all they want is to get in her pants. Full of stories of guys who will say that a woman meets her standards in order to get laid, but reject her for a better looking woman the second they can. That isn't exactly open disclosure. For someone so insulted by double standards, you seem to enjoy turning a blind eye to them when they don't make your case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 05:57 AM
–	Women who tell men to "be confident" as a solution to dating issues are unaware that there has been a decades long societal shift to prevent most young men from developing ANY confidence to start with, which stunts the ability to ever develop relationships later. Every single thing you just said only makes sense if you're looking to the internet and assuming what all women want instead of directly getting to know one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 02:22 AM
-4	How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez? That reads more like "exceptions exist only when they don't fit my biases".	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 08:46 AM
8	Women who tell men to "be confident" as a solution to dating issues are unaware that there has been a decades long societal shift to prevent most young men from developing ANY confidence to start with, which stunts the ability to ever develop relationships later. Not their fault. Maybe some well adjusted, realistic women should go on one of the shows... But they won't because nearly every one of them will be called out on their delusion The fuckery of that statement alone... It's not their show. They don't control attendance. How in god's name you can sit there with a straight face and say "realistic women won't go on there" when the people who run the damn thing very clearly aren't inviting any is some kind of gaslighting by proxy shit. And what... A 5,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 05:39 PM
7	Women who tell men to "be confident" as a solution to dating issues are unaware that there has been a decades long societal shift to prevent most young men from developing ANY confidence to start with, which stunts the ability to ever develop relationships later. Point for point... A) Plenty of overweight dudes get laid and get in relationships. It's exceedingly uncommon for people to be single their entire lives and as it happens the obesity rate has kept right on climbing for generations. B) "Looking for a woman to complete me" is damn near the tagline of every thirsty dude's post in any advice forum you could possibly go to. I literally left the rant sub on here because of how many pathetic ass dudes posted day in day out about how everything would be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 04:49 PM
34	Women who tell men to "be confident" as a solution to dating issues are unaware that there has been a decades long societal shift to prevent most young men from developing ANY confidence to start with, which stunts the ability to ever develop relationships later. I had bad luck with women until the day I stopped looking for a woman to complete me. That was me realizing that I am already complete and I can be confident in the fact that if I'm ever single again, it's not because I'm looking for a piece of myself; it's that I'm looking for someone to appreciate what I already have... That is what "be confident" means. Not be confident that you can get a woman to date you, be confident that you don't need to use anyone else to validate you. Most women I've k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 03:52 PM
0	What's the point in adjusting who you are in order to be attractive, if you're not yourself anymore? The views and desires of women are diverse. They are people. That tends to be the case when dealing with a demographic that consists of billions of individuals. Anytime someone starts a conversation by pigeonholing and entire gender, race, nationality, sexual orientation or gender identity into some sort of hivemind... They are probably trying to sell you something. Confidence and emotional availability/ sensitivity are not mutually exclusive. More often people who think of relationships like th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 12:00 PM
-4	Men over hype how hard guys try to get relationships/sex Holy moly I'm not reading all that but it sounds like you need this W so I'll give it to you. Congrats you win this exchange So you harp about needing evidence... But can't read a few paragraphs. Nice gaslighting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 11:31 AM
-2	Men over hype how hard guys try to get relationships/sex You're minimizing the experience of many men including my own, and not presenting any evidence to back up your claims What experience? 1) You claimed that "social media" has made it clear what women want... Not your own personal experience. Nor did you cite a single piece of evidence to back up your claim. I'm not going to argue about whether or not women find you attractive or will give you the time of day on account... Because women aren't obligated to give you the time of day... Ever. 2) You …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 10:42 AM
-2	Men over hype how hard guys try to get relationships/sex The entire manosphere exists to bullshit this exact narrative and are able to feed it to you because they can find an example or two of a woman being crazy or malicious out of the billion women who are in the dating scene. Ultimately; every single man who believes that he'll get falsely accused or publicly shamed for being a normal human being, is being driven to fear because of the narrative spun by other men. I need you - all of you - to understand two things: One; that the narrative is 99.9 p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 09:00 AM
10	CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping. Your opening line of women dating up and thus forcing men to date down is textbook red pill propaganda predicated on generalizations and the notion of the "high value man". A) It completely ignores that women like most others don't generally conceptualize love and dating like a business transaction. B) It completely ignores that what a woman's standards are changes depending on the woman who holds them and the circumstances present in the specific culture time and place. C) It completely ignores…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 12:03 AM
0	"Touch grass" is awful advice. Social interaction and getting better at social skills is a two way street. You need two people who are BOTH willing to have a social interaction, it's not something you can do on your own. People seem to forget this. Newsflash, it's not only men that live with their parents, who disagree with you. Newsflash, it's not only women who say it or red pills they say it to. If you feel like you're being personally targeted; that's your conscience talking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 11:41 PM
1	Should men be friends or even partners with women who claim to hate men? There is that happy middle ground where I'm going to be polite and respectful towards you regardless of if you hate me, while still not going out of my way to have anything more to do with you than absolutely necessary. You don't get gold stars in life for being a doormat any more than you do for hyper-focusing on the opinions of an extreme minority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 02:55 PM
11	"Touch grass" is awful advice. Social interaction and getting better at social skills is a two way street. You need two people who are BOTH willing to have a social interaction, it's not something you can do on your own. People seem to forget this. T'was my understanding that "touch grass" is frequently used when people start spouting off some extremist shit that you really would only believe if you haven't felt the light of day on your skin in an objectively unhealthy amount of time... Basically something that's said more out of frustration because you're talking to someone who has a general disposition more in common with 1920s Nosferatu than a normal human being. On another note; I have some pretty bad anxiety of my own and recognize ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 02:50 PM
5	What is a low value man? I think RP often focuses on club dynamics and women where it is a subculture involving a lot of hookups. It doesn’t focus enough on the average woman and how to meet them and what they want. I think that sums up the entire issue with RP philosophy; it's based on generalizing and lumping every single woman on Earth into the same category as the absolute worst examples of the demographic... Just like every other form of bigotry has done in the entirety of human history. It's bloody textbook. Admit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 01:17 AM