Gribblethwip Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Relentless, unending heartbreak is the best cutting diet imaginable.		Gribblethwip	/r/Divorce_Men	24/05/23 12:05 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Marriage counseling fail I get you completely. I wanted to ride off this marriage like Jack Sparrow on his sinking rowboat; doing my part right to the end, my honor and integrity intact.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/23 10:19 PM
2	Marriage counseling fail Family wise nothing is guaranteed. After my split some of my in-laws became “my” family more than they are hers and vice-versa. It’s a big rift and everyone takes sides one way or another.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/23 10:14 PM
26	Marriage counseling fail As you’re about to hear from your dozens of dimensional clones who went through the same thing; the wife made her decision long before telling you. She’s done. None of the facts matter except as ammunition for her to rationalize her emotional need to leave. Marriage counseling at this point is a waste of money that needs to go to your preparations.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/23 11:09 PM
6	One week she says she wants to stay married, and the other she says she wants a divorce. “space” is usually “Mr. Space” who will appear seemingly out of nowhere as soon as the paperwork’s done.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/23 09:42 PM
10	42 about to file, having 2nd thoughts. Yeah I got diagnosed with that shit in my 40s. It sucks. It really sucks; but you can accommodate for it if you care to.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/23 01:07 AM
3	Less Than 3 Months of Cohabitating with STBXW (Almost There!) Im here too. Im in the house with the STBEW and two kids. It’s chess. we’re both being as non confrontational as possible but sometimes the tension is just thick. Holding out. Going out when possible. Staying out of each others way. It’s purgatory.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/23 11:18 AM
5	Happy Father’s Day First Father’s Day since ILYBINILWY and still cohabitating. It’s pretty rough.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/23 02:50 PM
6	Is marriage that bad? I can easily say Im a better person than at the start of our marriage 16 years ago. But I would never have chosen to learn the lessons like this. Not like this. Marriage doesn’t exist anymore. Whatever this legal contract is, that either party can walk away from for any reason (ravaging a family in the process) it isn’t marriage. It needs a different name.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/23 12:11 AM
11	Have your views changed on the idea that women are more empathetic than men? I think their feelings are facts to them. Like men are walking next to the stream of their feelings and women are being carried by it.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/23 12:06 PM
1	Why are we so easily to call the way she’s behaving BPD? For the same reason all the ex husbands get called narcissistic. It’s coping that’s all it is; except those few cases where there are actual diagnosed sick people involved. There a lot of grey area where people can just be ordinary flawed humans.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/06/23 05:25 PM
6	Dating. Anyone else finding it hard to get back out there? I’ll be there soon too and I’m in no hurry. All the money I would spend on the wife is about to be spent on my boys, not on some rebound human band-aid. We’re gonna have a blast.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/23 10:45 PM
3	This has been the hardest day of my life Yes. Amen. I believed in marriage and I’m sure a lot of people do; and I’m sure a lot of people don’t! It’s just not for everyone. We socially pressured all these people into LARPing a vow they didn’t really commit to.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/05/23 03:34 AM
1	Dating post-divorce Yes please, please listen to these guys. NEVER unburden your pain to an SO. Tell a therapist, tell your childhood best friend, tell God, tell your cat. Do not tell a woman. She’ll lose respect permanently and never admit it until she’s on her way out.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/23 04:57 PM
8	Wife wants to leave Are you me OP? I’m amazed how similar so many of these stories are. I’m in exactly the same situation. made this account just to come here and victim barf all about it and then saw your post. My wife is about to walk away as well. She and I were happy building a family and leaving the dream (16 year marriage! 2 kids!) until 4 months ago when she threw the switch and rewrote history (I was never really happy, you weren’t there for me). Hardest year of my life. Spent all this time self improving a…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/23 10:29 AM