Grievingtheloss Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	She bought lingerie… Yup, tale as old as time i’m afraid :/… happens to a lot of us bud but the good news is just like she is hooking up with other people, YOU get to now as well, and the market is ripe. In time you will likely see this as a blessing. I know it hurts in the beginning but it does get better. You need to go “grey rock” and do not acknowledge her unless having to do with kids or finances. You also need to start making plans to set yourself up financially and independently for the future and your kids. …	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/25 01:24 AM
23	She bought lingerie… I hate to break it to you but it’s very likely that it’s not “too soon” for her… she has 100% been seeing someone else for awhile(likely before the official separation) and is just not hiding it anymore. Woman monkey branch all the time. Don’t sweat it or put any thought into it. She’s someone else’s problem now.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/25 12:54 AM
10	How does one cope with this shit He was never your friend and she’s a pos. You’ll find much better and have a lot of fun doing so!	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/25 01:32 AM
2	I came out Facts lol	/r/Divorce_Men	21/11/24 11:39 PM
5	My (ex-)wife and I speedran divorce Awesome headspace to be in! Seriously, the world is your oyster and there’s billions of beautiful woman out there if you decide to find love again or just play the field. Work on yourself and you will thrive!	/r/Divorce_Men	21/11/24 09:59 PM
8	My (ex-)wife and I speedran divorce “She is the breadwinner”. Well there’s your reason for the peacefulness. Wait till you find put why she really wants out. Hopefully it doesn’t hurt to bad.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/11/24 09:44 PM
13	My (ex-)wife and I speedran divorce Congratulations on doing this amicably and respectfully but.. Here’s what’s also a truth you should know and prepare yourself for: She’s almost assuredly been fucking another man and will suddenly find a new relationship or “love” very soon. She will hide this and it will hurt more if you don’t prepare yourself emotionally. Woman ver rarely leave a marriage or “security” without a branch to jump to already. Maybe i’m wrong but just letting you know the very likely reason as to why she’s not “in …	/r/Divorce_Men	21/11/24 09:42 PM
9	STBX just threatened suicide. What do I do? DO NOT let your son go back until she has been evaluated. Call w/e version of cps(child protective seevices) that your state has. It’s probably just her trying to manipulate you emotionally but this is UNACCEPTABLE! Screenshot and keep the texts! Record everything when talking to your ex. You need to create a paper trail incase something happens and worse case she’ll stop manipulating like that.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/24 12:51 PM
4	Need Help Shaking the Jealousy That last one lmao! 🔥 🔥	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/24 10:52 AM
26	Happened to Me Too Got some more bad news for you.. she was seeing the new guy before you even separated.. pretty much a guarantee :(. Sorry bro, stay strong! You sound like a King and there’s a billion good woman out there at least!	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/24 05:55 PM
19	Is my wife cheating? Bro, you can’t afford to be this dense.. she is cheating now and was cheating way back then too. They HAVE slept together and she deleted all the texts over the years because they were PROOF of this… and when she was going on dates during your separation she was feeling out if he was relationship material… he wasn’t. Which is why she came back to you. Stay, and she’ll do it again because she’s addicted to the dopamine rush of the affair. RUN.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/24 10:47 PM
2	Sock Day! Pm’d.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/24 10:32 PM