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| 320 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view. | Social Issues | Griffin1102 | /r/MensRights | 12/07/20 11:53 PM |
| 241 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective. | Griffin1102 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/07/20 01:55 AM | |
| 21 | Is there a sub for men supporting other men? | other | Griffin1102 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/21 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Sex-based medical bias. Should we agree with feminists on this one? | Health | Griffin1102 | /r/MensRights | 03/03/22 07:22 PM |
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| 1 | I have autism and I Hate r/AutismIt's this thing that's been happening for the longest time. Teenaged white girls don't feel oppressed anymore so they latch onto something else to keep that oppressed status. It used to be bisexuality and depression. Then it was being trans (and it still is, just they went to claiming to be non-binary since it's less effort and requires less proof). Now it's more popular to have ASD, ADHD, or DID. There are even some out there who think they're oppressed for being fat. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/22 12:04 PM |
| 79 | I have autism and I Hate r/AutismGod I hate the pro-self diagnosis there. It takes a trained professional and hours of testing to really determine if you have autism or something else. But sure your 15 minutes on Google and all those tiktoks you've watched are perfectly adequate. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/22 02:21 AM |
| 3 | In contrast to my post yesterday, what traditionally masculine things do u enjoy doing?Animal husbandry. I got a small rabbit farm in my backyard. Adorable and delicious! | /r/MensRights | 22/12/22 03:14 AM |
| 99 | It's time to let go of "toxic masculinity""toxic masculinity" is just a victim-blaming way to say "internalized misandry" without having to acknowledge that misandry exists | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/12/22 01:13 PM |
| -5 | thoughts on Spain's menstrual leaveOh ok. That makes sense, especially since periods can be extremely painful for some | /r/MensRights | 17/05/22 04:02 PM |
| 49 | thoughts on Spain's menstrual leaveThis might backfire. Companies will be more inclined to hire men because they won't want to pay the same amount of money for less work. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | What are things men can do to help problems primarily faced by women?We can push for policies that protect women's bodily autonomy and grant them more control over their medical decisions. I've heard that in many instances a woman cannot get medically sterilized without a male partners permission while a man has more ease in getting medically sterilized (of course there are still barriers) and I think that's fucked up. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/22 03:42 PM |
| 5 | what party are you guys? I want to see the demographic of fellow mras.I'm ancom/rad-left, at least what's considered radical leftist in America (but minus all the ID-pol bullshit) | /r/MensRights | 11/03/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Sex-based medical bias. Should we agree with feminists on this one?Nope, never been harassed or anything. I don't play many online video games but I do like Pokemon and used to play a ton online. If anything, it was easier to make friends and more people wanted to be on my team for multibattles. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/22 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Sex-based medical bias. Should we agree with feminists on this one?Yeah, my upbringing around feminists made me more biased towards their points. Why do you think I'm here, asking the MRA opinion on this? I'm trying to undo that bias. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/22 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Sex-based medical bias. Should we agree with feminists on this one?I said that because I know jack shit on the subject. I also didn't know all that you listed. I'm by no means a feminist, but I did grow up around some and there's still some stuff I've never thought to question. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/22 02:27 AM |
| 11 | Why do people fail to understand it is the patriachy of the sixh and not of a genderAgreed. We live in a plutocracy, not a patriarchy. Edit: spelling | /r/MensRights | 26/02/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | We need to stop misogynistic men too if we actually want men's issues to be solved.Nice | /r/MensRights | 02/01/22 12:13 AM |
| 21 | We need to stop misogynistic men too if we actually want men's issues to be solved.Agreed. We are better than feminists who do nothing but hate men. Let's not act like them. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/22 12:07 AM |
| 2 | I (MtF) just got banned from a transgender sub for arguing that it is mostly misandry, and not misogyny, is the true cause of the rampant discrimination against transsexual womenThat sub is going downhill. I stick to the transmedical sub. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/08/21 11:55 AM |
| 5 | A female dating strategy post got on popular today saying how men without women are useless and can't accomplish anything even basic such as cooking and cleaning.I am an asexual/aromatic man. I actually have a passion for cooking (I have a very large collection of cookbooks) and clean and maintain my own apartment. I have a roommate (who is a woman) who can only cook ramen and only cleans the house if I ask her to. I'm currently in the process of buying a house which I intend to live in by myself until I'm old and gray. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/21 08:38 AM |
| 17 | Men, as a collective, gaslight, objectify, and abuse womenI'm ftm and for all intents and purposes was a girl until I figured out I wasn't when I was 18. Growing up, aside from a few school bullies, men were very nice to me. Women, on the other hand, were not. I have insecurities, self worth issues, trust issues, and attachment issues that I still deal with today. Am I gonna go around saying that all women are toxic and treat eachother like shit? Hell no. Just like men, there are some women who are shitty, but most are fine people. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/04/21 08:16 AM |
| 6 | Today is Trans Day of Visibility. Trans men, what would you like to say?I know, it's just lots of people seem to think it's ok to call trans men in general cute/soft/small because we are afab. It can be a dysphoria trigger for many men. Also, there are some of us who aren't really cute/soft/small. I'm 5'11 and almost 2 years on t. Aside for the people who knew me pre-t, no one knows I'm trans and I pass 100%. Yet there are still people out there who would call me a smol boy because I am trans while if I were cis they wouldn't. Its infantilization and I hate it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/04/21 12:05 PM |
| 16 | Today is Trans Day of Visibility. Trans men, what would you like to say?Please just a crumb of treating us like cis men. We are not any less manly nor are we diet men. Please do not call us cute/soft/small/etc. Please don't feel like you need to walk on eggshells around us to not offend us. We are normal men. Please treat us as such. If you wouldn't say it to a cis man, don't say it to us. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/04/21 10:57 AM |
| 38 | Gay dudes being shamed and coerced into sex by trans activists.Ok trans man here. The vast majority of us understand and are completely fine with people not being into us. We'd much rather have partners that are attracted to us despite what we lack rather than just being with us because they don't want to seem transphobic. The people like the ones in these pictures are batshit insane and don't speak for us (self-proclaimed "trans activists" rarely are anything but insane attention seekers). Don't be fooled by the loud minority. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/21 02:12 AM |
| 2 | UPDATE: My AITA test went exactly as expected. Double standards all over AITA.If you want genuine answers, you'd have to make a completely gender neutral post. That would work for a good control if anyone is interested in repeating the experiment. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/21 11:58 PM |
| 2 | As someone who has seen both sides of the fence, men really have it rough right now.Yes and I'm in the middle of transitioning right now | /r/MensRights | 19/02/21 10:34 AM |
| 157 | As someone who has seen both sides of the fence, men really have it rough right now.Ftm here too. And yeah I definitely agree. Up until recently, women have almost always been awful to me. I even have trust issues towards women which I'm still working on. Men, aside from a few school bullies, have always been nice. (The boys bullied me for being autistic while the girls were "friends" but we're super toxic towards me because I was a pushover and "ugly") This is of course only anecdotal, but still. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/21 02:00 PM |
| 7 | When it comes to a woman being fatshamed, it is fatphobic, but when a man gets fatshamed, nobody cares.I have a sort of interest in the HAES/fat positivity movement and this is very true. Almost all the posts I've ever seen are centered around women (and occasionally nonbinary people) with very few posts being geared towards men (you really have to hunt for them) and most of the time, those posts aren't made by men and are usually featured on blogs that are mostly made up of posts geared towards women. Many posts (most I'm suspecting) are associated heavily with feminism. It's not uncommon to see… | /r/MensRights | 20/12/20 04:08 PM |
| 2 | The marriage rate is declining in America (Do you think a big reason has to do with the fact that a man usually has more to lose in a divorce than a woman does?)Could be, but I think there's also an economic reason. Weddings are expensive. People don't have money. I personally won't get married for a combination of reasons: if we divorce, she'd probably get more than her fair share, it's expensive, and I feel like if someone wants to spend the rest of their life with me, they can do that without getting the government involved. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/20 01:23 PM |
| 3 | I think y'all may be confusedI spent the first 18 years of my life as a woman and the last 3 as a man so I might have a unique perspective on this. In my experience, I was treated far better as a woman and even had many privileges. I never felt unsafe due to being a woman as I knew if I got into trouble, there'd always be plenty of people willing to help. I have never experienced anything negative related to me being perceived as a woman aside from when it came from other women. My experiences as a man are almost the polar … | /r/MensRights | 16/10/20 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.20 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/08/20 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.I'm not the relationship guru. I'm just some guy on the internet. Idk probably tell her that you want her to be straight forward and if that doesn't work, leave her. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/08/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.It is out there but it's rare. As an autistic person, I can say autistic women are much more straight forward. Maybe you'll have better luck with them? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/08/20 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.Before transition and after, I was into girls. Never felt the need to date though so I've never been in a relationship with one. My advice, if it's worth anything, is to communicate clearly. If a woman isn't willing to be straight forward with you, chances are she won't if there's a problem in the relationship. Same goes for guys. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/08/20 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.Feel free to DM me with any more questions | /r/MensRights | 17/07/20 02:34 PM |
| 6 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.In my experience, women most definitely treat other women worse than men treat women. I'd say I didn't get too bad of treatment compared to others and I still have said trust issues. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/20 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.I say I was unattractive as a woman because I looked very masculine. Now that's working for me instead of against me. I'm also in a better place when it comes to my mental and emotional health. Other than getting slightly more attention from guys, nothing's really changed. (I'm straight but I guess I just give off gay vibes or something) | /r/MensRights | 17/07/20 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.Do tell | /r/MensRights | 16/07/20 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.I think gender roles are a construct, what makes one feel feminine/masculine depends on the person, and that gender itself is rooted in neurological development. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.Even though I'm more financially well off than I was before, I am no more sought after than I was. And I would consider myself far more physically, intellectually, and emotionally attractive now. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/20 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.I agree with economic status having more to do with how one is treated than gender. When it comes to my workplace, I'm treated just the same as everyone else. I work at a deli in Walmart if that has anything to do with it | /r/MensRights | 15/07/20 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.For whatever reason I'm having issues crossposting it there. If you want to crosspost there feel free to. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/07/20 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.Luckily I haven't had any encounters with police as a man so far. I had one as a teenaged girl and they were very nice and helpful. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/20 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.Thanks bro. I'll look into that book | /r/MensRights | 15/07/20 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.Nah just good genes | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/07/20 02:08 AM |
| 4 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.I probably should have clarified this but no one aside from family knows I'm trans | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/07/20 01:20 AM |
| 4 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.From what? Realizing how my worth has depleted as a man? Not listening to feminist propaganda? | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.Therapy is great. Therapy should not be stigmatized. I believe that you should see a therapist even if you don't think you need one. Just having someone educated in that field to talk to can do wonders. Therapy is not for the weak or ill, it's for people who have the courage to take their mental health into their own hands. Congrats on doing something for yourself. I hope you're getting the help you need. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.I didn't say that misogyny didn't exist, I said I never experienced it. And I was under the impression that the disabled were treated worse. Everything you just mentioned has an explanation. Birth control is banned by some religions (shitty I know). Viagra doesn't stop pregnancy. CEOs rarely change, and the number of female CEOs is climbing. The president only changes once every 4-8 years and women haven't had too many chances. There are a few people out there who wouldn't vote for a woman but t… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.I'm 5'11. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/07/20 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.I've never even heard of a guy that takes four years to pass. I've heard of plenty like me. Idk where you're getting your info. Additionally, most trans women pass. My friend isn't even a year on hrt and she passes just fine. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.That's also true. I believe this extends into other disabilities, mental health issues, and such as well. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.I have heard of this. An autistic girl is cute and interesting while an autistic boy is annoying and creepy. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 06:31 PM |
| 5 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.That could be but I don't show it that much. It'd only be really noticeable when people interact with me and know what to look for. Additionally, I was autistic when I was still a girl and that didn't seem to impact anything. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.No one knows I'm trans nor autistic aside from those close to me. I didn't think it impacted anything so I didn't mention it. If I decide to post this anywhere else, I'll make a note of that. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 06:00 PM |
| 6 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.Definitely. I'm not gonna detrans just because I'm not treated as well anymore. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/07/20 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.Any recommendations? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/07/20 11:53 AM |
| 7 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.Not active at all. Trans groups I find tend to be filled with crazy people. There are few exceptions and even so only in groups that have a more traditional ideology (i.e. not believing in 72 genders, neopronouns, and other such bullshit). If you're looking for sane trans people to talk to I recommend r/truscum or r/transmedical | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 11:09 AM |
| 16 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.Gender is very much biological. It's brain sex. My gender dysphoria didn't come from society it came from having a male brain in a female body. If gender was a social construct than trans people simply wouldn't exist. Now certain things such as gender roles and how society treats men and woman differently is a social construct. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 10:36 AM |
| 19 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.I agree wholeheartedly. I'm 5'11 btw so taller than the average man. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/07/20 10:32 AM |
| 21 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.From my experience this is true. I have developed trust issues towards women. This is a personal issue of mine that I'm working on, but I didn't get that mistrust from nowhere. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/07/20 10:25 AM |
| 11 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.I passed even before I started testosterone. People would call me "sir" and such until I opened my mouth and they could hear my high pitched voice. Now I pass completely and have been since I was 4 months on T. It doesn't take four years. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/07/20 10:22 AM |
| 12 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's perspective.I don't mean to brag but I know it's not because I'm trans as a pass perfectly as a cis man. No one aside from those close to me knows. I wouldn't mind this getting posted on other subs. I can do it or someone else can, I don't care too much about karma. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/07/20 10:16 AM |
| 7 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.True but I think I and at least most trans guys would have listed, especially if it came from another trans dude. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 10:10 AM |
| 9 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.Damn that's fucked up. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 10:08 AM |
| 40 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view." toughen up, buttercup, the world doesn't owe you shit" Yes it does. I am a human too. I should be treated with the same empathy as a woman. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 01:59 AM |
| 20 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.I've heard of this. I think it's also reflected in resources available to men and women. There are far more resources for women, especially when it comes to mental health and abuse, than men. And their help tends to be better quality. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 01:57 AM |
| 45 | Are men treated better than women? A trans man's point of view.Exactly. It's not fair. It's not that women deserve less it's that men deserve more. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 01:17 AM |
| 20 | I was assaulted and I'm not sure if I can/should press chargesDefinitely go report it. You got proof. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/20 02:07 PM |
| 9 | Is there MRAs here who are also part of the LGBT Community?Of course. I transitioned to treat my gender dysphoria, not because I wanted to profit from "male privilege". | /r/MensRights | 12/07/20 01:20 AM |
| 8 | Is there MRAs here who are also part of the LGBT Community?I wouldn't mind making posts about it but basically, I was treated really well as a woman and as a man I'm treated like I'm some sort of danger or someone to look down upon. At least that's how it feels. I guess the change can be jarring for someone who used to be treated so well comparitively. No I don't talk about it to other trans guys. It never really comes up. When we talk about gender related issues we usually talk about stuff specifically ftm related like the infantilization and chasers. … | /r/MensRights | 11/07/20 11:13 PM |
| 34 | Is there MRAs here who are also part of the LGBT Community?I'm ftm. Hell the main reason I got into men's rights was realizing how shitty I was being treated now that I'm a man. Also, I hate how everyone thinks I'm a feminist just because I'm trans. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/20 03:52 PM |
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