Griffithead Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house? Personally, oral isn't a big deal to me. I'll do that with anyone. But sex is. I want meaning and feelings with that. I expect others feel the same.	/r/seduction	31/05/24 03:24 PM
15	Dinner is a TERRIBLE first date idea! Why you should always avoid it If you are so lame you can't hold a conversation over a meal, you shouldn't be dating.	/r/seduction	30/01/24 03:57 AM
1	Do men find straightforward and assertive women seductive? Seductive? I mean, not really? But that's sure who I want to spend my time with. Physical attributes and actions will take care of seduction.	/r/seduction	14/06/23 04:19 PM
1	Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned. There's other shit to do besides sex though. Kissing, touch, oral. And not just some lame goodnight kiss shit. Be spontaneous, make a move. Same goes for the lame Netflix make out. Be strong, make her feel wanted.	/r/seduction	23/10/22 08:21 AM
3	What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material? I tried to be super "mature" in my 20s. I regret every second of it. You might be happy with a wife, house, and kids. If so, good for you. It will come if you want it. There are plenty of people looking for that. But is that all you want? With that lifestyle, Netflix will be a treat. Something you only get on special occasions. Because you will always be chasing the next best house, car, or experience for your kids. There is a lot more to life than money if you want it. Opportunities to experien…	/r/seduction	17/10/22 06:39 AM
53	If you are comfortable being alone, at ease with rejection, and have abundance mindset, you will rarely act needy with others Wow. This post is really hitting me hard. I've been rejected by friends a LOT in this last week. Basically all the people that I rely on for connection. All within a few days. I took yesterday to just wallow in it and feel all the feelings. Ate a lot of bad food and watched dumb TV. I definitely had the instinct to just hide away forever and completely distance myself. But, like you said, your connections aren't something that happens every day. Sometimes people have their own shit they are deal…	/r/seduction	18/09/22 04:16 PM
1	If the first text you sent to a girl was "nice meeting you, (her name)!" shortly after getting her number, and she didn't respond, would you send another text or just give up? You did the check in/showed interest after the meet. Good job. You can text again, but it needs to be totally different. You could go the just chatting way. Memes. TV shows. It's not going to work most of the time. Sometimes very slow is the approach, but not usually. Best approach is to actually go do something and invite her along. If she doesn't come, you get to do something cool. If she does, you look great because now you are both doing something cool. Caveat is actually do something cool.	/r/seduction	14/09/22 06:00 AM
1	If having hobbies makes you attractive to women, why isn’t attractive if a guy is into video games and Reddit as opposed to more traditional hobbies? It's about balance. Guys who are video games are life have no balance. So many guys play games 3 or 4 hours a night. It limits you from doing anything else and will become a fight very quickly. If you are playing games a few hours a week during your complete free time, that's fine. Don't be a video games are life guy.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 05:42 PM
2	Is it worthwhile trying to date without having a social life first? You might not ever be great. But you can be better. Therapy is a process. You need to keep going. And you have to commit to it. I'm miles from where I was, but still have miles to go. Yesterday I had one of those days where everything went wrong. You know those. I didn't handle everything perfectly. But here I am today, and I am OK. Not great. But OK. I wouldn't have been here a few years ago. I would have been a total wreck.	/r/seduction	18/07/22 02:08 AM
18	Is it worthwhile trying to date without having a social life first? Get help first. Go to therapy, it's awesome! If you can afford to date, you can afford therapy. Id you aren't in a good place, you won't find a relationship. Even if you somehow do, it won't be good. Meaningless sex won't actually help either. You have to be in a good place for that too for it to actually be good. Get therapy. It's scary, but so worth it. You can do this. Really, you can. If I can, you can too.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 06:40 PM
4	She is the one who texts me, but it takes hours to answer me. Everyone texts different. Stop reading so much into it. If you want something to happen, make it happen. If you don't, why are you caring?	/r/seduction	16/07/22 06:21 AM
3	In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions? Ask questions! But have a conversation with the answer. Be playful. Don't just keep asking questions.	/r/seduction	15/07/22 05:20 AM
10	5 Exercises Which Boost Your Confidence With Girls The fuck you can't. They are all things directly under your control. You might suck at them at first. Totally ok. Doing it more makes it easier.	/r/seduction	30/05/22 08:30 PM
4	Why do some guys (like me) think that girls will like them if they are NICE? There is also the other side to this. Sometimes guys are way faker with their guy friends. Myself included.	/r/seduction	04/05/22 05:21 PM
3	Men showing emotion Seriously? So we have to always be in perfect control of our emotions and have a solution for everything? That's not real life. That's not showing true emotion.	/r/seduction	13/04/22 06:58 PM
18	Men showing emotion Yep. They want the fairy tale emotions. But real people are messy. Especially guys, it's just hidden. Most women I know are way better off emotionally than the men.	/r/seduction	13/04/22 06:50 PM
2	This girl who I’ve wanted since I was in 8th grade ( she was a senior in high school at the time ) told me her friend wants to have a three some with me. Real talk here. This is what you need to do if you want this to happen. If ever in your life you are going to relax, this is it. You need to go out and have a good time. DON'T THINK OF THE THREESOME EVEN ONCE. Make sure to engage both of them. Don't get too drunk. You want to be in control and smooth. Have a reason to go back to your place. Have food. Have drinks. Have a movie. Something. Make sure your place is neat, clean, and smells good. Let them take the lead. But be available. Be flirty. B…	/r/seduction	24/12/21 02:26 AM
5	What behaviors or habits scream low self-esteem? Not. Real. Friends. Just because they are typical doesn't make them good people. In fact it's pretty much always the opposite.	/r/seduction	06/04/21 08:55 PM
2	What causes you to lose interest in a girl? Tip: A great response to the guy in best buy would have been "I don't know, what are you doing?" This shows interest, but puts it back on him.	/r/seduction	22/01/21 07:25 AM