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You're getting confused by the difference between "she has small breasts but her face is pretty so it's okay" and "I prefer smaller breasts".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:32 PM
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Rating men "average" is the studying parties language, not the women who were participating in the study. "Average" here actually just means that the men weren't to that women's taste. Most women have specific tastes in men and will only find a small percentage to be sexually desirable. You're interpreting their responses in an overly literal way without accounting for the females perception of the meaning of their own ratings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:56 AM
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There is a certain level of humor in this post isn't there? I'm sure a woman would get torn to pieces for saying what some of these men are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:13 AM
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10-15% body fat is low enough to likely not menstruate, do you potentially mean 20% instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:47 AM
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I linked that under a Jordan Peterson video yesterday and the incels hated it. They don't want facts, they just want someone to blame for their failures
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:47 PM
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Wait so...he's claiming women don't want him because he's not experienced enough while actively getting multiple women?? That's...strangely unaware of him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:49 AM
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It is different because one is showing attraction to a person outside of the relationship and the other is being attractive and receiving attraction. However both are equally valid problems within the relationship simply because the action is causing one partner to be uncomfortable. I think people focus too much on "it's different" and comparison of the two rather than looking at the actual problem which is their partner feeling uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:24 AM
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Firstly I never stated that this was my personal opinion, there's no need to down vote me. To answer your question, yes some women want to stay at home and have their partner work and also do housework. They feel that just contributing money isn't enough to support a healthy relationship, and that he should do chores because he would have to do them anyway if she didn't do everything for him. Personally I work the same hours as my partner so we do equally share the housework, it works for both o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:58 PM
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It's not about men's work or education imo. I think most women saying these things are complaining about emotional/household/childcare labor being unequally shared between them and their male partner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:28 PM
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Within a certain rage it's normal and mutually beneficial. However a 50 + year old man dating an 18 - 25 year old girl is going to be uncomfortable for most people and will remain uncomfortable socially. After a certain point the relationship just appears mutually exploitive and forced due to the age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:11 AM
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Women are typically going to be sexually attracted to men only a few years older than them. Men typically are attracted to women in the 18-25 bracket regardless of their own age. Women date older men because younger men have less to offer re finances, emotional maturity, stability etc. Younger men are also less experienced and will do things that are unattractive and drive women away early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:42 AM
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JFL?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:34 AM
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You should go kill some people and attract all the women then xx
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:32 PM
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You can help yourself by having good hygiene and maintaining yourself. Shower daily, maintain your teeth, skin care, gym, clean house, regular haircuts, dress well etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:10 PM
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Okay so why is wanting two different lifestyles and thus being very incompatible a shallow reason to reject someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:50 AM
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You didn't actually answer the question. How is rejecting someone who is incompatible with you because they want a completely different lifestyle shallow? Please actually explain it instead of giving examples of some things that you do and do not find shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:36 AM
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I think if the person had everything else it would still make him perfect with one exception, work. This applies to things like having slightly different political alignments, mental and physical health issues, bad temporary situations etc. Not to a couple having completely opposite goals and wants in life. Please explain to me how rejecting someone because you and them are completely incompatible is shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:08 AM
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And that is absolutely fine. There is nothing wrong with her wanting that. However a partner rejecting her because they do not want a partner like that is also absolutely fine and not superficial at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:58 PM
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a man didn’t want to work, he just wanted to stay at home and cook and clean, doesn’t want kids, and the rest of the day he is happy playing video games So what you list here are core values and wants. This is what defines a person to their partner. This is what defines who they are compatible with. You don’t want to financially support someone. You don’t want the stress or responsibility or have to work extras hours to make enough money for the both of y’all, etc. These are also core values and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:55 PM
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I have to disagree. I do understand and agree that these values are incredibly important to each individual and do define and guide each person internally. However I do not believe that these values will entirely define you from the perspective of a potential partner, nor that they should. I do not believe that someone rejecting a potential partner because they do not work, live at home etc is superficial because your living situation and personal capabilities and ambitious as a person shape you…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:21 PM
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great in every way except lives with their parents so you dismiss them. They are more than their living situation. Yes they absolutely are. However the comment that I was referring to said "makes no money, lives with their parents and such". I may be misinterpreting it but to me this describes a person who is not capable of independence, has little drive and won't be a compatible partner due to their lack of maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:05 PM
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So you think women should date men because they have normal human traits, values...and emotions...? It IS important to be compatible with your partner but being religious, romantic and intelligent only goes so far to initiate attraction. It does not make a relationship nor do these traits actually define who a person fundamentally is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:57 PM
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Needing someone to make money for you to date, sounds like a perfect example of that. Don't twist the discussion. Wanting to date an adult with a job and a place to live independent of parents isn't superficial. What value do you expect women to find in someone incapable of the most basic life responsibilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:36 PM
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not willing to date someone who doesn’t make any money at all, who lives with their parents, and such. To me that is superficial. Do you know what superficial means? What a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:24 PM
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Hey what's the saying about book covers...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:04 AM
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He preys on men who are struggling with being unwanted and makes them dangerous and unappealing to women. He also invalidates men struggling with mental health problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:41 PM
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Unfortunately it seems to be quite common for women to hate having sex with their partners enough to encourage or at least ignore their porn use
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:14 PM
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I have no reason to date a man who I'm not completely attracted to, that includes finances. She does have a reason to date someone that she isn't completely attracted to because of what she stands to gain
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:39 PM
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As I said, I'm not claiming that this couple isn't happy but there are significant motives for her to fake it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:05 AM
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I'm not saying this particular couple isn't happy but you have to remember that these women stand to gain a lot by marrying these men and often glamorize obtaining American men. It's not hard for a woman to fake or force attraction to a man that can dramatically change her life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:41 AM
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Isn't collapse and drastic change just a natural part of social evolution? Which demographic do you assume this benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:54 AM
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What is "an end game"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:56 PM
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Does she also work?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:18 PM
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Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:22 AM
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I would sleep with both of these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:04 PM
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Because we want different things from them. Casual sex and relationships are entirely different. Sometimes we just want to sleep with someone, sometimes we want to take the time to build a relationship. Also you're stereotyping, plenty of women sleep with their dates etc early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:52 PM
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They're manipulative, good in bed, have low standards and put up with bullshit that smarter men won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:19 PM
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You learn some stuff, get some perspective, grow weary of some things, realize life is short and moves fast, but otherwise you're still just you. seen as being on a a higher intellectual and emotional level Wouldn't you agree that you having these experiences gives you a massive intellectual advantage over a women my age that makes the relationship unequal? What is the appeal of a women who cannot yet equal you? Dominance, an ago boost, a kink? Would you not be bored attempting to intellectually…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:39 AM
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As a women in her early twenties I can assure you that women my age are not on the same intellectual or emotional level as a 30-40+ year old man. Furthermore a 34 year old and a 24 year old are in vastly different stages of life to the point that dating is impractical. I'm not infantilising myself I am simply being realistic. Being transgender isn't "sexual behavior" by the way. Gender and sexuality are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:40 AM
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So you see nothing wrong with you being attracted to a 23 year old when you're...mid thirties to forty? You genuinely don't see why that is predatory or impractical?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:08 AM
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So you want to get away with being a creep?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:11 AM
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Are you American?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:10 AM
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Men struggle to find dates while women struggle to find quality dates. Neither side will appreciate the others struggle because women fear for their life during dating and men fear being alone indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:45 PM
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For various different reasons though, porn is the predominant one now imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:55 AM
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But like with all controlling behaviour, he'll get better at lying to you and/or hiding it better. The fact that you believe every man lies to their partners is your own personal problem, don't project it onto my relationship. Absolutely no controlling behaviour detected..🤣 People are free to leave relationships for any or no reason, there is nothing wrong with me leaving a relationship because I don't like my partners behavior. I simply have no interest in dating someone who watches that type o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:22 PM
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So you're fine with porn, as long as you control what he watches Yes I 100% believe that there are ethical sources of porn that minimize the negative effects mainstream online porn can have on its viewers. He controls what he watches, but I can choose not to be with him if I don't agree. Also if he wants to watch porn he can choose not to be with me. Is he okay to control and restrict your sexual behaviour? I'm better not....🤣 That's just having boundaries. Just like I'm not comfortable with him…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:46 PM
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I did say it was a personal opinion based on my personal experiences so... yes that is my conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:37 PM
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Ah, sorry I should have been more specific. I'm specifically talking about modern online porn, especially mainstream stuff as I assumed that's what OP was talking about. I do not believe that couples sharing videos or photos will cause the negative effects that mainstream porn does in terms of harmful stereotypes, exploitation of workers etc. I'm a big fan of being filmed so me and my partner take quite a few videos☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:32 PM
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Some definitely try to! Which is absolutely stupid because there are plenty of girls out there who are fine with porn and they could just date one of those girls. Instead they choose an incompatible partner and waste her time😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:51 AM
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My experiences are shared by the majority of women in my generation and there is clear evidence of men's general sexual incompetence online based on multiple separate studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:35 AM
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Men can't find working clits, they're too incompetent from relying on porn for a sexual education.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:31 AM
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This is my exact experience too! Modern porn is 100% harmful to it's watchers and they rarely ever realize because they don't know what a normal sexual state is and have become relient on and influenced by porn to an unhealthy extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:28 AM
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There's been hookups but most of them reminded me of the men I used to sleep with or off put me in some way and I blocked/unadded them. I've dated three people since then and am in a committed relationship with the third. The first relationship was an ex boyfriend who was a porn addict. Observing his behavior and the way he viewed sex was eye opening to me and while the relationship was extremely toxic and he cheated on me I'm glad I got the chance to learn from it. The second was a fling who I …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:10 PM
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Thank you! It took me a very long time to type it out😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:54 PM
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Thank you! I've been with a few guys now who were very respectful during sex and it's been great but a tad difficult to adjust to. I have some persisting problems with disassociating during sex due to trauma but it's slowly becoming less frequent and I'm considering going to therapy to work on it. I think I probably should have said cultural shift/popularization rather than cultural norm, you're definitely right that most people don't see sex that way. I think I was trying to say that porn, movi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 06:42 AM
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Sorry in advance for trauma dumping and a long comment, it's hard to adequately explain this. I developed sexually extremely early and was watching violent porn as early as 7, mostly out of curiosity. Of course when you grow up watching stuff like that you begin to like it and believe it is normal-ish. So when I started having sex I accepted and enjoyed all types of abuse as I thought it was normal and that a women's place during sex is pleasing her partner by doing whatever they ask, as is ofte…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:38 AM
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There's definitely a difference between healthy porn use and addiction. I'm 100% talking about addiction, your use is totally normal and healthy especially because your wife is okay with it! Porn isn't all bad but it's really bad when someone's sexual education comes from it like a lot of the men in the younger generations that I've encountered!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:58 AM
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Ah, I am one of those women. It's because of porn, trauma and social norms that I enjoy sex like that. I recognize how harmful it can be mentally and potentially physically though so I am trying to unlearn my unhealthy relationship with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:42 AM
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It's harsh but it's their own fault if they date someone they're not attracted to. Same goes for men. I never understood why people date someone they don't actually like it's unbelievably stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:40 AM
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I probably should have worded it better, the pandemic has effected quite a few people in terms of jobs, living situations, mental health etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:50 PM
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We're in the middle of a pandemic, there isn't too many other things to do. Especially if wherever you live is in lockdown. It just means they're watching Netflix
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:20 PM
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From a women's perspective, men who watch porn a lot tend to have unrealistic expectations of sex and poor communication skills during sex. Which obviously leads to them being poor sexual partners but it can also result in them not asking for consent before doing things that have been normalized to them through porn, like slapping or anal. Porn is fine in moderation, but it becomes a problem when men grow up watching porn and rely on it for a sexual education. EDIT: I think OP may not realize th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:43 AM
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You've only been online dating for a month and already get dates? You're doing better than a lot of other men on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:52 AM
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