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GrinAndBareItAll/r/seduction01/02/17 03:17 PM
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This is generally good advice. Couple caveats though, and for credentials I’m a LT in the navy. Reading personal reactions is important for 1 on 1 interactions, which as a leader you should absolutely take the time to do. In a group environment, this is not necessarily the case. I do not know what your command organization is, but I would press you to find the “why” when given guidance or direction from your superior. Sometimes, they will tell you to shut up and color, and that’s unfortunate. Mo…
/r/seduction17/12/19 10:18 PM
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Step 1: actually listen. Shut up and listen. Stop talking, and listen. A lot of people in conversation are just waiting for their turn to speak instead of listening to the conversation. Hell, I take care to NOT do this and it’s still something I find myself doing. If you have a point you want to make, don’t disregard what the other person is saying. Think about what you want to say and how bad you want to say it. Now realize this feeling you currently have may also be felt by the person you are …
/r/seduction17/12/19 09:55 PM
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It’s not up to you, unfortunately. It’s up to the girl to perceive you as clingy or disinterested or charming. She’ll have a perception of you based on all your interactions, but especially the early ones. First impressions are very difficult to break. In my experience, I usually acknowledge the three day rule. “Hey, I know I’m supposed to wait three days but...”
/r/seduction29/08/18 12:23 PM
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Maya Angelou once said “people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” That’s how I interpreted it. Be unforgettable.
/r/seduction04/08/18 07:01 PM
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Respect should be given to all, and taken away when someone proves they don’t deserve it
/r/seduction25/04/18 01:09 PM
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One isn’t changing standard it’s changing judgment of standards. The one that is changing standards isn’t a healthy change.
/r/seduction24/04/18 09:48 PM
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Not necessarily. It could be developing standards or it could be setting an impossibly high bar or losing respect for women.
/r/seduction24/04/18 08:22 PM
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Natural stare of man? Dude, the natural state of man is hunting and gathering. We’re living in cities. We’ve strayed, or at least changed, so there isn’t a natural state anymore. All animals are driven to become obese. There is no control mechanism inside them that tells them “that’s enough”. There is no willpower in lions dietary control. Lions eat all they can until they run out. Lions usually starve half the year. You don’t see obese lions because they don’t exist because, while they are an a…
/r/seduction26/03/18 12:04 PM
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His entire post is garbage. The main issue I take is his statement “humans are meant to be healthy”. First, the word meant implies a drive behind what we’re to do outside of ourselvesYou aren’t meant to be healthy, just as you aren’t meant to be a teacher or an athlete. You can be a teacher, or an athlete, and you can be healthy. No meaning or purpose or drive. Second, if what he meant to say “humans evolved to be healthy” he’s still fucking wrong. Humans evolved to consume energy in whatever fo…
/r/seduction26/03/18 03:12 AM
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That’s a real beta, “I think I sound alpha “response
/r/seduction26/03/18 02:57 AM
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Don’t be fucking boring
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:25 PM
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Give her a massage. I am not sly or discrete about it. I don’t start rubbing her shoulders when she’s had a bad day. It can double as foreplay too, if you do it well
/r/seduction08/03/18 06:55 PM
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PSA: don’t lie. If it’s a one and done thing, say it’s none of her business. If it’s a relationship type thing, either be honest or tell her it’s none of her business. Lying means either you’re ashamed or insecure. The best sex of my life was with a woman who slept with 96 people. Don’t judge others.
/r/seduction06/12/17 05:36 PM
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However much you fucking want. Turning it in to a stupid game is a way to win stupid prizes. If you are busy and she can't come, don't see her. If you are busy and it would be inappropriate for her to come, let her know why. If you are busy and she can make it, but you don't want to spend time with her, why the fuck are you dating her?
/r/seduction03/07/17 07:31 PM
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Shame him publicly. Next time he puts you on the spot, bring up the fact that he's said he's better looking and has smoother game than you, say something along the lines of "yeah, then why do you always try to steal the woman I'm after?"
/r/seduction03/03/17 05:00 PM
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No problem, thanks for the apology. Yeah, that second point was exactly why I was posting here. I was hoping someone in the community went through the same things and pulled himself out.
/r/seduction01/02/17 09:30 PM
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sounds like it. Good for you, keep it up
/r/seduction01/02/17 08:35 PM
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Because he talks shit about the women he sleeps with. He uses words like 'slut' any time he sleeps with one, not to their face of course. I know him. He's my best friend, I see him all the time. I think you my be looking for too much in the situation to justify yourself maybe. Edit I even said based on some of our conversations in the parent, thanks for listening.
/r/seduction01/02/17 08:35 PM
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Thanks, I figured as much. He's insecure with the people closest to him, but he's got a, well, 'persona' is the wrong word, and mask makes it sound deceptive, but something in his head just clicks when meeting new people and he's super confident around them. It's one of the reasons he's still my best friend. If he was that way all the time I don't know if I'd be able to handle him. As it is now, he's a great wing man.
/r/seduction01/02/17 03:56 PM
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He has a ton, he's getting really good at woodworking, and he works out a lot. He just craves social interaction. edit If the "friend" was implying I'm talking about myself, I'm not. He's my best friend.
/r/seduction01/02/17 03:37 PM
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I have had 4 relationships in my life last longer than 6 months. My last broke up with me right before I deployed for 8 months, which I now respect her for instead of cheating on me, and I was crushed. We had been dating for over 3 years, and I was certain I was going to marry her. I hit a slump, and had been out of the game so long I forgot what to do. I'm currently in my 4th and very happy. She's out of my league, and my practice the last year and a half (EDIT: before we started dating) let me…
/r/seduction28/07/16 02:39 AM
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It's a practice makes perfect sort of thing. Don't think of failed relationships as you fucking up. Think of it as a learning experience. Learn more about yourself from each relationship (and by that I mean interpersonal reaction, no matter how serious) you develop. As to a place to start, be friendly and outgoing, and if you are naturally sarcastic (like with female or male friends), do that. At first, you will put the woman who reciprocates interest in you on a pedestal. Over time, you will le…
/r/seduction19/02/16 03:12 AM
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