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| 1 | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.I told you mine, and it is now clear you don't care. You could have said that from the start or ignore me, but you chose to have this pissy back and forth with me. I told you that you made a blanket statement and you where like "SeManTics" AFTER a snarky one liner from you lmao. I even agreed that insecurity can make one an asshole but it's not always the case as you like to state (twice lol) Go date some hot guys that will never cheat on you or whatever, we'll never reach a point of understandi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:50 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.Ugly men that try their best do care, nobody chose how they look. And blanket statements are pretty hurtful. Also why even dump your opinion here when you get pissy when someone wants to discuss it? From your mature reply I take you don't want to talk, so have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.Your point is a blanket statement, simple as. About the semantics part, you could have said "often" or even "in most cases" but you chose "always" twice. Words have meaning, you know? I see your logic and I can see that there is quite a few of those men out there, but to say every ugly man is like this simply isn't true. I won't argue that insecurity can make people into massive assholes but you talk like you yourself pulled the data from 100% of cases where some ugly lonely guy had a girlfriend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 01:21 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.Are saying most of them are the hunchback of notre dame? Not all but for my own experience as a disabled man with not the best of looks, a limping leg is enough to become REALLY undesirable. Like, I can see that most women don't want to associate with me before I even got to talk more than five sentences with them. Same goes for men that don't know how to properly talk to women(no charisma/sex appeal), basically if you show that you're a sperg the game is over. There is no chance to show that yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenI guess this is the sensible take, my little sister used to be really afraid of dating because she invited some absolute moron over who got drunk and made her feel unsafe. That was an overall not so good situation to be in, since my father didn't really notice and I had to handle the potential violence. Thankfully itnwent smooth and I didn't have to fight a guy bigger than me in my own home as a disabled man, I would have done it if needed but the outcome would have been bad probably. Since I am… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenPretty much the same here, when I was younger and everyone was nagging me at 18-20 "When do you have a girlfriend" or "Do you have a girlfriend" and all that I became really depressed. Now at almost 30 I guess the "best" of my life is already over anyways, it's still hard at times to accept that I will most likely die alone. Especially when my parents start talking about grandkids and shit... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 10:36 AM |
| 1 | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.You already said that before, and I said "always" is a hard word. I don't get why your reply is so rude, but if that's your mantra so be it. May you find the most composed populous man there is and be happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 10:29 AM |
| 1 | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.My life lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 09:43 AM |
| 1 | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality."Always" is a really hard word, I have seen the very same but gender swapped logic in incel spaces actually. "A fat woman will always cheat on her bf once she is slim", for example is an evergreen when it comes to dating less attractive women in those spaces. As a man who doesn't get chances at all I would never ever jeopardice the relationship with a woman that has actually given me a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 09:06 AM |
| 1 | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.I think the problem is that this has never been done with a gender swap, the example you take is a rather extreme one. From what I see in my personal life however is that most women have an easier time finding someone to hook up with than most men, so they don't have to wait in line for casual sex. Another possibility is that those men waiting in line have had their brains deep fried by porn, I guess women don't have that as often(?) Correct me if my assumptions are unrealistic, I am a hermit lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:26 AM |
| 1 | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.I have seen this from my personal circles, as soon as some people have a gf the whole effort in being a responsible, grown up man part vanishes and soon after the gf vanishes too. It gives me hope however to hear there are women out there that like chubby dorky guys with tiny dicks lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:13 AM |
| 1 | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.I think this isn't the huge revelation, of course looks don't equal personality. Most bad looking guys however don't get to the point to show their personality at all, at least from my experience. There are other factors like charisma as well, but I don't think the ability to talk good equals a good personality as well. But what do I know, just date what makes you happy. Many people don't know how lucky they are to be in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:06 AM |
| 2 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.As a disabled man I feel this a lot, I am deeply lonely and depressed. But I think that is just what life is in the end, in prehistorical times people like me died early. Now I have to live longer in self-hate and pay taxes lmao No woman wants damaged goods I think, and I can't blame them. The only people to blame are my parents for creating me, worse yet my little sister seems to like me and now I can't even off myself because I don't want to damage her like that. My uncle did that when I was l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have?Antisocial spectrum guy here, I struggle too because I am way too isolated to score. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 01:49 PM |
| 1 | What characteristics would a young beautiful woman need to have in order to struggle with dates and don't be desirable by straight men?muscular tall I would love a tall muscular GF but as a pariah cripple low value male I have better chances of winning the lottery. As for Bad traits in women, I had this date (my most recent date) about a year ago with this ex-druggie chick. I never knew I could get turned off by a woman because I am such a perpetual loser but her shit Tests where fucking insane. She just started smack talking another table at the Restaurant we where in and wanted me to resolve the Situation, constantly making a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Study: Size matters: Men perceived as more masculine if they are taller and heavier, regardless face https://medicalxpress.com/news/2014-11-size-men-masculine-taller-heavier.htmlTell me something new, mate. I see babyfaced tall guys with gfs everywhere, not to Sound like Elliot Rodgers but I mostly exclusively see couples where the guy is like 190cm tall(estimate). It sometimes dampens my mood a bit but I guess good on them I guess, I am just a bitter cunt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 10:53 AM |
| 2 | Men and women of PPD, what are your red flags?Thank you, but why N? (N)umber of sex partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Men and women of PPD, what are your red flags?What's an N exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever turned a woman down for her body count?I Was never in the Situation to turn a woman down in my sad but funny life, if I ever get the chance I guess beggars can't be choosers lol. There are a few women however I wouldn't want a relationship with, not exactly due to their body counts bit their Overall characters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......What is a plate spinner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Why Won’t You Pay For Sex?I hope there are some closeby that offer a GFE service, I better ask the Lady beforehand. Though if the girls closeby don't offer that Service I'll just take a regular Service, as you said, I can still have a good time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Why Won’t You Pay For Sex?27 yo virgin here, most likely visiting a hooker before I turn 28 to finally get it over with. I hope to de-mystify sex for myself and loosen up a bit more/getting used to it for the day wjere some girl shows interest in me maybe. The two sad dates I had in my life where almost as expensive as going to a hooker so whatever, I worry it won't make my life much happier tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 11:07 AM |
| 3 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?University isn't an Option for me sadly, my edication isn't high enough and I would have to do a year of school plus waiting until a new school year starts, so I'd be already 29/30 when I even start studying there. Another problem is that I recently found an amazing and secure employment I really don't wanna jeopardize. Maybe I can find another place to meet someone, your way of doing it Sounds pretty good except the college Part for me, haha. Sad Part is I work in metal/machining industry and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 10:10 AM |
| 3 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?I am trying online dating but so far I don't have any success, I wanted to try a different approach with my next Match but for a week now nobody matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 09:04 AM |
| 2 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?Ouch But most likely true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:52 AM |
| 7 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?27 year old virgin here, I guess I am already weird to most people if I ever told anyone. I guess I am also a naturally weird Person so I guess the virginity doesn't help, mostly it fucks with one's self esteem and self worth. Recently reading some articles about low value males and such ans felt even more crushed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | When will things finally start looking better for men?Average bonobo Fan vs average Gorilla enjoyer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 10:58 AM |
| 2 | ONLINE DATING TRENDS: It turns out that Bumble, the app marketed as 'female-friendly' where only women can message first, has a user base of over 80% men in the UK. In the US, where the app is used by far the most, women are less than 1 in 3 usersColor me surprised lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 08:02 AM |
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