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GrislyGrape/r/seduction22/04/19 11:56 PM
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I just say I'm looking for something long term but I want to take my time getting there. I'd rather have something casual that solidifies over time than rush into something that breaks .
/r/seduction05/07/24 12:36 PM
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Just keep looking for someone who doesn't get bored of you. I think a lot of guys try hard to keep a woman entertained. Don't. Just be yourself and, while you can have fun (with her), invite her on "normal dates". Don't try to one up dates with her, e.g. coffee, drinks, dinner at home, fancy place etc. The other big part is stop trying to find interesting things to talk about. Once you talk with a girl that resonates with you, you will be able to make anything interesting. Building off of that, …
/r/seduction02/07/24 05:51 PM
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Body count is wild to me. Sure, some numbers get ridiculous, but sex count is more appropriate. 6 year relationship > body count of 1. People put too much emphasis on sleeping with a bunch of women. You could sleep with 50 and still last 2 mins and all can be unsatisfied, if anything, a 6 year relationship means she was at least (hopefully) satisfied, more than a lot of ONS can say lol
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:05 PM
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You're not going to like this answer, but just learn how to talk to people. Practice it, and not even for dating. Start with making friends, talking to normal people, classmates, teachers, etc. No girl is going to risk "vibing" with a guy that doesn't want to talk. Talking is easy, get used to it. Reading social cues and picking up women? That's a harder issue and an old one, and there's a reason most guys suck with it. It comes down to intuition and experience, both of which you can work on. Bu…
/r/seduction06/06/24 01:04 AM
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How do you justify this mindset? E.g. you could easily flip it and say they think you're a creep, you made them feel uncomfortable, ruined their day, etc. That's where I'm stuck, obviously, you'll do both, but if the net isn't positive, I'm not sure, morally, I can approach, unless it's obvious. Obviously the problems are that this severely limits my ability to approach + I won't know net (+/-) without actually approaching.
/r/seduction29/05/24 02:38 PM
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I find kidnapping them has a very high success rate of first dates /s
/r/seduction22/04/24 01:53 PM
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What's a "woman"?
/r/seduction12/04/24 03:50 PM
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Just invite them over and when they go to the bathroom sit on your couch naked. Wait for them to make a comment. Either she'll be down or you won't, either way you can let us know if HIMYM/Barney's tip works.
/r/seduction01/04/24 07:04 AM
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What if you want a future with her though ...
/r/seduction01/03/24 05:36 PM
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Found the European
/r/seduction29/02/24 03:30 PM
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"yes there is, read." "Not the scope of this post." Which is it? Lol
/r/seduction29/02/24 02:53 PM
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If you try hard enough, it might work.
/r/seduction24/02/24 06:43 PM
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In that case just have a balanced healthy diet. Cut down/out sugar and carbs and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction17/02/24 01:08 AM
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Forget you're a virgin and remember that even if you fuck up, you're still a virgin so it's not like you were any different from yesterday.
/r/seduction14/02/24 12:36 PM
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I'm 31, moved to a new city, looking to start to settle down. 24 is a cake walk
/r/seduction11/02/24 05:38 PM
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Grope'm, absolutely no way you'd be treated as invisible after that
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:48 PM
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Depends...but in general, no, that's not how it works. That's like saying, use your phone more and you'll be able to increase its capacity. It's a nice worldview, but so is the world.being flat. There's some truth, but all in all it's just wrong.
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:14 PM
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Wrong. First kidnap her then she'll never leave.
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:03 PM
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Also referring to it as the 'human experience' makes it sound...like you're a lizard man trying to fit in 🙂
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:22 AM
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I got 2 three workers, we gotta be constructive here! Go fuck yourself Or How much money?
/r/seduction10/05/22 02:22 PM
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First of all, English. Second of all, your post came off as very...incel-esque, and if that comes through your writing, I can only imagine what you're like irl.
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:36 PM
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Oof, gottem ❤️
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:30 PM
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I can't get the image of you pressing your glasses to your forehead when you said "from my observations..." And I kinda just lost it from there
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:31 PM
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33/2+7 = golden rule 🙃, also 23.5
/r/seduction16/04/22 04:41 PM
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Why can't I be seriously joking?
/r/seduction10/04/22 06:35 AM
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Op could always kidnap her to find out too, in my experience, it's a great way to figure if someone is into you or not.
/r/seduction09/04/22 07:41 PM
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No pressure but I was wondering, and you can say no, if you wanted to, 💯% no pressure, to like maybe sometime hang out, but like if you don't it's totally fine. Is it ok if I give you my number, and it's completely fine of you say no. I promise I won't get upset. Also don't feel obligated to say yes just because I come here often. It's really ok if you say you're not interested, in fact I'd prefer you to say you're not interested instead of feeling like I pressured you to say yes because that's …
/r/seduction09/04/22 07:37 PM
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That's reasonable though... Let's say he slept with 65 women, and approached 850 women. He would then have slept with 1.25 women each week of 1 year. Which means they would've approached. 16.35 women per week. I'm guessing the people you know have that stat over x > 1 year even if not...then talking to 16~ women a week isn't that hard. Literally go to mall or target and you're done in an hour or two. Also 11% from 65 = 590 And 4% from 65 = 1,625 So you're right, it's not right. But, in all hones…
/r/seduction06/04/22 01:59 PM
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I'm confident and my skill is that I have no skills
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:48 PM
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"... you see my gun collection"
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:21 PM
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"I also have a lot of expertise with cuffs, let's grab a drink to talk about it."
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:47 PM
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Hey that's not true at all. People like us ahve a plethora of dating experience. You can see it on my resume and a PPT presentation I have put to together. I list out why I deserve to have women date me, not the other way around. And honestly asking women on a date is super easy and I have no approach anxiety over it. No putting people on pedestals, ever. Lastly I haven't asked anyone on a date since COVID but i know I'm right because of my extensive experience. /s
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:07 PM
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Go into your room, get on your couch, lay down and pose while naked. Works at least 50% of the time
/r/seduction13/12/21 07:21 PM
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You wouldn't understand as an Indian. I mean I'm not indian and don't understand either but I think that's because the point.
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:14 PM
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Debatable, after a long drawn out conversation you'll be so exhausted and desperate for closure you'll do anything for it to be over. Just talk then into the ground
/r/seduction09/03/21 07:23 PM
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Mom and sisters don't count
/r/seduction30/01/21 03:37 PM
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Don't argue with people here. It's like arguing with someone using facts from a picture book.
/r/seduction17/11/20 02:51 PM
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Sex isn't that amazing fam. Honestly the best part is the connection to the other person imo. It's like when you're starving and you see that super greasy burger and it looks amazing and you wolf it down thinking "this is the best thing ever." Then afterwards you see someone else eating it and think "that looks kind of nasty, wtf did I just eat?" Sex is the same way tbh. Try not to hype it up so much. It's not this magical journey that you'll evolve from when you have sex for the first time. It'…
/r/seduction17/11/20 02:48 PM
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Buy if it helps you get there... True I could walk 30 minutes to the store to get food, or I could just drive and be there on 5 minutes. Am I wrong to use a car?
/r/seduction17/11/20 02:44 PM
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Like dodgeballs, you catch them.
/r/seduction30/08/20 07:34 PM
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Or don't use tinder right now and focus on yourself cuz ya know the pandemic
/r/seduction29/04/20 10:29 PM
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I love this book, I'm on chapter 3
/r/seduction07/10/19 04:10 PM
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Bad math. Change for us is typically more linear not exponential.
/r/seduction25/09/19 01:39 PM
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Nice
/r/seduction25/09/19 01:38 PM
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You can't be boring on dates if you don't go on them. Checkmate Athiests
/r/seduction16/07/19 05:15 AM
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"I like big butts and I cannot lie."
/r/seduction11/07/19 05:13 PM
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My favorite thing to do is ask the person I'm texting how I should best answer the question. They find it really mature and attractive. It shows that you're willing to communicate!
/r/seduction09/07/19 09:19 PM
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Go here: /R/tinder
/r/seduction05/06/19 03:35 PM
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To get over conditioning, you need to perform actions contrary to your conditioning. There's no quick fix here, just get out and start un-conditioning yourself.
/r/seduction01/06/19 09:58 PM
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Sure
/r/seduction20/05/19 07:04 PM
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So a few things I like to do is to start with a basic intro. Compliment something she's wearing or a mannerism you've noticed. Some light teasing is perfectly fine just don't make her feel bad - insta turn off for most. A great way to keep conversation light, yet engaging is to point out an observation then bridge it. Examples: This is the 5th country song I've heard play so far, honestly, it's my least favorite genre. I mean, while I'm not opposed to spending time outside, drinking, or having s…
/r/seduction20/05/19 06:20 PM
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Why would you want a conversation in a bar/club last for "hours"?
/r/seduction20/05/19 05:35 PM
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You don't try. You don't calculate it. Silence is ok. Go with the flow.
/r/seduction20/05/19 04:12 PM
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In today's news, the most important part of living...is to live!
/r/seduction26/04/19 04:48 PM
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Talk to other women?
/r/seduction26/04/19 02:08 PM
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I feel like this comment is going to blow up.
/r/seduction23/04/19 08:01 PM
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Right, I was planning on it if she did it next time I got my hair cut. If it works out, great, if not, oh well. Also so I'm a tad nervous because it's a place I usually go to. "Don't shit where you eat." Though my other thought was that there's no harm in asking... Set me straight 🙂
/r/seduction23/04/19 04:00 PM
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That's what I was leaning towards 🙂
/r/seduction23/04/19 12:42 AM
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Lol, I thought it was on point!
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:46 PM
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I was being sarcastic lol
/r/seduction03/04/19 05:43 PM
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That was quick. But in all honesty, he has potential he just mixed up the order. Approach Impress Exchange numbers (definitely get a girl's number without her giving it, they appreciate it because it shows how driven you are to meet them) Ask/confirm on/the date (respectively) He just mixed up the order, he wanted to: 3, 4, 2, 1
/r/seduction03/04/19 04:27 PM
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I tried dating a girl that would text me and we'd hit talk a lot, but every date I'd plan she'd just no show. I'd ask her after and she said she got super anxious. I ended whatever we had. It's not worth it. Either she'll make an effort, or she won't and it's looking like she's not. If you really want to try something, then simply don't plan anything. Lastly, she has a shit ton of issues she should work out. If you do get in a relationship, she'll still have a shit ton of issues that she'll need…
/r/seduction31/03/19 07:16 PM
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Well it's not rocket science. You don't need to be smart to do it.
/r/seduction02/03/19 07:32 PM
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Ah yes, the ultimate friendzone killer guide, well first you have to have friends, checkmate athiests Edit: can't grammar and can't splel
/r/seduction02/03/19 02:31 PM
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I mean, I disagree because you just made a bunch of bullet points...but you do you
/r/seduction12/02/19 06:10 AM
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"You Either Die A Hero, Or You Live Long Enough To See Yourself Become The Villain"
/r/seduction12/02/19 06:09 AM
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So, what would you do, if say a guy goes on a date with a girl. 1st date goes well, and he lands a second date. He holds hands and then kisses at the end of said date. She says she doesn't want date 3 because it was too intimate. She says kissing was fine, but the holding hands and touching her back and arms while laughing together was too intimate and all that physical stuff is how she is intimate. But to her, sex and kissing is just stuff you do. How the fuck, is this hypothetical guy supposed…
/r/seduction12/02/19 06:07 AM
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Also should be noted that it helps guys to understand that what they perceive as a 10 isnl subjective to them and that the girl might only think they're a 6 or a 7. Hell you might think the most beautiful girl in the world is a 1. it's all subjective, so, just treat all girls like you're worthy of them and not like they're as beautiful as you think they could be and have fun.
/r/seduction24/11/18 03:58 PM
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COFFEE (tea is better but w/e)
/r/seduction30/07/18 07:23 PM
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Go with the flow. I put my gf on a pedestal, but she's a bit special I guess. I would stop with meals for 1st dates. 1) It gets costly, especially if you're in college/new grad. 2) It's hard to leave/bad etiquette to leave part-way through a meal. 3) Best scenario I've ever had? Current relationship. Invited her to a coffee shop (Caribou) for a coffee/tea. That way it's super informal, and it's cheap as hell, even if you do end up buying the other person a drink! And even better, if you do hit t…
/r/seduction30/07/18 07:22 PM
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I would just say you need to use the bathroom, then get up and find the waitress and pay the bill. Preempt this entire scenario. From here, you guy can start a game where each person finds a way to pay the bill before the other person. Then eventually you stop trying, and she just pays every time.
/r/seduction30/07/18 07:13 PM
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Who hurt you?
/r/seduction30/07/18 07:12 PM
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WELL IF SHE SAID LET'S SPLIT, then you split it ya goof.
/r/seduction30/07/18 07:11 PM
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Exactly, and to see how much she likes you, either have her take you to a really expensive place like $50+ / plate or somewhere like McDonalds.
/r/seduction30/07/18 07:11 PM
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First thing first, Go outside. Try a walk, or, if you have a dog bring them to a local brewery that's dog friendly. I don't like beer, but everyone else does apparently. And 2 things that women/men love? Beer & Dogs, especially single owners of dogs that by which enjoy beer. Second thing is to talk to a girl, start with small stuff. Now, normally with public speaking I'd recommend to picture your audience naked. I wouldn't really recommend this on a date or talking to a girl you find attractive …
/r/seduction30/07/18 04:10 PM
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Nah bro. Clearly you've never heard of GrislyGrape's new best time seller: "Instant Marriage" See all you do is talk to a woman and get her to meet you at a courthouse, then you bring out a contract and say hey, I've got this ring here And it's for free, you just need to sign this waiver/contract stating that I can,in no way, charge you for this ring and it will be all yours. When the girl signs it, the BOOM. YOU'RE MARRIED. Congratulations
/r/seduction28/07/18 02:04 PM
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Why waste years trying to find the right person when you can just choose them?
/r/seduction25/07/18 04:16 PM
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It's that simple. And it's easy if you follow these 4 steps: 1) talk to the girl of your dreams 2) invite her to a courthouse telling her you need her there for support 3) gift her a ring with no strings attached 4) ask for a favor, all you need is her supporting signature on a document Congratulations on your marriage!!! Buy the book for a more in-depth explanation with better technique's.
/r/seduction25/07/18 04:12 PM
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Cant seem to land that 2nd date? Having troubles trying to buy a house? Are you lonely? Are all of your friends married? Well, have I got news for you! Hot off the press: Speed Marriage An original concept by GrislyGrape
/r/seduction25/07/18 04:06 PM
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What's wrong with pornhub?! And instead of being generic like "your smile is really nice" say instead: "your ring finger is just so slender And delicate that I bet I could fit a ring on it." Make sure to pull a ring out and try and put it on her. If she accepts, then take her to a courthouse to get married. Gotta seal the deal quick.
/r/seduction25/07/18 03:27 PM
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So like: "You're not most unattractive girl I've ever seen." Did I do it right?
/r/seduction25/07/18 03:08 PM
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Don't ask. If you don't know her schedule and you think she has normal working hours either say how about we grab some coffee at x time after work or at x time during the weekend. If she says yes, then say something like "Awesome, here's my number, text me so we can work out logistics, I live in..."
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:20 PM
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That's what the coffee is for
/r/seduction02/07/18 07:50 PM
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