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It takes time but trust me, you will be happier months down the road
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/21 10:36 PM
4

Remember, women normally want the opposite… treat them borderline ok and you will be ok
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/21 11:09 PM
4

I think the problem is that this is still fairly early for you to be committing again. 1.5 years between 20 years of marriage is nothing. You may be moving a touch fast... just an outsiders view. Make sure you are healthy first
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/21 03:28 AM
3

Yeah, I’m sorry to hear man. It sounds like she was unhappy for awhile. You will be happier in the end for this. It kind sounds like she dicked you around. I would cut all communication.. asking to be friends is a joke, Dont give her that
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/21 09:05 PM
2

It’s Time to leave, it seems like you have alot of built up resentment, and that won’t change. It will be tough for a bit but you will be much happier in the end
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/21 06:49 PM
7

I second this. Life is short, you need to start taking care of yourself now.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/21 06:47 PM
1

I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:16 AM
1

Lol No wonder they roll their eyes
/r/seduction24/11/20 02:37 AM
13

Everything has a price.. thats why we “Pay attention”
/r/seduction23/11/20 03:08 AM
7

Yeah, nothing is free anymore
/r/seduction23/11/20 03:06 AM
1

I always attract women with Daddy issues smh. I’ve had to give things a break and reset.
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:03 PM
0

As a woman you can have a successful career while having kids as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:47 AM
1

I’m more into the 50/50 mindset. If were both ambitious and goal orientated things will naturally fall into place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 08:49 PM
1

If you’re not a great talker, be a good listener. Repeat a few important details, encourage her to talk more. Build off the interaction, then progress it without taking all night
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 04:55 AM
2

Men and women have to test each other equally to make sure each party isn’t into each other for the wrong reasons. As a man workout, eat right but don’t get too huge... you want to look like you have a life as well.
/r/seduction26/10/20 02:10 AM
3

Its a shit test to gauge your reaction
/r/seduction11/10/20 05:04 PM
1

Women love stories with some to lots of emotion.... mix some fiction with some non fiction. When she starts talking encourage her to talk more by adding on a few questions. Add some slow touching. Its tough too navigate for sure. Edit: i’ll practice the story telling on a woman friend tonight and get back here.
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:09 PM
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Some Women I know who look great but have resting bitch face complain to me that guys never seem interested in them lol... i was like yeah, smiling is huge for women, send that invite
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:30 PM
-5

Its definitely not fake. Sure some things are generalized, however the women I have dated that were Libras were shockingly similar. Dont be so Naive.
/r/seduction02/10/20 01:37 PM
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Why? Just first hand examples
/r/seduction02/10/20 09:44 AM
-3

Yeah working out/ being fit matters, believe me. Yes, less than average or average guys will get some girls but being in great shape clearly gives you an advantage. For example Libra women like men who have muscles.
/r/seduction02/10/20 08:32 AM
3

From what i have noticed over the years, alot of women feel much more insecure than men do.
/r/seduction29/09/20 05:47 PM
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This is why i’ve decided to be picky as well. Turn yourself into high value material by chasing dreams and crushing your goals!
/r/seduction29/09/20 04:33 AM
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I found the Social circle the easiest. Should be for most as well Edit: between the age of 20-35 i have found the Social circle to be easier.
/r/seduction28/09/20 05:46 PM
1

Yeah, i prefer a woman to atleast give me the signals or initiate sometimes. I guess it depends what kind of a guy he is. If hes having lots of sex then it gets a bit repetitive unless theres an emotional connection( my opinion)... don’t be crazy aggressive either, if he knows you’re easy he will treat you accordingly no matter if its just a hookup or relationship. Make him put some effort in or cut him off
/r/seduction22/09/20 12:31 AM
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IMO As a whole, women are not equipped to deal with rejection as well as men are. Lots of men look for validation, most women look for validation. So yeah, i would agree with the OP here, its nice that we as men can communicate with women that we like much easier by just putting yourself out their more. Overall both have their pros and Cons.
/r/seduction18/09/20 08:21 PM
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Lol, its a mindset. I’m not raining on anyones parade... its called reality
/r/seduction15/09/20 04:12 AM
2

Well, naturally theres less high Value men, it makes sense. Women are programmed to want strong men... but not all men are initially programmed to be strong. Some take years to develop, and some take alot longer
/r/seduction14/09/20 08:34 AM
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Lol we will be wearing masks forever... buckle up
/r/seduction12/09/20 10:38 PM
1

I’ll be honest here, #1 is fairly correct, #2 is incorrect so long as you are with a strong male, and you respect him... he will take care of you emotionally and physically. #3 both men and women’s eyes wander, its human nature. #4 i think all men feel a little insecure at some point as we know women receive alot of attention... but non of this really matters if you’re doing your job as a man by keeping your woman emotionally and physically safe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 05:28 PM
4

Same here. Finally realizing it.
/r/seduction06/09/20 11:15 PM
1

The train of tough derails when I smoke weed, or consume gummies.
/r/seduction06/09/20 02:52 PM
1

Treat her right now as if you don’t care what happens, and don’t thank her for anything again until she earns your respect back
/r/seduction19/08/20 06:57 PM
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Not as friends man... this means shes bored Right now and wants to keep her options open. Tell her how its going to go! If she dosnt like it, go no contact again and see how she responds. You need to gain the upper hand
/r/seduction19/08/20 06:55 PM
2

You straight up turned her off.. hit the reset and reattract her. There has to be some time in between though. I would give it 2 months dissapear
/r/seduction19/08/20 03:20 PM
2

You’re not supposed to text women too much. Phone her, make plans. Do everything in person
/r/seduction17/08/20 10:21 PM
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Thats what i meant, i just worded it wrong.
/r/seduction13/08/20 11:47 PM
1

Yeah exactly lol, i actually stressed the seduction point a few weeks back. Being fully in your masculine and making sure you do it right in the bedroom, will most likely always have your woman by your side, i stress the (first impressions in the bedroom alot) women remember
/r/seduction13/08/20 11:12 PM
1

Ahh your situation in life definitely matters. You can turn a woman on thats great and all but long term your baggage will probably be too much. A woman with high status ie( a solid career) who looks decent and knows how to take care of herself will look for a man of similar qualities( a man with a career, drive and goals) she wont settle for less if she dosn’t have too. Turning her on emotionally will get your foot in the door for awhile but its only a matter of time before the other stuff beco…
/r/seduction13/08/20 10:06 PM
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This shit only works on gullible young women. Women with status will send you to the depths of a deep freeze with this approach
/r/seduction13/08/20 01:25 PM
1

Women loves stories made up or not lol , so have one ready. Talk about Life outside of earth, just have sone wild stuff to talk about at times. Ask her questions about the subject shes on
/r/seduction12/08/20 08:50 AM
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You need to reset your mindset. Be happy, talk about your goals and where you are going, subconsciously let her know that you are the prize
/r/seduction12/08/20 08:46 AM
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I’ve worked out alot and people watched a fair bit and I have done this a few times.... women without headphones on were receptive... do not bother with women that have headphones in... i tried it once, and it was awkward, I had a brain freeze while interacting and it was very embarrassing... also if a woman gives you the eyes like shes interested, don’t fck around, go for the approach, trust me the window is normally short with these situations. Women put themselves out there by signaling their…
/r/seduction12/08/20 04:20 AM
1

I love this place, when you think somethings borderline, just log into reddit and your morale shall be boosted
/r/seduction12/08/20 04:12 AM
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He eats her out after driving for an hour... lmao jebus
/r/seduction12/08/20 03:45 AM
2

Seriously though
/r/seduction10/08/20 03:45 AM
2

And I cannot lie!
/r/seduction10/08/20 12:31 AM
2

Practice, sir. Talk to them as if nothing is going to happen anyways, hold a relaxed vibe.
/r/seduction09/08/20 07:04 PM
3

Women inherently want the strongest men emotionally and Physically... so its huge
/r/seduction08/08/20 01:10 AM
2

Lol
/r/seduction19/07/20 09:14 AM
1

It sucks, we used to talk alot, she became a bit distant after about 2 months. I realized that unless you naturally escalate things that maintaining such a relationship is alot of work
/r/seduction15/07/20 10:08 AM
1

Yeah i struggle with this a bit too. A may need to just back off overall and try to reignite things when im close to traveling, its tough
/r/seduction15/07/20 10:05 AM
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Yeah, i went down this road 1 month pre-covid, with the plans of visiting. I send a message every 7 days ish just to see how her week has been ect. So frustrating, is that too often?
/r/seduction15/07/20 03:08 AM
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I understand most of this for people who live generally close to each other, it makes sense. How do we go about getting to know someone long distance, without ruining it?
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:59 PM
3

If you’re going to approach women, you have to give off the vibe like you don’t care. Women can sense you from a ways away. Your approach seems too desperate imo
/r/seduction13/07/20 04:32 PM
1

Women look for the strongest Male, so either they spot you, or they wait for you to approach them, and shit test you. Alot of guys can fake strength so I think most women just wait to see if you have the balls
/r/seduction11/07/20 06:24 PM
6

A second after they look away, you look away with a smile. They will look back
/r/seduction09/07/20 11:59 PM
0

Assume shes already yours and promptly take her back... that or send her to the streets and deal with the other 3 women that want your attention
/r/seduction08/07/20 07:00 PM
1

Haha its all good man.
/r/seduction08/07/20 11:57 AM
1

It is when you lay the pipe so well that they never should have doubted you in the first place lol
/r/seduction07/07/20 08:16 PM
6

Never try to convince a woman to meet up with you. See yourself as the prize. Good job on the dates though.
/r/seduction07/07/20 05:12 PM
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At the end of a warm shower i turn the shower to pure cold water and run it on my face for 20-30 seconds. After i dry off i use an organic moisturizer with a bit of UV protection. I repeat the process before bed. I drink lots of lemon and water, i take omegas as well.
/r/seduction04/07/20 06:40 PM
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Yep, pretty much this. Shoulders back chest out, scan the room making eye contact. Taking care of your skin is a huge one and a proper haircut as well. Treat all women the same
/r/seduction04/07/20 10:51 AM
4

Yeah, thanks. Might be awhile of playing it cool.
/r/seduction03/07/20 12:51 AM
5

Yeah, i agree. I’m just trying to build on the friendship for now, and see if it organically escalates. Shes from Norway, I’m from Canada so this Covid has really put a stall on this. I think i have no choice but to take it really slow here
/r/seduction03/07/20 12:43 AM
6

Yeah thats what i was thinking, need to plan this out so things don’t go stale
/r/seduction03/07/20 12:32 AM
17

What if its long distance, should i just text once a week until i visit?
/r/seduction03/07/20 12:27 AM
35

He’s not a simp if he completely moved on then she contacted him later. Maybe some other women didnt workout for him along the way? Timing is a legit thing.
/r/seduction30/06/20 08:03 PM
5

Not entirely true... for example Covid probably screwed alot of relationships up (long distance) unfortunately all you can do is back off for a bit do your thing with whoever then try to reconnect when this shit storm subsides...
/r/seduction30/06/20 08:00 PM
1

Your job or lack there of would only signal insecurity on your end which would in turn portray you as somewhat weak and may lead to a rejection. A nice haircut clean skin and fitted clothes will get you noticed... shake out the nerves and just do it... if you over think it you will freeze. I had a woman that was eyeing me up hard, i approached her, but then fell into an epic brain freeze and it was all over from there lol learning experience for sure. Be confident be direct
/r/seduction23/06/20 03:42 AM
1

She gave you a maybe, which means you arnt being strong enough. Up your game
/r/seduction19/06/20 03:13 AM
1

Lol and She drives him around because he dosn’t have a license yet..
/r/seduction11/06/20 10:12 AM
3

If you’re funny and tease a bit you will weed out most of the guys right off the bat.
/r/seduction11/06/20 04:57 AM
1

I know the feeling of nerves, it gets a bit easier every time you try. I recommend you try picking something that you like about her first, develop just a little dialogue, then seal the deal. Takes practice for sure.
/r/seduction11/06/20 04:54 AM
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