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Gross_Guy/r/seduction16/06/15 04:18 AM
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Because dating is fucking difficult. And flitering through the ocean of women in front of us is tideous. Sometimes you really don't give a fuck trying to be all cool and composed and above the rim and just take a fatty out to mckies.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 03:46 AM
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Fucking pathetic, dump that trash and DIP
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 01:07 AM
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Holy shit. Well worth the read. If I may, allow me to do a short Tl;Dr. Not out of spite or sarcasm just to spur interest in this solid post, seriously. Tl;Dr: Op had a friend like a brother who was dying of cancer and learned the true nature of women through this when she cheated on OP'S friend 2 weeks into him going to the hospital for treatment... what a sad and provoking story.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 07:44 AM
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The fucked thing is, 6 of those were random one night stands out of desperation. After I got bored of that I just stopped having sex and focused on myself. I haven't fucked in 447 days as of today. At first I was dying for sex and it's all I thought about. I've been working on myself and I get compliments about my appearance now as well which feels great. I'm just sort of observing the scene and all I see is whores and weak men.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 09:17 PM
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Exactly. I've only had 9 and I'm 27. Not bad looking and in shape and everything. But everywhere I see is just sluts and women that have fucked and fucked and fucked. It's fucking insane.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 09:10 PM
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I'm 27 and I've been with 9 girls. Starting to think I'm the crazy one.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 09:08 PM
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The Matrix is iconic. Gooooo fuck yourself.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 10:01 AM
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You don't have to go to the bar every night. I don't, I hate bars. But I DO workout a bit and just try and keep myself busy and pretend to go out and it works
/r/seduction03/12/16 08:54 AM
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Hey, if it works for you. Do it. I was sick of being alone too. It's awful and it really sucks when no one wants you around. You just have to better yourself. There's no other choice. If you don't women won't care about you and if this is the way you do it then do it. Just be damn good at it
/r/seduction03/12/16 08:18 AM
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It's not like that. You just have to work on yourself. You decide how much longer you want to spend coming home sitting on the computer bored and feeling like shit or lonely or you get up and do something about it. Exercise more even in small increments per week and build yourself. Save your money and use it wisely. Even going outside more just to explore your surroundings or hike or something. All of this sounds super interesting to women and they like it
/r/seduction03/12/16 08:15 AM
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Yeah. Best thing to do when you get a girl is to keep doing you. Obviously treat her well and stuff but always keep yourself as the focus, always. Keep working out, going out to places and saving money. Once you show you're active and do a ton of stuff they'll be even more drawn to you
/r/seduction03/12/16 08:12 AM
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I just turned 27. Same goals, n count of 9. Money, self improvement and fucking bitches without getting tied down... that's life right now haha. But yeah no fuck dating and settling
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 02:26 PM
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It's so messed up but a literal conversation started up from a girl liking a facebook comment. I PM her, talk about her work and desserts and Ceviche and suddenly I'm taking this literal 8.5/10 hottie out for dessert later this week. Hollaaaa!!! It feels really good and it's a great confidence booster
/r/seduction28/11/16 09:20 AM
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I swear I'm like the only guy alive that likes texting. I grew up with msn messenger and texting is fucking awesome. I like texting my thoughts out and writing them down. But everywhere I look I see people saying: "don't text so much, text less, text less than she does etc etc" wish I could find a girl that was down to text just as much as me.
/r/seduction25/11/16 08:13 AM
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But it's SO fucking hard to approach within that short timeframe. Like shit man I don't want to be rejected and feel like shit afterwards you know?
/r/seduction24/11/16 10:29 AM
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Yeah his wife definitely takes dick in her asshole and then sucks it right after while letting the new cock for that week record it. Fucking hell
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 08:19 AM
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Incredibly and I mean INCREDIBLY hard to find.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 10:22 AM
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Yeah it's a look like that. She knew what she was doing was fucked. I had my suspicions but looking at her phone confirmed it for me and it all went to shit after that. It's affected how I trust and view women. I see everyone differently now, and I'm now more reserved than ever before, but whatever, better than being played like a fucking idiot
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:53 PM
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Yeah bro it's incredibly shitty but it's life and I learned my lesson early before marriage and all that horse shit thankfully
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:41 PM
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I was with my ex for years. She got up to go the bathroom one day, and I check her phone. 8 guys with texts waiting. Are you fucking kidding me? Turns out she was sleeping behind my back with several guys. Still wanted me in the picture, but wanted other dick too. And I said fuck that. She had this look too... it was right around after we stopped having sex for a while... like she was sad and knew she was doing bad things, sort of like looking at the floor and frowning. We had a minor fight over…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:44 AM
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A LOT of women do it. But men do fucked up shit too. Far from whining, more of an observation. Personally I've taken a few steps back from the dating scene and have been working on myself. Way less stress and feels great not having to deal with all the emotion and bs that comes with trying to smash that triangle through the circle shape
/r/seduction12/11/16 12:06 PM
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How the fuck am I a whiney cunt? I'm saying I understand how women can fuck with you on purpose since they're so indecisve. It's up to the man to have an unwavering backbone and mental fortitude to put up with it. If anything what I propose is the exact opposite of being a "whiney cunt" what the fuck.
/r/seduction12/11/16 06:01 AM
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You don't understand how many relationships degenerate into this. I experienced it myself too. For the first few years everything was good and then it became sort of like how op wrote it here. Mainly because she made me so happy that I made her my main point of focus. Biggest mistake ever. Once women have you and they know they have you, they don't give a fuck about you. They will make your life an annoying hell until you bend to their will. I think the best thing to do in a relationship is to h…
/r/seduction10/11/16 06:31 PM
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He should just post the convo and text skills guide!!!!
/r/seduction10/11/16 06:27 PM
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Exactly. All girls want to fuck, no matter how much they say no, now matter how reserved or how much "they don't do that" chances are they do and they're horny and they want it. They want stiff hard cock stuffed in their holes... sex! They won't tell you they want it and they won't be forward about it. You sort of just have to go for it and try and make it yours, it's fucked. I really wish women would just be fucking upfront and admit they want their pussies eaten and annihilated, or that they w…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 08:03 AM
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Not so easy is it? So much pressure is put on the guy. He needs to lead, direct and demand what he wants but not in a boorish manner. On top of that be funny and interesting, captivating and leave residual interest wanting more. I'm fucking tired of it, going back to the mountain, pussy ain't worth it.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 05:56 AM
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I'm 26 and haven't had sex in 10 months. After about the 4th or 5th month I just stopped caring. The pursuit of money, improving my body and stuff that I want more is appealing to me anyway. Plus I don't have to deal with the fucking emotions that come with being with someone and dealing with them. Fuck that shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 07:45 AM
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Call it.
/r/seduction29/07/16 07:10 PM
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That's actually smart. Have him accompany her and have a breakdown of the costs for himself
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 02:28 PM
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I'd fucking laugh in her face as I walked away.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 02:27 PM
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Guess I should think of her as a spider. And I was just caught in her Web of bullshit for a time. I'm free now and with a new mindset. I need to be the spider with options, not the option getting fed upon without reciprocation or accountability
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:14 AM
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I found this out personally trust me. I feel so much better about how I approach women and myself. I've learned to not take it too seriously and invest nothing. Even if she seems "worthwhile" or "different" invest even less, because any and all women will stop caring about you at the drop of a pin when either a new guy comes along or they get too comfortable with you. I get it for real
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 05:17 PM
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It's funny because she even ASKED me to blow loads on her face before. Now I couldn't even get her to respond to a message if I did send her one. Shit's fucked. Definitely don't catch feelings and only ever enter with the intention for sex and that's it. It's like a bear trap, just don't do it
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 05:14 PM
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Dated a single mom for a bit and held frame for the first while. Holy shit did she put out. The nastiest, most dumbest shit, this girl was down for... it was awesome. Then caught the feels and it went to shit. Complete reversal of behaviour. Fear of them not having you keeps them in line, once they have you and they know they have you, they don't give a fuck about you.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 02:34 PM
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You're not arrogant at all, you're completely right! Enough of this second chance bullshit. If a woman treats you like shit and is disrespectful then fucking stop talking to her and move on immediately. Don't humor or out up with ANY of that bullshit or you're signing yourself up to be played for a fool.
/r/seduction25/06/16 10:32 AM
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EXACTLY!!!!!
/r/seduction25/06/16 10:31 AM
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Exactly. Don't put up with ANY shit. I've started doing that as well and I can't believe how good it feels whereas before I was always down or felt shitty because I tried to make it work or I gave them another chance or whatever. Fuck that stupid shit. Not worth it BYE.
/r/seduction25/06/16 10:29 AM
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This isn't getting enough attention. I can't stress enough how important it is to not be deluded by your eyes or surface feelings. If she's being a bitch or treating you not right or playing games fucking dump her. Dump her immediately don't hesitate don't feel bad about it just dump her. If she doesn't respect you or care about you enough to treat you well then leave her ass in the dust. Don't settle or become complacent just do it.
/r/seduction25/06/16 10:28 AM
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Yeah same here. I used to have all these girls around me and knew exactly what to say. Now I just come off awkward
/r/seduction13/06/16 07:59 AM
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For real though, and his excuse was. "I was busy and a bit lazy". Fucking wow.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 01:56 PM
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I'd definitely get a test to make sure. Your poor daughter and son(?) I hope she doesn't poison their minds against you
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 12:29 PM
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Worth the fucking read. This was brutal but it's good to see you're making the changes you need to become the best man you can be. Don't let her fucking get away with it. Fight tooth and nail for your kids and everything else that is yours in this. Also find a way to use that planning evidence. Hire a computer cleaning guy and say they found it while backing up your stuff. Asking if you wanted to save any files before wiping your system. It's legit, and at the same time you don't breach the AVO …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 12:27 PM
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After feeling the pain of losing love, multiple rejections, and Friday/Saturday nights alone driving around with nowhere to go culminating in obligatory jerk off sessions at 3 am I decided I had enough. The key to not caring is to figure out your baseline. How much emotional punishment and loneliness can you withstand before enough is enough and you just don't fucking care anymore. I used to be a very sentimental and emotionally attached guy. I learned that for me personally that's not the way t…
/r/seduction01/06/16 12:28 AM
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I experienced a relationship where this really hits me. My girl and I were happy we were in love and I had my shit together. But I got too comfortable, too lax. She shit all over me knowingly. That's what really fucking gets me. She knowingly was such an evil bitch to me and knew just how to personally destroy me. It took time and isolation but I'm coming back now. I've been maintaining my weight, working out and bettering myself constantly. I didn't let it crush me or get fat and complacent fro…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 04:51 AM
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You really think every single rich person isn't evading taxes and stockpiling wealth? Wake the fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 07:18 PM
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All this reading and thinking and bullshit associated with women... it's so complicated and annoying. I'm just going to be a hermit in a forest on a mountain somewhere and live my life happily alone.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 02:46 AM
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Lmao exactly
/r/seduction05/04/16 07:14 AM
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I have a very unique way of jacking off. I use the tips of my fingers to strike it like I'm playing a recorder or flute. It still keeps sensation at maximum while getting me off
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 10:36 PM
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Online dating isn't a fail. I get messages from girls on there maybe like 4-5 messages a week. Sometimes numbers if I can escalate properly. Some hot girls are online. There are also a ton of like 6's that are chubby and trying to compensate as well. Need to steer clear of those. Online dating is 50/50 kind of. There's like a certain way you have to approach it
/r/seduction02/03/16 06:39 PM
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That's actually amazing advice, I'll try it
/r/seduction20/02/16 01:30 AM
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How do you get a girl to just agree to go out after like 10 minutes of talking online though?
/r/seduction20/02/16 01:00 AM
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It feels nice and helps me relax... but Cyco pretty much sums it up there. Moderation is key. I don't do like huge bong rips or fat blunts on the regular. (I mean, those are fantastic and all) but Just a small, controlled amount. Helps me feel nice and smooth. If you do it in controlled moderated amounts weed can be infinitely pleasurable. And you can take it via edibles too which are pretty good in the right doses. I do sophisticated or mundane tasks (depending on what I need to do) all while h…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 08:52 PM
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Yeah that's true, it affects different people in different ways... a bunch of my friends and my ex smoked it daily so that habit stuck with me. I didn't let it consume me though, you still need to do shit for life and be a productive member of society and shit... just smoke some banga to relax in the evening ;). A lot of it is mental too, it's easy to become dependant on it, I understand that as well. Quitting is always hard in the beginning before you get accustomed to the changes physically an…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:55 PM
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Nope I feel fine. The key to getting over the groggy feeling is to push through it. If I feel myself slowing down or feeling laggy then I pick myself up and exercise or at least do low intensity exercise to get myself moving. You have to constantly subconsciously fight against the absent mindedness by keeping yourself preoccupied mentally. I find reading, photography and continuous life planning help me with that
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:53 PM
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Weed doesn't make me paranoid, docile or weak. I don't spend a lot of money on it and I still lift 3-4 times a week plus regularly exercise. Don't drink at all either, but weed isn't the detriment that you think it is.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 11:08 AM
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Okay guys, I just started talking to a really pretty girl online last night. She was receptive to me but I asked her for her number too soon. She even said that... but she did say that she wants to talk to me after she's done work tomorrow, what do I do? She did also say she thinks I'm sexy so my self esteem is through the roof atm given that this girl is easily a 9-10. I just don't want to seemingly fuck it up anymore than I may have?
/r/seduction28/01/16 10:08 AM
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Yeah man, you never know... girls can be down for anything at anytime regardless of age. All you have to do is bite the bullet and just say hi and then talk to them after. Saying hi is really hard but if you can do it and get a conversation or number exchange out of it then fuck it's a good day
/r/seduction06/07/15 04:45 AM
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I don't think there's any real "perfect match" out there... maybe you can cultivate a "seemingly perfect" relationship and have it last indefinitely... I know it happens, but to just "find" true love right off the bat? I don't buy it.
/r/seduction30/06/15 04:57 AM
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The "one" for you is not found, they are created.
/r/seduction28/06/15 08:31 PM
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Nope, I'm aware of everything and o feel myself... I'm one of those that used weed somewhat successfully and didn't fall to the highs it presented. I feel like myself whether I'm high or not... lol
/r/seduction19/06/15 10:37 AM
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Mmm doesn't really "alter my mind" either lol. I just feel things more intensely. I'm not sitting there seeing unicorns or something... lol
/r/seduction19/06/15 04:38 AM
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I mean I ride shiny and chrome a lot
/r/seduction16/06/15 05:19 PM
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I use it for enhancement I don't essentially depend on it to do things out of the norm for myself. It's just that the weed definitely helped at the time. I do it in very small controlled amounts that are tolerable. I don't smoke to be vegetable level every time. I work, go out, pay my bills and chill. As long as you can deal with it and still get what you need to get done in terms of responsibilities then you're set.
/r/seduction16/06/15 05:19 PM
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Yeah it's always a concern with drug screens when working in higher income brackets. The confidence that stems from quitting it is good too, and likewise that seems to have worked well for you :D
/r/seduction16/06/15 06:08 AM
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Works both ways though, if im throwing myself at a girl and she rejects me its crippling
/r/seduction01/05/15 08:20 AM
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Damn that's real shit. I wanna go do some pushups or something
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 08:00 AM
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I'd be like sure! Just let me fuck your face and asshole for an hour first and record it, then I'll help you.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 05:38 AM
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Yeah seriously, what the actual fuck
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 04:24 AM
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On my WORST day I still look 20x better than everyone in this picture.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 04:22 AM
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Thanks bros, I just told her I'm done waiting, and that I'm done with her altogether due to no sex and that I don't care about the outcome anymore, she can either fuck or fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 10:49 AM
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I'm fwb with a girl right now and she's made me wait 6 months for sex currently, she has a really big soft ass and gives great blowjobs. I really want to fuck her again but I'm getting tired of asking and waiting, what should I do?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 10:47 PM
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I don't play games either, she cheats, we're done. Bye bitch.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 06:24 AM
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Yes. Many times, girls are fucking whores man.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 07:55 PM
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You're not even lying. I just listen, nod and smile, reassure them I won't judge or shit talk and they tell me EVERYTHING. You don't even need a degree in psych to do it, it's really easy
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 07:55 PM
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NO IT'S NOT DAMMIT!
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:36 PM
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Also good advice. Definitely stand your ground, a good memory just reinforces standing one's ground :D
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 07:59 PM
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Nah man I totally understand. I think what helped me to hone my memory was I had a super controlling mother that watched my every move and was oppressive as a mofo. So I HAD to have a good memory and be 3 steps ahead in any situation so that I could cover myself for fuckups. Also drove her nuts that she fully never found out about my life. This whole "you can't win an argument with a woman" notion is bullshit. As long as you have a good memory you can win any argument anywhere with a woman.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 04:23 PM
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It's TOO annoying, but it helps when they bring something up and I can accurately explain what they were wearing in the scenario they're talking about. They start faltering and rolling their eyes REAL QUICK
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 04:20 PM
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Lol I have really good memory too. Can confirm women HATE that. They try and talk shit and I'll tell them the exact date and time I told them to shut the fuck up. They HATE a good memory. If a man can do anything for himself, make sure your memory is sharp as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:56 PM
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