Grouchy-Mycologist52 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Having trouble reconciling seduction with friendship	Fundamentals	Grouchy-Mycologist52	/r/seduction	22/01/21 11:57 PM
1	Having a hard time meeting new girls these days	Escalation & Calibration	Grouchy-Mycologist52	/r/seduction	17/01/21 11:29 PM
1	Books about human psychology in a broad sense?	Outer Game	Grouchy-Mycologist52	/r/seduction	06/02/21 05:32 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Books about human psychology in a broad sense? Yeah I agree, but each society/culture has its own particularities... today it would be creepy to ask a girl to marry you in the first date, but this was normal not so long ago.	/r/seduction	07/02/21 07:05 PM
2	“we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are” Although I know this, I frequently forget it when talking to girls I'm already dating or already dated. I easily become very cerebral in those cases, thinking that somehow they are different from girls in general. Maybe useful advice.	/r/seduction	27/01/21 11:34 PM
6	Stop worrying about being creepy Well said, specially the part about creepiness being more about a sum of attitudes than about one specific thing you may say.	/r/seduction	25/01/21 09:11 PM
1	Don't be a nice guy I was having perhaps a similar issue in mind when I posted here few days ago asking about how to calibrate between seduction and friendship. What was bugging me was that seduction can sometimes seem incompatible with truthfulness, because when you seduce you are more or less "selling an image" and worried more about yourself than with the other. And yeah, I still think seduction is more or less antagonistic vis-a-vis friendship/truthfulness, but, as said the guy who replied to my post, "it takes…	/r/seduction	24/01/21 10:13 PM
3	Having trouble reconciling seduction with friendship Thanks, that's insightful.	/r/seduction	23/01/21 01:40 AM
1	What causes you to lose interest in a girl? You're probably cute judging by the things men have been saying to you. So probably not your looks. Regarding the case you mentioned, about saying "I'm just going home", maybe you could have said "I don't know yet, maybe just going home". Or even just "I don't know yet". Big difference. Now, one thing that makes me lose interest as a man is when I feel the girl is too much into me too quickly (except when it's a girl I really find super cute). This is almost universal probably. Don't know if t…	/r/seduction	22/01/21 04:13 PM
1	Having a hard time meeting new girls these days I don't get an amazing number of matches, far from that, but actually yes, I get great matches sometimes, but don't know what to do with them really. Usually there isn't much information on their profile to serve as trigger. And then I find it difficult to balance between dorky/nice-guy and too direct/crude (like inviting them out right away). I think I've just lost my playfulness, hope not for long. Ironically one thing that would surely help would be to be with a beautiful girl, which is exact…	/r/seduction	18/01/21 01:44 AM