Grouchy_Orchid_9176 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
278	Why do women always have to be "kind" and "nice"?	RANT	Grouchy_Orchid_9176	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/22 11:22 AM

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3	Being vulnerable to help build intimacy in relationships. Wow I wholeheartedly and 100% agree with this and will take it to heart. I have long felt this way that sharing trauma with men only leads to either them one upping you in any way, berate you about it like they are a mental health professional or they will literally just ignore your trauma and put another trauma on top of it with their actions. You tell them "Oh men always did this and that to me and that really hurt me as a person" and then they'll be like "Oh that is so cruel blabla rant about…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/22 04:59 PM
66	Why I DON’T EXPLAIN. On boundaries, disappointment, and self-shielding: You don’t have to explain to an emotionally abusive man why he isn’t allowed to hurt you anymore. This, this and this. I literally sometimes can't fathom how well our subconscious and gut feeling already actually knows what's up 99.99% of the time and telling us to leave but our minds are like "Oh he didn't mean it" "He didn't know better" etc etc. Men will lie to get what they want. Even if they seem genuine. He can change in an instant if that is to his advantage. I had a a thing going on with a man who was extremely emotionally intelligent, the type that even noticed when a vibe was diffe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/22 10:57 AM