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So when she questions them, what should be done? Do you ask her to just trust you? Go to scripture and say that I should be followed since we are Christian household? Or use it as moment to reinforce the principles that are based on those beliefs?
/r/RPChristians29/02/24 01:29 PM
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First marriages have have 60% success chance and it even higher depending on race or socio economic status
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 03:11 PM
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Hierarchies are biological
/r/TheRedPill30/10/22 04:09 PM
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How many did you ask out? What were the results?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/22 09:49 PM
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Interesting, on a personal level do you like being around her now that you are both older? If you're retired would you still be together full time? Definitely report back in 6 months, looking forward to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/22 10:59 PM
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Stay at home with 2 kids is a bit light isn't it? Especially after kids are grown up. Could the resentment be because it's boring for her, doesn't get enough satisfaction or emotional roller coaster from just being around Mr hot stuff?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/22 10:22 PM
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Nah it's too painful of a realization most will repress it or rationalize it. Genetic optimization and not being a genetic dead end is not that popular here.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/22 06:28 PM
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You're not really going to get intelligence to be on the same level. Men have 5-10x more people on the tail ends of the intelligence curve.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 07:28 PM
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The millennials are worse. Haven't you seen the stats showing percent communism support by generation? There's no escaping the decline in the west.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 05:48 PM
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What blowback? All media is filtered now in the west. Barely any peeps about the weekly anti lockdown protests in my city. No media mention means it doesn't exist for the average person. The Vax passports are showing what it will be like. 10% of the population excluded from certain non essential activities. Look at Australia, barely any rebellion, most people just accept their chains and will accept money to build their own prison.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 05:45 PM
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The bots will still be there. They will just be govt approved or commercial. New technologies means new problems
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 05:40 PM
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Nah I have doubts. You succeeded despite the drugs. The drug route is high risk medium reward. Can just as well fick yourself up
/r/TheRedPill15/08/21 08:06 AM
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Thanks man, gives good hope for those of us that still want to go through the marriage and kids part. The whole AWALT should really be all plates are like that and 80% of women are..
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 07:31 PM
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There's definitely some guys spinning more than one plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:42 AM
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I don't know. If the bread and circuses keep going the decline might last a while. It will definitely make the west weaker to adversaries like russia and China. There's a chance that redpill and purple pill becoming mainstream will lead to people forming new contracts. Just like with climate change maybe it stabilizes in a new equilibrium, but the safer option is to start recognizing the issue and try to slow it down, while we learn about the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 12:39 AM
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But see having 70% if men not having a stake in civilization is not stable. If you care about climate change you should care about what makes people sacrifice for the benefit of the next generation. The regulations of the church on the sexual marketplace is what allowed us to get here with all our nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 04:56 PM
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You guys are nuts, cold aproach has been a staple of pickup/redpill since the 90's. These apps/OLD are making people scared to cold approach. You're not doing validation, you're working on your social skills and subcommunication.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 11:55 AM
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Thats a very blackpill way to view it. The game has been rigged from the start. "For to every one who has will more be given, and he will have abundance; but from him who has not, even what he has will be taken away" Despite that people perservered and found ways to achieve their goals. Game is less rigged now than it was 120 years ago, especially outside of the US. You wont die from random illnesses, and if you have a 3 digit IQ, you've got a big advantage in the world economy (both dating and …
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 12:29 PM
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Good twist :) Habit forming/willpower/self-dicipline has been around before Marxism. You're also starting to get even farther from practical application and into the epistemology of things. I think a better argument is that its a self-fulfilling prophecy. If someone believes that they can form good habit to get them farther in life, and they pursue it with actions, they will end up ahead of someone who doesnt try to improve. Once you have some order in your life you can move to making other thin…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 02:06 AM
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You choose interpret these routines for habit forming the same way normies and pink haired feminist interpret redpill. One of the main valid criticism of redpill is that there's still a ton of losers that are experts in the material but fail in applying it. This habit forming can easily be another tool in the toolbar that some need more than others. Like you said lower in the thread, modern society is training consoomers. To resist it takes willpower. It takes less willpower if you have good hab…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 07:43 PM
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Try and take that argument to its logical conclusion. You reach either do whatever makes you happy, or nothing matters so might as well just end it early if you arent enjoying life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:20 AM
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Centuries...because of religion . More than half of the new gen are atheist, they don't have strong values except for what they learn in the media and their peer group. Strongest support for socialism is amongst the Gen z too. Geb z gives up, > things get worse > institutions patch things up with money printing > another crises develops > people stop trusting each other as much > ethnicities in diverse countries group up with their own kind > things get worse or another crisis needs fixing but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:08 PM
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They had contraception in the Roman empire. Even the pull out method is a form of contraception. They also tried to encourage birth rates in Rome with bachelor taxes, eventually they just settled on making everyone Roman and having migration. Contraception isn't the end, it's just one stage of our civilization cycle. Enjoy your suicide cult. Why would people want to invest or build things if so many people want to see the world torn down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:59 PM
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Fair, but that's not a situation that applies to most of the childfree movement in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:03 AM
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The drive to pass down your genes is partially genetic. Eventually the childfree people will remove themselves from humanity's genepool. They won't have decendants that colonize Mars or be part of any other great human achievement. We live in the richest greatest time in human history and people fail to see it. Global Poverty is at the lowest levels its ever been. You're looking at selective projections if you think there won't be water. People though we would run out of oil several times. Sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:05 PM
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those grievance studies journalists will print anything to get clicks. sure the articles may influence some section of the population, but it shouldnt be used to generilize.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:17 AM
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Funny how the best relationship advice this forum could've give 10 years ago for those that want kids is to secure a girl asap before they morph into their current state. But hey we can all think of reasons why that wasn't the advice 10yrs ago.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/21 02:04 AM
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It never left. Its just called cancel culture now. What is shamed has changed. The church of woke decides whats shameful and what the price of heresy is.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:55 PM
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I read his book and it a clever interpretation of historical facts. But you could do just by trying to match historical events to your model. We dont have an imperical match of how noteworthy or impactful an event was. The book provides cycles that fit around big geopolical events, but if you generilize it, they should apply to every country. You should be able to map out which country is at which cycle. Why do only some countries have crises, sometimes in sync sometimes not. The theory is very …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:49 PM
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If its stress/cope. It could they are coping with the stress of being nexted by chad and not having meaningful relationships. Having to grind a corporate job for the rest of their lives and not fulfilling their biological programming. Historically 4-17x women reproduced compared to men. This is probably the first time in historically so many women had to cope with being childless or single moms.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:39 PM
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I thought you were in jail from you comment about it being mandatory :) . If you can't avoid something, you should learn to take pleasure from it or at least entertainment.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/21 09:13 PM
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Depends if your perspective is the individual or the family. Peoples perspective used to be from the family. Adults made sacrifices for the betterment of their children. Women in the household, men in the workplace, grandparents/extended family in their own way. Now the perspective people have is more individual. What do i get out of the marriage, what do i have to sacrifice, and is my sacrifice on par with the man's. People see kids as and the childraising expience as something they get and mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:50 PM
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Lol its like telling someone who smokes weed thats its vad for them long term because of the motivational effects etc. Lots of people deny it. Its not the worst hobby...
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 01:51 PM
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Its actually a combo of 1984 and brave new world. BNW is when you have unlimited mass entertainment (videogames, netflix, youtube, insta) Sexual promiscuity/degeneracy is expected and drug use encouraged (weed legalization, antidepressants Etc) 1984 is the stick and BNW is the carrot.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 04:29 AM
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Yep, welcome to what feminism and a reduction of tradition gets us. Your moral standards have no power. These are enjoying the decline and they dont care. That 19 yr old will have her pair bonding messed after he dumps her too. Its a fine line between seduction and manipulation, but theres no proper relationship police for it.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/21 10:53 PM
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Man, you are twenty your friends were high schoolers. In the west long term friendships are not a strong tradition. Going forward it up to you to make and manage your friendgroup and promote / discourage things in your friend group. Be careful filtering your friends for being toxic, at some point you cant just get more friends and you have build them up.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/21 12:39 AM
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This is a better option for anyone who is an immigrant to the west. My plan is to get my WFH job and move back to eastern europe. I can use dread and all the RP manipulation tactics to keep my slav wife in check. Speaking the language and resettling back home with a western income that she can only access through me. Just gotta lie about how much Im making so that her expectations are kept in check. My kids have the added benefit of dual citizenship even if they are born in outside if the west. …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 06:11 PM
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Once covid is controlled it will be china drama. Check out Australia sky news on YT. Its what the future holds for western countries.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 06:05 PM
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Yeah thats basically a semi personalized stripper youtuber subscription for 700 folks, pretty low barrier. Good point. Now do you think that its going to stay that way? Surely some developing world girl thots will eat up at your marketshare and erode profits? If it stops being so profitable then you are stuck with a girl that has nudes out. You know there are massive dumps being shared around of OF girls. Like in the 4tb range each. The OF girl that I know through a friend, I was able to find he…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 04:03 AM
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Yep, It reflects that person's values or beliefs when they do that. Same reason people don't marry or have kids with strippers. Would you have been ok if your mom did that? This shit is going to ruin even more girls from being capable mothers.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/21 12:30 PM
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Would you let your girl flash her tits at random guys on the street? She isnt physically cheating... Thats such a low bar. Redpill hard mode demands those types of girls are filtered out.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 07:14 AM
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The masks are secondary to other policies like isolating old people and not putting people on ventilators right away. That shit killed way more people than not wearing your mask in the grocery store. The whole asymptomatic spread has been a toss up for the whole year with studies going back and forth on it. The mask now serve a purpose of virtue signaling and compliance to authority. Here in ontario we had mandatory masks for months and now they closed down skiing. After 350 people in the ICU th…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 03:55 PM
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None of that is going to happen in the first year. That is going to take 10+ years.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 03:43 PM
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Google for the pairbinding and sexual partner research. Under 5 is better but under 10 is ok. 6 & 7 is basically not fat but either not so good face and/or no tits/ass . Thats what you should settle for if you havent been able to platespin after following redpill and you dont want to be a genetic dead end.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 03:58 PM
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Theres 2 groups here. The plate spinners and the guys than want to have family. Family guys try to cope by filtering the unstable hoes
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 08:31 AM
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Have you read the sidebar? Theres studies done on marriage length and partner n count. The results show that in its the female n count that correlates the most short marriages. The theory is the girls pairbonding is srrongest when she is young and hasnt been jaded by multiple men. From my breakups it would seem to fit, im not sure if the guy after me would have as easy of a time.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 08:28 AM
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Look for 6s and 7s that dont get a lot of male attention. There will be something weird or wrong with them though if their n count is low.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 08:22 AM
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Its just funny because if you take the two groups, they are actually at odds. Plate spinners will go through tens of girls and by the end the girls have a messed up view of guys. Mr i want a stable marriage sees that the field is populated with the discards of chads and plate spinners. The solution is to screen extra hard and learn manipulation techniques yourself.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 08:19 AM
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Well its a little late for half the over 30 bachelors in this community. You'd be giving them an unrealistic impression if no one asked you the age :)
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 08:13 AM
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Why should you go against nature? What makes it right? Equality of the sexes is just a particular modern social view thats popular. It can have unintended consequences. Whether you believe the juice worth the squeeze just depends on what you were taught when you grew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:33 PM
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Lack of strong male role models that teach / mentor. We dont have religion telling people how they should behave. Its the same reason Jordan Peterson exploded. He provides a strong male role model. It probably doesn't help that theres record high only child and single mom households, which contributes to lack of strong male role models. In the end its guys fault socially. Either because they didn't stick around in the family for the kids, or they didnt mentor the kids right, or because the boy g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:19 PM
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You know thats not going to happen. Asians and muslims will keep that torch going long after you convince all the westerners to suicide their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 04:06 PM
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Heritage book references a cdc study by the CDC and The Department of Health and Human Services. Sample size is about 10,000 women (men were not studied) ages 15-44. Divorce rates and pair bonding is similar enough. Drug use within a marriage.... thats also not a far reach to say it would make for a less stable marriage and be less conducive to raising children. Like others have said, the pair bonding and marriage research has been mentioned in the sub before. I linked the ones i personally know…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:32 PM
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rates of divorce and worse life outcomes. Source:http://s3.amazonaws.com/thf_media/2003/pdf/Bookofcharts.pdf#page=6 likelihood of drug and alcohol abuse. Source:https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201304/the-lingering-psychological-effects-multiple-sex-partners Less traditional marriages are lower quality. Source:http://sf.oxfordjournals.org/content/early/2012/10/25/sf.sos126.abstract Heres some. Theres other pair bonding research out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:44 PM
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What 60yr old is going to be writing trash articles like that? Its all propaganda to make the cat ladies feel better. Think of what age people are most likely to deny that regret. And what age will they likely accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 05:42 PM
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I hope you dont regret being genetic dead end. You'll have 40 years to change your mind and potentially live in regret. I hope you know better that all of your previous ancestors. Considering political beliefs are 50% heritable, if it wasn't you it would probably be your kids making that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 03:49 PM
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Marriage is actually more beneficial for the poor. And the dissolution of marriage is keeping the poor down. They used to be able to pool their resources and provide for the next generation. They would be incentivized to save up for the future of their genetic legacy. But without marriage and with govt subsides to single moms. The poor stay in broken families.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/19 03:40 PM
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Those are the genuises, they arent like the rest. Their autistic obsession is unusual. Civilization is built and maintained by the majority of men that are average. And they build (by following leaders) and maintain when they have something to invest into it, like family. I dont want to diminish the contribution of genuises, but you need a solid population of people to maintain the civilization too.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/19 03:37 PM
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Financial enslavement is a little harsh. The eslaved population still makes more after tax by a large margin. Most are also not do nothing's. Workforce participation is above 60% and i think that includes retirees.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/19 01:52 PM
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Being a genetic dead end isnt my game. If your goals are that short sighted you'll have issues later on in life when the sex isnt as satisfying as much.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 07:17 AM
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Totally agree on variety of redpill material out there. And I agree that most of it is just optimal to learn without being morally bad or anything. I appreciate the long form response. Im glad theres other folk that think through material and pick the best parts to apply to themselves. I think theres just a lack of material that covers the transition from dating multiple girls to having kids. Having kids with multiple women is obviously suboptimal if you are looking to raise them with the best o…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 09:52 PM
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I see what you mean. And im on the same track. The outcome i focus just isnt being a redpill man. The outcome i focus on is setting up myself for good long term outcomes with setting up my family and raising the next generation. I think being full redpill is just a tad too manipulative/gamy for the future mother of my children. I would have a hard time explaining to my kids how they should behave when they grow up because i wouldnt be able to defend my behavior. LTRs are ar odds with some things…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 12:23 AM
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True, it can still be to your advantage to play the metagame using redpill rules. However if your opponent (the women) isnt playing the metagame. And you dont hide your moves perfectly, it can lead to starting to play the metagame as well. Or atleast resent you for it. So what couldve been a tradcon wife/gf gets warped closer to the typical opponent you practice against. Just saying its can backfire if you assume all women play games and all play them to the same extent. You dont need to go full…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:52 PM
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You risk over read a signal where there is none. Or misreading things. Moreover women are better at empathy. You playing games and pretending you arent wont fool all girls or the same girl each time.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 03:39 AM
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I think the truth is somewhere in the middle. There is a subset of girls that care about high n count beyond just vocalizing. My gf mentioned it to me and it did not seem like a superficial concern. I think girls that keep their own n count low, are more likely to value a low n count in a potential mate. The problem arises in that most men obtain confidence by increasing their n count as it reduces their neediness. But there can be a local optimum between both factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:23 AM
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Bit of an issue if you keep spinning till you are 40 and dont have a family. Then you risk 6x higher autism rates for your kids.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 11:06 AM
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I agree its possible without. But if you have hobbies and you want to increase desirability. You can totally pick ones that contribute. Ie working out, group fitness etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:59 PM
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Good skills and hobbies should drive confidence and social life. They should indirectly increase your options or desirability. Too bad there are a lot of modern skills and hobbies that dont contribute to the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:49 PM
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I think that might be a better way for those in truly bad relationships but they aren't all like that. He also skips over the child raising reasons for settling down. Loneliness isnt the only reason. You pass on more genetic defects as you and you wife get older. Its selfish to wait, at the expense of your kids. You could get too old if you follow his thinking. 50 for kids is pushing it. Related #1 if you do have kids at 50 your kids will eventually figure out why you waited so long and that you…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 01:52 PM
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Good luck, most women I speak to find it pretty weird when a guy is dating more than 10 year younger. Unless you are super wealthy, no 20 yr old will be dating you in her 50's If you choose to not have kids in you 20's/30s but in your 30's/40s you also pass on 6x higher the autism risk to the kids. It gets higher with age. All you waiting till your 40's to have kids are screwing over your kids with the autism risk. So if you dont have kids in your 30's and change your mind, and have an autistic …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 04:37 PM
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I dont know how old you are, but in my late twenties I already see the drop off in how many friends I have, how many close friends I have, how many friends I have that want to go out and do fun things. How much harder it is to organize people to do things. This dropoff is only going to increase as you get older. Your loneliness will increase. So thats reason #1 against your train thought. Reason #2. The people you will hang out. The single males. They are going to be in the same boat. Sure hangi…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 04:31 PM
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Donno man. What do you do from 50-70 years old. You aint gonna be dating. If dont have kids you lose out on a lot of activities from yrs old and up? Thats also the time where you had even more friends drift apart than when you were 40. At 70 and up it would get more depressing as your fewer friends start dying and you have less and less people that would see you go. And less people come by as you get sick. You sure you want to not have kids? Its fine if you dont have bluepill feelings. But since…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 05:28 AM
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Careful what you wish for. If doomers dont find something, you get incels, suicides, and worse. The down sides of misogyny are better than the roads they originally travelled on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 05:24 AM
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But your not really working in your field of study. Most people try to get jobs in what they studied. What are their career prospects if they did social science... A Smart diligent person can succeed anywhere, but people are different in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 02:58 AM
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Ahh I see. So in my country/ province the way I understand it is, I would be common law partners after 2 years living together. After which the women already gets potential to fleece me. So theres no such potential here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 12:26 AM
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Yeah, it's pretty unethical on the part of the guy. You can even say it's pretty unethical to keep a relationship like that going more than a year or two. If you know as a guy you don't want to be with this girl forever, but the girl is looking for that, it's just deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 10:49 PM
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You have to keep in mind all those divorce stats are skewed by people that marry and divorce multiple times. Your first marriage is the most likely to be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 09:30 PM
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How do you have kids without being married? Doesn't it become an issue when raising them? Or do you pay the alimony and roll on? Also why have kids if you don't have a stable partner to raise them with? Finally wont it be an issue when you are old, friends will be married with families and you would be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 09:20 PM
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Hmm maybe it's just the two industries I've been. Tech and consulting. For project work, its disadvantageous to leave part of the way through. And for constant teams the standard operating procedures slightly change over time and it's hard coming back to be on the same level. In those industries if you plot your career progress on a chart with x axis being time and y being career progress (or salary potential). 20-35 is where the slope is the highest. Taking maternity would leave the slope as fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 09:02 PM
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So my autistic side wants to know, Where can I find the full list so I know what goes into the live-in category and what in the married one. For example, I assume I'll still do the handywork in both cases, just curious on what other categories are. You might think they are common sense and implied but I think that seems to be a lot more diverse now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:47 PM
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Superficially sure they can do stuff. Realistically, losing 3-4 months is going to set you back. Not because of the patriarchy, but due to the momentum you have on your team in the workplace. Especially if they take a full year like they are entitled to. And even more so if you have 2-3 kids over 5-6 years I use momentum as a vague and general term because of the differences in work places. In some careers it matters less.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:15 PM
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That is a valid counterpoint. So I tried to find some research on this. https://www.bbc.com/news/education-47057787 "In this research, even allowing for economic disadvantage, Prof McLanahan said, data began to show the impact of instability on a child's life." I am not sure if this mean they compared families of equal income. The next one controlled for family income. Children ended up making 5-10% more at age 40 in 2-parent famillies https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2014/09/08/child…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 09:57 PM
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Those effects appear separate from poverty as well. Not to the same extent of course. It would be naive to assume the same level of parenting can be provided by a single parent. Sure finances can mitigate, but you cant buy a masculine role model for the kid. And vice versa for single father households.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 06:23 PM
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What about all the stats that show that kids coming from single parent households come maladjusted, more violent, etc. Do you think the downside on the kid outweighs the choice of the mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 02:24 PM
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No way CEO of mcdonalds will work for 200 an hr. Cant enforce it. Company will just set up a subsidiary and have a 150 per hr 'CEO' who would've been a VP in a company not forced to split up artificially.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:56 AM
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