GroundbreakingDevil Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	60 DoD 2019 - Official kickoff I've been slacking on participating for a looooong time; I'm in.	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/03/19 02:13 PM
1	Barack Obama on toxic Masculinity Responsibility without equivalent authority is nothing more than slavery.	/r/TheRedPill	21/02/19 04:07 PM
2	Help with Car Shopping for the Most Responsible Teenager This is MRP, so let's bust out some legit naval heritage. The captain is responsible for all aspects of the ship, her crew, their course, and their welfare, that's the burden of command, and that's why he's the captain. Great power begets Great responsibility and all that. If he's a good captain he recognizes that part of that responsibility is delegating tasks to his subordinates in accordance with the ship's needs and their aptitudes; this both eases his load of day to shit he needs to handle,…	/r/askMRP	28/01/19 11:35 PM
1	Discovered wife has had an affair, have kids, she doesn't know that i know Was in a similar situation myself. I'm now divorced. I wrung my hands over "can I forgive her?" and "things have been ok for a few weeks" for more than a year of misery before I finally stopped being a faggot, nutted up and divorced her; don't do that, toxic relationships don't get better with age. Step 1 - Fly casual, keep things business as usual to the greatest extent possible; don't finding her, and avoid rocking the boat until you have a plan. Step 2 - Consult at least one attorney as soon …	/r/askMRP	28/01/19 03:21 PM
3	How do I handle this test? Mandatory reading: When I Say No, I Feel Guilty. Check the side bar and start studying. You're lifting, right?	/r/askMRP	21/01/19 05:56 PM
3	Shit test question ... Part of the anxiety though was not having a go-to frame... Fixed it for you. had I been checking out a chick I would have simply owned it and defended that. What's the first "D" in DEER? Don't do that. When you get caught with your hand in the cookie jar you should be shooting her a shit eating grin, a wink, and continue getting you a damn cookie. If she's been nice, grab one for her, too. Simple. Instead my thoughts were along the lines of "was I", "who's she talking about", "quick think of…	/r/askMRP	21/01/19 02:40 PM
1	Do you call her out on manipulation or rewriting history? Only bad owners.	/r/askMRP	14/01/19 12:03 AM
1	"Permission" or "Order" to do what you were going to do anyway Do you have kids, or young nieces or nephews? When she does this, imagine her as a little girl in pigtails acting like a stern parent. Laughable, right? How would you react to your headstrong six year old trying to Mommy you? Alternately (if you have the confidence to turn it sexual), how would you react to a barely dressed, bratty 19 year old slut? She is what she is, and she's behaving like this because you trained her to, so don't take it personal or hold it against her. Kill the butthurt, th…	/r/askMRP	10/01/19 02:41 PM
2	Do you call her out on manipulation or rewriting history? Literal STFU is good for absolute beginners; even though you may come off as autistic, it does prevent you from digging a bigger hole. Nuanced application, as well as addition of other coping strategies like AA, AM, fogging, add so forth, will come with time, and more importantly practice. You have to figure out who you are, as well as who you want to be, and start to internalize that idealization of your future self before your responses your wife's shit - or anyone, really - becomes fluid and …	/r/askMRP	10/01/19 02:17 PM
3	Do you call her out on manipulation or rewriting history? Exactly right. There's a saying in the recreational off-roading world: "As slow as possible, but as fast as necessary." Meaning to drive as slow as you can, because it allows you to retain control of the situation, gives you time to think about your next move, and reduces the likelihood of breaking shit. However, sometimes speed and momentum is needed to clear an obstacle, so the idea is to use only the speed you need, without going overboard and getting out of control. I like to think of STFU i…	/r/askMRP	10/01/19 01:17 PM
5	Do you call her out on manipulation or rewriting history? When training a dog, or your kids for that matter, of it's misbehaving you are supposed to correct the behavior and administer any necessary punishment immediately upon discovering the transgression. The same principal applies with your bitch, or really any subordinate; if you don't act to address issues as immediately as possible the impact of your correction is greatly diminished. You've already missed the window of opportunity for establishing or enforcing a boundary here; if you revisit the …	/r/askMRP	09/01/19 09:13 PM
2	Marriage without the Paperwork? Do whatever you feel the need to do, man; good luck. For your sake, and the sake of your kids, I hope you're one of the tiny percentage of men who can pull something like what you're proposing off successfully. Agreed, I need to talk to a men’s divorce attorney. I am 90% sure that a marriage is NEVER legal unless you sign a marriage certificate, but I need to be 100% sure. Thank you for your feedback. I am in no way trying to imply that you're entering a legal marriage, unless you give in …	/r/askMRP	03/01/19 08:52 PM
4	Marriage without the Paperwork? By all means, if you think you can pull off your own little Brady Bunch reboot more power to you. Bury your head the sand with regards to the family court bias against men at your own peril. I could absolutely be full of shit and taking out of my as because I went through a bitter divorce and got screwed, but you're coming from a place of equal ignorance to dismiss it as baseless conjecture without having done your own research; you completely missed the whole point of my original comment: Go ta…	/r/askMRP	03/01/19 07:49 PM
4	Marriage without the Paperwork? Quite right, that's why she's willing to settle for this schmuck. All women are, to some degree, gold diggers. Their success is measured by two metrics. First, the actual value of the cash and prizes they are able to secure, which is to a certain degree dictated by their SMV and social class. The second is the degree to which their host commits to her, or his willingness to put her and her children's interest above his own. An acquaintance of mine, who ex wife #2 also knew, had been dating a sin…	/r/askMRP	03/01/19 07:05 PM
9	Marriage without the Paperwork? Even without a legal marriage contact or common law marriage in your state, cohabitation puts you into a legally vulnerable position. Being on a mortgage with her even more so. At the very least you owe it to yourself to talk to a local attorney and get a consultation to determine the risks so you can make a rational, rather that emotional, decision. She's middle aged, post wall, with three fuck trophys that need a new dad. She ain't with you because she wants your dick, she's with you because s…	/r/askMRP	03/01/19 04:54 PM
16	A Unique Situation This isn't the first time "ethical non-monogamy" has led a man to MRP. /u/UnbreakableFrame summed it up nicely in a comment a while back: A huge part of TRP is learning that hypergamy exists and finding a sexual strategy to either circumvent it (as in TRP) or try to combat it (as in MRP). The open relationship community embraces hypergamy at no real gain to the man. A high-value man can gain all the benefits of an open relationship without being married or committed. A woman simply can't do that…	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/12/18 09:35 PM
2	At an interesting crossroads and could use some input. You just answered your own question right here; are you just too much of a pussy to pull the trigger? You're at or near your SMV peak potential right now, I assume you make decent money since you're towing this boat anchor around, you're not a fat ass/ are in decent shape, what the fuck are you waiting for? How long are you going to wait until you demand the best for yourself? - Epictetus If not now, when? Let no one rob me of a single day who is not going to make me an adequate return for such …	/r/askMRP	04/12/18 03:17 AM
3	LTR Is in vacation Go out and get some strange, your Oneitis is showing.	/r/askMRP	03/12/18 06:25 PM
5	Is this blatant disrespect OR shit test? Men and women cannot be ‘just friends.’ Someone always wants to fuck somebody, and the other body enjoys the attention. Eventually, with the right circumstances and a little alcohol, the fucking will commence. Came here to say this. There is no such thing as platonic friends when it comes to men and women; 100% chance one (or both) wants to fuck the other. "Just Friends" with someone of the opposite sex translates to: a) One of them is orbiting the other b) They want to fuck, but haven't had the…	/r/askMRP	12/10/18 04:42 PM
4	Want a LTR, plates too distracting How long is "recently" out of your marriage? What are your stats? How far along the path are you? Where are you in the sidebar? Look up "cut the shit" and update this post with the details.	/r/askMRP	08/10/18 11:45 AM
3	What the fuck have I gotten myself into? He's a poopyhead, not a shitface; get it right.	/r/askMRP	05/10/18 03:32 PM
1	Thinking about quitting my high salary/great benefits military career after 13 years The main reason for the empty billets for us was attrition; folks were getting promoted to fill higher billets when others retired, so there were lots of slots open for lower enlisted and NCOs to fill where there were supposed to be SNCOs. Most of the time the guys who got picked did a decent job, but they did tend to get shit on a lot by their peers who actually had the rank and not just the title. Aside from ancillary duties (recruiting, Drill Instructor, etc...) there's really only 3 major pl…	/r/askMRP	03/10/18 03:51 PM
1	Thinking about quitting my high salary/great benefits military career after 13 years I freely admit to drinking the Kool-Aid; I loved the lifestyle and tempo of military life, so the travel, field time, brutal PT sessions, etc... never bothered me, and most times were a perk, even though some of most of it was a miserable sufferfest at the time. My experience with being treated like a toddler diminished greatly once I became an NCO and continued to taper off as I held progressively higher billets. There's still a lot of foolishness and being at the mercy of someone with higher r…	/r/askMRP	03/10/18 02:50 PM
3	Thinking about quitting my high salary/great benefits military career after 13 years I was in Ground Ordnance Maintenance (armory, combat vehicles, arty, etc...) for my entire career. The billet I held when I got out (as a SNCO) was Maintenance Management Officer for a logistics unit. Prior to that I was a direct supervisor (NCO) and wrench turner (non-rate) in a Ground Combat Unit. I currently work as a project manager for an industrial equipment company. I manage design, installation, modification, and maintenance of industrial equipment for the manufacturing sector. I am work…	/r/askMRP	03/10/18 01:58 PM
8	Thinking about quitting my high salary/great benefits military career after 13 years I left the service after a decade, ostensibly "putting my family first." Love my kids and seeing them more frequently, but I miss it and regret the decision to EAS every day. As ridiculous and stupid as military bureaucracy is at times, it's as bad or worse in the private sector, particularly in the corporate world.	/r/askMRP	03/10/18 01:53 AM
7	Wife pulled a knife on me last night Relocate your armory ASAP. If you normally carry, stop for now. Don't leave her an opening to accuse you of threatening her with any of them, or possibly using one against you. At the very least get a voice recorder and run it constantly, especially when you're together. Turn on location tracking on your phone, keep tabs on yourself proactively to establish your whereabouts for an alibi if it's needed. Leave her as little wiggle room as possible to make a plausible accusation that you cannot imm…	/r/askMRP	25/09/18 05:19 PM
3	[serious] How do you stop masturbating? Take your hand off your dick and go do something productive with your time instead. There are tons of resources out there that related to nofap that can help you kick the habit; stop being a lazy fuck and put in some effort.	/r/askMRP	24/09/18 08:10 PM
5	Leadership skills? You need to read When I Say No, I Feel Guilty (WISNIFG) and practice both the techniques and mindset therein. A big chunk of the issue you describe is related to lack of exercising what Dr. Smith calls "your Everyday Assertive Rights." That's mindset. Once you get that shored up, work on using the techniques in the book to be assertive and get your needs met, without getting butthurt. Get on that. Also read No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), that sounds like you to a T. Read up on Covert Contracts;…	/r/askMRP	12/09/18 01:02 PM
33	First post: Wife cheated on me with a chick...what would you do? You should definitely go fuck a dude, that'll teach her.	/r/askMRP	10/09/18 12:27 PM
1	What kind of test is this? Ho-Lee-Shit man. If your wife needs a boundary from you to know that bringing home roadkill and putting it in the fridge with your food is not the correct course of action there is something seriously broken with this bitch. Change your locks, setup a quarantine zone in your garage, and start strip searching and decontaminating her before you let her return to the house everyday. What. The. Fuck. Good luck, you're going to need it when you get feline AIDS.	/r/askMRP	30/08/18 05:32 PM
3	LTR/Fiancee job relocating, how to deal? Her name's Felicia, right? You know what to do, fucking do it. Sounds like you're in a good spot in life, there's more pussy where this one came from.	/r/askMRP	30/08/18 05:18 PM
1	Married... with Children Maybe you're right, you have a lot more experience than I do around here. OP admitted in several places that he's did a shit job explaining things in his post, so maybe I'm getting hung up on semantics. Maybe it's because I feel he's hobbling himself and not following the program by taking the credible threat of adultery / divorce completely off the table. Maybe my gut instinct is wrong, but what he's talking about, or perhaps more accurately the way in which he presented it, feels more like adv…	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/08/18 06:26 PM
1	Married... with Children Look, man, all I know is that when I read your OP and subsequent responses to comments two things stood out to me. Your post is all about her and how you are willing to jump through extra hoops to get sex from your wife, because having youngish children makes her a special NAWALT. You responded to every single response that was critical or questioning of the content of your OP by DEERing. Does having young children change a woman's biology/psychology somewhat? Sure it does. Does that fundamental…	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/08/18 06:15 PM
5	Married... with Children There is so much "Her" in this post it reads like a victim puke. This is why the ECs are giving you so much shit, even though your points about having to compete with modern "Mommy Culture", Social Media Feelz, and her hormones are more or less accurate. You sell people on actions, not speech. I should have clarified that. The problem is you're still focused on selling her instead of just doing what you want to do in order to achieve your mission/vision. Acta Non Verba is a great mantra, but you…	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/08/18 01:40 PM
2	Wow. Just starting out and the shit testing is heavy. You wifed up a single mom of 4, who became a single mom because her ex went to prison. I don't care what color she is, that sounds like a train wreck waiting to happen. Do you have any kids with this woman? If not, make sure you don't. She's probably an Alpha Widow, just based on her demographics and her ex being a convict. At the very least, get ex is certainly more Alpha than you. She almost certainly consciously picked you because you were different; a safe, controllable option by comparison …	/r/askMRP	19/07/18 05:18 PM
7	Wife wants feelings justified. How’d I do? I tell her this. “In and out we need to get back” because I know how she is when we go to the grocery store. Sure enough she’s taking forever so I go off and grab exactly what we need. While she sits and debated what the ripest avocado is (we didn’t even need them for the party). So your wife is terrible about lollygagging at the grocery store. You know this. You are in a hurry and want to be in and out because you are on a schedule. You bring her along anyway. She does exactly what you expected…	/r/askMRP	04/07/18 03:07 PM
4	Would you consider this acceptable behaviour? He's looking for advice because his instincts/gut have already told him what to do, but he's such a vag that he doesn't trust them and is looking for outside validation to tell him that it's the right thing to do. Or, his gut is telling him to next her, but his oneitis/lack of abundance doesn't want him to, so he's looking for a way to justify becoming a cuck. Could go either way. Regardless, yes this is a red flag. She's considering a branch swing or affair; if he doesn't change something soon,…	/r/askMRP	26/06/18 11:34 AM
2	Ex wife moved back in town from 2000 miles away, came to our sons bday party I threw, she tried kino on me Jesus Christ, man... GO SEE A FUCKING LAWYER, NOW! You've been fucked by your ex once already, why in the hell would you willingly set yourself up for the same thing to happen again? If you actually have your shit together now as you've said in your OP, a few hundred bucks spent on at least a consult or two would be money well spent. Even if she's not the evil mastermind you're imagining she can still blunder through fucking up your new life just by listening to her feelz and saying a few of the…	/r/askMRP	22/05/18 01:39 PM
3	PI Update: I've hired a PI... The point he's trying to make is that your stay plan and your leave plan should be the same, up until the point you start the legal proceedings. &Nbsp; Unfuck yourself, kill oneitis, and get out of her frame. The sandbox is the perfect place to start this process; you've got more important things to worry about right now, anyway.	/r/askMRP	16/02/18 09:02 PM
3	GF throwing comfort test. I'm not good at these. Dude, stop. Take it from someone who's made this mistake: do not get into another LTR until 6 -12 months after the divorce is finalized. Do. Not. Do. It. Whether you want to admit it or not, right now you're damaged goods and a validation sponge. You'll bask in the affection of any woman who gets your dick wet and feeds your ego. You're not in the mindset to properly vet, so you'll end up in the same shitty situation in a few years. You get what you deserve, and right now you deserve damaged goo…	/r/askMRP	14/02/18 01:07 PM
2	MRP and Watching Sports Betting on other people actually fighting is manlier that betting on teams of people proxy-fighting, apparently. Just a different flavor of the same bullshit. D&D for guys who don't want to be labeled nerds.	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/02/18 05:22 PM
2	MRP and Watching Sports Have you seen some of these sports guys you're talking about? They're just a different sub-set of loser. Sitting around with your buddies drinking beer, eating wings, and screaming at the TV while watching sportsball is not any better than sitting around with your buddies smoking weed, eating Cheetos, and drinking Mountain Dew while playing D&D. They're just different paths to get the dopamine hit that comes with accomplishment, but without all the troublesome work of actually getting off your a…	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/02/18 05:05 PM