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| 1 | Why do girls get weird when I’m direct? | Outer Game | Groundbreaking_Cup95 | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 11:30 PM |
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| 1 | let's be real, 90% of the time it's about looks.Let’s be real. It’s actually not. I’m quite an attractive guy and I get 0 pussy because my mind is fucked up. Stop making stupid assumptions. Make yourself happy and an actually attractive person and girls will follow. Happiness is the result of doing things right in life = other people will similarly believe that “you are successful”. Happiness and a positive mentality will turn a 6 out of 10 girl into an 8 so the same works for guys. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveI half agree with this and half don’t. Cold approaching works because it is impressive to overcome your fears and women know this. It’s impressive to show such a lack of regard for rejection. Not many men can do this. You will probably get dates for 1 in every 20. Maybe even more! It’s not really understanding women though. To cold approach a women is as desperate as it is ballsy. Women aren’t very naive when it comes to socialising. They have an innate intuition for not only being socialable, b… | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ahh fuck off. This world has so much beauty to offer. You only need to start living a healthier life and persist with this life to see it. Get off your ass and make yourself happy. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Would you rather be miserable for the rest of your life like this? Or endure a bit of anxiety and hopefully live a nicer life? The answer sounds obvious. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It doesn’t help if you don’t work for it. You can’t go there for 1 hour a week and expect them to solve your problems. For one, the first 10-20 sessions are just them getting to know you and understand your life story. The second, they won’t be able to solve your problems, they will just tell you how your thinking is warped, offer healthier ways of thinking, allow you to deal with your demons in the most comfortable way possible and if there’s physical work (live an unhealthy life), they’ll tell… | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I’m pretty surprised you have no hobbies at all. Most people have at least 1 hobbit - even if they count daily exercise or petting their dog. I actually agree with you that “passive hobbies” aren’t real hobbies e.g. Facebook. It’s good that you’re trying to find healthier hobbies. Though I can understand studying so much you don’t have hobbies, but fuck me that’s a hell of a sacrifice. If you’re going to completely sacrifice your youth for your future, I bloody hope you’ve got a good plan and am… | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | I need a pickup line for a girl named BambiHey Bambi, you gave me lots of enjoyment and fun when I was a kid, now I want to return the favour | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 08:08 AM |
| 2 | I’m talking to this guy rn and I don’t think he knows how to flirt with me or seduce me in any wayHonestly, the whole experience thing is very unfortunate. Some guys are great partners, very successful men, strong and intelligent are objectively perfect bf material, but for some reason women just haven’t made the move on them early on in life and they just never got experience. I had a similar experience, am by no means perfect bf material but I would consider myself a valuable partner to have. I was bullied all throughout high school, had developed self esteem problems and therefore never r… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Looks matter..Interesting. But think bout the current nature of the world. Something that has value in the past is not necessarily going to be valuable now. Why are we still attracted to it? Why is symmetry at all valuable? It just looks nice. What about if the girl with large hips is dumb at shit? What about if the hot girl has 10 allergies and is otherwise genetic trash? These are things that surely can’t be explained by evolution alone: did we evolve, not to produce quality babies, but to pump as many out … | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 08:05 AM |
| 5 | Looks matter..I’m. Very attractive dude. Over heard my mates in a pub talking about when as I was talking to someone else at the table, they said I’m probably a 9/10. I get dates with girls and girls give me attention. But when I go on the date, I flop. Girls have no sexual interest in the person that I display to them. It’s not so much looks, but how you take care of yourself and the mindset this conveys to a woman. I have been confident before in life and I got laid a quite a bit. But I’m going through an u… | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 07:01 AM |
| 2 | How to approach girls in the club?Veryslump is right, but if you are more about having a conversation than dancing then do this. It’s much easier to do if you are with friends, because the girls are going to ask you why you are on your own (I have to admit, it’s a bit weird). Do not use canned openers. They fucking suck every time. Work on your personality, charisma, confidence and social skills. Otherwise you’re just a low value, unoriginal needy guy. UNLESS you’re doing it for the meme and are just trying to see what reaction … | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 02:59 AM |
| 4 | How do I get rid of the idea that I'm not good enough for women?Like arrogance is being delusionally entitled to women, low self-esteem is delusionally unentitled to women. What makes you so inherently inferior to others? Is it height? Then is there a place for short individuals in society? In this current society, absolutely. I believe 40 percent of CEOs are below 6 feet. It is completely socially constructed based on our evolutionary advantages which are no longer relevant. Maybe the ability to play sport, but then again, there’s nothing in that for a soci… | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Feeling unusually nervous around someoneThere’s nothing wrong with being nervous, it’s how you deal with the nerves, through non-reactivity. This comes with time. Fear is a natural part of life. The more you can feel it and not let it impact your actions, the easier it is to be normal around people despite the chaos going on in your mind. | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 11:47 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I’m someone whose parents were quite conservative, in the sense that you should have a relationship with a woman for love, not for sex. My Dad was always a strong man, but never made love to my mother in my presence. I had no idea how to make sexual advances on women. I had women who had crushes on me, and was a very well brought up, happy, confident kid, but in the “how to approach” department, I was doomed and was destined to becoming a sexual fantasy. It wasn’t until I met friends who were “g… | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Coworker flaked on date. How should I handle seeing her at work come Monday?“She is a known flaker” - there you go. It’s her personality. Don’t take it personally and be pleasant, but certainly don’t go out of your way for her. The only way you get a girl like that is by being high value in her eyes, but once again her opinion is irrelevant. It is irrelevant because it’s likely to be based on the opinions of others, who think they know how to be successful but similarly have no idea what they are talking about. Treat her like any other acquaintance. How to react to her?… | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 04:27 AM |
| 0 | Check out this situationThanks for stating the obvious. But how to interpret the situation so the guy can learn how he can improve in communicating himself better or filtering women out? Clearly this girl has issues with voicing her needs and has learned to negatively interpret situations. You could blame this on anyone, from society to men, but the fact is that the responsibility is on her and not the dude to solve that shit. As long as the dude walks away unscathed and looks for a more confident girl, he’ll be fine. | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 06:49 AM |
| 7 | How to become more immune to women's ways of preventing you from approaching?This is exactly how I’ve been taught. Whenever I would feel anxious cos I didn’t know how to talk to a girl, I would talk to my Dad’s mate, a known womanizer in his youth, who would say the exact same thing: relax, have fun, don’t take life too seriously. Ask the girl out casually, just tease the idea like: we should get a coffee sometime. Obviously for cold approach, you have to escalate a little faster than a girl in your friendship group, but the idea is the same. Relax, you’re young! You’ll … | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 07:52 AM |
| -3 | How does anyone deal with one word responses?Nah this is completely stupid. You’re allowed to be interested in another’s life, even if you don’t share those values. But you should start of banterful and playful. No one dates to sign up for a lecture but I feel like the responses on here are taking it way too far. Sure you’re not going on a date to give a lecture , but stop taking it so seriously! It’s a conversation topic. What, aren’t you supposed to enquire about interests that you don’t share at that time? That’s stupid, a sign of intel… | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]There are 3.5 billion in the world, you have unlimited chances | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 02:14 AM |
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