GrowingPainsIsGains Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What's you're Opinion on Men who are Incels? I guess I have the rare view here. I have a small social circle and half of them are incels. The ones that “climbed” out had to go through a lot of therapy. The remaining incels refuse to go to therapy. They also reject any kind of private constructive criticism. No matter how gentle I am, they take any slight judgment as an attack. Their coping mechanism are essentially narcissistic. If it’s a shared social fault, they think the other is more at fault. if it’s more their social fault, they thin…	/r/MensRights	03/05/24 06:17 AM
1	Feminism Leaves Women My Age Depressed, Single & Child Free... I’m sorry to hear that man… I hope you find growth as a journey that starts one step at a time. Don’t be too hard on yourself for trying or taking little steps of faith.	/r/MensRights	26/04/24 08:03 PM
3	Feminism Leaves Women My Age Depressed, Single & Child Free... You should socialize with more people. Join a community. Join online dating apps. Ask friends to introduce you etc. The more you get out there, the more chances you get. I met my wife of 16 years on a dating app. If we were to call it quits one day, I have a ton of options in my communities.	/r/MensRights	26/04/24 01:43 PM
1	What real leverage does a guy have in modern relationships? Leverage is when you’re a high value man. So, keep self improving. Keep increasing your salary. Look for new jobs. Work on public speaking and lead a community towards helping the homeless. Work on being more fashionable. Google / YouTube has soooo many things on hair cuts, clothes, etc. Workout in some way. If you can join a martial arts even better. If not, just calisthenics at home is what I do due to busy schedule. When I began to work on myself every day my value increased a ton. My wife sa…	/r/MensRights	23/04/24 04:13 PM
5	Is it bad your (ex) wife started dating so soon? This is the real advice.	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/12/23 04:37 PM
5	Weaponizing sex No, they look that way in the beginning, but once an Asian locks you down, it’s a dead bedroom.	/r/MensRights	03/10/23 05:45 AM
10	TV shows portray men/fathers as idiots, and one ought to be aware of this and look out for it. Even a seemingly innocuous show like Peppa Pig portrays the father as an idiot, and this has an effect on children subconsciously. Homer Simpson, Peter Griffin, Al Bundy, Jerry Smith (Rick and Morty)… There are literally so much anti-father propaganda.	/r/MensRights	02/09/23 07:44 AM
1	Australian journalist believes women should 'date up' and choose richer, successful men as she explains why it's not 'gold digging'. OP: Top comment, "Every day, the same old gal with no husband, telling single girls how to get a man". Hey I enjoyed your comment! Thank you for writing such a deep thought provoking answer!	/r/MensRights	21/08/23 01:26 AM
-15	Australian journalist believes women should 'date up' and choose richer, successful men as she explains why it's not 'gold digging'. OP: Top comment, "Every day, the same old gal with no husband, telling single girls how to get a man". My last girlfriend was a gold digger. Annoyed the shit out of me. But I saw this comment the other day and it made me think: “If a woman gives more guy’s chances for sex, she’s a “slut.” If a woman does not, she’s a “bitch.” If a woman is independent, she’s “fighting against nature” But if a woman tries to be dependent and date someone dependable, she’s a “gold digger.”” I started to wonder what’s the right balance to a women?	/r/MensRights	20/08/23 02:36 PM
1	Why is society surprised or being doomers about AI girlfriends but refuse to help men? As a man, I’m pretty surprised at the trend of upvotes and downvotes on this topic. Especially surrounding online porn. Dopamine addiction is not something we should celebrate. I can celebrate moderate view of sexual equality, but if AI pulls us deeper into porn and dopamine addiction, we will be a slave to our desires. We would be no different than a women addicted to their desires from a feminist standpoint. Please wake up and fight for the right things.	/r/MensRights	01/08/23 08:18 PM
1	'Should,' 'Shouldn't' and What do you Want I don’t quite agree. “Should and shouldn’t” often stem from responsibility. It’s badass to lead and increase your dominion. Or “should and shouldn’t” can also stem from a clear goal of what you want. In that sense, should and shouldn’t actually further defines what you want. None of this is evil in itself. The goal is to own your shit so that should and shouldn’t doesn’t mess with your self worth. If your should and shouldn’t are hurting you, it’s a sign you got the wrong goals or not worthwhile…	/r/MarriedRedPill	07/03/22 07:01 AM