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Hm. Is someone triggered?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:49 AM
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Of course it’s to blame — for men who can’t get a woman to stick around them out of her own free will. All other dudes are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:42 AM
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“ Hypergamy” is the big bad boogeyman of red pill, and women initiating divorce is proof it is to them. So yes, that’s exactly what they mean: Women are too picky and always looking for a better option, ergo divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:41 AM
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I’m sure you would rather live in a family home cleaned to family home standards than a bachelor hovel. Just as I bet you’d rather stay at a nicely cleaned hotel chain than a grubby youth hostel
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:17 AM
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Sure. Existence in a setting where half of the population is stronger, more aggressive and more violent than you, who only care what they can extract from you to their benefit, and are only partially deterred by law enforcement/societal standards is kind of like prison, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:10 AM
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“We’re not destroying marriage, women are — by divorcing us more often! They are branch swinging to higher tier men! They’re too picky and can never be satisfied! Damn no-fault divorce!”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:02 AM
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Yes, because women didn’t do the raping, burning and killing of boys. If they had, I’m sure a bunch of murderous rampaging women would have definitely made the news, precisely because it’s so rare as to be nonexistent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:52 PM
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Kids are more aware then you think, and can affect custody well before 18. I mean, you do know how “obedient”, “unopinionated” and “docile” teens and pre-teens are, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:55 PM
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Well, that is definitely unfair, unjust, and shitty. Maybe your daughter can help you when she becomes old enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:48 PM
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And “the truth” was....?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:26 PM
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Yes. It’s obvious most dudes are aware of just how shitty they treat women by the way they talk about prison
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:14 PM
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I agree. I wish more women would get a spine and leave these man-children. Let them wallow in their batchelor styes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:11 PM
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People “respected” her even if they knew the truth about her? Or did they not know the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:09 PM
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The only good thing about being a man is not being the focus of male sexual desire and violence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:07 PM
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No, the quoted stat here is that 70-80% of those 40-50% of marriages that end, are ended by women. Dudes seem to think this makes them look good, which I find hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:51 PM
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Because men are 60-80% less likely to be as good at being the lower earning partner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:34 PM
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We can never know the truth, I’m convinced. It’s sad, because I am truly curious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:32 PM
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You just aren’t ever going to be happy, are you ? Well, that’s your choice; the rest of us will go on living our lives Yes, yes, genghis khan; we know the whole routine, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:29 PM
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The biological imperative is sex. Don’t try and attach grander motives to your grubby needs. Babies and domesticity is waaaay behind “getting my dick wet”, “getting my dick wet regularly” and “finding someone I can stand to be around for more than a day and gets my dick wet” as far as needs go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:21 PM
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We are driven to have sex. That “reproductive” adjective is a deliberate misdirection
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:20 PM
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So, you’d be fulfilled being a virginal sperm donor? Generic imperative achieved!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:15 PM
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Any deviations from the norm are unknown, and therefore risky. So, fucking weird things in weird ways is risky. Consequences would include social condemnation, social rejection/punishments, physical injury/death from trauma from being the receiving partner, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:13 PM
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Nature. Nature takes chances with dudes, hence the wider variety in their behaviors and desires. If women did that, we’d get killed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:03 PM
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Ahahaha, just because you would fuck a 70 year old homeless woman with crabs and lice does not mean we would fuck a 70 year old homeless man with crabs and lice. You are hilarious dude. We would rather fuck no one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:45 PM
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What do you think all this whining about “we was lied to” is? It’s constant on here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:39 PM
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Isn’t that the whole point of FDS and RP?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:38 PM
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We don’t put up with it. It’s called 70% divorce rate. That’s why I feel no sympathy for dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:32 PM
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If you’re only in it for pussy, then you never believed in it anyways. You were just another “nice guy” trying to brownie your way into women’s pants
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:26 PM
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Guys on here think that arranged marriages and beta bux were so awesome for both sexes. There’s a reason we don’t do those things anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:59 AM
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Who knows? Teen boys can father kids at horribly young ages too. It’s a shitshow all around at those ages
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:03 AM
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“Wow, it’s so awesome I can get jackhammered for 3 minutes and then do the job myself later while he snores. Can’t think why I don’t do this more often!”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:01 AM
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How much sex do you think the average women could have if she wanted to? Spoiler — she doesn’t want to have sex that much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:58 AM
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Of course. I love evidence, and so does the law
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:40 AM
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Teen fertility is a last resort option — sometime back when things got really bad, the women who could reproduce immediately after puberty got a leg up on those who couldn’t. However, the health issues/mortality and general immaturity associated with teen pregnancy makes it clear that just because you can doesn’t mean you should
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:35 PM
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How dare she take precautions to preserve her life and bodily integrity!!! Women should just trust men to never kill, beat or rape them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:21 PM
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K. Keep doing you, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:19 PM
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It’s an excuse. They think having a biological reason makes their problematic lust more acceptable I can’t help cheating/overestimating/pedophiling/violencing—- it’s biology and I’m a helpless animal with no self control or free will!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 10:43 PM
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Men sure are lazy about an activity that they say rules their lives and brains. They aren’t very good at making this activity worth my while. That’s why I don’t feel sorry for them anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:11 PM
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It prevents us from being “not” turned on, and not pissed off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:35 AM
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Tone is the only reason Red Pill exists at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:25 PM
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When people tell you to be nice, they mean, “I see no evidence that you are hot enough, talented enough, rich enough or entertaining enough to get away with being an asshole.” And there are penalties for being an asshole They could be wrong, you know. And it’s not done out of malice or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:12 PM
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You can do it. And people can and will criticize you for it I suspect, much like cold approaching, most but not all women will be turned off by your presumption. You’ll have to decide whether that’s a sufficiently effective rate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:38 PM
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Successful adults are also ugly, awkward, introverted and underperforming?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:08 PM
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Welp, guess it’s useless for everyone everywhere then!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:04 PM
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There is room between 0 and 100 And adulting is finding out and deciding where you are between those numbers You can whine and blame other people all you want, but no one will respect that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:58 PM
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Are you a troll? Seems like you’ve been here before complaining about the same thing — i.e., why don’t guys like me me me?! It’s annoying when men AND women do that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:40 PM
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No ones forcing you to? And I know you can read. Lots of people are telling you that they have used it successfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:35 PM
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Yes. You just want to get your dick wet, which is your concern only. Your friends and family, however, want to enjoy being around and have positive things to say about you, instead of “this is my son the drug dealer, who has lots of dysfunctional girlfriends, gets incarcerated often, and is a selfish asshole”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:26 PM
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“So why society keep talking about being "decent human being" when that doesn't matter at all.” Because society and the individual are different, and often antagonistic? This is, like, human existence 101, man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:11 PM
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Your points always boil down to, “women shouldn’t be able to choose who they fuck, because it isn’t me”. And we’re going to keep calling that out. You can keep threatening us with dire consequences for preferring our autonomy, but it doesn’t strengthen your argument like you think it does. Extortion is the resort of the desperate . Even men don’t buy sexual communism under duress as a desirable state of affairs, or think the apocalypse is reasonable/likely because some guys can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:06 PM
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Therapy is one way of dealing with problems. You don’t wanna deal with your problems, expect no sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:03 PM
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Oh really ? Pray tell what percentage of women are in relationships with abusive lowlifes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:53 PM
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Who was popular in high school and middle school, mmmm? Or, indeed, all through life? Ugly, awkward, unsuccessful introverts? Seems like people who don’t see reality are being deliberately obtuse. Or else deserve to be mocked for it. Like people who think porn is reality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:31 PM
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All women, eh? All women without exception go after abusive drug dealers ? Or, perhaps you could have drawn the conclusion that OP did, which is that the specific women who end up with abusive drug dealers are neither normal nor desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:28 PM
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Then don’t complain that people don’t care about your problems
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:14 PM
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“Why don’t shallow, vapid, materialistic humans like me, a good person? I’m sure we have so much in common! Incompatibility is the best basis for a relationship!”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:15 PM
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It can also be used to communicate dissatisfaction and unhappiness in a relationship. How crazy, yes? But men apparently don’t want to hear it. I’m not here to convince you — in fact, I hope you and most of the men on this sub dismiss everything I say and keep doing whatever it is you’re doing, since it appears to be working so well for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:57 PM
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“I don’t like this/I don’t want that/I want this/I want that/can you help me with this/can you do this” Seems pretty straightforward and useful if you give a shit about your partner at all. You don’t have to agree and can also communicate your feelings, thoughts and desires too. Perhaps even discuss, compromise and agree like adults ! The horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:53 PM
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That’s considered communication. If you don’t want to communicate with a human, get a sex doll or a fleshlight that won’t bother you with its own desires, thoughts, feelings or needs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:49 PM
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“Women, why do you make relationship decisions based on the words that come out of men’s mouths?” “Well, what words do come out of men’s mouths?” “........that’s private. And doesn’t matter anyway! None of it matters!” Color me confused at the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:45 PM
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Who said it did? You’re free to leave suddenly too if you’re not happy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:43 PM
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This is awesome. Yeah dudes, how you behave in a relationship will affect a woman’s feelings for you. That “nagging” that so many dudes complain about and tune out in LTRs means she’s not happy, and a good portion of women will leave your ass if you ignore it. Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:39 PM
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You want people to be with partners they don’t like or respect? Sounds like a recipe for harmony and happiness!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:00 AM
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Hear, hear! People take our freedoms for granted. You can cut all sorts of toxic people from your lives now no problem when you previously would have been stuck with them for life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:54 AM
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I know uncertainty pisses people off, but really — you can do what you want as long as no one gets hurt. I promise, people do not have the time or energy to mess with your shit if you keep it to yourself. You’re not that special, jeesus
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:08 PM
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Dudes, I don’t get this obsession. You’re free to not date these women, seriously. Are people really being pressured to do this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:06 PM
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The spiel about work is to let the dude know she’s not going to roll over and become a housewife. And, believe it or not, a women who has options due to her job is more desirable because she’s with you by choice, not necessity. Guys who have mail order brides are not exactly seen as winners, are they ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:55 AM
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Those challenging careers like STEM, trades, law enforcement/military have been so welcoming to women, right? They are never excluded, harassed, belittled, undermined or underpaid by men right? What lawsuits? Back when I was young and naive, I looked briefly into the military and was told by those in the know that it wasn’t worth the hassle and sexual harassment. Oh, and all the rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:49 AM
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Yes, I just love bruising the shit out of my female parts, it’s lovely. Let me put it this way. I’d rather fuck a guy whose dick is on the small side but who gives a shit and isn’t lazy, than an average dude who keeps losing his erection, whines about it and makes it my problem, and doesn’t bother to make me come. That lazy average fucker is the one I’m going to talk shit about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:26 AM
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I’m not a fan of bruising my ovaries and painful sex. I’m pretty sure I’m not the only one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:20 AM
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Well, I don’t like getting speared in my internal organs. Nor am I a fan of the pain that accompanies it. Guess that makes me a prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:18 AM
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Because fetishes exist? I mean, have you ever done a search for niche porn/photo subs just on Reddit? I would guess there are tens of thousands of them, the vast majority of which are obviously aimed at straight men. And you do know that a lot of the people on those penis subs are gay dudes, right ? By the time I’m in a position to see a dude’s wang, I’m not going say anything about it unless it’s unworkable for sex. What kind of rude, trashy women have you been having sex with, seriously? We kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:13 AM
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Most women would be interested in those things as well as personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:32 PM
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In both genders, this mindset is used to pull people with low self esteem out of their dysfunctional mentality. That’s who it is targeting, and rightly so. If other people are using it, they will be quickly reminded of it by that bitch Reality, and the problem will take care of itself Why should you care if narcissists are able to loudly announce themselves? They are doing you a favor so you can easily swerve them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:28 PM
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They know They don’t care Because their dick comes first This is fine, guys, but don’t act like you’re not being selfish. Because you’re being selfish; you’re not doing us a favor solely for our benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:20 PM
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The ones I listed two comments up, and that you agreed were indicative of personality? You trolling ? I know you can read
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:17 PM
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Well then start a thread discussing them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:14 PM
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I did that because for some reason dudes think the way they really think about us isn’t obvious. No, dudes. We can see what your feelings and motivations are very clearly. And they’re disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:36 PM
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Hey! Psst! Hey! ....women don’t have to talk to you, date you, or fuck you if we aren’t attracted to you. Or indeed, for any reason at all! Was that triggering for you ? No? Then you should make a fake female account, on any platform, and point out that very thing out to horny guys. It’s fun, and very educational about entitlement Along with porn and the news, social media/dating sites has taught me everything I need to about men and how they regard me. And it’s pretty ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:24 PM
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Since those attributes are more in line with what women list in attraction, then women are definitely more interested in a man’s personality then men are in a woman’s personality, and personality is less shallow than looks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:02 PM
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It does if you throw a number out there and expect it to make a difference. If a guy mentioned dick size to me, unless it’s abnormal either way I’m not going to judge until I see it in action. Which becomes less likely, because if all you care about is size, I’m gonna assume you think that’s all you need to bring. Talk is cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 09:34 PM
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Ahahahahahah, no I mean, I surely hope you know that unsolicited dick pics are neither awesome nor wanted, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 08:10 PM
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Yes. Only dudes are number obsessed. I promise you, the vast majority of women do not do number ratings or know dick lengths. This is not to say we don’t have a rating system, it’s just not with numbers Seriously, have you ever heard women talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 08:05 PM
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That’s fine, I’m not calling you a liar — but did these women actually care about measurements ? This is something that tends to concern men a lot more than women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:46 PM
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Well you, you seem more like banana/“Believer”/raccoon kind of guy. Some variation is allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:38 PM
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Nope! Didn’t march in any parades! I had to work! So, I am not a hypocrite!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:35 PM
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This is common sense. It is disturbing that people can’t figure this out on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:32 PM
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In people’s obituaries, do we list the physical attributes of the deceased instead of their work history, accomplishments/education, relationships and life history? Just their race, height, weight, and SMV rating, am I right? Because it is very important
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:23 PM
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Dudes, only a small minority of “size queens” are running around with rulers, ok? It’s a fetish. We just care how it feels and how you use it when you fuck US, not a porn actress.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:15 PM
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Women like that are put in prison when caught, believe it or not. Do you see any women in the feminist subs arguing (like men do in their respective subs) that fucking teen boys is “natural” because their young bodies are biologically optimal ? Or that teen boys have mommy fetishes and are the aggressors in these relationships, so they are therefore OK? I don’t recall there being a female version of NAMBLA either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:11 PM
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Oh ho ho, here we are with this molesting boys argument, eh? I’m sure you’re all SO concerned about it, that’s why men are constantly making jokes about how they wished their teacher would molest them. On this very sub, even!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:04 PM
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Mhmm. Awesome logic there. Care to link some evidence that ALL women claimed they are raped and abused daily? No? Then it is perfectly ok for me to say that every man here is a closeted homosexual who secretly wants to stuff 10 lightbulbs up their asses while singing “Waltzing Matilda” and fellating a hedgehog! It’s true! You don’t need evidence !!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:00 PM
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You are on a pill sub, no? Are you just trolling? Because if you spend any time on any “pill” sub, people spend a good chunk of time debating what the hell it means. Getting people to adhere to a standard is like trying to nail jello to a wall
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:57 PM
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I find it hard to believe that I am the only woman in 10,000 who has experienced one of those things. Perhaps no women in your life will admit to it because you will call them a retarded feminist. But I guarantee at least half the women you know have been either molested, raped or injured by a man, while not having molested, raped or injured someone themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:50 PM
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How about you stop raping, killing, molesting and injuring us, and we will stop being afraid of you? Deal? We will continue to work our jobs and live our lives, don’t worry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:43 PM
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Why do you think I’m gay? Only lesbians can be upset about the way women are treated historically and around the world? That is some stereotypical shit, man. I don’t hate dudes in general, but based on my personal experiences, crime stats, porn, and the way they talk about women, a lot of them sure seem to hate me Let’s be real — lots of men take our freedom to not have to fuck them as a horrible, oppressive injustice. That tells you all you need to know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:35 PM
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I don’t fuck with men, but for some reason they keep fucking with me, so no, I’m not going to shut up and just take it. And men’s attitude, at least on this sub, appears to be, “At least we aren’t even worse to you, so be happy and grateful!” So noble and attractive!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:29 PM
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Insults and tone are not the same thing, and tone policing is not a thing on this sub. So no, I did not insult or otherwise ad hominem attack you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:22 PM
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Of course. So you’re gonna work really hard on your physical form so that you can get the best love possible, right? And if you’re physical form is not good enough, you don’t deserve love, right ? And when your physical form deteriorates, it is moral and fair for people to not love you anymore, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:17 PM
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Because lazy and entitled. They know, they just try and shame women into dropping their standards because they don’t wanna put in the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:15 PM
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Because they are hypocrites. “Women are picky and don’t fuck everything they see! Therefore, they are shallow” I have never seen someone try to argue that being more discriminate is shallower than indiscriminate outside of this sub, but here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:14 PM
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Please point on the dolly to where I only insulted you or mocked you instead of arguing a point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:10 PM
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Dude. You initiated our last 2 comment chains. Nice gaslighting attempt. I can see you’re gonna a be a great boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:03 PM
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You go out into the real world and talk about how shallow women are and how they can’t love...even dudes are going to think you have a screw loose And before you object that it’s a minority view, please do remember you are on a sub that explicitly exists to discuss this minority view.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:38 PM
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You got evidence to back up your accusation, or are you just name calling?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:35 PM
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I’m excluding pity/obligation/duty/starfish sex, and non orgasmic sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:27 PM
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You go out into the real world and talk about how shallow women are and how they can’t love...even dudes are going to think you have a screw loose
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:17 PM
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I’m not gonna do it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:15 PM
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Nope. Why else would there be married red pill In any case, red pill is rife with “that’s not what red pill is”/no true Scotsman-ing, because red pill is just loosey goosey self help tropes with edgy misogyny thrown in to appeal to its target demographic — bitter dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:05 PM
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Don’t be disingenuous. The point of these red pill contentions is to dehumanize women so that treating them differently, poorly and antagonisticly is justified. “Women can’t love unconditionally, therefore they suck, are shallow, and you can treat them like enemies with no remorse.” “Judging and valuing a person based on their outward appearance and the availability of their genitals is in fact noble and selfless!” Lets not also forget that in the real world, these views are widely mocked and in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:26 PM
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Don’t be disengenuous. Dudes here say all the time that all that matters is sex and what gets their dick hard. Even in “love” Then they cry when the same standard is applied to them. Guys here are sympathetic to this whining, but you can try it out in the real world and see where it gets you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:20 PM
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Then you could love a sex doll
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:17 PM
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We can have status and money taken away too. And we can’t remove your looks or dick either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:15 PM
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The point is that only one sex here is insisting that the other is incapable of love (and therefore subhuman).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:10 PM
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Well, I’ve been doing lots of gardening and cooking lately, and nice, healthy greens sound much better than rancid man-spurt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:41 AM
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SEED Will I get some nice veggies out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:59 AM
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Why can people not wrap their heads around this? Red pill is a reactionary philosophy — a reaction against the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:57 PM
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Because it’s not fair! It’s not totally equal, that’s why !!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:55 PM
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From the way a lot of these women describe their men (jobless/homebound, anger issues, childish dependence, lack of hygiene) they must be very, very hawt losers. Or, more likely, the woman suffers from mental illness or childhood abuse. I almost never see them describe their partner’s appearance. Occasionally, they will talk about the sex being good, or mention that the guy is fat, but those are rare. Over and over again, they go on and on about how sweet and kind their partner used to be, or is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:39 PM
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Here’s a post on this very subject https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/95fzp9/ladies_when_you_reject_a_man_you_reject_his/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Money quote: “Ladies, when you reject a man, you reject his existence as well....When you reject a man sexually, you are biologically saying "Your genes aren't worth passing on. You should never have been born. You aren't worthy of reproducing."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:25 PM
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Check out the relationship/abuse subs. Those chicks cling to, agonize and fawn over the most worthless and shitty dudes imaginable. Like, guys that call them names, don’t wipe their asses, never pay attention to them, are sexually selfish, are jobless, have no friends, never lift a finger around the house, etc., etc. Why do they not gtfo? “He can be nice and funny... sometimes” “He makes me feel loved and cherished...sometimes” See? Just give a shit sometimes, and they will utterly debase themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:18 PM
1

Young people’s situations change faster than older people’s, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:13 PM
2

Then you must have high standards for women. Perhaps too high
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:55 PM
1

Because ya don’t know until ya know And also, you could have said stuff like “I’d rather be a slave in the Confederate South than celibate” “I’d rather be a Jew in Bergen-Belsen than celibate” “I’d rather have severe cerebral palsy than be celibate” But you didn’t, did you? I wonder why....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:43 PM
1

Giving up early is not recommended or wise, don’t you think ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:41 PM
1

Wow. Can you, uh, elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:33 PM
1

I’m pretty sure he’s facetiously edgelord-ing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:31 PM
1

He can get sex, though. That must be worth some sort of motivation and help some mental issues
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:29 PM
1

They can be exchanged for sex, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:21 PM
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Would you like to live in a world where only mutually enjoyable sex takes place? I suspect you would not like it, because not much fucking will be going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:16 PM
3

You’re complaining about money. Those things I all listed are free
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:06 PM
0

Ok, so what does complete that sentence? Here is an issue and so......?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:55 PM
3

What do you mean? That used to be relationship between the sexes for the vast majority of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:55 PM
2

To my knowledge, no country on earth prohibits men from pursuing relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:52 PM
4

Why don’t you get traumatically ass raped and get back to us, mmm? I will definitely give pre-eminent authority to your comments then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:50 PM
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Men see indifference/rejection from women they are attracted to as malicious. So in their mind, yes, it is that bad. I believe Jim Morrison said that “Women seem wicked, when you’re unwanted”, which sums the mindset up pretty well. You could also call it “aggrieved entitlement”, i.e., anger over being denied that which you believe is your due, rightful or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:48 PM
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Attention is free. Compliments, praise, favors — all free. Companionship as well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:44 PM
3

You’re fucking a woman who isn’t that into you. That “isn’t anywhere near as attractive” as a woman who is into you, right? Or at least, that’s what the men here say. So no one gets what they really want. Equality !!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:43 PM
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Because the other half of your sentence Women just straight up have a huge advantage in dating, sex, and love is “so you should suck it up and fuck us whether you want to or not”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:40 PM
1

People who are hot, entertaining or provide amiable companionship will continue to fuck. People who are boring, ugly or unpleasant will not. I mean, not much different from now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:37 PM
1

Yes. Women won’t just fuck any cylindrical object. This is like Gender 101
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:35 PM
2

I don’t get jealous. If they don’t want me, that’s on me. And I don’t want someone who doesn’t want me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:32 PM
2

You guys want a guarantee We can’t do that. It would be rude, disingenuous, and a waste your time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:30 PM
2

No, the reason the n count is valued differently is that the pussy is a sexual resource and the dick is not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:23 PM
4

Wow, that’s so unreasonable to expect! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:21 PM
1

Yah. That’s the point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:06 PM
1

Do you think all those fuckboys out there are concerned about babies, God, and becoming mature, uplifted fathers? Here I thought they just wanted to “smash”. They should call their sub “reproduction” instead of “seduction” then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:00 PM
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Let me simplify. Is your thought process, in your conscious brain: 1) I want to find a hot chick to make my dick feel awesome Or I want to fertilize the eggs of a genetically superior biological female to produce healthy offspring
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:58 PM
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Like I said above: Yes. So why bring reproduction into it? Distracts from the point, no? I suspect people know their grubby desires are selfish and petty, so they need to attach larger motives to them like “reproduction” and “biology” to appear more noble and universal. Nice try; I’m not buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:56 PM
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Yes. So why bring reproduction into it? Distracts from the point, no? I suspect people know their grubby desires are selfish and petty, so they need to attach larger motives to them like “reproduction” and “biology” to appear more noble and universal. Nice try; I’m not buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:48 PM
2

Let me simplify. Is your thought process, in your conscious brain: 1) I want to find a hot guy to make me feel awesome Or 2) I want to find a genetically superior biological male to fertilize my eggs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:47 PM
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Fetishizing babies and reproduction annoys me, as there are so many shitty or incompetent parents out there. Sex and babies are two different issues to me, and people try and equate them to bolster or distract from weak arguments. That also annoys me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:40 PM
3

“Ooooh baby, you’re looking soooo fertile! I can’t wait until you pop out 19 kids for me! Pregnant chicks make me hard as a rock!”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:30 PM
0

Well, please let the next woman you fuck know how awesomely fertile she looks and how many babies you want her to pop out for you. It will definitely make her super wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:28 PM
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Lol, no. Men were fine fucking the unwilling for almost all of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:25 PM
4

Perhaps. Or maybe a matriarchy that shuffles along indefinitely might survive longer than a patriarchy that violently implodes every thousand or so years. I think it likely that if agrarian modern society doesn’t get it’s act together, traditional society remnants like the native Americans, aboriginals, Sami, etc, will emerge from their bunkers and carry on among the wreckage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:21 PM
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All of manly technology and awesomeness is useless if we can’t divert the asteroid or de-poison the environment. So in the end, patriarchy doesn’t seem any better than matriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:04 PM
1

Well then, please use it in seduction, by all means, and report back. For science!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:59 PM
1

This is about a productive a discussion as “hey, what if we had 60 arms instead of 2?” or “what if we could photosynthesize?” Neither sex can live without the other. This situation is not likely to change, ever, however much we may want it to. Just live together and deal with it like adults, instead of indulging these sad, childish copout fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:57 PM
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The way society is going, mud huts seem pretty likely in the future. But mud huts in a ruined environment this time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:53 PM
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It’s super unsexy. This is why couples having fertility issues often find it hard to fuck when it’s distilled down to reproduction and nothing else. I mean, is that what you’re fantasizing about ? Fertilization ? Chromasomes? Diaper changes ? “That’s sooo hot dude” — no woman ever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:49 PM
1

Yes, you like the act. So why bring up the other stuff to make it cold, logical and unsexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:47 PM
0

Don’t be shocked. If you understand that men view women as basically organic flesh lights, their attitudes and entire world view makes sense. That’s the whole point about “objectification” Women seem loathe to accept this, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:26 PM
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Men, linking sex to babies and DNA is not sexy or persuasive, ok? It makes your argument weird and bizarre. Chromasomes, family life and infants make me hard! That’s what I really want to fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:23 PM
1

Really ? When you try and smash, you’re thinking of babies and DNA? Kinky...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:19 PM
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Why do men think high school love is awesome? It’s cringe all over. Or should be, like anything that peaks in high school. I mean, look back at photos of yourself from high school...is it pretty?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:18 PM
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Ok. “Hey, people who did something that I consider stupid, irresponsible, and sinful, why did you do that stupid, irresponsible, and sinful thing? Didn’t you know that what you were doing was stupid, irresponsible, and sinful? Is it really that difficult to not do the stupid, irresponsible, and sinful thing? Help me understand!” Does that summarize it better? Cuz it sure seems like that’s what you were asking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:20 AM
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Your attitude makes me dubious that you are looking for anything more than for some poor, naive woman to incriminate herself in good faith. It’s like asking, hey violent rapists, why do you violently rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:13 AM
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I know the answer you want: “The existence of single mothers proves that women are sinful creatures with no logic, virtue, or responsibility. We should end feminism and go back to a traditional way of life where men have all the power, because women are incapable of being autonomous beings. Women are intellectually, spiritually, and morally inferior. They will bring about the end of civilization if we do not take away their rights. Also, God says so.” Ok, I did it for you. You are totally right,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 03:09 AM
0

Porque no los dos?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:55 AM
1

If I’m not mistaken, there’s a lot of whining about sexlessness, not lovelessness. Can’t help you with love, dude, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:47 AM
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I think you are overestimating the number of housewives that exist, m’friend. The majority of women work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:45 AM
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Yah, I mean, if you whine about something, you’re gonna get called a whiner. But thanks for arguing in good faith anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:43 PM
1

You don’t need to feel bad for me, I’m fine being alone — which is the problem in the vast majority of relationships. No ones responsible enough to leave, so they complain instead You seem fine to me, but that’s not going to guarantee happiness or a relationship. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:31 PM
2

No, I’m not young, is the point. I’ve lived through the crossover from paid porn channels to free internet porn. So I can tell you....it has 100% affected things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:16 PM
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Ahahahaha. I can’t even, seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:10 PM
2

Because someone asked nicely, usually? It’s the demanding, whining and pouting that we don’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:52 PM
1

I am utterly wrecked by your pre-rejection. How can I live?! You were my only hope, Tomahawk Suppository!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:45 PM
2

For the reasons I stated earlier. Keep it away from us and don’t let it affect you, and most women won’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:23 PM
1

Take it away, then; I won’t miss any of these imaginary benefits that I don’t use and don’t want to use
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:21 PM
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I don’t get what I want all the time, but you don’t see me crying about it. Nice misogyny, btw
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:15 PM
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Yes, mythical Chad is hotter than you — do you think anyone finds it unfair that he slays more and hotter puss than the Chess club president? My life would be easier if I had the last name Rockefeller, or if I had blonde hair and 36HH tits. Am I all bitter and whiny and complain on the internet because I don’t have those things? Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:01 PM
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Well, women marry under the good faith assumption that their husbands won’t let themselves go physically and treat them like a bangmaid nanny-mommy, but are often disappointed as well. So everyone is miserable! Equality!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:54 PM
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It’s weird that men have no problem plunking down cash for a muscle car, souped up gaming setup, fantasy football, cam girls, strippers, alcohol, cleaning services, repairmen, drugs — many of which can be bartered for or DIY’d — but turn into haggling fishwives over sex. You understand you’re paying the hooker in place of spending time and effort, right ? Which are the very thing that men complain about regarding dating? Society provides a solution, and all you guys do is whine more, geez. I wis…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:46 PM
2

Do people never amicably divorce? Do all men marry at gunpoint?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:33 PM
2

Again, men act like there is only one choice, when there are many. Victimhood, baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:29 PM
3

“Linked” doesn’t mean “always”. If you’re openly and rigidly prejudiced, people can and will call you out for it. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:38 PM
1

They are a self help movement, and people can be judgemental. Also, there are undoubtedly, as I pointed out, selfish individuals who ruin it for others
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:33 PM
1

It’s not “don’t get married if you want to have sex”. It’s “you married a human, not a sex slave/fleshlight”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:28 PM
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That’s why restrictions exist. Like, you know, in the real world. Now, granted, dating platforms must have chosen to not place restrictions for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:23 PM
1

No one is out here to shame your fetishes, ok? Just don’t be a selfish dick about them or engage in criminal behavior to fulfill them and you’re good. We just complain about the dudes that can’t or won’t perform those basic courtesies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:16 PM
1

Yup. We should all just lay down and die; life is meaningless. Eat at Arby’s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:13 PM
2

I believe you took issue with someone saying the sexes are equal, that was my issue. Let me look again...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:08 PM
7

How long can you go without it? Do you prefer porn to sex to the point your partner is dissatisfied with either the frequency or type of sex you have? Are you unable to enjoy sex unless you’re imagining or acting out porn scenes? Those questions pretty much cover it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:04 PM
1

Well, then, what’s the problem? Men will never stop throwing dick around, and women will never go without because of it. Seems “equal and fair” to me. I would prefer for this not to happen, but it’s men’s decision, after all!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:58 PM
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Of course we know. We have sex with you guys after all. I would not have a problem with it if guys would stop denying that it affects them so vehemently. We’re not going to take your porn away, guys! Just admit you’re addicted to it and got all your weird fetishes from it, it’s not hard. Oh, and respect my decision to not act out your selfish porn fantasies and we good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:49 PM
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Maybe in your relationships. People have lots of choices now, and would probably not enter unequal relationships if they didn’t have to. Most of us have give and take within the relationship, not over the relationship as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:34 PM
3

Yes, it’s plan B. So why don’t more men use it instead whining about the lack of plan A?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:24 PM
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Of course not. It’s the judgement of those decisions that matters. “Male cheating ok, female cheating not” Please also see “count, N” for more lovely hypocrisy which ends in judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:20 PM
1

Again... see the homeless dudes on the streets? Women would be there too. The lack of male shelters for domestic abuse? There will be lack of femal shelters too? The lack of money going to the research of prostate cancer? The same will happen to breast cancer and uterus cancer. Female gender quotas, affirmative action and similar projects? Gone. Every single social benefit that women have, they have because men that protect women (even if they do it only with their vote or their decisions on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:16 PM
6

Why don’t you walk down that dark alley with a bunch of male strangers? I’ll stick with groups of women, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:09 PM
2

Most people would interpret “See that positive thing that exists? Wouldn’t it be terrible for it to be taken away?” or “Look at that unfortunate situation. Wouldn’t it be terrible for that to happen to you?” as a veiled threat “Nice ___ ya got there. Would be a shame if something were to...happen to it”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:04 PM
4

I’m fine with men pursing whatever they want. No harm, no foul I’m not fine with them pretending they have no agency, or blaming us for their decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:00 PM
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“Be more grateful to men and generous with the pussy, ladies, or you’ll end up on the street, beaten half to death by the person who “loves” you, and riddled with cancer. You owe us!” Threats are very classy, mature and sexy, thanks! You make men sound so wonderful to be around too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:56 PM
1

Ok, I took that part out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:52 PM
3

Hookers and other paid attention-based sex work sounds awesome. Why are men so squeamish about it, but not about porn? You have a perfect alternative to 1) interact with hotter women on better terms and 2) don’t have to deal with the unimportant parts of the woman. Value for money! It’s so efficient!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:50 PM
3

I wish you guys would remove the dick attention and leave us alone. It’s not anywhere near as beneficial and flattering as you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:47 PM
2

Well, it’s awesome you feel the need to blame us for having a theoretical advantage we neither care about nor asked for. Make sure to let us know we should be grateful for it — women love that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:37 PM
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I’m not counting on generosity or the “pussy pass” in my old age, thank you very much, that’s why I work, save and invest. This idea that most women have this entitled attitude that we will get/are owed shit needs to die. The only thing most of us are guilty of is expecting society to work like it says it does. Men can be dangerous, rapey, and violent ok? That’s why no one is going to pick that homeless guy off the ground, choose a male babysitter, pick up a male hitchhiker, get into your van to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:06 PM
6

We’d rather be alone, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:00 PM
11

Their sexuality is impossible to satisfy. So sadly, they will always be unhappy. And so will women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:58 PM
7

I’m over 30 and below average looking. I’m polite, introverted, cordial and stay in my own lane. No one ever interacts with me without either money or a favor as an incentive. In other words, I give society no reason to fuck with me, and it doesn’t, but neither do I get any cookies except the benefit of the doubt. Now, unfortunately, interacting with men always carries the risk of violence, so they suffer guilt by association. So I will concede that people will not consider me a threat but would…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:50 PM
7

You guys are invested in seeing us as alien beings so your hypocrisy will be justified. You know, “separate but equal”, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:41 PM
1

We don’t do much of anything either way, bad or good. We just want you to leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:40 PM
2

It’s sad that you’re all so weak, helpless, indecisive and powerless then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:29 PM
3

I thought men just wanted pussy? That’s what your comrades here claim. No pussy, no pyramids and civilization and air conditioning! Are they lying and deluded?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:28 PM
7

You guys only care about your dicks so it seems fair to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:27 PM
8

Oh, that makes it all ok then! I’ll tell the next guy that. I still loooooove you hun; besides, we know you’ll stick your dick in the next woman you can without feelings too!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:25 PM
5

Yes. I love being treated that way because there’s no expectations. This myth that women love dick motivated attention needs to die. Most of us know, ok, and we’d rather be ignored than served obligatory bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:24 PM
1

You’re the one who presented “women don’t sexually desire beta bucks” as a blanket statement
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:49 AM
5

So beta means “sexually undesirable” and no woman is ever sexually attracted to a beta guy even a little bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:10 AM
1

I have a feeling you would not be happy with the person intrigued by either profile. They would attract, uh, interesting people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:03 AM
1

“Women don't sexually desire BB.” Then this is untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:51 AM
0

Then maybe you should be a little clearer. Words have meanings, after all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:49 AM
1

Yes, that’s what I mean. So how are women and men different in this regard? Women can be attracted to a beta guy, just not as much as Mr. Thundercock. Just like you are attracted to both, but more so to Ms. Hotter bod
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:44 AM
1

No, they claim that most men have both traits and the only thing that matters is if you are willing to leave and/or get sex elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:42 AM
3

Sex isn’t nothing. That’s money in the bank, dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:36 AM
4

Women could fuck all day, every day if we wanted to. We don’t want to. You have seen Tinder, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:33 AM
2

Google exists. You want us to do the work for you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:29 AM
2

Yup. All I can see from that profile is “I’m looking for a hole”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:27 AM
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Yes, he must think we can’t read or something
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:26 AM
0

That’s always how they respond to accusations of hypocrisy and double standards “Well, we don’t care about the other half of the equation, so it therefore does not exist! Checkmate, women !”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:25 AM
4

The red pill would beg to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:24 AM
4

So they desire all women the same amount, while women can only be either 0 or 100% attracted?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:23 AM
2

Sir, this is a debate sub
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:09 AM
1

If violence has no effect on society, then the military and law enforcement would be superfluous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:05 AM
2

Become a lazy, selfish ass. This has pretty much been the majority of dudes I dated, which is why I am no longer dating them. Of all ethnicities, heights, weights, body types, backgrounds and personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:42 PM
1

Am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:37 PM
0

Calm your tits, dude. When women got the right to vote, men were like “it’s the end of society, oh noes!” And when women could work. And when the pill came out. And when restrictions on property ownership, military service, divorce, finances, etc., were relaxed. This too shall pass
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:35 PM
1

Would you rather punched in the face hard by a man or a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:16 PM
1

Yes you did https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/fxcbuw/what_realistically_can_be_done_to_heal_the/fmw2tc5/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf “It does incentivize women to destroy the family unit (keep in mind women initiate divorce in 70-80 percent of cases). If that weren't the case, divorce rates and single motherhood wouldn't be so high as it is.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:13 PM
1

So, the dependent variable (mothers) is the deciding factor, but the independent variable (fathers) has no effect? Not a very scientific conclusion, I must say
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 06:21 PM
3

Yup. Have a nice, happy society —-> get slaughtered by violent assholes. But then, violent assholery is too destructive —-> violent assholes become less violent and destructive ——> get stomped by a new group of violent assholes (Sings) The circle of liiiiiiife.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 06:13 PM
2

So the golden rule doesn’t apply to men vis a vis women eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 05:42 PM
1

Alls I’m saying is men are thirstier. So they spam dating sites, crowd the bars and sex clubs to the point they get banned, and spend tons of time and money on porn and sex workers. The price is higher cuz dudes are willing to pay more for a limited commodity. You want it more, you pay more to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 05:41 PM
1

Thanks for answering in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 05:35 PM
4

So, if you voluntarily associate with a man, he has no control over himself and anything he does is the women’s fault? Sounds very manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 05:30 PM
1

Why do people think that the solution to humanity’s self-inflicted ills is....more humans?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:55 PM
1

The blood of mankind’s biggest genocide is on the hands of the men who killed them. So men are doing the evolutionizing, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:54 PM
2

Exactly. Men here claim that they don’t benefit from male violence — oh please
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:51 PM
1

It’s simple Women are things/possessions, to be used for sex New, untouched things are better than older, used ones No need for all this rationalization of locks and keys, people!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:45 PM
7

Yeah. But it’s easier to make women do the work/blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:32 PM
5

Of course we have an external locus of control. Who’s killing and raping us? Not ourselves, and not generally women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:27 PM
1

Well, I’m convinced; women are neglectful parents! You men better take over the vast majority of child care right now, for the sake of the children. Doesn’t change the fact that men are still more violent and rapey — to everyone, including women and children
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 06:26 AM
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https://aifs.gov.au/cfca/publications/who-abuses-children This report from the Australian Institute of Family Studies doesn’t seem to support your assertion. 55.9 % of physical abuse from father/stepfather, 25.9% from mother/stepmother, the remainder from various relatives 90% of sexual abuse from unspecified males
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 06:10 AM
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According to fbi.gov, there is only one crime (out of 28 categories) committed more often by women than men. Wanna guess what that one is? Hint: not child abuse, despite what guys here claim
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 05:52 AM
2

We’re not talking about chores even; it’s basic respect and not being treated like a maid. I’ve had dudes just make messes and leave them for days. Walk right past their dirty dishes and overflowing trash cans. Do you think they would stand for that sort of thing at a hotel? Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:41 AM
3

Don’t become repulsive, disrespectful, selfish, and/or lazy, and I will continue to fuck you. This is apparently a tall order
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 12:46 AM
1

So friends, family, meaningful work/professional achievements, skills, entertainment/hobbies, non-sexual pleasures like drugs, massages, food, alcohol — those are all meaningless without a sexual relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:55 PM
2

Protection can fail
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:41 PM
2

Condoms and vasectomies exist. And the pull out method, which is better than nothing As does weirder stuff like tantric sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:25 PM
3

VR and/or sexbots! It’s already kind of happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:22 PM
3

Ooops, it’s you. Well, generally, do you think most men would be happy to live in poverty/near poverty if they suddenly had no sex drive or desire for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 11:21 PM
1

Would you really? That would probably be poverty. And people in poverty would probably take offense at your assumption that their lives are awesome and free of stress and hardship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 10:25 PM
10

Yes! Women are a monolith! We have but one desire and purpose in life....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 10:07 PM
1

I’m sure law enforcement, criminal justice and military institutions would totally agree that women are just as violent and destructive as men. I mean, it’s not like they keep stats on these sorts of things, right ? I carry a weapon and have home security to protect myself from women, is that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 09:45 PM
0

Whoops sorry, was arguing with the wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:08 AM
0

But people can never ever have responses to both genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:04 AM
2

VR is cheaper, easier to deliver and limitless with regard to scenarios. They could probably transmit it straight into your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:22 AM
2

That if you present yourself to a woman and say, “Here, I did/have all the things you want in a man, now you have to fuck me! I paid the price, now give me the sex!”— she’s not going to want to fuck you. In other words, it’s not a guarantee. We know you guys want a guarantee
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:16 AM
1

Because that’s what’s offered.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:13 AM
2

The matrix/good VR is way more likely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:10 AM
7

You keep doing you, dawg. I like contempt and disrespect out in the open where I can see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:45 AM
0

That’s kind of how it was for most of humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:18 AM
104

Wow, this is thread is great — and by great, I mean eye opening and somewhat horrifying. I wonder what all this bigotry against bisexuals indicates? To all those people saying that bisexuals can’t exist, why not? There’s people who prefer to fuck animals, children and all sorts of inanimate objects, fantasize about cannibalism, being crushed by giant women, beaten and abused, etc, etc — but being attracted to both genders is too weird? Ooookay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:16 AM
2

It’s sad. “Because I personally cannot fathom attraction to both men and women, it therefore does not exist. I speak for every member of the male gender!” Perhaps the gentleman doth protest too much ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:11 AM
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Men want sex more, and women risk bodily harm and pregnancy. So yes, her time and presence is more costly, and presenting it is more for your benefit than hers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:08 AM
0

Why not have men for companionship/friendship and (female) sex workers for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:06 AM
11

Of course you resent women, both because they’re hard to get and because you prefer them. People are lazy and want things easily, or even better, for free
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:58 AM
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“I’d fuck anything, so why won’t she? I bathed, I haven’t raped anyone, and I didn’t call her a bitch!That’s good enough, right?”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:02 AM
1

The only thing that sucks about being a woman is (some) men. Modern society has smoothed all the other stuff out. I’m not sure what men think. Fire away, gents; I know I deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:56 AM
3

Let’s put it this way....sluttiness works, and always has in some limited sense or another. Just like being a hot, selfish asshole. The appeal is being confident, powerful, and arrogant enough to thumb your nose at the more well-behaved and conservative aspects of society. Transgression is always intriguing to a significant minority— just look at gangster movies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:35 AM
1

Well, I would not be one of them, I promise
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:58 PM
1

You can blame nature for us not being indiscriminate horndogs. But if we had the same libidos as men, fidelity would not exist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:54 PM
1

Well, most women aren’t lying about height, and they aren’t lying about most things they are attracted to. Dating sites have made it really easy to figure that out. In real life conversations, not so much. For one, it’s rude to be too blunt, unless asked directly. Second, guys will try and argue with you, or other such unpleasantness. And third, even if you do fulfill one woman’s checklist, if the chemistry or vibe is off, all that is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:45 PM
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You want a guarantee. Generalizations can’t provide that. No one can provide that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:28 PM
1

Even anonymously? Well then, all data is useless, I guess, so let’s just make up any number we like! 90% of men want to have sex with squids! 17.6% of women would cheat on their dentists with a blacksmith! 45% of men want women to dress up like a chicken on their wedding day!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:01 PM
1

Dudes here are always like — “it’s ok for me to cheat! The Coolidge effect, ok? We’re never satisfied, science says so!” Well, keep chasing pussy, ya thirsty buggers!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:47 PM
1

That’s true, but people are lazy. Thus, the search for the master key that opens all doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:34 PM
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Perhaps because we actually put in some effort to take care of ourselves, care for and nurture others, and socialize, instead of demeaning such things as “unwomanly”? You too are free to see a doctor/therapist, devote time and effort to buying and choosing clothes and skin care products, spend time on social media, and enter the medical/educational/service industries! Empowerment!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:13 PM
2

I’m glad to be satisfied. Men never are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:08 PM
2

Oh, I’m sorry, were those 50% of men who self reported cheating on their partners liars? And they say women are the dishonest gender!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:03 PM
2

She used to be on your side, ya know. Seeing the truth changed it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:00 PM
1

Yes, men are both the cause and solution. Seems pretty ok to me. Clean up the mess you made and we good
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:00 PM
1

What they are really complaining about is that there are no guarantees. X + Y + Z doesn’t always produce attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:52 PM
2

I know! Easier to blame women, yah?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:40 PM
1

You could help change that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:32 PM
1

Oh, so it’s forbidden then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:23 PM
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whenwomenrefuse.tumblr.com r/niceguys r/whereareallthegoodmen r/seduction r/PUAartists And....why can’t men be honest that ya don’t care about anything except pussy? Answer: Cuz being honest doesn’t get you what you want, just like for women. What a concept! Do you think Mr Car Salesman or Mr Politician is going to be honest either? So why should only women, in only this aspect of our lives, go against our own self interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:20 PM
2

If you don’t think that men in public facing jobs are wearing makeup and getting plastic surgery, I have a bridge in Alaska to sell you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:06 PM
0

That’s fair. But men are going to have to buy into it too. Think they will? Let’s be real. Most of men’s advantages over women stem from physical superiority. Would they really relinquish it? I have doubts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:00 PM
2

We can’t do anything about that though, can we? You gonna donate some shin bone to the needy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:42 PM
3

Not bad enough to justify all the whining. Life sucks, people. Young children can get cancer and painful illnesses, many people are born into poverty, dysfunction and/or disability, and your height may be a full or partial disqualifier to shallow or fearful women. Sorry. Also, no fat chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:24 PM
1

Well, good for you. Not all guys can do that because genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:18 PM
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It’s easier to complain, no? Also, if women didn’t learn that men only care about sex and can be selfish/pervy/violent, where would we be? Raped n’ murdered, that’s where. The consequences of being ignorant are higher for women, doncha think?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:13 PM
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We’re not lying. I don’t care about height, but many women care I find thirst annoying, but some women love the validation I find negging repulsive, but some women love the conflict I don’t like chub, but some women do I don’t care about ethnicity, but some women do I don’t like laziness, but some women don’t care ....I could go on, but perhaps you get the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:02 PM
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You just don’t get how many dudes have learned that they can stand more filth than a woman, and leverage that accordingly. It’s not even malicious. They just know that, eventually, some chick is gonna clean up their shit. Even if they have to pay her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:53 PM
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Yes. If you don’t have a six pack, clean up your shit. The same way that if a woman isn’t naturally beautiful, she’s better learn to dress well, use cosmetics, and even use modern medicine if it’s that important to her. Do you think a really motivated, intelligent and functional woman would have wanted this hot slob for a long term relationship or marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:52 PM
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It makes you not a lazy, selfish ass Not a positive, just not a negative It is of course not important to get sex, just companionship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:49 PM
3

So all those shriveled up doctors, lawyers, and businessmen with 25 year old wives are actually super hot? And if some hot 25 year old from an impoverished country waltzed up to Joe Husband and threw herself at him, he would definitely not be up for that, right ? And married men never cheat or use sex workers, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:43 PM
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I’ve dated from 5 to 6.5 feet. It had no bearing on the relationship and was not important. Tall was actually awkward and inconvenient as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:09 AM
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Ahaha, so “trading up”/trophy wives are a myth, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:06 AM
2

This is true, OP. You might want to try the advice or male centric dating subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:08 AM
1

Sure, it’s probably comforting and familiar to people who have been abused or have issues. “Healthy”.....well....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:55 PM
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Men are violent. Violence causes death. Modern society doesn’t like death. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:48 PM
2

Or be popular/famous, entertaining/funny, or generous. There’s a few avenues. Women have only one option
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:41 PM
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It’s not a reason/incentive for us to do things? Sex is your incentive to interact with women Sex is not for an incentive for women to interact with men. It’s the stuff before and after sex, to grossly generalize
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:26 PM
4

Well yeah. Sex is not a draw, remember ? Just like a relationship isn’t a draw for you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:23 PM
9

You can. Just not with a hot chick Just like I probably couldn’t get a functional relationship with a hot man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:15 PM
2

I am waiting for an answer to this with baited breath
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:14 PM
3

Or surrogates
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:18 PM
3

If you spend enough time here, it always devolves into rape and violence threats. Because that’s all they have, at the end. Despite the health, social/physical/occupational mobility, material prosperity, entertainment options and lack of death in modern society — nope, they’d rather throw it in the trash, because how dare women not want to fuck them!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:02 PM
3

Amen. I love not ruining my body with 20+ pregnancies, not seeing half my kids die, and not being raped daily!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:58 PM
9

Because children, duh. Children are different from college educations, houses, and material goods, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:40 AM
2

I’m pretty sure the average man and even red pillers do not believe that their lives are equivalent to being raped, that men are helpless and powerless, or that women’s consent/desire is oppression. Why? Because they have said so in this very sub! I believe your target market for those arguments are the incels, and possibly MGTOW. Although, I suspect the fellows at MGTOW would be repulsed by your powerless victim narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:12 AM
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Not at all. You have made your point of view very clear. I’m sure rape victims would love to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:53 PM
2

I am saving this lovely comment. Thanks In fact, all your comments are goldmines
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:47 PM
2

Well, we live in reality, not fantasy land, where violent rape and murder are pretty much the sole endeavor of a single gender. Good luck walking up to women and telling them it’s unfair and unjust for them to reject you though. But who cares about their feelings, right? Consent and choice is oppression !
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:36 PM
3

Uh, the whole world is locked down and I’m bored ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:14 PM
1

Seconded
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:13 PM
8

I think it’s acceptable. People change and change their minds. Flexibility is needed to compensate. I don’t think rigidity is a good thing. People need to adapt to their environment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:58 PM
20

Most people seem fine with marriage, if not wildly enthused. This place is a fringe community
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:49 PM
2

So men must never experience sexual rejection to make it equal? Well, that means that any dude who wants to can fuck your woman, and vice versa. Who cares about consent and desire when we have equality, amirite? And however much it happens, women are still currently raped and murdered by men much more than the reverse. So, when I have as much reason to fear men as they have reason to fear me, then we will be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:53 AM
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Ooo hoo hoo, there’s that empathy you men are so famous for! Naw, I meant real rape. Ya know, the unpleasant butt stuff. To make it equally traumatizing!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 02:57 AM
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Ok! When the number of men being directly raped and killed by women and the number of women being directly raped and killed by men is equal, we will be sure to step up and voluntarily curb our options! Equality !
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 02:52 AM
2

Bro, just get a handjob from a massage parlor, ok? This is why people are repelled by incels — not just the misogyny but the rampant self pity and willful disempowerment. PS - a woman isn’t gonna fix all your problems and give you meaning in life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 12:37 AM
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We don’t need more people, fergodsake. Be happy robots don’t come with mental illness and other human ills. Go become a nanny or teacher, or adopt, if you love children so much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:26 PM
2

Men can be happy, single and childless, just like women. The perpetual bachelor has always existed. Since you admit that it’s not the reality but the theoretical or perceived availability of having children, sex and relationships that matters to you, it sure seems like you are ignoring the fact that men have pretty much the same options as women — strive, settle, be alone — and are just looking for a reason to be aggrieved, victimized, and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:17 PM
0

Men want sex more than women. Why is that hard to grasp? The majority of the world understands this just fine. We just don’t say it out loud, along with things like “our lives are ultimately meaningless and we’re all going to die” and “no, you’re not hot enough to be a model, Cindy”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:36 PM
2

You too can adopt, donate or surrogate a genetic legacy, if you reeeeeeeally need that to make your life worthwhile (how sad) You too can have friends and family for love and socialization and companionship You too can have sex workers and the sex industry provide sexual satisfaction. Every sexual desire can be fulfilled and catered to! And a lot of it is free! I don’t see a problem here. Plenty of women are single, childless, and happy; plenty of men have kids and a partner...and are miserable.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:24 PM
2

Technology and science can and will solve both problems Because technology and science caused both problems And society since the Enlightenment has been about the individual. We don’t base our lives around god or king anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:13 PM
2

Cool story; still coercion I and most women will probably give that a pass
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:01 PM
3

I’m sure your assigned mate will be dragging you off to the bedroom, spending hours humping away, and having screaming orgasms because she’s financially dependent on you. I’m also sure she will be full of tender, caring, affectionate emotions because she has no other choice. Love at gunpoint is so hot! Maybe lots of people are secretly dying to get into these totally legal and sexy arrangements, but I suspect....not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 07:28 PM
1

It’s more the social stigma if you get caught, no? Not sure that will go away, since both sexes are expected to hold to sexual fidelity in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 06:18 PM
5

Forcing kids to play with the antisocial weirdo at the end of the block has never worked. I used to be the antisocial weirdo and I didn’t want that either I don’t think we are lacking in population either. We need another couple billion people causing more problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 06:12 PM
1

Doesn’t stop the vast majority of people from partaking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 06:00 PM
3

You don’t. People are free to make bad choices. Especially if they can hide them; it’s not society’s problem. Too expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:58 PM
1

Then a whole lot of women don’t value/desire alphas and alpha traits as much as the men here seem to think
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:09 PM
2

Excluding and discouraging a large number of workers while artificially inflating a different population of workers encourages stagnation, rigidity, complacency, and inefficiency. Especially in a global market. Please see employment, Lifetime, for an illustration of these general principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:59 PM
1

If that is so, then true alphas basically don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:55 PM
4

Isn’t that the same thing? — “enjoy the decline because I’m looking out for me and me only” Dedicated selfishness in all situations is pretty much seen as unethical, as far as I know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:52 PM
1

If a woman is attracted to a guy specifically because he’s a selfish, self-centered asshole, I will concede that point. But I would think those types of women are, uh, not normal. More likely, money will mitigate the absence of beta behaviors, so you’d better be rich as well as hot and douchey. It will probably not make her feel more warm and fuzzy towards you, however, and makes the relationship that much more transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:43 PM
0

For economic efficiency, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:32 PM
1

I do like two-pronged solutions !
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:24 PM
4

At least you’re being more realistic about it than other people here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:21 PM
3

Reduced choice “doesn’t address the fact that the woman still doesn’t like you”, either Reduced choice means more starfish/duty sex. All that hot, sexy lack of options!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:04 PM
1

Would sex bots or vr do it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:54 PM
1

So is weed and drinking before 18 in most places.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:52 PM
1

So is weed and drinking before 18 in most places
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:52 PM
1

Your salvation is coming. It’s called sex bots. Or, more likely, VR.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:50 PM
2

And yet, rape, “government girlfriends”, and “just spread your legs if you want help us” talk was rampant there. Why is paying for it such a sticking point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:45 PM
1

Everyone in a relationship can cheat. And a good chunk don’t. Wooo. I know that’s not sexy or exciting, but that’s the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:43 PM
4

If you want a guarantee, you need to buy it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:33 PM
1

I loved watching my vapid and/or boring hot dude acquaintances in bars. Women would desperately try and start something with them, and they were too lazy or clueless to do the dance. The increasing dismay and frustration of these women was the best entertainment of the night
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:31 PM
1

Yup. The second a guy throws his dick into the conversation it’s over. Way to make it all about your selfish, one-sided penis feelings, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:29 PM
1

You really think that being a lazy slob is going to make your girlfriend hot for you instead of resentful and annoyed? I’ve left guys for exactly that reason and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:28 PM
1

It’s normal and expected if people prefer video games, porn, social media and online entertainment to going out and meeting new people. Which, if you haven’t noticed, fellow Reddit user, is a shit ton of people nowdays. Particularly young people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:25 PM
0

Women don’t want to fuck you. You have to offer compensation. Thus, the personality/resource aspect. Do you think Mr. McDonalds employee wants to work in a shitty restaurant for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:22 PM
4

You want lots of people in jail and to waste taxes? That’s what will happen if you criminalize adultery. Most societies have figured out that morality police are a drain on resources. The other options will not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:16 PM
5

She’s being realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:11 PM
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That’s the whole point; it can’t be done ethically or realistically. Even the red pillers here admit it; why else do they insist that “the red pill is sexually amoral”?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:09 PM
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So, take away phones, video games and porn? That will go well....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:07 PM
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These terms give the impression that only one gender is doing nefarious stuff. It’s not healthy or accurate to push that attitude when you are interacting with that gender. If a guy acts like only women do awful shit, that pretty much disqualifies him from most healthy, functional social interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 11:23 PM
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How is this different from “getting ones heart broken”? You know, the thing that happens/can happen to both genders? Sigh, red pillers are like little boys with their need for super duper secret code words to feel special
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 10:42 PM
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Aren’t men the ones complaining that women are always nagging, divorcing and never satisfied/happy? You should visit the relationship subs. They are full of unhappy people...in relationships. Same with Sex/DeadBedrooms. Same in Marriage/JustnoSO. I have a feeling...they aren’t all lying, you know
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 10:09 PM
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Why do you think only women get what they want? Many women can and do go through their whole lives without a happy, sexually satisfying, functional, or successful relationship, just like men. Are you saying women can’t be lonely, unsatisfied, unsuccessful, or unhappy? Sure, we have options, but so do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 09:05 PM
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What do you expect? Our sex drives are incompatible and antagonistic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 02:41 PM
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They’re not serious about it, but sadly sexual assault and rape of men by women does happen, and does bother/damage some men. It seems like men who give a shit about those victims are in the minority, however
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 02:39 PM
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Violent competition and conflict usually results death and suffering. It’s so weird that people don’t like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:55 PM
1

Are you trying to say that talking about Chad...is gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 06:55 PM
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Men can stick their dick into any hole, and it’s worth it for them. It’s not worth it to women, with the disincentives of pregnancy, shitty sex/lack of orgasm, rape/violence, and of course, slut shaming and other disrespect. Attractiveness or another incentive (companionship, labor, and yes, material compensation) is needed to mitigate these risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 04:38 PM
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I really don’t think so. Women here state over and over again that safety is an issue, and the men generally disregard and minimize that concern Sex can be dangerous and sex can be bad. Those should be good enough reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 04:24 PM
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I find more men attractive than you would think, but not attractive enough to overcome inertia/logistical issues and 1) concern for my physical well-being and bodily autonomy (i.e., the risk of good old-fashioned rape and murder) 2) the high likelihood of an annoying personality and/or selfishness & ineptitude in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 04:20 PM
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Most men would be insulted by your contention that they are weak, groveling, powerless slaves. I know I am, and I’m not even a man!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 03:53 PM
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Also, we all know that everybody wants/provides the exact same things! Let us judge you based on the single standard acceptable!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:52 AM
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More women then men reproduced because of polygamy, yes, and also because of the common war strategy called “kill all the men and take the women for your own” Not because women had any choice in the matter and made men “dance like a monkey” You ask Mr. Yanomami tribesman why he killed some other tribesman to take his wife, he ain’t gonna say, “she manipulated me” or “she made me through her female power”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:39 AM
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You’re gonna be disappointed in life if you believe that 99% of women can develop visible abdominal muscles. Or orgasm vaginally
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:04 PM
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Good for you. Most women of any age also don’t want someone who doesn’t want them. Win-win!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:01 PM
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Guess why? Hint: calls for violence, requests for information on how to break the law
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:35 PM
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Then don’t reward them with attention and dates
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 07:03 PM
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