Grudgen Archive

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1	Women gaslight men cause women gain nothing from admitting truth to men, and it would cost them many simps/orbiters. It's definitely not the only way. I was already outgoing/friendly before and made an effort so I did get women showing interest occasionally, which most men that make an honest effort should experience. Being hot or a masculine chad is not required. I am definitely not masculine looking, at least facially. There is a lot of nuance but from my experience appearance plays a big role in how people perceive you and what box they put you into. I have noticed women that show interest put me into the "…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 06:35 PM
5	Women gaslight men cause women gain nothing from admitting truth to men, and it would cost them many simps/orbiters. Women themselves probably don't realize. I had a significant glowup in my mid twenties to where I became handsome, before that I was slightly above average. People treat me very differently now. I feel the halo effect at work constantly. People want to get to know me and treat me as if I am special. All I have to do to get a woman's attention in public or in class, the supermarket, the beach or anywhere else really is stare at her (in a respectful manner as if I can't keep my eyes off her due to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 11:06 AM
1	Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they do Hypergamy doesn't refer specifically to dating up in economic status, rather dating up in sexual market value which is more complicated to measure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 11:32 PM
1	There really isn't a correct way to approach women While I agree with you, it isn't entirely true. I have been relatively solitary for the past couple of years and I have gone on dates with a couple women I met while walking around the city on my own. You can meet women on the bus, at the supermarket, walking around, etc. At the supermarket the cashiers usually love to talk and show interest. But I don't recommend going out of your way and cold approaching women. This only works if you are attractive enough that you catch women looking at you or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 12:28 PM
19	In online debate, women insist "Husband Material" always encompasses "Hookup Material", but in real life it's a distinct category there is no point in trying to convince this dude, if he still hasn't figured these things out it isn't due to lack of evidence available	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 11:46 AM
12	In online debate, women insist "Husband Material" always encompasses "Hookup Material", but in real life it's a distinct category because those men are hawt	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 11:42 AM
1	What are some secrets men dont tell women? I am assuming you are referring specifically to "escorts" in developed countries in which case you are blatantly wrong. I say this because sex workers can refer to different professions involving selling sex, such as webcams, porn stars, only fans or street hookers (which are more likely to be the ones suffering from addiction but then again the average client doesn't have experience with street hookers). Most escorts that men pay in the west aren't in it against their will or trapped (I say "mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 12:01 PM
9	Explain so many involuntarily single men at a roughly 50/50 gender ratio A lot of ugly women pass on their unattractive genes, likely a lot more than their male counterpart due to obvious reasons. Not even ugly women are happy with ugly men so this cohort of men ends up siring less children while the reverse just isn't true with ugly women actually being more likely to get married than more attractive ones. Ugly women in my experience are also open to pursuing me and shooting their shot, this used to leave me confused and questioning whether I was unattractive (and w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/25 11:01 AM
1	It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most men This is the main reason birthrates are low. I grew up looking very average maybe even slightly unattractive but had a glow up and women's superficiality is very obvious to me now. Even though I definitely could get a woman being average it just doesn't compare. I also try to treat everyone with kindness and am usually happy and like to joke around, just like I always have but people react differently now. I had to learn I shouldn't do this with unattractive women even if I am in a relationship, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 04:21 PM
1	I think women feel the same thing for famous men that men feel for regular attractive women It depends and if it happens it's rare. But things like fixing your posture and swallowing/chewing correctly aka mewing do make a difference that adds up if you grew up not doing those things. I grew up with a PEC pattern, with underlying Left AIC, right BC and right TMCC with TMJ that I am fixing that got worse after a motorcycle accident and traumatic head injury and fixing it has definitely made a difference to where I catch men and women looking at me when in the past they never used to and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 04:00 PM
2	All Women Are Essentially Sex Workers” — Tate’s Harsh Truth, Explained Sure, assuming there is mutual attraction kissing isn't that big of a deal but then again in my country women I think are known for being a bit more harder to get	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/25 11:49 AM
1	All Women Are Essentially Sex Workers” — Tate’s Harsh Truth, Explained Yes, they are handsome. Most men are not handsome, so for the vast majority of men what you are stating simply is not true and irrelevant. For a man most relationships do not start with kissing or sex unless: - you're significantly good looking - you are at least decently good looking (still not most men) and are at a party or whatever with a girl you vibe with and have known for a while. for any other man they need to date a woman, that acts hard to get, and demonstrate value by having their li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/25 11:06 AM
–	"Golddiggers" don't exist actually, it's just prostitution. Bro, you didn't say anything special and using fancy language doesn't impress anyone that is worth impressing. You sound unhinged and self absorbed	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/25 10:45 AM
1	The 25 and younger male generation will be overwhelmingly single and we are lucky because it won’t affect society one bit You put this very eloquently. Unfortunately what you're saying is the truth and I have accepted it. There is no point in explaining it to people. We will be our own downfall, manipulated and groomed until the end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 04:35 PM
1	Fit women, what body type are you most attracted to in a man? Not to sound pretentious but I am like this and I don't work out, I am short though but women don't seem to care	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 11:06 PM
3	Most provider men do not end up with traditional women Please, enlighten me then, if you don't mind. Also I apologize for bringing up your appearance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:35 PM
2	Most provider men do not end up with traditional women Guess I am fat and cross-eyed, damn. I'd better go get myself some prescription glasses and a tasty, juicy double cheeseburger with some chicken nuggets, off I go then! EDIT: there is no point arguing if you move goal posts. Also there is no "blatant" misogyny nowadays and there hasn't been for a long time (now I'm curious, you probably believe women earn less than their male counterpart... you know that has been debunked right?), at least in developed countries where I'm from. Have a good one, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:14 PM
1	Most provider men do not end up with traditional women It's called the "women are wonderful effect", from what I recall people are naturally predisposed to thinking of women as morally superior, more innocent, etc. It has never been a problem for me because both my mother and sister were terrible people so I can easily sniff out a woman's character. You shouldn't be this emotional about a phenomenon that has been extensively studied and proven in psychology. You're either deranged or being disingenuous (or ugly/fat), in either case no one should tak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 02:14 AM
1	Women wield a ton of access to sex. But, it's pointless to argue about it. I'm a relatively good looking guy, maybe almost "chad". I think life is usually more nuanced than what people describe. I don't get sex for free for example, women when they realize they have me hooked always try to make me work for their affection. I would expect this from the hourglass figure facially beautiful women but weirdly enough the less attractive women (who I wouldn't mind just having something casual with) actually do it a lot more, playing dumb mind games even though they were the o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 03:41 PM