GruffMcdwarf Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Susan G Komen: proof that feminists don't care about either gender. Wait, where is "here"? I've never seen this pin and I am a casual pin collector.	/r/MensRights	09/10/22 08:33 AM
1	My now ex wife moved our child across the country without notice, and then lobbed baseless abuse allegations against me when I tried to get them to return. Sadly I did not have a lawyer and she did, so while I have some holidays and such, I don't have proper joint custody. And it's further complicated by she's not once followed the agreement (despite the cops she called on me explaining to her that I was legally following the divorce when I had my daughter with me during the week I had her instead of dropping her back off each night with her mother.)	/r/MensRights	30/09/22 01:48 AM
33	My wife of 12 years is leaving me and taking almost all of our life savings. When anyone offers a solution and says they "don't want to screw you over" that is an immeidate signal that they are screwing you over. That's not just a divorce thing, that's a manipulation tactic.	/r/MensRights	28/09/22 03:49 PM
2	My now ex wife moved our child across the country without notice, and then lobbed baseless abuse allegations against me when I tried to get them to return. This is exactly what my exwife did. She said she wanted to go back to her mom's place to think for the summer. Two months later when I called to ask when she was bringing my daughter home she said she wanted a divorce, then had the audacity to be shocked when I sent her divorce papers.	/r/MensRights	26/09/22 05:04 PM
1	My perspective, as a teen boy to young adulthood; Any links to those statistics?	/r/MensRights	18/09/22 08:01 PM
4	“Me hitting you is okay but you can’t hit me.” Exwife and I went to three different marriage counselors, only one addressed it even though I brought her violence up to all three.	/r/MensRights	18/09/22 07:43 PM
2	Reddit to Men: spoonfeed your female partner basic life skills like a fragile baby bird! If you don't, it is your fault if she can’t earn a living, save money, learn to invest get off social media etc Excellent advice	/r/MensRights	18/09/22 07:39 PM
3	As a young man in his twenties, I've found that no one really cares for you, not even your parents. You and only you are your ultimate caretaker. You figured it out a decade sooner than I did, and while initially the sentiment is overwhelmingly depressing once you accept it you realize the freedom of only having yourself to account for.	/r/MensRights	09/09/22 03:34 AM
2	Victims of False Accusations I as well.	/r/MensRights	08/09/22 12:21 AM
1	National Coalition for Men You have stats for the rate of rapes proven true? I'm always on the lookout for hard data.	/r/MensRights	23/08/22 06:38 PM
1	Have you ever been a feminist? Well..... before I vote in this poll, what's your definition of feminist? I was raised traditional Midwest mentality and now live in the South where you're expected to treat women with extra respect. I personally give women the same respect I give men - and both genders are required to earn it first. I'd vote that I've never been a feminist but I know my upbringing would be considered by many in this sub to be feminist.	/r/MensRights	20/08/22 04:17 AM
2	A temporary vasectomy called "vasalgel" will be on the market in America in as little as three years which will allow men to turn off their fertility until they are ready for kids. Would you get one if it was available now? They claim that female birth control is "safe" and you can stop without complications... and then bury the data on miscarriages and infertility from it. So yeah, the male version is totally safe, go for it.	/r/MensRights	19/08/22 03:57 PM
3	Has anyone else noticed double standards in entertainment? I have and it’s frustrating. At the height of its popularity, I had dozens of nerd friends push BBT on me as a "nerd show". On a dare, I binge watched the complete series (4 seasons at that time). Afterwards so many asked if I liked it, only to be disappointed when I told them "it's a show about sex disguised as a show about nerds/science." Best part? None of them could prove me wrong, even if they disliked my statement.	/r/MensRights	19/08/22 03:51 PM
4	Has anyone else noticed double standards in entertainment? I have and it’s frustrating. That angle was obvious from the trailer where they took time to say she's better than he.	/r/MensRights	19/08/22 03:42 PM
3	I am thinking about starting a Men's (Male-Only) Club and could use advice and critque It's better to strive and fail, than to accept defeat without effort. Go for it!	/r/MensRights	15/08/22 08:15 PM
1	Have you ever been blamed for being a victim? I was and it still hurts. I'm sorry your childhood was brutal. What happened to you was wrong, no excuse. As for the part about being blamed while also the victim, yes I too am enduring that treatment. Thankfully my experience was far less horrific, but you and I are not alone in this.	/r/MensRights	14/08/22 12:49 AM
2	Single fathers vs. Single mothers Which study was that?	/r/MensRights	11/08/22 05:56 PM
10	How come it's okay for two older sisters forcefully take of the clothes of their younger brother and make them wear a dress? I'm wanting an opposite list - a spreadsheet of movies/shows which portray men favorably. Anyone can start a movie and notice misandry halfway through, I want a source I can check to find a good movie for movie night.	/r/MensRights	10/08/22 07:55 PM
7	Male problems need male solutions Was playing minecraft last night with the bros and we got on the conversation of therapy and all five of us stated that it's difficult to ensure we could find a therapist that wouldn't twist us instead of help us. The only one of us that had gone to extended therapy was the one whose parents had mandated it during their teen years. Bit of a sobering conversation.	/r/MensRights	10/08/22 05:04 PM
9	"White men can't experience racism" Don't really want to delve into it further, but just putting this out here so others know they're not the only ones - I left a career because of a manager racist to whites. Company is still one of the best to work for, but that single manager drove an entire store to leave because his racism	/r/MensRights	01/08/22 02:27 AM
1	Was told that men suffer less than women financially after divorce. Thoughts? I've seen this everywhere, do you have a study or (reliable) source for this? Most of my family are the "90% of statistics are made up on the spot" folks so it helps to have concrete data.	/r/MensRights	31/07/22 10:08 PM
33	Lived so long in a world that needs to tell men how to treat women in a relationship. But how should men be treated and is it even an concern? I was always told how to treat my two sisters, they weren't told how to treat me. My mother threatened me if I were to ever abuse my wife, has never said a word to me about the abuse I did receive from my exwife.	/r/MensRights	29/07/22 12:10 AM
2	As we fight for women's rights, let's not forget this pesky little fact You're both right to an extent. I don't let other people's suspicions keep me from doing what I love to do, but I also can't force anyone to stop being misandrist. I've worked to raise awareness of misandry amongst my friends and family to do my part to steer society's future but I also recognize my part won't have a significant impact alone.	/r/MensRights	18/07/22 07:06 PM
9	Not sure this is a mens issue but it’s annoying and dated in my opinion. The dress code was clearly sexist when I worked for the Orange Hardware Store. Men managers were required pants and dress shirts while women managers were required casual wear instead.	/r/MensRights	18/07/22 11:43 AM
8	As we fight for women's rights, let's not forget this pesky little fact Being automatically trusted around children is one that personally irritates me. I'm a better caregiver to my daughter than my exwife (corroborated by many friends and family). I've taught kindergarten in school and now work at a daycare, both places I am praised for being able to handle situations with better understanding than my female colleagues. I love working with children but every moment I have someone (parents, coworkers) watching me with suspicion simply because I'm male.	/r/MensRights	18/07/22 11:21 AM
15	Something that has been bothering me for a bit We are moving as societies towards protection for only one side in "free speech". In the case of gender, feminists are given free reign while anthropists are shut down. Most people, both genders, are not self aware, so to answer your question no. They don't even comprehend how their rhetoric is sexist and hateful.	/r/MensRights	18/07/22 11:10 AM
1	It's not sexist to expect someone working in the service industry to be kind and courteous or smile when doing their job Giving you the benefit of the doubt, I'll presume there's more to your interpretation of my statement beyond you being an internet troll, would you care to walk the rest of us through your logic so we can understand as well?	/r/MensRights	16/07/22 12:15 AM
26	It's not sexist to expect someone working in the service industry to be kind and courteous or smile when doing their job I wore almost a dozen hats during my time at the Orange Store and at each level I was at, I was always expected to treat the customers with enthusiasm and respect. Regardless of how I felt that day and even when they were clearly lying/trash/etc. Part of being an adult is learning how to control your own emotions and part of working in customer facing positions is being agreeable. Shouldn't matter whether you're male or female.	/r/MensRights	15/07/22 12:34 AM
4	Southern Baptist Church says putting women in military draft “disrespects the roles of men and women” ,”men are psychologically prepared to protect whole women desire to nurture” There's a lot to unwrap in just a small bit here. Gonna organize it for my own clarity. Wrong science - men don't have more psychological affinity towards war. They were chosen for war purely on their physical capabilities. You want a 6ft brute holding the shieldwall beside you, not a 4ft stick. Since we've evolved beyond physical strength to technological strength (man or woman can push drone button) this physical requirement no longer applies. Wrong solution - instead of deciding whether to dr…	/r/MensRights	13/07/22 01:54 AM
1	Girlfriend tells me she hates men; it hurts me, but what am I supposed to do? You've stated multiple times in your original post and in replies that you love her, but that love can not last in this environment which she is generating. It may seem difficult now, but once you have left her you'll come to realize that you can love someone else, someone capable of loving you back. You already knew what you need to do, and you've gotten full confirmation from all of us here on doing it. Time to take the action.	/r/MensRights	12/07/22 10:48 PM
4	My mom has always told me how to treat a lady nice... I have two younger sisters and only recently came to terms with my parents loving them more than myself. Parents bought books on girls growing up, puberty, psychology, etc while as an adult I bought myself books on male psychology to teach myself about myself. Never hit a woman, but if a woman hits you you take it like a man. You're a man, you carry the luggage for the family vacation. Why did you annoy your sisters, you're grounded. We can only afford a cheap college for you, but we can afford …	/r/MensRights	07/07/22 07:31 PM
1	How do women objectify men? Have you looked at any dating apps recently? That's not a joke, that's the actual list.	/r/MensRights	04/06/22 07:55 PM
3	A "FEMINIST" tries to explain why 'Public is wrong about Depp v Heard case' < DNA deletion strategies I don't think those words mean what you think they mean	/r/MensRights	27/05/22 04:58 PM
3	Alabama introduces ban on child genital mutilation forbidding the removal of “any healthy or non-diseased body part or tissue, except for a male circumcision” I lived for a year in Huntsville, AL, I am perfectly aware of the condition of that miserable state. Doesn't excuse the blanket statement or blame game. We can't pursue change for the betterment if we're stuck pointing fingers. Do better.	/r/MensRights	09/05/22 06:58 PM
9	Alabama introduces ban on child genital mutilation forbidding the removal of “any healthy or non-diseased body part or tissue, except for a male circumcision” Beg to differ on several counts. I am a Christian and I do care about body autonomy (so once again the not all ____ discussion). Also there are several religions that promote infant circumcision, so blame for this idiocy isn't solely on the one religion.	/r/MensRights	09/05/22 06:34 PM