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I'm 46 years old. I've lived longer than most here. I say the things I say with conviction. Yet along comes some young whippersnapper thinking he knows it all. It is what it is I suppose. Go ahead and call me grandpa to make yourself feel better lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:56 PM
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I must admit you are funny. If you had mentioned one or two untruthful things, I would bother to point them out and correct you. But since this comment of yours contains nothing but BS and is fairly long, I won't bother. Except you did. It's however also really nasty how you are telling men that advice that other men give them, is "a cult" and something vile. Like men should be only allowed to receive advice from women or do what an exploiting society wants them to do. Imagine if men started tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:34 PM
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If the guy hangs around after she does that to him, he has zero self respect. That's got nothing to do with what the woman does or doesn't do. It's all down to the actions of the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:08 PM
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Where are they meeting? The online manosphere. Social media. Here. What uniform do they wear? It's not physical. Things have moved online. Just as there are alt-right individuals who proudly state as such, these men label themselves a pill colour... Red. What rituals do the perform? They all read from the same hymn sheet. They all spout the same talking points. Hypergamy this, the wall that, AWALT etc. What initiation rituals do you have to go through to be accepted? They all believe in the tene…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:02 PM
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It's a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:42 PM
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I keep seeing this 63% being quoted. Does anyone even think anymore? There were many guys who participated in the study who were in some form of relationship that would put them in a different bracket, yet they mentioned that they were single. Why is this hard to understand? The men lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:45 PM
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Well put. If there's anywhere where that 80-20 principle should be used, it's here. 80% of the world's population are running away from pain in their lives, doing their best to avoid it. 20% in society are revered for being goal setters and pioneers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:09 PM
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That 'volume of men' you speak of who have 'similar experiences' have no previous snapshot or comprehension to be able to truly understand or analyse their position. It's the Spiderman meme at this point. Guys find each other online and use faulty logic to deduce that what happened to them is 'truth' about women. TRP comes along and talks to their emotions and gets them twisted. It's not difficult to see how guys here are angry and filled with contempt. Each person speaks exactly the same like d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:51 AM
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I'm of the belief that the current generation are inadvertently pushing the red pill amongst their peers by being proxy recruiters. The red pill is currently all the rage online due to being pushed by the social media algorithms. It could just as easily get pushed aside by the next viral talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:53 AM
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r/niceguys and r/nicegirls exist. It's a state of mind and causes the person issues. Nice guys think 'bad boys' get all the girls and that the nice guy comes last aka AF/BB or whatever these kids say. The nice girls think similar. Take a look at the subs for proof. The real issue is the mindset behind these individuals. One of the issues with TRP and FDS is that these ideologies/tools make the men and women that fall into them to go from 0 to 100mph. There's no nuance or middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:52 PM
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People are reproducing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:40 PM
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Fair enough. When you're done having fun, you'll know when you're ready to settle. I find it a double standard for guys here who can't get started and want to have their fun yet they're quick to judge the woman for doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:11 PM
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Is it possible that you're simply meeting women who also just want no strings attached fun? As in there are also women who believe in the happy ever after, who hold out for the right person to then settle down? Or are all women a particular nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:43 PM
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Great answer. Goes to show these guys can't think straight
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:36 PM
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Which guy are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:34 PM
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Hi! I'm the new gen z child and I live in the West where I have all the amenities a human would ever desire, I have a roof over my head, my parents feed me well, I can read and write compared to a huge majority of the world, I have all my freedoms.... But I'm enjoying the decliiiiine! So dumb. Kids these days smh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:18 PM
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It's the language of online manosphere indoctrination.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:34 PM
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The irony here is the you self label. Get out of the shithole forums you go to where you and others self flagellate. Who calls themselves subhuman? Fuck me... Youth of today are really something
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:16 AM
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Heh. Right back at ya. Tell me more about how you know everything about female psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:23 AM
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Yes common ground is necessary. Plus the post doesn't address values. That is where the magic happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:53 AM
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I'm so glad that a post heavily upvoted by the usual suspects has your post at the top. Restores the faith. Ex red piller here from 22 years ago. This belief these guys hold is absolute poison. But I have hope that this is just a phase for most. Then again I've been made aware that most here aren't actually red pill, but rather black. That's a whole other problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:36 AM
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Can't stand this lot and their shitty double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:42 AM
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A certain level of similarity. Can't stand the idea of being low energy while she's high energy. Or being calm vs them being a livewire. Being introvert vs them being extrovert etc. Which begs the question: a lot of guys here are neurodivergent. Surely finding someone similar is best? I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:37 AM
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Moving goalposts are we? Typical. No. Neither of them are privileged. Both are suffering in different ways and neither of them are sitting around moping about not getting sex because 'muh wiMinZ' Both of them are trying to survive from day to day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:29 AM
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That's fair enough. Hope you find your happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:19 AM
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Hmm yea my first thought was the same. There's no correlation. Young minds in here making up their own talking points as they go along. Besides I think I'm going to PM my dong to the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:50 PM
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You'll have to do a lot of vetting for some of those requirements but nothing out of the ordinary. May I ask if you're neurodivergent? You see, the one area I wonder about is how you'll handle hardships and challenges in a relationship. Like would you have the capacity to handle pressure and willing to learn things. How would you cope with ill health if say your wife falls ill. Would you stick around or walk away etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:45 PM
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You'll do just fine in life 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:31 PM
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you also don't know these people personally Just as manosphere men don't know all women whatsoever, yet supposedly all women are hypergamous, and supposedly have a particular requirement from men in looks and height yadda yadda.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:00 PM
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Question everything. Even the pill you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:56 PM
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Don't you realise how good AI has gotten now? High level bots were a thing 13 years ago. Here's one such article Also I'm sure you understand proxy recruitment. Tate uses his war room to get young kids to spout his talking points far and wide and to recruit others. As a result we're seeing profiles like you've stated saying that they fully endorse Tate's teachings because it supposedly brought them results. That proxy recruitment removes responsibility from Tate. Do you see how this works? u/THH…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:53 PM
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Cutting out avocado toast isn't going to get me the down payment for a house grandpa. I was going to respond to you until I read the unnecessary grandpa comment. There's your problem. Entitlement, bad attitude, and lack of self awareness. It's quite unfortunate. It seems you don't want help regardless of who it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:18 PM
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Let's question those so called people shall we. There are bots. There are bad actors. And there's flawed logic on your part to believe what you see as fact without questioning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:15 PM
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Firstly, what do you want in a fwb? Secondly, what do you offer? Think about what this question is asking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:13 PM
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Incorrect my man. You've been made to believe that. It's the online community you joined, which is filled with propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:10 PM
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That's fine. You're entitled to give your opinion just as I am. No one is overruling the other. It's just a matter of exchanging information. We're both right and wrong on many things. At the end of the day, we all choose our poison. I guess every day we should ask ourselves that poignant question: am I happy? - if not, why not? Can I do something about it? Has what I've been doing up to now worked? And so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:05 PM
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Mental health is the doorway to understanding the self. A lot of young men especially those who comment here seem far removed from the concept of the self. There's so much self loathing in this sub. The worst I've seen. And it saddens me. But yes a lot more awareness needs to be raised regarding male mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:02 PM
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Many men in the West are doing just fine learning, making mistakes, falling in and out of love, growing, experiencing life etc. It's a subset of men online who have gone their own way, believing that they've been oppressed. Where did that belief come from? They will be quick to say exactly the same talking points. Feminism, women, the left wing politics, etc. Yet they went be able to describe how they ended up where they are currently. The answer is simple. They fell for a trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:00 PM
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How do you know you're not being controlled by elites right now? How often do you ask yourself where you are in the grand scheme of things? How did you become whatever pill colour you associate yourself with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:56 PM
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By this logic everyone in the west is privileged then. That is correct. Now you should ask who is privileged but has been made to believe that they are not privileged... No it is because male issues are being ignored , if it was simply that then it wouldn't take tate a year to garner this following You see, as mentioned, we are living in a time it uncontrolled social media influence. The companies couldn't give a fuck as long as they are profiting. Who loses? We do. Male issues are not being ign…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:55 PM
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No one needs to be 'compliant' whatever that entails and to whom This era of social media has seriously harmed humanity. That's just my take. But I can back it up with what I know in terms of the whys and the hows compared to the previous generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:51 PM
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He has his own beliefs and that's not in my court of judgement. Moving past that, my comment was mentioning how the responses are akin to canned material. Men need help. But these men themselves need to be self aware enough to know they need help. Many here don't or refuse to accept that. Talk about mental health and its met with the most aggressive pushback that I've seen on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:50 PM
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Oh absolutely. It's really shifted the dynamics of relationships in the home. People live 2 lives. Their online anonymous lives, and their offline lives. I wouldn't be surprised if some of the young men commenting here with such vitriol about women are the same men who act in a very unassuming way offline especially in front of their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:47 PM
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But you see, you are privileged compared to the young poor shoemaker in Bangladesh who can hardly feed himself let alone his family. The bigger picture is not part of the mindset of the privileged who feel oppressed. To them, when they feel the first sign of oppression, they go full victim mentality mode. That's a sign of privilege. They lose themselves to their feelings. This is when they are most vulnerable. It is at this point when they get radicalised. In this case, by online spheres.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:44 PM
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Men require help in many ways. Unfortunately the red pill is not it. But it makes sense why they've all fallen for online manosphere communities. It makes total sense. I believe things will get worse before they get better. That's the natural path of change.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:41 PM
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Do you see how well they've been trained? You'll notice that they have a set of responses to different talking points on here. They all say exactly the same things. Almost as if they have a set of sentences that they quickly copy and paste. He's entitled. You're not going to get any coherent response here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:35 PM
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You went too far back. He's talking about the last several generations in the West and I get where he's coming from. You and I live in an age of high privileges here in the West. Yet here we are divided. How did that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:32 PM
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And some seem to solve it with rape and death threats online. Others carry out heinous acts. Online propaganda mixed with a person's poor mental health creates a destructive outcome. We all lose. Solution? - educating men from a very young age about the dangers of the internet. All I know is that social media is poison. There was a time when my mother would warn me about the man in a trenchcoat who might entice me with sweets and that I should run away and tell someone. The new version of that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:29 PM
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Great post 👏🏼 If a beautiful woman is consistently rude, yea, she's ugly on the inside
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:22 PM
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the life-denying process of game/jestermaxxing although good luck finding one as an average looking male. That belief system where supposedly you cannot achieve greatness as 'an average looking male' is oh so detrimental to you but you cannot see it. This is what we call a bad attitude. You have, in other words, rejected yourself out of an opportunity for success. The next guy who is 'average looking' will have what you don't: confidence, self esteem, and a positive attitude. Sure enough, his ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:11 PM
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That being said if you make good money(100k+ after taxes), have good job security and don't want kids as a man I'll FWB is ideal so you don't have to deal with the life-denying process of game/jestermaxxing although good luck finding one as an average looking male. This is an attitude problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:38 PM
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The red pill is the antithesis of love and a family unit. It leaves the men lonely and empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:14 PM
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Unfortunately they will find a way to gaslight themselves most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:12 PM
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It doesn't matter if you bring in a billion per year. If you're an asshat who has a really shitty personality and attitude, where you are insecure and have horrific negative character traits, you're the problem. I know the above won't mean anything to you as you won't be able to compute it. Not yet anyway. The time will come when you'll realise it was your lack of a decent attitude, personality, confidence, and self esteem all along. You'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:52 PM
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My good man...This whole "beta cuck" terminology you use is the problem. It is wholly a symbol of your indoctrination. We don't speak like this in the real world. And I'm not saying that just because I'm some old fart. Speaking and thinking the way you just did is a sign that you are deep into a format of thinking that doesn't line up with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:25 PM
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And what about hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:35 AM
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I sat there reading this and thought to myself: I wonder if this guy is a stereotype of the very typical kind of guy that believes in every facet of online propaganda and red/black pill talking points. So I decided to look at your profile and sure enough, hypergamy is mentioned. The wall, and so on. It's a sad state of affairs when the men of the world are actively removing themselves from the dating pool due to online propaganda. But hey, it's your life. And you only have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:25 AM
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Narcissism. They are yearning to be desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:20 PM
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