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indirect game. maybe try cold approaching off your campus. But there are a lot of quality girls on campus, or its easier to figure out if they are garbage or not. and I'm not looking for retarded sluts, thats kinda what you get from Greek life. the "quality" i refer to is actually having a life outside of school/work on weekday, shitfaced on weekend to forget about the thing called "life". it feels like I'm around drug addicts with those people, alcohol/sex solves all problems for about a day, a…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:57 PM
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I go to a big university, all the party girls are retarded trash. Thoes girls bore the fuck out of me. My game are the ones who work hard, and take care of themselves, that's my type. Otherwise it's like eating McDonald's vs a nice juicy fatty steak cooked perfectly. I have been with thoes "party" social circles, once again boring people who are terrified of even just asking the question " what do I want with life". There is a fucking insane amount of girls that ONLY hang out with a close social…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:12 AM
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So your saying is to re-word the question and get her to either say yes or no. Instead of what i did, which wasn't as direct. Which I still think is a good idea, since that failed that's WHEN you push to either give me yes/no scenario. I should have pushed a bit more, I see that now. But I still like what I did, just need to add the extra part about a definite yes/no.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:27 PM
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So what would you have done after she said that? Asking her to hang out = can I have your number in my book. AFAIK, I was closing. The only other option would of been to say " would you like to go out some time" , that usually puts pressure on the girl, asking to hangout is alot more friendly to her with the new exact same result on my end (her number)
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:12 PM
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That's kinda the plan. But like everyone else keeps saying, how does asking her to hang out ( she would need to give me her number to do that) different then asking " can I have your number" . I think it's superior to just asking for a number.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:09 PM
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That's what asking someone to hangout does, they say sure then you get their number. So I did try to get the number right then and there while the iron was still hot .
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:08 PM
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Why would it be creepy to approach again? My approach was indirect, she had a whole table to herself and I took a spot cuz I needed a spot. I don't see anything wrong with talking to her again. And that's exactly what I was doing, getting her number to ask her for a date later.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:15 PM
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How is that different than asking her to hang out sometime? if she said yes, that's when she gives me her number and than I'll figure what sometime means and ask her.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:12 PM
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Of course, now you mentioned. I made a mistake in my math, it was 6 posts in the past 200 days not 90.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 09:13 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:39 PM
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I've made 6 posts in the last 90 days. It takes time to internalize new information, and I generally get alot of questions in my head about new information. The questions maybe stupid at times, but that's how I learn. I was looking for a specific peice of information and not general ( maybe you misunderstood the question). The guy below understood my question, and answerd it perfectly in one line.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:39 PM
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So like I was suggesting in my OP, forget about her for now and try again later if she keeps sending signals.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:58 PM
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Sounds good.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 02:36 PM
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No, I asked if she wanted to go out, her response was IHAB.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 02:35 PM
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I'm more of a idgaf person, so went with that. Details on the previous comment ^
/r/askTRP31/10/19 10:42 PM
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Correct, so my initial response was an idgaf "okay" , she kept apologizing and I just looked at her and waited till she was done and just " that's fine". Then she kept asking me questions about the conversation we were having. Till her friend showed up and they left.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 10:41 PM
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That's what I thought, I'm going to play both of them and try ( not in any aggressive/obvious) to use the fact their both interested to my advantage. The game is on!
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:12 PM
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It's on my list.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:35 PM
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i think i worded my post wrong, let me clarify. ​ how would you go about it if you want to spin both of those plates? the "study" thing is the best i can come up with, which isnt bad. but I'm asking if there is a better option.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:20 PM
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Thanks for the reply, no problem on how late it is, in fact it works out even better that its late. your make a very good point, and i agree. i have been pushing myself like fuck on TRP, cold approach, frame and all that stuff. its been a hell of a journey, ups and downs. the fact this post was 25 days ago, when in fact it feels like it was a year ago is fucking fantastic. i might be powering through this because growing and becoming a better person has been my soul focus for years, and this see…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:28 AM
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How are you going about fixing it as an adult?
/r/askTRP06/04/19 02:30 AM
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Hmm, I tried just talking outloud to myself/no-one for the first time. It was strange as fuck, it's like I had to fight my mind to say my thoughts outloud. I'm guessing vocal training involves alot of that, just hearing your own voice. Gonna try to improve this, it felt like I was nervous to talk to myself... Werid. My voice is actually somewhat deep, but I think it's my tone/pace that affects my tone. I think fast, so I talk fast. But I think I need to do this better " so I'm always thinking ab…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 02:29 AM
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We'll daygame cold approach fits in with my lifestyle ( school, unlimited choices in 1 spot). I've figured out when the conversation is dying, but I haven't figured out if it's because I'm not escalating/teasing enough, or it's just a natural end. I usually just end it there, and it becomes clear if I should ask for a # or just say bye based on her reaction. Sometimes I'll try to end it when it's at a high point, and ask for a number becuase at that point she won't refuse. Based on my experience…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 02:17 AM
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I thought u were implying to hang out with her and her BF. But I think I see what your saying now, just keep inviting her to do something if she comes up with any excuse thats flakey but not a "polite" rejection. It's just a quick text,so it's doesn't take any time.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:07 AM
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Isn't it bad to drag on an interaction in cold approach ( day game), you go in, make her feel, ask for date/number and hard part is over. And I wasn't suggesting faking anything, it's a self improvement thing that will lead to more chicks.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:32 AM
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I think in cold approach, tonality plays a bigger role. It's basically what you say( verbal) and how you say it ( body language and tone), I think it's about 50/50 importance. In a longer interaction, I would agree that frame is substantially more Important than tone.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:00 AM
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i think there is a correlation between speed and speaking from your chest/projecting (at least for me, i recorded myself during pickups and noticed this). it seems that the faster i speak, the less pronouncing i do (if that makes any sense). ​ thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 10:15 PM
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is valid but you got to get over it quickly absolutely 100% correct sir, i know myself and this is how i can change (internally). i Decided to be a dick (only for a little time), and get angry and also a little hate. its not 100% directed towards women, a lot of it is at myself. its been less then a few days, and i feel like I'm near the end of this stage. ​ any by " stupidly priced toys " i mean their values are such garbage, they dont care if a man is successful, nice, moral or literally anyth…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 10:11 PM
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God damn, that's a good one. Thanks buddy
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:19 PM
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Agree with the first sentance. Should of tried to pull stronger isntead of the "go away" response. As for the other 2 sentances, I say fuck that. Wayyy too much effort for 1 chick, either were going on a date and I'm going to maker her jump at me or I'm doing something else. Not gonna waste my time orbiting.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:18 PM
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not what i meant, about 60% of my friends are woman and i truly like them and care about them. ​ I was mostly talking about the sexual arena, if i want anything to happen there, I'm not mr nice guy. not saying I'm going to be a dick, but i wont treat them like an equal human, your a damn toy that has a very stupid price tag, its not a high price tag, just stupid. gonna pay that price and play with you, when I'm done i wont feel bad for just moving on if you stop being fun, i paid the fucking pri…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 02:50 AM
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Thanks for the feedback. the rest of this comment is more about me writing my thoughts down, then a reply to you. ​ 100% agree with you, Ive learned how to better myself for the past couple of years and its worked great. at this point, i realize exactly what I 'm feeling and why I'm feeling. i can fight it with logic, but Ive learned thats fucking stupid. its like ripping off a band-aid, quick and intense, or slow and painful. ​ the best part is, this is just a game to me. this is absolutely not…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 02:46 AM
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Correct, it's very difficult at this stage to not get invested in interactions that have a 50%+ chance of success. Less then a week ago, I would be invested into every interaction that was positive. A couple of weeks before that, I was petrified of approaching. And now I'm very very close to the point to where if I see a girl I want, I automatically just go say hi, but I still get a little anxious. Progress!! Ps: might be obvious now why i made this post, reflect, get feedback, Improve. Then rep…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:28 AM
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should have replaced " I tell my girls to go on dates when they tell me someone asked her out.They literally run at me next time they see me " with "you really should consider upgrading to a man", otherwise that was perfect. ​ i might be at the "anger" phase, but I'm pretty much 100% done treating any women that i want a sexual relationship with and respect/common decency. Ive done that all my life, and it was a massive fucking mistake. id rather take the risk of being seen a giant douche-bag th…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 12:29 AM
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yup, annoyed. I'm sick of the whole acting like stupid children thing they do. this way she will never dare to make eye contact with me or even be near me if i run into her on campus, sounds like a win-win to me.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:51 PM
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maybe i could of worded that a bit better, but i dont regret it. ​ at this point, my thinking is "fuck it, they act like children, ill treat them like children, i dont see a loss here. "
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:47 PM
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she did not,and based on the conversation we had she had ample chance to use the boyfriend excuse/name drop. ​ but in general i think thats good advice.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:37 PM
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Don't have a degree, currently in school. This was an example from a conversation at school about school, it comes up pretty often by both parties.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:00 AM
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That's actually what I try to do. My degree is physics based, so when they ask about school I can't help but brag how in group projects, I just dictate my knowledge becuase I understand the subject so well, and the rest are more than happy to do the actual leg work. Then I joke about how it's intuitive for me, and I don't even try. But I suck at the easy stuff like writing a simple introduction, so I'm like " oh fuck yea, works for you guys? Cuz that's perfect for me" Things of that nature. Than…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 02:31 AM
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Good to know this information, even googled this simple situation, there's a syndrome named for these type of girls "princess syndrome". Rant coming up, feel free to ignore; Just based on her vibe/behavior from that interaction, I'm actually pretty offended that she thought I was after her like that. Which I just realized is great thing because my inner alpha is going "wtf, tell that crator face bitch that your way out her league". I felt like some fat girl thought I was interested in her and go…
/r/askTRP29/03/19 01:33 PM
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And that's the only conclusion? Not that it's possible that this one was a total outlier ( super ego due to being average looking, while every HB8+ I've tried this went substantially better). I wasn't even trying to really pick her up, just wanted to kill time. I would have never gone out with her.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 01:09 PM
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i assume you mean if her response is negative (ie. "i cant talk I'm busy"), instead of just brushing it off, i should of negged her ("i didn't sit here to talk with you, i just didn't feel like standing outside class like the sheep"). ​ when i do cold approach on campus, and get a positive response, i try to do "hot and cold" . approaching her out of the blue would be considered hot, making fun/insulting her for being an apple fan would be cold.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 12:08 AM
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sounds like an inflated ego yea, that seems to be the case for average/below average. its just funny how those ones have an inflated ego, and the 8's+ have a deflated ego where i live. glad i figured this out, this is a very fun game, should of started playing it years ago.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 11:51 PM
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As soon as she responds, tell her she got the wrong idea and it will never work. i didn't quite understand this part. could you rephrase it?
/r/askTRP28/03/19 11:50 PM
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care to elaborate? i wasn't even talking to her or even interacting with her, she was invisible to me. ​
/r/askTRP28/03/19 10:42 PM
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Good advice. ​ also, idk if this is true because I'm in Canada and the male population in my school is super beta and terrified of HB8+. but god damn, they are MUCH MUCH easier to work with then then average looking ones.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 10:41 PM
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the latter. doesn't seem like a good idea to approach them when their walking from A-B.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:38 PM
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no, i said "oh okay" looked at my phone to giver her an out if she wanted,looked back and she was looking at me,so i talked to her like normal.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 05:16 AM
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yup, thats pretty bad. I'm working on it.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 03:01 AM
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i saw her, looked at the time and realized i had 33 minutes to kill, so i went and talked to her..... small chance of doing that and then her going "i have to meet my friends in 3 minutes " but yea it did happen, thats actually why i remember , was like "wow, knowing the exact time is super fucking useful in analyzing this one". ​ I'm not here to impress anybody, dont give a fuck if i totally fucked everything up and acted like a POS beta. if you dont believe what i say as fact, then idk wtf the…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:59 AM
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good advice, now i gotta figure out how to neg better.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:55 AM
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" you have to polarize early, not play the long game. " how do you normally go about accomplishing that? ​ also, sorry i actually edited my post after your edit, i said "your were fun to talk to,lets grab coffee sometime".
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:54 AM
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i dont feel like your understanding what I'm saying. i have no problem with the facts, # thing for me is the truth so i can learn. let me recap my points " she won't text someone within first few minutes of banter. " .she stated that she was meeting her friends in 3 minutes when i asked what she was doing, and it was 2:27, obviously she had planned to meet at 3:30. she had ample opportunity to leave during the interaction, i even made sure she had it, she did not take it and was rambling about h…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:52 AM
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" while coming off as very seductive ", how do you normally go about accomplishing that part(similar situation as OP) ?
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:42 AM
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true, this is why i stated a specific situation, was hoping to get response in the line of could of done this or that. like i cant think of anything at all, I'm at the point to where i think "comment on her looks generically" ( nice smile, pretty eyes, nice outfit etc....) this applies to everyone of them.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:40 AM
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you do make a good point, allow me to elaborate. ​ this happened twice during the conversation. I picked up on that and after i had finished speaking, i paused to give room to say "well i g2g meet my friends" , she was at the point to where i she was rambling and smiling. i just sat there and listened (i also made strong eye contact, had open body language, was calm and relaxed and got her to do 80% of the talking. this is my approach and i believe thats part of being an alpha). i believe she co…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:36 AM
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saw her sitting alone having lunch at the same time/place that she seems to be at. haven't seen her since the last interaction (comment above). there was a 3rd random at the table, couldn't sit next to her so sat across her, made general chit chat and it basically went; her: "oh i do nothing, I'm just bored and scared of everything" me: "i have no fear, i like to live life and do fun shit and I'm also insanely smart $$$ isnt an issue, i'm king of the world" she knew we had 30 minutes to talk bef…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:59 PM
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Spend more time and build rapport, 2-3 minutes seems short. They maybe interested, but afraid they'll end up as a severd head in your fridge becuase you haven't earned their trust.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 02:11 PM
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I think the metaphor is out of hand now. I don't understand this part.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 05:46 AM
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Hmm, good points. But I'm not sure how to interpret it, man has sent people to the moon, it's a massive accomplishment, does that mean everyone gets credit for it? Or just the 0.1% that actually were part of it. Alot of those changes, a decent amount of men were on their side as well. It seems more of societal change then one brought on Soley by women. The behavior you pointed out is not intelligence, atleast not the way I define it. Taking advantage of some idiot who puts women on a pedestal cu…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:13 PM
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i think you misunderstand, the purpose was to find someone similar to me (i have a lot of intersests, i invent shit/ play sports/game with friends/ travel etc.....) i feel like i have my life together now, and Im being more aggressive in terms of finding a partner, but it turns out barley any of them have a life as it is. its like getting a pet, not an equal. coming to that realization got to me.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 08:27 PM
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" The true scope of the problem is much much worse." ​ fuck it, I'm asking. care to elaborate more on the problem?
/r/askTRP16/03/19 08:22 PM
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what if the cat wanted mouse than a damn mouse it could throw around and eat, maybe it wanted another cat to go fishing with and get plenty of delicious fish instead of gross mice?
/r/askTRP16/03/19 08:21 PM
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their so god damn rare at my age, its like a fucking unicorn. ​ ​
/r/askTRP16/03/19 08:19 PM
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i dont think i have a cynical mindset. its more like I'm changing my mindset, and it feels wrong to think of people who i once thought were equal, to something more akin to a pet.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 08:14 PM
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intelligent people are usually unpredictable in behavior, their behavior is unique and complex. from what I've learned in TRP and what I'm seeing more and more of in my life, is that thats just simply not the case for women.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 08:12 PM
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i dont resent them, i resent myself (if that makes sense) that i wasted so many years getting crap results because i thought women were more "in tune" with her emotions. and all they wanted was a "good guy" , thats some of the dumbest shit ever, its not even logical (anymore). its just fucked changing my mindset to seeing them as just toys,or a pet. sure a dog is not relatively not smart/conscious but god damn you love them and love spending time with them. but there's alot you cant share with t…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 08:08 PM
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That's a very good reply. About generalization, sometimes they can be applied to the majority of a population that meet certain conditions. What would you say to about women in the 20-25 range, in higher education ( most just continued from high school due to external pressure). I know there will still be levels even at the conditions, but anything besides my stated generalization is like a Unicron. Edit: what about my statements about how their driven by emotion and react, instead of thinking a…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:02 PM
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ugh.. maybe i worded my initial post badly, let me clarify. ​ 1: I thought women were equals at first, they had hobbies, interesting thoughts, planned for the future and managed their life well. turns out for the vast majority (thats why i used 99% not AWALT) have literally nothing going on. they consider "drinking wine" as a hobby. it feels like i was insane for thinking that and being proven wrong over and over, and only now I'm now starting to change my mindset and realize wtf is going on. ​ …
/r/askTRP16/03/19 04:25 PM
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Well that's what I pretty much did, and got not reply. Is your suggestion to try again after a while ( how long?). Once again, is be much happier with a rejection instead of the gray area. Basically learning and figuring out whats a good strategy.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 10:11 PM
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Theres close to 0 chance running Into eachother again, why wouldn't she's just do what a girl normally does when they aren't interested,reply with lame text and then flake and make lame excuses if invite happens. That was the case for me before TRP.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:59 PM
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Built a rapport in person, I use text for logistics.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:55 PM
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You seem to be switching opinions.for Asking her to go on a date in the first text you first said her response would be “what the fuck is wrong with you?” and now ur saying, fuck it who cares just try. This isn't really good advice, there has to be some logic in the text game.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:44 AM
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So this is why I asked, the other comment was suggesting to straight up just text and ask for a date. Text game is fucked. Some posts says NEVER text and say " Hi xxx, how's it going?". I did that earlier to a girl I was familiar with who was definitely showing IOI, and literally got no reply( she put her # in my phone, could of fucked it up, but doubt it).She still very friendly after having a 2 min interaction a few days later, some said she lost all interest with that lame text a few days lat…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:10 AM
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Ramble was sort of a reply to your statement about being a creep on campus/alternatives to try. And yes I did, we dont have any inside jokes ( short Interaction, most I got is she's a science student). Is your suggestion to just go for the date? I like fun dates ( arcade, comedy club, escape room), so just send a text asking if she wants to do that Friday night after talking to her for 15 min? ( Yes I know it's a dumbfuck question, text game is soo unantural to me, I'm 1000X better face to face)…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:03 PM
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your first paragraph is somewhat unrelated to the question, but i would love to answer it and get feedback. the following is useless to those who are here to answer my initial question. ----------------------------------------------------------- ​ For some reason, university life is insanely different then college life from what i hear (i go to uni). i did the equivalent of partying/frats/organizations shit in the past, mostly because i was sick of being a loner at uni (like 90% of people at uni…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:36 PM
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" i broke up with my LTR bc he didn't respect me and its sad bc i still love him and think about him a lot." That is all.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:47 AM
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Wow, this is a perfect example why asking someone why/what their attracted to is a horrible way to get an answer (for 99.9% of people), they actually dont really know. ​ you just addmited that you broke up with a LTR becuase he didnt rsepect you, so bascily this guy is an asshole, he got YOU to sleep him, over and over and once u broke up with him, YOU are the one who still loves him and thinks aout him. before i would say "IM soo confused as to wtf your saying, it just makes no sense" but thank…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:39 AM
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That's exactly what I was going for in the "PS:" , it's a hard statement to word for me lol. Day by day, step by step, with each step being bigger then the last one ( exponential growth)
/r/askTRP07/03/19 06:22 PM
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I see, that's pretty clever, it's still neutral enough to say it's a joke, yet direct enough that to her it can seem as " he knows wtf he's doing, might be worth it". Is my interpretation of that, correct me if in wrong. As an individual, I've got a natural and strong don't give a fuck attitude to life ( not because I don't care, im just aware of the big and small picture and don't overreact to everything, I react accordingly) Once I see that she's DTF, I have no problem treating her like a toy …
/r/askTRP07/03/19 06:06 PM
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Excellent advice, seems like you know what your talking about. Especially the end where you state to tailor the advice to my personality. I'll shout back if I have any questions, ATM I think I have enough new info to digest, apply it and the look back on I how it went Thanks!!
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:26 PM
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Then please, do tell the situations in which you agreed to go on a date that wasn't just shear luck that you were both doing the same thing at the same time and happen to hit it off naturally ( this happens like once a year at best). One of the pillars of TRP AFAIK, is that women are definitely not aware of what they find attractive, they ALL say " I want a nice guy who treats me well" which is so far from the Truth. That never works, showing women that you respect them and value them is the #1 …
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:19 PM
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That was my mindset, I said I wanted to have go to a locked room and have fun, she should come. That part I agree with. Where I disagree is after that rejection. if it was a shit test then I would of passed by asking again and showing that her "no" didn't phase me. If I were to just give up then nothing happens. This is sort of a no loss, all gain situation after the first rejection. Maybe I should of assumed she was intimidated ( instead of not interested because that assumption would just kill…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:15 PM
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so basically if we talk for less then 15 min, her mindset is "i like him, but I'm not too sure if i want to go on a date yet" so a coffee date is simple and way for her to see if she wants to go on a date. ​ but if we chat for 15min+ and there is chemistry, going for an actual date is much better, otherwise its just a repeat of what we just did. ​ and yes, Ive gone out of my way for the past 2 years to talk to PEOPLE. Ive gotten fantastic at it, no issue there. ​ what i lack is how to EXCITE GIR…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 10:13 PM
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she knew exactly what i meant by locked room, their popular and shes said shes been to them before. ​ and it was a specific adults only arcade where you can get drunk, she was aware of that fact too. ​ what else would you suggest? movie(thats not a good idea)? go to a bar (boring)? comedy club (maybe)? no one really does anything else in this city in winter besides go get drunk or stay at home and watch Netflix.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 09:53 PM
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I dont agree that, please debate me on this. what you say contradicts everything ive read in TRP. this seems like something a beta would do and get rejected. maybe a coffee date would have been a better idea then a real date, but definitely much better then what your suggesting.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 09:48 PM
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hmm, i found out she doesn't have plans for the weekend because it came up in the convo naturally, so i decided to take the initiative and ask her out for a specific date/time that i knew she was free. ​ this seems inline with everything i read in TRP, dont ask for "oh are you free this day to do something" go for "how about we do this at this time" so she gets an idea of what shes into instead of a vague statement. ​
/r/askTRP06/03/19 09:46 PM
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like always, debate me on this. ​ hmm, well if the first one failed and the game was pretty much up, why was it a big fuck up to try and suggest something else because my first suggestion was something shes doesn't enjoy? seems 10000x better then saying "oh okay, nice talking to you, bye". ​ this might of been a shit test is what i thought in my head, and i powered through it. i dont think it was the wrong action.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 09:43 PM
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my place isnt far from school, and i drive to school. should of asked for something casual (see above comment) like a coffee date, got it.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 09:40 PM
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good point, should of asked for something more casual and she didn't seem very comfortable (nervous/anxious). ​ I'm guessing if she was a lot more receptive, it would have been better to ask for a real date instead of a boring coffee chat, because that is essentially whats happening if we get a convo going.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 09:39 PM
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i dont agree with a lot of what you said, please debate me on this. ​ she was sitting alone studying at a table, i went up and made it clear i was interested in her by making strong eye contact, sitting down without asking and started talking to her about stuff we have in common (school) just to open up the conversation.i was assertive/dominant and gave her a subject she could easily talk about/be invested in, and when i felt like the conversation would die if i stopped bringing it back to life …
/r/askTRP06/03/19 09:38 PM
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I'm sorry, i dont understand your point. how about you rephrase it?
/r/askTRP06/03/19 09:30 PM
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So kinda tried it. Instead of seeing her sitting down, we saw eachother while walking to class, threw it at her and she caught it and I just grabbed it from her hand after, she didn't seem phased at all by it. Reponse was " playing with nerf guns?". Talked for like 30 sec while walking, teased her because she was out of breath when she went up the stairs.she said she was going to class and we walked right by mine and I said bye and walked away abruptly. She still super receptive, immediately mad…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 07:33 PM
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Smart man, in going to go and watch James Bond tonight.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:18 AM
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Instincts take time and conscious effort to change. Good news is, I don't think about weather I should approach or not, I just do.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 03:04 AM
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Like what? Just stand there and stare at her till she looks up and makes eye contact and I say hi and just sit? Not sure what else I can do. That's a real question BTW.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 03:02 AM
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Good idea. And yea, that's why im practicing approaching every day. I know myself, and the more I do it and then analyze/get feedback on my actions the quicker I can adjust and better I become.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 03:02 AM
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Bought a small ass notebook so I can write the interaction highlights down. Getting better and better by the hour ( not days or fucking months).
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:43 PM
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Sounds about right, who gives a fuck of she had even a model looking friend sitting at the table, I should have engaged her and made that guy just it there and watch me ( us).
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:42 PM
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That's what I thought. Idk if she made eye contact back though, thats an area in working on, with the initial few seconds of the approach, eye contact turns to autopilot and I honestly can't remember how it went. My guess is that I should have strong eye contact as soon as I got her attention.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:41 PM
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Im in a really big university, i thought ahead strategically, don't hit on a girl if its possible to have other girls that I would hit on potentially hear. Otherwise who gives a fuck, life wise (excluding the game) im way ahead of what most people will ever achieve. I never realized how fucking stupid the game is and how women have 0 control over their instincts ( I control and fight mine if it's not benefiting me.) I don't have a medium setting, either all out or nothing. Im at the stage where …
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:07 PM
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Trying, just approached 3 in the last 2 hours during my break. 1: went good, she talked alot when she had to go she grabbed her stuff very quickly to go to class after chatting with me.i made her take a step back to shake my hand and exchange names before she left, didn't have a chance to ask for # since she walked away quick. Assuming same place same time with her, I'll escalate that later on. 2: God damn sexy as fuck, things Quickly escalated after I talked to her, she wanted me to vote for he…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 06:59 PM
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Too late? Allrdy sent a boring ass one and now the plan is to throw a nerf dart at her next time I see and harass her with it.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:28 PM
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Holy fuck, that car metaphor is fucking brilliant and ressonates with me so. That's some excellent advice because it's super simple for me to just reference that statement and adjust my attitude.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 02:21 AM
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So where im at right now is to to harass her. I found a nerf gun dart, going to straight up throw it her when I see her. Going to have the attitude im having fun making you scream, and if she plays along im going to make it clear ( it's a playfully/dominating manner) that she doesn't get to throw at me, but I get to throw it at her whenever I want because im awesome. And if she wearing a low cut top, going to attempt to throw it between her tits and just tease her if she says stuff like in going…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 02:16 AM
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Care to elaborate on escalation/kino? Even a link to a thread would be helpful.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:40 PM
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Good info, I'll keep it in mind and keep upping my game with feedback/lessons like those.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:37 PM
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Never said that, approached 6 girls last week, was at school for 3 days only. 3 just didn't show any signs and barley talked ( average looking ~6) , 2 showed some sings and talked (~8's) I think they were shit testing me, very strong eye contact and only responded to questions, if I have a chance, I might try to push on them again. And the other 1 i should have asked for her number when she walked away and said hopefully I'll cya around. Thanks for "adding" to this post.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:36 PM
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I see, basically dumb that shit down to her level. Good feedback again. back to the whole being truthful thing. That also comes full circle around, I've gotten much better at objectively judging people, I didn't even notice her body very well at first, I was just going for the whole " more people I open, the better I get at it". And only realized it when she got up and I got a better look at her ( I think this is a good thing, I was more focused on good eye contact and getting better at convo). …
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:31 PM
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Good info there. Edit: maybe not? That comments seems to be attracting down votes.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:11 PM
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Good advice. Can I get some more ( from you or anyone else). TLDR at bottom. I've always been someone who just tells the truth naturally, mostly because I think that's the best way to face it and I have close to 0 fear at this point about life and love the difficult uphill battle ( going up slowly). The way I naturally speak when im not trying to hide stuff ( like how im not good at the game) Im super confident and can do it starring directly into their eyes because it's true. Im overthinking th…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 06:48 AM
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Very helpful reply, thanks. Also, "But the key is that once a girl's excitement has cooled off, its next to impossible to refire it." So your opinion in this situation is that it's totally done for? Because a simple reply and then rejection would be the norm, but she just outright ignored the text which I guess implies "please don't talk to me again".
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:23 AM
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That was somewhat my plan. Except we've spent enough time talking to eachother to where she feels comfortable if I just came and sat with her, im trying to take it to the next level and I think a coffee date is a step back. I was going to ask her general questions next time I see her and then go with " did you get my text the other day?".
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:30 AM
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I texted saying "hi (her name), it's (my name). How's it going?" When we talked In person, I asked her out for Friday, she said she really wants to do this depending on the weather (weather was going to be incredibly bad), but otherwise she would be down. So I asked for her number and said I'll text you later to see if that's changed. I kept the conversations mostly general, nothing really sexual.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:28 AM
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Excellent info right there. ​ So the reason i started this thread is because i have pretty much no interest in power, status or money. i only care about money because you need it to survive. am an intern ATM (Engineer) and its enough money to do whatever the hell i want, i also made some apps. ​ so at this point in my life, the only thing i honestly care about is joy. and i want to know (somewhat comforting) that there are women who have similar views like that. i cant 100% understand why women …
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:09 PM
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no idea, and definitely not their mouths, that would be a very inaccurate source. ​ that's why I'm asking, hopefully someone has some data or thoughts on this subject, i got close to fuck all.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:24 PM
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How to apply TRP ideas to varied situation/people. as a person, i cant stand the "black and white" or blanket answer that applies to everyone/every situation/everywhere . that is rarely the case, TRP has some great information, but they seem to adhere to something along the lines of "all women think like this and value that" . ​ This information would be very helpful to appropriately use certain concepts/methods. and something i am personally curious about (human behavior). ​ ​ ​
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:23 PM
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