Guatchu_tambout Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Need Help with Success - Social Anxiety Is there any sort of day time event nearby coming up you’re interested in that you could invite her to? Or more low key, maybe a hiking trail nearby that isn’t too long you could go check out together. If there’s a beach around you could head there afterwards, say you were going there anyways to cool off, ask if she wants to come along. I wouldn’t recommend night time activities for you just yet because you need to build your confidence from the ground up, I’m afraid you might drink too much out…	/r/seduction	16/02/20 05:46 PM
34	Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life. I saw the title of a post last night saying something along the lines of ‘I’m new to this, how do I get [X girl] to let me kiss her?’ and my first thought was: Shouldn’t your goal be to make HER want to kiss you? Didn’t respond there because I didn’t have time but that person and others with similar questions need to read posts like yours. Definitely information that could help these guys reflect on their mindset and make them more successful.	/r/seduction	04/09/19 07:52 PM
170	Lost my virginity on vacation It’s a safe and automatic response for lots of women to throw that out there, their totally real ‘boyfriend’. Some will later admit he doesn’t exist if they feel comfortable enough with you and for the rest that are actually being truthful: as a third person I don’t think it’s on you to worry about another’s monogamy to a partner which may or may not exist. If you knew him/her personally and were aware of their relationship, that’s a different story and is not what I’m referring to.	/r/seduction	03/07/19 08:17 PM
2	Why do people like sex so much? For you to exist right now, literally every single one of your ancestors had to have had sex at least once in their lives. Why? Same reason other animals do it, healthy individuals have an innate biological drive to reproduce and in our case that’s through sex. If you personally have no sex drive then that can be a sign of issues such as a chemical imbalance, though I’m no doctor. Now if you say you just don’t understand it, what is there to not understand, have you had sex before? If not, there…	/r/seduction	05/05/19 09:17 AM
–	Why do people like sex so much? We’re literally made for it.	/r/seduction	05/05/19 07:11 AM
1	23 y.o virgin needs advice at "making the next step" from casual talk with a stranger, to asking out. Easiest way for the inexperienced to ask someone out is to: 1 - already have something fun planned that you’re going to/doing in the near future and 2 - ask said person if they’d like to join you Whether it’s a carnival, some event in your city, etc (personally I’d go for an outdoors setting), invite them to come with and learn a few things about each other in the process. If you’re still interested, meet again for something else, maybe in a more personal setting, then repeat until your desired …	/r/seduction	30/11/18 12:56 AM
–	Girl on tinder wnats to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic? You look exactly the same in all of the pictures. I’m not sure why you’re worried about that, go meet her	/r/seduction	30/07/18 09:17 PM
7	Why do girls assume I'm a player??? The obvious response to the comment “you’re a player aren’t you” is to ask them something along the lines of “Me, a player? What makes you think that?” Since it seems you’re looking for the answer to your title question, why not ask them yourself? You should be able to easily turn it around on them, telling them to let you prove they’ve got it wrong (Since you seem to want a stable LTR). I think most responders here will assume you’re trying to go after multiple women or to hone your craft, so t…	/r/seduction	11/04/18 08:33 PM
1	Virgin in a fraternity... It seems you’re focusing on your age for some reason, when in reality it’s a total non factor. You’re in the perfect age group to be where you are, just consider the advice made by other commenters and you’ll be fine. As for why the focus on getting laid, I think it’s because you mention you’re a virgin so the assumption is you want to change that.	/r/seduction	29/03/18 08:22 PM
0	Flaky girl who was previously super responsive has not replied yet, what to do? Not worth sending another reply unless she responds to your last one. If she was interested she would’ve found a way to fit you in asap or at the veeery least given you another excuse within a reasonable timeframe.	/r/seduction	29/03/18 08:08 PM
4	How to flirt physically without being sexual? Other users have left good advice but if you insist on ‘flirting without being sexual’ then you have to be creative, though because of the nature of flirting, it’s not that easy or of much use. To actually answer your question, an example for you is to playfully tease her about how small her hands are (unless they’re not) and convince her to measure them with yours. If you can’t get a good response from innocent physical contact, move on? It helps to know what your intentions are with her.	/r/seduction	29/03/18 07:07 PM
3	Am I being flirted with? Hard to tell without any context surrounding these conversations but if you’re flirting with them then I think it’s safe to assume that if they’re attempting to reciprocate and are probably using those comments in an attempt to impress you. Showing their worth so to speak in an admittedly poor manner considering your confusion. As to whether they’re douchey, that’s for you to decide depending on the rest of their approach, they could simply be inexperienced.	/r/seduction	26/03/18 02:34 AM