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There is no debate with women idiot.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 10:05 AM
3

I believe we have covered that already.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 09:33 PM
3

Case in point.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 09:31 PM
9

You could have dm me this its off topic but I appreciate your comment.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 05:43 PM
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So what?
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 05:34 PM
0

Why because they are the truth?
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 03:52 PM
5

I explained that already I'm not obligated to listen to womens bs
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 03:32 PM
2

More to block I guess
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 03:28 PM
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That's the real problem women have unrealistic expectations but somehow that's men's fault to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:24 PM
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So if should take criticism for being a virgin than that means women can take criticism for being promiscuous? It's funny because that's exactly how I explained it but it didn't matter how I said it because that's not they wanted and this wasn't just one women. I don't blame women for any of this but it really doesn't matter you just want to find some way to say it my fault, yeah I know it's my fault for not fucking myself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:23 PM
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So what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:18 PM
0

Companionship from women who wouldn't have looked twice at you when they had options and are past their prime acting like their shit don't stink is literally taking what you can get and the worst deal possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:54 PM
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How am I the problem when women keep telling me that my inexperience at my age doesn't matter but I find out that's a lie? Why do women complain about men judging them for their body count but judge virgin men past a certain age the same way? If the shoe fits I'll where it but it doesn't and this isn't on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:46 PM
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There is a difference between ending up at the bottom after having some success and being trapped at the bottom since the beginning. I don't know why people can't understand this and this is why I say they are incompatible and wouldn't be to relate to one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:42 PM
1

I would rather die than be used like this but explain to me why the younger inexperienced men needs to make himself attractive to an older hitting the wall experienced women? It seems to me they are already compatible but this is why they aren't compatible and men don't want this arrangement. These women are in no position to make demands and if that's our options men might as well go after younger women or just use escorts who cares if it's illegal the game is rigged and nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:38 PM
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Well for me it depends on the reason for them having lower expectations, if it's because they can't get who they really want all they would do is cause more problems for men like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:26 PM
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I agree with you that why I don't understand why people keep telling me I would have better luck with older women or that they will be more understanding. I would never do this but I see why men got to prostitute's, young and old women want someone experienced so that really leaves them with only one option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:20 PM
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You must have missed where I said I took women's word for it about women not caring about this and found out otherwise. You and a couple of people on this thread are the ones saying your only option is women my age or older who I can't relate with. Why not find someone who is inexperienced like me who cares if they are younger that way I don't have to lie or make up some bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:17 PM
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I disagree, the only women who are even saying they prefer virgin or low body count men are younger women. I have yet to see a 40 year old women who wants a virgin man her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:11 PM
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Well at least you are honest that the only women my age who would date me are women who can't get anyone else at the moment. I'll give you credit for not acting like this doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:04 PM
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This right here, this is what a lot of women are insinuating but they won't actually say it because it would show their hypocrisy. Just down at the end of this thread there is a women trying to tell me that a women who has slept with 20+ men is equivalent to a virgin man who has only watched porn. Yeah you can't make this shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:01 PM
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I'm not going to stop being me because some women have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:56 AM
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You aren't listening she will be disgusted just like other women, you know this is bs but I'll find a women who has been promiscuous and I'll tell her we are compatible because she slept with a lot of men and I have only watched porn for the last twenty years and I can see her saying sleeping with people and watching on a screen are not the same. Like I said the only women who would do this are women who have no other choice and that's not winning or even breaking even.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:03 AM
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Yes I know just saying I'm a virgin at 40 is a pity party, it has nothing to do with how I say it, the only way not to be woe is me is to hold everything in and act like someone I'm not and women wonder why men won't open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:49 AM
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You're crazy this isn't a match at all and exactly what I'm talking about about not being compatible but to use your analogy since I watched ten thousand football games I'm on the level of someone who has played in twenty football games, which doesn't make any sense. She can find someone who has a similar background or likes dogs who has had an actual relationship and sex before so why would she pick them the virgin porn sick guy? Unless you mean she's in a position to no longer be picky or opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:39 AM
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I think this is what women tell themselves to to blame men. If they faced the reality of there are very few men who can actually do this women would have to ask themselves why shouldn't that man go after someone more compatible with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:27 AM
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Ok but why would this women want to be with a man who learned all he knows about sex from porn? So let me get this right a virgin in his Forty's who has watched porn is equivalent to a women who has slept with 30 men? Why wouldn't the women his age find him gross to because of his interaction with porn? Why is she fine with it but the younger girl not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:10 AM
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Market can go to hell, I tell myself what my value is not anyone else. Bring to the table? I thought women my age just what someone who treats them nice and isn't an asshole? Yeah I knew that was a lie, but if I have to make up for something that shouldn't be so a problem than we aren't compatible. Yes I know there are overweight women out there but I'm 6,2 and 180 and I'm not attracted to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:03 AM
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I tell my self what my equivalent is not you. People get together because they are attracted to each other or whatever so what is attractive about a women that no one wanted that would make me want to date her? Because I'm 49 and inexperienced I don't have the right to want to be attracted to my partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:49 AM
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Who said anything about teenagers? I read all about how to drive standards but none of that meaned anything to actually driving one. So now I experienced men are being compared to women who have had casual sex? You women are so fucking weird but have the nerve to talk about anyone else. I'll try that but we will see what happens I tell her that I am virgin at forty and I don't get aroused by normal women now. My guess is she would reject me to because nobody see anything wrong with her just the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:41 AM
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I'm not religious so I wouldn't go that route but it's sad that if I don't go that route I have no chance to find my equivalent. How is that an option cause when I tell them that I'm 40 and a virgin and I don't care how undesirable they are they will pass. So only you are allowed to want what you want? I don't want a women who would have never given me a shot or one who acts like she's doing me a favor because her option are dwindling. I know if things were going better for them they wouldn't lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:54 AM
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Attitude don't mean nothing I could say it with a smile on my face and it wouldn't change anything. I'm not religious which seems to be the only acceptable reason for women to not think you are defective for being left out. The reason women don't want me is because it show where they are at in the dating game. My experiences shows that I'm bottom of the barrel and that's hard to argue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:44 AM
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From my personal experience the player and many failed relationships guys are above me. I'll put it this way between the never had a relationship guy, player and many failed relationships guy and they are of equal attractiveness the inexperienced guy is not getting a shot. How is my inexperience better at 40 than 22 when we have thirteen year olds who have had relationships and probably sex ? How do you not feel like shit when faced with that reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:24 AM
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The way I see it if telling the truth about my life is what causes me to stay alone, than I'm not the one with the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:16 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:25 AM
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If a women can't handle the truth about my life, that's here problem, I'm not lying or hiding anything about me because women get the ick because dating isn't as easy for men as it is them. Wouldn't this be called entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:23 AM
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I could say dating women my age or older is harder because of my inexperience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:20 AM
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There never really seems to be a problem with men and inexperienced women just the other way around. That's my problem I don't really think these would choose me and if one did I would honestly think she was trying to take advantage of me or was running out of options. Yes I know my dating struggles are not women's fault and they don't owe me nothing but it's hard for me to see it any other way with nothing to base it on. A lot of the qualities I have now I had when I was younger but they really…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:35 AM
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Why would she want me when she could get a man my age, hers and older who has experience (which is what all the women who ghosted me did)? Why do people do this, they say it something isn't a problem, than in the very next sentence they ask you how are you going to make up for it? Why should I have to make up for something that's supposedly not a problem? There isn't a problem with never having a date at my age but the advice I get is go after a women ten years older than me and to jump through …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:23 AM
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Why do women always think men approach this conversation with woe is me and all women are evil? Each time I kindly explained that I have no experience with dating and relationships, I never said why and I never blamed anyone. They really couldn't handle the truth, and I'm almost 40 I have no hope of finding women my age inexperienced like me or who doesn't think something's wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:05 AM
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If this was the case women wouldn't have ghosted me for believing this advice and being upfront about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:58 AM
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Look I'm not downing you but I know you really want to believe that women are more understanding of men who have no experience with relationships, sex and women and I did too I have seen otherwise. I'm 38 and I believed that women didn't care about this because that's the advice women gave me, but every women I have been upfront about this with has ghosted me in some way and they had no interest in me caring or nice or anything. Be honest with me why do you think women in their thirty's who's ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:52 AM
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Finding a women my age who is in the same position is ideal but in my experience I haven't met any at my age and going that route would severely limit my options which women keep telling us not to do. I don't understand if younger women want men with experience than why would women my age inexperienced or not would want different? I don't think this hypothetical man women are on the same life stage, this is like saying me and basketball level because we are the same age which we know isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:36 AM
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My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:20 AM
2

Well when we let women cook they burn the damn house down lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:09 PM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:42 PM
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This right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:41 PM
1

No reason to contradict yourself just own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:40 PM
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Yeah they don't write essays they just tell you a bunch of bs that we know isn't true, this does not make you better just full of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:09 PM
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Yes but that's what we were talking about an access of men who don't want to settle down yet which is where we are headed. How can you settle down when there is no one to settle with?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:19 PM
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So all women who want to settle down have settled down by that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:14 PM
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The women who whine about men using them for sex and before you accuse men if lying even he told the truth women would still accuse him for just wanting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:48 PM
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You don't see a problem with this happening in his thirty's and having to deal with women more experienced than him? Women always talk about life and age experience being predatory but I feel the same way about sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:46 PM
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💯. I said this before and no women responded because it's the truth but women are settling down in their thirty's because they have experimented and know what they want. Why should a guy who gets to his thirty's with no relationship experience settle down because he's thirty? Why is he a bad guy because he wants to experiment and find out what he wants just like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:23 PM
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It doesn't matter what I say you're in the camp of there is no problem so you it's pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:15 PM
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Ding ding we have a winner. I keep telling women how can you take something from men when they weren't getting it in the first place. Why can't women understand that if it ever gets to that point it's because men weren't getting relationships or sex in the first place. Women preach all the time that women don't need men and average men aren't worth it so they were never desirable to women in the first place. The only reasons I can see women having a problem with this is they won't have someone t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:12 PM
0

Are women going to give them an orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:52 PM
1

So how do we fix this since we know what the problem is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:45 PM
1

I never said anything about controlling anything, I just explained what the problem was.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:57 PM
1

That can only work so long, have you heard of agenda 21? Well it's a plan when this no longer works which I think is approaching us pretty fast. That's why you see people actually talking about things they would never have before because they have no choice.
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 12:37 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:33 PM
1

No fill me in
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 11:09 PM
1

Sometimes we have to make sacrifices instead of just taking it.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 10:45 PM
1

You don't think men will check out you if things keep going the way they are?
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 10:27 PM
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Hence all the backlash from men, I mean men were only going to take so much. It really is the darkest before the light.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 10:18 PM
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Yes I agree with this too. You can't even say men have problems or you are an incel which is ridiculous.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 09:58 PM
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Agree 💯
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 09:51 PM
2

I've never used only fans or tinder too ugly for that.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 01:51 PM
2

Ok I see why you made this thread have a nice day.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 01:35 PM
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You didn't answer my question.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 01:29 PM
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Do you have something against black men dating white women,?
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 01:20 PM
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As a black man myself I don't get saltiness I have met plenty of white women who say they only date black guys which is racist to me cause I'll date all races but to each their own. So what if she is with a white guy? I bet most of the ones complaining have dated white women or have one lol.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 01:12 PM
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Well I have yet to meet one in the wild.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 01:05 PM
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It's reality, I couldn't relate with women who had plenty of relationships, why is this a problem?
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 03:43 AM
5

I left ppd to get away from women virtue signaling, women have ruined it please leave me alone.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 03:33 AM
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No he wouldn't, they would be in two different stages of life she know what she wants and he is still learning what he wants. Plus she expects him to know what to do in a relationship which doesn't make sense because he has never been in one.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 03:25 AM
2

I'm good I found a better place to be than manhater ppd. Good riidance
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:54 AM
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This wouldn't be a problem if he could just date women with the same amount of experience as him. There would be no reason to be jealous or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:28 AM
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It's only hypocritical if I had done it and wouldn't date someone who has.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:23 AM
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No because we would be the same and then I would be an actual hypocrite. Yes I know there are guys with huge body counts that want low n count women but that is weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:47 PM
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This right here. Women think men don't want relationships but and are using them for sex but most women are ready to settle down because they have already been through the experimental stage. What happens is, the guys they are ready to settle down with never had that opportunity so women just say that men want sex but they are just trying to experiment and find out what they want just like women. I never understood how a women in her thirty's who has had multiple relationships would be able to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:43 PM
1

I'm not blaming anyone women are free to live how they want. If they have had casual they aren't eligible to me so it's no loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:30 PM
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What does this have do with anything I said? I don't want to date women who have had casual sex no matter how it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:44 PM
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I don't want to control them I just don't want to date them to which I have the right to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:29 PM
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No reply?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:33 PM
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I have actual experience with this because I committed suicide because I couldn't find work because I live in a racist ass area. When they asked me what my problems was I told them and you know what they did? Prescribed be medication that I didn't need and referred me to a bullshit therapist. The doctor admitted himself that I wasn't mentally ill and was scared to let me leave because he knew what the actual problem was. You know what helped me? Not the meds or the therapist but getting an actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:09 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:02 PM
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What would you say if these men didn't have mental health problems and decided they didn't want live sexually frustrated? Yes I know people live without but why should they live like that just because someone else is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:58 PM
1

It's not the same but if no one can do anything for sexually frustrated men why should these men care about human trafficked women? It's not those men's problem, life's not fair right? Isn't this what we tell to sexually frustrated men who can't get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:42 PM
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I don't think this is what women wanted but it's what they are going to get. More men turning a blind eye to any women's complaints and suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:28 PM
1

Stick around you'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:19 PM
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Either you're being ignorant or you haven't been around here long so trust me it happens otherwise I wouldn't have mentioned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:15 PM
1

How is this my fault, and why how am I a hypocrite when I haven't had casual before.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:11 PM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:17 PM
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Sorry women demonize men all the time for letting one women look ruin how they see women. They need to pick better men and not blamed other men for their shitty choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:15 PM
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This is why there is an increase in men enjoying anything bad that happens to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:46 PM
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He is right though, women can say men not having sex isn't there problem and men can say women being abused isn't thier problem. This is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:45 PM
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I'll offer this to women who haven't had casual sex like myself. Sadly this is extinct in America and even worse women will demonize you for the preferences that the guy meets himself🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:39 PM
1

Ok thank you for your honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:44 PM
1

Thank you for answering honestly but I have to ask what do you mean by not entirely?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:33 PM
1

Does it make me a hypocrite that I would have done casual if I had the chance to but women never wanted me for that so that's why I don't want to date women who have done casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:29 PM
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They downvote me instead of actually answering, like I said pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:41 PM
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We all know it's sad at this point, I would have a lot more respect if they would just acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:37 PM
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Is it unrealistic for me to want a women who hasn't had casual before since women only wanted me for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:16 AM
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This right here, but your comment makes to much sense so women are going to ignore you instead of acknowledging it. That's why it's useless to debate women on here, if they can't blame it on men they act like it doesn't exist. I'm thinking about just blocking all women on here because it's not like they want to debate honestly anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:07 AM
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None of this would be a problem if but as it is now my options are women who have had casual sex or being single. Yes if I had the chance to have casual I would have done it but no women wanted me for that so I don't want women who have done it before. No this does not make me entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:03 AM
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Thank you, I can say it a thousand times and women will still ignore it but women are the biggest recruiters of mgtow,black pill, and red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:47 AM
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I don't get threatening men that you won't fuck them if they see prostitute's when they weren't getting sex anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:27 AM
2

Like I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:22 AM
0

That's called entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:35 AM
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So how that supposed to help?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:10 AM
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No, you weren't fucking them anyway hence them going overseas and your threat of not fucking them being pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:56 PM
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Therapy doesn't make women attracted to you or pay for sex so I see why men don't go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:55 PM
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Why have an opinion about something you don't care about? Sorry any women who speaks about this reeks of entitlement. They need to remember their name reek it rhymes with meek lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:52 PM
2

Yes or they will say " say it in a way that isn't doom and gloom" which means lying. What they really mean is they can't handle the truth that man hasn't had a relationship so they want him to lie so they don't look bad for rejecting him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:16 PM
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This thread proves otherwise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:06 PM
5

Well they need to be shamed to mind thier own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:01 PM
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Why the ridicule though what has this hypothetical man done besides not meet American women's ridiculous standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:00 PM
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You don't have to come on reddit or purple pill this sounds like a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:58 PM
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Change my view
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:46 PM
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Nobody wanted them that's why most of them go other places. We all know that women expect average men who aren't overweight if they are struggling to just date fat women they aren't attracted to but only the women is winning in this scenario. Serious question and if you can't answer honestly I won't speak to you again. Should a guy stay single for the rest of his life if he can't find a women in his country?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:43 PM
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I agree but good luck having an honest conversation with women here. These women have went off the deep end. It speaks too much truth the women here are probably whining to the mods right now to get your thread deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:36 PM
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If you really didn't care it wouldn't matter what guys you wouldn't date if your life depended on it said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:30 PM
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You weren't anyway so it's no loss
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:23 PM
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The only reason those women care is because it's less men for them. Everytime I have talked with women about this they end up saying "well those men could do that in America," which goes to show you that it's only exploitation when it isn't happening to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:04 PM
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This makes women complaining about it even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:00 PM
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Yes to all but number 6 I can't don't do the granny booty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:15 PM
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