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The way it actually seems is that women are currently trying to find a way to convince men that they should continue paying for dates I respect that you have convictions, but this is again clear projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 04:57 AM
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I don't care to make anything about you or about me. I'm saying that its stupid though how you're insisting "we can't talk about women's beauty as an expense!" when I'm over here saying "let's talk about men and women's expenses and experiences." You need to calm the fuck down also.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 04:03 AM
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You're projecting so much that I fucking snort-laughed reading this. Dating underlies most of what we do in life... Hell men choose careers in order to make enough money to impress partners. Drive an expensive car to impress women? It's a cost of dating. Stop projecting so much though. Women can smell a weak psychological disposition like that from miles away. It's no wonder you're alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 03:42 AM
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You could take it seriously because it's a good fucking point instead of just discounting it because I'm a woman. Men tend to have a much smaller wardrobe, you didn't know that? Men spend less money on clothes. Men spend less on skincare. Less on haircare. Less on makeup. Less on hair removal (usually). Birth control... Etc. There's a variety of stuff. Some women might not pay on dates. Some men might pay for expensive dates. But for me? Dating is expensive not just because of the costs involved…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 03:29 AM
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Most guys would be better served to act more dominant during intercourse, assume the lead, and use their physical strength, impose it on the girl some, let her feel how much stronger you are than her, rather than obsessing about her clit. Hot. Yes. True.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:00 PM
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You're really verbose but the thing is you've never even taken a course in political science and it shows. Peace babe. If you'd like to try to talk facts, there's plenty of evidence out there to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 01:43 AM
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Ya lol I donate my money to health insurance companies because government is so inefficient. Tbh you just seem really uneducated on all this shit sorry not sorry tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 01:28 AM
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Bitch I work 60 hours a week, fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 11:25 PM
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I didn't ask for your opinions, sweaty, I'm talking about what your party is working systematically to dismantle. Whether you support any of the things listed above doesn't mean a rat's ass to the people you vote for, whose entire party platform is to oppose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 10:37 PM
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So let's pretend that that's a mutually exclusive endeavor to becoming more efficient and creating jobs in green energy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 10:32 PM
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Makeup isn't required. Having good skin isn't required. Nail polish isn't required. Cute clothes aren't required.... Etc. Being attractive isn't required for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:24 PM
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I think women are better at reading the intentions and interactions of third parties, like if they oversee a conversation, than when they are directly involved in the interaction. Maybe this isn't true, but at least this could be more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:11 PM
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That's dumb asf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:08 PM
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Hey, hey, hey! The fact that Republicans don't want to take your money and redistribute it to less industrious people doesn't necessarily mean they aren't nice. No, they just want to take your money and give it to the rich. And they want to enrich themselves financially. And they don't want women to have reproductive rights. And they don't want LGBT people to have rights. And they don't like people of color. And they don't want our nation to be healthy or educated, because that hurts the bottom …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:08 PM
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This is time-consuming, for starters. I do often paint my nails. It's also very different. It will never look as good, even though my technique is pretty good. In particular, however, gel nails have a nicer look to them and also just hold up SO much better. The line of work I'm in requires me to use my hands -- a regular manicure will only last me about 2 or 3 days before it starts to look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 05:33 PM
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painting your finger and toe nails $5 a month My salon charges $65 for a gel mani-pedi
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:37 AM
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Guys hardly ever buy me shit and I spend so that they will find me attractive, in large part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:36 AM
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Being a gay guy and dating is probably way cheaper than being a hetero guy. Like women gay men do have to put more time and money into their appearances in many cases. Straight men are let off the easiest in terms of fashion and grooming in contemporary western dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:35 AM
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Doing things for yourself and for others are one and the same. We don't do this as a service for men.... We do them because they enrich our lives. But the reason they enrich our lives is in part because it increases self-esteem AND smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:34 AM
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Mmm, sure, but it also turned me on. And I felt good for giving some affection to these guys who were lonely. You're right though, it might speak to some abnormality in my character that buying me stuff is one of the quickest ways to my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 01:29 AM
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It's hard for me to answer this, because I have had little actual sex. I did have one sexual encounter while I was in this line of work though. Went on a nice date, had a good time, and then when we were in the sheets... I couldn't cum. And I think I felt pressured. But I can't say whether this was because of my work or simply nerves over being intimate with someone I had just met that day. I did feel like the camming might have been a factor though, and this is part of why I quit that line of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 06:27 PM
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Mmmm I'm actually pretty stable. I probably cry less than once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:17 AM
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Your mindset is nothing like most women. Elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:14 AM
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I was never open to receiving mail soooo....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:14 AM
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I used to be a webcam model. I am no longer doing that work and actually was not in it for super long. I'm definitely prone to some small bouts of hystrionics, but I'm trying to nip this in the bud and actually have an appointment coming up to start seeking cognitive behavioral therapy to help alleviate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 07:15 PM
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I'm not red pill lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 07:00 PM
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Interesting. Makes sense I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 06:52 PM
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So I shouldn't tell guys who I date huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 06:52 PM
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they tend to be attention seeking That's probably fair, and that probably applies to me. Poor me...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 06:33 PM
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Actually in many classical societies courtesans were highly respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 06:31 PM
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But why? People consume erotica but shame those who create it at the same time? I know I'm out of touch with normies but I'd like to somewhat understand this attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 06:24 PM
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So it's not logical, understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 06:23 PM
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No, I'm surprised by this. Maybe it's because I'm somewhat sex positive? Anyway, if not massively surprising, I find it somewhat curious. For starters, anyone who's had success in camming is going to be probably decently attractive and have a good idea of how to get people off. That's nice to have in a relationship. It also shows that she's independently-minded (I can see that that doesn't appeal to everyone, but I think some men would find it appealing). Besides that, a woman who has worked as …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 05:54 PM
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I misunderstood this thread (just woke up so brain is moving slow) as being about past sex work. Would that change your own outlook on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:26 PM
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It seemed like she was the only interaction some of them had This is why I felt good about my work when I was webcam modeling. Naturally, I was getting naked for money. But I was also giving lonely people company and sexual release-- it isn't all hardcore either, a large part of my working time was spent simply interacting in a friendly, conversational manner. I think that loneliness is something of an epidemic, so I'm not sure why we should look down on the people who alleviate this by providin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:17 PM
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I'm confused by how doing webcam work is so degrading. It's commonly seen on the internet that there are a large number of men who are without connections, romance, and sex with women-- so isn't it sort of a good thing that there are people out there who take the time to provide this to those lonely men, even if it's only temporary and done as a paid service?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:14 PM
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Damn, wild. I used to be a cam girl. I'm honestly surprised to see that so many people think that means that I would make a poor partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:09 PM
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Because we constantly get men coming onto us in nasty or rude or low effort ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 11:44 AM
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Depends on the area, the doctor, the person, etc. For the record, in terms of transgender Healthcare, testosterone is significantly more difficult to come by for most transitioners than estrogen is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 10:49 AM
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I'm wrong tbh but it's not an important thing to be right or wrong about either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:15 AM
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Good on you for fact-checking. Regardless, the point is moot, because I'm talking about non-shit hole states.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:01 AM
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Yea but those 30 states have fewer inhabitants than the 12 combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:42 PM
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No wonder so many of us grow up so repressed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 11:36 AM
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Federal age of consent in the US is 16 not 18. The average age of consent throughout Europe is 16 too. "we" is fine, it goes for myself and the person in question in the article, at the very least. 18 is most common here in the US, and the same goes for most European countries I've visited. Just to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:22 AM
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Good on you for speaking the truth, also
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:01 AM
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My moral judgements will have an effect, because I am a crusader on social justice and I will affect the change myself. Edit: this comment was meant to be somewhat tongue-in-cheek, fwiw
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:00 AM
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I did not know that this is common. I think that's somewhat screwed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:12 AM
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Are you saying it's common for men to share pictures of their romantic partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:07 AM
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She lied about her age, so she was well aware of what she was doing. Being aware of what having sex and lying are is not enough, we require a person to be 18 in order to consent to sex with another person, not to be a sexual being. As a child I actually thought it was illegal to have sex with another kid, no joke. But at the end of the day, we put the onus on the adult to have the social awareness and respect to not have sex with minors, even if the minor wishes to engage in the act, for ANY rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:51 AM
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Justice was served just because he was such a dick. Taking photos of a woman of any age and sending it to a friend is something that requires series consent and trust... Not something you do with a stranger sex partner unless you, yourself, are the filth. That it's impossible to mix up a 12 year old and a 19 year old should already handle the situation, but regardless, justice was served in this instance absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:48 AM
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You could seek a romantic relationship with an object or something
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:34 AM
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This lol. There's a whole trope about guys liking the "crazy" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 08:06 AM
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Pray tell, what do cartoons have to do with people who choose not to have children??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 06:56 AM
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You're dumb lol TONS of people aren't driven by fuckin evolutionary urges
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 06:41 AM
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I don't claim that generalization is a useless method of understanding the world. Rather, it's the primary mode by which anyone makes sense of anything. But making sweeping generalizations about human behavior when there are a HUGE number of exceptions? At a point we should definitely question the usefulness of such an approach. Try not being a fucking strawman ING parody of yourself :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 06:25 AM
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Some people choose not to have kids. Some go to the extreme of sterilization. I did this to myself actually. Biopsych is a fun theoretical approach, but it doesn't lead to any sound conclusions on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 08:36 PM
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I'm a normie who used to be an incel. I want to help yall out AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:48 PM
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I can definitely point to areas in which transitioning has changed my thought process. However, the really interesting and central question to all of this, is how much is biology and how much is culture? I find this very fascinating, as seeing changes in my own outlook, it is hard to say what has come from hormones and what has come from just a shift in self-image.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:42 AM
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Thank you in turn for your respectful post. It's a lot of running around today, so I will be somewhat brief here, but there are a few things I wanted to respond to. So you acknowledge that this type of freak does actually exist and dominates the public image of the "transgender cause". I believe you though. I'm sorry about that because I do believe that you're not like them and I can only imagine what getting lumped in with them is like. I absolute acknowledge that this is a real phenomenon, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:40 AM
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Faggy response my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 06:48 PM
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T-that's it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 06:46 PM
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The democratic party hates straight white men I mean it's your vote, you do you, boo But also hating straight white men seems like a pretty small part of the party's national platform. Imo. I mean... Forgive me, I've been out of the alt-rightosphere for a while... So I have to ask, what is it that democratic politicians even do that is harmful to straight white men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:36 PM
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Haha nah I'm not too worried... But it is just sort of strange when you're used to being so anonymous online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:22 PM
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You act like I didn't expect this post. Obviously some chick is gonna come in here and talk some crap about how I'm so very weak and it's abnormal or something. The part I didn't expect was "deformed." I mean I expected it a little bit, but I didn't completely anticipate maximum vitriol. The only part that annoyed me is the "giggling" and "teehee" crap though. You really assume that just because I'm trans I act like some fuckin silly-ass juvenile caricature of femininity? That line of insulting,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:17 PM
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That's funny. After making these comments I thought "I sure hope nobody around here is in Sacramento..." but it seemed very unlikely. Anyway, I don't go out all that often. But it always feels a little too candid to be "recognized" on Reddit too. Usually I stay very PC on here too, and I'm being kind of an asshole at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:54 AM
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Pissed, sure, but keeping your cool is part of the job. And both of those things aside, blaming it on deep state libruhl conspiracies or whatever definitely disqualified the man for a nonpartisan role.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:35 AM
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Np. I don't talk about this stuff much these days, so its kind of enjoyable on those rare occasions. I know it's a topic people don't know a ton about in general, so I like being able to share what I have learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:14 AM
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Pretty well. If I tried to I could probably pass as a guy, and if I didn't make efforts to look feminine I might be clocked. But without too much effort I'm a pretty convincing female. With a good amount of effort, most people would never know. Probably other trans people would be the most likely to notice, but I've transitioned pretty well. I will be a little more honest than I'd care to and say that my voice is my least-passing aspect. I don't speak like a man, and I can pull off a pretty femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:09 AM
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Your reading comprehension is fucking piss 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:54 AM
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Certainly the experience of being a trans woman could be very different from the experience of being a cis woman. And it's worth noting that there is no universal experience in any of these categories. There are definitely "female" experiences, like waiting in line for the restroom, being cat-called by men, and feeling unsafe walking at night. (I know statistics say that men are very often victims of violent crime, but I still felt safer knowing that my body could do some real work before, and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:53 AM
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Mmmm it's not all sunshine and rainbows. The taste is fine, but it can be tough for me to control my gag reflex. I'm glad to say I've never puked on a dick, but I've maybe come close. Anyway, licking a little semen off of your hand or whatever is definitely different than having it shot into your mouth too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:33 AM
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It's not a bad bit. If you were serious though I'd be a bit concerned for you. You've got a decent track record, so I guess you might as well not fuck it up, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:30 AM
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I'm a tranny so I will do my best to answer these. I'm also not easily offended. I mean I'm on this sub now. Anyway, approaching men is definitely more intimidating and difficult now than it was when I was living as a cis guy. A part of this does stem from anxiety about them possibly "clocking" me though (this term means basically them being able to tell that I am trans). I feel in a sense more comfortable to act how I would like around men, because I'm not concerned about coming off as "weird,"…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:23 AM
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The thread is obviously about OP's claims, but our discussion was not. Your tongue in cheek apology belies your supposed ability to actually reason. I stated upfront that I agree with you that OP probably did not pass as a woman, and if they did then they probably now do not pass as a cisgender (i.e. normal) male. But misrepresenting what they are arguing (and thus what we all are arguing about) is weak-ass public school strawman garbage, so you can fuck right off with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:05 AM
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Right. The effect of this is huge too. I have seen live comedy only a smell handful of times in my life... But I can attest with certainty that in my own experience, there was WAY more laughing than there would have been had I been say, sitting in my room watching the acts on a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:00 AM
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The reason this is remarkable and occurred is because she's black.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:58 AM
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Well, best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:54 AM
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Why would that bother you so much? Not to be too Freudian, but do you possibly have latent homosexual tendencies?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:52 AM
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I find the taste of semen to be somewhat enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:51 AM
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I certainly understand it, I think you are just really overestimating the extent to which people believe the claim you are refuting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:48 AM
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Whew this is HELLA not funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:47 AM
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I do this a bit too. It's a habit I think I've developed out of just never trying to misunderstand people. I am funny, and I recognize humor, but I tend to take things people say as though they are serious regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:46 AM
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I'm American and tend to find Americans aren't that funny. Some people make me laugh, but mostly I courtesy laugh. Anyway, OP is talking about making everyone in a bar set down their drinks laughing, or some shit. I hope it has occurred to them that in this setting, typical male humor is going to be the type that elicits that response. Humor is contextual, and insofar as a joke can make a whole crowd laugh, social contagion may be a larger factor than any great wit. And just to elucidate this a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:45 AM
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Are you in entertainment? Honestly I figure I could crack it just based on the generalization that people tend to be kind of bad at their jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:41 AM
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That's actually very wholesome. In the end, they say nobody lives the life they would have wished for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:41 AM
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Ahem Pretend I said fat levels instead of body type then. My point stands. Regardless, nobody is going to disagree with you. You basically made a post saying "actually the sky is not blue. It's comprised of various colors."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:36 AM
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The first couple are dumb. Mostly they're like.... Accurate phrases comprised of words with clearly discernible meanings though. There's nothing dumb about articulating oneself clearly. OP is talking about this cutesy little fucking sekrit club language with Stacy, Chad Thundercock, negging, alpha, and white knight. It all sounds so retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:35 AM
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It is SO cringey. It would be funny if it weren't just sad to watch. An ideology based on teen move stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:32 AM
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Are you very short? I agree with other posters here that behavior could go a long way. It's hard to say without knowing how you mean though. If you do not exercise much currently, that is a possibility. Lifting weights increases androgens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:30 AM
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So your plan is to embrace and elevate the nation of Islam (in the most oppressive way possible). I mean, I don't like it. But I can't say I don't see the sense in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:26 AM
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What about jawline? Fat levels aren't really a universal thing at all. Obesity is a turnoff to most, as is anorexia, but in the moderate ranges there are many body types that are considered attractive by different folx.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:24 AM
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Is the red pill then deciding that all men should subjugate and rape women? I'm afraid (for your sake) that probably won't catch on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:22 AM
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I wouldn't go that far. I mean symmetry is universally attractive, sure. Disfigurement is universally unattractive I suppose. Other than that I can't think of TOO many. But regardless I'm left wondering, what is the point of this thread? Is there a larger argument to be made from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:20 AM
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Clearly I have some significance to you if it was worth electing a US president just to piss me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:18 AM
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I made a top-level comment in this thread calling out OP for thinking that they passed and were considered attractive by typical straight men. Naturally there are some trans women who pass, but these seem to be a minority. Among them, it is a smaller minority still who would pass as attractive women. Regardless, it's willfully moronic of you to present transsexuality as a mere change of wardrobe. Hormones have a quite profound effect on human morphology. Do they make male to female trans people …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:17 AM
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Fuckin obviously the most attractive traits are not necessarily uniformly the most neotenous or estrogenized of traits. A fourth grader could have told us this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:11 AM
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You seem like a real happy guy. Basing your own well-being on hatred seems healthy and sustainable. /s because that's probably actually needed here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:09 AM
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Hahahahahahahahaha You are so pathetic!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:07 AM
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Good thing appearance is way less important a sexual standard for men, huh? Anyway most of the guys who I see calling themselves ugly put no effort into actually being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:04 AM
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Men have a harder time making friends because of toxic masculinity. Fortunately there is a burgeoning culture of men who are finding their own way and rejecting such toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:03 AM
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Retard, privilege is based on perception. If someone is receiving social advantage for being female/white/tall/gay/Filipino/etc, this isn't due to their fucking genes, it is due to how people perceive them. Stop being so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:01 AM
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This sub is retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:51 PM
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Good comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:49 PM
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I'm a political scientist and anyone who votes red is retarded. It's not mindless lmao, do some research.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:46 PM
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I've got a degree in cultural anthropology. This very statement is the one thing that stood out to me most in the article, so I'm glad to see someone mentioned it. While I suppose she is technically correct that gender norms will adjust, the idea that that's going to happen easily, quickly, or well is a pretty egregious assumption. When our technologies or our markets change, culture will always lag behind, but with such massive and rapid demographic shifts happening in the last few decades, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 09:47 AM
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This. Also, the idea of a man being vulnerable in a positive way would mean that he is open to vulnerability in general. There's a difference between a guy being open to reflecting, thinking about, and sharing his emotions, in general, and a guy depending on you and you alone for emotional release/validation, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 09:29 AM
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Sex makes me feel devalued
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 01:10 PM
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Interesting analogy. Anyway, even if it's more dangerous to be a man, I suppose women tend to feel "unsafe" more easily because of the fact that we are physically less strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 01:01 PM
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I heard that women hardly care about height there That's interesting. It makes sense too, as I'm convinced that the fixation with height is a cultural artifact, rather than something biological. Maybe you should consider plastic surgery. I didn't mean to say that you shouldn't. My trouble really is with the self-pitying mindset and the self-fulfilling prophecy of "attractive women would never go for a guy like me." That doesn't mean I think that a person shouldn't do what they would like to do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 06:25 PM
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It's not ironic, in my opinion. Eggman is a false prophet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 06:10 PM
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this middle schooler height (5'4") Unfortunately, that does make things much more difficult for you. My condolences for your situation. I don't mean to minimize or invalidate your struggle, with any of this, by the way. Height is one of those traits which women really do put a lot of stock in. And I don't see that changing any time soon. I'm sorry for your struggle. It is valid. Still, however, I would hope that you can have some hope that, given a good personality, there are women out there who…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 06:02 PM
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Perhaps this mindset is more self-defeating than you realize. It's certainly grim... Also, there are for whatever it's worth, many women who recognize that expectations of performing masculinity are harmful and unfair to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:51 PM
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What does Chad have that you don't? Is it just physical traits? Or is it the confidence and security that comes with being physically attractive? It's no secret that confidence is attractive to women. But that doesn't mean "confidence in football sex-god Adonis good looks." It can just as well be "confidence to be yourself even if you aren't conventionally-attractive." Etc. There are a lot of ways to exhibit confidence, and a confident and mature woman will likely look for that type of confidenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:48 PM
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Lol he doesn't have money. He's a waiter. And he doesn't have this athletic jawline. I'm just saying. It's honestly hard to tell whether your posts are meant to be facetious. But it does seem to me that you're being serious. I ask you, respectfully, where did you get the impression that this is how the world works?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:42 PM
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Just using "Chad" here is concerning. I mean, it makes you look, to me, as someone who is insecure and/or ideologically aggressive and threatening. I would guess that you probably realize that. Pretty fundamental to my being romantically attracted to a guy is that he has respect for women, and using terms like "Chad" to demonstrate what you think women are really after is concerning on that front. It seems to me that men tend to be more concerned about appearance than women do. Though it's true …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:22 PM
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