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You didn't 'want to make sure you understood' because you brought up questions that clearly had nothing to do with my comment. I don't advise anyone play around with "oh this mental issue isn't as bad" because of the whole "play stupid games, win stupid prizes" mindset I think everyone should have when vetting and dating. If someone has a broken brain (either mental or personality) people should avoid dating them.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 08:33 PM
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Explain exactly in your own words what I got 'wrong.' I have been explaining the differences between male RP sexual strategy and RP female sexual strategy and reading all these subs for years. Linking to RP 101 post where you just re-framed basic information like some RP guru isn't impressive and doesn't address anything. Mental illness is always a red flag. What a marriage can survive and what an LTR or single person should sign on for are different. RP absolutely describes how men can best app…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 08:30 PM
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RP absolutely tells people what to do...so I'm not sure why you are pretending otherwise. Women are told not to be sluts and sleep around, they are told to vet, control their shitty behaviors, improve the way they look etc etc etc. There are different ways to get the same result in many cases, but it's incorrect to pretend "RP doesn't describe what people should do" or that advice should not be given based on actionable RP advice.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 08:17 PM
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Read my comment again - I'm clearly talking about men and women that are in the dating pool and looking for someone. I said nothing about wives and husbands that later develop issues. What a marriage can withstand, and what single people should voluntarily sign up for out of the gate are two different things.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 08:10 PM
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Mental illness should always be a deal-breaker for anyone that does not also have a mental illness. Any normal man or woman has zero reason to put up with broken brains.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 07:56 PM
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Why are you surprised? This is RPW 101. "Take him your problem, not your solution." The entire C/FM dynamic revolves around women following a man they trust, looking to him for guidance and direction and to get the all clear when needed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/17 10:26 PM
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If you are new to this and only have two days then you should be approaching far more women than just this one chick. The point is to develop confidence and understand that women are not a rarity. You are pinning all your hope, and all your undeveloped skill on this one chick. You need to be able to approach women at will without obsessing over the result.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 08:08 PM
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Few things are more obnoxious than having a customer hit on you. It puts the employee in a really awkward position, especially when their job description includes customer service and being polite. You can go ahead and try, but you should focus on approaching women that aren't in the middle of a work shift.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:06 PM
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The only reason to respond to an ex is if you liked the sex with her and want to turn her into a plate. Delete her info, don't respond. Why would you ever try to explain (justify) yourself to some chick you no longer bang? Let her pine away if it boosts your ego, but stop giving her any of your time, even if it's only through text.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 07:03 PM
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The only time 'telling' should happen when it comes to travelling is work (mandatory), family medical emergencies and possibly traditional gatherings. Some families have certain events every year, so it's just a matter of reminding your husband that you'll be gone as the date approaches. Even when it comes to family emergencies though, it should be a discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/17 06:54 PM
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There are many relationships that cannot be saved by being a RPW. I know of users that married someone with very incompatible religious beliefs. Gamblers, inability to save money or live within a budget. Pretending to keep up with the man's sex drive, only to discover that he was holding back. Being frustrated by unhealthy eating habits...even though both people were fat when they got married. Turning an LDR into marriage without any normal dating in between. Women are often 'blindsided' because…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 06:52 PM
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I'm pretty used to it by now haha! Truth and actual RP ideas and advice aren't the default unfortunately. I can count on one finger the number of times I have seen someone bring up comfort vs shit tests.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 10:39 PM
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I can give relevant advice and I know RP. But feel free to point out what 'un RP' things I have said. I asked for an explanation you can't provide because you seem to treat everything like a copy/paste issue without giving additional thought. I agree a vacation with female friends is a problem. I disagree that pursuing an active hobby is the same thing.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 10:14 PM
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I'll keep to giving RP advice as it relates to the appropriate audience. That means relevant and actionable advice for men that help them achieve their goals, it also means relevant and actionable advice for women that help them achieve their goal. If you cannot explain how the two scenarios are identical in theory and practice, then say so, and don't deflect with bullshit.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 09:50 PM
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How is going on vacation with female friends in any way similar to pursuing a hobby that is physically challenging?
/r/askTRP16/06/17 09:17 PM
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Please explain how this is a shit test and not comfort test. She is looking to you for comfort, reassurance, and validation. Shit test: You see her wearing something slutty on her way out for the night to meet friends. You comment, and tell her to change. She doesn't listen, and laughs at you as she leaves. Shit tests are acts that minimize, challenge, defy, and ignore you as the man and leader in her life. Things that may embarrass you in front of others and make you a laughing stock. Things th…
/r/askTRP16/06/17 09:09 PM
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/u/Landry86 is pointing out that most marriages end in divorce, and deception (even unintentional) is common in non-RP and traditional relationships. You took that to mean that Landry is saying "OP's relationship is full of lies" and "Landry is saying RPW is about lying" which they didn't. Landry is commenting on the nature of normal relationships and the typical tendencies. Most marriages end in divorce, most marriages have problems. If you read what Landry says without injecting your own bias,…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 06:26 PM
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I always offered to pay half, but was specifically interested in an old fashioned man, so I was more attracted to a man that wanted to pay. You are asking about two different things: How to accept gifts that you are given which is very different from How to get gifts, and set the expectation that I should be given them? Quality men treat quality women well. Vet for a quality man, and be worthy of his investments without expecting anything.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 06:00 PM
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Okay bitter pill. This is RPW, where women specifically vet for LTR and marriage minded men. They don't have the "sell your soul" mentality that the bulk of TRP does. I think you forgot what sub you're on.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 05:55 PM
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Stop comparing yourself to others. This is one of the most difficult things for any woman to master, because we are hive-minds. When making decisions, we instinctively "check in" with our peers and the people around us. Men can make their own choices without input, women want cooperation, support, and approval. Your relationship is not their relationship, and why be envious when you'll get there eventually? Be happy for your friends, they'll be happy for you too when your time comes. Your hamste…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 05:54 PM
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LOL no. People don't like the truth unless it is wrapped invflattering words that stroke the ego. Women get offended by straight talk and can't handle cussing.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 03:42 AM
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No. There are so many ways to improve, it will also change depending on where you live and the people in your peer group. Acne can be fixed, noses can be altered, lips can be plumped, eyes can be lifted. If your SMV never changes then in 99.99% cases it's due to laziness and a lack of imagination.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 02:17 AM
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I agree common sense isn't common, and not nearly enough people read the wiki, or top posts. There are a lot more specific topics I want to talk about, but people rarely react well to my comments, so I doubt posts would go very far haha
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 02:10 AM
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What you are referring to as 'shallow' RP terms as basic evolutionary signs of youth and fertility (for women) and ability to be a strong provider (for men). You put a new label on basic, well known information so while I give you an 'A' for creativity...the grade for Insight is less generous. This is perfectly adequate information for day 1 newcomers....kind of.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 12:28 AM
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I didn't think you were a gold digger, so I hope that's not the impression you got from my comment. If you were, you'd be chasing wealthier men, regardless of shared values, or actual attraction. I've talked to far more diggers than I thought possible thanks to the wonderful world of reddit. If he isn't killing his wallet for you, and if he doesn't resent you, and you are both talking to each other honestly on a regular basis...then you should sit down and be very clear about your expectations. …
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 04:46 PM
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I don't have a general problem with people calling it 'dating down' because it's entirely possible to date someone below your own social class. They won't have the same experiences, or lifestyle that you do. How long were you MC for? From your description, even though you have more money and experiences you still sound solidly MC in your values, and outlook. This explains why you feel more comfortable and drawn to MC men. Have you dated any UMC men? Or are the UMC men that you can pull not as at…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 04:20 PM
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Your financial benchmarks onlyvapply to people that consider a grand to be 'significant' but I understandvwhat you are driving at. This isn't blind faith, it is trust in a man she is exclusive with and dating, on something he wants to help her with and give her the best chances to succeed. Women should not be with men they doubt and cannot trust. Your weird extreme interpretation of "well blindly following means he can make you jump off a cliff" is the kind of reactive bullshit I expect BP jacko…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 05:07 AM
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Interesting, everyone I know follows this same format. My husband and I both learned from our families. Ditto.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 08:19 PM
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I don't believe in financial transparency when it comes to what people make, and what they have in their own private bank account. I have no idea how much my husband makes, he has no idea how much I make. We take turns covering expenses, my phone is on his plan, I pay utilities. We both went to school on scholarships, neither of us have debt. Again, we're frugal, both prioritize saving, and are debt-averse. He doesn't even have a credit card. We share the same values, one of the many reasons why…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 07:40 PM
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I'd be disappointed if that's all he's managed to save. :) We're frugal and enjoy a very simple lifestyle. We don't spend money on much, because we don't need much to be happy. Just some fresh air and a new trail really. Combine that with our jobs, and the fact that we have both always been savers. I mentioned elsewhere that we married straight out of college, which probably gives the impression of a limited-funds life...but we both always saved money from a very early age. We weren't rich by an…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 07:07 PM
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Prepare for the worst, hope for the best. Words to live by for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 06:55 PM
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Yep, we both have conditions under which we would divorce. Cheating (emotionally or physically) is one. I was a self-sufficient adult prior to marrying him, so I'd survive if things didn't work out. I also don't see that happening, since we've been together for so long now...but we both have our own assets, cars etc. We rent, and don't own anything really substantial like a boat or a vacation house.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 06:39 PM
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I disagree. There is nothing 'disloyal' about two people having independent accounts, in fact it is prudent for every adult to have access to money that no one else can touch. Far too many horror stories from my mother's friends and grandmother's about being cleaned out and not having anything saved for themselves. A shared account is fine too of course, but every adult should have their own independent money. That's just practical. My husband and I both do this, as does everyone I know.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 06:36 PM
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Absolutely. The great thing is that my husband will handle certain things so I don't have to. We have divided our responsibilities and there's never any confusion about who has to do what. Prior to meeting him of course, I was a fully functioning adult, lived on my own.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 05:16 AM
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AWALT. You don't like the "what" so you lash out at the "who." You were on your own at a young age, big fucking deal. You are playing at being a trusting GF and letting him lead only when it suits you. I told you how. Tell him you are nervous, but you trust him and want to hear what he has plannes follow his ideas It's not easy, too bad, life isn't easy. But if you rather lob meaningless insults at someone that doesn't have the issue you are struggling to deal with, that's fine. I figured out ho…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 05:06 AM
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Only live with her until you can get your own spot. In the meantime have fun. Don't let it be a long-term thing. People freak out way too much about the pitfalls of cohab. Have a plan and a goal. There's no reason to suffer even more in some rando one room. Just start saving, tell her your timeline for getting a separate spot and that she'll have to be ready (to move somewhere else) by that time as well.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:26 AM
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It's always annoying when people don't follow the format, isn't it? I'd also argue that they shouldn't be together at all if she does not and cannot bring herself to actually trust him. Good points all around!
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 02:42 AM
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I don't understand why you disagreed at all. You contradict yourself in your own comment, and nothing you said contradicts anything I brought up. I already went over "the corroborating evidence" that he gave in the OP in my first comment that you replied to. What was the purpose of your comment when I already did everything (examine the evidence, and make a conclusion)?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 02:33 AM
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He says in the fucking OP No problems at all, everything is in good shape (sex,communication etc.) Why is everyone so goddamn insistent on labeling everything a shit test, in spite of all the evidence to the contrary?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 02:27 AM
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STFU Sounds like you only pretend to let him lead and fake your way through trying to appear to trust him. You only listen to him when you both have skin in the game, and you can still shift things potentially. You have yet to actually surrender and trust him to do right by you. You have no reason to distrust him. Your lack of experience trusting people is not his fault. He didn't let you down in the past, he isn't the reason you were alone at 17. Stop punishing him for your shitty history. STFU…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 02:26 AM
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I can understand how it's useful as a latent defense against allowing yourself to fall for someone that isn't worthy of true investment and affection. In time you'll likely be more in control and capable of starting from a neutral position, and adjusting from that neutrality based on interactions and observations. I'm really wary of promoting 'negative' starting points however, because it can definitely obstruct progress, and kill potential options. I have seen such things happen far too often o…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 02:21 AM
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Understand that every woman is capable of being a whore, cheating, and sleeping around. AWALT does not mean "all women are whores" it means "All women typically....all women are capable of." Assuming whore is not neutral, accurate, or practical outlook for anyone that's trying to be realistic and not reactive.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 02:09 AM
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You are an idiot (and a typical man) if you confuse a normal, typical comfort test for a preemptive "I want to leave" move. You said yourself that everything else in the relationship is great. She is feeling dread, she values you. She's attracted to you and SAYS: She kept also saying that it makes her insecure that other girls have been showing interest in me as of late. How stupid do you have to be to miss what's happening? She wants comfort and reassurance. Not your made up 'branch swing' scen…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 01:48 AM
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No. He could be accused of inappropriate behavior and being a sleaze. If she asks (in another comment I suggest that she asks if she can talk to him for a bit during his next break - at that point he can decline without having to turn her down after a full on "go on a date with me?" interaction), then he can't be accused of being inappropriate or breaking any codes of conduct the business may have.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 01:29 AM
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Okay, you can't wait for him to make the move while he's working. He can't do that as an employee. I agree with the other user, ask him out when he goes on break and you're around. You can even ask, the next time you see him, if you could talk to him for a minute when he has a break. That way he can turn down the conversation with you without having to turn down your offer to go out. Being able to talk to him a bit on break will also potentially put less pressure on you and him.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 01:13 AM
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In my opinion, since you're in his place of work, you need to let him make the first move WTF? NO! This is how you create all kinds of issues (including legal) and possibly get fired.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 01:10 AM
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There is no type 1 or type 2.That women you think is type 2 is being f*cked by a man who sees her as type 1 It's just stupid to assume that every woman is a whore without any actual observations. Every woman is capable of cheating and being a slut, it's important to pay attention to her behavior. Those are all great things. It's annoying when people confuse the utility of AWALT and take it as literal scripture that means : "women are shitty and sluts." RP is descriptive. It describes how men and…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 01:03 AM
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Wow their raging bull. Your description is neither accurate nor useful. I do agree with the first sentence however "action over words" every day, all day and your last two sentences. It's the second and third ones that are just bull.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:42 AM
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It's one thing to get through med school with him. There's something very important that hasn't been mentioned however. This isn't a "just until after school" thing. If he is a work-driven man (sounds like this is the case) then he will always be focused on work. After graduation, his job will be his passion. That means you will always potentially 'be the obstacle in his path' even if you get married. Ask yourself if you can live with coming second for your entire life. This will include childre…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 12:21 AM
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If you are enough of an adult to be in a relationship and have sex, you should have the ability to dump her in person. I'm not sure why any 'woke' RP man would take the cowardly way out...especially after five years? Dump her at her place. Tell her you don't see a future with her, and you aren't going to waste her time or your's anymore.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:02 AM
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You don't have to be an extrovert and enjoy socializing. Read up on Sigmas and change your outlook
/r/askTRP10/06/17 10:35 PM
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Depending on your age - this (living at home) will always weird women out. Game over if she does have her own place and you don't. High school aged kids should stick to movie theaters, cars, and beach houses or cabins that belong to the family.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 08:10 PM
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I read an article years ago, that said the only close friends you make are the ones from your childhood and classmates. After you finish school, it becomes harder to forge anything more than acquaintances and semi-good friends. It makes sense if you think about it. While you're a student, you have a lot in common with your peers, furthermore, you don't have as many distractions or time constraints or obligations as you do when you're an adult. You see each other frequently, you have the same tes…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/17 07:36 PM
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You're retarded? Tell me you're retarded. Women don't care about HUGE dick, in your mind translates to "tingy dick isn't an issue"? That's so stupid I can't believe you said it. Huge dick doesn't matter to women, TINY non-existent dick is of course a problem you cretin. Normal dick size is fine, huge dick doesn't register as a thing (unless she's some kind of sex freak), and tiny dick means you can't actually have satisfying sex with the guy.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:29 PM
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So you're a necropheliac. Gross.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:21 PM
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LOL you're a virgin aren't you? I stated my thoughts and you got triggered.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:18 PM
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Right I said "women don't care men they care about" (present tense)...'used to care for' doesn't apply. Absence of feelings allows women to branch swing and do all kinds of shitty things. You weirdos are so obsessed with 'chad' it's fucking weird, and why does everyone go on and on about dick size like it means anything? There are so many weird ideas that have nothing to do with what women actually think and feel. It's all male insecurity and projection in many cases. "Huge dick" isn't a thing w…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:18 PM
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LOL if you feel shame because of a stranger's words that's your weakness, not mine. If you get 'offended' by cursing, I don't know what to fucking say to you. Point still stands that you care to much about things that don't matter. If you want to ignore reality, then the only BP hack here is you. This is a waste of time, so think whatever the hell you want, won't change reality.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:15 PM
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Correction: women ghost men they aren't invested in and don't care about. I'm not sure if you are confusing random hookups and FWB setups for actual relationships or not....but a few years down the line (sometimes just a few months depending on the women) many reach out again to exes. I'm not sure how many women you actually talk to know, and that confide in you - but this has been standard behavior by every woman in my life with two exceptions.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:13 PM
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I don't know what kind of drugs you're on, but they must be amazing. You sound way too angry and obsessed with things that don't matter. Focus on yourself, improve, and stop caring about womyns so much dork.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:09 PM
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LOL okay anger phase, chill the fuck out. I'm a woman, I have been on the inside track of this shit my entire life. But you tell yourself whatever you need to in order to sleep at night and have those angry jack-offs at night alone.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:06 PM
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Why do people think that the wall actually exists for women other than it being a redpill revenge fantasy? It's not a 'revenge' fantasy, it's an inevitable fact of life. No matter how beautiful and vivacious a woman is, there will always be a point in her life where she can no longer pull the same kind of interest and attention from men that she used to. Do you think it's a coincidence that many women eventually end up dating older men. Older men view the woman as younger than she actually is to…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:01 PM
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Women engage in a LOT of emotional masturbation. They think 'closure' and knowing that exes still 'want' them (or at least like them) feeds the ego and is a comfort.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 05:56 PM
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Instead of flat out rejecting her: be a bit softer. "I'd like to help, unfortunately I am currently swamped." You can give her three actionable points that are relevant to her problem, and then tell her you will check back in with her on your lunch break. This way, you are still putting her off, but also removing her ability to spread lies. Also, if you are on good terms with people other than her - that cuts her integrity when she lies. Most people don't actually like the vocal social distracti…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 05:45 PM
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Is English not your first language? You initially agree that the comment is insightful....and then completely ignore everything I said, and you state things in an odd way. You [Ladyzoz] are the OP that posted the thread. You are F(22). Your man is M(23), he doesn't text you back before he goes to sleep. Is this correct? My entire comment is about how YOU Ladyzoz are a complete asshole with controlling behavior and a shitty attitude. HE has done nothing wrong. You haven't answered any of the ques…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/17 05:23 PM
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If you know you don't want kids, you shouldn't be having sex. How is that saying sex is 'good'? How is that not painting sex as bad for couples to engage in (when they don't want kids)? You refer to abortion as murder... I don't know how else to make you understand that your comment is overflowing with hoity toity moralizations. I've quoted your own words back to you...and you just kind of ignore it. This exchange is not productive, so think whatever you want. Means nothing to me.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/17 04:23 AM
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.... If you know you don't want kids, you shouldn't be having sex would my partner and I kill our child If you're willing to take the risk of having them (by having sex) You say multiple times that premarital sex is 'bad' and then make blanket statements that sex should only happen if the people involved want kids. But of course...you weren't moralizing... -_-'
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/17 03:28 AM
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Being annoyed is not the same as being surprised. RP is amoral. It's about increasing your chances to get the outcome you desire. RP is not religious. It is anti-feminist, but the lecture about the 'evils' of premarital sex are overblown to say the least. The only redeeming aspect of the comment is that it at least acknowledges different options.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/17 10:08 PM
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incompatible values (how to spend and save money, how to spend time) are significant as well. money was the leading cause of divorce a while back too.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/17 09:41 PM
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You'll move on with time. You just get over it. In the meantime delete his contact information and block him on social media. You know he isn't a good fit - so don't let him play around with you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/17 09:34 PM
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These are your problems - not his. So? You know he forgets, it's not a priority to him. Stop asking. or that he doesn't respond to issue when I ask him to please notify me instead of leaving me waiting Explain this in more detail, I don't understand what you're saying. He doesn't communicate concerns and issues well. He doesn't like to complain, he handles things himself. This isn't unusual among men. When he does bring something up, you know it's an issue. Also, have you reacted negatively in t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/17 09:21 PM
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if I want to have sex, would my partner and I kill our child Many people don't consider a clump of cells to be an actual human. Not everyone is religious. I'm glad you figured things out for yourself, but you're also projecting your personal morality here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/17 09:14 PM
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You set yourself up for misery by agreeing to an open/poly relationship. This sub is very specific about vetting, entering monogamous relationships, keep your sex count low etc. There's nothing you can do, because you have always given him everything he wants. You can stick it out and hope for the best, or cut your losses and run. He has no reason to be monogamous with you, that would be a step backwards. You don't 'manage' the other girls, you learn to control your opinion and your feelings. Yo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 04:32 PM
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I don't believe in celebrity role models. How anyone portrays themselves may or may not reflect who they actually are. I like her perspective, and the topics that she tackles. I also love Ann Coulter. I can enjoy someone intellectually, regardless of how they personally behave. "Never meet your heroes" is a quote I always keep in mind. She's a journalist and trying to make money. I'd expect her to behave in a way that allows her to pursue those goals. It's no different than how any other public …
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 11:50 PM
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I think that would be the best way to go. Anyone that's been around and commenting and submitting solid content for over a year and a half should be given the all clear. Added bonus is that it may encourage lurkers to start participating.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 11:36 PM
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True, but I don't know many people willing to convincingly post on a sub they hate for a long enough span of time to earn an invite to a group on another site.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 04:59 PM
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I think they can only see the group, but nothing about it. If you go with a generic name should help. Maybe something about women and movies.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 10:58 PM
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Really the best way to try and avoid doxxing would be to make the group private. Also, anyone on FB should have their profile set to private anyway (even though that still isn't really private). There's also the option to create a second FB account, and share limited actual information.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 10:56 PM
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There is no rp rule that says 'you cant ask a man out' haha. Yes you want to be feminine, but especially today, it never hurts to break the ice a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 01:05 AM
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He is likely being nice, and possibly would not ask you even if he wanted to because it would be inappropriate (you are a client). If you want to make a go of it with him then you need to find a new trainer and then ask him out.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 01:04 AM
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Feminism achieved all its goals then. There are laws in place that protect employees and men and women from abuse. What exists today is not the feminism you remember. Laws exist to protect everyone, regardless of sex, age, religion, and race.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 06:21 PM
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Hahahaha yep I've always thought so too.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 10:31 AM
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You too!
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 02:17 AM
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I already wear modest clothing which he appreciates. I keep my hair long because he likes it that way. I like that I can make him happier just by observing his preferences (same goes for food and drinks).
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 02:12 AM
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Anytime! :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 02:10 AM
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There are some wonderful and original rp theories that I love, your idea was overworked and lazy.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 02:04 AM
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Not a troll, making observations. You complained on the thread you wrote and insulted users and the sub (breaking the rules). And you are doing it here... Again. You gave a weird backhanded compliment ("your post is good even though the subject it deals with is horrid).
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 02:03 AM
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You sure do complain a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 01:47 AM
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Calm thy tits. Everyone is calling you out for overcomplicating things. First mate will steer the ship as needed, handles many duties and is trusted. The terms are fine, you're just trying to be a special snowflake and it's annoying.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 01:44 AM
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I care less about having another wife and mother in the world, and more about having sane women in the media. I appreciate the fact that Coulter decided not to have kids, and if Southern decides to do the same, so what? They both do a lot of good, and are passionate about their work.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 11:35 PM
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When has either woman 'talked down' to married women and mothers? I've only heard them appreciate traditional gender dynamics, and warn of the problems that occur when women try to focus more on their career than they spouse and children. I know Coulter has said she would have been a lousy mother because she loves her work too much, and she mad a decision to not have kids.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 11:34 PM
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Thanks! I have no problem with people critiquing advice and comments - but at least have a reason that amounts to more than 'durrr you sound mean.'
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 09:59 PM
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No worries, I Mod a few subs on an alt. BS like that is always obnoxious.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 09:58 PM
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The relationship I have with my parents is fragile at best; my father was physically abusive to me in my teens and my mother a hardcore enabler, which led me to run away from home at 18. They lost any right to have an opinion about your relationship. They can deal with it or shut up and never see you again. This issue is really frustrating for me because I guess I want the traditional way of my BF getting to know my father, even though he is a man of many faults. Your father is still controlling…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 08:58 PM
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If you received a STD, that means you are supposed to get an invitation. I don't see the harm in asking your friend about it. Maybe she is mailing them out late, or it was lost. Mention that you're really excited for the wedding, have a dress or whatever, and then mention the invitation.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 08:53 PM
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Okay, even if you don't like an established member of the community, that does not give you the right to attack their character. I could say the same things (nasty attitude, not genuinely nice) about you. I'm surprised none of the mods have issued a warning to you because your comment is utter bullshit. /u/MissNissa /u/LuckyLittleStar /u/CrimsonPerspective ?
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 07:31 PM
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Surrendering isn't for 'minor' and 'convenient' things - because that doesn't require trust and actual 'surrender.' You don't trust your H and you aren't at a point where you can actually surrender. A messy house won't be the end of the world. Your children won't turn feral and die. Focus on just relaxing and letting things be. Whatever happens won't be irreversible, you don't need to worry about anything other than having a healthy baby and recovering.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 07:28 PM
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You should edit your flair so people know. It was unclear from your post, and it was reasonable to assume that you were talking about recent dating experiences. TRP men aren't looking for relationships or marriage by and large. They are interested in casual sex and seeing multiple women. They are using tactics that aid their pursuit of those goals. Understand that most find TRP as a result of continually losing out because they were nice and followed the rules most of society says they should pa…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 05:00 PM
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You are making a fundamental mistake. You are not trying to date a man that is active on TRP or needs something like TRP in order to better himself. You should be searching for a naturally competent and masculine man.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 04:51 PM
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Makes sense. Keep her in mind as a potential LTR, track how she treats you and if she follows through on what she says she's going to do. Enjoy her in the meantime, and keep your options open. If she makes you want to lock her down, all the better. If she fails or messes up, you dodged a bullet. You could wait and observe until winter break. What better way to send romantic vibes than to make her your holiday gal?
/r/askTRP10/05/17 03:19 AM
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Are you in a rush to gf someone? See if she actually gets in shape and loses weight. She's chasing you because she wants to get caught, there's no reason to cut that short. You are young and there's zero reason to commit right now. If she continues to prove herself...revisit the conversation in 10 months.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 02:10 AM
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I agree she did the best she's capable of given her appearance. I also didn't say that all people are beautiful, only that ugly people can find happiness. This applies to run of the mill people as well. I agree it's a poor neighborhood, but it's really not that violent or rough based on what's been depicted in the show.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 12:20 AM
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I meant like to seriously consider why one might want an invasive, expensive surgery before making a decision. Okay this wasn't clear in your OP, sounded more like women should or can't consider operations at all and should just ignore the wider trends and preferences. For example, some women actually look gorgeous, but are extremely self conscious about one thing or another when they really don't need to be. Such women will still get asked out on dates frequently, so the insecurity doesn't accu…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 12:18 AM
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When I was single I loved dating. It wasn't a huge focus for me until after I finished with school, but I always had a lot of fun meeting men and getting to know them.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 10:34 PM
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I meant femininity isn't primarily about looks. Wanted to make sure since your first point was about how it's not about physical appearance. There was just a thread up about "Instagram Baddies," and those women looked attractive with great WHRs, but their behavior and attitude and dress wasn't really feminine based on the photos. They are all focused on being sexual and desirable, which is an aspect of femininity. Their portrayal and focus pushes it into the tramp and slut side of things. I agre…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 10:33 PM
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She is highly intelligent, compassionate (I hate her voice), and not at all beautiful. She also marries an overweight, effeminate (but kind) beta man. She is a very loving wife and mother. Ugly people can be kind and find happiness, but they definitely have to be interesting and stand out in some way. They also have to be lucky enough to find someone that's similar in terms of attractiveness.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 09:52 PM
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First of all, authentic femininity is not about your body shape or facial features, but being in contact with your nature. From there your behavior flows. Disagree. Femininity is about behavior and personality, but looks also play an important role. Looking good, having a pleasing shape. I mean things that can only be changed by invasive surgery or not at all--weight, hair, fitness, makeup, wardrobe are excluded. What are you talking about then? Nose shape and things like that? How do you deal w…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 09:50 PM
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Why justify your happiness to the world when there will always be people that try to pick it apart?
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 09:18 PM
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Has he always had this preference?
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 06:41 PM
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Those are the only ones I know about, if you feel like arguing with people, PurplePillDebate is the place to go. Are you looking for something specifically that the ones you mentioned do not currently offer?
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 11:18 PM
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Snort Yep, I saw that coming from a mile away. AWALT never fails. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 04:27 PM
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No, because if you knew what to do and how to accomplish these things - you wouldn't have poor attention seeking behaviors, struggle with keeping a schedule, personal boundaries, or have any reason to make this post in the first place - because you would have already fixed it! Lots of people have given you feedback and tips and suggestions. You like the really nice and kind feedback and bristle at me, because I'm basically telling you to stop making excuses and being lazy (which doesn't make you…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 09:54 PM
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I share a lot of personal information because attention feels good, but it's the wrong kind of attention. I say things because I can, not because they have meaning - for instance, my close friends know my sexual history. Sharing this information ultimately makes me feel vulnerable. I get more meaningful validation when I teach my peers, or when I go above and beyond to help and impress someone. I often struggle to create meaningful, share-worthy experiences and go for the embarrassing stories at…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 07:19 PM
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I forget the exact quote but "expecting life to be good to you because you're a good person is like expecting a bull not to charge because you're a vegetarian" Basically one thing has nothing to do with the other.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 10:19 PM
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/r/TumblrInAction /r/SocialJusticeInAction /r/The_Donald /r/PublicFreakout All tend to have content I enjoy.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 10:16 PM
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that sub sums up everything I hate about most women. I don't go there anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 09:45 PM
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You lack discipline, embrace lazy, easy solutions and the truth is nothing will change until you're willing to overhaul your priorities. You have to kick yourself in the butt, maybe spend money on someone that will hold you accountable, and start un-fucking your life. Whatever your instincts are, you should probably do the opposite. Don't make excuses for yourself, you are an adult, so take responsibility for your routine. Be consistent, and realize there's no insta-fix.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 09:42 PM
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I stumbled across this recently, made 1 comment and went on with my life. On an unrelated sub, I shared my opinion (which I knew wasn't likely to be popular). Suddenly people were scouring my post history, they found the 1 comment and immediately started talking about things I still don't really understand. I was eventually banned from the sub, because you're only allowed to be a bitch if you're a bitch with a mainstream opinion. Then a random freak started messaging me nonstop until I found the…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 09:37 PM
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This is 'training' and bad behavior. Women should not think up ways to be more manipulative.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 03:45 AM
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Have you read Agatha Christie or Michael Connelly at all?
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/15 07:16 PM
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Next you'll tell us why 'the wall' is an inappropriate term, or maybe that women don't really 'hamster' it's actually a different animal all together. You're reaching (to say the least) and ignoring the practicality and spirit of the term in favor of nit-picking.
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