GuideDisastrous7365 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Falling down the Red Pill hole... why should I stop? If you were the first guy to ever be nice to her, isn’t she doing better by being with you?	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/26 10:47 PM
5	Falling down the Red Pill hole... why should I stop? Vulnerability is what creates closeness. It’s why dogs and cats show their bellies when comfortable and relaxed. They are being physically vulnerable to be close with others. If you can’t be vulnerable, you are limiting how bonded you can become to your loved ones	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/26 10:41 PM
3	Falling down the Red Pill hole... why should I stop? That’s because you are valuing yourself compared to the macro. Relationships are in the micro. You are saying she can do much better. But much better in this case, is “better on paper” (macro). But even if that is true, she can be unhappy with that guy and not with you (micro). I get your impulse to do this. It feels concrete and objective. But in reality you’re turning broad societal trends (macro) into hard rules (micro). And that’s objectively how things do not work at the micro level.	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/26 10:34 PM
8	Falling down the Red Pill hole... why should I stop? I think you are getting in your own way. You describe her low self esteem as clouding her own judgement about herself. Yet, your post is dripping of low self esteem and you think you have a clear view. You don’t.	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/26 08:40 PM