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I’d get the ick - I mean we could figure it out together right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:43 PM
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Yep - and instead of talking about it we just both went with the flow. After talking about it, if we’re feeling tired but both want it, we know other options are on the table. Which we’d not talked about before….because we weren’t exhausted from a baby before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:42 PM
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Agree, would not be friends with someone with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:30 AM
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Babies will do that but in our case it turns out it’s less a libido issue than a lazy & communication issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:00 AM
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I don’t disagree with you there! Still attracted to him outside of jealousy/mate guarding situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:48 AM
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I think in marriage being around someone 24/7 changes attraction because there is no distance or scarcity of that person. So there is an ebb and flow. I find my husband very attractive, but also the kids need to get to daycare, and the dishes need to be put away, and the laundry needs folded. He’s gonna be there tomorrow probably so I’m not swooning. Now when I feel threatened by another woman, or notice attention from strangers directed at either myself or my husband, that’ll skyrocket my attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:37 AM
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They have a tinder for us moms, you know. It’s called Peanut. You swipe up or down. I swipe down on short moms, but find myself competing with others for the tall moms. So I occasionally pity swipe up on a shorty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:11 AM
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Agree - it’s not affecting me in anyway that I’ve noticed yet and not really my business - although I’m so so curious - but not my business what he is into unless he tells me of his own accord. I always knew he looked at it (I do too although I’m guessing less than him) but only recently cared because of clickbaity article.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:25 PM
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Nah it’s not like that, we’ve never really talked about it in the years we’ve been together so we were overdue for the conversation anyways. I knew he watched it and I didn’t care, but I also didn’t understand how a relationship with porn might change overtime in a marriage. People didn’t understand it this well back when we got together and I never had a reason to mention it out of the blue (no red flags). What will I do now? Back to the basics - emotional connection, feminine support, pay more…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:33 PM
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He doesn’t make me feel insecure or anything, he’s been saying all the right things honestly. And he has never pushed kinks on me. I just stumbled upon clickbait a few months ago about how bad porn was for LTR/marriage, and thought oh shit after reading it, and so I asked him about it. I never cared before reading the clickbait. By all accounts he is a casual user, but the elephant is in the room now. But I don’t hate that the elephant is there? 🐘
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:24 PM
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Realizing that my husband might watch more porn than I thought and have kinks beyond what I can offer and that it might affect his perception of our sex life and me - has been…..interesting and different. I guess I hadn’t thought or cared too much about porn before? And I still don’t? But the reality is that porn is my biggest competition - something IRL is so unlikely for him, he has no coworkers etc. So over the last couple months I’ve been inspired to be better in our marriage in all ways. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:11 PM
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