Guilty-Exercise7705 Archive

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–	do your friends admit to you that they don't find their husbands physically attractive? Yep - and instead of talking about it we just both went with the flow. After talking about it, if we’re feeling tired but both want it, we know other options are on the table. Which we’d not talked about before….because we weren’t exhausted from a baby before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 12:42 PM
–	do your friends admit to you that they don't find their husbands physically attractive? Agree, would not be friends with someone with that attitude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 11:30 AM
–	do your friends admit to you that they don't find their husbands physically attractive? Babies will do that but in our case it turns out it’s less a libido issue than a lazy & communication issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 11:00 AM
–	do your friends admit to you that they don't find their husbands physically attractive? I don’t disagree with you there! Still attracted to him outside of jealousy/mate guarding situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 10:48 AM
–	do your friends admit to you that they don't find their husbands physically attractive? I think in marriage being around someone 24/7 changes attraction because there is no distance or scarcity of that person. So there is an ebb and flow. I find my husband very attractive, but also the kids need to get to daycare, and the dishes need to be put away, and the laundry needs folded. He’s gonna be there tomorrow probably so I’m not swooning. Now when I feel threatened by another woman, or notice attention from strangers directed at either myself or my husband, that’ll skyrocket my attra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 09:37 AM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Nah it’s not like that, we’ve never really talked about it in the years we’ve been together so we were overdue for the conversation anyways. I knew he watched it and I didn’t care, but I also didn’t understand how a relationship with porn might change overtime in a marriage. People didn’t understand it this well back when we got together and I never had a reason to mention it out of the blue (no red flags). What will I do now? Back to the basics - emotional connection, feminine support, pay more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 06:33 PM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD He doesn’t make me feel insecure or anything, he’s been saying all the right things honestly. And he has never pushed kinks on me. I just stumbled upon clickbait a few months ago about how bad porn was for LTR/marriage, and thought oh shit after reading it, and so I asked him about it. I never cared before reading the clickbait. By all accounts he is a casual user, but the elephant is in the room now. But I don’t hate that the elephant is there? 🐘	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 06:24 PM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Realizing that my husband might watch more porn than I thought and have kinks beyond what I can offer and that it might affect his perception of our sex life and me - has been…..interesting and different. I guess I hadn’t thought or cared too much about porn before? And I still don’t? But the reality is that porn is my biggest competition - something IRL is so unlikely for him, he has no coworkers etc. So over the last couple months I’ve been inspired to be better in our marriage in all ways. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 06:11 PM