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Well that is the thing attraction is emotional, you found him attractive based on many factors. Status and money in the same way triggers emotional attraction, it may not make sense because we are talking about it on a logical level. Real world it is different. it is the same with men attraction with women., attraction is emotional not logical. Like i said in another post what utility does a women ass , tight stomach, or boobs have? nothing really, logically speaking it is ridiculous to like som…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:57 AM
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Quick question are you attracted to a guy who is confident or socially charming?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:31 AM
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No, if it was why would TRP talk about money, status, gym, game(social skills),etc. As a guide to become a HVM. Beta is more a frame or mindset, a guy who is a pushover, walked over, or whatever. A guy could BB if all he is a bank account, and she does not desire him. It is nuanced it is not black and white, "oh he is providing he must be BB." I am not very familiar with Blackpill, but i believe they are the one who believe it is all physical. Since all they talk about is looksmaxxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:56 AM
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It is not gold diggers, you are thinking attraction and arousual is logical, it is emotional. Just like men attraction to women is emotional not logical. Beauty has no utility, bigger boobs, or bigger ass, what utility does that have? A guy with money also triggers attraction. Does that mean by itself is going to compensate for everything? no In most cases making money, comes what a lot of attributes women find attractive. Around 15% of men make around 100k, now takeaway men who are married or r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:23 AM
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I would assume couples are out more than singles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:41 AM
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You can give more reasoning or whatever but what is a fact is biology and aging. That is a hard fact, women are much more attractive in their early 20s than 30s. That is just a fact keeping other variables the same. Women have a biological clock, knowing they need to pop out a baby before it is too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:33 AM
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A woman with few to no friends is often a walking red flag and for good reason. In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:29 AM
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How does that prove "the wall" is not real? That actually support the theory rather than weakens the argument. ​ TRP doesn't state no one wants them, they state their options dwindle and get desperate to settle. TRP also claims there is no shortage of desperate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:23 AM
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I kinda don't smoke, only sometimes when others are smoking i take a couple of hits. I don't feel it, the only time i have really felt it was when i was in Miami a buddy of mine had this this thing Gravity Bong. That shit hit me so hard, i felt like i was having a heart attack. I was in and out for the rest of the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:14 AM
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I am in sales, home improvement. Personal Trainer before and Military.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:54 AM
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Actually it is much bigger, there are studies of how they subconsciously send signals to our brain signaling fertility and femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:31 AM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/TZGQveDXFYk?feature=share I always believed this, nothing good ever happen from pointless and stupid fights. There are things worth fighting over, many things are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:15 AM
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It is staged bro, unless people keep video recording this women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:08 AM
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You are telling me you didn’t force your wife to have kids against her will?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:33 AM
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No, i am not going to make myself infertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:33 PM
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This is a parent job to install the mindset and maturity into their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:20 PM
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Is there any scientist going to deny how hierarchal our society are? You want to call it alpha, leaders, group leaders, or whatever it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:09 AM
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Disagree To some extent. The skills and discipline are learned, but the drive to rise to the top of social and economic ladder is not. I would say 30% are born, 70% is made.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:04 AM
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Our default is cooperation and care. Why do leftist make these assertions like it is empirical truth. There is much more evidence that our default is self interest. We prioritize autonomy, personal goals, and individual rights. We cooperate based on self interest, the equilibrium of cooperation where both sides get equal value. But human also take at the expense of others. Look at the political infighting, economy, dating, etc. Our default is self interest. Not to say we don't act on alturism or…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:15 AM
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You and me don’t decide, the market decides there is a reason why this guy is getting the opportunity to have these options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:20 PM
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The market decides that, whatever league that busted dude is in, he is interested in even lower SMV women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:01 PM
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Sorrrry, didn’t know that is what they were called.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:57 PM
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Women who get fuckzoned, they were not lead on they lead themselves on. Similar to guys who simp and get friendzoned. They did it to themselves. Women complaining about fuck boys, upset not getting commitment, Facebook group “are we dating the same men.” Are all result of women shooting above their their level; they are just vindictive and bitter women who feel entitled to relationship. Those women are the equivalent of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:51 PM
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There is a chance to be approached by an unattractive or attractive man. Unattractive men doesn’t know he is unattractive. Same actions being taken by two different people. One is deemed punishable while the other is not. So basically you are suggesting people should be punished by their attractive level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:21 PM
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Are you really suggesting that people should be fired based on their attractive level?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:52 PM
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You're not entitled to polite treatment either. Sorry about that. So the natural treatment equivalency of positive treatment from men is reporting them to HR and losing their livelihood. Says a lot about women psychology and entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:37 PM
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It isn’t that complicated; Fuck boys are getting with girls that are shooting above their league or communicates he has a higher much higher SMV, he sees them them as recreational use only not commitment worthy. Most of the time he is not leading them on, they are leading themselves on similar to simps and men who have been freindzoned. Most of the time it is not the women leading them on, they are doing it to themselves. How to avoid them is quite simple? Knowing your self worth and getting wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:29 PM
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No just do whatever are doing and add 30m of strength conditioning 3x a week. Don't overcomplicate it forget the scale, since you already are counting your calories. Use visual test, get a caliper if you need to. When you are on a calories deficit and doing cardio only, you are also losing muscle mass too. I am around 215 lb and i have visible abs, not a 6 pack. The more muscle you have, you can get away with more body fat on your body. I have much more fat than a guy who is 180 who he has a hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:56 PM
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Slightly intellectual, be brave like a warrior but strategize and plan like an intellectual. Warrior only singular power by it self, a king or leader is rarely the strongest fighter. This is why Lions are king of the jungle, even though they don't really live in the jungle that is beside the point. There are bigger and more powerful animals. They are not even the strongest cat, that belongs to the Tiger.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:58 PM
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This one is a lost cause it is undeniable science combining calories deficit, cardio with strength conditioning is optimal for body fat %.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:53 PM
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There is a big gap from the statement i made to the one you are making. Sounds like you are talking about conformity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:28 PM
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Okay, so this is due to men are hornier and willing to fuck and throwaway women. ‘Not because they were attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:05 PM
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We owe one another the general social support required of community and fellowship. No we don’t, this is a major divide between socialist and capitalism. This entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:57 PM
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Humans are fundamentally self interested, nothing is debunking that. Sometime we do act altruistic way, that is the exception not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:49 PM
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Thickness in the right area are considered in shape though, by most men standard. out of shape is out of shape. The OP never said they have to look like Victoria secret models.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:41 PM
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There are more ways for men to be overall to be attractive though, for women it is visual. ‘Men are more horney they will fuck anything, you are mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:38 PM
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you are not understanding the point, you made the claim out of shape men don’t go, so what is the gap in your mind why out of shape women do go.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:26 PM
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So why do out of shape women go to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:04 PM
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If someone is performing at a high level, you could learn a lot from them. The majority of successful person talk about the importance of apprenticeship. Kobe Bryant modeled a lot of his game after Micheal Jordan, and so did Lebron and others. Model is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:31 PM
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There are some good podcasts out there, that has rich information and add substance to add to your repertoire. One of my favorite podcast is The Diary Of A CEO, not always but it has a lot of top performers and people who have overcomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:27 PM
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Most athletes are not alpha, because their characters are not rounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:12 AM
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doesn't male variability also account of variance in male personality? Some of the most violent people are men and some of the least aggressive are also men. etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:32 PM
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Women are much more group minded and agreeable it is preferable traits for school. On the other hand you see a much more extreme in success in male entrepreneurship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:48 PM
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I’m not saying it’s bad to be an introverted nerd. But there’s no balance. No depth. No willingness to try anything new. Only routine. This is a terrible characterization of introverts. Some of the most interesting and unique people i have meet have been introverts. If you look through some of the greatest genisus have been introverts. The way you characterize introverts is how i would describe extroverts. I see myself as ambiverts. The truth is most people are simple and conformists. It is bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:52 PM
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Likability is not underestimated. They talk about rapport. You talk about dressing better and hitting the gym as evidence women what women care about, so how did you see the evidence of likability?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:32 PM
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Peace and faith is a state of mind, nothing to do with rational. I am not religious, but i can see how many people can benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:56 PM
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Religious people i know have more peace and fulfillment. Religion tries to find an answer for your mind not your penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:30 PM
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Opening up in about past sexual activity with another men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:17 PM
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I have to the realization, religion is necessary. Without it people will try to fill this void one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:15 PM
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Curious how do you know he is a virgin or how did that come about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:50 PM
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Blackpillers need Allah or Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:48 PM
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TRP and conservatives do not give a fuck about man being lonely. You keep taking Ls, so you just having this imaginary conversations with yourself. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:37 PM
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You seriously do come here just to argue with an imaginary person, which is yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:18 PM
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We are talking sex not falling in love. No guy i have ever known says omg i want to bone her because she is intelligent and kind. Everything for men initiate with the desire for sex, it is just her looks. Love comes after.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:44 AM
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I mean do i always have to hedge my words with "usually" or "generally"? obviously there is an exception to the rules. I speak in generality or in rules not that it applies to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:58 AM
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I disagree with his assessment, but women still seek a provider later stage when they want children. Most women when their SMV is their highest in the 20s tend to seek men that arouses them, later they seek a more stable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:42 AM
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Possible, but those traits do not make a women more attractive. When it comes to women it is just beauty and fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:28 AM
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Yes it is 2023, nothing has changed. People are living paycheck to paycheck even when combining income. Some women are doing fine being financially independent, that is a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:26 AM
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The reason women beauty standard exist is due to men preference and what they find attractive, same with masculinity traits and male hierarchy the reason they exists is what women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:21 AM
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So there is a beauty standard for women, but you don't think there is some hierarchy or masculinity standard for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:24 PM
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Every word is made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:30 PM
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The term alpha is mostly used to describe characteristics of masculinity that give them more access to power and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:21 PM
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Most jobs are demanding; climb the corporate leaders takes time and sacrifice, entrepreneurs go through a lot of up and down. Who cares what is the ideal partner to a women, succesful men get to be picky and seek ideal partners that fit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:00 PM
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I have one thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:51 PM
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You are not BB, if you are not bucking lol. So don't buck, that doesn't mean you can't be in a relationship. Women in their 30s are quite undesirable for many reasons though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:45 PM
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No it is not, i was a personal trainer. When you anabolic exercise you break down muscle needing those muscles to recover it requires calories to do so. So basically you burn more calories throughout the day, while with Cardio you primary burn calories only when doing the exercise. Initial muscle gains you get quite quickly on a solid routine. Gaining muscles after your initial gains is when it becomes difficult. I strongly suggest doing cardio and anabolic exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:52 PM
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I said earlier you need to lift weights, why are you against it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:31 PM
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Women advice focuses on the backend once attraction is established, men focuses on upfront to get to attraction. It is similar to asking someone how do i purchase this AMG E63? The equivialnt would be women focusing on how to maintain the car after the car was purchased. Men would focus how to get to be in the position to purchase the car; financing, cash, driver license, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:28 PM
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You really think women are only arroused by pure looks? If so, mid musicians that have thousands of women throwing themselves for ONS creates doubt in your belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:22 PM
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AF/BB is accepted by many men, they are just not self aware. It is like statistically a lot of people are mediocre or unremarkable. Yet they don't see themselves as such, because lack of self awareness. BB accept their roles in society. To feel shame or see how you are missing the mark, you have to have standards most people don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:51 PM
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I think this provides a compelling argument that the burden of childcare is NOT the primary reason for husbands outearning wives in marriages. I thought this was the main point of the OP, but no one seems to be making argument here. What is going here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:55 PM
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If that is what you are into TRP is not for you. If your goal is just to get pussy from junkies or roadkill you don’t need TRP you need to assimilate into their culture and be broke. TRP is for guys who want to be successful and have access to quality women. Doesn’t sound like that appeals to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:54 PM
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The other dude could also can fuck junkies but he doesn’t want to or need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:22 PM
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BlackPill doesn’t say looks matter, they say it is only thing that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:12 PM
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It is amazing you think a 30m that works at McDonald will have more success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:09 PM
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The catch is only women deemed attractive by Purple_Posssum. in his view "Lizzo is too skinny."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:19 PM
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PPD finally agreed that men are entitled to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:06 PM
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Not sure what is more wild that there is a person making content like this or the amount of audience this guy has. Quickly checked his youtube channel, he has over 3m subscribers and avg views are over a million.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:59 PM
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Who is this dude main audience?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:49 PM
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It is more than that alcohol lowers inhibitions and decision making. People into parties and drinking are more into casual sex. I agree fun is important and most women find that attractive. You don't want to come off thirsty but most of those guys are constantly seeking it, definitely thirsty in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:48 PM
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People talk about chads and how successful they are with women, tbh in real life application most of the dudes who are having a lot of casual sex it comes down to two things; Party+alchool. For the vast majority of guys who want casual sex; just get into party/bar/clubing scene. Be consistently go out. You also have to be willing to lower your standard from quality to quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:18 PM
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Some of those comments could be just busting balls, they think it is humorous. Typical male behavior it is not serious. Me and my friends make those jokes all the time at each other expense, you just laugh it off. The key is not to get offended and not take it serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:19 AM
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Men get a lot of hate too, comments about steroids, drugs, or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:57 AM
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Yup, bulletproof way to cock block yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:05 AM
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Nick Drake has to be one of the biggest tragedies in music. He drops out of college and sports to focus on a music career with sights making it big, constantly told by people around him that he's a musical genius and should be a star, lack of any success worsens his depression to the point where he shuts himself out from the world, emerges with a new positive outlook and eager to record his best album yet, after it doesn't do well financially he becomes even more depressed.It was an album destin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:09 AM
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purplish_possum has to be trolling regarding his love for very chubby women. Or is in need of an intervention. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:31 AM
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Dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:28 AM
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Partying and alcohol is good indication of high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:17 AM
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Women don’t hate sex, they view it differently. Women have a duel mating strategy they use sex as transactional rather than an activity both party enjoy being mutual benefit. Pregnancy and being the physically weaker sex causes this. Women in certain cases use sex like men use sex as validation, which they engage FWB/ONS/Situationship without any strings attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:13 AM
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If nothing is fair, and nobody is owed anything, its best for men to act in their own interest to get laid. If you just stated this and stuck to it, you would have had such a better thread. The concept of fair depends on the person. Take taxes for example, leftiest economic we should tax wealthier people to help out the poor because it is fair. libertarian view, taxing people who worked hard and made personal sacrifices is not fair. Most things in dating and economic comes down to individualism …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:03 AM
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Paying for it doesn't fulfill the validations that come with it. Just like being handed money doesn't get the validation being self made rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:46 PM
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Men pre suffer and post suffer lol. Men must demonstrate high characteristics upfront and maintain that. There are many average women who can date with severe mental issues, while men cannot as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:14 PM
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This is not debating, you are just stating a conclusion without any support.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:06 PM
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I don’t understand why some people want pity or sympathy? I can’t think anything more i would hate for people to feel that about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:54 AM
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Seriously this is what they mean by lifetime movie? This is what women watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:38 AM
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Isn’t traditional education outdated? Why are we still reliant on school/university system that was primary formed because information and education was scarce so school served a purpose needing a centralized area to share the information. Nowadays technology has advanced So much where anyone with access to the internet can master almost any subject. Also given how expensive university keeps getting, seems like there is a need for an innovation that deconstructs the current market.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:52 AM
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A lot of people make this comment ‘A women can have whatever preferences she want.” Which I obviously agree with. I wonder how many of the same people would agree with “They also deserve the outcome of their choices.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:52 AM
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I always assumed "pick me Girls" were name given to women, who divert from in group bias toward women and reject mainstream feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:26 AM
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People who are short, feel discriminated by something they can’t control. They sense their worth is perceived lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:26 PM
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It is different for men and women, the chemicals effect is different. "Oxytocin seems to have been 'designed' by nature to make a man and woman feel bonded after sex, so they would stay together and raise children," she says. "Today, the physiology of men and women still plays out according to this pattern. But estrogen seems to increase the calming and bonding effects of oxytocin, while testosterone seems to mute them. That's why women tend to feel more attached after sex than men do." Ultimate…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:37 AM
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Nothing to do with the sex itself, if she was good or not. It is more to do with horniness being built up. After cumming, you think more clearly and asses her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:21 AM
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Wanting is one thing, to be hypergamous you would have to exercise on it. A men cannot date up unless he has the SMV equal or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:06 AM
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No, it was this Albanian restaurant a coworker of mine recommended; she wanted to go somewhere else, i had another match who was down. i usually do low key dates, but sometime there is restaurants I want to try; I am not going to dine in by myself, or take one of boys there. Kill two birds with one stone. ‘Maybe the dude wanted to try that restaurant or was hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:55 PM
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I have unmatched a woman, because I wanted to eat at a specific place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:24 PM
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Live life on my own terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:45 PM
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No the same rule doesn’t apply to men; women have to demonstrate they are worthy of relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:35 PM
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Don't disagree with your main point, but time is the most valuable commodity. I actually would go further, sex is mutual, paying for someone is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:58 PM
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Seeing sex as something a women give is much more oppressive mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:08 PM
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How does orgasm gap explain which party benefits more from sex? Sex is not something to give, it is mutually beneficial. Women don’t give sex, they have sex when they desire it. After sex women get much more clingy, and get an increase of oxytocin. While for men it gets muted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:06 PM
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Sex is mutually beneficial to both parties, in fact women get much more out of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:40 AM
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What do women provide to a generally successful men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:36 AM
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It’s true though, been down and up, I am still the same person, been fortunate to reach a place in my career where I make very good money. The interest from women is day and night. ‘They say you know your true friends at your lowest, who is there for you. When you make a big jump you will see who suddenly try to latch on to you like a parasite. You will make the same realization with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:31 AM
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Personally, I'm someone who believes that a man asking out a woman after getting to know her as a friend is much better. How is that working out for you? You should show romantic interest early on, doesn’t mean you should ask her out from the beginning. You should start with light flirting and escalate. ‘If the tension is there from the beginning you should ask her out immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:02 AM
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Why do we eat pigs? when they are more intelligent than dogs, can form bonds with human and show affection like dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:17 PM
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Women are not excluded from power, they have every opportunity to claim power. More women vote than men. What change would Hilary Clinton bring on? She has no ideology difference from the mainstream Democratic Party. Same would be the same with any women that run on the Republican Party, rather than focusing on different ideas American politics has focused stupid political identity. The reality is men will always dominate most of the power, because men are ruthless when it comes to obtaining pow…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:46 AM
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Going to check them out, I have heard of The Clash songs in pieces going to check that also.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:46 AM
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What are you guys top 3 favorite music albums? Jeff Buckley-Grace Pink Floyd- Dark side of the moon David Bowie- The Rise and Fall of Ziggy Stardust and the Spiders From Mars ‘I turned 30 this year, they say music you listen to when you are 18-20 will have the biggest impact on you, it definitely true I always had peculiar taste in music from my peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:09 AM
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Most of the sluttiest women I have known were quite mid, hot women who know they are attractive usually does not need to use sex for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:25 AM
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Why make such a long reply to the OP, when it is obvious is not in good faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:55 AM
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This is such low effort OP, where you have misunderstood due to emotionalization now you want others to defend these beliefs you have conjured up yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:38 AM
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I was always in shape, don’t get too big it will limit your clothing choices. The biggest thing I have seen do, is fix posture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:16 PM
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Men being pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:14 PM
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is there any biological reason for this? Or is it they get less male attention, now needing sex as validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:07 PM
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You are confusing the fact that men date down and are willing to fuck anything as evidence that women have higher sexual status. This is a logical fallacy confusing the effect for the cause. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:48 PM
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Masculinity and what it means to be a man it is not negotiable, it is very rigid and hierarchical. not living to this ideal is low status, low value, weak, and mediocrity. There is no gray area of what is means to be a man or express masculinity. There is one path, you are taking it one way or another. Either you admit you fall short or delude yourself. For women it is different. What it means to be a women is not rigid, it is a choice and freedom express themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:09 AM
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If he was a normal dude in normal clothing, did not have highly paid stylist he would be average looking at best if he was walking around. I am confused by the OP though, like these women are paying tribute to a guy who passed away. It is normal to pay respect or self indulgent social media posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:53 AM
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Most male models have been stereotyped as low intelligence, feminine, or whatever. Bodybuilders as meatheads. Think zoolanders or whatever. Even actors, for example Mathew McConaughey before he did Dallas Buyers club he was not respected. Men are quite consistent how they judge, it maybe not your liking but there is no double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:41 AM
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Feminism isn't pushing for hypersexuality, feminism is pushing for equality. Disagree here, Feminism pushes for preferred treatment. If they did they would push for Military draft, and all those grunt jobs of society. But they push for preferred jobs, that they cannot claim on merits. Nobody questions a man's talent, brain, career or respect based on how sexual he appears Can you give examples of how men sexualize themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:32 AM
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Can someone explain to me why feminism push hyper sexuality yet want to be respected for other qualities for their talent, brain, career, etc. Very counterintuitive. People judge you based on how you carry yourself and what you offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:55 AM
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No. I do not misunderstand sociology. Where has any claim in sociology been made about men being hypergamous? What do you think sexual capital means? Not exclusive to looks or beauty. You are overlooking the forest and focusing on the tree. There is much more to sexual capital, just looks. Women date men they perceive at the very least at their level or higher. In social science claims has been made about men being hypogamy, the opposite of your claim men being hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:41 PM
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No they do not, you are misunderstanding others claim. Hypergamy sociological concept that has been around much before TRP, you are making claims that are unfounded and have never been used in the context of hypergamy in social science. You can't claim something about a concept just because you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:58 PM
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How did you came to the conclusion that men date up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:43 PM
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the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background. Straight out of oxford dictionary, nothing to do with looks or youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:37 PM
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hypergamy has nothing to do with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:32 PM
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Some people here think getting rejected is a crime against humanity if their comments are anything to go by what you do for a living?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:38 AM
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Why did you go from self respect to self love? They are not interchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:54 PM
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You don’t control how art is interpreted, which is my post regarding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:01 PM
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Just saw Barbie, not sure if it was intentional or not but it was definitely condemning of wokeism and feminism. Too bad they are too stupid to know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:21 AM
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referrals from people who already work in the company you trying to get into?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:27 AM
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But one group of terms comes from people inflicting their actions on others, You mean they showed interest in another person in hope of non plutonic relationship? Men get called all those terms just because they were ugly, undesirable, or low value. one comes from people engaging in consensual behavior, frequently with no participation from the person slinging the insults. Men judge women sexual past because they see those behaviors as undesirable and low value. The rationalizations you guys do …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:30 AM
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What would change? They likely will suffer before they reach those ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:22 AM
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I mean with that logic you could say women are biologically driven to have babies with as many men as possible so all the men in the village will be invested in giving her resources and she'll have backups in case one dies while hunting or in battle. That is not applicable behavior for multiple reasons, better strategy would be get the best possible gene.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:07 AM
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I don't agree with their politics, non identity politics leftist tend to have some of the best takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:48 PM
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Weird how some people think. Women would use term like gross, creep, weirdo, and other dehumanizing words to describe a men yet no issue. But if a man uses unflattering words its misogyny, hateful, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:38 PM
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No, even outside of Abrahamic religions. It is due to biology, men do not have paternity guarantee. Women can always know their baby is theirs, cause the baby is coming out of their body, men do not. So men evolved to have a natural disquest toward promiscuous women due to paternity. Men would want to invest in his own offspring, not some other men,
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:34 PM
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Reality is the vast majority of people lives are absolutely insignificant and useless to have any impact. You are going to wrong way about this, the question you should be asking are people more content and happy with the status quo of dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:17 AM
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Lots of doublethink going on around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:33 AM
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No TRP ideology has ever stated what he claims; always been use money to create a fun and attractive lifestyle. Not stable and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:16 PM
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I live among regular folks and have common sense of what is socially acceptable norms. I don't think i need to elaborate and provide reasoning, i can but it seems unnecessary to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:12 AM
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​ Lets hold it off for now, i thought she may have another 10 years left but she has gained 2 pounds in 2 month. That is 120 pounds conservatively in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:46 AM
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50% of marriages end in divorce, it is no longer the institution it was. Unless you live in a very conservative area, it is just an extension of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:05 AM
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Those views of your reek of terminally online. Every post of yours i have came across is very emotional and insult. It doesn't make you sound intelligent is a response of a weak argumentative man. The people in your circle and you surrond yourself is not society, that is just your circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:58 AM
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Just remember whatever convincing story you tell yourself, that man is probably telling himself his own convincing story. He is not going to say oh i want fresher meat. He is going to say he that he is longer compatible, happy, and his priorities has change. That the younger women can better meet his needs or understand him better. Some sweet fluffy story like you did. People are master of bullshitting themselves, to keep an identity of themselves as being good, moral, fair, and reasonable. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:35 AM
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Fair enough, if you have a traditional view on marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:04 AM
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No personally, self interest is human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:30 AM
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"Finding yourself" in your very early twenties isn't just about exploiting your "SMV" but about transitioning into adulthood and finding out what you want to do with your life, travelling and study while you're more flexible and what would be the best fit for you before being bogged down with the likely inevitable rat race/family life responsibilities All that can be accomplished in the same relationship, most people just trade one relationship for another. ​ It's different for a person in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:24 AM
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I like how your post about how men shouldn't be blamed for wanting to level up, then the content of your post is shaming women for leveling up. Direct me to where i did that, literally to the sentence where you think i shammed women for leveling up. I am not advocating necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:16 AM
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Agreed i am with you on that. Believing the grass is always greener is not a good mindset if you have something good going.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:10 AM
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What are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:01 AM
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Same with woman who break up with their BF, they find out the grass is also not greener years later. Risk and reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:58 AM
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Nah I bet Dua is grinding her teeth. Do you seriously believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:07 AM
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Are we talking about engineers or who are we talking about? I don't know who these virgin Sillicon valley dude are if we are not talking about nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:56 PM
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It is not that black and white. That is where you are wrong. You created imaginary scenario. Where this women is grinding her teeth having sex with and rich old ugly dude, and created a scenario where an 8 or 9 can easily make money. You are imagining an Anna Nicole Smith and J Howard Smith. Where in reality things from the outside looks like Roman Gavras and Dua Lipa.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:44 PM
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I do quite well for myself too, i love spending money personally. I work hard and play hard. Doesn't mean i don't invest. When people here talk about money, they think on a logical basis where they only imagine just cash. In reality what money looks like is fancy restaurants, vacations, fun activity, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:33 PM
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Anti social nerds have low SMV, it is illogical to say money doesn't matter because of them. I don't much about sillicon valley, but if they are SW asians they tend to go arrange marriage because of culture. I know this bangaldashin dude, who was quite succesful with women still went the arrange marriage route. Money matters if it creates a fun lifestyle that draws others in. If you are playing video games, saving your money, anti social, and doing nothing with it. Yeah money doesn't matter. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:29 PM
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A woman would literally rather sleep with a man they lust for in their banged up car over a guy who has his own home. How many women are lusting over men that are living in a banged up car? Men who are able to achieve career, home, fun, etc are more likely to have the attributes that women find attractive and lust for. Those are guys are doing vastly better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:02 PM
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You can eat pussy in a dominating way; have her on her back, push her legs toward her, hips in the air. She is looking up toward you. If you like eating pussy that is fine, but i am also against the idea that if you don't you are a "dork" or "weird". It is completely fine to have the preference of not wanting to eat pussy. My rule is if i enjoy it or i want to i would do it, if i don't want to do it i am not going to do it to get her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:26 PM
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Otherwise your partner is going to run out of steam and begin to resent you. Same with the person who out earn the other person. High paying job equites to a lot of difficult choices and sacrifices between professional and personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:00 AM
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That's true, usually lower income jobs do have more stress This assumption is based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:51 AM
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An hour is not an hour for everyone, an hour could constitute a lot of more physical or mental stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:41 AM
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Who said the character or relationship with the father doesn’t matter? The character of the father also matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:44 PM
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Seeing a lot of posts on other subreddit, men complaining about their GF or wife sexual past. They tend to complain that their Wife/GF shared info either intentionally or unintentionally, rather than her past itself. i am convinced a lot of men rather stay ignorant, as they say ignorance is a bliss. n count matter to the vast majority of men, they are just on copium.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:05 PM
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I don’t understand why this man biggest issue is that she was having the conversation in front him, there are bigger problems. One she was giving advice to another person on how to evade being caught cheating. The second which is more important is that she has used told you similar stories, indicating she might be cheating. Sounds like he is upset that she is exposing herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:58 PM
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I never said attraction is moral. A lot of traits women find attractive could also be found in those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:39 AM
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Do you have any evidence of not being true? So just trust me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:30 AM
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A picture can say a thousand word though, one of the biggest issue with men on OLD is that they think women think like them. For most dudes when scrolling on OLD, they just look at her on a physical level. They couldn't care or remember what she is wearing, where was this picture taken, or what is in the background. Women are much more intuitive, they notice those things to draw a conclusion about the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:27 AM
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I don't think you understand the term space. Doing stuff cultivates masculinity, social interaction happen in those spaces. It is definitely not doing anything and just talking about your feelings. You didn't answer the question, kinda get the jest of intelligence of the person i am dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:43 PM
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She is cute, too pale for my taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:50 PM
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Lol, lmao, lmao That is quite excessive. What male space are you thinking off? Mine was physical activity, military, physical labor, sales, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:47 PM
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People eat a lot more today, less active. A lot of over eating is down to dealing with stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:23 PM
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Male only spaces can cultivate masculinity and build stronger men. Anytime you add women those spaces tend to be more PC and those men become weak soyboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:19 PM
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She is cute but not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:29 PM
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6.5 Too pale imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:23 PM
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I think those men were already on a path for loneliness. There is a saying TRP don't recruit, the men recruit themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:19 PM
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You keep using "true" and "real" like attraction is some tangible thing, it is only in emotion and head. And your OP is absolutely ridiculous, no man believe they will magically become attractive in the 50s and 60s. You created false narrative in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:57 PM
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Of course it matters; she said genes but a specific label on it instead of attraction. Of course women are going to be attracted to a high fashion model. There is no denying women prefer a healthy physically attractive men over a terribly poor health old billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:46 PM
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Because they were seen more healthy, food was scarce. Today in most developed countries, food is not really an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:07 PM
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Competency, confidence, and a lot social skills are learned. It is not only money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:05 PM
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Why do you assume the high fashion model has better genes? Genetics is not only physical. The most valuable gene is that they bring more contribution to the advancement of the human race. The tech billionaire is worth much more. Women do depend on men, only chronically online people think otherwise who don't live among normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:00 PM
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Sounds like they are deeply closeted homosexuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:57 PM
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One of the cringiest statement from some men here is that women control the dating market. The reason you think that is because you lack the skills to get with women. You are like a hungry animal in the Sahara desert who think the gazelle have control of the region.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:53 PM
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It is not a religion or one single way to live your life. Some people may prioritize relationship and family building, others may be content with a bachelor lifestyle spinning plates. What it comes down to is all relationships are transactional, increase your value either it being tangible or intangible to greater your odds to whatever your goals are. Concepts of human behavior is also included.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:35 PM
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i have not read actual disagreements with TRP, mostly emotional diarrhea or misunderstanding of TRP concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:14 PM
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Women's libidos are lower but not by that much. Not factual, by any studies or by the general perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:05 PM
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I don’t see any evidence of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:59 AM
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infanticide has a long history in human. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4448612/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infanticide Passing your own genes is pretty useless when your species goes extinct. Our desire to extend the human species is based on our own interest not based on collectivism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:47 AM
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What are you talking about? Are you talking about yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:36 AM
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Put it this way do you think human reproduction behavior is different? Why would human male not prioritize their own self interest of ensuring to pass their own genes rather than another male gene?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:10 AM
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Sounds like you see yourself as morally superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:40 AM
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That sounds like nonverbal communication, things that are communicated through body language and tonality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:14 AM
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What is up with the phrase “read the room” from my understanding it just means nonverbal communication. Most of human communication is nonverbal , in fact somewhere between 70-93%. So little is communicated through words. Which is understandable since speech language is quite new phenomenon. Autistic men struggle socially because of nonverbal communication, they just lack the tools to understand others body language and tone. And their own nonverbal communication might not be congruent with thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:33 AM
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Because what you are attracted to is based on DNA. What you think the underlying reason for your attraction and sexual preference is? That is also based on genetics, it is not random.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:05 AM
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I actually think incels put way too high estimation on women, they feel powerless and doomed that these women are not picking them. My view on most on women is similar to how i view most men, unremarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:01 AM
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I don’t think you understood what I was saying at all. That is because you don’t understand what you are saying either. “Super nuanced” is a buzzword for i don’t know what i am talking about, so i‘ll be vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:57 AM
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I think a lot of women are here, because they enjoy how these incels gas them up and reinforce that they have power over them. It is sureley not for intellectual debate and discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:15 AM
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Do you believe humans have reproductive agency?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:09 AM
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This is a place for debate and discussion. What value does such reply add? It is a non intellectual dismissal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:08 AM
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Blood and DNA isn't important. You don’t really believe that, can you force yourself to be attracted to someone? would you be okay barring some random man child?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:55 AM
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female agency (remember females have their strategies and motives) to the situation it’s super nuanced. Y’all want this all to be soo simple when it isn’t. Not really, female agency is no different than any other animal. It is to have offspring with the best male gene they can get. What you think what you call sexual preference is?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:48 AM
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Lol,the father litterallly dumped the woman with a kid,he is in no way "higher quality " The step dads are providing for those men who are genetically superior. You ignoring the concept of natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:33 AM
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Stepdad are stepdad for a reason, is because their women option was limited. That is the reality, those men are not becoming stepdads out of abundance but more out of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:14 AM
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Most men see them as lower status in real life, they are not respected by their peers. They don’t respect cucks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:49 PM
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Redundant. I would argue someone with “charisma and captivating confidence, passion very likely implies a very successful career. Unless he is narcissistic. that is redundant, you and the OP already covered this. “passion about his life and interests” Also redundant. “He’s also athletic and takes good care of himself.” What you and the OP describe is an exceptional men, and say it is easy. If the exceptional was easy, than it wouldn’t be exceptional it would be average. I am not saying you shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:22 PM
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Your description of you what perceive to be a low bar or easily attainable, nothing exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:24 PM
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How does the exceptional guy differ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:44 PM
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Sounds like projection. Rooted in the same ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:31 PM
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I’m simply saying that placing your problems as being a responsibility of others is one of the most idiotic thing someone could do in terms of these issues. Agreed, you can also focus on what the OP stated about women. The problem is some here think this is a self improvement space it is not. This place is becoming an incel space, where it is no longer talk about pill concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:19 PM
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This space is not a self help or self improvement space. ​ PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex, relationship and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:57 PM
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Describe this elite guy, how does he differ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:44 PM
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So what does this unattainable or very difficult ideal look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:10 PM
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What are your thoughts on those movies? The Deer Hunter is one of my top 3 movies ever, I rate it that highly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:28 AM
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That is something very specific to a particular place and culture. Do you really believe that your view on marriage is the norm, and those who view marriage as a life long commitment is “very specific.” Its completely up to you how you want to view marriage, but to assert that the norm is marriage is viewed as temporary commitment is absolutely stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:21 PM
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A man who explicitly says he wants to control a naive younger woman's income so she's dependent on him is not. You have to be extremely socially uncalibrated to state that explicitly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:05 PM
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Its correlation not causation, it wasn’t the personality that attracted them it was male horniness. If two women look exactly the same, they would have rather been with the women without BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:30 AM
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You guys love dodging the question. Surely if there are criticism of men and that they need to change, is there any acceptable criticism of women? Or is only on men needing to change and that women are perfect or they don’t need to compromise? To be upfront i am not liberal or care about the issues these men care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:21 AM
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Don’t know, men’s right sound gay asf if you ask me. I am not into that kind of spaces. I am quite curious about the question i asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:04 AM
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Frankly, my life experience men cut each other way more than women cut. Not really debatable, i don’t think any men refute the potential danger of other men, or the bigger threat they pose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:45 AM
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Can you think of any criticism of women that is not considered misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:30 AM
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Men are more attracted to narcissistic women too on average Men are attraction is visual, literally on a physical level.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:27 AM
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Which space of reddit do you see as less toxic in that context space?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:23 AM
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A lot of women lack the cognitive empathy to see a perspective from a different side. Women seem to have issues men judging women based on her sexual past, because it maligns her character or assumptions about her character that may or may not be true. But women also do the same toward men in different way. Women would call a man creepy or weirdo they did not find physically attractive or maybe based on their first impression. Calling someone creepy or weirdo is also quite harsh, you don’t consi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:41 AM
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"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:56 AM
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That is a low bar, just being attractive enough for the type of men that will fuck animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:15 AM
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One of my favorite phrase on PPD is “women are people/human just like men.” Also the same people will list and think 100s potential negative traits of men, while denying any potential negative traits of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:50 AM
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​ Your explanation doesn’t conflict with what i stated it. You just assert it doesn’t it, you don’t provide any premise for your conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:38 AM
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I am speaking in generality. You posted about a woman who was upset that her BF wouldn’t marry her despite having kids and house. Why do you think she feels upset? What would change if they got married, they are married without being officially.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:59 PM
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Let’s be real ladies, marriage is not compatible for the modern women. What you guys call it a product of the patriarchy right. Women want marriage because it is validation, it is validation that a guy you like want to put a ring around your finger. Staying married is not validation. Women initiate divorce because it assert power. “I am leaving you.” Marriage is not validation for men, sex is. When a man gets married he makes himself vulnerable. Same reason women are more selective who they slee…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:02 PM
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I used to volunteer at this church where they would distribute food monthly on an appointment basis to needy family, and would have a daily walk in for certain items. Is that rare or quite common across america?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:53 AM
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Question for those men who think they are sexually/romatically doomed if there was a procedure or medication that would make you asexual would you do it? Obviously Testosterone is extremely important, for you mood, energy, and health. But if they were to separate the effects of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:55 AM
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Regardless i think he acted like a low value men, where he should have replaced her rather than trying to attempt to change her behavior. I don’t think he knows value. But objectively his SMV is much higher than her. She will likely never get a chance to date a celebrity of his caliber, where he would have a lot more opportunities at more attractive women than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:34 AM
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I am not versed in incel languages; but it seems like they are describing the type of men that women would sleep with for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:28 AM
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I don’t think many actually care about those two, they just provide a segue for much topics around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:54 AM
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Jonah Hill SMV is much higher than that surfer. There are fewer man of his caliber. There are many women better looking than her. What you posted doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:48 AM
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You are normalizing it yourself, by calling prostitution “Sex work.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:03 AM
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I don’t believe you, and no you don’t get it. You also have no clue what sense of humor means. It means appreciating jokes, you can’t accuse someone of not having sense of humor for appreciating jokes. Not all jokes land, it maybe not funny to you it might be to someone else. Personally i wasn’t there, so i have no idea how it was delivered.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:54 AM
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Small talk, they also make small talk with men they don’t know either. Not a big deal, go on with your day like a normal human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:41 AM
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Talking about about social and economic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:50 PM
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Would think it is much higher, since more women go to college. And men tend to pay off more of their student loans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:33 PM
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It doesn’t matter, the top percentage of society will always be dominated by men. Low+mid level of men, and women will serve their interest like cattles, those distribution doesn’t matter. It is all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:30 PM
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Do you usually make your own meals?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:45 PM
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Are you going to be the man or the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:42 PM
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What is the very large chunk of women are here for?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:43 PM
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Sounds nice in theory just like any BP, but it is not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:43 PM
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Politics is about identity rather than ideas. I have always said as someone who look at politics as an outsider; the best formula to win politics is social conservative + economic left.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:24 PM
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He doesn’t need other steroids, he is already taking Testosterone. He just need to bump it up. Many bodybuilders do cycles of Test only, and bump it up when prepping for competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:59 PM
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Do cycles of Test. You said you are on TRT so i am assuming that means 100-150mg weekly, do 10-12weeks of bumping it to 500mg a week. Then lower it back to your normal TRT.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:56 PM
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Show up on time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:31 PM
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Blame is irrelevant, it doesn’t matter who is to blame. It is about self interest, It is in a man best interest to not get cucked. Also very likely the biological father will most likely still be in the picture, and the kids will most likely never see them other than being a stepdad. It is not hate, it is self interest advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:27 PM
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What hate? TRP telling man not to pursue them other than for recreational use is not hate, it is advising men what is in their best interest use their resources on their own offspring rather than another man. There are other factors too which is why they should avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:59 PM
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So why do men in general tend to wear more baggy and less tighter clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:32 AM
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CMV: A lot of things that are considered misogynistic or out of norm beliefs on PPD or online, is in fact most people in regular life would agree on. PPD and online in general are mostly woke leftist and feminist. Comments like “touch grass” should more apply to them. Because they are not in tuned with most fellow people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:03 AM
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Agreed, for me that is the most logical viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:25 AM
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explain how it is not contradictory, without a change in behavior taking place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:08 AM
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Same for the first; for example Jonah Hill thought he would change her behavior when she was single to when they were together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:03 AM
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So she changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:49 AM
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Change to long term and stable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:39 AM
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Deleted the typo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:36 AM
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No it wouldn’t because the second implies that she can change. That her being promiscuous shouldn’t be a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:30 AM
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No it wouldn’t be. Because promiscuous women is not going to change, so it is best to avoid them. Which is why should care about body count for long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:27 AM
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Two viewpoints PPD women here share. Women here constantly say that however you meet a women you should accept her for who she is, trying to change her is controlling. Also women here, body count and women promiscuous past don’t matter. It is quite contradictory no?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:15 AM
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Because the women is much more physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:04 AM
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You know America didn't became what it is now, because current viewpoints and it wasn't long ago they shared many of the same view points.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:32 PM
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When a women talk about “controlling“ they mean not allowing them to sexually advertise themselves to other men. There was another thread, where multiple BP men talked about how they push their GF/wife to dress slutey when she goes out by herself. Not one women thought it was controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:01 AM
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My bad, i thought you were reinforcing the idea that high school groups is only in teenage TV shows. I went to a big high i think the class size was around 500, around 10 years ago. It was primary a suburban school. The jocks and athlete were your typical members of the sports team. There were geeks and nerds. The geeks were into scifi, anime, video games, etc. Nerds had a distinguish way of wearing, high white socks and tucked in shirts. They were odd. Drug dealers? a lot of HS kids smoke pot a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:37 AM
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Okay that is far the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:14 AM
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Sounds like there were cliques, you just didn't see it. It is pattern recognition, what you consider group of friends can still be cliques even if they mingle with others. It doesn't have to be black and white. Why do you assume nobody was labeled as a nerd? Maybe you didn't, others might see it. Unless your school was plain and uniformed(figural) you would different groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:02 AM
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agreed, this is the concept of AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:36 AM
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QFW: Do you think women are hypersensitive?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:59 PM
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What does your question has anything to do with the topic? Who is accountable has no relevance to an observation he has made. You emotionalized he stated women are accountable, and those men are not accountable. Such inference is your emotionalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:58 PM
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Did you not went to high school or not very observent? I have no clue what e-boys are though. But i would assume in every high school you would have those cliques.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:10 PM
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This is what emotionalism looks like, OP stated an observation. You emotionalized that he made a judgement statement. This is what we mean men are logical, women are emotional. Your instinct was emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:41 PM
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What you mean he thought her out? Are people not allowed to change their mind? do people sometime not underestimate a dynamic in a relationship or not be fully aware? A lot of relationship fail, you are just assuming the worst about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:50 AM
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Have you never dated anyone that you underestimate or unaware of some his qualities, but later on became an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:31 AM
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Isn't it statistically women are killed or violence committed by their partner than strangers. Do women like being abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:18 AM
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I don’t think it is due to society, i think it is ingrained though. I think there is a also something to it. For women their value is given, since their value is based on beauty. While for men their value is earned, through becoming through status, money, traits, etc. I think it is a interesting perspective though. Since women are given their value upfront, they intimacy more than sex. While men, seek sex more than intimacy because they have to achieve. Women do think they can be loved just bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:38 PM
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I think you connect a lot of good points about sex and intimacy, I can relate to a lot of my sexual encounters. But I don’t think we were taught by society it is ingrained in us, women are born with their value men earn their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:13 AM
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You are missing his point, he explains why they seek sex. People who seek sex feel they can’t get intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:49 AM
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No and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:53 AM
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Not slutty or revealing I don’t like this line of reasoning was she like that before and now you can’t expect her to dress differently. She was single at that point, now she isn’t. Just like men are not going to act the same way when they are single and when with GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:04 AM
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QFW: what exactly about a man encouraging his GF to dress modestly is controlling? It is not about because he is suggesting her to do something, I can name examples where you wouldn’t think it is controlling. So what exactly is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:27 AM
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First of all i disagree with the idea of gender or masculinity being social constructivism. You can't have constructivism without biology, biology proceeds constructivism. Now does that mean culture or society have no influence? no they they can have influence but it doesn't negate biology influence. Just like in the animal kingdom there are cases of rhinos in captivity from birth living with hippos, he starts to mimic the other hippos but it doesn't make him a hippo. In fact he would pay the pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:33 PM
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No i don't think men should be more like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:33 PM
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You have my permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:02 AM
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The Father, the Son, or the Holy Ghost. Pick one. Seriously a church maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:30 AM
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That doesn’t explain the gap. Say that is true, That only explains that men have higher standard for relationship, in comparison for causal sex. But that doesn’t explain the gap that men have higher standard than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:36 PM
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I don’t care, one personal experience doesn’t makes it a fact. https://www.standard.co.uk/news/uk/women-more-likely-than-men-to-avoid-giving-up-seat-to-mumtobe-on-public-transport-survey-finds-a3464421.html
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:16 PM
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Why are you asking men? Men usually are the first to give up their seat, ask healthy enough women why they don’t take initiative and wait for a men to give up his seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:06 PM
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Lust or sexual drive is from our primitive brain, the lizard brain. It is not some 3 equal system. It is hardwired instinct to pursue sex. ‘You are convinced of what? How do you reconcile the fact that men have higher sexual drive yet they have the same or higher standard what you initially said? You have not provided any evidence to bridge the gap. How people pair up doesn’t drive any conclusion. That just proves that there is only one game being played.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:44 PM
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That would change things a bit, but she can't lose her self and need to get back lose the weight she gained from pregnancy. Ultimately i believe the most important thing for a healthy relationship, is not losing track of the reason why each of you were attracted to each other. I think too many people in marriage lose track of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:19 AM
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I would drop her for much less, just like i would expect her to dump me if i stop becoming the guy she was initially attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:47 AM
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We are not talking about casual sex but about mate choice for committed long term relationships, right? If this was about casual sex, then where is the argument? Women ARE the prize, ARE entitled to the most attractive/desirable sex partners, and have zero issues getting the top tier men for sex. Because with regards to casual sex, this IS their equal value partner. Precisely because of the point you made: men are hornier and have less requirements for sexual partners. Those men are not out of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:12 AM
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Look at the science and not some random street interviews. The science is men are much more hornier, which result them being desperate and having little to no standard. What is it that is commonly said? "men will fuck anything." btw your whole post was very emotional, why was that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:18 AM
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what you listed was understandable, you are right therapy isn’t for changing beliefs. Some people suggest therapy for everything, I have never been to one so I am perplexed why someone would suggest therapy because we disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:07 AM
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That is what I gathered, if you don’t hold the same belief you need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:21 AM
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What was that? Cum therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:19 AM
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Question for those that go to therapy, what is the goal? not talking about physical therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:00 AM
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It’s cool you understand that people with mental illness are more likely to seek treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:47 AM
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Typical BP being passive aggressive then playing the victim card. I am chilling. No goal post was moved, you just assumed calling US a female centric society also means political and economic power. Most of US also support abortion i don’t know what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:27 PM
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PPD like bringing up the self reported survey of CDC how women body count is low that TRP lying to men. But same survey reported over 40% of women reported to have over 10 sexual partners, and 28% reported more than 15 partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:16 PM
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Someone better is extremely vague, since there is social classes TRP describe it competency from a social or economic standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:01 PM
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You can’t comprehend the difference between political and culture power, there is on you. Having social and cultural power does not equal political power, conservatives are much more competent politically. There is something called competency. It is crazy how bluepillers lack the intelligence bandwidth to understand simple statements. I can also play this dumb game of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:40 PM
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More women vote than men, so it proves that women still want men to lead them. Basically confirms TRP belief that women still want men to lead them and be superior rather the nonsense of 50/50 or equal. Who controls the culture war? Liberals or conservative? Abortion is more of a pushback in recent years, and conservatives have always been much more wiser when it comes to politics. Lefties are primary concern with culture while the right focuses on power. They achieved it through Supreme Court a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:53 PM
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Western countries are female centric society, so you are exposed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:36 PM
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Hypergamy is women wanting a man to be more competent than them from social and economic standpoint. It is important to understand instead of falling for feminist and woke idea of women wanting men to be equal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:29 PM
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You have no clue what hypergamy is, there is a PPD definition and you can look it up on wiki. ‘The person you replied is also off base.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:19 PM
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Starfish 10, i can fix her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:36 PM
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So women wanting tall men when they are not are tall are they hypocritical? You may say men on average are taller, but women preference is taller than the average height men. ‘Are women hypocritical for wanting men who are funny yet they are not themselves? Charming? Assertive? There are many examples of women attraction that is not symmetrical, but men preferences are weird, hypocritical, creepy, blah, blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:55 AM
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Self reported survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:34 AM
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QFW: When you say a guy is a creep? What does that mean to you, like describe it the meaning behind it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:09 AM
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That is different, that is an example where you could have possible info if he is guilty or not. I would take precautions in that example at the very least, regardless If I think he did it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:06 AM
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Why do some guys care about misandry? I am like “meh whatever, what you going to do about it?”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:58 AM
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obviously I am not asking if you know how low works, do you believe someone should be treated innocent until proven otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:50 AM
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QFW: Do you agree with the notion innocent until proven guilty?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:43 AM
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Men have higher sex drive, there is literally nothing preventing us from being down to have sex. There is no such things as being in the mood. Parents passed away in a horrific accidents? Child drowned? I feel saddened, but my hormone doesn’t give a shit and it relieves stress. That happen to her? She is not going to be in the mood? I can’t say hey there is a dick that needs to be sucked. That would be socially inappropriate and inconsiderate. ‘There is also biological issues that will prevent h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:09 AM
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How can I overcome these insecurities ? What you are feeling it is an emotion, you control it. It is just a state of mind. Either you will accept her past or you don’t. What is reality is she has a past, what is not a reality is how you internalize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:53 AM
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Why do you think guys go out and say ”get lucky.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:48 PM
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To all those men who posts about what should or shouldn’t be, woe is me. Anytime you feel like posting, this is how everyone feels. https://youtu.be/PLxhrlomYj8
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:17 PM
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You get what you deserve in life, same as those guys. But I am sure if the women directly told them I am not sexually interested in you, you are a safe guy. Most guy would not be cool with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:12 PM
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You still ending up in relationship not based on genuine attraction out of necessity, you are just pushing it down 10 years down the road when either the guy with high sexual attraction not taking you relationship seriously or he doesn’t have his shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:45 PM
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When women reach over 30 or late 20s they do pursue men out of necessity rather than genuine attraction, any average or above average men in those ages can attest how desperate and creepy women become. In the modern era women pursue men based on sexual attraction in their young adult life, once their SMV decreases they pursue the “safe guy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:16 PM
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https://www.amazon.com/Socratic-Selling-Questions-That-Sale/dp/0786304553 Socratic Selling by Kevin Daley.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:53 PM
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What is Geomax? Miami is like no other in place in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:39 PM
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Do you assume women would know better how to attract women than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:16 PM
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Ever considered the characteristics that make men successful in climbing social ladder is also characteristics women find attractive. ‘You think that is by accident? It is not, you are hardwired to increase your opportunity to attract the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:23 PM
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You are programmed for survival and Reproduction(sex). Men success is hardwired into them to increase their chance of attracting the opposite sex. Why you think even today the top end of of the most successful people are men. ‘Most people may not believe they are doing it to attract the opposite sex, same reason women say they don’t wear makeup to attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:38 AM
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Is it curated/mimicked, or is it hardwired into men? Just confirming media.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:57 AM
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misrepresentations of success? I don’t know what you think is misrepresentations, but yet what is success?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:54 AM
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Yeah i get that, but it also increases your sex drive which you know, and from my understanding is that you don’t believe you will find a female partner. ‘It is kinda like giving someone who is starving and giving them medication that will increase their appetite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:53 PM
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why are you on TRT?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:42 PM
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I think birth rate fall is due to birth control and women focus on education and career, most women are not independent. Regardless what incel and women say they are still living pay check to pay check.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:43 PM
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FNF is quite repetitive, I probably seen maybe 5 episodes and clips there and there. Searched their channel they are still averaging around 200k per stream, i don’t know what their peak was but that is solid for YouTube. That is not the point the fact you think those women are paid, you don’t have to pay those bimbos to get on a podcast; there is no shortage of them in Miami and those visiting Miami, I lived there for a long time before moving to Tampa.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:31 PM
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Who cares about fault, her or him. You looking at from extreme, who said he couldn’t get women in his 20, who said the women was a hot slutty women. The more likely she was fucking a guy who was FWB, one night stand there and there; then look for a safer choice, the extreme of a guy who was completely unsuccessful with women, then marries a slut seems very unlikely in my mind. I am sure it happens, like anything in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:21 PM
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Mowing the lawn can therapeutic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:49 PM
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Funny you actually believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:46 PM
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Certain amount women already do that, fuck alpha in most of their 20s while look for a safe guy in their late 20s and 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:43 PM
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It is correlated with investment in offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:06 AM
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You know men who are in a relationship, missing an ex that dumped him?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:00 AM
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The concept does absolutely exist, women date up, men do not. Think of it this way if you get accustomed to 5* hotels, first class, 100k sports car then you had to downgrade are you going to be satisfied?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:53 PM
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Sex worker is actually a term recently got popularized to normalize it. We use to call it prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:28 PM
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That doesn't answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:00 PM
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Men are attracted to women beauty, he is just missing pussy he is not missing that ex GF who is older and less beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:24 PM
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I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:53 PM
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curious, you think women compete on beauty or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:18 PM
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Why wear makeup in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:06 PM
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You guys out of touch with reality, and lying to yourself. What you think beauty standard is? Why would such concept even exist. The more I am on PPD the more I realize how delusional women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:05 PM
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Empathy is understanding others point of view and feelings, what you are doing is judging, empathy is natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:28 PM
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It is completely off topic, no one likes unwelcome advance’s especially from a much older men they don’t find attractive. We get that, but that has to do with two people who enter a consensual relationships. ‘You think shaming age gap relationship will stop older men will deter unwelcomed advances? It ain’t happening, it is biologically ingrained. ‘They see you like an animal see a piece of meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:10 PM
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Shoot your shot with women you find attractive. Most attractive? You will likely just be shooting of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:43 PM
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You know you are not talking about age gap relationship, you are talking about unwelcomed advance from old man. ‘what does that have to do with the topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:14 AM
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Sounds like you have over came a lot. I know a lot of people advise you to approach more women , ‘“it’s a numbers game.’” But at the same time it is a skills game, if you don’t have the right skills why would things change. I am sure you know the definition of insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:08 AM
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I have a broad experience in sales, where I have approached over thousands of strangers, this is out of my scope, sounds like you are struggling with social interactions based on your posts, have you tried professional or outside help? I also must say going to bars is a probably not the best choice? Since the people you are interacting are highly extroverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:50 AM
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Autistic people don’t communicate their inner thoughts through their body language?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:37 AM
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with that attitude it is best not to go, how you feel will communicate that. If you feel like that you are bothering them, your body language and tone will communicate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:30 AM
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Great book..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:17 AM
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All these PPD threads about someone should do, shouldn’t do, what is fair, preferences are all dumb asf. At the end of the day you don’t need to justify yourself to anyone, especially people on the Internet. Better discuss ideas and discuss Why things are what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:55 AM
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I don't believe you should exploit the other person. But the end of the day all relationship are transactional, find someone that is rationally a net positive in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:03 AM
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So where did term deadbeat dads come from if they are not criticized. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:15 PM
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There is a difference what people want, what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:00 PM
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Men like beautiful younger women, you know it we know it. Stop lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:27 PM
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People do underestimate rejections. If you think it is easy or it doesn’t affect you, quit your job and work in sales where you can make six figures easily. People do everything to avoid picking a freaking phone. Sales has the highest job turnover rate for a reason. Rejection is fear of not being good enough and it attacks your self worth, the best way to deal with rejection is it to isolate it from your identity. For example I rationalize rejection at my job is that they rejected my approach, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:22 AM
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I am specifically talking about sexual attraction. Curious what you think I am talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:47 AM
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You don’t ask ask how to fish, you ask a fisherman- Patrice O’Neal ‘Here is the thing women are attracted to what they feel, when man here lists attributes they are using logic where women attraction operate on an emotional level. When men here talk about status or money, women will think of a plain man who they are already determined not attractive and think of the word status. Yeah of course that is not changing how you perceive him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:35 AM
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QFA: Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:36 AM
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Sounds like you care too much of others opinion. You know yourself, ultimately the only person you control is yourself are you okay for allowing them dictate how you feel? If you cut them off, and don’t miss your presence sounds like they are not your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:13 AM
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I am not inexperienced, someone mislead you to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:57 AM
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No, because men are not wired to think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:50 AM
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It’s best not to expect anything back, can’t be disappointed if you don’t expect anything back. Doesn’t mean you should be a pushover, find people who bring Value to your life. I tend to be a selfish person, if I do anything nice I don’t expect anything back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:44 AM
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We just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:59 AM
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Women can’t handle the truth, so we must lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:30 AM
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So is it older women taking about being used for sex? I can name many examples, how women protect their sexuality and it how it means more to them. Men see sex very differently than women. We don’t think of it as being used, women do. We don’t see it as being exploited or whatever, if women saw sex the same way men do they would get the same treatment of their sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:55 AM
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Women are much more protective of their sexuality and it means more to them. You don’t think women reinforce the idea that sex corrupts or damage a women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:04 AM
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Wby do we always focus on men? You don’t think women reinforce the double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:52 AM
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First and foremost we must accept men and women are different, establishing that would go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:13 PM
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They are not happy, porn and masterbation doesn’t replace connection and intimacy. Their biology is telling them go out be productive and get sex. They are trying to fill a void with porn and masterbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:36 PM
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why do you think they are small minded and you are not? On what basis did you come to that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:42 PM
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Why you want to know what BP or RP consider PP? You should ask PP what they consider as the middle ground? What is this vague middle middle, how do you know you are in the middle, on what principles do you think you position is right, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:30 PM
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I would welcome it, the more options i have to decrease my risks the better. Don’t understand why any men would be against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:05 PM
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The best diet is the one you can make a habit, treat it like a marathon not a sprint.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:44 PM
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I don’t understand men that slut shame, i shame the men for being cucks and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:39 PM
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No it’s not fair point, women in countries like Saudi Arabia or Iran would have a fair point. If you live in any liberal country you do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:58 PM
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So I matched with this women last Thursday, she invited me to her place around 12:30 at night, we were having sex less than 20 minutes. What do you think my assumption is and other men would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:32 AM
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Do you think men cannot spot an easy women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:11 AM
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have fun finding someone to commit to after that Nah you are underestimating how many simps and pathetic man are out there..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:15 AM
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High pressure sales work, key being it can not come off that way. Same tactics one can come off as creep the other assertive and charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:34 AM
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Of course I have, that is not selling. If I found her physically attractive she doesnt need to do any selling, I was already down. If i didn’t find her attractive, there is nothing she could say that would change anything. Maybe more drinks or how late it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:49 PM
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if you are attracted to men and have have partners before. The utility is whatever they made you feel to be with them over another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:44 PM
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But if men only want sex, as opposed to wanting sex along with other things, then you are making a good case for women to remain single or date other women. No, men provide more utility and service. it is beneficial for both party, it is not a zero sum game.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:07 PM
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Do women approach men? Yes occasionally, most times for guys out of their league. We are talking about the rule, not the exceptions. I have used word like “overwhelmingly” We are talking about sex, we are not talking about relationship. Relationship is after the sale. Men being gatekeeper of relationship it is absolute cap, that pretty much apply to men who have options and have an abundance mindset. Most men will tolarate a lot of bs for couple rounds of sex in a month. But that is another topi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:51 PM
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Those men are still initiating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:25 PM
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Why do you disagree with. My whole argument is not dependent on data and some nerd will probably post it here again like it has been in a lo of other threads, let’s be real here you will just disrgardens it anyway. “Not real life.” What do you specifically disagree on?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:58 AM
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Women just need to show up, the less attractive you are the more visible you need to be. Women are not concerned about how to talk to men, what are men interests. Their success does not depend on their ability to understand men. Women are more concerned about if this guy is creep or hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:43 AM
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Agreed, I look for clear indications of interest. I feel like a beggar cold approaching women. I have too much pride for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:13 AM
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Wut? You asked why he posted this. It is a situation where PPD women can not shift the blame on a man. If it is not as black and white as this, women instinct is to blame a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:09 AM
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Men look at failed marriages, like a failed business, while women look at it like a failed employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:02 AM
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Because the vast majority of PPD women suffer from “defend all women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:52 AM
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It was a trend back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:40 AM
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Age gap in shambles. To simplify hypergamy, when TRP talks about it they mean women want a man to lead them. For a women to allow a man to lead, they must feel they are better than them. Because who would allow a person to lead a relationship if they are inferior. key word what she feels, it doesn’t mean objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:38 AM
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10 fir like chest, back, quads, etc. Biceps, triceps, hamstring 15. when in doubt though 10-12 imo is optimal over 15 and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:26 AM
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It is a question, everybody thinks differently. It is a feel question. I like to know how others think about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:23 AM
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10 for bigger muscle groups, 15 for smaller muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:26 AM
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What is the difference between optimism and cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:14 AM
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I think his point is when being asked by others, family and friends. Especially other men, he is right from My experience. When another dude ask me even if I don’t take the girl seriously, I would likely say I am seeing someone. Now if a women ask me I would say I am single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:10 AM
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It’s the one religion that you can identify as it could mean nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:45 PM
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I see nothing wrong with that, quite rational to know what you want and don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:40 PM
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QFA: In one’s lifetime how often do you think someone can fall in love or can have genuine connection?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:31 PM
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Because you have detached emotion and love from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:18 PM
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You could have condensed this down to “if you don’t see things from my point of view you have issues.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:06 PM
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Take out the incel context, that sound like motivation driven by revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:35 PM
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Wtf is revenge fantasy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:20 PM
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You only accept what you tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:32 AM
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To a large extent everyone has social anxiety of the possible idea of being rejected. You don’t need to do it if things are working out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:19 AM
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I mean that is the key, approach women without giving off the perception that you are approaching them. You can do that consciously or unconsciously. If you approach women the intention of asking them out, you put pressure on yourself, you will come off unnatural and needy. What are needy people? Unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:08 AM
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Also if you come from a dysfunctional home, you are highly likely carrying baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:24 AM
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Hollywood actors take steroids when looking for a ripped look, they don’t look like they are on gears.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:15 AM
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Only if the guy is maximizing it with high level of workout, diet, and genetics. I was a personal trainer for many years; most of them looked like shit. So only the guys who is maximizing looks like he is on steroid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:11 AM
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“So, you're telling me if Chris Evans showed up on a college campus and announced he was single and looking, he wouldn't have his pick of the litter?” PPD women;: “A small number of women MIGHT go for a rich and famous celebrity but again, still the minority.” lmao PPD women in a nutshell, they say some of the stupidest things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:27 PM
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Exactly same thing you did, shifting the judgement on the man. Feminist don’t say ‘mindless adult” they make her the victim or shift all accountability on the man. Or indirectly say it by making the 25 year old brain argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:01 PM
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Only dudes with porn brain say they like librarian types. I have never heard a normal dude say shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:24 AM
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That is not average body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:11 AM
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We do but not about our emotion and vulnerability, because no one cares. We just say we are ”fine.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:43 AM
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main chick+ side chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:26 AM
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I would advice her to tell him you are waiting until marriage to have sex. Regardless if she does wait until marriage or not, This will weed out a lot of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:42 AM
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check the place you are at. This is PPD where the discussion is regarding heterosexual relationships. Why are you talking about gay relationships? 0-2% of all couples who decide to have kids, often going to great lengths to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:47 PM
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PPD women: 50/50 men need be more involved in the household and be involved with their kids. Also PPD women: kids don’t need fathers. This is the experience of most men when arguing/debating with women they say shit without any linear logical reasoning. Women are emotional, men are logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:21 PM
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Lol you cannot be anymore wrong if you think male chimpanzees invest in their offspring as anywhere near as male humans do. This is an undeniable fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:22 AM
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No, it is not about insecurity. It is more about not wanting others sloppy second. Think of it like a used car vs a new car.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:51 AM
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chimpanzees and bonobos do not invest in their offspring like humans, so there is less fuck is given about paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:50 AM
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High n count women are not good fit for LTR, just like an employer would avoid an employee who has a record changing jobs and see that an issue. That is Just logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:51 AM
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Pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:28 PM
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​ Many middle class families are living below 80k, that is a statistical fact.. Google it, reddit it. It is not always about how much you make, it is about how much you keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:32 PM
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Men usually do all the work at the front end, after sex it is a women job to show she is worth keeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:38 PM
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You are wrong talk to a financial planner or ask on reddit. You are basing your opinion on what you feel rather than what information is out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:30 PM
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Most households are making half of that income with both are working., by your view there is no middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:21 PM
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If that is your view of a long con, what is the short con?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:51 PM
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When it comes to dating and misleading the other gender; men run a short con where women play the long con.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:47 PM
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These guys are all going to assume they can live in a middle class lifestyle on like 80k-120k You have to be financially retarded that you can't like a middle class lifestyle making that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:39 PM
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In detail talking about sexual experiences. I am trying to figure out if your current partner care. ​ I’m telling you that men who don’t subscribe to the red-pill theories do not obsess over the things you guys do. Lol the arrogance of attempting to tell me how men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:10 PM
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Here is the the litmus test, talk about your past sexual acts you had with other men with your current BF/husband. If he doesn’t care it won’t bother him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:14 PM
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Obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:32 PM
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There is no such things as HVW in their 30s, just recreational women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:14 AM
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Why do nerds have a hard time dating? STEM guys tend to have IQ with low social skills, naturally they have a hard time connecting with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:02 PM
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Yup men are sick, women have just preferences…. Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:36 PM
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It is not a disorder it is coding, just like women liking tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:28 PM
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I carry my keys and iphone, that is all I need. Mainly use Apple Pay, I have a few cards attached to my phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:19 PM
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"In economics, a moral hazard is a situation where an economic actor has an incentive to increase its exposure to risk because it does not bear the full costs of that risks."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:42 PM
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some of these like the double standards, it is perfectly valid. Men and women are different, why does everything have to be symmetrical? Who made this rule women have their own double standards too. For example wanting a tall man yet they are not tall themselves. Wanting a guy to be funny, yet not funny themselves, and i could go on and on. Men and women value different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:39 AM
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Has he ever claimed to be an alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:07 PM
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I used to do with personal training, I had these women clients who were worried about looking like bodybuilders chick. All I could think of “another retard who think picking up 5-10 pounds will make her look like those bodybuilders who have great genetics, insane work ethic and diet, lots of drugs, and years of heavy lifting.‘’
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:00 PM
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What you mean we are not talking about that, i created the OP. But you want to take this topic off the deep end, this PPD where it is about heterosexual issues. And you want to talk about a a tiny percentage of kids that are from sex marriage. Single mothers household statistics speak for themselves; girls Will be fine according to most of society, likely end up promiscuous which is not a concern. Boys on the other hand filled with Testosterone are more dangerous to societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:44 PM
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Being abandoned by a biological parent, leaves a great deal of abandonment issues on the kid. This is common sense, do some research instead of trying base your beliefs on statistically anomaly like same sex marriages. You are looking at a tree while ignoring the forests.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:19 PM
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First of all there is an issue of abandonment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:33 PM
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Read this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:28 PM
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Children don't need fathers is the biggest brain rut on PPD, so focused on their view women being perfect, and their hate for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:22 PM
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Respect is definitely earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:06 AM
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The manosphere anticipates that happening, AF/BB. Why do you think they have a term for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:19 PM
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I plan or schedule something for the next time we meet face to face before I get the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:06 PM
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You are not entitled to who give you attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:34 AM
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Rewatching American Psycho realizing that Patrick Bateman was actually the good guy minus the killings, everyone else were also sociopath at least Bateman knew there was something wrong with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:23 PM
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Public defender of fatties?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:46 PM
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How so? Ask yourself would you be okay if men treated you as they do other men? Name any women grievance, i will statistically dismantle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:45 PM
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Death is the least thing I worry about, you die you die. Nothing after that matters. Being crippled, losing my independence is much more worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:24 PM
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CMV: Men treat women better than they do other men, so all these talk about sexism and misogyny is just bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:20 PM
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Statistically speaking more men are raped than women, how often is that mentioned when the topic of rape is mentione?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:20 AM
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It is projection thinking female sexuality works the same way as men. If a women sends pussy or tits pic, majority of men would be aroused by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:01 AM
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Tough gig to grow an account. ‘Anyway I don’t think any women that poses thirst traps can become internet famous. Low percentage of women can achieve that. But an above average girl with good makeup and filter damn sure would have more than single digits likes. My man you are severely underestimating male horniness and simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:54 AM
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I started taking IG seriously like a month or two ago and while I get semi decent numbers Are you a man or woman? what contents do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:25 AM
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That is a lot of words salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:59 AM
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Who cares what you consider healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:04 PM
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Part of the territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:35 PM
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What are you looking for casual or relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:26 PM
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Why would i want a GF that her happiness didn't hinge on the relationship? Seems indifferent. I don't think a man should have his happiness hinge on the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:22 PM
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cultures that never had contact with each other still found the same preference for virginity. Religions that never were in contact all reached the same conclusion. It is instinctual due to paternity uncertainty, humans invest in their offspring more than animals. For that reason it is instinctually coded in men to prefer purity to guarantee that the offspring they invest in is theirs. Social construction is based on biology, you don't get social construct without biology. There is major variati…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:11 PM
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Most men do, why you think throughout civilizations and cultures virginity was preferred? It is instinctual as women preferring taller man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:52 AM
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Doesn’t matter, the average guy has little to no options, so he will take whatever he can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:43 PM
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True litmus test is not being a factor whether you like the person or not. Let’s use other examples, because PPD women suffer from arguing for the sake of arguing rather than principals. Let’s say i would slut shame people i don’t like, but not toward people i like for other reasons. What would you think my position on slut shaming is?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:36 PM
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If nothing is wrong with crying, it shouldn’t matter if you like the person or not. That is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:02 PM
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Be honest with yourself and have a fair assessment of yourself, always seen that as key to self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:42 AM
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I don't think you also consider beyond the western world, if countries like US become a matriarchy there are patriarchy countries like China that will topple US reign as the premier superpower in the world. It is a never ending of cycle of men competing for the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:59 AM
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Male dominance is not unnatural, it is the most common feature in the animal kindgoms too. Patriarchy is not a bug it is a feature. The next great invention in renewable energy or one that prolongs the human race will be due to a man. Society unrest or scarcity will favor male dominance, because humans tend to resort to a more male dominate society due to competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:06 PM
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The upper tier of society will always be dominated by men, low value men and women will fight for the the scraps. In the end they are there to serve those men at the top. The only industry that women will dominate is making money off their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:47 PM
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Lets look at the list of the wealthiest people in the US? oh yeah they are all men, and most of them are entrepreneurs they didn't relay on the patriarchal system or whatever they made their own roads. I work in sales, and i run a team. The vast majority of top performers are all men. ​ Women are great for minor and mundane jobs that has low risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:25 PM
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I do not know any TRP that uses it. Alpha is commonly used to describe a person that is successful with women. I guess the way i see it, Chad is this term that incel have created of the perfect man. A man they could never become to justify their doomed mentality. deftest attitude. If this place is true to being RP vs BP, why keep using Blackpill/incel language.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:12 AM
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Don’t think you know much about laws. Freedom of speech protects D2D salesman and men who approach women that may or may not want to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:38 AM
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Rule #9 No Incel/Black-Pill Content Yet every other post is chad this and chad that. Chad is an incel/black pill concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:25 AM
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What is a beta/chad? never heard this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:17 AM
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The only thing in this world you can absolutely control is yourself, the sensible thing would be take accountability for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:30 AM
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The anger and resentment is coming from him, blaming it on RP is avoiding accountability and looking for something to blame. RP is content and information, how you process it is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:05 AM
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The best way to understand Fresh and Fit, is to look at it from optics of self interest. They give men advices how to maximize from a perspective of self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:41 PM
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What does zero looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:09 AM
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Lol so predictable and boring some of you are. If this was the the wife that needed some self time, we know what you guys would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:36 PM
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Western society promotes 50/50, equality, balanced power; so how would that be congruent seeking a man that is more competent and higher status. Man are not dating up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:44 AM
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It is amazing on FNF, whenever these women are asked if someone past matter 99% of the time they say no. The past matters if you are a women or man, people are the result of habits and beheaviors. You are here, because of the person you were that lead you to this point in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:08 AM
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What if there is infidelity or abuse? Don’t marry who is going to cheat or abuse, vet the person correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:50 AM
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Well do the math, plus do todays music actually use real instruments?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:44 AM
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Nature of the beast, weak men will fall into their trap with obedience but strong men will reject their prescription.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:40 PM
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No, i do not think RP tries to get credibility for their alpha/beta terms from science. They have their own theories about that and don't claim those are the truth. Likewise, there isn't even a definition of what a Chad is or how many % of men are Chads. It's a soft term used to make your point and nobody being able to disagree since there is no common understanding of the term. Chad is an incel term, it is not a TRP concept. What does it mean when you say "better than they are"? Does the man ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:34 PM
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I already posted my source; you rejected on the assumption that advertisement are not credible. I engaged in good faith i, while you are attempt to waste others time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:49 AM
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Find the statistics and come back post something useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:31 AM
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The RP concept of hpergramy is women seeking men better than they are, you disagree? RP concepts and terms are not scientific; do you actually believe the concept of Alpha and Beta is based on the terms used to describe in the animal kingdom. Come on poindexter,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:53 AM
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RP didn’t develop AF/BB(same concept as duel mating strategy which is by evolutionary psychology ) or hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:23 PM
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https://yanglawoffices.com/rules-to-follow-to-make-your-prenuptial-agreement-hold-up-in-court/#:\~:text=Bottom%20line%20is%20no%20prenup,50%20percent%20of%20the%20time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:34 PM
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Okay what is the positive or negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:36 PM
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You should have also added, would you be friends with a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:30 PM
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Q4A: Is social media like instagram a net positive or net negative for society? Why do you believe so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:21 PM
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As always great logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:16 PM
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Bad move, he would come off as insecure. The reality is the OP is on borrowed time, assuming she is still attracted to him. Unless you change the situation, she will see him less than her and she will lose respect for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:58 AM
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Maybe TRP is wrong about a few things, it is possible. I don’t believe in echo chambers, if your beliefs are correct, then you should be able to defend It against criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:35 AM
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Make more money then her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:26 AM
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I never claimed that, you emotionalized it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:22 AM
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prenup are thrown out 50% of the time, it ain’t going to save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:51 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/135bef7/why_do_men_here_care_so_much_about_whether_women/ Instead of expecting women to solve male issues Perfect example of the disconnect on PPD and how they misinterpret due to emotionalization. RP: Helping men understand women nature. PPD: Expecting women to solve male issues. ​ The RP is not about changes or what is fair or whatever. It is about seeing things for what they are and navigating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:44 AM
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Come on dude…. Looks matter to women, but they have more criteria so they can’t be looks driven as men are. Pete Davidson from looks standpoint, he is below average. The only Thing he has going for him from a physical standpoint is his height, and his 8inch cock is a non factor since he would have to get with them in the first place. Tattoos? anyone could get freaking tattoos. Your second statement about bad boy niche acknowledges other factors, even though you don’t want to admit it. http://t1.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:28 AM
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Because animals and primates hierarchy is very narrow, humans hierarchy is much more diverse. You think Pete Davidson is getting some of the most beautiful women on the planet due to his looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:57 AM
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Women have more criteria though, unlike men who are mostly visually driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:52 AM
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Or is it due to loneliness and horniness they drop their standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:24 AM
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What is her body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:11 AM
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Cool it with anti-Semitic remarks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:48 AM
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Beta male.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:00 AM
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It is quite long. Last LTR i broke up with 5 months ago, was due to her drinking in social events.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:40 PM
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I don’t believe in controlling women, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have standard. Have a standard, communicate your standard. If she doesn’t follow your program, you should walk away or never take her seriously for LTR. Don’t be controlling it doesn’t benefit you or her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:25 PM
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It seems women here are admitting the concept of AF/BB. The issue being emotionalization, which has nothing to do with anything regarding the theory of AF/BB. The RP doesn’t state that AF/BB is bad, right, fair, unfair, good, bad, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:32 AM
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Gay asf tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:31 AM
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The large majority(90%) of CEO and executives are above average in height 6+, most focus of high paying executives job as being a gender gap. But in reality is more height gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:58 PM
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You know you have been here long enough when you skim through PPD you feel like you have seen that same title or post before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:50 AM
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Yes again https://youtu.be/LR5-ZUBY3b4
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:13 AM
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I agree. Although the frequency to get laid increases by going to parties, bar, clubs. Then you add alcohol…. I’ll be real the majority of the times I have gotten laid were in those settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:08 AM
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Apparently the litmus test if you don’t think an 18 year is not qualified to be giving advice to sexually inexperienced older men, then you cannot consider them to be consenting adults. The insanity of it. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:00 AM
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She is seeing someone singular or plural. I am personally not trying to catch an STD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:43 AM
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Hahahahaha no Not qualified to giving 40 year old virgin men = 18 year olds not being adult. There is a huge freaking gap, it is insane if I have to explain this to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:32 AM
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No, I always do. Even on the first date. Key being come off natural. “Out of curiosity_________.” Internally deciding how you want to proceed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:09 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1300nwb/many_men_who_have_nothing_going_for_them_and_are/jhuu757/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3 How many PPD women are autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:03 AM
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Men also enjoyed the privilege of being sent to war like cattles and enjoyed intensive labor jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:02 PM
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This cannot be a serious post. You know the majority of men got the right to vote due to being subjected to the draft?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:00 PM
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"Men are the more romantic sex" It is not that complex, men initiate and court the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:30 PM
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Whats stopping women from initiating, planning dates or such things?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:18 PM
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I do not think you realize that women throughout history were just an object, our penis is not shaped the way it is because of women promiscuity. Our penis is shaped this way due to men nature and competition. Women were just an object that men competed for, throughout history a lot of men. Like any other objects you can think of. Women were just a natural component in our evolution. Women reproduced voluntary or involuntary, it didn’t matter. Look at the silverback gorillas, they have one of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:19 PM
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They were competing for a hole, why is that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:50 PM
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like i said everything is relative. Women are not as visual as men though as sexual preferences go.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:48 PM
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That is based on male competition not based on women promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:40 PM
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Everything is relative, you are taking it to the extreme. If you are an ugly old man your options are extremely limited or nonexistent most likely; but making six figure salary would give a bit more options. Doesn’t mean most women will lineup at your door. Plus making six figure salary; shows a level of competency and ambition generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:31 PM
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Men and women sexual preferences differ, most men value beauty and fertility. While women value much more than physical look. A lot of things women look for like status and resource it takes time to develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:11 PM
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How did we go from blame to complain? Maybe the $5 drink was worth more than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:34 AM
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On vacation at the keys, need some men to step up and oppress women while i enjoy my vacation. Started off with a speeding ticket, how can the speeding limit be 45 on this long ass bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:30 AM
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This forum is more blackpill/incel than redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:26 AM
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mainly men, but women too False. lol the whole feminism movement is blaming men for their own failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:22 AM
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Bill Clinton is considered arguably the most charismatic president, people who have been around him have commented how he made them feel like they were the most important person. His eye contacts and attention to them was a huge factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:37 AM
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"Mandatory paternity to ensure biological paternity" That is a logical statement. "Accusing all women of being cheaters" it is an emotional statement. There is a huge F difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:20 AM
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Lmao perfect illustration that women are emotional and men are logical. There is a big gap between mandatory paternal testing and accusing all women of cheating. You emotionalized it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:30 AM
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The religious right has been replaced with woke leftist, it as censored and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:11 PM
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Men are much more likely to criticize other men, women are very unlikely to criticize other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:01 AM
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Jeff Bezos easily. I rather be extremely successful, than be a good looking loser. plus Bezos can pull pretty much any girl if he wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:50 PM
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Did you get in the car and immediately post a video to share on social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:42 AM
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I absolutely do not believe she was actually terrified, she is seeking social media attention. Just like those women in the gym who record men for looking their way for less than one second. Sorry i don't think it is a reasonable reaction was to stay in the parking lot, let me make a post online. Worst part there were some PPD women here who are defending her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:20 AM
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I thought this was common sense, the people you surrond yourself says a lot about you. Are we really disagreeing with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:06 PM
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For clarification for commitment we are talking marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:58 PM
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A lot of women in the gym like doing the squat, but for aesthetics purpose it is better to do assisted leg exercises. The issue with the squat it increases your abdominal and waist area, this is why a lot of physique bodybuilders avoid doing exercises like squat and deadlift.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:43 PM
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Personally don't care about Alpha widow, i just want don't anything to do with someone else left over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:36 PM
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How about domestic violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:49 PM
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Can't think of any?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:44 PM
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Is justice not the goal of the government?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:43 PM
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The government also doesn’t care if you like your job or have a happy relationship and kids, it just wants you to have those things and pay taxes on then Have you ever considered how this statement is not true regarding women issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:37 PM
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lmao mansplaining. I hope you are not a lawyer, you have terrible argumentative skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:19 AM
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To me, a man who is obsessed with finding love is a man Most man are obsessed with getting sex, not love. It has always been that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:15 AM
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Because men don’t make women wait on sex. it is easy for women to get sex, she just has to open her legs. For a man to get sex he needs to be good looking, charismatic, initiate, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:32 PM
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https://repository.law.umich.edu/law\_econ\_current/57/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:52 PM
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One of the biggest unwritten rule, never try to up victimhood when talking to a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:18 AM
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QFW: Do you share and go in detail about the guy you had sex with with your friends? If so what is the first couple of questions your girlfriend ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:16 AM
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Women are not complex, they are just complicated. I think it largely due to the fact man are direct, while women are indirect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:57 AM
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Q4A: How does one objectively rate themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:45 AM
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Personally believe there are quite a bit of people here who are a man posting as a woman...but i can't prove it. Just instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:44 AM
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Not a bad interaction at all but he was definitely shooting way out of his league. Curious, wha makes you believe you are out of his league? Why do you believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:38 AM
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Two unpopular options, dives deep into one instinct and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:07 AM
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My chakara tells me you are wrong. ​ (I am not being serious, i agree with you(based).)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:32 AM
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So hold on you think it is socially appropriate to scream hysterically "get away from me" if a guy shouts "excuse me", yet you would have the emotional exposure to react calmly away. Such nonsense and cap, stupid on my part on my to engage with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:31 AM
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I don't know if a guy shouted "excuse me" and i had a similar reaction as that women, i expect that guy to curse me out. lol It would say more about me than that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:52 AM
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I saw the video, i mean do you even know what the guy intention was. "excuse me" could mean anything, maybe he wasn't even trying shoot his shot. That lady came off as deranged and unstable, you may not like that characterizing but that is how the majority of stable human being will see it. Second of all she was still in the parking lot, and her first instinct was to do a tiktok? My instinct was another narcissist doing it for social media, like those gym girls posting tiktok for a guy looking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:12 AM
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what is this regarding?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:23 AM
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Reddit is just a cesspool of leftist circlejerking. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:40 AM
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who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:18 AM
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I don't think it does. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Variability\_hypothesis
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:42 PM
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On the flip side men also dominate the vast majority of fields, it is by design. Humans are not a blank slate, from the moment of birth we have already been coded through genetics and evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:16 PM
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I have been in sales since i was 18 in numerous industries, we typically want both decision makers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:46 AM
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Overall I’m not sure that general attitude is the same thing as excusing one’s behavior. You can be neutral or have a positive attitude and still criticize someone. Honestly this is why this sub is so useless and disingenuous, constant gaslighting. Denying women have a stronger bias toward women, then men have toward other men. You just have to look at this sub. I can pull more data, it would be such a waste of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:56 AM
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Not really. https://www.purdue.edu/uns/html4ever/2004/041213.Goodwin.gender.html
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:37 AM
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Too many simps and women excuse toxic behavior from a woman, on the possible premise she is dealing with trauma. On the other hand if a man is toxic, no one will excuse his behavior due to possible trauma he experienced. Also a lot of PPD Blue pill justify their beliefs about men from experience or data/stats, yet feel it is not okay for a man to have such belief about women from their experience or data. Some of the examples wanting equality when it suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:22 AM
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Men approach, women broadcast. I don't think any reasonable person would argue with that. Is it always? no but generally this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:01 PM
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It depends on the guy, age, and context. If i am looking for causal sex, i don't care much the more sexualized she looks the more likely its going to get my attention. In the context in a relationship, i prefer she dress elegant and modest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:26 PM
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No, because sex is mutual to both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:07 PM
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Threads like and the media, it is the reason why the manosphere is growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:57 PM
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He is talking about the culture. “Toxic masculinity“, “male privilege.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:42 AM
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Is that so? Might want to look into the Semen Displacement Theory: "The human penis, with a relatively larger glans and more pronounced coronal ridge than is found in many other primates, may function to displace seminal fluid from rival males in the vagina by forcing it back over/under the glans. During intercourse the effect of repeated thrusting would be to draw out and displace foreign semen away from the cervix. As a consequence, if a female copulated with more than one male within a short …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:18 PM
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The best thing about being an American, is you can go to other countries that is non-English speaking country, you can feel like they are the foreigners for not speaking English.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:54 PM
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to clarify, what is that position of majority of women on abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:25 PM
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Agreed, just bring the same energy when it comes to the abortion argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:17 PM
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Vasectomy is not a temporary measure, you guys throw it around like it is. It is designed to be a permanent measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:34 PM
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Doctors do not recommend it if you ever have plans to have children in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:11 PM
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Most no, some men yeah. You can’t meet everyones ideals, but this is life. Coagulation on losing all those weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:53 PM
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You seem to have a lot of knowledge, but it doesn’t seem like we disagree. Civilization is supreme to hunter and gatherer, as many cases when it has interacted. Do we disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:25 AM
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https://www.verywellfamily.com/does-age-affect-male-fertility-1959934 Nowhere near your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:48 AM
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I don’t think you are understanding what i meant by “middle of nowhere.” But regardless if this formula produced the best genetic and it produced the best outcome for society, why was it abandoned?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:40 AM
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That is quite the norm for Blue Pill man, self hating man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:25 AM
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That’s not a norm though No it is normal, you are only seeing those men who are having issue. Most men are not visiting your clinic because they don’t have issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:23 AM
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Yes the traditional men was a provider, women were also traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:59 AM
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Nothing in the OP makes that argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:53 AM
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What is the CMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:47 AM
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The Hunter and gatherer was not the best formula for society, there is a reason it was destroyed and only practiced by tribes In the middle of nowhere. If it was it would be the norm, not the exception in the world right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:24 AM
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All throughout human history, every major religion has sought to control female sexuality. From dressing them like ninjas, to brainwashing them into thinking that sex and adultery are mortal sins to chastity belts. Now, if women disliked fucking why would men feel the need to go through so much trouble to control their sexuality? Wouldn't they just control themselves and not fuck? Because men are territorial and don’t want to be cuckold. Women would also get pregnant, pregnancy is a huge investm…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:32 AM
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You guys are so predictable, ignore over a decade trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:16 PM
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QFM: Everything equal, which one you pick? Option 1: She has never had regular(vagina) sex, but has had anal sex with 12 different men. Option 2: She has had regular sex with with 4 different man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:59 PM
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I was a personal trainer, so i have a lot of knowledge on this. SARMS has low benefit but high risk to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:48 PM
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What age was your first sexual experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:35 AM
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Prison has rape culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:43 AM
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Often women claim that 1/4 women are sexually assaulted, so question what percentage of men are rapeist?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:09 AM
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Q4W: Everything equal, which one would you chose a man with a body count of 10 vs a virgin. And state your reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:39 PM
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To get over this you need to realize that she is not special and you don’t need to treat her special, you are not special to her. She is not yours, it is just your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:57 PM
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So it is not privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:49 PM
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More men are murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:37 PM
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Agreed, that is my argument they are notoriously picky, if they were as vocal as men are about their sexual preferences they would sound much more horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:02 PM
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Go do your own research, you seem more interested in emotionalism than facts. There are numerous studies on what women prefer based online matches and responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:48 PM
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Bruh go research the amount of studies that have been done on what women find attractive. Overwhelmingly white, no mental or physical disorders, etc. What if women were as direct as men are about not wanting fat, trans, and sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:36 PM
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Men are direct about their sexual preferences, if women were as direct they would sound like the third reich.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:17 PM
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What are the OP examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:26 PM
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Ah so there is something wrong with us for not wanting to marry habitual cheaters and sex workers? So this is what it is ultimately about, that men should have no standard when it comes to women; they should accept them if they are habitual cheaters, sex workers, single moms, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:20 PM
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I don’t believe everything on the internet, i know many people who have gotten in a relationship with someone that i thought with obvious red flag. Most guys do not give advice to another men about women and which one to avoid. We let them figure it out themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:12 PM
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Are they aware?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:59 PM
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I am in sales, all of the top earners are married. It is just me and this other gay guy who is not married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:11 AM
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Most of them are already married no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:59 AM
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I usually assume it, just wanted others perspective. I had a good time yesterday with this chick, kinda don't find a reason to go on a second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:52 AM
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I live in Tampa, Online app.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:40 AM
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Should you assume when you go on a first date, that the other person is already sleeping with another person?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:27 AM
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Why do you think patriarchy is rigged? Egalitarian society only exists due to socialism, it doen’t exsisist in a free market.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:16 AM
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There is nothing to change; you have two option when it comes to dating. You either play the game or play another game. , this place would be best to share ideas and debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:19 PM
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Q4M for those who have spent enough time on PPD, have you learned anything valuable here or changed your perspective to even a certain degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:58 PM
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I am showing the flaw in the age gap argument, you believe it is wrong due to imbalance of power. I am bringing in an example of another form of imbalance of power which is primary driven by women sexual preferences, yet you don’t question it being wrong. I know it is inconvenient for you, but it is a legitimate form of an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:52 PM
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as for your weird height/size comment - it isn’t the same, and some power imbalances naturally exist simply because men are on average bigger and stronger than women. However, these psychological imbalances have cause for more long term damage, and they’re far more covert in comparison so the risk they serve is far higher than “bigger and taller” It is creating imbalance of power though, because they are physically stronger can cause physician damage. Physical damage can lead to psychological da…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:39 PM
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No guy will be able to bang anyone first of all, if a guy who is attractive, successful, social skills, etc he will be popular among younger women. We are talking about early 30s, most guys can look much younger. We are not talking average looking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:30 PM
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Of course they wouldn’t be popular among raging feminist, they wouldn’t be interested in those women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:21 PM
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Bro we all know, men preferences and standard are met with shame, yet women preferences and standard are met with “it is just preferences.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:16 PM
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Women in large prefer men who are taller and stronger than themselves, isn’t that also imblanace of power?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:50 PM
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For us retards, what are we looking at?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:44 PM
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Doesn’t make her less attractive, men do not care about preselection like women do. If a women doesn’t have sexual experience, assumption is she has standard. If a men doesn’t have sexual experience, assumption is he is struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:06 PM
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When it cnomes to N count there is a double standard for men and women, negatively and positively. If a Men is a virgin, most women are going to think what is wrong with him. Especially in the US and other western countries, when majority people get started sexually in their teens. For a women preselection is important, it is a natural ick they get from inexperienced men. If a women is virgin? No guy is going to think there is something wrong with her, as long as she is fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:34 PM
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There are thousands of surveys that women find money and certain job professionals(lawyers. Doctors) attractive in a men. Yet PPD women/ beta male denying these truths. “You guys are terminally online.” While more evidence of them being terminally online. Blue Pill fits the description really well, a complete denial of reality. The joke is on us for entertaining them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:37 AM
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Okay at what point is it a child? while staying consistent with a pro choice and pro child position you have taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:16 AM
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Solar Sales, it is not easy but easiest entry to a high paying job. You can literally start tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:13 AM
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There is also a scientific argument though, i am guessing you are pro choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:04 AM
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Are you pro life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:52 AM
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I actually thin BB is only applicable if the man is taking the provider role or marrying a single mother, so to avoid being Beta Bux don‘t be a traditional man or the provider. Make her bring in 50/50 in the relationship, get her ass back to work as soon as she pops that baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:18 PM
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Her posting half-naked pictures is equivalent to him posting half-naked pictures. Do you think they will get the same amount of likes, comments, and private messag?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:09 PM
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18-24 demographic isn’t as important as that among 30-34. Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:47 PM
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That 18 year old who has been with 7 men, will have a lot more by the time she is 30. ‘No one has said it is the only factor, that is you thinking in black and white. It is freaking common sense the longer you are sexually active the more likely you will more sexual partners as time goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:34 PM
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