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Yup, that's how I use it. Should really use the term OLD instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:40 PM
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Oh damn, be well soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:04 PM
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Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:03 PM
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"Needed boring" is even more boring than "just boring". 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:12 PM
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Boring!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:52 PM
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2:3 is perfect! I am aware of resolution limits and stuff. 🙂 But they have cool premium products in 4x6 inches. I have already ordered a few variations of Rat Race. Can't wait to have it in my hands and show you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:22 AM
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I'll have it printed in high quality. (I have already checked options). 😃 And I will of course send you a pic of its rightful place in my "memorabilia"- shelf. 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:34 AM
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😳 I love it, man. I am honestly lost for words. The original picture was top of the world. V2 is otherworldly. It tells a real story. My spirit animal, the sewer rat, in its natural habitat. I just can't stop looking at all the details. The reflections on the sunglasses. The rat-skull'n'crossbones... I swear, if you put this in with 50 other pictures and gave it to my friends, they all would say "This one. This is Guitars" as soon as they saw this picture. (Even with the dedication erased). This…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:18 AM
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Oh, it's deep. 🙂 The picture represents me on many levels and some of them are "wouldn't feel comfortable talking about it"- deep. And I honestly can't imagine anything a V2 could do better than the original already does. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:04 PM
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Like it?! I love it, bro! It's perfect! I am literally in tears. You beautiful beautiful artist! Thank you, SO much! I wanted to commission it out years ago but I didn't find an artist on Fiverr that gave me the impression that they could capture the mood that I wanted. And now you drew it as a gift for me and it's better than I could have imagined. I am truly blessed. I need to find a better frame and need to re-arranged my prized possessions but it's already looking good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:28 PM
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I am German. 🤷‍♂️ 🍻🍻🍻🍻...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:24 PM
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Do you have a request? t was kind of a last night thing but I’m sure I’ll have time today and you’re cool Omg, yes! 😃 You wouldn't believe how happy it would make me. 🙂 A ragged but cute sewer rat who is holding a milkshake in both hands. It's blissfully happy because of the milkshakes. Not "triumphantly happy" but "I could and maybe will hug the whole world because I am so happy"- happy. (The rat completely forgets the depressing sewers and rightfully so).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:51 PM
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Happy wife, happy life. Seems like you need to take one for the team!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:40 PM
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Just say "I don't talk about past relationships".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:34 PM
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Man, that's awesome. I can imagine that it's a lot of fun, but knowing that it's also really challenging, I wonder how you pull through without a practical use for the world. But I am just learning to enjoy doing things for the heck of it. I wish I had learned to just enjoy doing stuff sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:55 AM
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Man, I love your style of drawing. I'd happily trade in my guitar skills to be able to draw like that. My first girlfriend drew chibis that conveyed lots of emotion and your drawings do, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:51 AM
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worldbuilding Just for the heck of it? I know what worldbuilding means in an RPG context or if you're writing stories. But you just make worlds up because it's fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:44 AM
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We have to break from it to love it again. And it helps to find new approaches. Sometimes you get stuck in a rut.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:26 AM
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Wish I could be more helpful. But like I said, I am really impressed with the quality. : )
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:19 PM
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That's you? Awesome! You could play a villain in an Arkham Batman movie. And I mean that in the most positive way possible. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:07 PM
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Man, that sounds really professional! Mad props! 🙂👍 Unfortunately, this particular style of hip hop is one of my least favorite genres of music ever, so I can't give real feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:57 PM
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I just wrote something that came to my head. I thought it might be ppd fodder. Trust your instincts! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:54 PM
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i complimented people and got compliments back. Be the change you want to see in this world! 🙂❤
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:15 PM
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Nice. If you ever want to get feedback or just share your music, hit me. Inbox is open and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:10 PM
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I am all for exploration and pushing limits but that's taking it too far, man! /s 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:04 PM
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Hey, didn't know you're a musician? What kind of music?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:01 PM
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Ah, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:27 AM
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But it wasn't really about the dance industry, was it? I mean the group did their own thing. No coach, no manager or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:22 AM
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People say it won’t make you feel better once you experience it but I feel like it would in my case. It will make you feel better. I have been in your situation and before/after was a day and night difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:05 AM
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Of course I would. An exception would be if I am in no position to because I was struggling myself. Or if it wasn't a close friend I really care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:39 AM
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The picture thread was a real morale-booster somehow. Everybody's in high spirits now. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:44 PM
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She's pretty and seems to be fun to be around. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:31 PM
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Really? You didn't strike me as someone who doesn't. Can't say why but I didn't get that impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:37 PM
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Bottoms up! 🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:59 PM
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And i'm from germany. Seems like we are legion here at PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:55 PM
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You got serious style, bro. Looking good! 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:29 PM
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Wow, beautiful! But the cuddling vids with your cat top your pictures. 🙂😺
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:29 PM
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Mugatu to the rescue!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:10 PM
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Hast recht. Kein Bier vor vier! Remind me: 7 hours
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:16 AM
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As if you weren't already. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:08 AM
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🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:06 AM
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I know exactly what you mean. It's basically "rate me"- mentality versus "rate my picture"- mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:21 AM
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I want to see an action movie starring guy 10 (underrated) and guy 11. Now! 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:05 AM
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Gorgeous and likable looking, especially the second picture. If I saw you at a bar, I probably wouldn't approach you at first because I'd think "1. too good-looking and 2. no glasses (dealbreaker for me)". But then after a while, because you look really likable, I'd order a round of drinks and drag you to the pool table or force you to play a round of darts, willing or not. Make of that what you will. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:13 AM
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Oh, I can easily top that compliment with a personalised one. 🙂 I don't know if you want to reveal it, but you are number 9, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:54 AM
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how being attractive skews my view of the world and I’ll just never understand their struggles and something about Chad That was my plan actually! 😅Immediately after seeing that it was you. You look great. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:58 AM
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Definitely above average in my opinion. If the average woman looked like them, I'd be a happy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:33 AM
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Wow! I am impressed. Lots of good- looking people. 🙂❤ Kudos for making it happen, /u/figuringMylife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:02 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about?!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:09 AM
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Fuck: Taylor Swift. But only to have her sign an autograph with dedication for /u/death_by_1000_cats
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:40 PM
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Aw, thank you. 🙂 IIRC you are the girl with impeccable taste in music.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:54 PM
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See? I’m not shallow!” Damn. I missed that. I understood that OP was in no position to judge, but this "see I'm not shallow" makes it way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:38 PM
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For real. I would have never thought that you'd reach the goal so fast. Or at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:35 PM
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Oh man, that's just sad. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:29 PM
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One thing that comes to mind is that expressing certain feelings can trigger male protective instincts. Which would aid in survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:00 PM
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I become less wonderful and I can understand the temptation to claim... you were bad all along and now this is the true you unearthed. But that is a very uncharitable interpretation. Very important point. I am wondering if it isn't only uncharitable...it could even be a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:49 PM
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I think I had you confused for another user Probably yes. 🙂 I didn't know you were a bit old-fashioned And that's putting it mildly. 😅 Romance for the win!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:23 PM
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🙄 I am speaking for courtship. Of course it is romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:20 PM
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Also it's not wrong to want to marry out of love and romance. I agree! Love and romance should be the reason for getting married. That's why I am constantly arguing against undermining seemingly outdated concepts like courtship for example. Like Mark said, we have all that stuff for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:18 PM
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I know all this. Which proves my point: Marriage is more attractive to women. Women want to marry more than men. Maybe for all the wrong reasons, but that doesn't change the fact that they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:12 PM
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Not as important because marriage in itself is already more attractive to women than to men. But sure, it is important, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:05 PM
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I don't understand why so many guys here are wanting to rush the death of WaW. I think it's because too many pillars have already fallen. WaW doesn't work in isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:25 PM
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I still think you should have been open about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:55 PM
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I think the WaW effect is important for men to feel the madonna kind of attraction that makes him want to wife her up. This. And it's a big one. People seem to underestimate how important at least some romantic/Disney delusions are to make marriage attractive for the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:52 PM
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😔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:52 PM
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The German guy's OK. 🙋‍♂️ Thank you. I love reading your anecdotes. And I think it shows that you interviewed a lot of interesting people working for magazines.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:49 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:39 PM
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I honestly didn't know that so many women had problems with it. When I brought up porn, my ex-gfs just said "let's watch some porn together".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:34 PM
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/u/aldabruzzo has always been one of the most important red pill guys at PPD. Unfiltered truth and experience. /u/exit_sandman and /u/cxj were fountains of knowledge and experience. And likable af. So sad that they are gone. /u/Mark_Freed is my current favorite. 🇩🇪🙋‍♂️🇮🇳 I don't know if he identifies as red pill, but he definitely is. I admire his integrity, growth-mentality and thoughtfulness. /u/GuitarsBack is a great guy, too. I love his positive energy and how he talks about red pill concept…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:31 PM
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Not really, no. Not at all. The theory seems to be that less attractive women want to make up for their unattractiveness by over-performing. And that attractive women would rest on their laurels and think that it's not necessary for them to be good in bed. But that doesn't seem to be what's happening in real- life at all. It's the opposite in a lot of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:59 PM
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My husband eats 2000+ calories I always saw that as the real male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:32 PM
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😃
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:22 PM
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just aren't meeting the right women. Oh yeah, this is definitely one of the top reasons! But it's something that can be a problem for attractive guys, too. Maybe that's why I didn't think of it in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:12 PM
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Absolutely. The number one reason (besides looks) why many men are unsuccessful with women seems to be inexperience. That's what's holding a lot of men back. A close second is self- sabotage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:59 PM
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Thank you! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:42 PM
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Same here. Prefer the good girls and the only exceptions are the villains in the first Arkham games.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:33 PM
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Yeah, that's how I see it, too. And some girls will flip the FUCK out if you suggest it And that would be a red flag during the vetting process. because in that case I'm just helping her more easily attain something she wants already. I did that with a close female friend. She was going through a phase of depression and I didn't know what else to do so I dragged her to the gym. I actually used the quote from "The Godfather", "I'll make you an offer you can't refuse". 😃 Turns out she just had han…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:26 PM
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I am not working out currently because of health issues but my last routine was: Day A: Bench press /Barbell row / Squat Day B: Pull-ups / Overhead press / Deadlift Three workouts per week always alternating between A and B. A very "back to basics"- approach. Didn't want hitting the gym to be a life-style anymore and it was perfect for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:16 PM
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I don't do split training anymore but I'd definitely do shoulders on chest-tricep day if I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:58 PM
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Good points. How do you feel about introducing your gf to the wonders of the gym? Or does she have to already workout when you meet? I think many people don't hit the gym or do an exercise routine because they don't know how to do it properly. They tried it once or twice but with a shitty routine that demotivated them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:19 PM
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Sad. I love weddings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:33 PM
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Oh damn, that explains it...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:10 PM
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So you're saying it's fine if men are looking for casual sex with a woman for temporary paltry momentary orgasms as long as they are open about their intentions and treating her well?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:50 PM
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😃 I don't like casual sex and judge people for having casual sex but even I don't think that casual sex == treating women like cum dumpsters. So you hate men who are looking for casual sex. Okay. How would you describe women who aren't looking for a relationship and who sleep around? Would you call them dick- obsessed cock sockets? Shallow sluts? Anything like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:40 PM
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The skinsuit is obviously a substitute for casual sex. And your plan to have casual sex with an actual woman seems to be: Find a woman you don't find attractive. Put nice- coins in until she... ...throws herself at you. And then, the magic ingredient: Don't reject her when she does. Yeah, I don't know...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:24 PM
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Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:02 PM
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It’s finally just so fun to try and understand these things. Definitely. I always feel bad when I can't contribute when you make a high-effort post. I am more of an anecdote guy than a philosopher guy. 🙂 But I love reading the different takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:04 PM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:01 PM
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Damn...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:45 PM
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Nice flair!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:24 PM
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This is nice, I am starting to feel like royalty. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:56 PM
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If you're not overweight the rule of thumb is half your bodyweight (kilo) in grams of dextrose. 80kg bodyweight --> 40g dextrose. For a lifting session.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:45 PM
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I just want mutual appreciation for the efforts on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:43 PM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:26 PM
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It's definitely not easy. You could keep your workout short and take dextrose in water to help you through it. And maybe something with caffeine, if you don't hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:25 PM
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One of the reasons often is: Men looking for casual sex approach and pursue them aggressively. Men looking for a relationship often don't approach them at all and often do not pursue them aggressively or even make any move.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:15 PM
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No discussion should be banned. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:16 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:57 PM
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Many women who are feminists only post for a short time here because their arguments don't hold up and they lose every debate. So, yeah, the female regulars are less radical than the men. Female visitors on the other hand can be as radical as the male regulars. They keep us amped up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:52 PM
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Good points. I wish I could say something more constructive but ultimately I don't care about the exact reasons behind it. It's like retroactive jealousy or an aversion to high n-counts. It's something that bothers you and you don't even know why. You can then try to find out why exactly it bothers you, but in my experience, it doesn't change anything. Trying to get to the root of it is commendable, but I have, for myself, decided just to accept that it is like it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:40 PM
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The term "mansplaining" has changed its meaning. It kind of made sense originally. It meant that a man explains something about the female experience to a woman. Something that she understands much better because she herself has actually experienced it. But he thinks he knows better than her. For example how hard or not it is to be a mother. Or how it feels to be cat- calles. Now feminists seem to have forgotten the original meaning and just use it for "a man condescendingly explains anything to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:31 PM
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If it was close friends, I wouldn’t want to risk hurting them. I completely agree with you. You don't date the ex of close friends. Friends you care about. Bro- code doesn't allow it! But casual friends? A guy you don't really like that much? Nope. Some bro- code rules apply to buddies, but certainly not this one. I wouldn't even discuss or debate it. He is not a close friend you care about, end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:03 AM
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I usually don’t let that type of thing bother me Why wouldn't it bother you? They are being rude af...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:46 AM
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Man, that makes less sense than nofap in my opinion. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:03 AM
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I have no idea where you're going with this. I made my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:45 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:42 AM
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Purple pill is not dating advice. Blue pill is not dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:40 AM
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FDS is dating advice for women...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:36 AM
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Most common dating advice is "lose some weight" or "don't be a couch potato, be active". But TRP says "lift heavy!" And this is an important difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:32 AM
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I learned the basics from a PUA message board and a single page handbook on a website. I was completely clueless before and it helped a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:30 AM
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Yes, it happens. Orbiter/friendzone dynamics can be really really problematic for everyone involved. It can wreak havoc on social circles in a worst case scenario. We talk about it a lot for a reason. And I understand that it's often difficult for women to handle such a situation. You decide to distance yourself from him (your "friend") and suddenly you look like a disloyal bitch to some people. You don't want to hurt his feelings by being blunt and suddenly you look like a manipulative bitch to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:55 AM
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Well deserved. 👊 Got some serious Michael Jai White vibes from the pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:40 AM
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What did the poor wall do to deserve being kicked?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:57 PM
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Everything the light touches is the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:51 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:43 PM
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wow!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:42 PM
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Thanks. I honestly didn't know what else to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:49 PM
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No, that's not accurate. TRP just says that love is not unconditional. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:05 PM
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Drawing/painting comes to mind because one of my gfs was really good at it and I really think I found her even more attractive because of her drawings and paintings. Playing an instrument and singing can be attractive, too. Depending on how she expresses herself through the music. It somehow amplifies both character qualities and non-qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:40 PM
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Man, that reminds me of shopping for clothes. There's nothing in the store that appeals to you but when you enter with your gf, good stuff suddenly materialises into existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:54 PM
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I mean, TRP blames both. As a red piller you blame both yourself for fucking up and the current dating market for being fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:38 PM
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So if you call the subset of men with internal locus of control, taking responsibility for their struggles as true TRP men. What do you call men who think the problem is - the dating market, the unrealistic expectations, feminism, etc. All factors external to themselves True TRP and true red pillers blame both. Themselves and the fucked up dating market. Source: me 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:37 PM
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Due to this, for me personally, I would rather have a partner who is blue collar without college education who is making a respectable 60k You make it sound like that makes you an enlightened humanitarian or something. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:23 AM
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It’s interesting how many men here claim women care more about looks then men Do they say that? I thought the consensus is just that women rate men's looks harsher than men rate women's. That doesn't necessarily mean they "care" more about looks. Women care about a lot of stuff when judging a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:45 PM
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Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:44 PM
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Habe you ever tried triptans? They are a magic weapon against migraines. But they might clash with your anxiety meds, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:44 PM
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Yup. It's really really fucked up and there's definitely gonna be chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:35 PM
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I think it's done intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:29 PM
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It's going to be a lot worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:26 PM
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It was very different many years ago. Stuff that got you "that's not only misogynistic, it's wrong" back then, gets you an "of course it's true but everybody knows it, you don't need red pill to tell you that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:11 PM
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Haha, true, ngl. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:54 PM
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Well done telling her off!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:52 PM
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Believe me, I only know it because I was more or less forced to try it. Even as a full red pill guy, the concept of spinning plates and the shotgun approach was just too much for me. Then one of my best friends got married. He and his fiancee gave me an invitation with a +1 for the wedding. It was meant as a motivation for me to start dating again, so I wouldn't show up alone at the wedding. (Bless my friends! It worked). So to find a woman to go to the wedding with, I couldn't waste time and pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:08 PM
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It just feels wrong... And that never goes away! 🙂😃 (If you're the kind of guy who just really doesn't like it) If you don't have sex while shotgunning, it doesn't feel as wrong. And know that they often do the same. Like the girls would feel hurt if they knew. You can let them know. Especially in your 30s most women kind of expect you to do it. I really don't like it but there's no reason to shoot yourself in the foot when most women are okay with it and see it as a welcome challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:57 PM
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Yup. But remember that people don't necessarily think that they have to make up for a lack of looks by being nice/enthusiastic/whatever. "Dating down" in looks doesn't automatically give you an enthusiastic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:19 PM
2

Yeah, lots of red pill noobs around. That's why I said "that's black pill, not red pill". I didn't say "that's black pill men, not red pill men", because I know that lots of red pill guys have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:14 PM
1

Nope, that's black pill, not red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:09 PM
1

They might have that impression because relationship- minded men don't approach and pursue women as much as men who only want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:21 PM
2

Taking things for granted is the relationship- killer. And there's not always bad intentions behind it. Some things we just don't see. I have been guilty of taking things for granted, too, and I could slap my past self silly for it. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:11 PM
1

You have to have done both, serial and parallel dating, to understand how much of an advantage parallel dating is. It affects you on many different levels. I hate it but the shotgun approach so much more effective than the sniper approach that I couldn't in good conscience tell guys not to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:35 PM
1

A woman of culture, I see. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:22 PM
-1

If a man is doing that then he needs to seek help as he obviously has issues that need addressing. It's not as obvious as you seem to think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:24 AM
20

Of course women are allowed to do all of that. And men are allowed to reject women for any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:21 AM
1

We shouldn’t, and don’t, if that’s what matters to men 🙂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:07 AM
5

What I hear is I’m only interested in sex with women as fast and as cheap as possible. Oh, I have no doubt that that's the real problem in many or maybe even most cases. But there are men who love courtship. I actually prefer taking it slow. What I don't like is when she expects courtship from me and takes it for granted while she didn't expect it from men the past. It didn't happen a lot tbh. But it did happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:06 AM
1

The ending of "Inside Out" made a friend of me cry. Every time he watches the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:49 AM
10

All true but also: If you're a slut, why should you get good girl treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:01 AM
3

It is counter- productive. It boggles my mind that so many women don't even try to understand men and see that it might not be a good idea to talk about their sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:25 AM
6

They seem to be terribly afraid of looking like a "boring good girl". That's one of the reasons they often tell their bfs about their less than flattering sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:21 AM
10

What if every woman say around and thought I wonder if he treated his last girl to steak house dinners but he only takes me to chili’s. I wouldn't blame her. Especially not when I am giving her the impression or tell her that I am a guy who has just decided that chili is enough for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:19 AM
1

Details vary. But she will tell you a story where she didn't make the guy wait sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:08 AM
1

Easy. They tell you sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:00 AM
3

Nope, you should be aiming for a woman who made the guys before you wait, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:42 PM
3

😂😂😂 Have fun! 🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:36 PM
6

Yup. This is it. Courtship is fun. Being a sucker is not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:29 PM
1

Ah, I see. Quality is there but your personal preference wasn't met. So there's still hope it will be a good Batman movie for me. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:00 PM
1

wow...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:01 PM
1

it's been the young men who are supposed to get up out of their seat for Yup. A simple case of "being a gentleman".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:18 PM
1

Young women are often socialized to be agreeable at their own expense My male friends and I have been socialised/raised to be agreeable at our own expense, too. I really wonder if it's a gendered thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:59 PM
2

I am scared, too. But I wouldn't blame the kids too much. I actually liked school as a young guy because I found it interesting. Not boring. If I had to go to school today, knowing that I could learn much more about any topic on the curriculum by browsing the internet for 20 minutes than by sitting in a classroom for 45 minutes, I'd probably be much less enthusiastic. And bored out of my mind. (As in "I'd probably want to shoot myself"). We are just wired differently now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:35 PM
2

You can run in dreams? What magic is this?!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:46 PM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:09 PM
1

Need is a strong word. If I were writing a love poem to them or wanted to make them feel special I’d say “need” Oh, wow, I need to think about this. I don't want to see "I need you" as just a romantic exaggeration. But maybe it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 03:07 PM
1

I agree. Nothing's wrong with a husband saying "I need you in my life" to his wife. I understand that you could call it co- dependent, but I don't think it's a bad thing. They both decided to build the kind of relationship where they need each other. "I don't need anybody" sounds unhealthy to me. Narcissistic even.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:47 PM
1

I would never tell my partner what to do with their appearance But why though? He doesn't have to look good for anybody but you. And I agree with willow: "subtleties don't work on men" or at least not in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:09 PM
3

Yes, definitely. Many people make the mistake of believing that game-overs aren't real. But they are. They exist. I just think some people will never care or want to enough, so they’ll be stuck a certain way. My brother often talks about it. Growth mentality. And it seems like some people just don't have it and, more importantly, can't acquire it or even seem to grasp the concept. Now, you could say that they have themselves to blame, but both my brother and I think that some people really aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:00 PM
1

Oh no. I am so looking foreard to seeing it. 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:07 PM
1

I agree. This is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:03 PM
1

i just don’t understand OPs reason for posting this Ah, I see. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:43 AM
1

Wtf? I really don't understand what the problem is. 🙁
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:23 AM
6

Ngl, your could-beat-up-your-man comments do freak me out a bit. It's really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:13 AM
2

🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:51 PM
2

And the US is like ten times the size of Germany!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:49 PM
3

That's not a female specific problem. Lots of people are bad at setting healthy boundaries. From a red pill point of view it's one of the things that make "nice guys" unattractive. They are people pleasers and can't set healthy boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:48 PM
2

It's easier to choose immigrants based on skills needed today than Ah, I see. We don't do that here. That's probably why I have a different point of view on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:35 PM
0

Nothing weird about talking about attractiveness. I haven't said they shouldn't be together or anything. And I have said that she is good- looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:32 PM
0

I don't know about her personality, I am just talking about looks. I'd say he is easily a 9. He looks like an AI came up with a perfect face and created him to remind us mere mortals of our flawed existence. And he is tall on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:25 PM
3

It's a double standard, but Western countries need immigrants to prevent their population from shrinking. Does anybody really believe this? 😃 I am sure we could come up with ways to encourage people to have kids. I don't believe for a second that we need to import foreigners just to have more young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:19 PM
2

She is good-looking but the dude is ridiculously good-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:04 PM
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Yikes!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:25 PM
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Wow. The 1-10 scale has always been stupid but now it's just ridiculously stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:22 PM
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Gamer Gate helped spread manosphere knowledge. Feminists attacked gamers --> gamers became aware of feminist talking points --> gamers saw rebuttals and memes of manospherians --> red pills for everyone --> spill over into real life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:53 PM
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🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:41 AM
1

There are uggos who can sleep around. There are more uggos who can't sleep around. There are average looking guys who can sleep around. There are more average guys who can't sleep around. So, just because you know some uggos, it doesn't mean that everybody can sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:20 AM
1

I assume every guy can sleep around. Yeah, well, you assume wrong. Yeah I know that about my relationship too Many guys don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:46 AM
1

I don't do hookups Me neither. The idea is that your girlfriend knows that you could sleep around if you wanted to, but instead you chose to be with her and only her. It's also important for your own mindset. You know for sure that you didn't just commit to her because you didn't want to be lonely and she happened to be there, right time, right place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:37 AM
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She will have a much better life if she doesn't make it her default assumption. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:47 PM
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I know exactly what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:30 PM
1

Everybody loves Green Day!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:27 PM
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Becky thinks you are only pretending to be nice because you want to sleep with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:24 PM
2

They're happy to have one but they also want to be attractive enough to be seen as a hookup guy by girls. This is the guy all men should aspire to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:21 PM
1

TRP is definitely not for neurodivergent guys. TRP should have a disclaimer that clearly states it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:13 PM
2

Sounds like the gym is too strenous for you. It should be a safe- space and it clearly isn't. I think you would do better with just doing a barbell workout at home to stay in shape. Overhead press, barbell rows and squats (squats with low weight because you don't have a cage). Enough to work your whole body. It's not ideal, but it's enough to stay in shape, even be athletic, and you don't need machines, a bench or equipment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:09 PM
8

🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:00 PM
1

I didn't really need to be good at guitar. I did vocals and rhythm guitar in a punkrock band. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:44 PM
7

Yup. I am okay with it and even encourage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:35 PM
12

I wouldn't have a problem with any of the stuff you listed. But the fact that they were romantically involved changes things. Not because I'd trust her less but because I don't want to meet or know anything about guys who have had sex with her in the past. Retroactive jealousy. So in short: If they didn't have sex in the past, I wouldn't have a problem with anything on the list. If they did have sex in the past, I wouldn't marry her in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:28 PM
1

Yes, please. It's hard to fill the role of romantic male friend and the role of platonic male friend simultaneously. Or rather: impossible. I always saw it as a plus when my gfs had a close platonic male friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:35 PM
4

Imagine that that many people love that part the most! 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:22 PM
1

Oh, yeah, one of the classic double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:20 PM
1

No, not really. Just trying to make fun of my TRP mindset. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:41 PM
1

You're already hitting the gym. 🤔 Can't think of anything else. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:26 PM
2

I'd wish you luck. But you don't need it. So... have fun! 🙂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:25 PM
5

For real!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:38 PM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:36 PM
2

Imagine for example a co-worker doesn't like you and he is trying to put you down in front of others. Asks you a lot of questions with the intention of making you look stupid and trying to provoke you. It looks like you are sitting in an interrogation chair and he is the cop. That is the frame he established and the frame he holds. Now, you could stay relaxed and give witty answers to his questions, showing that it doesn't phase you. Your colleagues see that he fails in provoking you and think y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:29 PM
2

Only within a relationship. (With one exception once).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:43 PM
1

They even admit that they do it to me and their female friends because “I can’t talk about this stuff with the guys.” Ha, in my case it was always my female friends saying "I can't talk about this stuff with the girls". Well, I don't see it as being an "emotional tampon". But the "sharing and unloading" wasn't as mutual as I would have hoped and the disappointment over it with a female platonic friend was what made me go red pill back then. So in my case, no, it wasn't "I want more- ships".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:13 PM
1

Never! I never had friendships with girls or women I was crushing on. They were attractive but not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:58 PM
3

The story makes a lot of sense when you consider that I have been working out for most of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:55 PM
1

Single people making X are going to pay the same rate of taxes. No, they aren't. Like I said you are being punished here in Germany for not being married or in a "marriage-like union". The system is complicated (it's not just something like "10 percent more if you are not married") but marriage is financially encouraged with lower taxes. Healthcare costs and post secondary educational costs in the US are much higher than in most western Euro countries. Yes and both healthcare and education sucks…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:54 PM
0

oh...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:51 PM
13

Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Always had. Does it affect how you view women? Not really. They confirm red pill views. What do you learn from your female friends? Enjoying life. What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships? The energy is different. Can't explain it. Both male and female friends are awesome, but different. Plus: It's nice being around attractive women even when you are platonic friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:41 PM
2

Thanks, I'll go without.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:35 PM
2

The teachers suffer from internalised misogyny. They follow the messages they were brainwashed with by the patriarchy. Which means they are subconsciously "othering" women by leaving them out and making men the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:33 PM
1

I am really good at teaching kids stuff like playing the guitar or helping them with math. I somehow understand exactly what they aren't getting/why they are struggling and quickly find solutions. I could probably have cashed in on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:30 PM
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Rarely. Almost no women. Some who do a bit of cardio. The only ones who workout effectively are the ones who are dragged to the gym by Chad. There was one month when the gym was full of women who had just signed up. I really wondered for weeks what was going on. Until I saw a huge crowd in front of the movie theatre. Asked the cashier what movie drew so many people. Turns out it was 50 Shades of Grey. 😃 So yeah the gym was full of women for about a month or two. But the apparently lost interest …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:25 PM
5

I am not shifting goalposts because I am not trying to win a debate. Just thinking about how these guys must feel. And that's important for Marc's "will they be willing to fight in a war?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:21 PM
3

Yup. But they pay more than others because they can't find a girlfriend. Paying taxes would be awesome if they were put to good use and you felt like you got something back. They are not put to good use.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:42 AM
3

they are paying into that community Yup. For others who need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:31 AM
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and not wanting to give back to the community. I don't blame anybody for not wanting to give back considering how much they pay in taxes. Especially considering that there's a bachelor tax here. My incel friends who are terribly lonely basically have to pay a fine for failing to get a girlfriend/wife. So they are working over six months per year just for taxes and welfare. That's more than one should expect anybody to give back to the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:24 AM
2

Yup. His fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:12 AM
5

I have been working out for most of my life. The gym feels like home to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:21 AM
1

Didn't know. Wow!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:30 AM
2

Anyone like the thrill of negotiating? Bargaining? Haha, no, I hate it. 😃 I understand the appeal, but it's not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:26 AM
0

Yup!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:16 AM
2

No. But it's settling if a woman thinks her partner is a 5 when he's actually a 6.5. And that happens a lot. Perceived SMV/RMV is more important than actual SMV/RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:12 AM
2

Depends on whether she looks likable or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:05 PM
1

Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:47 PM
4

4x50€ per month would have actually been cheaper than my last LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:11 PM
3

It's not necessarily cheaper. You'd need to do the math in each case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:58 PM
5

Yeah, that won't happen. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:55 PM
5

Prostitution is legal here. Doesn't seem to make a difference. Most guys don't want to have sex with prostitutes for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:51 PM
1

Why not though? Man, you've got piano player hands!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:35 PM
0

I have very slender, soft hands that i think look feminine. You mean a piano player's hands? Hands that were made to play the most sophisticated solo instrument ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:13 PM
1

for a man being skinny or skinny fat is the least desirable body type and worse than being chubby or fat I agree. There are guys who look good skinny. But some guys just look terminally- ill skinny. And they do way worse than chubby guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:53 PM
1

Yeah, he is leading with the worst picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:50 PM
1

The original question wasn't about steroids. Just about physical transformation. And we did point out that he was using steroids and that TRP doesn't actively encourage steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:00 PM
1

So sad, but yeah, there are still people who think that. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:58 PM
1

welcome back!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:54 PM
2

Lol, no. But creatine is a godsend. Especially if you're doing around 5 reps per set. You will notice that lifting feels less strenous/exhausting because the muscle is supplied with energy during the last reps. It feels much less painful. In my opinion this is the biggest pro of creatine. It makes lifting more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:47 PM
2

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:43 PM
2

Do they think other men struggling should take that path? Yes, of course. Of course they should! How's that even a question? Do we not emphasise the importance of lifting weights enough? 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:56 PM
2

I had the revenge fantasy of seeing women struggle and ending up alone, yes. And then in my 30s, the revenge fantasy finally came true. 🥳 But it turned out that I couldn't really enjoy seeing them suffer except in some cases. Schadenfreude is not really my thing. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:38 PM
9

"It just happened" is a classic for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:19 PM
3

Sure. I am not even against using steroids. But it is nothing that TRP actively endorses. We say "lift heavy!" That's not negotiable. Whether or not somebody wants to take it even further is up to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:18 PM
1

🙂❤
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:01 PM
1

TRP doesn't really endorse using steroids. (Some red pill guys do though).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:00 PM
2

Sehr gut verständlich 🙂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:12 AM
23

The term is only used because Jordan Peterson often brings it up. It's one of the traits in the big 5 personality test. So it's a technical term. There's no other reason that men use the term agreeable instead of nice or considerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:05 AM
2

wow
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:59 PM
3

Nah. It's not "you can't fight, 60yo men" but "you don't need to fight, you have done your part, 60yo men". They don't want to make male privilege look like life- long servitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:18 PM
1

Does she know how much the dating market sucks for unattractive 40yo women? Advice might fall on deaf ears if she doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:15 PM
4

Yup. A good relationship and sex will make you less unhappy or even happy. My first relationship was like the final piece of the puzzle. Everything suddenly made sense. And I was never as unhappy as I was before ever again in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:30 PM
1

thanks 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:48 PM
5

I'd love to claim that I somehow overcame my anger with intelligence or something... but maybe I just got tired of being angry? 😃 One thing was that I was once bluepilled and clueless. Now I see women who have unrealistic standards and expectations and women who act stupid not necessarily as evil anymore but just as bluepilled and clueless, too. Raised that way and fed the wrong messages. Oh, and seeing that while women do benefit from female privilege, many or even most of them don't really cap…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:46 PM
1

No problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:28 PM
2

Yes. This.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:36 PM
2

Not in real life. But poppy was clearly thinking of us guys here at PPD who talk about feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:13 PM
1

It's true that feminism rarely comes up in real life. But if you are part of the manosphere you will be confronted with feminism a lot. By actual feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:09 PM
1

miss me? You know we did! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:38 PM
1

Well, there isn't a store to go find your ideal woman Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:35 AM
2

Son.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:47 PM
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Guilty as charged. 😅 (Though not to that extend. Would never say or think "disgusting").
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:58 PM
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But how would squads hurt? Whatever she is doing now to maintain a flat stomach will be easier when she does heavy squats because the squads burn calories. Yeah, I get that low bf means she will not have a big bubble butt, but definitely a nicer butt than she has without squads. So in my opinion, squads would have two main advantages: 1. Burn calories and make dieting easier 2. Nice butt despite low bf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:17 PM
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Maintaining a flat stomach is much easier when you do heavy squats. Two birds with one stone. But as long as you're not overweight, your ass will be fine no matter the size. Don't worry about it. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:24 PM
1

Amen!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:17 PM
1

In terms of dating only? Or are you asking what we would do with our lives if we didn't have to worry about dating? (I find both questions interesting btw).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:15 PM
1

It's like bums were made for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:42 PM
1

Hand. Holding the bicep is for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:42 AM
1

I didn't sleep around after my transformation from unsuccessful clueless nerd to reasonably good looking guy with (at least some) options. Had a four year long relationship with the first girl I had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:41 AM
5

Sent a dude who attacked me in a beer tent flying with a Judo throw. I have no idea how I did it, but he was really flying and then sliding down a table, knocking over beer mugs left and right. I was a harmless- looking skinny nerd with glasses back then and he was a tattooed guy who was even taller than me. I got standing ovations from the crowd, even the people who lost their beer thanks to me were cheering. 😃🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:32 AM
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"Never been in a relationship and never had sex" is baggage in most cases. (Depending on age, of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:12 AM
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Jesus Christ, what criminal mind came up with a game like this? 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:53 AM
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Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:48 AM
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do you think girls are being unreasonable when they say they don't want their man to look at porn while they're in a relationship? Yes, unreasonable. It's just porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:46 AM
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😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:18 AM
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Why would that be a problem to a potential partner It is a problem because it might correlate with what you said earlier: I’d love a long term monogamous relationship but I don’t like most people after a while lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:23 AM
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If I said I never did, I would be lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:11 AM
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I was only addressing the "escapism"- part of the original post. And I don't think that tradcons are more escapist in their thinking than progressives. Progressives often seem to drift way more into escapism. Just picture a cliché social justice warrior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:08 AM
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Interesting. 🇬🇧 That's why I have Germany in my flair. Take everything I say with a grain of salt!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:27 PM
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It's considered weird to go up and talk to a woman out of the blue. Yup. Cold approaches seem to be even less accepted here in Germany. But it's not as if cold approaches were super appreciated in the USA, right? In Germany , if you're not educated yourself, you have little chance with university-educated women. True. But isn't it the same overseas? I mean: Dating sucks here. I don't know if it sucks even more or slightly less elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:34 PM
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Why not look elsewhere? Where exactly? If you aren't religious and not looking for a religious woman? Where do you find a woman that hasn't dated an asshole? "Why not look elsewhere" sounds great, but where is that elsewhere exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:30 PM
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I honestly don't know how to answer that question. I have no dating experience in other countries, so I can't really make a goodcomparison. I don't think that dating here is that different. TRP concepts apply here in Germany, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:24 PM
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Of course they would have. For example the whole beta bux concept relies on women not exclusively dating toxic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:09 PM
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If you're mad that the women who exclusively date men you deem toxic If only they actually exclusively dated men we deem toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:01 PM
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😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:12 PM
2

She gives off Jodi Arias vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:05 PM
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Nobody cares. Many care but don't talk about it. Nobody cares if you care They do when someone they are interested in does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:02 PM
2

"Axe-peshally" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:33 PM
1

wow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:22 PM
13

You are literally a danger to women. You are exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:51 PM
2

Awesome! 🙂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:47 PM
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Is it some sort of escapism, I think it's the opposite. I see many things we associate with a progressive lifestyle as escapism. Dreaming of being married with children doesn't seem more escapist than dreaming of a happy life-long polygamous relationship to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:19 PM
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I found it strangely wholesome tbh. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:55 PM
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This should be on the TRP side bar of what NOT to do It really should.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:42 PM
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i feel like I've just betrayed everything i stood for for the last 21 years 😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:36 PM
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I can almost guarantee this song and dance has worked on other women, he's successfully guilt-tripped I know what you mean. I have seen it irl but the guys were way better with their song and dance. I don't believe that this guy has been successful with his approach before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:35 PM
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Damn, that was tough to read...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:23 PM
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No it’s sexist by THE definition. THE definition that came from where? Fell from the tree? Was created by patriarchs? Or, maybe, became THE definition with decades of feminism at universities? Edgy bro! Lol, you think the reason for not caring about feminist ideology must be wanting to be edgy? That's funny. But no, I don't feel edgy for not believing that men are a privileged oppressor class that oppresses women with acts of sexism. I feel very non edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:45 PM
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We don't care about stupid terms like "sexism" and the definitions and feminist framework behind it. We don't strive to be seen as the good ones in the fantasy- world of oppression feminists made up. So yeah, it's sexist by definition, you are right. It is sexist by their definition. Sexist in their framework of their ideology. Feminism defines it as sexist. So? Does that mean we should suddenly collectively lose our minds over it? Because feminism says so? Because feminism says"it's wrong, mkay…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:28 PM
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That would be my guess, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:47 AM
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Pretty. IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:02 AM
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"Therefore, in order to generate new knowledge about MGTOW, I am not using a feminist anthropological perspective." Shut up and take my money! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:51 AM
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Well put.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:49 AM
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That's really just a matter of personal preference. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:45 AM
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I think they are looks- matched enough. He could probably have pulled a hotter girl. She is more pretty than hot. But that doesn't mean that they aren't looks- matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:39 AM
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A few things: Lie about your prefered age range. It makes you look like a creep to many people. Don't say "18-28; ideally 20-26". Say "21-28". If you should end up with someone younger than 21 (which I wouldn't recommend), you can say you are breaking your rules because of insane compatibility or whatever. You look fine face- wise. Don't worry about it. Listen to people who give fashion advice and hairstyle advice. Don't say "it's my trademark, I don't want to change it". Fashion and hairstyle i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:16 AM
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but holy crap did it run long, I wouldn't survive 3h in the theatre. I can't wait to see the movie, but I'll have to wait until I can watch it at home, damn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:59 AM
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I am going to side with Smurfs here and say you need to lighten up a bit. You seem to have a lot going for you. But it does seem like you have to lighten up a bit. I couldn't tell you how exactly to do it. It's just something that kind of emanates from your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:57 AM
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That's inexcusable. When you're in a relationship you have to look good for one person and one person only. And contrary to popular belief, it's not you. Look good in the eyes of your partner, guys and girls!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:22 PM
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Thank you guys for making her last weeks the best last weeks possible. Being able to leave his world in peace is so valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:39 AM
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😫
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:46 PM
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So it makes more sense to frame the dating imbalance as a result of male horniness Well, your explanation and hypergamy aren't mutually exclusive. Male horniness plays a huge role in imbalances and TRP acknowleges it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:10 PM
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I wasn't talking about morality at all. I was talking about base instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:47 PM
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whereas women are more likely to have a moral compass and won’t be comfortable sleeping with their partner after cheating on them It says that it's not the moral compass that makes them not sleep with their partner after cheating on them. It's hypergamy that makes them not sleep with their partner after cheating on them. You can of course freely choose whichever explanation you like more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:30 PM
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I have in the past. Not because of health but because I was interested in the meditative aspect of it after reading a book. Five days of not eating anything. A bit of diluted apple- juice because the brain needs carbs. Benefits: A feeling of freedom you can't describe. It's unreal. I'd like to but I really can't describe how it feels. A feeling of security. Feeling and knowing that you don't need food. The idea of starving is like a primal fear that you don't notice you had until during fasting,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:24 PM
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Men's instincts don't send the "stop sleeping with your partner"- signal. Has nothing to do with horniness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:04 PM
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Little sisters for the win!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:01 PM
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It's a difference in instincts. Womens' instincts are hypergamous. Men's instincts are polygamous. When a woman in a relationship comes across a super attractive man, her instincts signal "stop sleeping with your partner and sleep with the other guy instead!" When a man in a relationshil comes across a super attractive woman, his instincts signal "sleep with her, too!" The end-result might be the exact same. Cheating or a break- up. Or they stay together despite the tempation. But while the end-…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:59 PM
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🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:41 PM
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Nope! Disney romance marriage or gtfo. : )
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:54 PM
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They rarely get wet when a dude punches a hole into a dry wall The scary thing is that some do find it attractive. Certainly not a lot of women, but some actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:49 PM
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Yeah. I still want to show the male point of view here: Imagine there are thousands of people that desperately want something. Can be anything. But they desperately want it. And then one of them tells you: "I am now going to get that thing that I desperately want and I want you to pay me 50.000$ for getting it. After all we are sharing it." It does make sense because you are sharing it but when you know that there are thousands of people out there who want the exact same thing and who wouldn't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:13 PM
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I do care a lot. But it doesn't make me horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:56 PM
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I had thoughts lol. 😂👍 Well, my first thought was: Their relationship style sucks anyway, they're lost. 😃 Second thought: When I think of all the 30+ single women I met irl who desperately wanted to have children and how some even thought about doing it on their own without a guy in their life (actually thinking about getting pregnant on "accident" or sperm donation), I know that many women see it as "her child", not "our child" and certainly not "his child", and I'd probably charge her 10.000$ …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:44 PM
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Of course you are right. I am not trying to argue against doing cardio at all. 😃 And sure, it will help with lifting. No doubt. It's just that people talk a lot about looks like "gym body", "runner's body", "climber's body" or whatever body. When in reality you can look like any of these just by lifting weights and adjusting your diet. And cardiovascular support is real, of course, but it doesn't play that much of a role when you are really strong. For example when I was doing sets with reps of …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:17 PM
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I'm also pretty sure the fibers can't even adapt between types, Exactly! They can't. But it's a common misconception. Ultimately, it doesn't matter for guys and girls who just want to look great and be active and do fun activities. It only matters for top- athletes who are competitive. Lifting weights will always be by far the best foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:51 AM
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It covers all the muscles you need for running a marathon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:24 AM
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That only matters when you are really advanced and add plyometric exercises. Even then, it's just muscles. Lifting heavy covers everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:54 AM
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Good question. 🙂 And it seems like you already know the answer. Like you said it depends on the type of lifting. The answer is yes, when you have a bad routine with machine training and lots of exercises that isolate muscles. The answer is no, when you have a good routine with free weights and compound movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:59 AM
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Maybe cardio also depends on the body structuer, as some bodies could be better at some things, while other - at other things? I think this is it, yeah. 🙂 I think you "get" different muscles from marital arts than from lifting heavy things. Muscles can only get bigger/stronger, not really different. You might get better intra- and inter-muscular coordination. But muscles will benefit much more from lifting weights. I mean, I love martial arts but when it comes to muscles, lifting weights is supe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:33 AM
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Heretic! 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:09 AM
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Oh, dexterity rarely suffers from putting points into strength. On the contrary. Muscles add speed so much it's almost comical. 🙂 I started hitting the gym after 3 years of martial arts and the difference was insane. Everything makes so much more sense when you are stronger. Even balance improves.It's like putting points into strength automatically also puts points into dexterity. You are of course right that you need to move a heavier body. But I don't think that matters too much until you get …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:08 AM
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Have fun, you two! 🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:55 AM
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Maybe it's young guys saying that? An age difference of two years might seem a lot to inexperienced teenage guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:45 AM
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the bf immediately said he'd join to spend more time with me Hitting the gym together! Awesome, congrats! 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:42 AM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:40 AM
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I remember when my friends and I were watching "Reign of Fire" with our girlfriends. Our girlfriends were fawning over Matthew McConaughey. (Rightfully so btw). We guys: "Awesome! So you are finally admitting that muscular men are attractive?" Them: "Oh, it doesn't count because he doesn't look like he is working out in the gym. He just just looks fit, like from doing sports and a lot of activities." We: "Guys... we need to hit the gym a lot harder." Matthew McConaughey in Reign of Fire Unfortun…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:25 AM
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Women introduced it?? Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:00 PM
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Yup, it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:56 PM
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I hate it, but it's true. Most effective approach and probably downright necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:54 PM
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cries in European 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:49 PM
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The fact that he needs to switch sides to find a worthy opponent is even more telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:21 PM
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Not a high n- count guy, but is the feelings before the act reliable in most cases as a proxy for sexual compatibility? in my experience, yes, it's reliable in most cases. If making out is fun, there is a very high probability that sex will be good, too. Or at least not deal- breakingly bad. Of course there's stuff you can't tell from making out, like he could suffer from premature ejaculation or she could have vaginismus. Or they could have specific kinks they don't disclose or are not sure abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:06 PM
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Holy shit. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:43 AM
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we should be selecting for some other traits in men - character, work ethic, intelligence, etc. She would probably (I wouldn't) counter with "these traits aren't genetically coded like physical attractiveness is".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:10 AM
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Oops, sorry I said something. You seem to know your stuff. 🙂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:56 AM
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Negging is the relationship killer. The way you do dread game could work, doesn't sound too bad, but I would really advise against negging in a relationship. It serves no purpose at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:50 AM
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Is it cultural appropriation if we call a first world country/city a shithole? 😃 /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:37 AM
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As for staying attractive, I don't get the mentality of people letting themselves go when in a relationship. I don't get it either. I always felt much more motivated to hit the gym when I was in a relationship. Wanting to look good for your partner > Wanting to look good for an imaginary future partner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:39 AM
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Can't confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:32 AM
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Man, I wish you had been around years ago. You wouldn't believe how the same things that get you an "yeah, you're right, of course, but everybody knows that, you don't need TRP to tell you that" today... got you an "that is so misogynistic and totally not true" back in the day. We really had debates over stuff like "do short guys really have a disadvantage on the dating market (because I don't think so)" and "is it really harder for men to find ONS than it is for women (because here is a study t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:10 AM
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Yeah, "I am jealous of your eyelashes" sounds like the perfect compliment a woman could make if she wants to compliment him on his looks without looking like she is flirting. If I said "I am jealous of your bicep" to a woman, I am sure she'd understand that I wasn't flirting. (Not that I would ever say that).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:01 AM
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Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:29 AM
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How do you all feel? any guilty consciences? I don't torrent ever. No exceptions. For this reason you mentioned: want to respect artists and other content creators And managers, and secretaries and marketing people and accountants and...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:26 AM
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Definitely scary. But I think if he had pulled her trousers up in the lobby and somebody came in at that moment, he wouldn't have much trouble explaining what was happening. The other person would probably understand that if he was a child molester, he wouldn't be pulling trousers up or down in the lobby. I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:18 AM
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Jesus Christ, this is unreal. She is paying 300$ per month for water/gas/electricity. He is paying 3000$ per month for everything else. And she and a lot of commenters think he is trying to take advantage of her. 🤦‍♂️ But yeah, I have seen hamstering like this in real- life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:08 AM
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He clarified that she pays 300$ for gas and electricity. He pays 3000$ per month for everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:03 AM
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It seems most men on here want to live and be treated remarkably by their partners without having to be remarkable. There is a reason why TRP doesn't say "be healthy and reasonably fit". TRP says"lift heavy". There's a reason why TRP doesn't talk about "having your finances in order" but encourages men to build a high-paying career. We know that you have to be remarkable to have the kind of relationship inexperienced guys wrongly assume was completely normal. You are right that many inexperience…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:21 AM
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This hasn't been confirmed yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:04 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:17 AM
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Make it "while" instead of "when" and it's 10/10 accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:46 PM
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That's just your opinion. Many men do care about n- count. They just don't talk about it irl like they do on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:04 PM
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Tall girls are probably just more aware of the fact that it sucks when your height holds you back and that you can do nothing about it. And that being bullied for your height really sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:57 PM
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Lol, they call the prostitutes "Freundinnen" on that website. 😃 Awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:55 PM
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You do you. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:47 PM
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That's the reality for many people, yes. White collar people, too. Many of my white-collar friends are too tired after work to watch Netflix.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:08 PM
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I am not saying that they should. I am saying that they could make a case for it by bringing up the right to self-determination as understood by the UN. They wouldn't need to quote Hitler or fringe right- wing historians. They could just quote article I of the charter of the United Nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:53 PM
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More brutal things, sure. But among the brutal things you could say to a friend, this would rank pretty high.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:19 PM
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Man, this is really interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:11 PM
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🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:08 PM
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You want women to rate a guy withought posting his height?! Amateur!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:01 PM
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because it's always like 25 guys and 1 girl, who's there with her boyfriend Or her soon- to- be- boyfriend. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:00 PM
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But men have to work at keeping the sexual connection alive That's what we keep telling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:51 PM
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Exactly. That's why we don't encourage men to be the beta buxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:50 PM
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Is it a want of variation? Yes. Is there anything a girlfriend/ wife could do for it to be different, No. Men's sexuality is polygamous by nature. Not only can she not do anything about it. He can't do anything about it either. He could stop watching porn, yes. But he can't stop missing variation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:47 PM
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What would make men think marriage was a constant sex-fest? Beats me. But as long as there are men out there who think that an awesome sex- life is part of marriage, we'll make sure to wake them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:42 PM
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Yup. And I don't make fun of them. I always took them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:25 PM
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But it's also possible that if a guy got one girlfriend he'd get validation for at least a little bit of FOMO ("if I could get ONE pretty girl, maybe there are others out there who would like me too..."). Yes, that's very possible. It's really important that young guys understand it and know beforehand that this will probably happen instead of endulging in "I am the guy who would never want another girlfriend after I met the one(tm)"- fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:23 PM
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Self- determination is also a big part of international law. The UN doesn't see wanting to secede as inherently wrong. From Wikipedia: "The right of a people to self-determination is a cardinal principle in modern international law (commonly regarded as a jus cogens rule), binding, as such, on the United Nations as authoritative interpretation of the Charter's norms. It states that peoples, based on respect for the principle of equal rights and fair equality of opportunity, have the right to fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:04 PM
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Her take is hilarious because she says: "I am against it not for the reason society is against it (reason a) but for my own reason (reason b)". When in reality reason b has always been the reason why society was against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:51 PM
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wow
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:36 PM
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Somebody please invent a time- machine just for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:18 PM
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Animals can’t consent? Like as if they can consent to being eaten! Some vegans do argue that advocating for animal rights and for example adopting stray animals to save them and so on while still eating animals is hypocritial. I think they do have a point there. Doesn't mean you should stop advocating for animal rights when you're not a vegetarian but it is kind of funny when you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:16 PM
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The history of Europe is a tale of constant change of borders, new countries appearing, old countries becoming history, unions and mergers of countries, etc. You are right. And it has been a constant source of conflict. You are right that people need to adapt to it, but you also need to accept that it's not something you can just hand- waive away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:06 PM
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This. Men need to take their own ego seriously. Denying that you have an ego is not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:49 PM
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Yay! Have a nice rest of the day! 🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:43 PM
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Still an asshole. That's what I am saying: Just call him an asshole for what he's doing. You don't need to make up explanations for why he is doing it in order to call him an asshole. Just call him an asshole. 😃 This is why people need to vet for sexual compatibility imo. Yes, it's really important to vet for sexual compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:42 PM
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That's how gamer- gate happened. 😃 Feminists shot themselves in the foot when they chose to attack the gaming community. It was a grave mistake. The guys who just wanted to be left alone with their games they love. (Not saying that you are one of the guys who only play games. Just saying that the love for video games is real. And rightfully so!)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:33 PM
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Chicken and egg, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:28 PM
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Right, and actually that reminds me of how gross I think it is when women continually pressure their bf’s into marriage Awesome! I don't find it gross at all when they push for marriage. I guess the conversation has shown that both you and I aren't hypocrites. 🙂 You condemn both, I am kind of okay with both. (That said, I am more okay with pushing for marriage than with pushing for sex acts for obvious reasons. But I don't see the latter as inherently evil.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:22 PM
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Sure. It's important to understand that location plays an important role. Take everything you read with a grain of salt because it might be completely different where you are. When I started to use Tinder, I noticed that the women in the area, say,1 hour drive west of where I live are mostly overweight and entitled while women in the area 1 hour drive east (more rural) are much better looking , less overweight and less entitled, to the point where I thought I was being cat-fished at first. The d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:13 PM
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he becomes the bad guy when he repeatedly requests I have no problem with the fact that people say that he is a bad guy for insisting and requesting. I have an issue when people attribute intentions to his insisting that he doesn't have. His reason for repeatedly requesting blowjobs is "I love getting blowjobs and if she doesn't give me blowjobs, it means I will go without blowjobs for the rest of my life. No BJs for the rest of my life!" This is his reason for requesting blowjobs. His reason is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:53 PM
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But, for another example, if he decided he didn’t want to get engaged again since the last one didn’t work out Perfect example. Nobody in their right mind would blame her for thinking she got the short end of the stick. She has every right to be pissed. Nobody should tell her "how can you want an engagement when you know that he doesn't want to be engaged. Do you want to control him or something?! Do you get pleasure out of subjugating him?!" 😃 I’d just see it as an incompatibility, move on, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:24 PM
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An easy conclusion is that the man actually enjoys her subjugation, rather than the act itself. It's an easy conclusion, yes. It's also wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:05 PM
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it is a bad look. It it only looks bad when you believe that the made- up reason is the actual reason. The made up reason would be "he loves getting blowjobs because he knows that she hates giving them but does it for him anyway". When the actual reason is just "he loves getting blowjobs". The latter doesn't make him look bad. That's why people make up the former exanation. It's made- up and not true, but it makes him look bad. Mission accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:48 PM
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I can't wrap my head around the fact that this seems to be difficult for many women to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:40 PM
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My bf did things with his ex that he didn’t enjoy and doesn’t want to do again. Like for example? Are these things you really want you do with your bf? Like really really want to do? It doesn't count when it's something you can easily go without for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:32 PM
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No, that's just how a lot of people frame it with the intention of making us look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:26 PM
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I just pictured you with a medical mask on and a surgical saw in your hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:06 AM
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Yeah, great if that works for you. As long as you don't have a crush on her, it's fine. I am lucky that I mostly crush on introverted girls. So I never had a problem being close friends with extroverted attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:34 AM
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I wouldn't be close friends with a woman I have a crush on. That's torturing yourself. Out of sight out of mind works best in my experience. One exception would be guys who don't have much or no experience with women. They can learn to be more comfortable around women in a friendzone situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:15 AM
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so it’s not too healthy 😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:45 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:56 PM
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It affects the relationship dynamics and her attraction to him. Someone who thinks they have settled treat the marriage and their partner very differently from someone who thinks they made a real catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:49 PM
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but the Redpill worldview is most accurate. That means you're red or black. You definitely don't need a new color for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:09 PM
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that their wives think someone else is hotter? Nope. It's a problem when she is used to being with guys who are hotter. It's a problem when she thinks she could have got someone else who is hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:02 PM
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It would be settling if you desperately tried to succeed in a career in biology/research, eventually found out after years in the job that you just aren't cut out to be a scientist and then decided to settle for a simple menial job. You would have failed. You would maybe feel relieved. But you would have settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:30 PM
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Nobody cares? Nobody cares about the science behind it and what biologists or zoologists would say is an alpha wolf. People do of course care about the term alpha as we understand it in PUA and TRP. It's a nice term and mental image but nobody cares what an actual alpha wolf (animal) in the wild does and what science has to say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:05 PM
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Brief history lesson: the term "Alpha male" did NOT come from studying wolves. Nobody cares. 😃 It's just a nice mental image.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:44 PM
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😨
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:40 PM
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Wow, I am lucky I have never seen that happen. Most people in the gym are of the kind that admires the will to change and put effort in. But yeah, gym culture is changing. It was different when not everybody and their mother was hitting the gym. I always called it the "the gym unites us all"- effect because people from all walks of life respected each other in the gym. Even talked and bonded. I don't see this effect much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:24 PM
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Having a mediocre partner is much better than being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:01 PM
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Man, that sucks. 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:56 PM
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If it was about money they’d go for the flashy rich one And she wouldn't get him. She knows he wouldn't fall for her, so she doesn't even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:49 PM
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Why ignore that part? Because fuck that part! If a woman sees me as a "shabby house with good bones", I am out. Even the best argument why shabby houses are better than mansions couldn't change that. Even the best argument would only add insult to injury. I have too much self- respect to let somebody gaslight me into thinking I should be okay with being seen as a shabby house with good bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:46 PM
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Attractive. I want her to appreciate other things I bring to the table, of course. Not take them for granted. But they shouldn't be the main reason she chose me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:31 PM
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OK, maybe that was a bit clumsy It wasn't clumsy at all! You described perfectly what we are trying to explain all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:05 PM
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The guy you describe isn't necessarily a beta bucks. Having a career and making good life choices doesn't make you a beta bucks. Being a pushover, lacking certain attractive traits and marrying a woman who isn't really into you makes you a pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:49 PM
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Guess which one I choose ? Guess how men would like to be seen and described by their wives. "Stunning mansion" or "slightly shabby house with good bones"? And guess in which one of those two cases the wife treats her husband better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:42 PM
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Uh oh. This might inspire another n- count thread. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:27 PM
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I understand what you are saying. But in my opinion, this... The question he should have asked should have been "what is it you got from the affair that you're not getting from our marriage?" Then worked on that. ... is blue pill thinking. It sounds great on paper, but doesn't work in real- life. Or rarely works. There is a slim chance that he could turn it around. But even if he tried to do the things she was missing in the marriage, I'd bet dollars to donuts that she wouldn't be receptive to i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:51 AM
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Why couldn't he have been more like this in the marriage before hand? My guess: She wasn't receptive to him irl so he never escalated it to being naughty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:12 AM
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It was a good idea. Keep it out of the daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:48 AM
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I would, but that was easily six years ago, with a former and deleted account. No way I will ever find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:25 AM
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The great thing is that I found out that my female friends were supporting me... I just didn't understand it. 😃 When I was disappointed again by another friend, I asked the PPD crowd about their opinions. Wow, it was embarrassing but I learned a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:08 AM
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Well put. Your comment describes the TRP experience most people have pretty well. Both the appeal of TRP and the initial reluctance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:03 AM
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Former simp and beta male here. Still a nice guy most of the time. My mother was a SAHM and yes, it played a huge role.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:55 AM
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and not nuanced enough In my opinion, if you have real- life experience and a real-life you will always perceive enough nuances. 🙂 It's a system that helps organise experiences and it's like a map. The map is accurate and helps you, but looking at a map is very different from actually walking through the area. It's like looking at a map of London vs actually being in London.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:45 AM
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I was active at the mensrights sub. Full of positive energy and wanting to create a better future for the children. I knew of the TRP sub but I found it too negative and black and white. Still, many things made sense to me because I had seen everything play out in real- life already. But I just browsed /trp for a day or two to see what it was about. I wasn't really interested in it. Then one day I was really disappointed by my best platonic female friend. Felt like she didn't support me after I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:27 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:27 AM
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are just fine living alone with their cats and the occasional girls night out. Anecdotally, they aren't fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:19 AM
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How would it be preemptive though if Hitler made the first move? 😃 But that's the whole point of a pre-emptive strike. You anticipate that the enemy will make a move and to prevent it, you make the first move before him. A pre- emptive strike always means that you make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:10 AM
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😃
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:08 AM
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It's not a wide-spread opinion among historians but some of them do see Operation Barbarossa as pre- emptive strike. While certainly not mainstream, it's not a fringe position.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:01 AM
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I'd also say "kinda" average. And he sure as hell won't "just find the right woman". Man, I weep when I see all the wasted potential around me and online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:46 AM
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Cheap pizza ftw.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:38 AM
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It's a day and night difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:35 AM
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Wait what?! It's out? 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:57 PM
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zero interest in this discussion. I never liked or supported Obama.... or bombs. Of course you have zero interest in this discussion. If the USA had been sanctioned by the rest of the world for it, maybe you would be interested in talking about it. But since it had zero consequences for you, why bother? That's a nice high- horse you sit on: "yeah, we did, but I didn't want to, doesn't count".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:48 PM
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If the last decade has shown us anything it's that people fleeing their country in masses is not a sustainable solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:26 PM
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I saw it. Complete nothingburger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:58 PM
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Ah, thanks. Didn't look further than the about- section.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:25 PM
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"Unconditional" love?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:19 PM
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It's in the sub description: "This subreddit exists to help people who suffer from this mental illness." They literally call it a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:13 PM
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Lol. They make it sound as if retroactive jealousy was some kind of mental illness over at that sub. 😃 Completely normal stuff framed as mental illness. What's next? Normal jealousy defined as mental illness, too? Your wife has sex with other men. You're jealous? Well, that means you have a mental illness called jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:00 PM
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Exactly. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:25 PM
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No no, not at all. I should have worded it differently. It's not only about the money. It's just that she is kind of "meh" about the guy and marrying him was an okay option. Not a terrible option, but also not something she was enthusiastic about. Settling for a guy just to finally be in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:59 PM
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Could you post that question over in the Ukraine mega-thread instead, please?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:45 PM
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"Beta bucks" marriage. A marriage where the woman clearly only married him because she wanted to be financially secure. One of the most important TRP objectives is to avoid ending up in such a marriage. Some marriages also turn into a BB marriage after a while if the man for some reason becomes unattractive to his wife. Another important TRP talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:43 PM
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😃👍 Yay! Let's get this guy the canary bird he wants and deserves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:39 PM
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Wow, a friend just told me a story about his grandparents. His grandpa fell down the stairs to the basement. The first and only thing his grandma asked was: "are the stairs broken?" No "are you okay" or anything. 😕 Her tone (and what was said after) implied "if the stairs are not broken, there's no reason to fall. If the stairs are broken, you better fix them immediately." BB marriages... Not even once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:10 PM
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This guy said it best What a happy accident. The EU finally doing what the USA always wanted. I am seriously considering the idea that this wasn't just a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:26 PM
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All the things we've been unable to nudge EU into doing for decades are finally happening. Yup. Congratulations. And nobody could have seen that coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:37 PM
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I am worried. You can clearly see he is really trying, but maybe his efforts will prove futile...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:28 AM
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I skipped the rage phase. That's illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:20 AM
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Best of luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:12 AM
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RP peace of mind is awesome. Fuck the anger phase though. That wasn't fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:10 AM
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Just googled it and it seems that the site didn't ban them. The camgirls just can't get paid because of the sanctions. (But that was just a one minute google)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:20 AM
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It's settled then. pounds gavel
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:44 AM
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Who tf cares if you exist? You rock!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:41 AM
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Mr. Champion of womens' rights, your blunt approach could be intimidating to the lady and trigger anxiety. Maybe think about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:40 AM
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I don't really get the obsession with slut tells because I never needed to look for them. I wish I did. For me it was always like this: Get to know a woman She tells me about her past sex life Bam. I should coach other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:37 AM
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Both could make me irritable. Which could then result in me being emotional. But yeah, it's not really emotional in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:27 AM
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Let's talk about slut tells! 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:17 AM
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heck, there are even resources by PUA to rotate and "spin plates" to keep a fresh flow of women to sleep around with. And they are getting judged for it. 😃 In what world do you live where society celebrates these guys? Their friends or PUA forums might celebrate them but certainly not the patriarchy we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:15 AM
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But is it "emotional"? 🤔 Could be. I am undecided.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:53 AM
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There's a lot of internalized misogyny Internalised misogyny is for women, not for men!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:36 AM
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🥳👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:18 AM
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That's not a commandment, that's a hall pass. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:55 PM
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Not larping. 🎸🎶 I am pretty much the same in real-life. Just less whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:18 PM
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I don't understand how any of this has anything to do with what I said above, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:10 PM
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Your point being?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:58 PM
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I'm not claiming any moral high ground though I am. I am not aggressively fading out every single explanation for the conflict, 200 years of history and interests of global players just to turn it into a simple good vs evil spectacle that I can get excited about and emotionally jerk off to. So, yes. I am claiming moral high ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:54 PM
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Weird flex but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:31 PM
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or something to watch through screens during lunch because you're a bit bored It does ring a bit hollow. "My heart goes out to the Ukrainians!" grabs popcorn "Oh, Zelensky is hot!" munch munch "If I could, I would totes fight against the Russians!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:51 PM
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I could just copy paste every quote from Chronicles of Riddick here. "I bow to no man."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:55 AM
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Whatever Germany did in the past, it did. Everyone made mistakes. What Germany did was fight Russia in its ultimate endboss form: The UDSSR. Not in proxy wars like the rest of the West did later when everybody suddenly agreed that the UDSSR was the villain and should have been fought much earlier. Nope, Germany went straight into the lion's den. Fought in the literal hell that was Stalingrad. With casualties on both sides that make other battlefields of WWII look like a joke in comparison. And a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:12 AM
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It's like saying "If you go in now we won't do anything but if you leave us time we will bring them into Nato and arm them and defend them so clock is ticking ruskies" 😃👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:49 AM
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I really appreciate you taking the time to go in- depth. I mean, we do agree that it is a problem. (You even say "one of the main threats to the LIO"). We just disagree on how much of a problem it is. Tbh, I am generally of a positive mindset and I actually know that both dating and marriage will recover and get better than before. There, I said it, lol. 😃 Unfortunately, I am not of that mindset looking at LIO or the equivalents thereof. I deleted the rest of the comment because I'm a pleb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:25 AM
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But the "the others aren't pulling their weight, we are pulling almost all of the weight"- frustration will never go away. Ever. And in the long run, this frustration is more destructive to friendships, partnerships and relationships of whatever kind than anything else. Even two competitors can be better partners and more effective than two friends who are in a relationship where both think that the other guy isn't pulling his weight. Should a third guy come up and cause trouble, the former two …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:10 AM
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😂😂😂👍👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:29 AM
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One of the main threats to the LIO is from US voters who do not feel that the US benefits from the LIO enough: it gets no more, and maybe less, benefits than other countries, while shouldering most of the costs and blame. This is why it will fail. You don't need any other reason. This is why any similar Order will always fail. This is why the EU will fail, too. It will always fail with bang. This... is why we shouldn't even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:26 AM
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😃👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:39 AM
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Yes, even though president Biden just signed on to send military support to Ukraine, the Russia- Ukraine conflict will not lead to WW3. WW3 might very well come sooner or later, but not because of this conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:36 AM
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Awesome! Man, thank you. This is good stuff. I know I come across as pro- Putin and pro- invasion when in reality I am neither. I hate conflict and war. I just want to know more about the layers of the conflict and the reasons behind it all and I am not willing to accept "Putin has a small pee pee" as the explanation for the invasion. Look, it truly is in Russia's best interests to lose its traditional dreams of grandeur and become a regular European nation. It should liberalize to the extent ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:20 AM
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/u/WilliamWyattD Will you be participating in this thread? Please?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:19 PM
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I could say in the same vein: "Ever consider that it's Germans who are the ones who get to decide whether they want to buy Russian gas or US gas ?" Because it's obviously not Germans who should decide that but American powers- that- be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:15 PM
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Problem is, how do you tell a sovereign nation thay they can't join a security pact. I know it sounds alarming but it's not as outrageous as one might think. Joining a security pact means something. It's a clear signal of "You! We consider you a potential enemy." It's not something you just do. Security pact sounds great and you'd think everybody should have one. But that's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:55 PM
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It's definitely about something else, too. considering he could have just invaded the 2 oblasts in question Yup, but that's not how you quickly end a conflict. Look, I don't know the reasons behind it all, but I do know that if I wanted to end a conflict I would go on the offensive. Not stay in the conflict zone, try to defend it and nicely ask for peace negotiations for years, hoping for the best. No, I would go on the offensive, win and then force my opponent to come to the negotiation table. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:43 PM
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The US/NATO tries to expand their reach into the east and put bases right outside Russia. Something they had agreed they wouldn't do and Russia had warned them not to do. Exactly. Now you could know this and still have arguments against Russia and be on Nato's side for different reasons. Fine! But please, at least know this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:36 PM
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😃
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:34 PM
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Yes, he could have. For example the conflict and fighting between Ukrainians and Ukrainians who are ethnic Russians that has been going on for 8 years now and cost 13.000 live. The invasion will end said conflict. Is ending the conflict worth an invasion? I don't know. Could be. Could be not. But the answer isn't obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:33 PM
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I haven't. And that's why I am not claiming that civilian men are fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:22 PM
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🥳👍
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:21 PM
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Like I said. Looking forward to seeing evidence that they are actually fighting. Not only posing with guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:20 PM
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Plus you're Germany. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:15 PM
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The NYT just posted a bunch of pictures with volunteer women with guns getting into the a van I am looking forward to seeing evidence that is a bit more convincing than pictures of women getting on vans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:14 PM
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Yup. But most Germans would agree with OP, not with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:10 PM
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It won't lead to WW3.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:47 PM
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No. I don't know enough about him and his reasons to be able to make that assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:46 PM
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To keep the daily chat fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:30 PM
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Oh shit. Here we go again. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:29 PM
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Cheers to an actually good conversation! 🥂 Cheers to a really good conversation! 🍻 I don't like the invasion any more than you do, believe me. I hate hate hate hate war and conflict. I had both Ukrainian and Russian friends in my life that were really important to me. I hope that your bf's family (should he have relatives in the Ukraine) is well and safe. So, are we back to Anal Week, N Count Week, or (my favorite) Slut Tells Week?? Well, I know what I'd pick. 😅😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:27 AM
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Serious question - why are you taking a pro-Russian/anti-NATO stance here? What am I missing? What kind of question is that? Seriously, why would you ask me that? I hate to say it, but you’re repeating Russian talking points. Well, maybe they are talking points we need to actually talk about? 😃 You know, let's just stop here. Mods said there would be a Ukraine megathread soon. Have a nice day, Smurfs! 🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:54 AM
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But … he went and threatened Finland today. Which totally shoots that theory in the foot - he made it 100% clear that it’s not about the conflict in the East It's about both. The conflict in the east and everything that has to do with NATO creeping further east towards Russia. The latter has been a concern for Russia for decades. And nobody would say that it's not a legit concern that Russia has. So yes, Putin warned Finland today again that there would be consequences should they join NATO. He …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:01 AM
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Going to a firework competition together. 🎆
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:42 AM
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That’s the thing - he didn’t go on the offensive in the existing conflict. He created a new conflict I don't see how you could call it a new conflict. The conflict was and is, like you said, Ukrainians in the West vs Ukrainians who are ethnic Russians in the east. That's the conflict. If you take the fight from the east where you live to the west where your opponents live, that's exactly what going on the offensive means. That's not a new conflict at all in my opinion. Again, not saying that he …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:18 AM
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We will see how it turns out soon. Has any of what I said sounded completely dumb? Or am I on the right track and just need to learn more about the conflict to be as convinced as you that it's just a megalomaniac power-move?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:57 AM
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Because it's what he says. Has he?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:46 AM
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My problem is that Putin unilaterally decided to expand the conflict beyond the conflict in the eastern areas. How would you decide that in a way that is not unilateral? 😃 But Putin couldn’t help himself - he took the war into the Western (and Western-identifying) Ukraine. And is that so surprising? I mean what would you do? There is a conflict that has been going on for 8 years and you want it to end. What are the options? Wait for another 8 years and hope the fighting will eventually stop or g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:42 AM
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he could have annexed those territories; people there asked him to do that since 2014 Yeah, I always wondered why they didn't pull another Sudetenland there. I guess it's not something you just do? With Crimea it was different in my opinion because the world knew that the port in Sevastopol and the maritime control was too important for Russia to give up. Not letting Russia annex Crimea could actually have meant war with Russia. Made sense to let Russia have it. I think it wouldn't have been as …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:31 AM
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I can't. Just like you can't just claim "he wants to restore the Russian empire to its former glory". How could you know that that is what he wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:12 AM
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Putin is wrong, and should be opposed. I have no problem with someone saying that. Hell, I am not a Putin fan or anything. But I want to know the real reasons behind his actions. And "he wants to play Tsar, hurr durr" doesn't convince me. At all. I mean, I don't say "Putin is the good guy" because I know that I am not informed enough to make a judgment on that. And it scares me how quick others are to say "He is THE bad guy". Well, maybe it's because, for historical reasons, I know a thing or tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:08 AM
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No, that just means you have a smaller lap. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:56 AM
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This is not terribly controversial opinion among those that study Putin in Russia. You're right that it doesn't seem controversial when you read newspapers and watch the news. They all agree that Putin justs wants power. However when you read opinion pieces and discussions and look arounf it doesn't seem so obvious anymore. Russia does have legitimate interests. Like any other country. And I am not even remotely saying that Putin is the good guy or anything. Really, I am not. I am just against a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:53 AM
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And you know that how? Seriously, why do people think it's okay to just accept stuff like that as the most likely motivation behind political/military actions in a multi-layered conflict like the one we have in the Ukraine?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:25 AM
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That's hard to say right now. We will have to wait and see. If the invasion ends the conflict in the Ukraine that has been going on for 8 years now and cost more than 13.000 lifes by now and ends it without a lot of casualties, then yes, one could say the invasion was justified. You can of course disagree and say "no no, I would have preferred the conflict and killing in the Ukraine to go on forever". That's a valid opinion, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:20 AM
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We can't accept him playing fucking tsar What the fuck does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:07 AM
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What they know is good enough. No, it's not. Is that important? Of course it's important. Wtf?!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:56 AM
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Right? There has been constant conflict, fighting and killing in the Ukraine for 8 years now and nobody cared. And now that the spotlights turn on the Ukraine people suddenly "care".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:53 AM
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Feels completely fake to me. I find it kind of scary that most people seem to know next to nothing about the conflict but unite in righteous anger against the appointed Bad Guy(tm) they also don't know much about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:34 AM
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Of course men should be judged on their history. We encourage women to do so instead of judging the guy on tingles only.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:25 AM
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Not being multilingual is not a character flaw in my opinion. 🙂 And English is the universal language that unites people from all over the globe. ❤🇺🇸
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:07 AM
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Less than two hours later we see a medium but big enough Holy... 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:05 AM
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That's not Westerners. That's just the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:47 AM
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Q4M: is Putin an asshole? No, he is just misunderstood. Q4RP: why are Ukrainian women fleeing rather than warbriding their new overlords? They won't be their new overlords.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:29 AM
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The other factors aren't controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:28 AM
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You guys do realize that there are other factors that determine the likelihood of relationship quality/infidelity besides n count right? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:13 AM
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congrats 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:09 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:01 AM
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One day, sir... one fine day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:39 PM
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🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:24 PM
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You seem to be the kind of guy who would actually do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:48 PM
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Just frame it as "I know exactly what I want and I recognise it immediately when I see it" and call it a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:29 PM
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🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:15 PM
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And he looks ill somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:55 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:45 PM
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Ask yourself, how would you rather look like. The second one is the obvious answer Not for me because that's just not who I am. Yeah, I aim to be masculine, but I don't want to be hyper- masculine. Looking like Jason Statham would feel like cosplaying to me. Not that I have much choice anymore with my receding hairline. Finally took the plunge a few days ago and shaved my head for the first time in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:44 PM
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Well done! 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:02 PM
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and I think I got him thinking. Awesome! The best approach is not to talk about the issues and specifics but about the ideology of feminism. Don't deny that there are gendered issues but explain how feminism is not a good tool to explain and solve then. Alas, it's almost impossible to do if you are not familiar with the feminist framework and its internal "logic".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:54 PM
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Yes, you did. I am just trying to find an explanation why "nope" is the first reaction you get right now. And I think that even if you make the disctinction, the proxy war shit is burned so deeply into everybody's mind that "nope" is the first reaction you'll get.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:28 PM
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Yeah, sure. I have no doubt. There is something about drugs that's very condusive to anything man-woman .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:25 PM
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I think it's because proxy wars took the fun out of signing up for war. You don't think of "fighting for your country" anymore when you think of conscription. It's more like: "Fight in a country I can't find on the world map together with natives who don't understand my language against an unknown enemy who isn't even thinking about attacking my country." Where's the fun in that? I bet people would happily sign up if it was actually about defending your country/your city.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:20 PM
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Sudetenland only with more crocodile tears 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:56 PM
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Sounds like it's not only slutty drug addict girls they have sex with. There have been countless anecdotes ever since people began talking about it. EDIT: And doesn't have to be meth or heroin. Weed seems to work well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:18 PM
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Just realised: If TRP was only about getting laid, we would probably tell guys to become drug- dealers and embrace the associated lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:11 PM
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If TRP was only about getting laid we would be endorsing a drug- embracing lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:10 PM
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Thanks! 🙂 Ok... maybe I miss it. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:48 PM
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If you scream every time you slash a block in Beat Saber it should have the same effect.!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:47 PM
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Misfits, Ramones, The Clash, Danko Jones... stuff like that. 😎 We only did covers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:36 PM
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The fellatio truth movement Just the first two minutes are pure gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:13 PM
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Worked for me. 😃 I honestly don't miss being in a band much, but I really noticed the effect that not screaming into a mic for an hour straight once per week anymore had on me. I sometimes think about taking playing and singing punkrock up again (at home) just for the mental benefits. Oh, and as a breathing exercise, too. Would be like going to the gym. To get back in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:47 PM
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Imagining you screaming into the mic. crowd goes wild 😎🎤💥
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:39 PM
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Thoughts? We're doomed. 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:19 PM
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Text game is one of my strengths, so I’d never follow the rule. Same here. And I find it fun and I love it. I know that texting less can be good advice for many guys and it did work well for me when I tried it out a few times. But since I have always liked it and it didn't have a negative impact, I didn't see a reason to reduce texting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:19 PM
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He wants the NATO to keep to their lane. Quite reasonable I would say Why is that so hard for people to understand? I mean you don't have to like it. But it's obvious that Russia's concerns are legit. And that it's not about Lebensraum or "Back to the UDSSR" thinking. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:02 PM
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More like we need their gas and that's about it. Buying Russian gas instead of US fracking gas seems to make us Russia's ally, lol. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:46 PM
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Lol, I wish. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:33 PM
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What tepid response? 😃 Germany cancelled the Nord Stream 2 pipeline to sanction Russia. And now we have news like "Calculations show that Germany can make it without Russian gas... if the coming winter isn't cold." 😃 Isn't that what you want to hear in the first world country with the third highest exports in the world? That we could make it without blackouts and freezing to death in winter... maybe. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:32 PM
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With the slight drawback that the last thing Russia needs is more Lebensraum. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:12 AM
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Wow, these are some nice Stacys. I prefer a much nerdier type and a much lower league, but damn... well chosen examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:06 AM
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Well that was an awesome read! 🙂 But recently I was at a party and a guy there did sing poorly but enthusiastically and was a hit. He knew all the lyrics to all these different genres of songs, it was crazy. And he got everybody singing and it made the party fun. I guess they were like ok he sucks at singing so if I join in there's no way I can embarrass myself lol. And yea he was ugly. And yea he hooked up w a 7. Hehe, I can picture that. Yeah, well, first I want to say: The red pill community …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:36 AM
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He's always been rather shrewd, Which makes me think that he does have a good reason. I don't think its economic stuff or mineral deposits. It's probably all strategic. Let's see how it turns out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:06 AM
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First thought that came to my mind: If you are not already singing by the time you find TRP, it's probably too late and it means that you are just not made to be a singer. If you were a singer you would have been singing for years before finding TRP because you couldn't help it, you had to sing. Everybody can go to the gym and lift heavy at any point in their life. But singing is not something you just decide to do one day because it helps with dating. It's also very situational. You can't just …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:36 AM
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Way to not end on a high note! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:21 AM
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n-times
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:38 AM
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I don't see how that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:36 AM
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Why tf would you want to do that? 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:29 AM
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I have seen the shocked smiley a lot but somehow he never looked that frightened. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:06 AM
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I cheated on her when I was on Meth and heroin before we had the baby I am trying to do better That's the spirit! 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:47 AM
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Tbh, it looks like most people anywhere don't know much about it. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:44 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:07 AM
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Wow, now this is an awesome looking post- wall woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:59 AM
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😫 I swear that was intentional self- sabotage by our beloved Merkel. Stupidity can't explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:55 AM
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cries in German Nord Stream 2 cancelled. 😥 Oh and one (German) news article yesterday: "Calculations show that Germany can make it without Russian gas... if the winter isn't cold this year." Fuck that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:50 AM
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"Your fault."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:38 AM
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Russia entering the Ukraine because of the conflict between Ukrainians and Ukrainians who are ethnic Russians has always been in the cards and was always regarded as realistic possibility. Russia attacking Nato countries is a completely different thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:33 AM
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thank you, sir
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:03 AM
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Who tf hates broccoli?! 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:02 AM
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He’s not just out to get back the Soviet Union, he’s going to try to expand it. How did you come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:33 PM
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Epic parenting fails? That's often one of the reasons, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:52 PM
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The official music video is iconic. (Def Leppard - Rock of Ages). Corny as fuck but soooo much fun. 🙂 It's also interesting from a red pill perspective. The lead singer in the video would look like a nerdy incel in a picture, but he has an adolescent like self-confident and entertaining energy while performing that must have been a chick magnet. Oldschool RP women often talked about how it is wrong to only promote the stoic alpha male when there are other types of alpha males. And seeing the guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:31 PM
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Another thing: Crimea had been a part of Russia for 200 years. After WWII when the Ukraine was part of the UDSSR, Chrustschow decided that henceforth Crimea was to be part of the Ukraine. Not longer a part of Russia. It didn't really make much of a difference because Ukraine was part of the UDSSR. When the UDSSR collapsed it suddenly did make a difference. As mentioned above, Crimea had been part of Russia for 200 years, meaning that lots of ethnic Russians lived there. Then there was a referend…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:03 PM
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Again, I am not an expert but this is how I remember it: Crimea is a peninsula and a very important place for maritime control and for trade Russia always had a very important port at Sevastopol there even when Crimea was part of the Ukraine. It wasn't a problem because Russia and Ukraine were on friendly terms In 2014 when the fights in Ukraine between Ukrainians and Ukrainians who were ethnic Russians broke out and the country and government went from Russia- friendly to anti-Russia, Russia (r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:44 PM
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my exact reaction. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:25 PM
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Kudos for asking the right questions. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:20 PM
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Annabelle! ❤ positive energy still flowing overseas
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:04 PM
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Oh, man. That sucks. 😔 But wow, your workload seems to be crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:03 PM
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Crimea is a city It's a peninsula with multiple cities. 🙂 And it's not a crumb but of the utmost military importance. Access to geo-strategic places like Crimea is what wars are fought over and understandably so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:55 PM
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😂 And how would you drill for "not going to join the fighting" anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:44 PM
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Sorry to hear that, dear. 😔 Best of luck for your future endeavours!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:21 PM
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No shit. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:03 PM
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😂 Jesus Christ, I fell for a troll. What a relief. I thought you were serious. 😃 Phew.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:39 PM
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The glasses and shy smile in some of the pictures. PPD women have mentioned this, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:36 PM
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and this is just you passively trying to detract others’ efforts. I am NOT trying to detract others' efforts. 😡 I am not talking about people who call themselves feminists. I am not talking about people at all. I am talking only about the marxist ideology that is feminism. I am not talking about people. And... You are not talking about feminism. You are only talking about me as a person. Somebody you don't know. And that's kind of a very lame thing to do in a discussion on a debate sub. So, yeah…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:31 PM
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Damn...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:19 PM
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🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:16 PM
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Subway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:14 PM
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You sound like you think you have somehow won the discussion. Glad that you feel good about yourself. Have a nice day. 🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:10 PM
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Assume what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:02 PM
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I think I have established the case that we need anti-feminism in order to make constructive discussions which will lead to actual help for women possible. We will not be able to effectively help women as long as feminism has society in its death- grip and as long as it's got a monopoly on discussions about gendered issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:57 PM
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What does that have to do with anything? But nevermind... I am just glad that you agree with me that why do you keep using this language? It’s not a very constructive way of phrasing the problem. The hateful language and framework feminism uses isn't very constructive. That's what I was trying to say. It poisons the well and makes constructive discussions about gendered issues impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:52 PM
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A man of culture, I see. I am a pleb. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:48 PM
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You can help women without adhering to a marxist ideology and its hateful language. See, I want womens' issues to be addressed. I want men to understand womens' issues. I want men to help women. I am saying that feminism is not the right tool for any of it. It makes everything worse. We desperately need a different tool to address womens issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:09 PM
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So women of color are not victimized by racism? But are they oppressed? And are women victimised by sexism? If yes, are they oppressed? Poor women are not victimized by classism Classism! So you do acknowledge the marxist background of the ideology? And do tell: are poor people oppressed? I though you “understood intersectionality” …. I do. Not sure you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:05 PM
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Tuna is the best fish. Multi- purpose as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:46 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:41 PM
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It's not. Feminism is a marxist ideology that defines a privileged oppressor class (men), defines an oppressed class (women), defines this oppression system as "patriarchy" and calls for a revolution to overthrow said patriarchy. I know that many people don't know that and think feminism is just an umbrella term for all kinds of activism regarding womens' rights. But this is not true. People have been lied to. It doesn't matter what people want feminism to be. It doesn't matter what people belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:34 PM
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it felt like you were saying women actively try to not be feminine. Ah, I see. Well, some women do actively try to appear less feminine. Some actively try to appear more feminine. Some are born less feminine. Some are born more feminine. Some are raised to be less feminine. Some are raised to be more feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:11 PM
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And I am not saying that they are. 😃 I am not naturally what most people would describe as masculine. I understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:52 PM
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True. But I gave two different examples that make women look less feminine. They have nothing to do with each other. I wasn't saying that "trying to appear tough" was trying to be dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:45 PM
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Awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:42 PM
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Well, I don't believe that all men are oppressors. Awesome! 🙂 That means you are not a feminist. 🥳 Being an advocate for womens's rights and trying to solve womens' issues is awesome! As long as one does it without falling for the marxist ideology that is feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:41 PM
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some short guys are so damn angry And? Let them be angry. I think they know better if their situation warrants anger than anybody who is not them does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:37 PM
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Can everybody who doesn't know anything about the Ukrainian-Russian conflict please not comment on it? 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:32 PM
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I'd say one sign of "not feminine" is when a woman has a tendency to want to establish some kind of dominance over others. Fear of being seen as week and putting effort into appearing as tough as possible is also not feminine in my eyes. Usually leads to smiling as rarely as possible and keeping a pokerface while talking about their problems where other women would show emotions and sadness. Not saying that it's necessarily bad. She just comes across as less feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:26 PM
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Really knowing each other is great. The feeling of having "arrived" and knowing that you don't have to look for something anymore is great. Being single is like traveling. Being in a serious LTR is like being at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:49 PM
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Oh, I agree. And that's a real problem/danger. They endorse an ideology they don't know enough about. That's never a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:31 PM
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🙂❤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:25 PM
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😃 No, I don't. Women are not oppressed in the US. Feminism says that women in the US are oppressed. And feminism says that yes, the three blond Stacys you linked are oppressed. If you disagree and think they are not oppressed, you disagree with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:24 PM
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You don't. There are many public feminists who never talk about Marxism. Feminism is a marxist ideology. But most feminists don't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:51 AM
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I'll allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:44 AM
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According to feminism these women are oppressed. leaving out the nuances of class, race and power. I am well aware of intersectionality. That doesn't change the fact that according to the feminist framework these women you linked are oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:40 AM
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Lift heavy!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:34 AM
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This will never happen. Of course it will never happen! That's the whole point. 😃 The ideology is designed to keep people in a constant mindset of "I am oppressed, I must fight against oppression". Exactly what ideologies of hate want. I just want domestic violence shelters funded and maternal leave You don't need a marxist ideology for that. 😃 Why would you need a marxist ideology for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:32 AM
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why do you keep using this language? It’s not a very constructive way of phrasing the problem. EXACTLY!!! 🥳 That is what I was trying to say the whole time! 😃 It's not a very constructive way of phrasing the problem. No. It's a terrible way of phrasing the problem. But it's the exact language that feminism invented and uses! And with this hateful language, feminism has intentionally poisoned the well. The hateful language is not a bug, it's a feature. Talking about gendered issues is important a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:28 AM
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Have a nice day! 🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:18 AM
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These are all issues that need to be addressed. Do these issues mean that men are oppressors and women are oppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:18 AM
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No front, but I don't have the feeling from this discussion that you understand feminism better than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:02 AM
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That's the way many feminists are using the word "oppressed" Yes, and they do it because feminism, the ideology, defines women as the oppressed class. It has no metric. We could solve 135 womens' issues but in the eyes of feminism, women would still be oppressed. We could solve every single womens' issue and according to feminism, women would still be the oppressed class. Simply because women are the oppressed class by definition in feminist ideology. Not by metric. Not by evaluation. That's bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:58 AM
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Yeah, nice try. That's exactly how ideologies of hate work: "Men are the oppressor class!!!" "Wait what?!" "Noooo, not you individually." It's specifically designed to make women hate men in general while being able to still kind of love their dads and brothers and friends and husbands. And it's designed to make men react defensively or even aggressively. That's not because men are fragile or anything. It is purposely designed to evoke defensiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:47 AM
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I understand that feminism says that all men are oppressors and all women are oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:39 AM
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No no no no. I know what intersectionality is and how it works. I know that it looks at axes of oppression that intersect and create new forms of discrimination. And I know that for example black men are defined as the oppressed class in other marxist ideologies like Critical Race Theory. But if we stay in the feminist framework of intergender relations, you can't tell me that a black man doesn't have male privilege. A black man does have male privilege. Why? Because he is part of the privileged…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:35 AM
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Are women oppressed in the west? I don't mean "have disadvantages" or "serious gendered issues". Are they oppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:28 AM
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Men being in the more privileged class Why don't you want to say it? Men being in the privileged oppressor class. Don't leave that out! All men are in the privileged oppressor class. And thus, oppressors. Feminism makes all men oppressors by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:26 AM
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haha one more reason why a collapse seems likely. 😂 What an awesome way to make a compliment. 😂 Thanks! 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:16 AM
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No it hasn’t. Yes it has. If you just quickly peruse the top 10 feminist publications You seem to be well versed in feminism. Please tell me, are men the privileged oppressor class according to feminism or are they not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:06 AM
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Thank you. I'll make sure to be more specific when I make a prediction the next time and add a disclaimer or sth. I can see how I was kind of annoying here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:04 AM
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So the new point I raised was, while the illusion was dangerous. Have you considered the dangers of not having the illusion? Ah, gotcha. Dude, you always raise the interesting points! 🙂 Once people realize no power and admit it. They will have to make peace with the fact that they are living under tyranny. That is the kinda stuff that triggers a violent revolution. To make it short: I am convinced exactly this will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:32 AM
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There are a lot of people who understand that without identifying as a feminists in today's society. Exactly. I just wish people understood what feminism means exactly. It's not "advocating for women's rights". It's an ideology with a marxist framework.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:23 AM
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Women having the choice to live whatever life they want, whether it is a traditional lifestyle or progressive lifestyle? You can say and want that without being a feminist. Or telling a poor ugly dude he's "privileged" somehow just because he is a man. If you (general you) don't think this is correct then you are not a feminist. The guy is privileged by definition in the feminist framework.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:17 AM
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Dude... just let it rest. People were talking about WWIII ffs. And I don't remember saying: I am an expert, I bet 1000€, please hold me accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:14 AM
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Yes it has. An ideology that defines men as oppressors and women as the oppressed for god knows how long has poisoned the well. So: yah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:11 AM
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I am not claiming anything. 😃 Jesus Christ. People have no idea about the conflict, but get riled up by sensationalist headlines.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:03 AM
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Ukraine has tons of ethnic Russians I wish people knew at least that. Rule of thumb: If you didn't know, don't talk about the Russian-Ukrainian conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:00 AM
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Feminism has poisoned the well for any and every discussion about gender relations for many decades now. It's the one and only reason we don't have chill discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:59 AM
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I looked through my history and this is what I said: "There might be some fighting. Situations. Explosions here and there. But nothing that you would consider war."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:49 AM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:19 AM
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riding the coin operated horse outside the mall 😂 I think “stamina” is mostly just men being pressured to train themselves to think about something other than the sexy things they’re doing with a hookup/girlfriend/spouse until the “time is right.” That's why I always say to inexperienced guys who worry about being bad in bad here on PPD hat they shouldn't worry about the performance- aspect of sex and focus on actually having fun with their future girlfriend together. If the guy is thinking only…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:17 AM
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"Something really serious". 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:03 AM
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Sometimes he lasts 3-4 minutes, sometimes he lasts 40 minutes. Thank god, finally somebody says it! 🙂 I thought I was taking crazy pills because people always say "stamina comes with experience" or something similar. When in reality it's like rolling a dice every time. 😃 And yeah, I agree, that's definitely a perk of LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:59 AM
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I don't really understand. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:47 AM
3

🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:37 AM
2

I said: war is not going to happen. And you will see, war will not happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:36 AM
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😂😂😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:29 AM
2

Who are they? Just “the powers that be”? Like what the politicians? The top 0.01% rich people? Wouldn't it be great if somebody could answer these questions? BUT! Just ask as many Americans as you want on the streets: "Hey! Do you want Americans to die in Middle Eastern countries like Syria, Afghanistan and Iraq? Do you want to spend millions per day and double digits of billions of taxpayer dollars per year for these wars? Money that could be spent elsewhere! Here in the US" Just ask them. I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:25 AM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:05 AM
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I think every citizen has some responsibility for the people they elected. Strongly disagree. 😃 If the powers- that- be want war, there will be war. People can do shit about it. Elections don't really change the crucial stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:39 AM
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Innocent Americans won't be harmed. No nukes will be fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:31 AM
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No. 100% won't result in WW3.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:27 AM
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🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:09 AM
1

Cat's outside rn 😸
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:33 AM
1

Insomnia. : ) And why are you burning the midnight oil?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:18 AM
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🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂 No worries, and keep spreading that positive energy, neighbour! You are a breath of fresh air here. 🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:13 AM
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I know that you do other stuff. I wanted to show you how your efforts might come across here. You said I actually thought the men would be happy to hear that i personally dont require a body builder shredded from the gym I have no doubt that you had only the best intentions. But think what would happen if I started a top level comment like "Women of PPD, rejoice! I, Guitars, don't require that my girlfriend wears make-up. She looks great without make-up!" Would I expect fellow PPD women to go "o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:07 AM
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They usually don't when they post here. Same reason I don't greet everyone with "Guten Tag!" 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:46 AM
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To be frank, I wouldn't expect the women here to be happy that I, Guitars, don't require [insert anything here].
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:38 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:34 AM
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username doesn't check out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:24 AM
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Haha, you actually think about whites like that! 😃 The above question wasn't a hypothetical!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:16 AM
2

Ça va?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:09 AM
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A bouncer I know said that he and the crew always let women duke it out before throwing them out of the club. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:47 AM
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ecause it is a nice ego boast The things we do/endure for ego boosts!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:28 AM
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🙂 not sure why my comment triggered some people Haha, I could write a 1000 word essay about the different reasons given by different guys. But let me just say this: There's something about lifting heavy that you (general you) can't know and "feel" if you haven't done it yet. How it affects your whole life. (Even outside of dating). It is literally magic. So it basically boils down to "people who know the beauty of lifting talking with people who have never experienced the beauty of it". --> Perf…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:24 AM
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Ouch...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:10 AM
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It's because of a Joe Rogan podcast that went viral where a woman broke up with her man over an MMA fight. He actually won the fight but looked girly during one attack where he was pummeled.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:04 AM
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it's really just picking things up and putting them down lol 😂 haha, yeah I can see that. Oh, I dragged a platonic friend to the gym once. She did machine exercises but I could see that she was impressed seeing me do lifts. But like you said, chatting about it would be dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:48 PM
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I admire guys who get results with body- weight training, I really do, but it's not for me. Lifting weights is just so much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:43 PM
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Potential negatives: basically nothing. 😂 All said. Close the thread!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:39 PM
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No worries! Didn't come across as attack at all. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:38 PM
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I agree that the gym isn't an "interesting" I agree that working out with machines isn't. But man, lifting iron barbells... I find it exciting. Just standing next to the barbell between deadlift sets makes me feel like a lion or something. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:36 PM
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I am not saying they are doing the right thing. 😃 Just explaining what's behind it because you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:32 PM
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My rant is, why do men always come back? Because the first steps in approaching/getting to know a woman are the most uncomfortable. If you don't feel like doing that at the moment you go back to women you already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:30 PM
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Didn't work for me. 😅 I was training martial arts pretty intensely. We did a lot of bodyweight exercises as warm-ups. But nobody would have described me as fit, looks-wise. The gym changed everything for me. 🙂 Like I said: some guys. Oh and lifting is perfect for people who are out of shape and want to finally start being active. For example a fat guy might not have much fun when he tries climbing for the first time. The great thing about lifting weights is that you can adjust the intensity of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:22 PM
2

😂😂😂👍👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:05 PM
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Now we know why he's a virgin! 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:01 PM
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Some guys really need to hit the gym. Some guys look great when they are skinny, other guys just look ill. I always say "better err on the gym side". 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:59 PM
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Really? Two of my gfs took birth control because of the positive side effects. It helped one of them with period pain an the other one with skin problems. Maybe try another pill? One of my friends lost her libido almost completely because she had the wrong pill for her. They almost broke up over it because they didn't realise it was a side-effect of birth control. Both thought she had lost interest in him. After she change to another pill everything went back to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:56 PM
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underrated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:51 PM
2

He asks for you to cuddle him Never ask for cuddle. Just cuddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:50 PM
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Good question, I honestly don't know. 😃 It might seem obvious to us guys because we are guys but not obvious to women because they are not guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:49 PM
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The dream!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:42 PM
2

Oh yes. Definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:19 PM
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Happened to a friend of mine. She was really flat. Completely flat. And had a terrible hang-up. Was really shy, didn't talk much. After the boob job she blossomed. Became outgoing. And left him. Broke his heart but he still says that he was/is happy for her because it really changed her for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:03 PM
1

I remember that! How did it go?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:56 PM
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I am glad you asked! 🙂 Nope, it doesn't mean anything. The first word he says always sounds like "montag" (monday) to me and glaubin could be heard as "glauben" (to believe). Gleebin and globin don't sound close to any German word. I remember how we desperately (with headphones on) tried to make sense of it back then until we accepted that it's just made up words. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:52 PM
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Couldn't resist. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:31 PM
1

Yeah, what a metric. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:29 PM
1

ROCK OF AGES!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:24 PM
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I get that but that's not what's going to happen. OF girl: "What? I have less customers now? That means the remaining ones will have to pay more to make up for the loss."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:21 PM
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100% white people at the Snoop Dogg concert I went to. 😅 Could have been 99% but I didn't see a black person in the audience. And man, was it packed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:56 PM
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We're talking about OF girls. Demand goes down, they'll raise their prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:43 PM
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Seems like you'd be missing out on a lot of good stories should you really go for a career change. (And we'd be missing out,too) 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:38 PM
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It's not about 'brown man bad,' it's about culture. Hard to argue with that. But people will find a way to do it anyway. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:36 PM
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He can be the same, exact person But what are the odds? The same person raised in India and raised in the UK in a parallel universe being exactly the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:53 PM
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and his boss ended up swiping on him. 😂😂😂 In theory, it should work to get your foot-in-the-door. Yeah, that's what I meant. The thread was about "no matches", not "why do women leave me". However, long-term the more discrepancy there is between your selected profile and you I get that, yeah. Ultimately there are not many women who'd be compatible with him. I just find it interesting that he would be kind of "lying by omission" with different profiles. Not telling the full story but also not rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:49 PM
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Yeah, fuck that shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:37 PM
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Interesting because that doesn't sound like insecurity to me at all. Making fair assessments lime this is a sign of people who are not insecure in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:27 PM
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That’s why companies will usually release multiple options, seemingly competing with themselves on a flagship product. This is to keep the initial product’s niche appeal while using the alternatives to capture other segments. That means his best bet would be to have two different profiles/accounts? This could actually work I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:20 PM
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Doesn't look like he is half-assing anything though. 😃 Jesus Christ, those abs. Not half-assing the glasses either. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:36 PM
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He is intimidating to the types of women he would actually want to date, not intimidating enough for the type of women he's probably actively avoiding anyway. Yeah. Man, it's a shame. I think the nerd/athlete combination is really great. And stands out. Not your run of the mill guy. Well, seems like it's a case of "sounds good on paper, doesn't really work irl".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:54 PM
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Well put. I don't even know what to say to her anymore...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:55 AM
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Marxist OP literally making a case for pedophilia
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:20 AM
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Wouldn't it make more sense just assume they're not attracted enough No! 😃 Men can be wildly attracted and still not approach her, or, if they know her, make a move. Shy guys for example. Or men who see her at a bar and think "she seems to want to have fun with her fans... better not approach and annoy her."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:16 AM
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WOW! Thanks to OP, I just found out that you can use marxist ideology to fight against the stigma of pedophilia because the stigma against pedophilia is "deeply right- wing". To quote OP: "First, your misguided, vicious hatred of pedophiles is based on the unscientific cultural myth that adult/child sexual interactions are intrinsically harmful. " Lol. So when you say "adults fucking little children is never good", he counters with "your belief is based on an unscientific myth." Read the linked …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:08 AM
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Yeah, why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:24 AM
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Well if you want to use "attract" literally: She is attracting the right kind of man, too, but they "resist" the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:23 AM
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you lucky bruh... Yeah, but as you can probably guess: gainz don't come easy to me. It's always one or the other, damnit. So I wanted to use my love for sweets to practice self control. These traits like being impulsive, spontaneous, hedonistic, risk averse are hard to change but I want to try. Ah, I see! I never even tried it! I always try to find a method to reach a goal where I don't need discipline. (Not that it worked all the time, but I try). So I wonder if grit can be trained. By all mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:21 AM
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I am glad that I had Russian and Romanian friends in school. They quickly convinced me that socialism/communism is not as great as it looks on paper. But OP is a marxist-leninist. He would simply tell you that the Soviet Union was "Stalinist" not Marxist-Leninist and thus doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:05 AM
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He is a likeable guy!!! I always saw him as median's friend. 😅 ("I'm average too" had me dying) 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:01 AM
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And like why do you think girls often take their boyfriends hoodie. Because it smells like them. OP: "There has never been a scientific study with statistical significance that actually proved that they do. We need a world-wide marxist revolution to overthrow capitalism so that everybody has their own oversized hoodie."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:48 AM
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Interesting stuff! I always chose a completely different path. I like it simple. "Es ist leichter einer Sache ganz zu entsagen, als in ihr Maß zu halten." - Nietzsche 😃 I'll try to translate it: "It's easier to forsake a desire completely than to be moderate in it." For me that meant no sweets while cutting or losing weight after slacking off at all. No donuts. No chocolate. No sweets in my life not even one, no temptation. Out of sight, out of mind, out of desire. Good thing is that I never nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:40 AM
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Mad respect for the workload you manage! 👍 Did you attend university? A kind of German pleb college, hard to explain. 😃 But I was already in an LTR when I started, so It was different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:50 AM
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It's obvious that this woman attracts most men Yeah, but keep in mind that while she is attractive to a lot or even most men, only a fraction of those men will actually make a move and hit on her. (irl) When only the wrong kind of men approach her, for example because the nice guys don't dare to approach, she might get the impression that she somehow attracts the wrong kind of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:29 AM
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Challenge... not accepted. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:44 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:39 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:33 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:29 AM
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The first time I saw the noun to verb thing was in an episode of Supernatural. Dean is a ghost and can't touch things. But then he gets angry and because of his emotion that manifests in the real world, shatters a glass of water. And he says: "Damn! I just full on swayzed that mother" 😂 My brother and I: You can turn Patrick Swayze into a verb? What magic is this?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:41 PM
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I regard biodeterminism in all its forms—including the "genetic predisposition" hypothesis—to be essentially pseudoscientific and mere right-wing ideology whose function is to justify and preserve social inequality. Anybody who wants to find out how dangerous this marxist thinking is should check out "Lysenkoism" on Wikipedia. Short version: The Soviet Union declared genetics in agriculture as Nazi and capitalist propaganda and pseudoscience. Genetics? No such thing! We can alter crops just by p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:36 PM
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Let me preface this post with some background. I am a Marxist psychology/sociology double-major Thanks for the heads- up! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:15 PM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:14 PM
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Finally! Median for the win! Fuck the arithmetic mean!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:55 PM
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Yeah, the conversation seemed pretty chill. 🙂 "I am not like other guys" is just a personal pet peeve of mine. It's wrong on so many levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:52 PM
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Haha the mature part at the end is awesome! 😃👍 But damn... bros are still trying the "I am not like other guys"- approach. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:46 PM
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FWIW, I don't do casual sex. I have always been a relationship- minded guy. but hasn't been in a relationship because she's studying for med school She isn't able to have an LTR just because she is studying? Red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:40 PM
3

Jesus Christ... 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:37 PM
3

Meme go brrrrr
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:31 PM
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Bicycles? No thank you, childhood flashbacks. Car go brrrrrr!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:10 PM
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Even if she has sex only with 2 different guys in a whole year by 27 she'll have an n-count of 20 which is apparently too high for men. Not a single longterm relationship from 17-27? Yeah, that's a red flag when you are looking for a relationship-minded woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:43 PM
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The EU can’t heat their countries without Russia. They tell us we can heat our country with US gas instead. Lots of headlines in the news saying exactly that. I'd prefer to have Nord Stream 2 in operation, but it is what it is. They were stupid to get rid of nuclear Unbelievably stupid. I think it was intentional sabotage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:40 PM
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Awesome! 🙂👍 But I'd happily trade that in for being able to make a verb out of any noun like you guys can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:27 PM
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I am not surprised to be honest. I saw that coming for a long time. There have been so many attempts to shut down Nord Stream 2 long before the Ukraine conflict. Even from our own politicians. I knew they would use the conflict to finally make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:23 PM
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He's got their nuts in his palm... I wish. It's our politicians who just decided to "sanction" Russia by not buying gas from them because of the conflict. Ah well, American fracking gas it is, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:19 PM
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Yes, neighbour! 😃 We don't have an official name for it, but I call it "Kanarienvogelfrisur" (canary bird cut). 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:10 PM
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for some reason very short pixie cut after a certain age Omg, it's the same here. The ultimate betrayal in a marriage. 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:04 PM
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Germany has been restricting weapon exports to Russia for quite some time. Germany often doesn't sell weapons but other military tech to regions of conflict, yeah. And, of course makes exceptions here and there. I hate it. I say just sell to whomever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:02 PM
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Btw, did you know that Germany refuses to sell weapons to the Ukraine but sent 5000 helmets as a "proof of solidarity"? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:45 PM
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😂😂😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:43 PM
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😂😂😂😂👍👍👍👍😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:41 PM
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2431*4
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:39 PM
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Definitely no WWIII. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:36 PM
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I am asking because what you're doing is a bit like day- dreaming. I did that a lot when I was young and unsuccessful with women. Lots of guys who are not successful with women do. Don't pat yourself on the back for not cheating as long as you are not even in a position to cheat. If you have the chance to cheat one day and you don't, pat yourself on the back. Not before. You seem to be aware of this judging from your reply, so let me just say best of luck for your future endeavours. : )
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:40 PM
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Do you really not understand why some men cheat or are you just trying to feel good by saying and thinking "I would never cheat! I would be such a great boyfriend and husband!"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:14 PM
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Sounds all good to me. 🙂 Lower my standards and have sex with girls I don’t want to date seriously. A lot of guys don't want to do this because they don't want to hurt the girl's feelings. Turns out most of the time that the girl doesn't suffer extreme heartbreak and the guy was just another "guy who it just didn't work out with" in her mind. Godspeed, friend. I have absolutely no doubt that you will have success. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:43 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:28 PM
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Btw you're German? Yes, I am. Where do you hail from, neighbour? 🙂 Cheers 🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:07 PM
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Drastic steps for the win! EDIT: I hope I understood you correctly. Drastic steps as in "invest all my energy into becoming attractive and try my luck with as many women as possible."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:04 PM
2

Well you say you do preach against using violence. When you do that you could give a kid the impression that he shouldn't use violence against bullying if you aren't specific enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:03 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:57 PM
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Too bad that evolution didn't take guns into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:43 PM
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I do preach against using violence usually, but if there is one thing i hate its a bully. Great. 👍 Just make sure you're not giving out confusing mixed messages when you preach against violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:41 PM
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It could also just be being an asshole Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:39 PM
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I think that this is an urban myth. I don't think that insecurity is the reason behind bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:33 PM
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😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:24 PM
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but how much do men actually care about weight? I started to care more and more about weight with experience. Slightly overweight is okay, but in most LTRs she will gain significant weight. Anecdotally. And that can affect the relationship on multiple levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:23 PM
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I'm not prematurely advocating in any way for women to start dating or mating with guys that they currently do not find attractive I think nobody is saying that btw. Say there are three guys: Unattractive guy Attractive enough guy who wants to wife her up Even more attractive guy who only wants her for casual sex. Nobody says she should marry guy number 1. But yeah, we do judge her for choosing guy 3 over guy 2 when she is a woman who wants to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:19 PM
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Ah shit, here we go again... let the revenge fantasy die Never!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:14 PM
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The "alpha" is the abuser and the women enablers or cheerleaders. I haven't seen this happen a lot. The issue with standing up to bullying in the context of red pill, blue pill and women I find important is the "turn the other cheek, violence is not a solution, solve conflicts with words not violence"- mentality that is often endorsed by women. Especially mothers. School policies, too. It really held me back. Understanding that violence against bullies is fucking awesome and a great solution was…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:51 PM
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In general he's coming across as more and more fascist and with increasing political ambitions to those of us who have always disliked him. I can see that. Makes sense. There's been a steady stream of previous fans saying WTF and walking away Yeah. He really should have retired after his Benzo problems. Maybe even before? I lost interest in him eventually because I had the feeling: "Dude, you made your point, well done. But if you don't have anything new to say, don't be as omnipresent as you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:28 PM
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I have no doubt. : )
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:03 PM
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😃
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:01 PM
1

I do not agree a guy needs to be shredded. Strong and not obese, yes. But the strong doesn't have to be shredded. I see that as an unfair advantage men have. 🙂 When I am lifting heavy I can basically eat what I want without gaining weight. Even junk food and ice cream. I like that better than always having to be careful not to overeat. But that's personal preference of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:01 PM
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Follow your heart that says no! 🙂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:50 PM
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This girl fucks! 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:39 PM
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He's become verbally and emotionally incontinent on twitter. Always has been. 😃 Co-wrote an appallingly bad diss track about the Canadian Prime minister. Cringe. Jesus Christ, just youtubed it and wow, the song is really cringe. Sad to see. 😕 The rest of the list doesn't phase me much though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:38 PM
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And we’ve heard it all before too. Lol, no you haven't. 😃 That's why you are all so surprised when you hear men talking about it here at PPD for the first time. we’re raised to see men’s “issues” and take them seriously. No, you aren't. You didn't take them seriously before finding PPD and you aren't taking them seriously now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:34 PM
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What a bad ass!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:06 PM
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But when women say “here’s a little something men should understand about women” That's because men have heard all of it a thousand times before they find PPD. We are all raised to see womens' issues and take them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:03 PM
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But that doesn't change anything. The revenge fantasy came true. You said "let the revenge fantasy die". But why let it die when it proves to be real?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:58 PM
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Why can't people comprehend that being alone is better than What does that have to do with anything? 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:37 PM
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Don't know what he's been up to lately. Anything egregious?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:28 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:19 PM
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Would rather have been alone. But you aren't alone. 🙂🥳🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:18 PM
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I have spent many hours reading about it years ago and made up my mind. One article will not change my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:17 PM
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Full disclosure: I was really looking forward to seeing the revenge fantasy fulfilled and seeing women end up unhappy and alone. Turns out that when the time finally came, they were so unhappy being alone that I couldn't really enjoy it. Yeah, I wanted them to be unhappy, but they were and are so miserable that I couldn't help but sympathise with them. That was a real bummer. 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:50 PM
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Women aren’t willing to be alone out of some misplaced sense of revenge Literally nobody is saying that. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:46 PM
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I suppose if you want a woman to suffer, try and be with somebody who doesn't reslly want you that much... That doesn't work as revenge fantasy. We couldn't enjoy her suffering because we would sympathise with the poor guy. That revenge fantasy is not fun at all! So, yeah, we are perfectly happy with the revenge fantasy you brought up. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:44 PM
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The revenge fantasy is: "They will end up alone." That means when they actually end up alone, the revenge fantasy came true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:32 PM
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They end up alone. --> Revenge fantasy fulfilled. Doesn't matter that they pretend to be happy. And doesn't matter that they might be even less happy with a BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:22 PM
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let the revenge fantasy die But what you say is the revenge fantasy. 😃 Women ending up alone because they couldn't and can't manage expectations. Women settling for a BB is not the revenge fantasy. So it doesn't matter if it doesn't happen according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:09 PM
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Exactly. I love courting but it feels kind of pointless or empty when she had a hoe phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:12 AM
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I'll have to agree. His timing was really stupid. I mean, most people have concerns that their partner will slack off after the courtship phase. It's usually a slow process and often not intentional. But doing it right after deciding to be exclusive is like intentionally saying "now that we're together, I don't have to invest as much." I hated it when it happened to me. "ha, now I have girlfriend privilege. From now on I will expect more and give less". So, I don't really blame her, entitlement …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:46 AM
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Basically, they are kinda preemptively doing post-nut clarity for the guy 😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:16 AM
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It sucks that I am on smartphone and can't see anybody's full flair anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:05 AM
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Nature is cruel. 😥 Why can't women have prostates?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:11 AM
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Real or fake couple? I can't bring myself to care. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:10 AM
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We are doing everything we can for her And Annabelle knows it! She's a lucky cow to have you two.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:01 AM
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I have never been shamed for being single but I always noticed a difference in how (some) people treated me when I was in a relationship. It's hard to explain but I always felt more respected by people when I was in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:30 AM
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For real.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:06 AM
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Now take the win and shut up already. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:04 AM
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Tbh, the lack of single women was a problem even in my 20s. And we were socially active.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:56 AM
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There might be a "your mum"- joke in there. Not sure though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:53 AM
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Bro, I am not judging you at all. And I am a judgmental bastard most of the time. I just know that it isn't for me personally. I also don't play on hardcore mode like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:28 AM
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I always said that the only real frustrating thing is that they are rare not that they are hard. Exactly. And I didn't even realise it until one day I thought "man, I lift, dress well and know how to flirt with women. Why do I find dating so hard?". And then I realised the only thing that was holding me back was that I rarely met single women. so my goal is to either steal her or be the next in line. Yeah, I can't do that. That's just not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:02 AM
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😥
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:54 AM
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😃
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:52 AM
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you’ll see plenty of single women you can hit on That's exactly what I don't see. 😃 Spotting an attractive single woman irl is like finding a Sasquatch. Sure, depends on where you live. But really, if I could only change one thing, it wouldn't be hypergamy or womens' standards or anything. It would be "more attractive single women than we have now".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:51 AM
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I disagree 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:45 AM
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I love being a man and I love women. I just wish we had a slightly more level playing field. Doesn't have to be completely level. Just more level than it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:39 AM
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Nice way to use trp lingo against us 😃👍 Well played.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:19 AM
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No, there aren't. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:08 AM
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But they are special! ❤🇺🇸
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:07 AM
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Seems like. I took a five year or so break and I am just now getting a feel for the place. Doesn't look good for the red pill. I respect black pillers a lot but the black pill is completely incompatible with TRP. If you are a black piller you shouldn't be a part of the red pill community. If you don't believe you can turn things around for yourself it doesn't make sense to be part of the red pill community.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:06 AM
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That's true. But I wasn't saying that it would make them value and respect you. I just said that they won't immediately see you as the fake nice guy you read a lot about online. Which is what OP thought might happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:36 PM
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I want a rule that makes it mandatory to put your location in your flair if you're not in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:29 PM
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I have faith in you. 🙂 Three dates means she like you. And even if she rejects you when you make a move, she will respect you for making one. Romance isn't my strong suit. That's not an excuse for not even trying. 🙂 I wish you the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:24 PM
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All I can say is that while I hate casual sex and was always looking for and finding serious relationships, I would be willing to consider an anal-only casual relationship. It's just too tempting. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:19 PM
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From what I remember one of the big mistakes Germany did was operate under the assumption most of the immigrants were just temporary workers and because of that they never tried to assimilate them Yeah, that's what they tell us. 🙂 It's also far from being the whole story. Yes, Germany never tried to assimilate them because Germany never wanted the guest workers to stay here. They understood that "guestworkers not returning to their home countries" was a real danger and actively tried to prevent …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:02 PM
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I don't even know what to say. 😂 How about "save your ass for men who you like or love and are in a serious relationship with"? Now, that would be an incentive for men to rise up to women's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:28 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:20 PM
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Most places here prefer to hire women and charismatic guys for bar jobs. But it seems to be different in the USA. I agree that it will definitely help guys to be more social and attractive. But yeah: Lift heavy first!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:17 PM
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but I have done research and thinking on immigration I can see that. You have a more nuanced view than many of the people here who grew up with mass immigration and an overburdening welfare system, but somehow don't think about it at all or just accept everything they are being told. It's funny because: The USA have always been a crystal ball for us here in Germany. Whatever trends we saw happening in the USA, we knew that we would have to deal with, too, sooner or later. Outsourcing, obesity cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:12 PM
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So true...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:48 PM
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You need to... Reading that list and seeing that we do the complete opposite gave me anciety. Trigger warning next time, please. 😃 Yeah, you know your stuff. Where are you located, bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:47 PM
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Movies and propaganda. When I started doing traditional martial arts stuff when I was 15 I really thought I would be able to fight like the guys in the movies eventually. I was literally blue pilled. I eventually felt "man I don't think this block would work in real- life" but suppressed the thoughts. The rise of MMA was a real paradigm- shift just like the red- pill. Looking back, I can't believe how naive I was. It feels like a cruel joke that was played on all of us. Boxing and wrestling righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:43 PM
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Yes it does. No, it doesn't. Just because we don't like it nowadays it doesn't mean people didn't in the past Just because you don't like the fact that fat women were never seen as more attractive doesn't make it not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:33 PM
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Spread the word! Tell a friend! 🙂😂🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:29 PM
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Oh yeah, that's a point that is often overlooked. 👍 It's really dire, man. If it was at least a win-lose situation. But it seems more like a lose-lose situation seeing how unhappy many immigrants are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:28 PM
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I have seen so many guys self-sabotage because they thought: "She must love that I am taking it slow and that I am not in any way pressuring her", while in reality she was thinking "why isn't he making a move? Am I ugly? Doesn't he like me?" 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:15 PM
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It is though It is not. Rubens, the guy who is famous for painting fat women openly said how disgusted he was by fat women and called them "a waste of flesh". You need to read into the topic. It is not simple. People are attracted to wealth People might be attracted to wealth but that doesn't make a wealthy woman attractive. It might make her an attractive choice. But it doesn't make her an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:05 PM
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Exactly! those guys can't have kids which means it is going to cause massive retirement bulges that can't be paid for. And that means you'd need to import another generation of young men to pay for them. It's just not a sustainable model.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:01 PM
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Most paintings were made with the intent of No, it's not that easy. signaled wealth Signaled wealth =/= attractive. Attractive choice for a marriage to consolidate power, yeah. But not attractive. Read about it outside of feminist interpretation and you will find out that fat was not seen as beautiful in medieval times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:55 PM
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In medieval times fat women were considered more attractive Not really, no. I know people often say that but when you read into it, it turns out that just because you see a lot of fat women in medieval paintings, it doesn't mean that fat women were seen as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:46 PM
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She's probably wondering why you haven't made a move yet. Make a move soon! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:36 PM
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Yes, he was! Final fight was Donnie vs Sammo. Lots of wrestling and Judo moves. But the real highlight of the movie is Donnie with a baton vs Wu Jing with a knife. Iconic scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:32 PM
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😃 Awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:27 PM
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Donnie Yen would be my pick for "smaller yet still dangerous". Especially in Kill Zone. Holy shit. Didn't like the movie much, but the fighting was insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:24 PM
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Quiet! From now on, you won't listen to your guidance counselor. You're going to listen to me. Is that understood?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:20 PM
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Truer words have never been spoken!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:19 PM
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Always. Cobra Kai always counts. Now stop yapping like a little girl and give me 50 pushups on your knuckles!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:38 PM
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Not in my experience. But I know that it depends on location and social circle, of course. Learning to set boundaries is always required, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:25 PM
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Undisputed 2 and 3. (Just skip Undisputed 1). The camera work is insane. Will spoil you for other martial arts movies. You can not unsee it and will always miss it in other movies. It will also make you say "I am the most complete fighter" with a Russian accent in front of a mirror from time to time. This will improve both your bench-press and your kicking height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:22 PM
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You really should look at some of the problems that feminism IS causing. The most important one in my opinion being that feminist rhetoric and framing has successfully poisoned the well for any discussion about gendered issues online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:12 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:48 PM
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I don't feel competent enough to answer that question, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:43 PM
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I always had close platonic friendships and can confirm that they are not a substitute for a relationship. It's an LTR. An ellbow, an ell-tee-are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:58 PM
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How do we approach our welfare state in a country of increasing singledom and childlessness? cries in German There is no feasible way to approach it. We are doomed. Childlessness + welfare state + overwhelmingly male mass immigration = the end
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:47 PM
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but is there also discussion on what the reasons for this are Yes. and maybe how we could try and fix it? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:38 PM
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I wouldn't worry about it. It doesn't seem to spill over into real-life. If you are genuinely nice most people irl will appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:25 PM
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Welcome! 🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:25 PM
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That sounds like a definite win to me. Congrats! 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:24 PM
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Obsess over sex by all means, but not the performance aspect. I was late, too. I didn't consciously tell myself not to worry. I just for some reason didn't. And I am glad that I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:06 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:56 PM
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Yeah, and it sucks. Ever since the incel forums were deleted and the rise of Black Pill, the landscape has changed completely. A lot more negativity. Back then the anger phase was seen as something you need to overcome and still is, but there are so many guys who instead glorify the anger phase now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:52 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:48 PM
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Good points, but Why not pick up martial arts? Lift heavy! Martial arts later!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:01 AM
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Thank you for asking and reading, American brotha. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:00 AM
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Damn, I am really happy that I didn't obsess over the performance- aspect of sex before actually having sex. It's really not rocket science. It's really not. On top of that: Every woman is different. After regular sex in a 4 year long relationship it was almost like starting over in the next LTR. Finding out what both of you like is fun. Chances are that your first girlfriend won't be a battle-hardened slut and not only won't she be expecting pornstar-performance of you but she will probably be …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:32 AM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:14 AM
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Damn. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:39 AM
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Thanks for reading! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:34 AM
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its your job to not be the weak guy who gets walked over, to the best of your ability. Yup. That's TRP. Didn't understand any of the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:13 AM
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So all the current headlines are saying Russia's military is on the border of Ukraine. That satellite photos prove this (I haven't seen any photos myself). Oh, I am sorry, I am not completely up-to-date with this exact situation. I know that there's a lot of speculation but I didn't go down that rabbit hole. I have seen headlines that ask the question if Russia has really withdrawn troops. But I don't care. I mean: They said "we know that Russia will invade the Ukraine on Wednesday. We have inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:01 AM
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Sending all the positive energy I have
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:42 AM
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Thanks for reading and feedbacking. ; ) I am not really an expert and I am not in Russia or the Ukraine. I am German and mainly interested in the conflict because of the Nordstream2 gas pipeline from Russia to Germany. Which is also part of the conflict. That one is a real rabbit hole. 😀 I don't know if you know about that one, but the short version is: They have built an underwater gas pipeline called "Nordstream 2" directly from Russia to Germany. It's built but not yet in operation. Would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:34 AM
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Awesome! How does the Schecter play? Never had the chance to test one. I have four electric guitars and two bass guitars, but I only really played the Ibanez 450s which I bought used for 300€. Eventually the frets where so worn out that I wanted to buy a new guitar. Was willing to dish out > 1000€. Didn't find a single guitar that I wanted and instead had the 450s re-fretted. I have a decades old Squier Strat that I only use to play old Dire Straits stuff. I have another Ibanez modded for down-t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:36 AM
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And rightfully so I dare say, mon ami. : )
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:12 AM
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I am glad that you asked. It's complete and utter bullshit.😃 Some things you need to know to even try to begin to understand the conflict: 17% or about 8 million of the population of the Ukraine are ethnic Russians. The latter are real Ukrainians, but they are also ethnic Russians. There have often been tensions between the Ukrainians and ethnic Russians. Those tensions exploded in 2014. Euromaidan and all. Real actual fighting and killing between Ukrainians and ethnic Russians in the Ukraine. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:58 AM
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😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:30 AM
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As a bed? But that's what chests are for! Literally the only reason men are bench- pressing at the gym. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:24 AM
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I know you're a guy. You welcomed me back friendly. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:23 AM
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We are not in any danger of World War III. 🙂 Not in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:17 AM
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Can men give you answers, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:16 AM
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Can't say that I disagree. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:13 AM
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That's just completely normal non-toxic femininity. EDIT: While women seem to be wrong more often with "I don't really want xy" like "a whole cheeseburger", men are often wrong with "I don't really need xy". So the completely normal non-toxic masculinity equivalent would be saying "You don't need to pack an Umbrella/rain-proof jacket/ a toolbox/xy...for me". The woman brings it anyway and it saves the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:00 AM
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My alpha buddy Chad did that. But I think he was doing it to actively select for women who were okay with only casual sex. It was hilarious to see the same guy who just told us how fascinating he found the documentary about [insert anything historical here] and talked with us about it for 30 minutes, transform into a neanderthal at the press of a button.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:43 AM
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I figured you knew men would say this but still commented. It's more fun to have female/male answers side by side.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:30 AM
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There doesn't need to be a "conflict". Oh, but there IS a conflict. Which will be solved without war by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:27 AM
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super hot, hands down
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:24 AM
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Erm, no. There are actual concerns and history behind the whole conflict. Most of the headlines and articles are stupid and make it sound like a dick- measuring contest. But it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:10 AM
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Going to the gym was much more fun after I stopped doing that. Completely unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:45 AM
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😂 His comments are hilarious. A girl says "you're 5ish" and he replies with: "We’ll I looked at your picture your cute, is a 5 bad? I’m terms of attractiveness" Trying to flirt right out of the gate as soon as a cute girl rates him... 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:27 AM
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only selfies muslim weird bio. The last picture looks like he is hiding behind his cell phone and observing you like a predator. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:00 AM
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It won't suck. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:59 PM
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Yeah, no worries, bro. I just find it really disrespectful and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:10 PM
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What the fuck? Stupid fucked up racist generalisation about German women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:00 PM
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but demands people give a shit about their problems? That's exactly what The Red Pill doesn't do. 😃 Guys on PPD do it. But it isn't a red pill thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:08 PM
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Wow. Saved for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:47 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:42 PM
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As a pleb I have always seen academic research as magical and imaged the scientific community as, erm, awesome people who inspire each other. But then I heard and read a lot about how much infighting there was. And reputation attacks. I honestly felt like I felt when I was a kid and realised Santa Claus isn't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:41 PM
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without actually intended to push for real changes It's not what TRP is about. TRP is very individualistic. It's all about "changing" yourself and working on yourself. Not other people and not society. TRP is not some kind of reverse feminism. I had been active over at /mensrights for about 1.5 years or so before I moved on to TRP. I realised that it isn't worth trying to change other peoples' opinions and worldviews and trying to get people interested in men's issues and asking for respect and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:29 PM
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Netflix vibes intensify I am hooked! Be well soon, Annabelle!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:35 PM
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Thank you, bro. : ) Stuff like that is kind of, erm, my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:31 PM
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I think you misread something. I was saying that, according to what the German black men said in the discussion, black men in Germany don't or rarely date black women in Germany. Black men in Germany seem to prefer dating white women. What you say isn't the opposite of this. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:02 PM
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This truly and honestly made my day, dear. 😊 I am kind of lost for words. So happy to know that there are cute couples like you two out there. Have a nice day 🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:19 AM
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😡
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:44 AM
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I can imagine. : ) Okay, to be honest: It sounded more like a made up reason in the discussion video. Not genuine. It was basically 40 minutes of them making excuses why they wouldn't date black women and not one of the excuses sounded convincing/genuine. ("My parents always said they didn't want me to date black girls"). I'd link it but it doesn't have English subtitles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:39 AM
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And is having a hard time thinking of her physically as anything other than a relative, Omg, I have heard black men in Germany say exactly the same in a discussion video. It was a two part video. First part was black women talking about the struggle with dating as a black woman in Germany. The second part was black men explaining why, while they "support black queens" (verbatim), they don't date black women. And two of them (I think) actually say that out loud. "Can't do it, a black woman remind…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:00 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:48 AM
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but I know you guys don’t watch it 😂😂😂 Guilty as charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:47 AM
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Sounds like he doesn't constantly stutter and only sometimes has a moment where he stutters? If that's the case, I'd suggest: You wait for a moment where it's really awkward/noticeable and he stops talking and looks embarrassed. Wait a moment. Then smile at him and kiss him on the cheek. --> happily ever after 🙂 Not only does it do everything you describe above (want him to know I don't care, want him to know that I like him as he is, want him to know he doesn't have to mask with me, don't want …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:24 AM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:55 AM
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Ah, I see. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:56 AM
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Asking because I just talked about it with poppy. Do you think you can accurately say "this guy lifts weights" or "this guy doesn't lift but does has a great physique from actual activities"? No front or anything. It's just that the topic comes up a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:34 AM
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Exactly! Well said. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:43 AM
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The point is that men are not saying "We only like As and Bs. Everything above is just gross." And at the same time whenever they see Cs think they are As.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:38 AM
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have to admit that a girl liking muscles is totally fine It is totally fine. Nobody's saying it wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:35 AM
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Yeah, seriously!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:31 AM
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Conforming to the expectations of a non-American/non-Middle-European cultural background would be my first guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:25 AM
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Awesome! 👍 Don't know what to say, but I think I understood everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:58 PM
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"Oh, Genie in the bottle, grant me one wish! I want to know what my husband secretly wants and needs." "That is one of the nicest wishes I was ever asked to grant! Why do you want to know what he secretly wants and needs?" "I want to know so I can tell him that he doesn't actually want or need any of it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:46 PM
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is clearly an argument based on insecurity Not as clearly as you might think. You could argue that it is based on insecurity. But you make it sound like it's based on insecurity per definitionem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:06 PM
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That's the hilarious thing. When feminists use "you're just insecure" as a shaming tactic, they are enforcing so-called toxic masculinity. The very thing they claim to fight against.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:40 PM
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Good points. But it's definitely not a new insult. "You're just insecure" is a shaming tactic that is decades old. It is just now starting to lose some of its traction as more and more men are becoming immune to shaming tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:37 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:10 PM
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Good points. I'd probably make the argument that feminism has always been charging open doors. Feminism: "Women want to have careers, too!!!" Powers that be: "Wait what? Women want to be taxpayers, too? Double the taxes? Double the labour: cheaper labour? Let's make it happen!" makes it happen Feminists: "We did it!" No they didn't. Powers that be did. In my mind, feminism has never won against actual resistance. Also explains why feminism hasn't reached the most important goals like affordable …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:58 PM
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Nope, IIRC he was so young when he was circumcised he can't even remember the procedure. I don't remember all the details exactly. I don't know at what age you can diagnose phimosis. Oh and I agree that it's the crux. I am all for banning genital mutilation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:48 PM
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I am not in the US and I am not for abandoning welfare. I was just predicting the next big idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:42 PM
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😃 I was just wondering how you would argue against "it's obvious" if you played devil's advocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:37 PM
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Just like how men who plan a anniversary just the way she likes shouldn’t make it obvious he did it mainly for her I can say from experience that this is not always a good idea. With stuff like anniversaries, yeah. But if you don't show that you are doing some things just for her, there might come a time when she says something like: "You don't invest into our relationship." And you are like: "Wtf?! I did x and y and a and b." "Yeah, but that was stuff you wanted to do anyway and ypu enjoyed it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:12 PM
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What person in America wants to pay taxes for the enforcement and imprisonment of... ...[insert anything here]
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:59 PM
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Yeah, it's NYT so it's probably like a 3-person trend piece written by someone who's fucking one of the editors, but still. 😂😂😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:30 PM
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Given who held the power back in the day, one can argue What makes you say "one can argue" instead of "it's obvious that..."? I am sure you have an interesting explanation. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:29 PM
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I think it just comes down to that a lot of people don't see the gene issue as being that big of a deal. Yup. I don't see it as a big deal either. But you and I know it's a big deal for others. When I was still dating, I had dates with single mothers and would have loved to be a step-dad. Me, a red pill guy, lol. what is the implication being made here, that the man could not love a child unless it had his genes? True, but I see the danger of people insinuating that he must love the child. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:06 PM
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What's your next big idea drug testing welfare recipients? More like "let's get rid of the welfare system. No drug testing needed".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:38 PM
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Oh dear, what an experience... Kudos for at least trying to donate blood!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:30 PM
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So would you say fraud in general should be legal because people who fell for fraudulent stuff only have themselves to blame? If you think fraud should be legal, your comment makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:27 PM
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Ah, I see. Thanks for explaining in depth. Very interesting and good points. 🙂 Seems like you have a well-reflected and not exactly common view of things. I respect that. 👍 Still salty about all the non-reflected dismissive comments though, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:23 PM
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Well, if you think so, then don't have kids I won't. Doesn't mean I don't care about men who do. Seriously what is wrong with you? Can white people care about black people's issues are can't they? Should men care about women's issues or shouldn't they or shouldn't they? Is this a female thing? "Not my problem, I don't care"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:07 PM
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Oatmeal in vanilla protein shake with slices of banana.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:02 PM
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It's literally not though, from a numeric standpoint It literally is. 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:56 PM
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I told the full story in another comment. (Remember it's in Germany. Paternity laws are different here. I am on my phone, I hope the link works: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/svefti/comment/hxgkftq/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:55 PM
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Well, what can be done about it? Probably not much. But not saying "paternity fraud is not such a huge issue" would be a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:49 PM
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😃👍 Point still stands. People do care about stuff that doesn't affect them or their close ones. There's no reason they couldn't care about paternity fraud. At least when the topic comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:41 PM
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Funny, I recall seeing lots of BLM protests here in Germany. Just ask a few black guys what they think about the average Becky "standing up" for black rights. Many of them are not impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:36 PM
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not something most women are going to think about since it is unlikely to affect them... Truer words have never been spoken. Carve that in stone! 😃 ... or anyone they know Makes me wonder why many women are protesting for all kinds of stuff on behalf of, for example, minorities when they live in white communities and don't even know a single POC.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:28 PM
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Probably both. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:22 PM
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can learn just as much Strongly disagree with "just as much". Yes, it is a learning experience but completely different than, for example, an fwb situation ending with a heartbreak. Even compared to a pump and dump situation. Getting rejected doesn't give you experience with flirting, making out and spending time together as more than friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:21 PM
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I wouldn't because lie detectors aren't accurate. If they were, I'd voluntarily and happily do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:45 PM
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Just like they made it seem worse than it is here in Germany. You can't go to the corner pharmacy but if the woman doesn't consent to a paternity test, the court will (don't know the legal term in English) give consent instead of the mother and she can't stop him from doing a paternity test. Still sucks, but yeah. It's not as bad as people made it sound or believed it was. We were close to allowing secretly doing paternity tests but some chick overruled it. Her decision would become to be known …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:44 PM
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Circumcision isn't common here in Germany. But one of my friends was circumcised because of Phimosis and they botched the procedure. I mean, I know (off the top off my head) only two guys who were circumcised and one of them had a botched procedure. Fuck this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:26 PM
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I know of one case in my circle of friends. I don't know how often it happens but I do know that it needs to be addressed seeing how much damage it did to everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:15 PM
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If you want the full story: My friend had an ONS with her. Never heard from her again. When she noticed that she was pregnant from the ONS, she got into a relationship with some other guy. And made it seem as if he was the father. So that guy raised the girl for six years thinking he was the father. They also eventually had a child together so he was raising two kids. Then she cheated on him with another guy. When he found out he thought: "She is a cheater. Who knows how often she has cheated on…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:04 PM
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That's why I said if those were the only options.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:30 PM
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I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:27 PM
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Yup. The point I really wanted to make is that it's ridiculous how women call men who want to do a paternity test insecure. (Or variations of insecure). What I wanted to say is that a man who insists on doing a paternity test is actually the opposite. He is confident and strong. Female shaming tactics and entitlement are on full display whenever we talk about this topic. We need to point this out whenever it happens. Men are becoming more and more aware of and immune to shaming tactics and that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:25 PM
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Dafuq?! Didn't know...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:22 PM
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If it's a choice between the not-father and taxpayers, the ethically correct pick is "taxpayers".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:20 PM
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Yeah, I have heard some horror stories that wouldn't be possible here. Still, it's not a paradise here when it comes to stuff like that . I have seen some fucked up stuff. Thanks for saying Deutschland btw, you man of culture. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:15 PM
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This mindset is too optimistic and divorced from reality. Sounds like me, yeah. 😂 But man, you know that laws and the whole system will never ever favor men. The only thing we can do is raise awareness and help individual men to not make stupid choices. And that is what we are doing. We can't make marriage better. But we can help men make better choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:12 PM
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I am sure that mandatory tests would be a good thing for many guys. However, I think men shouldn't be so insecure that they won't even dare to insist on doing a paternity test. We shouldn't incentivise men being pushovers who aren't able to draw healthy boundaries. So, while I think mandatory testing has its pros, we should instead put more emphasis on encouraging men to be self- confident and strong. Testing shouldn't be made mandatory but easy to access. (In countries where that isn't already …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:02 PM
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If you have ever played X-Com you know how many 80% shots you can miss. 😃 20/100 is a lot. Really.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:45 PM
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Ah, I see. I don't know how exactly it works in the US. Here in Germany you have ways. One of my friends got message that he was the father of a six year old child out of the blue one day. He has been paying child support ever since. Only worked because the mother decided to name the actual father (my friend) after the paternity test for the other guy turned out negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:42 PM
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After all, close family members are the most likely to groom and abuse children. 🤔 I mean, yeah, you could make a case for mandated/regular testing to fight child abuse. I admit, it sounds ridiculous but it is less ridiculous when you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:36 PM
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Thanks for explaining! 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:29 PM
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Then what did you want to say with "How bout actual father is made responsible for his offspring"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:29 PM
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How bout actual father is made responsible for his offspring. They are. All the mother has to do is be honest and name the biological dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:18 PM
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But that's a low bar. True. But that's the bar you set with the argument above. 😃 I don't know what would make for a fair system. I don't blame you. It's a complex problem. Mandatory paternity tests would be the best solution in my opinion. Would be a good use of tax dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:06 PM
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But they won't starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:55 PM
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Then the next minute she accuses you of cheating and wants proof of it because you started consistently coming home later than usual. I wouldn't hold it against her. It's harder to proof than just doing a paternity test, but I wouldn't be angry at her for worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:53 PM
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And I think step-parents also pay child support depending on the legal relationships he had with the child Google says: "A stepparent will generally not be required to pay child support for a spouse's children from a prior relationship." Don't know if it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:38 PM
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Foster system it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:29 PM
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Point is: "numbers will be much higher there" doesn't seem to be true. You could argue that it's still low. (It isn't) But it's not lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:27 PM
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Figures from the days divorce was shunned and motherhood was deemed the natural destiny of women Just googled it and it seems that 20% of the paternity tests in Germany show that the mother misidentified the father. And divorce isn't exactly shunned here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:06 PM
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I am okay with that, too. "Best interest of the child" can be, like you say, a terrible incentive to do stupid stuff without worrying too much about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:25 PM
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True. But still better than letting the poor sap pay alone for no reason. He is completely innocent. Don't know why he should have more responsibility for the child than any other tax payer out there. Making him pay is the same as choosing a random tax payer and making him/her alone pay for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:18 PM
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Blade. By a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:12 PM
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The problem is that this just shifts the financial obligation to the tax payer To all and divided among the tax payers who aren't the kid's fathers and mothers instead of just one guy who isn't the father. I'm okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:05 PM
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Haha, yeah /s 😂 But tbh while I have heard it said a alot, I have no idea if they are really more racist than other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:55 AM
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But I don't feel threatened. 😃 Many men don't. Has nothing to do with trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:52 AM
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Fear that she might cheat on you is only one of the reasons men might hate meeting guys who have fucked her before him. Most of the time it's jealousy. Not fear of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:29 AM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:26 AM
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I’d say if you have always primarily been friends with someone but maybe hooked up once or twice, regretted it or laughed about it and went back to just being strictly platonic friends Yup, there is a big difference between that and fwbs in my opinion. I would see it as a real friendship. Fwb not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:20 AM
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Fingers crossed!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:11 AM
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Interesting @more men who get it done. Oh dear, high definition must have been a shock for many actors/news anchors. Like... disruptive. It can go wrong easily Don't tell anyone, but I knew that already because I have looked into it a few years ago. 😃 Dark circles under your eyes suck, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:48 AM
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Good points. 👍 say that it's pretty reasonable to be insecure about it I am not insecure at all. I am just jealous as fuck. 😃 You could politely ask to have her not really address their previous relationship, That never worked for me. I always made it pretty clear that I don't want to hear about ex-bfs or ex-fwbs. The result was that my gfs tried to re-assure me that their ex-bfs sucked by telling me stuff about their relationship that I really didn't want to hear. 😃 I understand that they had t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:35 AM
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Setting up boundaries that you both agree to I am all for setting up healthy boundaries. But stuff like this is difficult to navigate because anything you might ask for might be seen as interfering with their friendships and be seen as controlling and abusive. Even if one's partner agrees to the boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:57 AM
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Oh, interesting! Wanted to know more and just googled and it seems that "Blepharoplasty" is the most popular cosmetic surgery here in Germany. Says it's basically everything that helps with the eye-region. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:40 AM
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I think I understood it correctly. You think that a man in an LTR is afraid that his girlfriend might cheat on him with one of her former fwbs and that that's the reason why the man doesn't want her to be in contact with her former fwbs. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:33 AM
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Oh, didn't know about your knee. Be well soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:12 AM
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Yes... in that country. 😃 Maybe it’s a city thing instead of suburban? Probably. I am not exactly in a rural area but definitely not living the big-city life. I was mostly joking with the sad smiley. 🙂 I am okay with how things are cosmetics- wise. Just wished more women hit the gym and learned about nutrition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:02 AM
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Not where I live. We're at that unfortunate point in the timeline where it's so common to hit the gym as a man that it's almost expected while cosmetic surgery and botox for women are still not common enough that women feel pressured. 😔 /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:54 PM
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Hehe, you wrongly assume men are afraid of cheating when it comes to former fwbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:48 PM
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You can convince yourself you’re immune, but there are many deep layers of psychology you’re fucking with, on behalf of yourself and the people you’re involving. 👍👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:07 PM
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Yeah, they want to say "I am not desperate, I got plenty of options". Doesn't really translate that way, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:48 PM
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I don't want nor do casual sex. I do pedestalise it. You can't understand it. Not because you avoid casual sex but because you are a woman. A woman who doesn't even want to try to see the male perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:22 PM
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Are you sure it's normal and healthy for men to pedasyalzie this No. But it is exactly what happens when a dating market is fucked up like in the USA or Europe. Even if men are relationship- minded they might pedestalise casual sex. It's not something you would ever understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:10 PM
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My mess drive prevailed in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:56 PM
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This shouldn't come as a surprise at all. 😃 But yeah, it's always interesting to see how dynamics can change within a group with the absence or presence of people of the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:55 PM
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Can lead to very awkward situations if you don't. People should do whatever they want but should also accept it when their current SO doesn't like coming into any contact with former fuckbuddies (which usually is what happens eventually) and decides to break up. EDIT: This is also one of the reasons why I am sceptical when PPDers claim that casually sleeping around in your circle of friends was a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:22 PM
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Ah, I see. I thought top left was the guy who is browsing and ftm widow was shown to him by tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:13 PM
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Do it! I hear Koreans are the least racist people on the planet!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:09 PM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:06 PM
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Not cringe. But, and I feel like an ass saying it, she kind of looks like she's mtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:50 PM
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FWIW I know exactly what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:31 PM
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Oof 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:19 PM
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To that I can only say: Cats. 💁‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:12 PM
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