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GullibleAirport732/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:17 PM
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DiscussionGullibleAirport732/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 11:08 AM
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Question For WomenGullibleAirport732/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:48 PM
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Question For WomenGullibleAirport732/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 02:50 PM
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DiscussionGullibleAirport732/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:45 PM
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This stuff is honestly why I'm glad I live in a third world country. I wouldn't wanna live as a man in the West.
/r/MenSupportMen12/10/21 02:11 AM
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Lmaoo.. it happens lol.. I mostly get when I'm sleepy. Happenes to me in university class. It's so annoying lol
/r/MensRights29/07/21 04:33 PM
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Man I've had erections at the weirdest times and it's so awkward. It has nothing to do with arousal so many times lol
/r/MensRights29/07/21 03:25 PM
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I admit a lot of it is very helpful for women. But I find it very dehumanizing, especially terms like LVM and scrotes. I find it very dehumanizing.
/r/MensRights15/07/21 05:05 PM
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See! Personally I don't think everyone on that sub is bad. I'm friends with a woman who's a regular user of that sub and she's an amazing person. But that sub is extremely hateful and toxic. They dehumanize men. I've cried myself to sleep after I read threads there in which they body shamed short men and men with small penises. I avoid that sub like the plague now. It's terrible for my mental health.
/r/MensRights15/07/21 04:41 PM
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This cracked me up xD xD
/r/MensRights15/07/21 02:25 PM
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This is a very valid observation. I'm friends with two women here on reddit who use FDS regularly and both are amazing people. And just like you're saying, the reason the use that sub is because is serves as a support group
/r/MensRights15/07/21 02:24 PM
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For the love of God, avoid that sub for the sake of your own mental health. I cried myself to sleep after I read thread upon thread of relentless body shaming of men over height and penis size. It's very dehumanizing in nature. I haven't even opened that sub afterwards. Just too much for my mental health Edit: And they're NOT femcels for God's sake. I've read many posts from that sub. A lot of them are attractive women who can easily get sex. They're just very hateful and spiteful people
/r/MensRights15/07/21 12:54 PM
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Sure we don't believe in Jesus being God or the whole trinity thing, But at the same time, we do believe in the God of Moses and Abraham (Peace be Upon Them). Also Allah is the Arabic word for God. Moreover, we believe that the Torah as well as the Bible were the both Books sent by Allah, but they got distorted over time. That's why we refer to Jews and Christians as people of the book.
/r/MensRights14/07/21 02:53 AM
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Maybe, you know just maybe, they could be a Muslim like me?
/r/MensRights14/07/21 12:11 AM
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This stuff makes me so glad our religion prohibits pre marital sex. The obsession with losing virginity of Westerners online, makes me depressed even as a Non Western guy lol
/r/MensRights20/06/21 02:29 PM
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I'm Muslim and virgin due to religious reasons, and the immense shaming of virgins online makes me really depressed seriously.
/r/MensRights20/06/21 09:37 AM
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Yeah this post is just plain stupid man, seriously.
/r/MensRights19/06/21 11:43 AM
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This is something I never understood myself. I have no idea why people find this funny. I quickly scroll down when I see such a video. I can't bear to look at it for a microsecond even. It's too painful.
/r/MensRights13/06/21 10:27 AM
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I was just reading a thread on r/AskMen . It was stories of what happens when men up to their spouses. Horrifying, unbelievable stuff.
/r/MensRights07/06/21 01:42 PM
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I agree. I just fail to see the PPD in this post. If anything, it's hilarious and good spirited banter.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/21 02:58 PM
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What does this have to do with a pussy pass? This is actually hilarious. Majority of posts here are just bashing women sadly, and I'm saying this as a guy.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/21 02:56 PM
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I'm a 22M Muslim guy, I don't know if I'm even allowed to comment here, but still. For me, my religion is the biggest way to cope with this reality. The fact that there is life after death, and whatever I have in this life was pre destined for me by Allah. I'm 5'2. I really used to beat myself over this. I guess I still do. But now that I accept it as Allah's will, it's more bearable.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/21 01:40 PM
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true. Tbh this is the thing with reddit. People get sucked into this stuff so bad. I'm a Muslim and single due to religious reasons. Yet when I interact with Westerners online, I feel I internalized their grievances, and have become borderline misogynistic. I've only began to realize now how problematic these posts are. I don't agree with the life choices Western women make, but hating on someone so obsessively and taking pleasure in their misery is wrong too tbh
/r/PussyPassDenied20/04/21 01:42 AM
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I thought the exact same thing. She could be having a bad day. I'm a guy yet I cry a lot of times. It's involuntary.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/04/21 12:23 AM
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Definitely. I understand that. I was talking about misandry in a general sense, which can come from anybody, feminist or non feminist
/r/MensRights05/04/21 06:00 PM
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Ah I see. I'm sorry to hear that. I'm in Pakistan so thankfully I never got to experience Islamophobia like that.
/r/MensRights05/04/21 03:19 PM
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I'm a Muslim and I use this analogy myself, tons of times. I really wouldn't like if someone asked to apologize for 9/11. And even if I did, I was told I'm still part of the problem lol. I've noticed this, that Islamophobia and Misandry have shockingly similar patterns. "Not all Muslims are terrorists, but all terrorists are Muslims" . We all know what's the male equivalent for this stupid reasoning lol
/r/MensRights05/04/21 03:04 PM
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I hope she dies, painfully. I hate people like this. I hate this world.
/r/PussyPass03/04/21 07:33 AM
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I'm from a Muslim country, Pakistan, and I feel MGTOW isn't needed here too, at least for one generation. I think a major reason it's needed in the West is feminism and the sexual revolution. I think these two things destroyed the family system in the West. I'm not saying women here are angels, but Thank God they're chaste and not promiscuous like Western women. They're family and motherhood material
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 01:38 AM
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From an outsider's perspective, this makes perfect sense. Maybe don't get drunk and go shag strangers, if you're gonna wake up and accuse them of rape??
/r/MensRights29/03/21 11:48 AM
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Michael Scott and Dwight :Pakrour! Parkour! Parkour!!
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/21 02:23 PM
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I'm from Pakistan, and seeing incels in Western society breaks my heart. B/c I know we didn't have strict monogamy and arranged marriages here, if promiscuity was rampant here like in Western societies, I would've ended up an incel too. I'm 22M and virgin due to religious reasons, but at least I have a chance. Given the nature of divorce and child custody laws in the West, I realize the reason you guys choose this path. I respect your decision. But I can't help but feel somewhat sad that the sit…
/r/MGTOW221/03/21 01:36 PM
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One doesn't have to be so obnoxious about it. I'm Muslim and I don't date, I wanna marry. I find light skin attractive, but I would never belittle a woman if she was dark skinned or tell a light skinned women she's passed some sort of criteria for a freakin job application. That's just obnoxious. And tbh I might even ignore that criteria if the woman is cool in other ways, i.e. character, religiosity, etc.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/21 05:11 PM
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r/unexpectedoffice
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/21 04:22 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/pussypassdenied/comments/m933n5/you_nailed_it_umaseve/grll7qs?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 Kindly put this commenter in their place too lol
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/21 04:21 PM
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I'm 5'2 and from Pakistan. If I was in the West I know I'd go suicidal hell. Your society is hell for the men who are not in the top 20%. I legit Thank God I'm born in a third world country. At least relationships aren't hell for men here.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/21 04:20 PM
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I do bro..I study dating and relationship subs here all the time. Dating seems to be hell for the average guy. At least in monogamy there's a 1-1 ratio. With dating and promiscuity, all women get access to the top men, and they trample over the average guy.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/21 02:40 PM
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I'm Muslim so I don't want a gf ir FWB. If I was married and had regular sex, the biggest source of resentment and misery would go away from my life. I wouldn't be sexually frustrated and downright miserable 24/7. I would stop obsessing over sex and focus on things that actually matter in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:58 AM
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Nice to hear that. Hope you two have a good time ☺.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:21 AM
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We have dominance hierarchies here too. Women don't just marry any bum. But it's the supply demand ratio. It's balanced. Not tilted heavily in favor of women, like in the West. That's the biggest difference I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:10 AM
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resident virgin lmao. It's not that arranged marriages are flawless. It's that it gives almost all guys a chance at least. I'd be screwed if I had to date lmao. And yeah, she is femsplaining. She has no idea wtf she's talking about, whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:06 AM
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No, you can't think I'm pathetic for it. You have no idea what I'm through. And nobody here is justifying harming anybody. That's just a straw man you're bringing up. We will solve our problems. But we won't tolerate someone coming and telling us it's not a problem, there's more to life than _ and all that other BS. You have no right to tell men what to want and what to feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:03 AM
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Religion isn't the problem. It tells us to get married early. Society is freakin messed up and delays marriage. And I'm on this sub b/c I'm really interested in Western society and American society in particular. Moreover I like comparing Eastern and Western societies, especially with respect to relationship dynamics. This sub is very interesting in that regard. I enjoy reading people dissect and debate their dating/relationship experiences in detail. It's interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:21 PM
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Lollll...I wish it was that easy. It doesn't work that way. Thanks for the suggestion though. Once I start earning, I'm definitely gonna make solid efforts. And I'm gonna lower my standards. As long as the woman is educated and religious, I don't care about anything much tbh. PS: What you're saying, you have a somewhat valid point lol, but the thing is that families are also involved when it comes to marriages here, so that complicates things a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:08 PM
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Lol. It's not that simple. I'm completing electrical engineering in Univeristy rn.. Men need to be financially stable here before someone will even consider marrying them lol. Some guys even get married around 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:50 PM
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then getting something to offer in exchange and going for the woman that had the lowest SMV /RMV that had the traits I identified as priorities. I intend to do this exactly. I'm a practicing Muslim and want a practicing Muslim woman as a wife, who covers her face and is willing to abide by traditional gender roles. I'd try to marry someone way poorer than me and overlook looks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:13 PM
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Sigh, I see your point. I feel that sexlessness makes me really miserable. It drives me insane. I legit cry thinking abouthinking it and hate my life b/c I'm a virgin, Goddamit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:03 PM
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I knew it. I think all the depression in my life is due to sexlessness and lack of intimacy with a woman. I thought I was crazy that I cried b/c of it. I'm glad your relationship made you happy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:54 PM
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What doesn't that have to do with anything? The fact that they won't be able to quit means they are addicted. Porn usage has a ton of problems. ED and premature ejaculation are just the few. Go to r/loveafterporn and see how women are devastated due to their SO's porn use. One of the major reasons I quit is that I don't want to put my future wife through this misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:07 PM
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Probably because you were told you're an evil sinner for doing it. Nope. Post Nut clarity is a thing. Even an atheist will have it. You're just using strawman in this entire thread. You don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:06 PM
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This post and your reply to me are shaming men for wanting sex. I know women couldn't care less. Women lack empathy for men on any level whatsoever. Western women are especially worst in this regard. Intimacy and sex are the SAME thing for us. It's impossible to make you understand that, b/c you're a woman. You don't know our reality and never will. I don't expect you to sympathize or anything. I know it's not in your nature. Just cut it with the shaming men for wanting sex. Don't tell us how to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:56 PM
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Why? They actually masturbate. That doesn't help in any way. Only makes one more miserable. That's why alot of Western men in highly religious families are.... weirdos. Yeah. Of course anyone following a moral code is gonna come off as a weirdo. Way to shame them. Talk about freedom of choice. Sexual repression isn't the issue here. The issue here is you shaming men to want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:53 PM
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MOST MEN would say there's more to life than sex. Ok fine. Then since the dawn of time, why have men always been the ones chasing women. Does that ring a bell or anything? Alot of my guy friends watch porn without being porn addicts. I might be wrong here, but ask them to quit for a month. 99% chance is they can't. Porn viewers are addicts by default, just to varying degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:51 PM
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here are plenty of those in the West too. That's why they masturbate. Lot of religions don't allow masturbation also. My religion Islam doesn't. And boy do I feel sorry for guys who have to stay virgin in the West, even due to religious reasons. Those societies are extremely sexualized. I know I'd go insane. Also, you dismissed the opinions of men who don't agree with you. All I said was that these men are probably getting sex. Of course there might be a few men like that, but they're the except…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:42 PM
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So it’s your own fault that you don’t have the intimacy that you want. What does that have to do with anything? I never claimed it's anyone else's fault. That's exactly why I said I'll lower my standards. What I'm infuriated at, is that as a woman you have no right to tell me I shouldn't care about sex, there's more to life than sex or all that other BS. You conveniently ignored my entire para where I said I'll lower my standards. My point is only that you don't know how strong male libido is. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:39 PM
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Because depressed men become porn addicts. Addicts give alot of money and attention to their addiction. That's an important factor, but sexlessness is a major cause, you can't deny that. I watch porn and I never became a porn addict. Just like men can like sex and not be obsessive about it. Porn consumption is completely different for both genders. Women are far less likely to get addicted. It's because of the difference in libido and the fact that men are more visual. Now you're just insulting …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:36 PM
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You don’t hug your mom, bro? FFS, it's not the same. I love my mother, I really do, but how do you think it's same to a romantic partner. You say that sex is a measure of affection for you but you guys want “affection” from casual sex?😂 Strawman here. I'm a Muslim, I don't want casual sex. I just want to get married. And tbh men who get casual sex aren't really complaining about affection here. The ones don't they are. If you want sex that badly then lower your standards or date outside of your …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:30 PM
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Bro , reading this sub, I literally thank God we have arranged marriages here. I might have to wait for some years, but it's still better than dating. I know I'd die single if I dated in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:01 PM
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You're using anecdotes These are not anecdotes. I'm telling you this as a guy. Sex is important for us. Very important. People who say it isn't are lying and putting on a facade. I literally cry because of sexlessness and sexual frustration at times. I'm recovering from porn addiction. Why do you think porn is a billion dollar industry with an overwhelming male consumer base? B/c men want sex and when they don't get it irl, they resort to means like that to make up for it. I don't know what you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:59 PM
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Men have also agreed with me. Either these men are getting sex consistently, or they're lying and virtue signalling in front of you. These were Western men Like I said above, they're most probably getting sex or virtue signalling. You have no idea how hyper sexualized your societies are. There's a reason people become incels and go on shooting sprees there. I know I'd go insane there. It's hell to survive in such a society without sex. No it's not, because men are more likely to have noncommital…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:49 PM
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They don't lol. I'm from Pakistan and I'm virgin. Never even touched a woman. I know I would've become a mentally deranged person if I was in a Western society, with all the hyper sexualization there. OP has no idea how strong male libido is. "Men should make friends" No shit sherlock!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:33 PM
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I love it when women try to teach men how they feel lol. I'm 22M and in Pakistan, I know what a torture sexlessness is. If I was in a hyper sexualized society like in the West, I know I would've become mentally deranged lol. This post comes off as extremely demeaning and arrogant. OP obviously what it's like to be a man and how powerful male libido is. Sex is a measure of affection for us. So please keep your arrogant vitue signalling and rhetoric to your self. You have no idea what you're talki…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:26 PM
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Tbh height isn't that much of a big deal here, when it comes to relations are marriages. I'm not saying there aren't women who do obsess over it, but they're not the majority. Basically families are involved in marriages here, so they don't pay much attention to stupid aspects like looks and what not for guys at least. The guy's family, and his ability to provide is the only thing that counts. And the type of woman I want to marry I.e.a religious and practicing Muslim, they don't care much about…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 09:52 AM
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Monetary benefits are the only positive in Western societies, and the only reason people immigrate to Western countries from here. Nothing apart from that seems worth it tbh. Most of the freedoms just lead to society being atomized down to the individual, and becoming narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:43 AM
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It's not just this sub and reddit only. Youtube, twitter, quora, it's the same story everywhere. Also with the ratio of internet using population being so high in 1st world countries, I've kinda felt that it might portray the society somewhat accurately. I admit Western Societies are like millions of miles ahead of us in technological advancement, but when it comes to relations and society, it's depressing. A constant and insane sense of competition. Hyper sexualization. Dog eats dog approach. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:14 AM
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If it was one or two men complaining, I'd agree with you. But 90% of Western men on Social media saying the same thing tells me otherwise. I'm 22 and a virgin, never even touched a woman. But I know majority of unmarried men are the same way here, so it's bearable. If I was in a hypersexualized society like in the West, where majority of women were enjoying sex and relationships, I'd definitely turn into an incel. Causal sex not only destroys the moral fabric of a society, even from a morally nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:44 AM
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I've said it again and again. This sub makes me glad I live in a country that suffered from terrorism, b/c we have arranged marriages here. Our family system is stable, Thank God. I know I would die single if I had to date in the West. It seems to be a losing game for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:02 AM
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Nice to hear that bro. This is inspirational. Gym and weightlifting seem to be a best friend of man in today's world. I don't even intend to date before marriage, but I do want to build a good physique. I'm 5'2 and 132 lbs. BMI around 25. How do you think I should go around with bulking? Or is cutting and getting lean the way to go?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:00 AM
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Causual sex is the reason 99% of problems exist in dating and relationships in the West. Only Chads and majority of women benefit from promiscuity in the West. It seems to be a losing game for majority of the guys. Good thing we have monogamy here and fornication is looked down upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:26 AM
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Yeah, diaspora are mostly Westernized inferiority complex struck losers. Who think their country is the scum of the Earth and the rest of the World is a utopia. My country has a ton of issues, and we're working to counter them. Hell when I was growing up, there were bomb blasts every other day. But at least our societies aren't hedonistic and individual centred like the West. We don't throw our parents into old age homes. Women here aren't promiscuous, our marriages and family system is stable. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:40 AM
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We have laws here pertaining to women's rights. The law and order situation in our countries is a result of a pleth of factors, including the war next door in Afghanistan, but arranged marriages isn't one of them lol. About being here, I like to study and compare Eastern and Western societies, particularly with regards to relationship and sexual dynamics. This sub is a very interesting source in this regard. People here seem to think the West is some sort of utopia, so studying the ground realit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:35 AM
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Bo hooo...too bad Women here don't spend their youth sleeping around with the Chads..I'm glad promiscuity is viciously condemned here. Western women are the most privileged women on the planet, exploiting the dating and sexual market in a horrendous manner, and still complain lol. You think women who aren't promiscuous like in your society are oppressed lmao. And I'm Thankful to God men are guaranteed marriage here, once they become somewhat financially stable. I Thank God immensely we don't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:29 AM
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Not trying per se. We also have to try here. But in a different manner. Learning to flirt, getting hobbies, this just sounds useless and unnecessary tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:49 AM
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I just Thank God we have arranged marriages here in Muslim countries and the supply-demand ratio is balanced. One gender controlling the dating and sexual market is a recipe for disaster. Dating seems to be hell for the average Western guy. I'm legit thankful for being born in a country like Pakistan, which was plagued by terrorism. At least there isn't that sort of insane competition for marriage her. I don't have to learn flirting, game, and all that other BS. I legit feel bad and sorry for We…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:42 PM
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Pakistani here. This a longstanding case. Ali Zafar lost contracts worth Millions of Rupees b/c of this case. Good for him if this is true. The feminists in our country are gonna go rabid lmfao
/r/PussyPassDenied15/03/21 08:13 AM
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You ask to be friends with people on things like Facebook? No lol. Friends in the sense we get along and regularly interact here. Though I did get along with one girl so well we added each other on IG. She's a lovely person. I don't get it, you will get a wife when it's time for you to get a wife. Get on with your life and stop spending time befriending shut-ins and cam girls. I don't interact with cam girls lol. What are you on to? The only reason I partake in this sub is to understand Western …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 03:16 AM
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Social Media. I interact with a lot of Westerners online. Even made so many friends here on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 03:06 AM
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The fact that Western Women are sold/portrayed as meat to jack off to across the entire world, shows the value their society has reduced them to sadly. And FYI I've been to 3 countries outside Pakistan. And moreover, I interact with Westerners on a plethora of SM forums, so I have an idea of what goes on in the society. And lastly, yes I am trying to quit the jacking off. I know it's unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:00 AM
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Fair enough. I myself couldn't care less about Western culture, if it wasn't for the fact that it is sold around the whole world as a utopia
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:54 AM
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Interesting. I do want to start lifting. I don't really wanna spin plates or anything tbh. I just wanna marry a decent woman here in my own country lol. That was more of a hypothetical scenario. Like when I put myself in these situations, it seems tough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:25 PM
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how many guys can actually spin plates lol? I doubt many could do it. Like I'm brown and 5'2. I sure as hell wouldn't be able to do it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:20 PM
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The last two paragraphs prove that AF BB is pretty much a reality. I don't how Western men feel about this, but I wouldn't want to commit to a woman, who gave her youth and sexuality to the Chads, did things for them she'd never do for me, and after having her fun, now she wants to settle with me b/c I'm a stable guy who made responsible life choices?? That just sounds a massive L for the guy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:14 PM
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Not the Islamic way per se, but certain aspects of Muslim societies are problematic , I agree. Still, we're a million times better than you in this regard. We're not hedonists. We know how to put effort in marriages and relations, that's why they last here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:11 PM
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Damn the shallow basis you people form relations on. No wonder half of your marriages end in divorces and your family system is a freakin mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:04 PM
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This alone proves why Western women aren't relationship material. All the mental gymnastics discussed on this sub, I'm thoroughly convinced that arranged marriages in my part of the world exist for a good reason. I'm grateful for them tbh. I'd die single if I had to date in the West. Western women have made life hell for the opposite gender in dating it seems. The mental gymnastics one has to perform to succeed in dating in the West is mind-boggling for me tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:02 PM
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Yup. It's utter degeneracy. Yet people in 3rd world countries envy that culture. Guess its grass is greener on the other side with humans always.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 03:18 PM
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I absolutely agree with you. The upper class is Westernized here, but the majority is conservative. There is considerable resistance against Westernization and sexual degeneracy. Hell the whole country hates feminists only due to feminism's association with sexual liberty. I think due to religion being a strong factor, sexual degeneracy will not be as rampant as in the West, at least in my lifetime hopefully. Don't get me wrong, people do sleep here, but it's a taboo, and something greatly looke…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 02:04 PM
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Lmfao yeah. This is why AIDS and STDs is much rare comparatively in Muslim countries. Even 3rd world ones like mine, i.e. Pakistan. I guess banging new people every other week isn't a natural and healthy way to live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 01:50 PM
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KSA is headed down a dangerous path..MBS is making too extreme and radical changes, the society won't be able to adopt to them. Your point about Pakistan being behind the economic curve, yeah that makes sense. I've also thought about that. I'm gonna be real, when I was growing up, there were bomb blasts here every other day. They're over now Thank God. When I study sexual dynamics of Western societies, I Thank God I was born in this country, even if it was terror struck af. At least I don't have…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 01:48 PM
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As someone from an Eastern county, this does seem to be the future of the West. It makes me more thankful for our strong family system. TBH sometimes we envy the promiscuity and sexual freedom Westerners enjoy. However a closer study has made me realize that only the Chads and majority of women benefit from this promiscuity truly. It's bound to make the 80% non Chad men miserable af. Makes me glad we have monogamy here and fornication is condemned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 01:31 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:57 AM
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As an outsider, reading this sub feels like Western men and women live in opposite realities. So tbh no one seems to be self-aware here, or at least one party is lying. Men constantly bring up the fact that dating is extremely hard for them, and their options are limited. Women instead of recognizing that fact, completely ignore it and come up with the same rhetorical, cliche useless advice. I just Thank God I'm born in a country with arranged marriages. I'm 5'2. I'd die single if I had to date …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:17 PM
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Of course I did. Why do you think I called you my little bhalla? Lol That's quite sweet tbh. You know you'd marry me, and I'm a feminist ;) My God, you do have a point xD I guess I would. Btw I also shared my response to this post with you in chat. Do check that out Keep an open mind and keep fighting the good fight ✊. I will hopefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:08 AM
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feminism does not imply same That's my only contention with feminism mainly. Btw did you recognize me? xD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:59 AM
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But that man has to lead, and he has to have my basic rights in mind, in order to trust him enough to surrender to that. Definitely. Very well said. I completely understand this. Men also have to be capable of leading.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:55 AM
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As I said, feminism is about equality, not erasing differences. ✌️ If someone thinks along these lines, I wouldn't have an issue. I don't believe men are inherently superior to women or vice versa. But I do believe they aren't same either. The issue is, most people use equal and same interchangeably. That's where the problem occurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:53 AM
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Hi! I know this question isn't directed at me, but I also answered the OP. Truth be told, I wouldn't want to marry a feminist either. It's not that I disagree with everything feminists say. But I'm a religious person, I want traditional gender roles and I'm against promiscuity. I feel a feminist wouldn't hold the same views on these things as me. That's why I wouldn't wanna marry a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:47 AM
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Wow. I didn't know there were other Muslims on this sub. Felt like I'm the only outsider here lmao. This sub is cool though. I like studying the outlook Westerners have on life and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:31 AM
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Gonna share a 3rd World Non-Western perspective here. I'm a devout Muslim. So I wanna marry a woman who's a practicing Muslim i.e. prays five times a day, cover her face, is modest and chaste etc. I want to marry a woman willing to be a housewife and have traditional gender roles. I'd wanna marry a woman who shared my worldview on these things. I want a chaste and pious mother to raise my children. If she's very attractive it'd be a bonus. But I want to ignore looks, for the sake of the qualitie…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:58 AM
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Cat lover here and I feel the guy lmao.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/21 03:35 PM
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Marry an Eastern woman. They're far less promiscuous than Western women and are genuinely marriage and motherhood material.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:04 AM
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I'm a Muslim so my reply might be different from the majority here. I want to marry a religious and pious woman, and raise a family with her. I want to stay virgin till then. So when I get married I can make her my center of attention and direct all my energy towards her. Sounds beta af lol but it is what it is. As of now, I'm in 7th Semester of Electrical Engineering. My exams are from next week. My preparation sucks, yet I'm wasting my time in reddit and PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:26 PM
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I say that as a jaded person with high levels of neuroticism. Jordan Peterson is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:36 PM
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I'm an a Non Western, i.e. from Pakistan, and I love this sub lol. I like comparing relationship and inter gender dynamic between Eastern and Western societies, and this sub is a a goldmine for that. Seeing men and women discuss and dissect there dating experiences in detail is a very valuable insight for me. It helps me learn how people perceive relations and stuff in US and the Western World.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:29 PM
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I'm from Pakistan, and I thank God everyday we have arranged marriages here. If women were given the liberty to be promiscuous here, 90% of guys would be screwed big time.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 01:43 PM
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It's completely different. Women control the sexual market and have all the options in the world. If they couldn't even capitalize on that, then honestly it is their fault. The average guy doesn't even have that mean options to begin with. The incel never got a chance. And even 30 year old Western women have way more options than the average guy in his early 20s. And boy relax 22? You're way too young to be making a big deal out of being a virgin. Lol . It's interesting to hear someone on PPD sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 01:55 AM
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I get you might be an attractive women and sexual encounters would be very pleasurable for you, as you can choose any man you desire. It's just that fornication and sex outside marriages tends to damage societies in the long run. It destroys the institute of family by diminishing it's need. That's why I so vehemently oppose it. I admit you might not have had any negative repercussions of this lifestyle. But that doesn't mean it's good for the society. I just really hope it doesn't become common …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:49 PM
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"Toxic masculinity" does exist here, and it's a good thing. I'm sure it must be fulfilling at the moment. I'll admit it. Hell I'll admit that being a virgin, I kinda envy the manner in which Western women enjoy sexual gratification. But the thing is, just b/c a drug feels good at it's high, doesn't mean it's not going to kill you in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:21 PM
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I see. That makes sense I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:03 PM
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Serious question. Why are experiences of Western men and women so drastically different when it comes to dating? Like both of you completely say the opposite things to each other. From an outsider's perspective, I feel one is lying lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:51 PM
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It's not nature. This is something particular to promiscuous Western women i.e. the hot girls you're talking about. Women in other parts of the world, especially in cultures that emphasize on modesty aren't like this. Guess getting banged by a new guy every weekend does distort one's nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:39 PM
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Exactly! I'm 5'2 so I know how I'd feel if I dated in the West. It looks hell for me tbh. Even reading this stuff makes me miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:24 AM
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Sorry to hear what you went through. I admit it happens, but your case is an exception not the rule. Arranged marriages are still way better than the way "love marriages" fall apart in the West. I just a traditional minded religious woman as a wife. As long as that happens, I don't care about it being arranged. TBH I stand a much better chance with arranged. I wouldn't stand a chance in dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:07 AM
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but yes everyone thinks dorky men should die single and alone 🙄 That's what the women here feel, honestly speaking. No one condones the violence and other whack aspects, and they don't represent the majority of incels at all. Majority of them are just people who've been dealt a bad hand in the genetics lottery. That's why they struggle tremendously. I can relate to them. I'm 22 and virgin. The loneliness is nerve wrecking at times. But atleast I know once I'm somewhat financially stable, my fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:26 AM
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I see your point, but they're more stable relations, which are formed on the basis of ground realities. Both parties put in effort and make these relations work. And I'm glad that's how it works here. Our societies are family oriented. People make marriages work for the sake of their children. If we were hedonists and self centered ( sorry for generalizing, but I feel this is why marriages don't work in the West) like people in 1st world countries, our relations wouldn't last as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:21 AM
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Couldn't agree more. The manner in which Western women shame and berate incels also revolves around this projection. A man even expressing the need for love and affection is termed as being "entitled" whereas these are two entirely different things lol. Basically Western women think only the Chads and top 20% deserve sexual gratification and companionship. An ordinary man complaining about it is sub human and deserves no empathy at all. Reading this sub, I just Thank God I was born in a country …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:09 AM
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Despite being a Pakistani, this breaks my heart. I feel India is on a dangerous path of liberalization, Westernization and feminism. I guess the reason Pakistan is relatively safe due to religion.
/r/MensRights02/03/21 03:49 AM
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Even from an outsider perspective , I know this is absolute mental gymnastics and hogwash. Chads do have an unfair advantage in the dating market. The gaslighting advice like you've given, is exactly why men don't take dating advice from women and they shouldn't. I don't blame you though. It's far more difficult to accept that Western women are promiscuous, they control the sexual market and only give the Chads a chance. Blaming non Chad men is a far easier and convenient cope. If it hadn't been…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:12 PM
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The worst part is, this issue doesn't seem to be limited to the West anymore. I'm from Pakistan. We have a stable family system and traditional gender roles are still in place. Yet a lot of children, especially boys growing up have this issue. I'm 22 and feel effeminate in a lot of ways.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 04:43 AM
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married women? do they work because they want a career and their own $$$ or because their family-oriented males can't support the family? be honest:) Both cases are their tbh. It's the former majority of the times though. married women? Yes, a lot of married women do work here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 12:18 PM
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You guys also only have the allusion of option. You've also been conditioned a certain way when growing up. Is it realistically possible for a woman to be SAHM given the economic condition and prices in your society? And a lot of women work here. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:53 AM
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I live here. Trust me I know. It's not like someone's put a gun to their head. They're very faimly minded and love their children and family to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:49 AM
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Again, I get your point. All I'm saying is it's hurtful . And btw if that thing made them happy, I might consider. ​ this is why women should never divulge all these details about their sex lives. I agree. Funny thing, in our religion even though fornication is a sin, but if someone repented, you're not allowed to probe into their past acts. It's between them and God. Even if you want to marry that person. So I agree, these details shouldn't b divulged .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:35 AM
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if a guy suggests something and you just go along with it, like people-pleasing You see, this is what hurts us as guys. Like you did to please HIM but not me?? I get your point after it too, but it's still kinda hurtful. You're right it's a very complex situation. I guess this is one of the reasons guys would feel uncomfortable in such a setting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:27 AM
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I guess a virgin wouldn't be entirely comfortable with me I guess it has little to do with being a virgin and more with beliefs and general outlook on life. Like in my case, I'd feel this way cuz of religion. "sexually insecure" was a bit unfair TBH this is the case with me personally. Being measured up against someone's past partner would be daunting lol. Especially given the fact that I have zero experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:23 AM
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pressured into doing extreme sex things in the past won’t want to do them in the future Isn't that rape technically speaking? Like you can't claim women who have no authority or choice in these things. Look I get your point, I'm just describing that from a guy's POV it's very hurtful, that's all. I'm getting where you're coming from, but you're not willing to understand my point. Do men really expect gross painful things like anal with any kind of regularity? I wouldn't. It's a sin in my religio…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:17 AM
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Really depends on how you look at it. We have issues, I won't deny it. But majority of women are content in their marriages and happy wit their families. It's a matter of upbringing and perspective. They're family minded and motherhood material, Thank God. Just b/c they don't bang a new guy every week, you people think they're oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:12 AM
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Yeah, that's understandable given the divorce rate and destruction of the family in your societies. Male role models and a sound family are very important for raising boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:07 AM
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I read it, and I get your point to an extent, but I'm telling you that's how men are gonna perceive it at the end of the day. It's very insulting, belittling and disrespectful. Even if a guy settles for this, he'll always resent you and deep down keep this grudge. He'll think she's had her fun, what did I get from her? Chore- type sex once in a week? It's a horrible position to be in as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:05 AM
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Hypothetically speaking, if someone is a virgin, do you think they're justified in wanting a virgin wife? Interested in your perspective since you said you're somewhat of a slut lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:01 AM
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Because those sexual favors are often painful and not fun and when you get older This here, this is exactly why it's a losing deal for men. You can rationalize it all you want, but fact of the matter is if I knew a women did something for a FWB or ONS, but won't do it for me, it simply means she doesn't love or respect me, at all. She considers me even less than those "skanks" according to her. Men perceive affection in the form of sexual favors. If you did something for a random guy back in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 10:57 AM
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Where is the evidence that it’s human nature ? You can’t just say things and assert them as fact. Just look at the replies in the very post. I admit I can't present any proper tabulated evidence to you at the moment. But as a guy I'm telling you men do care about it. The degree to which they care can definitely vary. Prime? Women and men have sex until old age. Women are in their prime in their youth. Those who have until their old age are the ones who met and got together in their youth. I real…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 10:43 AM
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They do that here too. The promiscuity and nature of dating market in the West means an ordinary guy doesn't even stand a chance. The supply demand ratio is tilted into women's favor greatly. It's something really sad to see as a guy. I just hope it doesn't become the norm here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 10:35 AM
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Honestly, this isn't what I've noticed seeing the posts here and on other dating subs. Women's previous sexual partners do leave an imprint on them. And these might not necessarily be one night stands, rather they might be long term FWBs. This concept pretty much exists. I doubt these sort of women actually love the guy they settle down with. That's exactly why most of these marriages end in divorce. The AF BB dichotomy is indeed real. If it wasn't, why is it a frequent complaint that these wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 10:33 AM
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What I feel from an outsider perspective, is that they might not care if they're dating, but when it comes to an LTR, they definitely would. Men do care about woman's past, it's just innate human nature. Maybe they aren't that vocal about in the West due to political correctness. Moreover, if a women gave the years of her sexual prime to other men, the guy she chooses to settle down with, will naturally feel like a second option she choose to fall back on, after having her share of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 10:29 AM
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don't put having a woman on a pedestal I hear this a lot. But isn't this really tough to do? Especially in a hyper sexualized society like yours? It'd be even more tough if someone is a virgin I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 10:26 AM
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I see. But isn't that the premise OP is operating on? That promiscuous women have difficulty in securing LTRs? Though I feel there must always be some poor guy who married these women, only to regret it. She will never feel about him the way she felt about her previous sexual partners. How can an average guy compare to the studs she took to her apartment every weekend? I really feel sorry for any guy in such a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 10:22 AM
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Sounds horrible tbh. No one would marry such a woman here. Expecting men to overlook a woman's past is just insane. It's not possible at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 10:12 AM
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I'm taking from my POV I guess. I'm not athletic or a Chad by any means, but atleast I know everyone around my is a virgin. If Chads around me were getting sucked off in their dorms, it's drive me insane lmao. The competition anxiety must be really tough for men lol. No wonder so many Western guys become incels and what nots.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 10:10 AM
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if you can have your needs met why can’t she? We can both work together as virgins to understanding and fulfilling each other's needs. However if a woman was banging the football players in their dorms throughout college, than yeah, I can't meet that standard. You’re lucky you don’t live in the civilized world because you can’t force someone to marry you here I can't force anyone to marry me here. We also have hyper-gamy here. No one will look at me before I get financially stable. But when I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 10:06 AM
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I'm not married yet, I don't know how many more years it's gonna take, but at least I have some hope of getting a decent ,family-minded and chaste woman in my society, unlike the poor guys here. And even if virgins are scared of that, it's a very valid concern. This is a frequent problem discussed here in PPD and other dating subs too that, people measure their current partners against their ex. Losing your virginity after marriage is natural and makes a sense. Bringing a new guy to your apartme…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 09:52 AM
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his is what I worn a lot of young guys about, if your girl is attractive and she went to college especially one of the big-time universities, you just have to assume that she got her back blown out by various members of the basketball team or football team God, this is depressing. I feel sorry for the average guy in a US college. We don't have sex here in Universities here in my country, still even seeing other guys roaming around with gals was depressing. I can't imagine being in a uni/college …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 09:43 AM
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Look, here's the thing. Men can't ignore a woman's past. Simple as that. You might say I'm saying this b/c I'm from a South Asian Muslim country, but majority of the guys here echo the same sentiment. Promiscuity is repulsive to human nature. If a guy got ignored by girls during his youth , always got left for the Chads and bad boys, and when he starts to become financially stable, all of a sudden the same women who wouldn't give him the time of the day want him now? That too after their youth i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 09:33 AM
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Exactly! People here on PPD can curse Traditional societies all they want, but the fact that such practices are shamed there, ensure that families and marriages are stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:52 AM
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Nope lol. If she made life choices like that she should pay the consequences. I feel sorry for Western men who have to marry women like this. Everyone knows what's right and wrong. She should've utilized her youth to secure a good life partner. Destroying your life sleeping around and than expecting men to come and save you is an entitled mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:49 AM
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This is why in Islam withholding sex from one's husband without a legitimate reason like periods or illness is a massive sin for a woman. Islam doesn't condone things like marital rape, as a lot of morons claim, but the man can stop providing for her, and can even divorce her on this ground. Sex is a right of both people in a relation. Withholding it like this is pathetic behavior.
/r/MGTOW26/02/21 05:26 AM
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You've basically summed up my feelings! Material wealth is only what attracts people from Pakistan and other 3rd world countries to the West. The mere idea of my future daughter getting banged in a college dorm is why I never intend to raise a family abroad. I want to raise my children on traditional Islamic values, and that's just not possible in the West. A lot of immigrants regret their decision, when they see their daughters getting ploughed by Chad and Tyrone, but it's too late by then. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 12:06 PM
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Western Muslims are mostly lefties. That's why despite being a Muslim I don't care much about immigration bans. It causes brain drain in our countries and the immigrants who go there, their next generation is only Muslim by name lol. Muslims in Muslim majority countries are nothing like North American immigrant Muslims lol. Hell even UK Muslims are based af and quite conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:45 AM
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No amount of external conditioning or propaganda can distort human nature at it's core. Men are meant to be providers and women are meant to be caretakers. Feminism destroyed this for Western societies, and that toxic ideology is making inroads into our Muslim societies too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:34 AM
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Content? I'd be devastated. This isn't about conservatism or religion even. Any man with an ounce of common sense and shame would not tolerate this. If I have a daughter. I'm gonna make sure she gets the love and upbringing she needs, so she doesn't resort to this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:17 AM
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Thank you for saying this as a woman. This is nuts lol. I'm a 22 year old guy and I look forward to fatherhood. I wanna raise my sons as good men and give my daughters a proper male role model. OP has no idea what they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:33 PM
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This has to be the craziest thing I've seen on this sub. Fathers are pivotal for raising children. The epidemic of single mothers in your society, is why men struggle with dating and become incels. It also explains guys picking up M16s over there and shooting up shopping malls. Fatherhood is pivotal. Who do you think taught men to hunt and survive? There's a chance it might have something to do with the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:31 PM
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Yeah, those are economic reasons. Doesn't change the fact that a lot of Western guys do look for women abroad to marry, b/c they don't deem Western women relationship material
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:41 AM
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Both I guess. Guys going for any pill struggle with both of them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:08 AM
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I don't agree with everything TRP entails. But fact of the matter is, Western men don't seem to have any practical alternatives. The dating game is rigged against them. Divorce laws are against the. They can't be blamed from resorting to RedPill tbh. The problems RedPill raises are valid and cannot be denied.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:06 PM
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an ever increasing proportion of men find the anecdotes to ring true and after a time of paying attention to these teachings, they feel satisfied with their new perspective. Exactly. People tell me PPD is too jarred to form a correct view of dating in the West. But wherever I've interacted with Westerners, dating seems to be a losing game for guys. TRP seems to actually offer logical solutions to their problems. That's what I appreciate about it the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:22 PM
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Guess what humans need intimacy. And as much as women shout here that you aren't entitled to it, doesn't change the fact that we want it. These guys are fighting for what they want, and your materialistic society didn't let them have it. My respect and support for them. More power to the. Everybody needs intimacy. You don't just move on from it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:19 PM
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I most certainly can. Law and order is a separate discussion altogether. But our family system is extremely strong and stable, and divorce rate is very low. I admit when it comes to technology we can learn from you. But as far as human relations are concerned, your society is a failure. That's why everyone on this sub is confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:17 PM
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I literally flaired it discussion. If I framed the title as a question, would it be acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:57 PM
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Your reply makes no sense at all. You're literally shaming TRP guys for taking responsibility for their lives? What else should they do? The other option is inceldom, but people here don't like that either. This is just shaming, nothing else. That if a guy remained a loser till 22, he should remain so for the rest of his life? How does that even make sense??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:50 PM
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What I like about them is that they offer practical solutions. Just take a look at r/marriedredpill , you'll know what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:48 PM
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Why do these subs come into existence than? Why does TRP work for so many guys? You can't deny that they highlight genuine issues and show men reality checks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:39 PM
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Maybe the fact that these colored pills came into existence is indicative of deep underlying problems regarding dating in your society? Maybe there's a reason people are drawn towards them? Discarding them bitter is just an attempt to ignore the underlying problem. Edit: The shitshow dating is for guys in the West, the unreal requirements , the shit tests, the friend-zoning, I'm surprised how more men aren't taking colored pills. TRP is a way for guys to fight back against female hypergamy on st…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:12 PM
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I'm 5'2 and 60kg (round about 130lb) Should I bulk? I don't want to seem like a midget lmao
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 07:40 AM
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As someone from a Muslim country, with arranged marriages and a sound family system i.e. Pakistan, I can perfectly understand the rationality behind men going MGTOW in the West. I feel sad seeing this, b/c honestly it's not a position I'd want to be in. But I appreciate you guys doing what's best for you. You're not harming anyone, and I hope you find happiness in life
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 06:36 AM
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How often do women fall for guys like these?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:14 PM
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Ok I see where you're coming from now. If he explicitly said these things than yeah, that's a douchebag move. I'm not justifying it. What I meant was that this thing can happen in dating, since it's not a proper legal relation and there are no consequences to doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:43 AM
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That sucks tbh. But this is the drawback of dating. You both weren't in a legal relation. When guys complain about being strung along and used as orbiters, women lash out that they aren't owed sex. Isn't it true that woman aren't entitled to commitment either?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:43 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:51 PM
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Fair enough. I guess you look to develop emotional intimacy first. That's good actually. I feel what guys are averse to, is a woman having different rules for different guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:35 PM
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Ah I see. That must be bad tbh. From a Non Western perspective, I feel that since a guy can get sex without commitment, he doesn't say any point in committing. I'm not condoning this behavior, but the fact is that men need sex like food, so it's not surprising they go to such extent to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:23 PM
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Do a lot of girls solely put out b/c otherwise the guy will move on? T he rationale men provide for this (the 3 date rule) is that women won't have such rules for guys they find attractive. They'll take them to their apartment the first night and go wild. So if she's making you wait, it means she doesn't find you attractive. And it's quite possible she's actually sleeping with other guys while dating you. I kinda see their point. If another guy got something from a girl easily and I have to wait…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:19 PM
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No no. I'm Pakistani xD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:13 PM
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I haven't tbh. I'm from a Eastern country xD How common is that for guys over there though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:59 PM
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Interesting. I guess this is also an aspect, that women might feel like this way. I was actually wondering if there are guys who do this in a planned and calculated manner, like on purpose. That they extract sex from a woman, dump her and repeat the routine with another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:34 PM
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Interesting. But here's the thing. If a guy isn't getting sex,and he finally gets it from a woman, why would he move on without the availability of better prospects? Won't he cut off his only source?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:30 PM
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I used to get depressed over male bashing, now I just laugh it at. The reason being, the internet these people use to berate men, the optical fibers for that internet was laid by men. These man bashing women wouldn't be able to survive a single day without men. Keep your heads up kings!
/r/MensRights18/02/21 01:50 PM
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I'm quitting addiction to interracial porn. Almost every other post on reddit makes me realize, that genre was actually way more realistic than I thought lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 09:29 AM
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The point in they don't want to live alone and don't have to. Even those who earn still go for marriages. They're the natural order of things. That's why our relations last and are more satisfactory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 01:56 AM
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That's good on your part tbh. I hope you find someone cool and I'm hopeful you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 08:02 PM
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I hope it gets better for you. Forgive me for saying this, but your societies are too materialistic and hyper competitive. This js why everyone is miserable in this sub. I admit you have a lot of good things we can learn from, but human relations is where you went wrong. Humans aren't designed to compete crazy like this just for relationship and intimacy. This whole thing just seems messed up and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:55 PM
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He was jordanian. Yes I agree with you that brown men are devalued by white women and American culture at large. 100%. Ah, yes. I was also surprised why would someone date a 5'4 Indian/Pakistani guy. Jordanians aren't necessarily brown. They fall on the Arab side. I appreciate that you admitted this problem exists though. I've read about this issue and it breaks my heart as a brown guy tbh. It is for women too. We are not treating each other well and everyone loses. It's just depressing tbh. All…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:43 PM
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This might come off as racist but I'm guessing he was Indian lol. I'm Pakistani so we have this rivalry thing lmao. Look, I appreciate you're open to options but I really don't feel majority of Western women think like you. The number of jarred and bitter guys on this sub tell a different story. Dating in the West seems to be a losing game for men tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:32 PM
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That's cool tbh. But tell me just two things. 1) Are you white? 2) How many women in your societies would do that? I doubt there would be many.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:24 PM
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Basically when it comes to dating, it seems men in the West have it tough. Women control the sexual and dating market and exploit men a lot. The marriage and divorce laws are also in their favor. So I don't really blame men if they get bitter. Why would they care about female loneliness?? Women don't even have it 30% as bad in dating as guys do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:12 PM
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I guess you can find plenty of simp orbiters. It really wouldn't be that hard. But obviously Western women abhor men who aren't in the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:01 PM
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Still, it's way more easy for you to get dates and stuff like that than the average Western guy. I'm brown and 5'2. Would I get a date in the West? Never. Women have made the dating market hell for guys, and you still complain??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:58 PM
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There's a proper way for finding a spouse. Doing it through the family is the most preferred way since family is a very strong filter and vetting system. Both the parties can meet each other before marriage and the marriage is only valid if they both consent to it. Even if it's not arranged marriage, like both of them meet and like each other, the proper way is to get the family involved and get married as early as possible. Using apps like this is particular to Muslims in the West mainly. And u…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 06:10 PM
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Muslim here and fishing attention from men one isn't married to is completely against Islam. This is a sin. Don't know what world this lady lives in. This is why I don't care much about immigration bans as a Muslim. Muslims going to the West just get messed up in these stupid ways.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 05:02 PM
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You have no idea what you're talking about. Majority of women here are family minded and living happily. Just b/c they can't make an OnlyFans account or hookup with random guys doesn't mean they're oppressed. Women in your societies control the sexual market in such a way that only top 20% guys get a chance. You Western women are hedonistic and superficial. And God Forbid if you're an Asian or Brown dude dating in the West, you're in the bottom tier and considered sub human shit. I'm just glad I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 02:19 AM
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I never said I wouldn't help. I'd just like it to be her job primarily. Of course I'll partake in it as much as I can. I don't how splitting is ideal. It sounds good in theory but only causes confusion irl Edit: I should've worded it better. While I'm outside earning, I'd want her to look after the kids and house. When I get home, I'll definitely look after the kids and help her around, why wouldn't I? The thing is, I wouldn't expect her to worry about affairs outside the house. Like earning, ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 01:00 AM
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Thank you too :) This was an interesting discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:48 PM
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This is a good point. This does become an issue here I admit. I just feel the type of love you people chase is too unrealistic and difficult to maintain over a long time. You have to compromise at one point and make things work. Life isn't a romcom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:19 PM
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It's not this sub. It's a general pattern I've seen with Westerners on Social media. If everyone was so happy. Why do 50% of your marriages end in divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:11 PM
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I guess Europe and America differ in some ways. I'm glad the arrangement worked out for you. And I guess we both agree here that max effort should be made to make the marriage work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:09 PM
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for people who love someone but feel uncertainty about the relationship. Insecurity is a bad thing. I agree with you. But don't you feel it's bound to happen with the fragility of relations in your culture? Like I'd also be insecure if I knew my partner could easily jump to a new guy tomorrow. Since families are involved in our marriages, none of the parties can walk away at a minor inconvenience . So they try to make it work,
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:05 PM
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I've personally read a lot of recounts how Western women settle for men as they're getting old, but still miss their old lovers.Hence they grow resentful and even divorce b/c of it. I understand not all women must be like that though. It's not about insecurity. No one should be subject to the anxiety of being judged against an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:54 PM
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With due respect, uncles and aunts can never replace a father. The reason people fight there is b/c they don't put in effort or learn to compromise. You guys see marriage as something replaceable, not something worth making last. Even if the parents have differences, they can work them out for their child. Divorce should only be resorted to in case of abuse. I know nobody owes anyone love or sex, but people CAN feel entitled to it. Monogamy and traditional marriages ensure almost everyone gets i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:50 PM
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DM lol 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:45 PM
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Ok suppose a woman is accustomed to sex with a football player who's muscular and knows how to pleasure women. Can she really enjoy sex if her husband doesn't live up to those guy's standards? It's not about sex even. I feel if you've emotionally invested parts of yourself elsewhere before marriage, it can become difficult to be happy in a marriage. B/c you have that baggage of the past with you nevertheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:33 PM
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Maybe you're right. I just feel bad seeing Western guys on Social Media like that. My own insecurities are triggered real bad. I would never be able to compete like this on my own. I'm thankful I have a strong support system in the form of my family, who can find a spouse for me. Still I feel traditional marriages are better b/c they give everyone a chance. They hyper competitiveness in your societies isn't something healthy, it's depressing. And tbh you might not like hookups but I feel a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:30 PM
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Traditional men like him do not want such women though. Not in a million years lol. That's why I want to marry a full on traditional Muslim woman God willing. Higher n-count == higher chance of infidelity. I've also notices this a lot on these subs. Even if the girl doesn't cheat intentionally, how will she be happy if her husband doesn't live up to that stud she had a FWB relation with and slept with for months from the nightclub? Fornication before marriage is bound to be destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:13 PM
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Our views are a LOT different lol xD. But still I appreciate this conversation. And with due respect, I really don't think it's that simple for guys. Otherwise there wouldn't be an epidemic of depressed and lonely Western guys on SM. And I know really well how women rule the dating apps. Fact of the matter is that women control the dating and sexual markets in your society. also if I have hook ups when younger I can still want serious stuff later, and sometimes It helps with thing we think are i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 02:59 PM
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I admit there are ups and downs, but generally speaking I feel traditional relations and a society free from promiscuity and casual sex makes everyone happy in the long run. Otherwise you have a crippling competitive society where there's the strong eats the weak approach. So many men in your societies can't even fulfill a basic desire like intimacy. At least I have a chance with arranged marriages. I cry thinking what would I do if I was in their place. Saying all these men have issues is wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 02:42 PM
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If you were born here, maybe you'd be happy with a different arrangment. Honestly, I Thank God I wasn't born there. I'm 5'2, I wouldn't be able to get anyone to look at me. Here if I get a decent job even, I have some chance. With women in your society, choosing men based on money, heght and dick size, I'd die a miserable lonely incel. The more I see posts here, the more I Thank God for religion and tradition in my society. I don't understand how you guys are ok in living such a hedonistic and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 02:06 PM
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That makes sense. I like comparing Eastern and Western societies, that's why I regularly visit this sub. I really hope this culture doesn't become prevalent in our part of the world. Like it's happening, but not normalized. I understand there are issues with traditional marriages and you might be averse to them, but you have to admit they're way more reliable, and everyone is happy in the. They actually work. Unlike dating in your societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 02:01 PM
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I'm from a Muslim country so there's a difference of worldview. This sub makes me depressed. Dating is so difficult. Reading these things makes me want to cry. I'd die single if I was in these societies and had to date. I just Thank God we have arranged marriages here, I just wanna marry a pious, chaste and religious woman who'll be a housewife and raise my children. I don't want my wife to earn in my presence. I want that to be my headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 01:54 PM
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Well I'm hopeful we'll survive at least for my lifetime..That's good enough lol. Like feminism and all that BS is already making inroads, but majority is still conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 01:50 PM
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So what should those people do? Die? Your reply is a perfect proof why Western societies are hedonistic and shallow af. Thank God for religion and traditional values in our part of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 01:44 PM
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Nope. Traditional gender roles are the way to go. Everyone is miserable after abandoning them. This sub is a prime example. A man's sexual needs and a woman's need for provision is what keeps a relation stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 01:41 PM
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Yes she was. Prophet Muhammad(PBUH) was the one who manged her business affairs outside the house. And even if she wasn't, for the sake of argument, The Prophet(PBUH)'s other wives were all housewives, so Khadija(RA) was the exception rather than the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 12:07 PM
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The fact that men in 1st World countries want to go to such extents should show you how important this is to us as men. We want to be providers. It's what gives meaning to our lives. I wouldn't want a woman richer than me who can do everything on her own. What value would I add to her life? I want someone I can provide for, while they take care of my home and children. It's a natural setting where everyone is happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 11:58 AM
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Depends on what you're looking for. Call me sexist, but the idea of a woman earning in my presence doesn't set right with me. I feel she shouldn't have to earn in my presence. I would want to be her provider and protector. I'd like to manage stuff outside the house so she can take care of the kids and devote her full attention to raising them. I personally feel traditional gender roles work better. Again it comes down to personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 11:46 AM
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Lol I'm not from a Western country. I'm from a South Asian Muslim country,i.e. Pakistan, so hopefully I can marry a woman poorer than me, who's willing to be a housewife. It's not as difficult here as is is for you guys in the West. Like you talk about women having the freedom to work in your societies, but it's not like they really have a choice. About TRP, this is exactly what they tell men lol. That you have to improve yourself in every way to become worthy of having a submissive feminine wif…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 11:23 AM
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This sub makes me glad I live in a 3rd World Non Western country. Women here are loyal and motherhood material, Thank God.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 10:32 AM
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well that's exactly what TRP tells Western men, to embrace traditional masculinity so a feminine woman submits to you. But you don't like that too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:53 AM
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When you say all around the world, it LITERALLY happens all round the world. Like I'm from Pakistan and the girls added with me on insta also make faces like these lol. And it's freakin weird.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/21 01:26 PM
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MRP actually works and produces results. You can't deny that. What else do you expect when a man isn't even getting sex in his relation? MRP produces results, that's what matters for men in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:00 AM
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You're right to a certain extent. But the level to which the sexual marketplace in the West is skewed in women's favor is unnatural. Hypergamy is also on steroids in the West. We have a hypergamy in our societies too, but it's balanced, not batshit crazy like the West. TRP is a practical way for Western men to win at the game rigged against them. You can't deny that. Edit: Who tf told you Muslim women like escaping to the West lmao?? Yeah sure some nuthead feminists do. But majority of women her…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:52 AM
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I admire the West that they're better than us in many things, particularly technological advancement. But all the things you mention in you reply, this is exactly where your society went wrong. When you throw moral values out of the window, and prefer freedom of choice , it's bound to destroy the society. Atomizing the society down to the individual makes everyone miserable in the long run.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/21 04:34 AM
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Guess what, guys who join RedPill don't feel that way and they don't have. Promiscuity is destructive for the society. It resulted in the sexual market in the West completely being controlled by women. Now that TRP is fighting back, and beating women at their own game, I.e. hypergamy, you're complaining lol. Like I said, you have no logical rebuttal to TRP. I have my religion so a lot of things in the TRP are irrelevant to me. But that's not the case for men in the West. They seem to need it, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:06 AM
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I'm a Muslim and a lot of RedPill stuff is against my religion. But I completely understand that with the promiscuous women in your societies and the family laws there, RedPill is a viable solution for men. Still I find a lot of things in it are very useful for me, even as a Muslim, and they concide with my religion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:52 AM
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The thing is r/marriedredpill seems to be actually working. The detailed field reports there, you can't make that stuff up. And to date I haven't seen a sound logical rebuttal to their claims about hypergamy and stuff like that. They teach men valuable life skills like holding your frame which society simply doesn't teach anymore. As someone from a Muslim country, a lot of their stuff is irrelevant to me. Our women are chaste and modest, not promiscuous like Western women. They're also family mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:49 AM
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Ah yes, I meant encourage. Thanks for pointing that out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 05:51 PM
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That kid is so cute. I feel sorry for her. Why do women in the West make such reckless life choices? Like my religion actually encourages us to marry and support widows/single mothers. But those are women who came out of an abusive marriage or the husband died. They aren't women who got impregnated out of wedlock like these women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 04:41 PM
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The attention, acknowledgment and validation women get from the opposite sex. Call me a desperate loser, but I really crave validation from the opposite sex. And it's non existent if you're an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 02:16 AM
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I'm sorry I get emotional. I'm 22, virgin and from a Non Western Muslim country. All the mind games, gender wars and stuff make me really depressed. I just Thank God we have arranged marriages here. But even then I'll have to do the stuff discussed here and it makes me sad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:35 AM
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You're moving the goal post now. Crying is vulnerability. You just admitted you don't care about men's emotions. You just use them as an errand boy and piece of meat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:31 AM
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So you just cared about how he makes you "fEeL" His needs and emotions can go to hell. This disgusts me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:29 AM
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The replies here make me so sad as a man. Dating and relations seem like hell for men in the West. I'm just glad women here are virgins, so we don't have the pressure of living up to their former partner's expectations. The vulnerability thing is also true here though. I feel most women here see men as an errand boy and finance provider for the children. Well at least they don't walk out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:15 AM
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Yup 5'2 here. She's gonna have to deal with it B-)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:41 PM
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Your family system IS a mess. 50% marriages end in divorce. You throw your kids in daycare and elderly in old age homes. We'd rather die than throwing our parents away in their old age. That's the time to pay them back. Husbands and fathers sacrifice a lot for their family too. 16 year old girls here don't have to work on McDonald's and Hardees to survive. Their fathers and brothers provide for them. And all your activities you mentioned can be done alongside motherhood. Even if you don't engage…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 09:36 AM
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One can pursue other passions even being a housewife. You think just b/c they don't have a corporate job, they don't have any life. Fatherhood is one of the most satisfying aspects of a man's life and their whole lives revolve around it. They earn to provide for their families. I personally just feel that sacrificing motherhood for a corporate career, getting drunk ,one night stands is just sad. You people live in a hedonistic and individual centric society. These things don't give meaning to li…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 09:10 AM
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I see your point. Look I know nobody's an angel. I just want someone religious and willing to be in a marriage following traditional gender roles. Women here are also being indoctrinated by feminism, and it scares me. I don't want promiscuity to become normalized here. Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 08:21 AM
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Like I said you're an Outlier and irrelevant. Majority of women in Muslim countries aren't like you. Inshallah I'll marry a religious Niqabi woman and have traditional gender roles. I'll take care of her and love her Inshallah. Don't know what you find so horrible about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 07:49 AM
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Women work here too but whatever. You'll realize at one point in life that no "passions and dreams" can compensate the joy and satisfaction of motherhood. You've been brainwashed into believing that motherhood is a burden. Our definitions of promiscuity may vary. Sex outside marriage is promiscuity. And Western women do engage in hookups. You might be ab exception
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 07:40 AM
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I was referring to the religious ones. Not the feminist ones like you. You know majority of Muslim women aren't like you. I'm sure you live in a Western country
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 07:37 AM
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My point is that women feel pressured to "put out" to make a man stay. That doesn't work, but the reverse doesn't either; many men will just move on to the next woman willing to have sex. I understand this, but what do you expect when sex is so commonly available and other men around him are getting it? I'm not absolving them of blame, but again if women refused sex outised marriages, guys would have to commit. One good thing about hookup culture is that it lets people be their true selves. No m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 05:05 AM
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Hypergamy is natural, I admit. It's also very prevalent in marriages here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:58 AM
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Men in the west aren't suited for fatherhood or marriage That seems true. But like I said, what incentive they do have for marriage if they can get sex outside it easily? The divorce laws aren't in their favor. Women there focus on career and consider marriage and motherhood a burden. Obviously men would be averse to the idea of marriage. it's a sickness that has permeated all of society and not just women? I agree with you, but I feel a lot of women are ok with this stuff and objectification in…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:55 AM
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Maybe. But it's not like that if women from our country went abroad, they'd start hooking up. I guess it's the type of culture we grow up in. Women here are chaste due to religious teaching and family upbringings. I'm sure a lot of girls there are also like that in the start. I feel modesty is an innate human trait. But women their fall prey to societal pressures and brainwashing. Come to think of it, you're not as free as you think. You've also grown up accustomed to certain practices and norms…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:48 AM
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A BF doesn't mean anything. You're not in a legal relation. Sex outside marriage is still promiscuity. And just b/c you don't engage in hookups, doesn't mean a lot of women in your society don't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:35 AM
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Rights--> liberty to whore around without any shaming and destroy the family structure. Oh she won't be poor don't worry. She won't be promiscuous like Western women. She'll be a religious and motherhood minded woman. I'll earn for and take care of her. I'll make sure she feels loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:31 AM
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The expectation of premarital sex is embedded in our culture. True, but women are still the gatekeepers and they can change this. You've made guys (the top 20%) accustomed to sex in the first few dates. It's the most valuable thing a woman can offer to a man. Why would he want to commit to you, if you've let him enjoy your body the first night you met? This is why your family system is a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:29 AM
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I'm not saying men are bystanders, but women do have it much better. They're gatekeepers of sex and control the dating market. They sleep around with the thug types in their youth and settle down in their 30s. Divorce laws mean a lot. I feel women in the West aren't marriage or motherhood material. Porn addiction is a major issue. I'm recovering from addiction to interracial porn myself. But what do you expect in a hyper sexualized society?? Women are responsible for this b/c they brought about …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:27 AM
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Motherhood is the most noble responsibility a woman can fulfill. You've been brainwashed into believing that working for your own family and kids is oppression, but working for someone outside your home is liberation. I don't hate women. I hate promiscuous and hedonistic Western women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:15 AM
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True, but women are much better off when it comes to dating. Even in marriage the laws are in their favor. They get divorced and rob their husbands from half of their property
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:12 AM
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I'm from Pakistan and no lol, they wouldn't. You guys have never seen chaste women in your life so you think aWaLt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:09 AM
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What do you feel I said was wrong? I'm seriously asking. I want to understand your POV
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:06 AM
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Nope, they wouldn't. Our women are family minded. They care for their family and children. Women in your societies divorce men to rob half of his property. Just b/c they aren't feeling it anymore. Women in your societies aren't marriage or motherhood material
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:04 AM
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There's a huge difference b/w a chaste and promiscuous woman. And no, I don't think guys sleeping around is cool either. And yes the comparison is a major factor. That's why your marriages end in divorce. The wife isn't satisfied with the husband and misses her crazy one night stands with the Chads, who her average hard working husband doesn't get even close to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:58 AM
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I'm one of those short brown dudes lmao 😂😂😂😂 But yeah I guess we have it kinda better here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:46 AM
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Wait till you find out Muslim women are even more based and chaste, Thank God
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:44 AM
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You people are hedonists who chase your desires like animals. Why would anyone respect women who engage in such activities? Your society is a mess. So much superficial materialism. I feel sad for the guys there. They can't even get a decent and chaste woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:41 AM
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She's poor b/c she'll be a chaste and modest woman who doesn't ride the carousel like Western women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:35 AM
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Nope, Western women really are far more shallow. I just Thank God we have arranged marriages in my country. Dating is hell for guys in the West. I'm 5's and I would've died single if I had to date in the West
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 02:57 AM
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I'm 5'2 from Pakistan and just glad that height isn't such a life or death issue here when it comes to marriage
/r/MGTOW207/02/21 10:46 AM
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Even if you take morality and everything out of the picture, this is a brilliant explanation and makes sense
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 02:54 AM
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I'm 22M from Pakistan and single and virgin. Gender dynamics confuse me so much. All the gender wars on the internet drive me nuts. I feel like I'm becoming a borderline misogynist at times. Sigh
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/21 10:41 AM
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I'm not white, I'm brown, but your point is very valid. It does make me insecure still
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 12:06 PM
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Sigh. I know you're right. I follow a sub r/loveafterporn and I've realized marriage most certainly doesn't solve it magically. I quit for months at a time but fall right back into it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 07:25 AM
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I thought I could fight it off on my own. I've left in between. We fast in month of Ramadan ever year. Every year I completely abstain in that month. Then I'm back to square one. I guess I do need professional help
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 07:11 AM
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Thanks for responding. Please check your dm
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 07:07 AM
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No no, I'm single and virgin. I don't date b/c pre marital relations are against my religion. I consume interracial porn a lot. I'm addicted in that sense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 06:14 AM
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It's horrible and unnatural. I'm addicted to interracial (black on white porn). I actually left for 2 months but relapsed yesterday -_-
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/21 06:03 AM
-8

Fair enough. But then why does it seem to work? I know it doesn't sound right. But it works, you can't deny that
/r/ExRedPill30/01/21 05:01 PM
1

I replied. I'd prefer if you could dm. Message is kinda difficult.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/21 06:59 AM
1

I swear to God man! Been 2 months and I still get flashbacks. Do send me a DM please. I wanna discuss this
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/21 06:42 AM
4

I'd definitely say men like women more. As a man I absolutely love women. Female companionship is the thing I desire most in life. I don't care if this comes off as desperate. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:01 PM
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r/usernamechecksout
/r/ExRedPill28/01/21 04:56 PM
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I'm from Pakistan, and when I hear Western women saying BS like this, and not paying on their dates, it convinces me that gender roles are natural and women complaining about them are hypocrites. They want to shun responsibility but enjoy privileges nonetheless.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/21 01:53 PM
19

I'm gonna get hate for this, but they're right in a lot of things. The thing is the go to the opposite extreme. Balance is pretty much the key.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/21 12:47 PM
17

Woah! This is the most balanced and sensible take I've seen on this subject so far. This is something which confused me a lot. Thanks for explaining it like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 05:01 PM
1

You raise a lot of valid points. Gf Bf culture is becoming common here in universities too. But Thank God majority of the people are safe from that crap, as of now. Even the non religious women are nothing like Western women lmao. And there are a lot of pious and religious women here still. But I really don't know if this will be the case after a few decades. That is what scares me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 01:51 PM
1

I wonder, is this the result of living a consequence and danger-free life? Yup, that's pretty much it. Humans need some sort of social code to abide by. They can't be left to just act on their impulses and desires. This isn't even a gender thing. Goes for both. I feel Western societies promote a hedonistic and self centered lifestyle, which results in attitude like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 01:39 PM
3

Man this stuff makes me glad we have arranged marriages here. At least this type of BS is kept under check."Women want some chase, some drama-" my a** lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 01:14 PM
2

The recovery's going fine I'd say ,thanks for asking. I still get flashbacks from the BlackedRaw.com scenes lol. And when I see an attractive white girl I imagine her with a black stud xD. Yeah porn exaggerates these things a lot I guess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 07:07 PM
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Jamal, DeMarcus and LeShawn won't commit to raising Tyrone's kids Is Jamal a common name for Black guys in the US? xD It's a Muslim name but I've seen it being used to refer to Black guys quite often.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 04:26 PM
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"What century do you live in?" As a practicing Muslim, I get to hear this a lot. And I'm sure it's the case for all religious or somewhat traditional people. The thing is, no matter what "century" it is, human nature at it's core can never charge. Humans have a base instinct which repulses them to stuff like this. Sadly that instinct gets weakened due to external societal conditioning. I'm just appalled at the audacity of this woman, that she expects other people to put with this BS.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 03:46 PM
8

As someone recovering from addiction to interracial porn, I didn't know there were white women who actually had a thing for the BBC lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 03:38 PM
1

At it's core, RedPill has a lot of valid points. Western societies are gynocentric. The divorce laws are against men. Problem is, RP guys go into over drive and delve deep into misogyny. That's the problem.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/21 12:32 PM
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Then why do women claim to be so strong and independent and equal to men, if they're scared all the time? Doesn't that prove that patriarchy is natural and desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 09:54 AM
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As someone from a Muslim country, this is exactly why I came to this sub. I wanted to study the effects of promiscuity on Western society. Thanks for sharing this!
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre23/01/21 09:24 AM
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"lat" means "years old I overlooked this the first time and I couldn't tell b/w the age and body count xD xD How do men in the West feel about this though? Like does the majority feel like the men on this sub, or are they cool with it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 06:15 AM
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You have a nice day too! I also love learning about Western society. That's why I come on these subs
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 06:09 AM
3

We have our own problems here tbh. But overall our family system is very stable. Their is a sort of a societal pressure on both genders to get married by a certain age, particularly women. This means that fornication isn't that common. People lose their virginity after marriage so women being discarded after being ravaged by Chad and Tyrone isn't a problem here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 05:42 AM
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Valid point. I'm from a Muslim country but I follow Western World closely. When I see the right wing nationalists say that Muslims are gonna take over, they breed like animals etc. I can't help but think have you guys looked at the state of marriage and family in your native people? What else do you expect lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 04:58 AM
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"body counts higher than Obama drone strikes in ME" I'm a Pakistani and my country suffered a lot from drone strikes but this cracked me up xD xD xD xD
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 04:52 AM
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Interesting... Why do you feel the latter is better lol?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 04:35 AM
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This is sad. This mantra of being empowered and delaying marriage is being exported here to the East too. I appreciate that at least this woman is honest and introspective. I hope she finds someone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 04:32 AM
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"The fact that virgins are rare and even openly shamed in modern western culture should tell you everything about the levels of promiscuity." You see, this is the issue. Women aren't as free in your societies ad people like to claim. They're also forced into these things by societal and peer pressure. This is pretty telling tbh. "Like said it's usually not gangbangs and such extreme stuff, just boring serial monogamy with occasional hookups and fuckbuddies." That's disappointing lol. Still prett…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 05:43 PM
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. They aren't all over the internet proving they can have sex with hot guys. I've asked Western women about promiscuity here but they deny it lol. You reply explains the reason pretty well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 04:14 PM
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There are reasons why those rules have been there for many hundreds of years. Exactly! This is the simple thing people don't understand. " Hypergamy unhinged is the same like we'd release hundreds of 4 months young mutts to run all over the highway and let them to "be free" We have hypergamy in our societies too, and it's natural to a certain extent. But it's on steriods in the West lol. If women are given an option to hook up with so many men why would they ever wanna settle down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 04:12 PM
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age 16 to 26 you have picked up almost 300 cocks And I thought porn wasn't realistic lol. Seriously 300? Man your woman or on another level I swear. " far, far less likely to stay with one man. " That's the biggest drawback of sex outside marriage. You can never settle down with this attitude. I bet these women get divorces cuz they miss Chad and Tyrone
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 04:10 PM
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Stupid hoes think that putting out to everyone while you are "dating" is normal. I thought only the chads and tyrones got his lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 04:08 PM
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Sigh, you're right. Series like BayWatch and Sex in the City are accessible here. But the thing is, they're only watched by a specific educated portion of the society. I myself am a huge fan of sitcoms like HIMYM and The Office. Grew up watching Spongebob lol. But you're right. Hollywood really does have a negative impact in this regard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 04:04 PM
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All of those things were true in the West less than 100 years ago, This is exactly what scares me. The reason it's taking long is religion. I feel like Christianity is dead in the West. On the other hand Islam is well alive in Muslim countries. Just take a look at the Muslim immigrants in your societies. Although a lot of Muslims do become Westernized, still a significant percentage of them is attached to the religion. We have feminists movements here in Muslim countries as well and a lot of wom…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 04:02 PM
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Is it the law that a non-virgin woman is forbidden to marry or is it permissible, but in practice pre-marital sex is frowned upon? They're not forbidden. But if they sincerely repent from it and decide never to do it again, than they shouldn't bring it up unnecessarily. Imam Abu Hanifa(RA) one of the greatest jurists of Islam, even said that such a woman would be lawfully considered a virgin. However, if a man does find out that the women is non virgin, he probably wouldn't want to marry her. Th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 03:58 PM
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How promiscuous are Western women in actuality? I've heard a lot of stories about them. Like they partake in orgies and gang bangs with the college football team. Is that true?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 03:53 PM
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From an outsider perspective, Western women do seem highly promiscuous. I wouldn't be surprised if orgies and gangbangs were the norm for them as well. Surely there has to be a reason why all these guys feel this way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 03:45 PM
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Alhamdulillah bro, Alhamdulillah. I still feel scared at times. B/c ideologies like feminism are also making inroads into our society.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 02:06 PM
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Definitely it's not worth it. Not at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 01:11 PM
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Bro Islam doesn't really oppress women in the sense you guys think. They have a lot of rights. Even if they earn, they don't have to contribute a penny to the household, that's the husband's responsibility. The concept of polygamy actually benefits women, b/c it tilts the supply demand ratio of the marriage market in their favor, just like the dating market in your societies. They can, rather must demand an amount of money from the husband ,called Mehar, as a guarantee before marriage. The thing…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 12:49 PM
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Is it really that bad in the West? Seriously, it can't be THIS bad! EDIT: Ok, it's bad!! I hope our Muslim societies don't become like this. Damn this is scary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 10:59 AM
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As a Muslim man, I feel male bashing and Islamophobia have shockingly similar patterns. Both of them are collective labeling and bashing. Highly offensive and hurtful stuff.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 10:46 AM
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Well then do you think incels have a right to complain? Or the MGTOW guys burned by divorce laws in the West. Do they have a righ to complain? I actually agree with you. I'm just pointing out the glaring hypocrisy that most women won't say this stuff when they see a man complaining. I see it on dating subs here all the time. I'm not even from the West and I can still tell how much dating sucks for guys in your societies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 11:40 AM
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Agree, but I'm pretty sure this isn't your reaction when you see men complaining here or on other dating subs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 11:08 AM
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Lmfao!! Women there actually believe this stuff xD xD Man I'm a virgin and from a conservative society and I even know how stupid this thinking is. Seems like these women operate in some sort of alternate reality lol. This shows why religions always condemn and shame promiscuity. PS I started following MRP. Even though I'm unmarried and virgin, I feel like I can learn a lot from that sub. The funniest thing is, a lot of marriages here in Muslim societies have similar problems, I.e dead bedrooms …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 04:00 PM
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I feel a lot of redpill stuff is actually practical and makes sense, especially the self improvement stuff, but they take it a lot of things to the extreme.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 03:53 PM
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Thanks a lot for the encouragement!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 03:52 PM
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Damn bro! So you really aren't a Chad or Tyrone type of guy? And you still spin plates?That's cool man! Good for you. Personally I don't support fornication since its against my religion. But I still study dating in Western societies to get an idea of univer gender dynamics. This is quite an interesting insight.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 02:45 PM
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This stuff makes me so glad we have arranged marriages here, and our women don't get banged by Chad and Tyrone before marriage lol. You're right, increasing MMV is far more realistic and attainable. That's why the marriage market in my country is tilted in favor of men. If it had dating and fornication here, and women also took SMV into count, guys here would've been f'ed up real bad xD.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 12:24 PM
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Makes a lot of sense..Thanks for sharing your perspective
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 06:33 AM
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Ok,ok. That makes a whole lot of sense. I guess this is why a lot of guys struggle to date in the West, cause not everyone can attain the required level of SMV.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 05:21 AM
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" she categorizes men according to their SMV (Sexual Market Value) rather than their MMV (Marriage Market Value) " I'm from a conservative Muslim country, and I've always thought how relationship dynamics differ in the East and the West. The contrast of these two terms is fascinating, I've never thought of it this was before. How do you think SMV and MMV can overlap?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 04:52 AM
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The last paragraph, can you explain that in a bit detail? I'm not even from a Western country but the nice guy theory always fascinates me, and this is a very unique perspective. Would be grateful if you could explain in a bit detail
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 04:35 AM
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Damn man!!! This shit is messed up. I saw a post on r/confessions by a girl. She called over her ex's best friend and enjoyed him wild.The fact that she was getting back at her ex turned on her. And she was so proud of it. Promiscuity is off the freakin charts! Thank God people in my country lose virginity after marriage. PS I'd love to discuss this on PM with you of you don't mind. I tried sending you a PM but couldn't. Would be grateful if you'd send me one just to start the convo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 03:30 PM
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We stopped shaming sluts, and now nearly every girl out there goes through a slut phase. The future love of your life will have had sucked 50 different dicks before you This here, is exactly what makes me glad I live in a Muslim country, Pakistan, even if it's a third world shithole by Western standards. At least we don't have BS like that here. We've got a stable family system and promiscuity is under control.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 03:08 PM
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"shit happens" LMAO!!! Maybe Western women should stop being whores and only spread their legs for someone their actually married to? No?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 03:05 PM
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Thanks for wishing luck 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 10:29 AM
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Not implying anything between the lines lol. This is pretty much a reason..I would never indulge in casual sex as it's against my religion. So yeah, marriage is the only option for me, and a major motivation for self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 10:06 AM
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As a Muslim man, getting married is the only thing that motivates me to self improve. I don't say this on behalf of all Muslim guys, but this is definitely the case for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 11:34 AM
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Still your prospects are a thousand times better than the average man in the West. I'm from a Muslim country and the dating scene there seems to be in favor of men highly. I literally cried at this post that how easy it is to get sex for women, while I've never touched a girl in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 03:47 AM
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I couldn't care less about your culture, if it wasn't for the fact that your governments try to import your lifestyle to our countries, and bomb the shit out of them if they resist. Just like Bush said he invaded Iraq to liberate oppressed Muslim women..Your culture and lifestyle is sold as the ideal, hence the necessity to call it out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:39 PM
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If anything, this hypocrisy by women itself proves the necessity of RedPill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:27 PM
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Whatever, I just feel glad I wasn't born in your society. You people are hedonists are lack basic human empathy. You think men deserve to die single just b/c they could get away with "only" being a provider in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:58 PM
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The alternative to that is what? Every man is designated a woman regardless of attraction because men need sex? Arranged marriage? Yup, that's the way to go, Thank God we have sound family system here and majority of our population is religious. Our women are chaste and modest and we lose virginity after marriage. Arranged marriages, along with God's mercy are the only thing that give me hope to me in life, that I won't die single. Promiscuity has destroyed your family system. We may not hump st…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:08 PM
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​ lol, geez why are these guys hating me? I'm on there side lol
/r/MensRights16/01/21 04:29 PM
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Look, from an outside perspective, Western societies seem to be highly gynocentric. Women control the dating and sexual market. The divorce laws are in their favor. I see guys depressed on these subs and it breaks my heart. Women won't even look towards them. Whereas women's tinder and insta dms are flooded with requests. They can go to nightclubs and get any guy they want to hookup with them. And women can't seem to empathize with these men. They shame them here and on other dating subs and tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 03:29 PM
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Hi! I'm a 22M Muslim from Pakistan. Would love to discuss Western lifestyle and promiscuity in Western society if you're willing to do so.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 02:34 PM
1

The emasculatuon of men by feminists is a real issue. It's starting to happen here in Muslim countries too. We actively need to fight it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 12:27 PM
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The first half of the video was very accurate and I appreciate that he shared correct sources about Islam. The last half is BS. Muslim women are far better and loyal than Western women. They're not whores who have the college football team run a train over them. Our societies are much more stable than yours. And the wife does not have the same right to divorce as men. The court can force the husband to divorce but ultimately the right to divorce lies with the man. Also the husband is in charge o…
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 03:11 PM
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Yes. I'm watching it and he actually raises the point I shared with you lol. This guys actually knows what he's talking about regarding Islam, unlike a lot of other MGTOW and RedPill youtubers
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 02:46 PM
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This seems interesting I'll watch it. But bear one thing in mind, Islam doesn't actually "oppress" women as people in the West like to believe. It just gives the husband a certain amount of authority in the family. Islamic family system can actually be thought being conducive to hypergamy, since polygamy provides women with a lot more options and increases their value immensely, just like the dating scene in your countries Women aren't expected to go to war or earn, In fact, she can earn (while …
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 02:29 PM
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Feminism is making inroads into our societies. I'm sure you all saw how Congress funded "Gender Programs" in my country Pakistan when the Covid bill was passed. And I read an article on NY Times that American women are legit going towards prostitution , I.e. OnlyFans due to losing jobs on the pandemic. It's mind boggling stuff literally. Your govt will fund NGOs to destroy our family system but won't take care of its citizens lol.
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 01:53 PM
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OnlyFans makes me legit glad I live in a Muslim society with a stable family system. Thank God our women are modest.
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 01:00 PM
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True, but that really doesn't seem to be the case in Western countries. Reading all these dating subs here and watching dating channels on YouTube makes me depressed as a man. Thank God we have arranged marriages here. I wouldn't stand a chance if I had to date. You're not getting the point. Men who are down in the social hierarchy will never ever get the same opportunities as those who are at the top. I know this is natural but I find this depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 10:45 AM
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I'm 22M, a 5'2 Brown Muslim guy. What would by my prospects in the Western dating market. Zero to none, right? Even if musicians and students get a date by chance, the choices available to them would be nothing compared to the chad. That in itself is a proof of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:04 AM
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Nope, that really doesn't seem to be the case in Western societies, from what I gather from interacting with Westerners here. Female hypergamy is universal but it's on steroids in the West lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:40 AM
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Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners. Hypergamy is cruel!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 04:19 AM
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stfu. These things were not the norm. Family is the backbone of the society. Just b/c you had an abusive family, doesn't mean the concept of family is wrong
/r/ExRedPill13/01/21 02:29 AM
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B/c it's the backbone of the society
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 02:25 AM
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I'd rather tell women not to let every tom, dick and harry bust a nut inside them. That's more practical
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 02:24 AM
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B/c your culture is branded as ideal and imported to our country. It's corrupting our people too and destroying our values. It's necessary to call it out. And FYI, my information is from interaction with Westerners on SM
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 02:23 AM
1

Nope. Westerners on Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 02:20 AM
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Western women are highly hypergamous promiscuous. They just pick the top 20% of the men to allow them to enjoy their bodies. When they've finally been used up, then they settle for an ordinary man, only to suck his financial resources. These tips do no benefit to the ordinary Western men. Western women also can't relate to their struggles, come from a position of privilege, and don't realize that dating in the West is in favor of women, completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 02:19 AM
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"Why is every woman you know showing off their tits? Are you at a strip club? lol" I'm specifically talking about Western women at nightclubs. "So someone you can barely see" Seeing her face before marriage is allowed, and her husband can see her after marriage. Moreover both husband and wife are encouraged to adorn themselves for one another, and fulfill their desires through intimacy. We preserve our sexuality for our spouses, we don't show it off to the whole world. Moreover, women wear Niqab…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:05 PM
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Doesn't change the fact that fatherless boys are a major issue is the US and Western society, caused directly by the destruction of the nuclear family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:01 PM
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" Then choose women who dont. Of course I will lol. Muslim women are chaste and modest, Thank God. God Willing, I'm gonna marry a woman who wears the Burqa. I want a pious women raising my children. Western women aren't motherhood material. That's why your family system is destroyed. "Oh no! A woman showed her ankles! " I didn't know 75% of the body including cleavage were called ankles lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:47 PM
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Hahahahahaah! I'm sure Western women are expert at this. I've also heard stories how they let the college football team run a train on them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:40 PM
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Well Western women are responsible for that. They shunned motherhood after feminism in the 1960s. Promiscuity lead to destruction of the family. A generation of men grew fatherless. And now women cry here 'wHere are aLl tHe rEaL mEn?'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:38 PM
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"You still dont understand what a hookup is." Oh I understand all right. Women wearing provocative dresses, going to nightclubs, and picking out men to have wild sex with. That's what women in your society do. The promiscuity simply disgusts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:35 PM
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Hookups are pretty much sleeping like animals. And you can't deny gangbangs and orgies don't exist in your societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:26 PM
2

From what I've heard, they do engage in hookups and one night stands. Sex outside marriage in itself is pretty promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:14 PM
1

who was posting about interracial porn and thinking American women were all whores having orgies? TBH I never posted about IR porn here. I did comment on IR videos from a previous account, like a month ago. Yeah, this might be me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:04 PM
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Kinda shocking that 5 self-described western dudes were such a close match to the Muslim guy’s psychology Seems like men in your society are starting to recognize the true promiscuous nature of Western women. Good to know lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:01 PM
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These are mere excuse by Western women to justify their promiscuity and privilege they enjoy. They can sleep around like animals, attend orgies and gangbangs. Nobody will stop them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 05:29 PM
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Ok simp. Stfu
/r/MensRights12/01/21 01:20 PM
2

Mannnnn!!!! I swear to God this drives me insane. I fkin hate it!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 02:35 PM
1

Exactly! I hate gender wars so much. I feel like I'm becoming a borderline misogynist because of them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:55 PM
1

I'm 22 😂😂😂 Yeah man, that's the plan. Thank God we have arranged marriages here. Else I would die single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:21 AM
1

If I ever go to a Western country, I'll try it for sure XD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:31 AM
2

I can't lol. I live in Pakistan. Where am I gonna find a white woman here? If I ever go to a Western country, then I'll try for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:31 AM
0

Oh, that's good to know. I showed a white girl here my pics. She said 99% of white women would reject me. I'm 5'2 so that kills off any chance I had lol. I've always fantasized about hooking with a white girl. I find them immensely attractive. BTW I'm Pakistani, not Middle Eastern.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:20 AM
3

Oh boy, there must've been some wild orgies after this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:17 AM
0

Man the guys in these protests are lucky! They've probably got some good action after this. As a brown guy from a Muslim country, I've always wished I could know how it feels to be with a white women. Sigh....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:13 AM
1

Explains all the white chicks at BLM protests lol. They actually outnumber the black people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:05 AM
1

"I'll pass. I can't blame you for being into blacked porn though. Its the only porn that shows women actually being pleasured. " I find white women highly attractive and I'm a brown guy. The skin contrast was a massive turn on for me. I imagined myself in place of the stud
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:02 AM
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This is actually very empathetic and well balanced reply. I highly appreciate it as a man. Women hating on men and misandry on the internet really gets to my head. And it's always the same argument "Women out there are being killed by men!' WTF does that have to do me with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:48 AM
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Nope. It doesn't. You shame men for their masculinity in the West and then you complain about lack of real men in your society? That's hypocrisyy PS : A humble request. Please don't write that "Blacked is the best porn". I was addicted to interracial porn and I'm recovering. I found this highly triggering. I know you're not bound to care about it, just a request
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:43 AM
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Agree but it's the hypocrisy of these feminists. They claim they don't need men, yet the urge men to accommodate them in every sphere of life and give them preferential treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:15 AM
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Human societies even the patriarchal ones have been quite gynocentric in nature. Women and feminists will never touch this aspect of patriarchy or try to rectify it. They want the privileges of both genders at the same time. You're absolutely right. If women claim to be so strong and independent, they shouldn't be afraid of men in the first place. This is the fault when women shame men and deem masculinity to be the root cause of all evil. This attitude won't eliminate evil men. But it'll sure a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:12 AM
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Yeah, about that. Nobody does that here 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:46 PM
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This is sexist paranoia and nothing else. Get over it. Western women claim to be strong and independent, yet act in such a childish and senseless manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:12 AM
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I got this perception from interacting with Westerners, mainly on twitter. I realize the gangbang thing might be a bit off, I've read a lot of stories about orgies in college frat parties, on quora mainly. I guess it's also that the idea of sleeping outside marriage itself is promiscuous for us, let alone hookups. Still I do feel your society is overly sexualized. It's pretty evident from Hollywood and even TV shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:07 AM
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Yes I'm pretty sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:11 PM
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That's the literal meaning. Red Pill focuses on gender dynamics mainly. I do admit they go overboard with the misogyny. You have to be careful with that.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/21 04:46 PM
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Because it exposes the true promiscuous nature of Western women and teaches men how to game them.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/21 04:24 PM
1

Obviously there some so called Muslims like your class fellows. Still majority of Muslim women are virtuous and chaste, especially in Muslim countries here. Islam will prevail. Your hedonistic tendencies will be the downfall of your societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 11:25 AM
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Dream on, it won't. We will remain true to our values. Our women will never be vulgar like you people and sleep outside marriage. They're very modest and chaste, Thank God.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 10:38 AM
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Lolll....you're just immodest and shameless. And you wanna make our women that way too. That's why US govt is funding gender programs in Pakistan. FFS keep your nose out of our business. Don't destroy our family system and make our women promiscuous gangbangers like the women in your society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 10:04 AM
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You can lol all you want. Doesn't change the fact that Western women are the most immodest and promiscuous women on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:15 AM
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No, not being physically harmed. But they deserve being pumped and dumped. Why would anyone want to get in a serious relation with a woman who causally sleeps around? I would never want to marry a woman who goes to gangbangs and whose body has been enjoyed by multiple men. No matter how modern your society becomes, at the core men always want chaste and decent women to raise their children. Men in your society might not admit that due to PC culture but it's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:58 AM
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Every society has some sort of issues. Doesn't mean it's the norm. Our family system and overall societal structure is still a lot more stable than your hedonistic societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:22 AM
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I wouldn't condone this behavior normally but Western women deserve it. They're highly promiscuous and not marriage or motherhood material by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:16 AM
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Lol, no it isn't. The USA and Nordic countries literally have the highest rape stats in the world. Women in our societies are respected and honored. Unlike your societies where they're objectified. Women in the West are promiscuous and shameless af, run OnlyFans accounts and have the college football team run a train on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:13 AM
1

Oh that's fairly promiscuous all right. Sex outside marriage is promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:30 AM
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Lol, the entitlement of Western women. You want to be strong and independent, yet you need a man to provide for you? How on Earth does that even work. What's the guarantee you won't run off when you find a more attractive guy? The manosphere is on spot about nature of Western women. At least here in Pakistan and other Muslim countries, women are virgins at marriage and committed to motherhood. So they men also commit to the relation. Western women just don't seem to be relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 03:57 AM
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As a Muslim I feel their ideology is correct with respect to Western society. And yes, women should be submissive to some extent at least. If the man isn't in charge of the relation, it's gonna be a standoff and nothing else.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/21 06:52 PM
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Nope. I was addicted to interracial porn, but that's not where I got this impression. I got this impression from interacting with Westerners on SM
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:51 PM
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Bro I don't want any help with that. I wanna discuss the college parties. You said that yourself. Would appreciate if you'd agree to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:34 PM
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Do check your dm please. Would appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:27 PM
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I thought so. This is exactly what I've heard from Western guys I interacted on twitter. It's a pity you guys can't even find a virgin woman to marry in your societies. Check your DM please. Would love to see some of those proofs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:10 PM
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That's great to know. This is why I have respect for practicing Christians and Jews. Abrahamic religions are based.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:13 AM
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I was badly addicted to it. It was the only porn I ever watched. The skin contrast between the male and female was a massive turn on for me. I'm dark skinned myself and am really attracted to white women, so maybe that's why it turned me on even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:47 AM
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Being from a Muslim country, I most certainly want to be a breadwinner. The idea of my wife having to earn goes against my "fragile male ego". Sure if she earns through something like freelancing, that's cool. I'd even like her to keep that money, as our religion orders that the wife's earning stays with her whereas the wife has a right over the husband's earnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:42 AM
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Even if it's not orgies, sharing and discussing explicit sexual activity is quite common. https://twitter.com/WomenPostingLs/status/1346984960561868802
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 06:19 PM
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I apologize on those guy's behalf, abusing like this isn't something our religion condones. However, our religion does have a well defined code of conduct for both genders and it exists due to good reason. It's crucial in keeping our family system intact. You can disagree with it, that's your prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 05:51 PM
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Look I already clarified that I did have an IR porn problem but I didn't draw this conclusion from that. I've drawn this conclusion from engaging with Western accounts on twitter. Western women are twitter are also talking about this stuff all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:19 PM
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I'm actually surprised to hear that XD Good to know though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:07 PM
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I can completely understand that media depictions can be quite misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:07 PM
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I see. This is quite an interesting perspective. I think popular media (TV shows and movies) builds a very particular image of Western society and women. Widespread consumption of pornography doesn't help much too. It's very interesting to hear this from you that this isn't the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:32 PM
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Yes, I completely understand that. From our POV, any sexual relation before marriage is promiscuous for both men and women. I realize that isn't the case for you. The extreme generalizations I made (about gangbangs and orgies) I got this view from interacting with multiple accounts of Westerners on twitter, and seeing the accounts of women as well. They're always talking about this sort of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:25 PM
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That's pretty promiscuous according to our standards but I understand your point. Appreciate your feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:21 PM
0

I see. Unfortunately these sort of women are the ones we come across mainly when we think of Western women. I've come across countless stories how Western women partake in orgies and gangbangs in college frat parties, that's why I had this opinion. I realize generalization is wrong. Your analogy about Muslims being terrorist is accurate. I can relate to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:17 PM
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Fair enough, this is only the perspective and impression I have as an outsider. I might be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:14 PM
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I've had my fair share of problem with porn, particularly interracial porn (black on white), but I haven't solely drawn this conclusion from porn. Rather from Western social media users in general, across various platforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:13 PM
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I know. But I haven't solely drawn this conclusion from porn, rather twitter, quora and SM in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:12 PM
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Appreciate the feedback. And from our POV, any sexual relation before or outside marriage is promiscuity, and it goes for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:10 PM
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