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Your welcome 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:00 PM
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You asked for examples I just gave them to you buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:58 PM
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It wasn’t just one guy. There were other post that got removed since they were aggressive. Everyone wasn’t just dunking on him, just the women he flaired the question for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:41 PM
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You asked for examples of guys on here justifying raping women, I gave you an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:23 PM
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The question was for women only, of course most people who answered the thread disagreed with him. He still saw it fit to post something like that which is telling, as he’s not the first to post something similar to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:11 PM
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Here is one example: https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/q0nkdi/choose_your_poison/ There was another post which was something a long the lines of ‘if sexual strategy is amoral then rape should be acceptable’ but it got removed by one of the mods. u/Mrs_Drgree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:03 PM
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Like brah we literally have several post of guys jokingly defending raping women yet the women are awful ones lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:44 PM
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Most of those insults largely came out of nowhere. You don’t have defend everything men do, this isn’t a team sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:40 PM
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I don’t doubt this subreddit attracts people who aren’t all that well together. But from objective standpoint there are far more inflammatory things said about women on here then men. Plenty of female members like Narniafox, Smurf, Poppy, even myself etc have talked about getting insane dms from guys on here. I think one guy even messaged Narnia telling her he hoped her cat dies over an innocuous statement she made and Smurf got messages from someone making fun of her fathers death. That type of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:32 PM
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I’ve been paying perfect attention. It’s purge week, which is basically circle jerk of women bad men good, anyone who stays on the subreddit for five minutes can clearly see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:25 PM
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I don’t get why people are calling the women on this subreddit terrible. Most seem pretty polite and understanding despite the awful things said about women 24/7 on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:22 PM
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Research that shows approximately equal rates of dating and domestic violence by men and women has been used to challenge the priority given to services for abused women. This article reviews the scientific evidence for gender equality in rates of lethal and nonlethal intimate partner violence. Among the problems noted in studies showing gender equality are the ways in which questions about violence are framed, exclusion of items about sexual abuse and stalking, and exclusion of separated couple…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:35 PM
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The point I'm making is that institutionalised sexism against men does seem to be considerably less in UK and European society. This is pretty interesting assertion especially since I’ve come across some MRAs post that paint the UK as a misandrist hell hole ever since the murder of Sarah Everard caused misogyny to be treated as a hate crime and catcalling as harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:44 PM
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ACTUALLY, READ the post and watch the video sandman address this same study and debunks it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fGpxa9JggJ Nobody is going to waste their time watching the video, you need to write a summary of his arguments addressing how he debunked the study. Did he also debunk these two large government funded studies too? However, two other large surveys, the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFfG), and the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES), also ask abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:02 PM
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I’ve posted this multiple times and still haven’t gotten a clear answer. There has been several social scientists that have looked at the sexual frequency between men and women and whether or not their is any validity to the 80/20 rule or if a small % of men are getting all the sex from women. What they found generally was that the 80/20 rule not only exists for men but women too, as in a small % of women are having most of the sex too: It turns out, the answer is no. And of course, it isn’t! Im…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:47 PM
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I was actually born in Colombia and go back often to visit family. Emma Watson would most definitely be considered above average there and her having light features alone (thus making her more ‘exotic’ to the local men) would give her more attention from men as well. I really don’t know what the fuck you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:41 AM
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Who gives a shit what kind of person she is? Any decent person would have her standards too, this is just you trying to nitpick because like a lot men in this subreddit you get triggered at the thought of women having any standards. Be honest if you saw a man write he wanted the same qualities in a woman that Narnia said she wanted in a man, would you be concern trolling about whether or not he ‘deserved’ to have standards? I know I wouldn’t because I’m not insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:48 PM
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Narnia is already married and literally said in the original post that holds herself to the same standards she wants in a partner. If you think this list is so unreasonable that only 10/10 women should have these standards then you must also think most men are poor quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:34 PM
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People who study this already controlled for what you are talking about and still saw in a decline and divorce. Plus the sample size in the study I listed above is roughly the same for each generation: The marriage rate has also fallen over the last several decades. But Cohen calculates the divorce rate as a ratio of divorces to the total number of married women. So, the divorce rate’s decline isn’t a reflection of a decline in marriages. Rather, it’s evidence that marriages today have a greater…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:32 PM
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That’s not how math works, and it’s funny how you have failed to respond to my statistics showing a decline in divorce: Measured that way, approximately 65% of marriages that began in the 1970s and 1980s reached their 15th anniversary, according to data from University of Michigan economist Justin Wolfers provided to the New York Times, making for a divorce rate of about 35% for those generations. Based on that same data, about 70% of marriages from the 1990s reached 15 years, for a divorce rate…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:23 PM
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It’s funny how you don’t have anything to refute so you just respond to another comment that also doesn’t have any statistics to support their claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:55 PM
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When someone actively seeks custody it’s because they believe the other parent to be unfit which guess what is expensive for women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:54 PM
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The vast majority of custody cases are decided outside of court by both parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:52 PM
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Try this one: https://www.insider.com/what-is-the-divorce-rate-2017-2?amp Nothing in your link proved lower marriage rates have caused lower divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:41 PM
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It’s already been repeatedly pointed out that okcupid would automatically match you with someone if you rated them too highly which probably influenced some wome rate more harshly. Think about it why would women still message those men they rated below average anyways? It’s probably because they don’t actually think they are below average. This is the problem with resting your entire ideology based off a conflicting 11 year old non peer reviewed study conducted by dating site.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:37 PM
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That's a lot of mental gymnastics, you could just accept that women are much more harsh judging men that the other way around. This is really funny coming from you after dismissed my point. You also seem to be ignoring the part I linked showing lower tier women were less receptive to messages from attractive men. How could that be if all women are in aiming high and only give chads attention. Average guys are sending messages to every woman, including the supper attractive ones. Hot guys send me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:24 PM
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Because less and less people are getting married. No because less marriages end in divorce: The thing is, dividing the annual divorce rate by the annual marriage rate is useless. The same people getting married in 2016 aren't the ones getting divorced in 2016. So by measuring the divorce rate that way, you don't get any sense of how divorce rates change across different generations, which is what you need to understand if you want to see how divorce rates are trending. The best way to understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:17 PM
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The divorce rate has been falling for decades now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:52 PM
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Top tier women get more messages because there are more men on the platforms. That literally makes no sense, you would think men would be more likely to message lower tier women since they are outnumber thus need to lower their standards. But that’s not what happened, according to the same OKcupid study, men messaged top tier women 28x times more often then lower tier ones which is a much more skewed distribution then how women messaged men. And messaging on a dating app has no real correlation …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:51 PM
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Nah I prefer being normal and going outside and interacting with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:28 PM
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Oh yes this same OKcupid study that also said: When it comes down to actually choosing targets, men choose the modelesque. Someone like roomtodance gets nearly 5 times as many messages as a typical woman and 28 times as many messages as a woman at the low end of our curve. Sitewide 2/3 of male messages go to the top 1/3 of women. So basically, guys are fighting each other 2-for-1 for the absolute best-rated females, while plenty of potentially charming, even cute, girls go unwritten. This graph …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:05 PM
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It was the 15+ specific traits or features that she expects a man to bring to the table. What exactly is wrong with those traits. Point out specifically what you think is unreasonable about them. Which point do you disagree with? Again your entire argument seems to be, hur dur ‘her list is too detailed and long therefor unreasonable’ yet you continue to fail to point which specific points you have problem with. IMO if you don't have an equally detailed list of qualities you yourself bring why sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:48 PM
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Since you failed to do so last post, why don’t you explain or point out which points on Narnia’s list that you think are unreasonable or unfair. Your entire argument seems to be her list is unreasonable because ‘it’s too detailed and has too many points’ and ‘she won’t be able to find 6ft + ultra chad millionaire jock that I imagine all women worship who have all these traits.’
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:09 PM
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Funny thing is Narniafox is from Russia which isn’t exactly a place known for teeming with ‘liberal propaganda.’
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:58 AM
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The number of women with such standards increase everyday. Proof? Where is this evidence that women have sky high standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:35 AM
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Maybe. I try not to let the stuff I read on here get to me but when I see comments like ‘women have no value outside their hole or sex’, it sometimes bums me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:09 AM
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Narniafox is from Russia, Russia is not exactly a place I imagine teeming with liberal propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:55 AM
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Absolutely nothing about Narniafox’s list is unreasonable. It’s actually kind of sad how many bitter and angry people this subreddit seems to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:50 AM
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The own pew research says women and men work the same hours (paid and unpaid) but studies absolutely show breadwinning wives still more housework that is not the case for breadwinning husbands. Breadwinning wives also don’t get parity in how household chores are divvied up. As wives’ economic dependence on their husbands increases, women tend to take on more housework. But the more economically dependent men are on their wives, the less housework they do. Even women with unemployed husbands spen…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:01 AM
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You realize that’s because the majority of men don’t want primary custody? The vast majority of custody cases are decided outside of court: In just over 51% of custody decisions, both parents agree that the mother should become the custodial parent. In roughly 29% of custody decisions, this is made without any assistance from the court or from a mediator. 11% are determined with the assistance of a mediator, and 5% are determined following a custody evaluation. By comparison, only 4% of custody …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 11:59 PM
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Women still do the majority of housework even when they are breadwinner, and 38% of wives out earn their husbands that probably where the source of contention is coming from. Breadwinning wives also don’t get parity in how household chores are divvied up. As wives’ economic dependence on their husbands increases, women tend to take on more housework. But the more economically dependent men are on their wives, the less housework they do. Even women with unemployed husbands spend considerably more…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:53 PM
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LMMFAO.... sorry, just had to compose myself. You have no idea what you're talking about. I paid it for 5 years. Every man I know who got divorced also paid, some for over a decade. You are factually incorrect. Period. It is handed down with impressive frequency. But guess what? Never met a woman who paid spousal support. Funny enough nobody I know who divorced had to pay alimony, but ok why don’t we look at statistics rather than anecdotes? Unlike child support, which is common when divorcing c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:47 PM
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Nearly 40% of wives out earn their husband, and studies show that even when the wife is the breadwinner in the relationship they still do the majority of housework. It’s likely women who are apart this demographic that are complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:34 PM
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38% of wives out earn their husbands, that’s nearly 40% and not a small number. It’s likely women who apart this demographic that are ones complaining about doing an unfair amount work vs their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:32 PM
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Alimony is rarely handed out these days and most men who file for equal custody get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:22 PM
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Not if the wife is the breadwinner and the study shows men spend more leisure time. Breadwinning wives also don’t get parity in how household chores are divvied up. As wives’ economic dependence on their husbands increases, women tend to take on more housework. But the more economically dependent men are on their wives, the less housework they do. Even women with unemployed husbands spend considerably more time on household chores than their spouses. In other words, women’s success in the workpl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:14 PM
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Probably because breadwinning wives still do the majority of housework: Breadwinning wives also don’t get parity in how household chores are divvied up. As wives’ economic dependence on their husbands increases, women tend to take on more housework. But the more economically dependent men are on their wives, the less housework they do. Even women with unemployed husbands spend considerably more time on household chores than their spouses. In other words, women’s success in the workplace is penal…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:13 PM
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The shorter guys aren’t telling you about their struggles. This is common among short men. I talk to my brothers all the time about their dating life and see the gfs they bring home. I would know if they were struggling. Yes, I generalize women because women generally like the same things. They tend to be attracted to unchangeable attributes in men with height being on the top of that list. First you said all women despise short men then you said only white women do, now you are back to saying a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:04 PM
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OECD doesn’t include housework in their unpaid labor definition. According to US government statistics women spend twice more on housework then men and a much higher percentage do housework daily then men. https://www.bls.gov/tus/charts/household.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:43 PM
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You generalize women claiming they universally despise short men, but get mad at me for pointing out maybe your hyperbole is wrong and the problem lays else where? Hmmm ok. I’m Hispanic and have a bunch of average height brothers, friends and relatives between 5’6-5’9 and they do fine with women of all races.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:39 PM
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If that were case wf/hm relationships would be the least common but it’s not, it’s the most common or second most common interracial coupling according to most stats. So maybe women just don’t like you not your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:23 PM
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If women universally despise short men how do explain how Hispanic men do fine dating and sex wise despite being the shortest men in average in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:58 PM
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Wait you use to be transgendered?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:51 PM
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This proves my point with your own source. And yes women to often times lie, yet the women who are either virgins before marriage or only had sex with the man they married are the best for marriage. We can assume this group is less likely to lie as they are more than likely to be religious. It proves nothing, if there was a direct correlation between n count and divorce then women with only 2 n counts wouldn’t haven’t have a higher divorce rate then those with 3-9. Women can have sex so easily w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:22 PM
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Don't tell me that the 'stigma' of n-count and 'slut shaming' doesn't 'effect' women's honesty with these things, it doesn't even need to affect all women, simply a portion to warp stats. So often do women blindly refuse to believe that premarital sex is bad and that they've lowered their value as a result of having just 1 sexual partner before marriage, even with a multitude of sources clearing showing that even sex with your husband/wife before marriage reduces the quality and strength of your…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:07 PM
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What a crock of shit, the fact you have 3 studies with differing results shows this is not correct. That’s why some people have taken dispute over GSS results as they don’t have necessary sample size (1,000) required by data scientists to yield accurate results and the populations they surveying also may skew the results. GSS does not survey college students or those living in dorms while the NHANES and NFGS do. When talking small population that is mostly the same race,faith etc then sure a sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:27 PM
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Yeah because all women are honest about their n-counts, wake up holy shit. It’s interesting how guys in here tend to pick and choose which data related to self reported n counts they believe. If it’s study related to n count and divorce, suddenly the data is completely reliable, if it’s a study showing something you disagree with, suddenly the data is not reliable because women are lying. Anyways, none of what you are saying changes the fact that studies show people tend date/marry people with s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:12 PM
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Can you imagine all the poor bastards that unknowingly settled with women that fucked several dozen men while he had little to no sexual partners? This rarely happens. People tend partner up with people with similar sociosexuality scores to them, which correlates with promiscuity. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/lydpfs/study_most_couples_have_matching_sexual_experience/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:24 PM
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Only if the number surveyed is a big enough % of total population, 1000 out of what 100m young men is not enough. So currently all sex survey about how much sex young men are having are useless and can’t be trusted by your logic. Data scientists say you don’t need a large sample size to get accurate results. Even in a population of 200,000, sampling 1000 people will normally give a fairly accurate result. Sampling more than 1000 people won't add much to the accuracy given the extra time and mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:48 PM
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Most people aren’t having a lot sex off of dating apps, some maybe but they are a minority. FYI it never ever involved alcohol. Cool, but are you denying alcohol increases your likelihood of having causal sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:04 PM
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You realize couples plan to or get engaged well before the age they get married, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 01:46 PM
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Actually someone linked a study below showing the changes in fertility between a woman in her 20s doesn’t change much much in her 30s. Studies of natural conception are surprisingly difficult to conduct. Three modern, reliably conducted female fertility studies included only about 400 women 35 or older who might not be representative of all women trying to conceive. One study published in Obstetrics & Gynecology in 2004 examined the chances of pregnancy among 770 European women. This study found…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 01:43 PM
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1000 is not a large enough data point to determine anything. I’m guessing you have never taken a class on statistics, 1,000 is considered more then enough to conduct a representative study and the study by GSS which guys like to cite as evidence of there being a sexlessness epidemic has an even smaller sample size: The study ultimately found that in 2018 31/136 men between the ages 18-30 that they surveyed reported having no sexual partners in past year(which translates to 22% not 28% the number…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:01 AM
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Only 9% of births to college educated women are out of wedlock, so how can they be getting knocked up and left single mothers at a similar rate as poor women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:10 AM
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The funny thing is the same study you linked showed over 30% of those lesbians name men as their perpetrators. “For example, the CDC found that 89.5% of bisexual women reported only male perpetrators of intimate partner physical violence, rape, and/or stalking and that almost a third of lesbian women who have experienced such incidents have had one or more male perpetrators.” https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/publications/ipv-sex-abuse-lgbt-people/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:57 AM
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Online dating is literally accounts for almost 40% of how heterosexual couples meet making it the most popular method of contact in modern times Lol I’ve literally been over this study a thousand times because it seems that people didn’t read it closely, but I’ll again repost what’ve I said about it before. In short most couples do not meet on online dating apps you are equating to meeting online with meeting on dating apps. According to the study you linked the plurality of couples do meet onli…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:41 AM
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You mean women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:19 AM
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I haven't the inclination to properly tear that awful IFS study apart but its clear its trash. What’s make it trash? Are you talking about the sexlessness data? Because those are not studies conducted by IFS but the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFfG), and the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES). They are just analyzing their results. Or are you talking about their data on the validity of the 80/20 rule? Because again they are just analyzing data from GSS and another s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:18 AM
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since most casual sex occurs through dating apps or clubs. Except studies show most people aren’t having a lot causal sex off of dating apps. You are the most likely to have causal sex in a setting where there is a lot alcohol and drugs being consumed which can range from a bar to a house party. One of the strongest predictors of the likelihood of engaging in casual sex is alcohol consumption (Armstrong, England, and Fogarty 2012; Johnson 2013; Vander Ven and Beck 2009). The disinhibiting qualit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:29 AM
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The male sexlessness epidemic narrative is based off of data from the GSS, two other larger studies on the topic have either found male sexlessness has remained unchanged since 2000 or has even decreased. However, two other large surveys, the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFfG), and the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES), also ask about sexual behavior. Their results do not confirm the trends seen in the GSS. However, they also have slightly different questions and sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:49 AM
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Did I tell men to do that? I’m just pointing your narrative that all men are clamoring to get married by age 25 while women won’t consider them because they rather hookup is demonstrably false when you look at the data. Places where women have the advantage in dating due to skewed gender ratio people are more likely to be in stable relationships, which shows women value that more then men. Anyways there are plenty of churches, where you can find marriage minded young women. Christian mingle exis…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:38 AM
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I had entire post on this, but basically two researchers looked at current sex data to see if the 80/20 exists, not only does it exist but also exists for women too. So either the 80/20 rule applies to women like it does men or it doesn’t exist. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/m2e1ts/does_the_8020_rule_apply_to_women_too/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:21 AM
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Maybe because most dating apps are 80% men and have a skewed ratio. https://www.digitalstrategyconsulting.com/social-media/online-dating-trends-men-outnumber-women-on-tinder-by-9-to-1-while-grinder-wins-for-age-diversity/30382/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:18 AM
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If a guy is serious about finding a wife young he can absolutely find one, he just needs to involve himself in spaces where that is possible. Places with more men tend to have higher marriage rates and a lower percentage of children born out of wedlock. Opposite is true with places with more women vs men: The research showed that counties in the U.S. with more men than women generally had higher rates of marriage, fewer births outside marriage and fewer single female heads of household — all of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:08 AM
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As someone who comes from a high crime country, it doesn’t change the dating scene much except you are much more wary about strangers approaching you and tend to stick with your social circle as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:45 PM
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Your sentence literally makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:25 PM
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The statistics I’m citing looks at widowers of all age ranges not just older ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 05:59 AM
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Younger widows are more likely to remarry but statistics still show most don’t. What’s interesting is that male widowers regardless of their age are significant more likely to remarry after the death of a spouse: By 25 months after the spouse's death 61% of men and 19% of women were either remarried or involved in a new romance. Women expressed more negative feelings about forming new romantic relationships. I guess by your logic the men never really loved their deceased spouse since they remarr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 02:51 AM
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Most widows don’t remarry regardless of country.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 07:31 PM
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What country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:09 PM
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Except an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:56 PM
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So you got nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 07:37 AM
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Last I heard his ex wife was dating a millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 06:56 AM
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Post an example then of a judge rewarding more than 50% of martial assets to a woman during divorce. If it’s every single one it shouldn’t be hard to find an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 06:01 AM
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How does that discount that he likely cheated on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:31 AM
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What’s not cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:53 AM
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Bill has definitely cheated on Melinda. The dude use to be buddies with Jeffrey Epstein for Christ sake and rumor is he and his wife had an agreement where he could spend the weekend with his ex gf Ann Winblad at a summer house. https://www.newsweek.com/behind-gates-myth-166002%3famp=1
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:26 AM
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Name one divorce case where a woman got more than 50% of marital assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:58 AM
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I remember reading somewhere that Bill Gates had an agreement with his wife to let him spend the weekends with an old gf, named Ann Winblad. Edit: lol for those downvoting here is proof: Bill Gates, the story goes, takes an annual vacation with his ex-girlfriend - and it’s legit. Of all the fascinating nuggets that make up the legend of Bill Gates, perhaps the most fascinating is the fact that he is supposed to have signed a prenuptial agreement with his wife, Melinda, that would enable him to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 10:48 PM
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The studies sample size consists of college aged people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:39 PM
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I stand corrected, but 52% of men vs 47% of women use online dating according to EHarmony (probably outdated by now); You realize there are other dating apps then Eharmony right? Tinder and bumble are both 80% men for instance. The men and women gender ratio on Tinder is almost nine to one, while even the "female-friendly" apps like Bumble have fewer than 20% of Bumble users, which indicates the men to women rate's seven to three. https://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/men-have-more-chances-to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:32 PM
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It doesn’t matter what you think, by objective scales Brazil and South Africa are developing countries. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Developing_country
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:24 PM
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The vast majority of online dating users are men. Besides this contradicts your point about younger women wanting older, if they did this trend would be reflected in their choices in OLD, which it is not. Most women prefer older men, but only a few years older, very few young women pursue men significantly older than them, this is especially the case in developed countries. Maybe things are different in developing countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:09 PM
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Here is a study on online dating about this topic and here is what they found; But the biggest deal breaker of all turned out to be age, at least for women. All other factors being equal, women overall were 400 times less likely to browse the profile of a man significantly older than herself. But that changed with age. Whereas 20-year-old women were 10 times more likely to ignore a man 10 years her senior, 45-year-old women were nearly 10% more likely to browse the profile of a man 55 or older c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:55 PM
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I never seen a woman hitting a man in public. There was an interesting post on here that got deleted about a self described incel who went around filming himself harassing people in nyc for hours on end, people noted he mainly harassed women because they were more likely to not retaliate physically against him when he did versus men. https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/1420324/streamer-known-for-harassing-women-arrested-for-fake-bomb-threat-in-new-york/amp If anything this proves women are way too nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:42 PM
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Thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:39 PM
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Men do worse off then women when single for long periods of time, she is not wrong about that. https://theredarchive.com/post/321268
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:02 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/ActualPublicFreakouts/comments/mrn9sk/malik_smooth_sanchez_was_arrested_by_the_fbi_for/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:10 PM
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Carrying out a fake bomb threat is literally a federal crime, which is why he has been arrested and held without bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:01 PM
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the fact you believe I'm excusing something show how biased you are against men, IDK why you hate men this much... Lol, so I hate men because I think it’s inexcusable behavior to harass people in public for video likes and views? The only person who brought up gender is you, by trying minimize this man in the ops appalling behavior by doing bad faith whataboutism and coddling him like he is a child whose been force to bully strangers in public because dumb shit like the ‘sexual market place.’ Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:38 PM
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It is really incredible the mental gymnastics you are doing to try to excuse inexcusable behavior. There is no context where insulting, stalking and cruelly pranking strangers who have done nothing to you is ok and ok to watch as entertainment. The ‘women are just as mean!’ excuse is not going work, sometimes it’s ok to condemn someone’s behavior without making it about gender. Trying to play on team men all the time has to be exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:12 PM
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No sane human being would derive joy from watching another person randomly insulting, stalking or causing genuine distress to strangers because ‘hehe it’s putting foids in their place!’ That’s just beyond being ‘radical’ but borderline psychopathic behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:56 PM
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I’ve unfortunately stumbled across this guys videos before, he really knows who to try because there are parts of NYC where he would have gotten the shit beaten out of him for acting that way. Women really are too nice, because the only people who usually try to put him in his place are other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:27 PM
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The sexual revolution was most definitely about porn not only but getting rid of obscenity laws and opening up topless/strip clubs was a huge part of it. Porn was also the vehicle used to promote casual sex which was by and large consumed by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:15 PM
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It was mostly men who supported the sexual revolution, do you deny that? Are really saying it was women who pushed playboy, the bachelor lifestyle and porn onto the masses?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 03:36 PM
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What country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:40 PM
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No idea what black pill and incel is. Lucky you tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:40 PM
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You realize Latinos and Latino culture exists in the US? They are literally the largest minority group.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:20 PM
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I’m just going by the survey, seems accurate considering most of the prominent female posters claim to be in relationships, I see no reason why they will lie. Furthermore, the survey also found a third of the men here consider themselves blackpillers which is an incel ideology, and incels are usually single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:19 PM
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A survey on PPD user base showed most women here are in relationships while most men were single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:11 PM
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40% of mothers are not single mothers. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/jlth6h/comment/gasr0rt https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/mj7jkj/comment/gt9wa0z https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/mj7jkj/comment/gt9pkq3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:08 PM
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This trope is common in Latin culture, so this event can’t be rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 07:20 PM
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The study doesn’t specify what platform where couples who purport to meeting online are meeting on, it just says that most couples who meet online are not meeting on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:06 PM
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Meeting online does not equal meeting on dating app, I’ve been through this same study before. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kpw4m7/comment/gi0qenp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:51 AM
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Maybe you just find men more attractive on average which is why you think a lot women are with men more attractive than them. Stuff like this is pretty subjective at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:45 AM
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I swear the men on this site are so autistic, assortative mating which is what the OP is talking about has nothing to do being exactly of equal attractiveness but equal social desirability. Women refuse to date anyone except their superiors aka hypergamy That’s why 38% of wives out-earn their husbands. You guys really just cling on to this hypergamy thing as an excuse for your failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 06:37 AM
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Whose ‘you’d’? You mean me? Cause I haven’t said anything on this topic, I think the other posters point was that makeup often times doesn’t improve ones appearance but can make them look worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:53 AM
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What’s difference? I don’t deny one gender can’t be pieces of shit to other based on looks and pretend they are angels. I got a lot more stories like above that I have witnessed first hand so we can do this all day. What’s the difference? You had a case, that guy probably ended up on an incel subreddit or killed him self. The irony is the school only took action and notice after the young girl was admitted to the hospital for a suicide attempt and didn’t want to risk getting sued in the future f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:11 AM
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What ‘hamstering’ is going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:06 AM
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I work in education, we recently had to deal with a case before COVID of a group of boys harassing a girl who went through chemotherapy and didn’t have any hair thus had to wear wigs. They would take turns trying to pull her wig off for fun and mock her for not having hair by calling her names. If that is how boys regularly treat each other then how sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 06:22 AM
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Lol this is just more men are good nonsense. You are a man you have no idea how men treat unattractive women, growing up guys would clown ugly girls all the time. There even been studies on bullying that encountered this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:31 AM
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We have videos of everything, people literally take videos of people freaking out in public even if they aren’t violent. This is just you caping. I use to work in the service industry and so I have first hand experience with interacting with the general public and have been in some very uncomfortable situations. It was not mine nor any my coworkers experience that men were less violent, in fact 8/10 times if we had customer acting out in violent manner it was a man. The inability to control your…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:07 PM
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Yep that’s why we have all the videos of men the peaceful gender assaulting people out of anger and beating others, even shooting them. My ex bf used to work as a bodyguard at a nightclub and would tell me stories for days, men are the not the peaceful gender, that’s for damn sure. I also had a friend who worked at dmv, 80% of time if they had deal with a violent customer it was a man, it’s laughable you think men are all angelic monks who never get violent when angry while all women are violent…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 07:44 PM
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I can find article saying the earth is flat. You article is a joke. How to find divorce rate is obvious and simple as any rate you divide the occurrence by the total population. So you are going to ignore experts despite them clearly explaining why and linking data to support their claims. Your very special aren’t you? No, as I said. Because you are only considering marriages that last less than 15 years. So not all marriages. Thus you don't calculate divorce rate. You calculate something called…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 07:42 PM
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Did I say anything about women not being violent? I just find it amusing that the gender that are mainly the ones shooting up schools, grocery stores, massage parlors etc out of annoyance or anger is accusing the other gender of being ‘far, far, FAR more violent.’ It’s almost like this is human thing based on an individual basis not a gender thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 07:29 PM
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Women regularly slap their bfs male friends? Who knew. women are far, far, FAR more violent than men. The go to response for most women when they get annoyed or angry is to physically assault. Yep that’s why most mass shootings are committed by women having a bad day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 07:21 PM
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They are looking at couples that received premarital education, or couples that passed college, so a specific demographic. Shaunti study was not. To find the divorce rate, you divide the rate of divorce in the entire population by the rate of marriage in the entire population in any given year. And that's it. That's how you find out how many marriage end up in divorce. You don't need to compare the same couples. Those divorcing are not the one marrying in any given year and that's normal. I lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:47 AM
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Who cares if the same couples get divorced. This is what divorce rate is. If you want divorce rate among first marriages, it's something else. It matters because serial divorcee skew the statistic, you need to compare the same couples to get an accurate result: Most people mistakenly believe that in order to find the divorce rate, you divide the rate of divorce in the entire population by the rate of marriage in the entire population in any given year. This is what your wiki source is doing and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 06:37 AM
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Is there something i am missing here ? Yes u/Jimmaey You are missing something, the divorce rate is not 70% in the US and has never been that high. Today, some 39 percent of marriages in the United States are ending in divorce. This data comes from the most recent census data, and there are a number of reasons that couples are deciding to call it quits. https://www.smudailycampus.com/sponsoredcontent/promoted/how-frequently-are-people-divorcing-in-2020 The drop in divorce statistics seems to be,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 04:45 AM
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You can’t compare marriage rates to divorce rates, as you have no idea if the same couples are getting divorced. My source: Today, some 39 percent of marriages in the United States are ending in divorce. This data comes from the most recent census data, and there are a number of reasons that couples are deciding to call it quits. https://www.smudailycampus.com/sponsoredcontent/promoted/how-frequently-are-people-divorcing-in-2020 The drop in divorce statistics seems to be, in large part, due to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 04:28 AM
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The American Psychological Association doesn’t list a source for where it got it number from, the 50% has been debunked numerous times already. Today, some 39 percent of marriages in the United States are ending in divorce. This data comes from the most recent census data, and there are a number of reasons that couples are deciding to call it quits. The number is likely being inflated by serial divorcees.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 04:22 AM
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It’s probably because older male bachelors don’t far as well as as their older female bachelor counterparts especially when they become widowed. Although widowhood has a strong depressive effect for older men, its effect for women is nonsignificant, and it explains a small proportion of the variation in depressive symptomatology. This suggests that most people, particularly women, adapt relatively well in the long run. https://academic.oup.com/psychsocgerontology/article/56/1/S56/546685
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:01 AM
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50% of marriages don’t end in divorce, and where are you getting the 20% of marriages are sexless stat? Does that stat include elderly couples who no longer have libidos?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:50 AM
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You said: There is a law in NJ This is not a law in New Jersey, you can clearly look that up, stop further embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 04:54 PM
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Widows aren’t cat ladies and they are primary reason why a lot older women are single. The average age gap for heterosexual couples is three years, that’s not a significant gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 04:51 PM
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Do you not understand the difference between a proposal vs an actual law? This is embarrassing. Under New Jersey's current laws, many different actions can lead to sexual assault charges — but lying isn't one of them. https://www.youngmarrlaw.com/will-rape-fraud-become-crime-new-jersey/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 04:07 PM
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It’s not an actual law, it was introduced a few years back as a publicity stunt that’s it. Under New Jersey's current laws, many different actions can lead to sexual assault charges — but lying isn't one of them. https://www.youngmarrlaw.com/will-rape-fraud-become-crime-new-jersey/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 04:06 PM
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So you didn’t bother to read the thread at all. Also this the full quote from Wikipedia: A 2005 scientific review of international published studies of paternal discrepancy found a range in incidence, around the world, from 0.8% to 30% (median 3.7%).[5] However, as many of the studies were conducted between the 1950s and the 1980s, numbers may be unreliable due to the inaccuracies of genetic testing methods and procedures used at the time. Studies ranging in date from 1991 to 1999 quote the foll…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:29 PM
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Paternity issues on an actual world wide level, you'll see that Nigeria has a paternity discrepancy of 30% als The study on Nigeria is again based on men who suspect they are not the father thus seek a paternity test, it is not on an unbiased sample. A DNA expert from Lagos University Teaching Hospital claimed that 30% of the Nigerian men who went to paternity testing centers (paternity testing laboratories) were not the biological fathers of the children in their custody. And I could find no cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:57 PM
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Please cite those studies because I have listed several in this thread that show a rate of between 1-3%. For studies based on populations chosen for reasons other than disputed paternity (table 1) median PD is 3.7% (IQR = 2.0%–9.6%). While this is not a measure of population prevalence it does suggest the widely used (but unsubstantiated) figure of 10% PD21 may be an overestimate for most populations. ** France: 2.8%, in a sample of 362 children. [5] Mexico: 9.8% to 13.8%, in a sample of 396 chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:42 PM
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Nope he is correct I just got into a long out conversation with someone who thinks using studies where men suspected they weren’t father thus got paternity test was proof that 30% of kids are a result of paternity fraud. Studies that use unbiased samples generally do show a rate between 1-3%. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/mhcdz8/comment/gsy4djx
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:38 PM
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Still blows my mind that it’s even legal. We punish all other forms of financial fraud harshly... but we give women a pass on this I suspect because the assumption is that these guys are pathetic losers and deserve to be scammed. Depends on what state you are in. In the previous I lived in (Tennessee) fathers can absolutely sue the mother in case of paternity fraud, they just have a limited time window (about 5-8 years I believe) to do so after the birth of the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 05:57 PM
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The person was referring specifically for medical conditions such as cystic fibrosis not paternal discrepancy. You need to search for the parental discrepancy rate in the U.S. The person used cystic fibrosis to test paternity disparity, in cases of the cystic fibrosis both parents need to submit a dna test to see if there is any genetic basis for why their child has cystic fibrosis if one the parents doesn’t share the same dna as the child it would be noted, hence why he used it to test paternit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:53 PM
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This would be an interesting experiment. Take a picture of an average looking 35, 40 or 50 year old man and woman. Put their pictures up on an OLD site, see who gets more sexual/romantic interest from the opposite sex to test if your theory is true. Bonus points is if they express interest in someone younger then them and the young person in question is receptive to their advances or if a younger person contacts them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:58 AM
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That’s just you putting words into my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:39 AM
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You are saying anything that makes women non perfect angel is a larp. Please point out where I said these exact words.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:34 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:29 AM
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The one viral story on this was from the point of view of a ‘woman’ who was so obviously a man larping as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:11 AM
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Ehhh there’s also quite a few anecdotes floating around from married men who found out that their girls used to do gangbangs and anal only to give their husbands starfish sex... You mean those obvious made up stories posted by men larping as women? Yeah sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:07 PM
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Yes, men are the ones who create male hierarchies but they don't "push" "weaker" men down. That’s why bullying between boys doesn’t exist, oh wait. But neither you, nor women, nor anyone else, gets to lie to my face and tell me women aren't "rejecting weaker men", because THEY ARE. Nowhere in ops post did she say women never reject weaker men. She said the idea that women hate on weaker is male projection. It seems to me all this talk about women hating on weaker males is just male projection of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:22 PM
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I agree partially. One of the weirdest things on this subreddit is guys entirely blaming male intrasexual competition or any rivalry between men on women. The notion seems to be if it wasn’t for women, men would all be singing kumbaya together and there would be world peace. This is of course nonsense, competition between men doesn’t solely exist or is only facilitated because of women. In fact a study on bullying found girls opinions on certain members of the opposite sex were irrelevant in how…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:37 PM
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Meeting online does not mean man meeting on OLD app. I’ve talked about this before. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kpw4m7/comment/gi0qenp
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:58 AM
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That’s why there is no link between household income and child wellbeing. It doesn’t matter how much money you have since the mothers are all spending it on themselves. Again who knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:47 PM
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Adults never spend money on their children? Who knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:33 PM
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According to research by a team at Johns Hopkins University, 64 percent of millennial moms have given birth to at least one child out of wedlock. There's also been a 48 percent increase in births to unmarried women aged 35-39, and 46 percent of millennials believe that traditional marriages are becoming obsolete.Aug 31, 2020 Fact 6) The fertility rate of women in their 20s is at record lows so much so that women in thirties have a higher fertility rate, making this point moot since the only peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:27 PM
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How common is that? According to statistics: One of every six custodial parents (17.5%) were fathers. And In just over 51% of custody decisions, both parents agree that the mother should become the custodial parent. In roughly 29% of custody decisions, this is made without any assistance from the court or from a mediator. 11% are determined with the assistance of a mediator, and 5% are determined following a custody evaluation. By comparison, only 4% of custody cases require going to trial befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:13 PM
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Your emotional rant is funny but let’s get some facts out of the way. Fact 1) Single motherhood is not new: https://i.imgur.com/l4YKGDe.jpg Fact 2) Single motherhood is declining: However since then that figure has gradually decreased and is now at 21% in 2020 - the lowest percentage since 1986. The fertility rate of unmarried women is also down - from 48 per 1000 in 2010 to 40 per 1000 women in 2020. Fact 3) Most children born out of wedlock are birthed to cohabiting couples. Unlike in past dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:32 PM
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How would you like enforce that via government? Putting those women jail if they don’t stay? What if the father is abusive? What if the father wants to leave the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:11 PM
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Child support is not a special privilege, men can receive child support too if they get primary custody. Also there is no large difference between the percentage men and women receiving welfare assistance. https://nces.ed.gov/pubs2012/2012026/tables/table_32.asp
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:07 PM
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Canada, or Russia where prostitution is legal. Prostitution is not legal any of the countries you listed here. Canada: Current laws on sex work, introduced by the Conservative government in 2014, make it illegal to purchase or advertise sexual services and illegal to live on the material benefits from sex work. Russia: Prostitution in Russia is illegal. The punishment for engagement in prostitution is a fine from 1500 up to 2000 rubles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 09:02 PM
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Long term satisfaction, not the initial attraction The study literally says: wife, wives were no more or less satisfied initially or over the next four years to the extent that they had an attractive husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:01 PM
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If you have any sort of data on how many unwed parents with child go on to wed, I'd love to see them. I literally just quoted a statistic to you in my previous comment. As for my reference, it specifically implies that the traits necessary for women to have a satisfactory marriage are not the same traits necessary for bearing someone's children. Seems entirely irrelevant and you just wanting to rant about single mothers. Like there is zero evidence most single mothers have attractive baby daddie…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 05:41 AM
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I hope we can both agree that out of wedlock does mean much more likely to be a single mom. If she is still with the biological father then that doesn’t make her single mother. In the earlier period, for births occurring between 1985 and 1995, 17 percent of the couples we studied had a child before marrying. Of these, 21 percent married within a year, and 59 percent of those still together went on to marry within 5 years. In the later period, for births occurring between 1997 and 2010, 35 percen…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 05:30 AM
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You realize that out of wedlock doesn’t equal single mother? She could be cohabiting with the father. Unlike in past decades, most out-of-wedlock births today—58 percent—are to cohabiting couples. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4648627/ And Recent estimates suggest that 62 percent of births to never-married women are to women in a cohabiting union (Lamidi, 2016). And A report published today by the Pew Research Center finds that 35 percent of all unmarried parents are now living to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 05:10 AM
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The topic literally has nothing to do with single mothers yet you repeatedly brought them up in three of your comments. Sorry but that’s kinda weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:16 AM
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hence lots of single moms (I'm literally drowning in them, it's terrible). Why are guys on this subreddit so obsessed with single mothers. We could be talking about any random topic that has nothing to do with them and people will randomly bring them in a conversation. It can’t be because they are increasing because statistically that’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 02:28 AM
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There were studies showing opioids were not always prescribed for pain and that doctors were over prescribing them at the behest of big Pharma who was looking to make money: The opioid epidemic has been blamed in large part on the pharmaceutical industry and high-profile companies like Purdue Pharma, which falsely marketed the powerful medications as safe and relatively addiction-free. As early as 2007, drugmakers were paying out massive settlements for their role sparking a wave of addiction th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:38 AM
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Dude, doctors over prescribing medication out of greed is literally the reason we had an opioid epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:16 AM
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Op said: Dysfunctional UMC women - Unresolved mental illnesses, especially from an abusive home, so being with an abuser is normal to her. At no point did she bring up anti depressant use, which is a dumb measure to generalize how many people have mental illness as the study I posted shows most people being described anti depressant have not been diagnosed with having depression by a professional; indicating malpractice driven greed by the doctors prescribing them the medication anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:09 AM
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That's a lot of "low quality" women floating around out there... how fun It’s bizarre you are using this to measure if a woman is ‘low quality.’ I guess 25% of older women are low quality since they have the highest usage. Must be all that sex with grandpa bad boys driving them crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 12:58 AM
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The article doesn’t really say the reason for unsatisfaction.. a woman can be both unsatisfied with a LTR with a handsome fit guy or with a below average beta provider And she could have satisfying relationship with both as the study indicates her husbands looks are irrelevant in her assessment of the relationship. but the reason for unsatisfaction in both relationships Will certainly not be the same.. the reason for unsatisfaction with the beta provider will mosr likely be low attraction or phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 12:29 AM
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I just looked up the stat for your source, according to it, adult women over the age 60 have the highest anti depressants use at 25%, while adult women 18-39 have the lowest at 10%. Unless you are trying to date grandmas, it should be easy to find a woman not on anti depressant since that’s 90% of your dating pool. On side note, one the reasons anti depressant medication has risen so drastically is because predatory doctors are looking to make a quick buck same reason why we had an opioid epidem…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 12:17 AM
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The stereotype is actually the opposite, that women choose attractive men despite those men not being good choices for a relationship. I could be wrong but the study doesn’t appear to be saying that either: wives were no more or less satisfied initially or over the next four years to the extent that they had an attractive husband It appears to be saying to me that have an attractive partner doesn’t make a women more or less satisfied, it’s just an irrelevant factor, other factors more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:26 PM
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The results seem be based on multiple studies: Accordingly, the current work drew from four independent, longitudinal studies to examine sex differences in the implications of partner physical attractiveness for trajectories of marital satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 10:38 PM
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No I didn't ask for proof. I said 30% of men under 30 are incels. You said: It's on the internet I hear that nice try though. And in a previous comment you said: Which is why so many more women are "happily single" now And in a previous comment you said: Among other features, yes. And the fathers of yesteryear didn't choose for how pretty a man was. Women literally rabies froth at the mouth at the idea of dating their looksmatch. They hate the entire concept because it would mean they can't date…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 09:52 PM
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Did I mention whether it’s problem or not? You asked for proof that most people over age 22 are in relationships, I provided statistics, now it appears you want to change the topic to something I never said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 09:36 PM
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There seems to be this narrative on here that if a woman had a previous fling or relationship with an attractive man or chad (which apparently all modern women have) she will never be satisfied in her relationship when she inevitably settles down with a ‘beta provider.’ Well this study seems to be saying that a husbands looks appear to be irrelevant to whether not a woman is satisfied in her relationship and other factors matter much more then her husband not being as hot as chad, in relation to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 09:34 PM
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Again what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 09:19 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:52 PM
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Lol ok so you want some kind of proof or something? https://www.statista.com/statistics/669122/americans-current-relationship-status-by-age/ According to this stat half of people age 18-29 are either married or in a relationship. You can infer that the numbers are over 50% for those over 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:41 PM
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Most people over the age 22 statistically have a partner. Curious why a lot women around you keep proclaiming how happy they are being single, that’s weird, hmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:46 PM
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Not only your own link says that the marriage has a lot more chances to end up in divorce.... Marriage includes Yep because: Trying to understand the causal link between female breadwinners and divorce, the authors looked at housework and child care. On average, women do more than men (that’s well known), but the researchers found that the housework gap got even larger when the woman was the primary earner. They think this finding, which is based on eight years’ worth data from the American Time…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:33 PM
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Most couples are already ‘looksmatched’ there are not enough attractive men for every women to date one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 06:49 PM
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It has been studied that women don't date men who don't make more than them So that’s why according to government statistics 38% of wives make more then their husbands. https://www.fivethirtyeight.com/features/38-percent-of-women-earn-more-than-their-husbands/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 06:32 PM
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She's not even bothered to look at the DNA aspect nor the stats but making it up out of her rear end with no studies. Also more over she's in sociology which is the study of society not biology. A) The person you are talking about is a male, and b) they did look at dna testing, it appears you completely ignored my highlighted part. Prompted by the repeated assertions of widespread paternity fraud in the aftermath of the Abbott drama, Professor Gilding undertook an exhaustive review of available …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:17 PM
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That’s a little different, you are describing guys who have formed no attachment to the woman in question and only engaged in a short term sexual relationship. I thought you were saying that husbands/bfs of the women who cheat were more content being a side men then the other way around, which hasn’t been my experience. In my experience side chicks are more likely to try to form a serious relationship with their cheating partner which is why they are less content with just being side chicks and …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 11:44 PM
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men are a lot more comfortable being the side-man, Huh? Is there evidence of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 11:25 PM
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Different studies get different results. Based on the three studies I have quoted, the rate seems to range from less then one percentage to no more then three percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 09:02 PM
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How can a myth be based on a research done in 2006 by the AABB (which is a scientifically peer reviewed medical journal outlining studies and supported by the National Institute of health) Again the sample you are using is of men seeking paternity tests: A national database of 9999 paternity test results was formed weighted to represent the population of paternity establishment cases for the United States. This a skewed sample because those men already suspected they are not the father. Studies …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:52 PM
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Alimony is already rarely handed out anymore except in special cases, just ask any lawyer familiar with family law.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:39 PM
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The AABB (American Association of Blood Banks), which accredits DNA testing labs, released its findings about paternity testing in a landmark 1999 report. The report states that 30 percent of DNA paternity tests nationwide turn out negative. This is for men who already suspected they weren’t the father and got paternity tests. Thus a skewed sample: Studies which rely on a data set consisting of men who have requested paternity tests are strongly sample biased toward those who have a reason to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:18 PM
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Erh, if you read the full link, you've have seen that rape is defined as "forced penetration", a definition that deliberately excludes male rape victims, ffs the comment below your link explains this. Read the full thread, they use the same survey questions to measure the rate of ‘force to penetrate’ as they do rape. The survey questions they use define rape/sexual assault/sexual coercion too broadly which is why cdc has been repeatedly criticized for over inflating the prevalence, as another cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 11:42 PM
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The numbers you are using are from the cdc, which uses a very broad definition of rape, including acts that are not rape in the definition. Someone broke the entire thing down in a previous thread. The statistics on domestic violence are also skewed because they don’t include certain acts as apart of domestic violence. Research that shows approximately equal rates of dating and domestic violence by men and women has been used to challenge the priority given to services for abused women. This art…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 09:33 PM
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Are people still going to pretend this is just a harmless subreddit that’s meant to be good fun and not filled with obviously maladjusted individuals? Lol at his username flair saying level 99 nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:30 PM
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Yea I did not mention the 80/20 rule you did. Let it go. Yeah you just brought up women having sex with top % of men just because. You don't speak for all women, and I do not think you are dating women either so if you are not, I don't think you can tell what women are actually doing on dating apps. Let’s see, I do actually date women because I’m bisexual. Oops. No, it didn't read the actual data, and stop pulling shit out of your ass. I know you hate the facts but there the facts. Get over it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:42 PM
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Yea you wish I was, but im not sorry to disappoint you. ‘Women are having sex with top % of men, but I’m not talking about the 80/20 rule guys I swear even though that’s literally word for word used to describe the 80/20 rule!’ Yeah ok lol. Not true, women message men for free attention and validation, and sometimes just because they are bored and what someone talk to, they do not have to message you to find interest in you that's irrelevant. I’m a woman I think I have a better idea about why wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:05 PM
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I know people use that for their arguments for the 80/20 rule but did I explicitly say that? No, not even the slightest. This is just you putting words in my mouth so you can have an argument. Top % is just another way of saying top attractive men it's not that deep. ‘I’m not talking about the 80/20 rule even though I am regurgitating major talking points used in support of the 80/20 rule.’ Yeah ok lol. Men and women get on dating apps for entirely different reasons that are not always the same,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:01 AM
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Nah, I didnt you wish I did but I did not. You literally said: it's just a lot of women who are only having casual sex with top% men, we have been over this a million times. The idea that women are having sex with a small percentage of the men ‘the top %’ is straight out of the 80/20 theory book. Top %" of men because women raise their standards for casual sex which she admitted in her post, never said a word about the 80/20 rule that you keep bringing up. Women rated 80% of men below average in…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:49 AM
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You implied that most women were having casual sex with small minority of men which is literally what the 80/20 rule is all about. Lol at ‘soft poly’, I also love how attuned you are the average women’s sex life that you can be making broad generalizations about who they are having sex with, how hot the people they are having sex with and how often they are having sex with them. You must have superpowers. This is such a cop out, you can basically say that about study that relies on self reported…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:50 AM
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it's just a lot of women who are only having casual sex with top% men, we have been over this a million times What’s interesting, is that two researchers who looked into whether there is merit to this 80/20 rule have both said that it’s literally impossible for a small number of men to be having sex with the large majority of women. They would have to be having sex with several different women a day to keep up with those shares. Now there is truth that a small percentage of men have most of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:36 AM
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Do you have any evidence of that? It’s your speculation not mine, so show the proof. Most studies on cohabitation only define it as biological parents living together. Here is another study showing cohabitation growing, and that the majority of non marital births are to cohabiting mothers. It strictly defines cohabiting to mean biological father and mother. i.e., living with the biological mother at birth and nine months after the birth of the focal child) A decent percentage of couples will go …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 01:36 AM
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All those stats say is more men are shaking up with single mothers: Where does it say that? So 42% percent of unmarried women who have a baby don't live with the child's father. Yes and the numbers are increasing, here are recent stats: The share of births to cohabiting mothers has more than quadrupled from 6% to 26% between 1980 and 2014. The majority of unmarried births have been to cohabiting rather than single mothers since the late 1990s. Recently, three out of five children born to unmarri…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:58 AM
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You claimed ‘a lot’ yet for some reason you don’t want to show me screenshots of all these women you see on OLD with these 666 requirements despite it being super common. Probably because they are not common and you know I am right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:27 PM
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Awesome, I hope you don’t get mad when feminists claim all men are rapists and cite a bunch news stories of men getting arrested for rape as proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 06:23 PM
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Use your own tinder profile not others You can cherrypick anything online.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 06:15 PM
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a lot do Not in my experience. Why don’t show screenshots of all those women with 666 requirements on dating apps. Use your own tinder profile not others, if it’s that common it should be easy find 25 screenshots in a row of it, like I was able to on my brothers tinder showing no such thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:55 PM
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No but you implied it was a large amount. I’m telling you I only saw two women out of the hundreds of profiles I swiped on with height requirements. I saw way more women listing their own height then what height they wanted in men. I also didn’t any women with ridiculous out of touch standards like 666 listed in their bios, half the women didn’t even have anything written in their bios.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:48 PM
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The foreveralonewomen subreddit was created because enough of the female members felt harassed by the men there and didn’t want to reveal their gender because that. IWH btw was far far less toxic than femcels that called men moids and promoted killing men lol Well unfortunately one of their fellow incel members in Toronto was just sentenced to jail for a van attack, which probably played a role in why they were banned, reddit didn’t want the bad press.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:45 PM
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Since you wont believe the studies( I’m literally quoting the study you just cited to me, word for word. i gave a good reason why yours arent good for this) No you didn’t, you haven’t even looked at the studies yourself to see if they are good or not. How come FA/Incels subbreddits are moreso made of men compared to women? Probably cause the subreddits have a bad habit of harassing their female members. There use to be a femcel subreddit until it was banned by reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:41 PM
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I love how you keep ignoring the data I quoted showing your contradictions. It’s pretty funny that you listed the bbc article as evidence when literally all it cited was the same GSS study. But anyways according to new data you listed: We use data from the Panel Study of Income Dynamics Transition into Adulthood Supplement (PSID-TAS) for the period from 2007 to 2017. We acknowledge several limitations to this measure of casual sexual activity. First, the question asked of the respondents does no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:32 PM
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The General Social Survey, which interviews thousands of people and has been conducted since 1972, revealed that 23% of adults said they hadn’t had sex in the past year - doubling in the past 10 years - and that “a much larger than expected” number of them were men The survey listed in the article is from the GSS (General Social Survey) the same one I quoted from my article: However, two other large surveys, the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFfG), and the National Health and Nutrition Exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:07 PM
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Yep I’m just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:02 PM
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A massive one only observed by one survey... the trend is not observed in other studies, the NHANES shows sexlessness has remained unchanged since 2000 while the NGSF shows it has actually fallen in recent years. You are just picking and choosing which studies you want to believe because of your confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:00 PM
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The vast majority of women in their 20s don’t have children, so why does it matter of 40% of the ones who do have children are out of wedlock if statistically they are still a minority against childless women? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ljzd94/mythbusting_single_mothers/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:57 PM
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Yep checked hundreds of profiles, and couldn’t find this mythical woman with only 666 requirements listed on her bio. I’m starting to think she is somebody you guys made up as an excuse to keep being angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:47 PM
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Not it’s not. My brother literally let me go through his tinder account, not only do half the women not even have anything written in their bio section, I only saw two profiles with height requirements the vast, vast majority had zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 03:53 PM
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In what way is "the link between premarital sex and marital stability" disqualified by the fact that men lie "up" and women lie "down" about number of sexual partners? If the women are lying, we have no idea if all those virgins are actually virgins throwing the whole data off. If you read the study it actually says women with 3-9 partners have a lower chance of divorce then women with only 2 partners. If women are lying down, how do we not know if those women with 3-9 partners don’t actually ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:30 PM
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It’s pretty clear some of you are not even reading the data carefully, as it never said no such thing. You are probably confusing never having since age 18 with being a virgin. Not to mention other studies with larger sample sizes contradict this trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:23 PM
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Can you give me an example of an n-count study's conclusion that should be thrown out on the basis that men lie "up" and women lie "down" about number of sexual partners? https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability When you apply this fact to, say, gauging the male sexlessness epidemic, then it will probably have a profound effect on the data. Oh yes the ‘sexlessness epidemic’ which contradicted by other research: However, two other…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:52 PM
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The problem with this data is that it is self-reported data, and it is not credible at all in gauging people's sex lives accurately because people are not always honest about their sexual history and will increase their numbers or decrease their numbers accordingly. Awesome. While we are at it let’s throw out all those n count studies too since they are also based on self reported data, and therefor like you said, can’t be trusted on that fact alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:02 PM
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The muscular male body has been glorified for centuries (just look at Ancient Greece and Rome for reference) and mostly by other men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 07:40 PM
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I’m the one here actually citing statistics, studies and what the law actually says, you so far have cited nothing to prove there is an epidemic of badly beaten men being sent to prison in domestic violence situations. I deal with facts not narratives. It’s your turn to prove your case. Past studies of the police response to intimate partner violence have, for the most part, been limited by their use of a single department, departments in a single state, and/or the size and composition of their …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 07:13 PM
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Except the Duluth model already has a program designed for women offenders. In Duluth, a separate court-deferral program called Crossroads was designed for women who use illegal violence against the men. Police don’t automatically arrest the man, they arrest whoever they think is the aggressor in the situation based which person is more visibly bruised then the other or who called 911. Alabama law specifically directs the police on how to act in the situation. Title 13A. Criminal Code § 13A-6-13…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 06:09 PM
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The Duluth model is not sending innocent men to prison like you implied, in fact domestic abusers unless they engage in serious offense like stalking, violating a restraining order, aggravated assault are rarely sent to prison. The vast majority are sent to anger management classes or batter intervention classes where the charges are later dropped against them if they successfully complete the program.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 05:34 PM
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I am starting to get the feeling that you don’t understand supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 05:26 PM
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In the United States, domestic abusers are rarely sent to prison. More often, as in Andrew’s case, they are sent to a special class designed to teach them to refrain from physical violence. The methods employed by these groups, known formally as “batterer intervention programs,” or BIPs, vary—there are 2,500 in the United States alone, according to one study— https://www.npr.org/2017/07/15/537381161/more-domestic-violence-shelters-for-men-opening
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 05:25 PM
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How can they be ‘more’ perverted when they are providing a service that evidently millions of men want? Again these women would exist if there wasn’t a strong demand for the services they provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 05:18 PM
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There are many gay men on onlyfans btw. They are consuming the product this perverted product, so what does that make them? These women wouldn’t have a job if someone wasn’t paying them and there wasn’t a demand for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 05:15 PM
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Men have freewill, nobody is putting guns to there heads forcing them to pay for things when there is litany of free porn on the internet, them trying to scapegoat and blame women is pretty pathetic honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:26 PM
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They probably don’t get the same criticism because numbers of men who watch porn, pay for onlyfans, cam girls etc FAR outnumber girls who engage in those things. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:11 PM
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And men are rushing to pay them... There are far more paying customers on onlyfans then content creators, FAR more, yet women are the perverted ones in this arrangement? That’s laughable. Most performers do not make a fortune from OnlyFans. Indeed, the majority of them receive less than $145 per month. However, it must be pointed out that one reason for this inequality is that the majority of OnlyFans accounts have no fans at all. They aren't set up for serious broadcasting. However, by late Aug…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:10 PM
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Millions of women have rushed to only fans to sell there body. You realize the majority of onlyfans accounts are bots or inactive( as in never posted pictures) right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 03:09 PM
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Was it before they realized they were lesbians? Likely yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 12:28 AM
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That was part of a different study, stop playing dumb. Same- and cross-sex friendships of 156 professional men and women were investigated using a self-report questionnaire consisting of rating scales and open-ended questions. While both sexes viewed the characteristics of an ideal friendship in similar ways, their actual experiences of friendships differed. Women's same-sex friendships were rated higher for overall quality, intimacy, enjoyment, and nurturance. Men, in contrast, rated their cros…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 05:37 PM
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In Sapadin’s (1988) study, men rated their friendships with women as being higher in overall quality, enjoyment, and nurturance than their same-sex friendships. What they reported liking most was just talking and relating to women—something they felt they couldn’t do with their male buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:08 PM
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The study you are citing shows close to a third of lesbians cite men as perpetrators which probably plays a role in why their domestic violence stats are higher. . For example, the CDC found that 89.5% of bisexual women reported only male perpetrators of intimate partner physical violence, rape, and/or stalking and that almost a third of lesbian women who have experienced such incidents have had one or more male perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:48 PM
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Interesting study on male-female friendships: Many partnered men claim their wives are their best friends, and there is some evidence that men benefit more from their women friends than from their male friends. Monsour (2002) cites Werking for the claims that most male–female friendships resemble women’s emotionally involving friendships more than they do men’s activity-oriented relationships and that men find more self-affirmation, emotional support, intimacy, and closeness in their friendships…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:31 PM
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That video was hilarious. I mean this guy actually thinks communism started because simps were trying to impress women by doing their bidding. I could already tell from the title alone this guy was an intellectual midwit but this just confirmed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:13 PM
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Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:10 AM
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Really cause the latest cdc stats show men have a higher obesity rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:03 AM
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So what’s considered ‘curvy’ to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:54 AM
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Being curvy and skinny are not mutually exclusive. Just look at playboy models from the 60s and 70s, they were all had great waist to hip ratios, big boobs and a low BMI. Edit: Playboy model Cynthia Myers is good example of what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:09 AM
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It’s very common in the Hispanic community for very attractive women to date average guys, so much so there is even a memes about it and Hispanics are prevalent in those cities same with Asians (in NYC at least).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 12:57 AM
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Not sure wtf your comment has anything to do with this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 11:11 PM
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Are the men not also fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 11:08 PM
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I was just about this ask this question too because according seemedgood every non religious mother has not only seen her son naked post puberty but also knows her sons dick size as well. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/maqw8w/comment/grtywbx
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:15 PM
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This is a baseless assumption , and broad generalization . How can you speak for every man on earth to say their ok with their partners choice on abortion? That’s why thankfully we have studies done by researchers who conduct quantitative or qualitative studies to give us some insight into the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:51 PM
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It’s a very direct way to demonstrate that women aren’t so wonderful as you like to portray yourselves, that you are at least as are capable of objectifying other human beings as men, and at least as violent. Problem is most people don’t view abortion rightfully as equivalent to ‘murder’ so how can they be moral equals? How are fetuses equivalent to human beings now? As I pointed out, the links you posted didn’t actually demonstrate what you claim. You didn’t read them closely I know you think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:41 PM
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yet where is the male body positivity movement? The fat acceptance movement was actually started by several men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:11 PM
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Women in the US kill between 650,000 and 800,000 of their own children every year in the US. I love how you are going to bring up abortion as a counter argument to everything. It’s interesting that you ignored my stats in our last conversation on this showing most men are ok and supportive of their partners getting abortions or even want them to and are relieved when it happens. But somehow you don’t consider them to be ‘killers’ in this arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:59 PM
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You mentioned being Latin. Is it possible either your uncle or aunt were malnourished and didn’t reach their height potential? Both of them grew up in a middle class neighborhood in the United States, as far I know they weren’t malnourished.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:34 PM
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A few people on twitter saying something doesn’t equal new trend. It is fact that men tend be older then their female partners and recent stats back that up. Couples with age gaps between approximately 5-15 years are estimated to make up 8.5% of the American population. An older man with a younger woman is the more common scenario with only 1.3% of couples being composed of an older woman and younger man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:31 PM
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Men tend be older their partners. This is not new and is a thing common in most cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:23 PM
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Hmmm let’s see except for the small Johnson (how would a woman even know that without being intimate with you first?) short and not making a lot money (or at least below average) describes a lot Latino men (I’m Latina) and they seem to do just fine dating wise from what I’ve seen relative to other groups where the men are taller. With this formula, you can determine that a man that is 6’0 tall would have to marry a woman that is no shorter than 5’7 to produce a son that would also be 6’0 tall. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:19 PM
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There are dozen's of posts like that on PPD. Show them then. That I have yet to see. https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/lcvwax/no_valentines_no_gf_no_shit_im_just_lonely/ https://www.reddit.com/r/depression/comments/85iy77/almost_30_alone_no_career_no_friends_no/?utm_source=amp&utm_medium=&utm_content=post_num_comments There is a therapy group dedicated entirely towards helping incels and another one to help them get laid. You even had a nytimes writer Ross Douthat, Professor Jordan Pet…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:17 PM
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Nah they are just projecting because they are pieces of shits. I asked numerous times throughout that thread for somebody to please link me a post of a bunch of women mocking and making fun of a guy who didn’t say one thing bad about women and just expressed he was lonely and had self harm thoughts. Not a single person could link anything. You really have to be a sick person to mock a suicidal person which is what these guys are, the ‘men have it worse!!!’ Excuse isn’t going work, as I can easil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:09 PM
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The fact that men and women tend to be single at very different stages of life reflects both men’s shorter life expectancy and their tendency to marry later in life than women. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:05 PM
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Here is an interesting overview of singles in America by pew research: While about three-in-ten U.S. adults (31%) say they are single – that is, not married, living with a partner or in a committed romantic relationship – that share varies widely across demographic groups. The youngest and oldest Americans are the most likely to be single – 41% of those ages 18 to 29 and 36% of those 65 and older say they are single, compared with 23% of those 30 to 49 and 28% of those 50 to 64. These age differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:58 AM
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That was a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:38 AM
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Not from what’ve seen, it seems filled with young people, a good amount had links to their social media accounts so can’t all be bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:38 AM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:37 AM
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Funny thing is I posted a thread a while back showing the members of this subreddit mocking a woman who said she is lonely because of COVID caused her to lose contact with her friends and made it hard to date. The woman also expressed self harm thoughts. Despite the fact the woman never once said anything negative about men or even bring men up at all in her post, the guys on that lovely subreddit took it upon themselves to mock her and project all their insecurities on her, claiming she probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:32 PM
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There is no height filter on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:28 PM
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At least a third of the girls my brother matched with have links to their Instagram accounts, seem legit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:28 PM
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Tinder is literally the most popular dating app among young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:26 PM
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5’9
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:25 PM
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I used my brothers account, he seems to being just fine in that front.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:13 PM
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So my brother let me look through his tinder profile for a bit, since I was curious to see if this narrative that r/whereareallthegoodmen pushes that all women on dating apps have height requirements or a list of absurd demands in their about me section. At least half of the profiles I looked at didn’t have anything written in their about me section and the ones who did it was usually a benign comment. I only saw a couple of women of the hundreds of profiles I shifted through with height require…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:08 PM
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The question we are interested is "have you had sex within the past year". Not "have you ever had sex?" They also ask those questions, read their questionnaires. But the differences the dude you quoted is reffering to are about the 22-35 age range. The dude I quoted also only uses the GSS data for 22-35 years olds, and there is still a difference. The data sheets are online you can easily look at the data for the age group you want in recent years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 12:49 AM
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with different questions. The questions aren’t different, I just quoted an example of the questions they ask directly on their questionnaires. How are they radically different from the GSS? The only difference I see is the GSS only asks about PIV sex, while others ask about oral and anal along with PIV too. The NHANES and NSFG data the article you are quoting is referring to is about a different age range (22-35 I believe) No the NHANES looks at all age ranges: Only data from participants aged 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 11:16 PM
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These studies show different results because they ask different questions and to a different age range. They aren't conflicting Nope, they both survey young people, I broke down the questions they ask on this in a previous post, they are similar to GSS and they have a larger sample size too. Here is an example of the questions both surveys ask. For NHANES: The sexual behavior questionnaire in 2015-2016 is similar to cycles 2013-2014, 2011-2012 and 2009-2010. However, analysts should be cautious …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 10:39 PM
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It’s definitely true that 99% of the male posters here who claim to be ‘Chad’ are larping imao. I am not going to name names but I remember one poster who claimed he pathetically wasted his time conducting chadfish experiments to expose the ‘truth’ about women (he also said he would send the unsuspecting women to neighbors apartment where they would ring the doorbell frantically waiting for him). Yet in another thread he was saying that high n count chad men like him don’t want high n count wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:58 PM
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Lol 1/3rd of men are sexless in 2021 in the USA. So men ages 18-24 now equal all men? Also there is conflicting data on the supposedly sexlessness epidemic. However, two other large surveys, the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFfG), and the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES), also ask about sexual behavior. Their results do not confirm the trends seen in the GSS. However, they also have slightly different questions and slightly different survey populations, so they may…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:21 PM
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Because the horrible acts take place in safe/private environments. Nope not all, tons are caught on camera and video thanks to CCTV. If there were an equal number of female rapists as male ones we should be catching an equal number on camera in the act of raping their targets like we do men. It’s not just streets that have cameras, it’s restaurants, casinos, hallways to apartments/hotels, schools, trains, grocery stores, gas stations etc. So many places have cameras nowadays. Yet the overwhelmin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:00 PM
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They don’t rely on self reported, the gender ratio statistics are pulled from a third party source that directly examines the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:07 AM
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Still haven’t answered why don’t we catch all these rapes on CCTV like this, this, this, this, this or this. Surely if there is an equal number of female rapists we would be catching a lot on camera too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:06 AM
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Are all the online dating statistics about the gender ratio also dubious too?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:20 PM
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I stopped reading after I saw the ten point preface to his actual post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:52 PM
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If men are seeking younger at 45 and women older then the numbers game still favors older men in that there are less men 55+ Not on OLD sites. This assumes 55+ men even want the 45 woman. Let's be honest. Most people pair up with people closer to their age, and younger women don’t want them. Let’s be honest. If an older man is going to date a younger woman and has resources/ inclination to do so then he is aiming lower than 45. Probably early 30s. And unfortunately he won’t get them unless he is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:24 PM
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Tinder I would argue that neither is looking for a relationship. Even on serious dating apps like Bumble men out number women, they outnumber women heavily overall in the online dating market, hence why studies show men make up 70-90% of the online dating market in most western countries: A recent study by Mobile Journey Marketing cloud provider Ogury reveals a massive gender imbalance amongst dating app users in various countries. This imbalance was greatest in Italy – where 91% of dating app u…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:12 PM
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Reality check: Men are far more likely than women to be on the dating market: 61% of single men say they are currently looking for a relationship or dates, compared with 38% of single women. The gender differences are heavily concentrated among older singles. While men and women younger than 40 are roughly equally likely to not be looking for a relationship or dates (33% and 39%, respectively), men and women 40 and older are very different. A majority of older women (71%) say they aren’t looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:48 PM
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I think this is just a revenge fantasy that will come to nothing. It’s not like it’s hard already to get sex worker for the average man, according to guys I’ve talked to they are everywhere on dating apps and social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:44 PM
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Yet tons of rapes are being caught on CCTV just like a lot of murders and burglary’s. So why don’t we see a lot of CCTV cams catching women raping men? Shouldn’t it be equal if there is an equal number of rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:57 PM
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And again, I am not talking rape or harassment. Those are separate charges. Rape and harassment of a spouse are included in domestic violence statistics, what about this don’t you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:55 PM
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I’ve asked repeatedly why these underreported rapes are not getting caught by CCTV, many rapists are caught on camera doing the act, why isn’t their epidemic of women getting caught raping men on CCTV cams if it’s truly my underreported? Why are most of the people caught raping someone in camera men? You still haven’t answered this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:24 PM
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Big boobs are not rare among white or Asian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:18 PM
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Countries that have legal prostitution still don’t have this dynamic, do you guys like live in the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:11 PM
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No the discussion was on domestic violence, you said domestic violence not physical violence: Idk it’s pretty common for women to throw shit at someone lol Anyway, I wonder what the narrative will be like if/when women are officially a majority of the DV perps. Will be interesting to see how different people spin it. You are trying to change the goal post my only focusing on one part of domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:06 PM
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Tons of rapists are getting caught thanks to CCTV, just read my links. I also see you completely ignored my statistics since they contradict your assertions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:03 PM
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Again, we are talking about physical violence, not stalking or sex crimes. Those are included in domestic violence stats. Have you not heard of martial rape? Have you not heard of stalking laws or restraining orders?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:30 PM
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Funny how all those SEVERELY underreported rapes aren’t being caught on camera by CCTV hmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:28 PM
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I thought you read my study which countered this by pointing the flaws in those studies, I mean it was the same study you quoted back to me, so I would think you have read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:08 PM
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Funny how all this severely underreported female rape is not getting caught on CCTV like male rape is. You would think in the age CCTV we would catching all these underreported rapes on camera like like this, this, this, this, this or this. and no, therr are many more femsle rapists and pedophiles in schools than there are males. Nope. Most people caught having sex with their students are actually male the ones involving female just get more media attention: Another offender characteristic that …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:59 PM
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Yeah, that's not as insightful as you think it is. Of course a man's punch is more likely to be prosecuted relative to a woman's slap or punch. Of course women's DV is less likely to result in an arrest and charge. You realize domestic violence is more then just assaults but includes stalking and violating a restraining order, and sexual abuse? Women don’t have to be stronger to commit those, yet men are still the ones who overwhelmingly charged with those crimes against their spouses which is i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:53 PM
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The majority caught having sex with their students are men, this is fact. The majority of people caught committing serious sex crimes against students which include rape are men, this is fact. The majority people congratulating a boy for having sex with his teacher are men, just look at any news story comment section, you are being super dishonest to deny this. These are all the teachers caught having sex with their students in one gender, tell me which gender are they mainly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:46 PM
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You still haven’t answered my question, why aren’t these pedophiles if they are in equal numbers being caught on camera like men are? Why do the majority of people arrested for sex crimes against students are male teachers despite being a minority of teachers overall? Could it be underreported img or perhaps more men are pedophiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:34 PM
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“Serious” lol if you stay on topic without moving the goalposts, I am talking all DV, not just “serious domestic violence.” Did you completely miss this part: behavior that is likely to violate most state and federal criminal and civil (protective order) statutes is typically perpetrated by males. They are talking about domestic violence that gets you arrested and charged, the overwhelming majority of people arrested and convinced for that are men. Most jurisdictions don’t charge people for dome…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:31 PM
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There is a study that confirms couples tend to have matching sexual experience. It called assortative mating, we end up with people most similar to us, that includes sociosexuality which correlated with promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:18 PM
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You still haven’t linked a single article, quite, text etc to support your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:31 AM
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80% of individuals arrested for serious domestic violence which includes bodily harm are men, I think women have long way to go before they make the majority of arrests: Although some sociological research [202] based on self-reporting finds equal rates of male and female partner conflict (including mostly minor physical assaults), behavior that is likely to violate most state and federal criminal and civil (protective order) statutes is typically perpetrated by males. [153] Perpetrators that co…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:13 AM
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Here is another study on this topic: Research that shows approximately equal rates of dating and domestic violence by men and women has been used to challenge the priority given to services for abused women. This article reviews the scientific evidence for gender equality in rates of lethal and nonlethal intimate partner violence. Among the problems noted in studies showing gender equality are the ways in which questions about violence are framed, exclusion of items about sexual abuse and stalki…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:51 AM
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You're either totally disingenuous or stupid. Since I'm a wonderful guy I'm going to consider that you're voluntary disingenuous here. I gave you some analogies with bosses and whores. I already explained to you about men being the ones building civilization and having to mind the gender who makes humanity possible aka women. If you want to play the dumb bitch just tell me now and we stop wasting both of our time on that point. The only reason men were the builders of civilization is because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:45 AM
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Yawn, still nothing I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:27 AM
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We live in an age CCTV, many crimes no longer happen behind close doors, but out in the open. That includes rape. Interestingly since you think women commit rape at an equal rate as men why isn’t men are so much more likely to get caught in public committing rape like this, this, this, this, this or this Why do you think are so much more likely to attempt to rape their victims in public if men and women commit rape at equal measures. It’s pretty telling that men make a small minority of teachers…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:25 AM
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I can’t find the study right now but I remember reading a study which showed women viewed statuary rape committed by men and women as equally bad while men didn’t. Men are mostly the ones making comments congratulating the victim and making light of it. Please don’t be disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:18 AM
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This whole fat acceptance/ body positive movement is BS excuse for women to be FAT and LAZY. Pushed by the media and corporation who benefit off of it like Mcdonalds and health care companies Funny thing is the fat acceptance movement was started by men: https://www.heyalma.com/the-forgotten-history-of-the-jewish-man-who-started-the-body-positivity-movement/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:56 AM
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Nah most teacher pedophiles are men, ones involving women just get more media attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:48 AM
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The majority of people arrested for sex with kids are men, ones that involve women just get more media attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:48 AM
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It’s mostly men who do that not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:42 AM
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Minding someone doesn't mean caring about them. Bosses mind their workers, doesn't mean they care about them. Prostitutes mind their John doesn't mean they care about them. Do I need to explain it more to you or you finally get it? You still haven’t explained how men mind women more then reverse. How do women not mind men by your definition? By in large women leave men who they aren’t related, don’t know or aren’t in a relationship alone and treat them with polite indifference. Also why did you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:35 AM
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Nope, as this: So those studies showing most men are relieved after their partners get an abortion are just bullshit, they only agree to it because the women forced them to? Nope. Where is your evidence? Where are these mass amount of men begging their partners to not get an abortion or super distraught when they do? Where are they? Also not true. If you kill someone who is actively threatening your life, you did not commit murder. Instead you committed a legal justified murder, or manslaughter,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:12 AM
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Women are human beings and men are human doings. Without women, there is no humanity and without men, there is no civilization. Building civilization and sustaining it is a pretty hard job and requires accounting for all parameters, men have been the ones who built civilization they have to always mind the gender that makes humanity possible, in the first place. You probably heard that men need women more than the reverse. There is a lot of truth about that. There is the obvious male thirst (wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:58 PM
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That’s not the same as having made the decision together (your assertion). So consulting them and them being supportive is not making a decision together? Typically in the US, the men involved are just acceding to whatever the woman wants (as we have been trained to do), and often they are somewhat distraught that her decision is to kill the child. Ah yes I am suppose to believe the same men who are constantly crying about getting trapped by women via pregnancy, complaining about child support a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:50 PM
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Sorry but I don’t view abortion as murder we are going to have to agree to disagree here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:33 PM
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Nope, it’s mostly women. Studies contradict that fact but ok! My numbers were for the US, not global. India and China are where most abortions in the world happen. 9 million abortions of mostly female fetuses happen in China every year, and an estimated 15 million abortions in India happen again of mostly female fetuses happen every year. There is up to 10-16 times more abortions every year in India and China despite their populations only being 3-5 times bigger then ours. I would think somebody…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:25 PM
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So you are not going to respond to a single thing I wrote, I figured.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:10 PM
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I try to explain that men always mind women more than the reverse. Ok give me example of how men ‘mind’ women more then the reverse. And as I already said, men are the ones building civilization and sustaining it. And women benefit from it and try to contribute to it too. So Enlightenment, etc... They are also the ones destroying it through genocide, war, rape etc. And I don't consider that men are better than women. I consider that both genders are shitty but women get a free pass in our era be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:05 PM
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I’m not sure what the point of your comment is. I don’t believe abortion is murder, but was pointing out that if the posters believes abortion is murder and should be treated as murder then those who sanction it (in this case the boyfriend) and those commit the actual murder(the doctors) should be and would be treated liable for murder under US law. For example, if you knew about a murder that was taking place or even planned for a murder, under US law you would be treated criminally liable for …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:52 PM
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The decision to get an abortion is usually decided by the couple not one party only. You think it’s only women in India and China who are deciding to mass abort their female children in large numbers and their husbands have no say in that regard? largely women who are arguing for their right to do so (and dehumanizing their own children in the process of making that argument). There is little to no difference for support of abortion rights by gender. It was an all male Supreme Court who decided …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:42 PM
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If anything, “women are wonderful” is a modern reaction to “women are terrible” in an attempt to do away with these harmful attitudes. Yep, that is my theory as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:13 PM
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About our conversation back then, I stand by what I said, however. Male thirst is one linked to female attraction and one of the reasons men treat women well. The simple fact men have more testosterone than women explains why men want sex more than women. Once again, biology is a thing Being sexually attracted to someone does not automatically mean you treat them well. The fact of the matter is men being sexually attracted to women did not by virtue create a society that was fair and kind to wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:04 PM
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You know I can trivially disprove that statement right? Do I really need to re-quote myself from literally 3 posts ago? You know where I covered not only Aristotle but Macaria and Xenophon, along with other things you said? I redressed your points which you have conveniently ignored. Still waiting on the evidence to back of your claims. Tick tock.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:44 PM
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Don’t men complain about women not messaging them? How is women taking the initiative to message men a bad thing? This is just more of you picking a choosing which parts of the OkCupid study you agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:37 PM
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Messaging at least starts an interaction which increases the likelihood of meeting much better then never messaging. No shit not every message is going to end in a date or sex, but increases your chances of that happening more then if they never message you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:18 PM
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So you believe that male thirst is a social construct? Like you never heard about testosterone? You think Ancient Greece were more homosexual than heterosexual? Like seriously? Ahh I remember you now, you are the guy who thinks men be attracted to women means they are thirsty for them. I remember this funny conversation we got into about that where numerous posters tried to point out how irrational your thoughts were but you seemed stubborn as hell about them. Fact is men being sexually attracte…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:16 PM
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well sounds like you don't have kids. I have nieces and nephews who I take out time to time. Fact is every time I’ve been to the park all the mothers gush positively at the lone man playing with his kids at the park, this behavior is encouraged not scorned. Women are terrible effect is just you rephrasing the Halo Effect. Also you never answered my questions to your previous comment to me. Wow you are really pressed I didn’t take the time out of my busy day to address your points like I don’t ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:59 PM
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So the doctors who actually perform the abortion and the boyfriends/husbands of the women who want the abortion are not complicit in murder in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:45 PM
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I addressed exactly what you wrote. You can quote Aristotle all you want, it doesn't change what I've been saying SINCE THE FIRST RESPONSE. That’s how I know you didn’t read a single thing I wrote otherwise you would know I didn’t just quote Aristotle. But what happened, I thought you wanted direct quotes from Aristotle himself since you dismisses the other stuff I quoted as ‘feminist revisionism.’ The fact that you refuse to read what I wrote and actually respond to it is rather ironic, given y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:43 PM
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And male thirst and male natural engineering existed even in Ancient Greece. Nah, Ancient Greek society viewed relationships between men as more preferable then those with women. The killing of female infants was very common as well. Women were only valued for their utility which was the ability to bare children, male children especially. Women who couldn’t get pregnant were killed. Fact is women already have and still do live in societies where they are not valued, yet they survived.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:38 PM
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You can see proof of this when watching fathers interact with their children in public spaces. you can see the women watching them like a hawk. Maybe you just live somewhere with a bunch of weirdos because nobody where I live is watching a father interacting with his children like a ‘hawk.’ Nothing you wrote also addresses the historical documented phenomenon of women are terrible effect is probably based on your own bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:30 PM
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I fail to see what you're trying to say here. Are you agreeing with me or not? It’s pretty much already show that women have lived and still this day live in societies where they were not put on pedestal because of thirsty men and yet somehow they survived.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:25 PM
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ie shut up, obey the rich people and pay your taxes. The bible and christian dogma was and is used as a tool to opress eveyone not just women. I’m not sure what’s your point? Did I claim only women faced oppression? I said that there was a belief that women were of lesser moral character then men ala the women are terrible effect throughout history, which is a flip side of the women are wonderful effect some men on here complain about. Christianity just used whatever they could get their hands o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:20 PM
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So you haven’t addressed a single thing I wrote and have provided very little evidence to back up your claims despite the fact that I took the time to quote and link a how bunch of historical texts/quotes for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:03 PM
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Christianity literally has the story of Eve which used as justification throughout history of never listening to women because they tempt men with sin. What point are you trying to make by quoting misogyny from over a millennia ago? Men got treated like shit in the past as well. Only rich people lived good lives. The entire point of my post was demonstrating the women are terrible effect and how prevalent it’s been throughout history. The second guy I quoted was a powerful Catholic clergyman fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:59 PM
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Woke narrative and overall modern progressive/liberal narrative isn't just about fighting against oppression. What we call the Victimhood Olympics is simply a dichotomy about good vs evil. The oppressors vs the oppressed. Ones are perpetual victims and the others are perpetual sinners who have to be taught how to be good by their victims....aka the people they oppress... Ok? And that’s wrong, you can acknowledge a group has been oppressed while also recognizing they are human beings with capabil…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:46 PM
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Have you read the book ‘Misogyny the Worlds Oldest Prejudice’? It will give you a good background on how widespread misogyny was in Western culture. If I spent all day quoting every misogynistic thought throughout history I would probably be here forever. Christianity itself at least in the Western world was highly influenced by Ancient Rome and Greece, which is why monks would spend hours a day preserving their work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:23 PM
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How is that nitpicking when it’s a huge part of the study? The women reached out and messaged the men they viewed as below average and rarely messaged attractive men. The opposite was true for men, these are documented facts on this stupid study you guys cling to and like to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:56 PM
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Nothing you said makes any sense. How is acknowledging certain groups have faced historical oppression putting them on a pedestal and discounting movements to correct those historical wrongs? As a minority I readily accept not all POC are angels just because they had less legal rights compared to white people in the past, that still doesn’t discount the fact we as a group have faced oppression. Viewing women as people actually means accepting many Red Pill concepts as true too and many unfavorab…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:35 PM
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He’s talking about abortion rather then infanticide. Parents killing their children in general isn’t common.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:27 PM
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Then we get some excerpts by feminists about Aristotle. Notice how, instead of actually quoting him, you're quoting a feminists interpretation of what he said. So I guess we're just supposed to assume a feminist scholar is unbiased?? Ok so you want direct quotes from Aristotle the man himself, well then here you go: "Wherefore women are more compassionate and more readily made to weep, more jealous and querulous, fonder of railing, and more contentious. The female also is more subject to depress…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:16 PM
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Except it wasn’t just Aristotle. Did you miss the entire quote section I had on Henrich Kramer, a powerful catholic clergymen who quoted a bunch ancient philosophers and medieval scholars to support his thesis that women were more prone to sin and evil? Ancient Greek philosophers like Aristotle are literally considered the fathers of Western civilizations and their ideas have been quoted and read about throughout the millennium, they aren’t just nobodies who didn’t leave a mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:12 PM
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Ancient Greek society was super misogynistic without the presence of Abrahamic religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:08 PM
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In what ways did I cherrypick?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:04 PM
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Quotes from people who had a massive influence on Western society? Yeah totally unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:57 PM
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Claiming women are inferior to men, less noble then men, giving women less rights then men and claiming women are more prone to sin then men is equality? News to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:54 PM
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No there’s absolutely not a “women are terrible effect” in 2021 I’m obviously talking about the past where women are evil effect definitely existed and the lingering effect still exists in many societies including Western. Interestingly, I remember seeing a study which actually showed sex crimes and murders committed by women were overrepresented in the mainstream media coverage compared to actual statistics on arrests. You would think it would be the opposite in a society that has a vested inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:49 PM
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Honestly it’s my theory that a lot of women are wonderful effect was in response to the centuries of women are evil effect. When you go in one extreme don’t be surprised if there is a backlash. Unfortunately, women have never been portrayed as human throughout history the same way men are they are either unfairly demonized or in some men’s viewed put on a pedestal. Why that is should be question we should be examining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:35 PM
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That’s the problem you will never get a whole group of people unanimously agree on what a persons rating should be, that’s why the ten point scale was always meant to be subjective not used as an objective measure of attractiveness. This looksmatch theory is stupid, if I connect with someone on individual level, I want to date them I don’t care if they are below me or above me attractiveness. If we are sexually attracted to each other and like each other who is some nerd to come in and say we ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:06 PM
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Interesting perspective but you didn’t really answer why men have also unfairly demonized women throughout history. As the quotes above in my op demonstrate the WAW effect did not always exist but an opposite version that is still felt today in many societies including Western and has been to used to strip women of their rights and freedoms. Why do believe the flip side of WAW, women are terrible or evil effect has also existed and longer based on Western texts throughout millennium?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:01 PM
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There are objective levels of attractiveness. There really isn’t. What is a 5 someone may be an 8 to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:50 PM
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equal attractiveness of you How exactly do you determine that? How do you determine if someone is a 5 or an 8 ‘objectively’?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:36 PM
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They’re people. So why do you think society are most importantly men in general have a hard time viewing women collectively as individuals that can be good or bad? Why isn’t it throughout history women have either been unfairly put on a pedestal in your view or demonized?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:29 PM
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There is no "women are terrible" effect. You sure about that? That doesn't mean there has never been a critical word spoken of women in society. And you need to actually demonstrate there is a bias against women in a negative way rather than quote some random article by Aristotle It’s obvious you didn’t bother read my entire post otherwise you would know I didn’t just quote Aristotle but other important figures who wrote similarly misogynistic things. These views weren’t just fringe but used as …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:15 PM
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Exactly. This ‘looksmatch’ theory is complete nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:05 AM
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Debunked by who? You got a study on this particular topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:48 AM
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I mean we also have stories of men literally murdering people for asking them to wear a mask. I guess they represent all men too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 10:18 PM
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The numbers for women were 20% and there have been other large studies that counter this sexlessness epidemic narrative: However, two other large surveys, the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFfG), and the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES), also ask about sexual behavior. Their results do not confirm the trends seen in the GSS. However, they also have slightly different questions and slightly different survey populations, so they may not be directly comparable.The NSFG…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:25 PM
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Every post and comment I see by you is whining about how only fat women like you and I definitely remember you making a comment about wanting to kill a bunch fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 06:46 PM
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COVID. They are trying to make prisons less overcrowded.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 06:42 PM
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This monster was just released in my parents old hometown and everyone I know is freaking out about it. Please stay safe out there folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 06:26 PM
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Aren’t you the mentally unstable British guy who said he wants to mass murder fatties because they are only ones messaging you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:22 PM
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Redpillers aren’t ‘chads’ lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:43 PM
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Thanks for reaffirming why I feel so sorry for your wife. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:14 PM
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I’m sure she is, which is why she doesn’t deserved to be married to someone who bad mouths her every chance he gets on the internet because the hot women he wanted rightfully ignored him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:09 PM
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God I feel so sorry for your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:59 PM
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Some how you don’t see entire subreddits created by women dedicated to figuring out or obsessing over who chad is having sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 10:56 AM
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From the original okcupid study: One interesting thing seems to be going on here: when the best-looking men write the worst-looking women, their message success rate takes a big hit. The knee-jerk response would be to somehow chalk it up to hunky spammers, but we very carefully control for that in these articles, and in any event why would better-looking girls be drastically more susceptible to it? It seems to be some kind of self-confidence thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:20 AM
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So were the men whose majority of messages went to the most attractive women also only bots too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:41 AM
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how many of those women messaging unattractive men were actually bots"? So this part of study is suspicious because they might be bots but the other parts of the study are totally fine and completely true, right? If you want to find out how many couples were formed ask Okcupid but given their user privacy rules I’ll doubt they’ll tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:27 AM
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Moving the goalposts I see. You used the Okcupid study as an example of 80/20 rule, now that the messaging distribution contradicts your theory you are moving the goal post by coming up with some hypothetical that all those women were ‘preying’ on the less attractive men by messaging them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:06 AM
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The same okcupid study which showed women messaged the men they rated below average anyways, while most male messaged went to the most attractive women? Behold indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:33 AM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/male-sexlessness-is-rising-but-not-for-the-reasons-incels-claim https://www.tremr.com/Duck-Rabbit/the-pareto-principle-and-sex-20-percent-of It’s pretty funny, because guys like to use studies like this to prove their is an 80/20 rule completely ignoring the data for women which also shows the same Pareto principle; a small percentage of women like men have most of the sex/sexual partners. So either the 80/20 rule applies to both genders or it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:58 AM
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It’s not just Chads that have their own soft harems, Stacie’s have their own soft harems of men too: It turns out, the answer is no. And of course, it isn’t! Imagine how much sex those 20% of men would have to be having! A substantial share would need to be doing two-a-days on a regular basis to maintain that kind of share. In reality, according to the GSS, the top 20% of the most sexually active never-married young men have about 50-60% of the sex. It’s about the same for women, and these share…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:37 AM
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The average couple will spend 3-5 years together before marrying and the average women gets married between the ages 27-28. Most women are not waiting until 30 to find the nearest virgin to sucker down the aisle. Couples are spending longer time dating and living together before tying the knot, the days of shotgun weddings or marrying after knowing each other for less than a year are over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 12:18 AM
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The post was linked by the original author who quoted it in article, it has since been deleted but it’s one of many examples of the dud chad fish experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:15 AM
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The post is one of the links the author uses to get a direct quote from.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:22 AM
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Lol, yeah I am sure all the quotes are part of some disinformation campaign. https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPillScience/comments/bhhgu8/chadfish_screenshots_are_misleading/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 03:46 AM
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He is taking direct quotes from guys who have done the experiment. Honestly it’s kinda embarrassing anyone would waste their time doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 03:38 AM
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The reality of the chad fish experiment: Moreover, a Tinder match or conversation hardly measures up to the fantasy of a Chad’s rampant sexual conquests, or even a normal date, as a few incels have complained. “I give them a random address or a time and place for a date and they don’t follow through,” one redditor said of the women he messages as a phony Chad. “If its my place i give them the address to random apartment complex and they stop replying now that it becomes serious. With a date i gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 02:20 AM
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The user that made that comment claims to be married btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 11:27 PM
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Has this whole chad obsession confirmed that men, just like women, can get unreasonably jealous and hateful towards attractive members of their gender? For example, a poster here advocated murdering chads and attractive men. As bad as rep women get on being jealous of prettier women don’t think I’ve ever seen a comment where one advocated they starting murdering them even in a joking manner. Other examples include the constant whining about the ‘halo effect’ that attractive men have, and how unf…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 01:21 AM
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It’s amazing how you equate being good = rich and powerful. Believe or not you can be a decent person with out being rich or powerful and find decent people to surround yourself with who aren’t rich and powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 05:13 PM
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There are still plenty of manosphere related subs like r/wherealltgegoodmen, r/pussypassdenied, r/MGTOW2 etc, where you can whine and hate on women all you like. Reddit only bans subs that give them bad press. The subreddit MGTOW, for example, was only quarantined after one of its members was arrested for trying to commit a terrorist attack. The original incel subreddit was banned because they were advocating rape of women, and now that we have several cases of incels committing terrorists attac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 04:42 PM
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A person doesn't choose who they surround themselves with. Uhh they absolutely do. Unless someone is putting a gun to your head nobody is forcing is associate anybody you don’t like. You hang out with them because you can relate to their shittyness on a personal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 04:33 PM
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Sounds you are just friends with a bunch of shitty people. People often say who we chose to surround ourselves with is a reflection of our own character...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 04:10 PM
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Well black men by far are the most likely to be murdered in the US, so why not focus on them more?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 06:57 AM
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You still have not answered my question and continue to ignore it in favor of arguing about other stuff, so I will ask it again. In reality, according to the GSS, the top 20% of the most sexually active never-married young men have about 50-60% of the sex. It’s about the same for women, and these shares are basically stable over time. Explain why you agree with the GSS on growing male sexlessness but not on this? That only makes it worse, it means that the sexlessness is even higher since the me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 06:46 AM
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I'm reading this thing on male sexlessness (again, I've already read this dumb thing a long time ago) and it's clearly saying the data includes Johns, which means it likely includes prostitutes too. Nope prostitutes are excluded because they are not considered representative of the general population, I already linked you an article which explains this but you ignored it. The number of women who have done sex work is too small to justify including them in the survey which is why most studies don…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 04:17 AM
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Don’t have a gf, nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:44 AM
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The author said: "However, they also have slightly different questions and slightly different survey populations, so they may not be directly comparable" Here is an example of the questions both surveys ask. For NHANES: The sexual behavior questionnaire in 2015-2016 is similar to cycles 2013-2014, 2011-2012 and 2009-2010. However, analysts should be cautious when combining data with cycles prior to the NHANES 2009-2010 SXQ data, since some questions have been removed or added, and some questions…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:43 AM
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Do you agree or disagree that a small percentage of women have most of the sex just like men? A yes or no answer will suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:54 AM
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I haven't read much of this shit in years so I'm not exactly familiar with every single nougat of data regarding sex statistics. Your own post on the thread goes on and on about how male sexlessness is rising, regardless of whether the rates of virginity are comparable, the rates of sexlessness isn't. It's a problem with men and not with women, that's according to your own link. He focuses on men because that’s what the incels focus on, he’s trying to see if their narrative is true or not based …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:49 AM
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The slope is probably so brutal because the site automatically matched you someone if you rated them too highly, which probably influenced some women to rate more harshly. Regardless they still contacted those men much more then the ones they rated highly opposite was true for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:02 AM
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Biggest issue I can see with these studies is they don't seem to filter out sex workers and Johns. Sex workers are usually excluded from studies like this as they are considered a non representative population sample. https://abcnews.go.com/amp/Health/story%3fid=117906&page=1 If they're including prostitutes then obvious that's going to skew things in favour of a small percentage of women gobbling up all the sex, and it artificially inflates certain men's scores, making them look like players wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:57 PM
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I didn’t see your answer, thanks for answering but your answer still doesn’t answer my question but brings up something completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:37 PM
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Regardless of who think those 20% of women are the outcome is the same, a small percentage of women have most of the sex just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:36 PM
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The 80/20 interpretation on PPD was that women only find 20% of men attractive (Which is optimistic). Or that 80% of women go for top 20% of men. Isn’t this based on the the Okcupid study which showed women messaged the men they rated below average anyways? I am not sure how that proves 80/20 rule either. Not that 20% of men have sex with 80% of women (I don't know what possible study gave rise to that claim, or where that claim even comes from). But its a very different claim. I see versions of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:35 PM
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The % of men who haven't had sex in the last year is greater than the % of women and the trend is also increasing faster for men than women. Actually if you read one of the websites I linked there is conflicting data on this suppose ‘sexlessness epidemic’ men are experiencing: However, two other large surveys, the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFfG), and the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES), also ask about sexual behavior. Their results do not confirm the trends see…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:31 PM
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Ok so you don’t deny only a small percentage of women have most of the sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:17 PM
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You never explained if you believed it was applicable just changed the goal post by claiming it was different because for women it was voluntarily while for men it was not, which was not what I was asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:16 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/m2e1ts/does_the_8020_rule_apply_to_women_too/ So in my recent thread nobody was able to give me a straight answer if the Pareto Principle or 80/20 rule also applies to women since based on the numbers we have, the top 20% of women have most of the heterosexual sexual encounters like men too, instead there was a lot deflecting to other issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:41 PM
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If chads are regularly having sex with 3-5 women why does there appear to be a 80/20 rule with women, based on the data we have the top 20% of women have the majority of sexual encounters just like the top 20% of men. I just had a thread on this and nobody was able to answer this question with deflecting to other issues. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/m2e1ts/does_the_8020_rule_apply_to_women_too/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:36 PM
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If there is an 80/20 rule for men can you explain why studies on why there appears to be one for women too? I just had a thread on this and nobody was able answer, but the analysis shows the top 20% of women have the majority sexual encounters just like the top 20% of men. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/m2e1ts/does_the_8020_rule_apply_to_women_too/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:34 PM
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If every self reported study on n counts can’t be trusted because you guys think women always lie, then we might as well throw out every study on them including those studies on the correlation between n count and divorce that you guys love since the data can’t be trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:10 AM
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Ok so you don’t disagree with the statistics showing a minority of women having most of the sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:53 AM
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So cherrypicked statistics.. It’s the only major statistic of the three showing a growing male sexlessness epidemic that guys in here like to cite all the time, so what’s the problem? Oddly Onlyfans, has proved that the top 20%, get much less attention and money, than the middle 80%... How has onlyfans proven that? Onlyfans like any other media site has a minority that is making bank while everyone else is getting scraps: The revenue of content creators follows a classic power law distribution. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:50 AM
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However, two other large surveys, the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFfG), and the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES), also ask about sexual behavior. Their results do not confirm the trends seen in the GSS. However, they also have slightly different questions and slightly different survey populations, so they may not be directly comparable.The NSFG, for example, shows a far higher rate of sexlessness to begin with. The graph above shows that while there’s some reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:31 AM
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One that relies on 3 studies that seem to contradict each other? How do these three studies contradict each other? Why wouldn't it? The prevailing narrative around here is it doesn’t nor is it brought as much compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:17 AM
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Do you mind posting it? I can’t find any recent studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:15 AM
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men wouldn't isolate themselves to only dating hot women. Same with women. Ever taken a look outside and seen the couples holding hands with each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:13 AM
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No. So why do multiple studies show a small % of women have most of the sex like it is the case for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:51 AM
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Ok, but I am not talking about ‘options’ but if the same Pareto Principle that applies to men and sex exist for women. Based on the statistics we have, it appears it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:36 AM
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Didn’t the same okcupid study show those same women messaged the men they rated below average anyways? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/koag0c/men_love_talking_about_the_okcupid_study_except/ Keep in mind, the same site would automatically match you with someone if you rated them highly, which probably influenced some women to rate more harshly then they would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:30 AM
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I am not sure how that disproves the statistics showing a small percentage of women have most of the sex like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:28 AM
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Women tend to have more varied taste on what they find attractive too. There is this study I think you’ll find interesting, it asked men and women to rate photos of members of opposite sex on their attractiveness. The women that men rated highly all shared similar characteristics while among women, the men they rated highly were more varied: Hot or not? Men agree on the answer. Women don't. There is much more consensus among men about whom they find attractive than there is among women, accordin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:24 AM
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Then why has the gender ratio gotten more skewed in recent years?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 11:12 PM
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It’s pretty much a well known joke and meme in the bi community about finding women more attractive then men. I didn’t know you were this passionate about this topic that want to see hard ‘statistical evidence’ on it. Btw I told you to get over the fact that most bisexuals in this thread prefer women. You’ve been throwing temper tantrums left and right because people don’t agree with your personal taste. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:28 PM
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Well can you provide evidence to show such since you've been claiming it left and right? Umm this thread? So far every answer from a bisexual person has said they find women more attractive on average, that includes bisexual men. This sentiment is not even new, there are tons of memes from bisexual oriented spaces that basically echoed this sentiment. Also I don't care who bisexuals sleep with I'm just presenting alternative facts to the "Women are so much more better looking/attractive/beautifu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:31 PM
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Nah, studies actually show more human beings are attracted to men than women lol. I am not sure how that is relevant to answers from people who identify as bisexual on what gender they find attractive. Sexual orientation is genetic not cultural, people are gay because they are born that way not because they just decide one day they want to switch teams all of sudden. Btw multiple surveys also find that the number of women identifying as bisexual has grown exponentially then the number of bisexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:52 PM
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I’m pretty sure you are not even bisexual, why the fuck do you as a heterosexual men get to decide which gender is more attractive or not when you are not even attracted to both. Stop getting butt hurt because bisexuals( of both genders based on the responses to this thread so far) find women more attractive on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:26 PM
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It’s amazing how many of you take a study by a sugar baby company at complete face value when companies similar to it like Ashley Madison have been caught inflating their female membership numbers in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:47 PM
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This is a good point, thanks for the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:22 PM
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If you read the study, the researchers did 7 experiments in total.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:56 PM
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So why do you think men don’t have this guilt?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:55 PM
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So do men regularly have attractive women approach them and then flirt with them with nothing come out of it, which is how they know nothing will come out of it?Because if an attractive member of the opposite sex approached you and flirted with you, it would not be unreasonable to assume they are interested in you and this interaction could lead to more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:13 PM
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They do. You may not like them but they are options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:10 PM
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Most men do have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:05 PM
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I am not sure what you mean by lack of focus, I literally just quoted the synopsis and commented on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:00 PM
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What I interpret this particular one is as women actually being tempted by the attractive guy and feeling significantly guilty inside enough to lie to that particular question. Why do you think men are less likely to have this guilt?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:56 PM
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So you agree with researchers that men don’t view attractive women flirting with them as a threat to their relationship? Why do you think these interactions make them more critical of their spouses though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:30 PM
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I assume the title of your OP is the point of your post Is that unreasonable? If you only read the title, sure that’s not unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:22 PM
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That still doesn’t answer how this particular study is flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:17 PM
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I am not sure what you mean by only focusing on women when my posts clearly highlighted the results for men too. The link to the full study is at the bottom of the post, I mentioned at the beginning of the post this was an synopsis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:14 PM
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What’s flawed about the study in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:07 PM
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It's a most likely backlash to feminism wishing death on all men, drinking 'male tears' mugs, laughing about violence towards men, etc. Its horrible and stupid and self defeating imo. I guess that’s backlash from the years of chauvinism by men where they wrote women were inferior didn’t deserve rights? Or are we going to pretend that future memes like the ‘bible of misogyny’ or ‘she belongs to the streets’ don’t exist which has to videos of girls being thrown in water by boys? Really?/ I have. D…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 05:27 PM
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Don't really feel like combing through fds posts for this, but they assume all men are dirty rapists with porn addictions and ED(oh the contradiction) who will make women stay in the kitchen barefoot, pregnant and expecting an engagement that will never happen, all the time to justify their views. So you still got nothing. Got it. Because it's not real, she just wants attention. Cutters don't go around telling everyone about it for pity points. What a gross statement to make especially since the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:01 PM
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"I have no sympathy for an average woman that ends up single and alone." That is still a gross statement to make and implies to me he is unsympathetic to these men mocking this women. Imagine if a post showed a group of people mocking someone who expresses pain at getting something stolen from them and then as a reply someone said I am unsympathetic to the average victim of robbery but I don’t support calling them names. How would not see that as them trying to excuse the behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 10:56 PM
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Here you have a woman who, after her father divorced and lost a significant part of what would be her inheritance chasing mail order brides, being happy because that's what he deserves for chasing women younger than him(A.k.a. Chad). How's that not toxic? Talk about cutting off the nose to spite the face. Here you also have women who claims her father was a piece of shit, said terrible things about women and is a narcissist. I was also happy when my abusive narcisssistic aunt got screwed over. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 10:32 PM
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So... male spaces that receive tax payer money need to be shit down on the basis of what, exactly? Umm based on the law? Discrimination by bona fide private clubs is legal. It is a consti- tutionally protected activity under the First Amendment.1 In balancing individuals' freedom of association with civil rights laws, Congress specifically exempts private clubs from protections otherwise afforded to certain protected classes.2 Laws in the United States, however, go further than balancing and pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 10:23 PM
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Yes it literally violates the anti discrimination clause. If a private company or person wants to start their own club and only have men/women/gay members they are free to do so. Discrimination by bona fide private clubs is legal. It is a consti- tutionally protected activity under the First Amendment.1 In balancing individuals' freedom of association with civil rights laws, Congress specifically exempts private clubs from protections otherwise afforded to certain protected classes.2 Laws in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 10:19 PM
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The only all male spaces that get shutdown are ones that receive tax payer money. If your club doesn’t receive tax player money then you are good to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 10:08 PM
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Alright post those examples then so we can report those users.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 10:05 PM
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Are kidding me? There was just a huge story a month ago about a girl getting her college admission rescinded because of a slur she said in private Snapchat video at fifteen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 10:03 PM
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Here's one about one of them laughing at her dad for getting scammed by a mail order bride, and how she wishes she could swindle a man like that someday. (He has it coming, he gets what he deserved) She identifies her father as a narcissist who has said terrible things about women and a piece of shit. We haven’t heard his side of the story but when your own children say stuff like that about you must not be that great of a person or parent. None your other post come close to the toxicity in my o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 10:02 PM
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Considering the poster literally admitted he has no sympathy as reply I think my interpretation is pretty correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:56 PM
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Just show me one posts of a group of women mocking a man who simply said he was lonely and thought about self harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:53 PM
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Is that why feminists have been successful at ending fraternities oh wait they haven’t. You can literally start any all male club you want you just won’t get taxpayer money for it. There are still thousands male only clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:51 PM
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What do feminists have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:45 PM
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Uh fraternities are still a thing and those all male clubs were literally only for rich upper class men never all men, i’m confused at how all men are suffering because a few clubs for rich boys got shutdown or went coed. You can literally start any all male club you want on Craigslist’s, a sports team, party invite only etc. There are plenty of ways to cultivate all male spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:43 PM
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What male spaces are being shut down? If you want to have a heart to heart with your friends to bond you can literately do that anywhere from your own house, a restaurant, start your own Facebook group etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:05 PM
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Men attack women on social media all the time. Look up future memes as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:03 PM
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If you don’t condemn their behavior or make it excuses for it how is it far off to conclude you think their behavior is ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 08:55 PM
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Show me a post on FDS of them mocking a man for simply saying he is lonely and has thoughts about self harm like the link in my op.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 08:42 PM
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I’m pretty sure a user base data survey revealed that most r/neckbeardthings users are male. I’m pretty sure r/trashy and r/nicegirls, r/Wherealltgegoodmen post pictures of women to be mocked daily and neither of them are banned or quarantined. It’s funny because I’ve asked throughout this thread for just one example of a group of women mocking a man online simply for saying he was lonely and had self harm thoughts but so far nobody has been able to do that. It’s a pretty next level of psychopat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:49 PM
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Does it matter if only a few posters post if it’s the majority of their content? I see you also skipped over the part about the rampant calls for rape and violence against women on the forum: We find indicators in the data that identify the incel ideology as violent extremism, since the idea was widespread in the forum that the situation can only be improved by harming one of the out-groups (attractive men or women). This becomes evident in the frequent claims to abolish women’s rights (see sect…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:41 PM
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People on inceltears mock the insane misogynistic things incels say, I have never seen one post mock someone for simply saying they are lonely and had thoughts about self harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:21 PM
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voluntary celibates or incels, a virtual community of isolated men without a sexual life, who see women as the cause of their problems and often use the forum for misogynistic hate speech and other forms of incitement. Involuntary celibates have attracted media attention and concern, after a killing spree in April 2018 in Toronto, Canada. The aim of this study is to shed light on the group dynamics of the incel community, by applying mixed-methods quantitative and qualitative approaches to analy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:18 PM
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Yet you can’t seem to post one even though there are plenty, hmmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:12 PM
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Show me one post on incel tears of someone mocking a guy who expressed loneliness and self harm thoughts. People mock the insane misogynistic things incels say no one mocks them for simply saying they are lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:11 PM
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So are future memes about the Bible misogyny etc. I guess I can generalize all becomes of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:09 PM
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Again I did a quick scan of the thread in question and nowhere were ppl calling her a "post wall slub who deserves her sadness"... again if you do find it please leave a link. There are several comments to this nature: https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/llh8ex/comment/gnqmunl https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/llh8ex/comment/gnrixrv https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/llh8ex/comment/gnpja4c https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodM…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:02 PM
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So you have no examples. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:52 PM
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The angle from subs like WAATGM is women who've hit the wall, and/or any combination of single parents/overweight/High N-count who demands high quality men to have relationship with them. with Relationship that's often predatory to the male and demands a lot from the male side. You don’t know this women, we don’t know what she looks like, nor did she list a bunch demands she has for men. She simply expresses that she was depressed due to loneliness and had thoughts about self harm. This is not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:48 PM
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Too many. Why you think their subreddit got banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:42 PM
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So you can’t link an example of just one posts of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:40 PM
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There's plenty of such examples, yes. Post them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:34 PM
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Yeah I don’t doubt there are a lot toxic mean women out there but I just find it interesting that women painted as the unsympathetic gender on this topic. Because even on fds I have never seen a group of women pillar a man who simply expressed he was lonely and had self harm fantasies. But I’ve seen behavior commonly in the subreddit above and other manosphere related subreddits. It takes another level of toxicity to mock someone who expresses self harm idealization.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:31 PM
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See this exactly what I am talking you are projecting your frustration and bitterness on this women who is expressing a very real human condition. You don’t know this women or her situation you just decided in your bias view she doesn’t deserve sympathy. It’s pretty incredible to me because at no point does the op blame men or saying anything misandrist, yet they guys still have all this anger at her for sharing her vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:08 PM
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So because men have it worse in your view that justifies mocking women when they express self harm fantasies and sadness at being lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:05 PM
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returning the favor Do you have an example of a group of women online mocking a man who expresses without being misogynistic that he has self harm fantasies, is sad about not having friends or being single online?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:04 PM
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a guy gets screwed by a chick, he can't admit it or even talk to his friends w/o seeming weak. Well then maybe that is something men should get to together and change about male culture. I can’t imagine not expressing my emotions to friends for comfort, that is literally what friends are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:02 PM
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Sigh, people have already explained these numbers, maybe you just weren’t paying attention or you made this thread out of bad faith but here is the explanation again in this comment: Even when using protection women are almost just as likely to get herpes for example as a man not using protection: In separate models by sex, the rate of HSV-2 transmissions from women to men was 1.7 transmissions per 1000 unprotected acts (95% CI, .6 to 4.4) and 0.6 per 1000 protected acts *(95% CI, .2 to 1.7). Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 08:34 AM
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No. Women are biologically more vulnerable to stds as explained here. Even when using protection women are almost just as likely to get herpes for example as a man not using protection: In separate models by sex, the rate of HSV-2 transmissions from women to men was 1.7 transmissions per 1000 unprotected acts (95% CI, .6 to 4.4) and 0.6 per 1000 protected acts *(95% CI, .2 to 1.7). Thus condom use reduced the per-act probability of transmission from women to men by 65% (95% CI, −5% to 88%, P = .…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 08:08 AM
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Men by default are less agreeable then women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:52 PM
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The weirdest part of this fan fiction is the part where he claims the woman in question was screaming about how disgusting and ugly his friend was while fucking another guy. Who is screams about how disgusting they find another man while having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:09 PM
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You don’t actually believe this fan fiction of his?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 07:17 PM
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I mean considering op is the same user who legitimately thinks women will start mass murdering men they find unattractive, I am not surprised he’s comes up with these wild scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:41 PM
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What is your definition of a bad boy? Because no mentally healthy women would want to date a criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:43 AM
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People tend date others in the same community as them. Most male criminals, who make up a small percentage of the population in the first place, are mostly dating women that comes from their communities. This idea that mentally stable middle class women are regularly fucking violent men and criminals only to be left single mothers by them is nothing more then a blackpill fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:42 AM
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I don't see it IRL, I find that hard to believe tbh. I'm not trying to turn it into anything else but an expression of my observation and/or thoughts on what I observe IRL. You were pretty obviously trying to push this narrative that women over 30 are all bitter, miserable hags who can’t get relationships and are turning towards drugs and alcohol to cope while men are all doing better then fine comparison. I guess when I posted hard statistics showing drug overdoses and alcoholism is higher amon…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 02:10 AM
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That’s the funny thing anecdotal data, it’s flawed because your truth is never the whole truth. I haven’t observed what you are talking about either in real life, like at all. Hopefully, with the statistics I posted you’ll realize how lonely a lot of your fellow men are and not try to turn it into men vs women thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 01:54 AM
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As I've written above, it did, does and will continue happening. Resources have, are being and will continue to be inwasted into all sorts of femcentrism, at the expense of men. It's nothing new to me. If men need less help according to you, then less resources should go towards them. And? What seems to be the problem with that? If men are doing fine, why are they complaining about this? Why is sexual frustration and loneliness leading them to commit terrorist attacks if they can better handle i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 01:42 AM
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Not to dismiss the sources you posted(, thank you for that), I'm about half the globe away from that, so I don't really care that much about the -demics going on in USSA on a personal level. Men have a higher suicide rate globally and men have fallen behind academically globally too. Would you like to share any thoughts about what you've just read? If you think men are doing better then it makes sense that resources not focus on them and instead focus on women. It’s quite interesting hearing an …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 01:24 AM
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As I've stated on numerous occasions before, I prefer and refer to my personal observations and experience. While I am not intending to dismiss the effort poured into the studies, as far as I am concerned, they carry little to no weight. Your somebody who has made a lot personal observations but you are still not able to correctly observe that the opioid epidemic has affected men more than women. Instead you just want to pretend men are doing fine while it’s women who are floundering? It’s prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 01:05 AM
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Your probably seeing that because it fits your narrative. Anyways drug overdoses and suicide have risen among men greatly too. And single men according to researcher we have available are actually sadder then their single female counterparts: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/jgypkz/study_men_suffer_most_from_being_single_over_a/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 12:41 AM
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I have actually never heard this idea before. There does seem to running joke among bisexual women about how being bisexual means finding every women beautiful but only a few men. I’ve seen memes posted on social media to that nature. I’ve noticed a lot people on here think it’s opposite actually, that men are the better looking ones in most heterosexual relationships. I’ve never noticed that either tbh. Looks are pretty subjective which is why I don’t like the ‘looksmatch’ theory, but most coup…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 06:55 AM
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I think we need a proper definition of what a ‘bad boy’ is, otherwise there will continue to be miscommunication on this topic. If by bad boy you mean a violent criminal or someone is habitually in trouble with the law, then absolutely not. I did date and had a crush on a guy in high school was a bit of bad boy not because he was a criminal but he would constantly get in trouble with teachers for disrupting class, and breaking school rules. He was a bit class clown and would always know how to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 04:43 AM
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. Is bestiality only the domain of men? According to statistics yes: Studies published between 2002 and 20161,16,17 indicated that most individuals who self-reported having sex with animals were white males ranging in age from 16 to 78 years, most of whom were gainfully employed and were, or had been, in an intimate human relationship. Animals most often chosen as sexual partners were dogs, horses, goats, cats, farm animals, and fowl, followed by wildlife and exotics. https://www.researchgate.ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 06:40 PM
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Considering women rape men as much as men rape women, women have a lot of owning up to do. Why do think despite this being the case, why men are much more likely then women to be caught on camera attempting to rape their victims? With the invention of cctvs being installed on every street corner we have been able to catch a lot rapist in the action like this or this or this or this or this Why do you think along with more likely to commit the extreme ends of sexual violence( lust murders and rap…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 06:26 PM
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What perplexes men is that any woman you ask will deny they like violent men or men who treat others poorly. And yet these guys have better love lives than most men. I have a relative who works in the criminal justice system, no these guys don’t have better loves lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 01:07 AM
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You personally know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 01:05 AM
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Honestly, I do not think you even know what borderline personality disorder is at this point. It looks like you are confusing bpd with dark triad traits.. Lmao: The participants viewed a facial photograph of each target individual, along with a brief biography. The profiles varied in their level of facial attractiveness, psychopathic and borderline personality traits, and wealth. For example, those high in psychopathic and borderline personality trait were described as someone who liked to “flou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 07:45 PM
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Men do like crazy women for they are good at love bombing (which men like as the sex is good) and being kind,etc. Lmao: The participants viewed a facial photograph of each target individual, along with a brief biography. The profiles varied in their level of facial attractiveness, psychopathic and borderline personality traits, and wealth. For example, those high in psychopathic and borderline personality trait were described as someone who liked to “flout the rules” and was “quite intense” and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 03:01 PM
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Maybe she likes his personality? Maybe she is with him for money or status? Or maybe she genuinely finds him attractive, the whole ‘lookmatch’ theory is entirely subjective in my opinion, you may think he’s a 5 to another person he could be 9, there isn’t an objective way to measure attractiveness when people’s taste are diverse. And to be frank unless you are downright hideous, someone out there will find you sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 07:26 PM
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In contrast, the birth of children was significantly associated with declines in wives’ sexual desire in all three analyses; that is, wives who reported giving birth during the first several years of marriage experienced steeper declines in sexual desire than did wives who did not report giving birth. Most importantly, direct tests demonstrated that the magnitude of this association between having children and sexual desire was stronger for wives than for husbands [Study 1: χ2 (1) = 4.41, p = .0…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 02:28 PM
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What do you mean exclusively? It is a fact that singe motherhood is declining due to the growth of cohabiting households.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 05:22 PM
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According to this men also like women with borderline personality disorders: Those with borderline personality disorder have problems regulating emotional impulses and often experience rocky relationships. But new research suggests that many men find traits associated with borderline personality disorder to be appealing in physically attractive women. The study has been published online in the journal Personality and Individual Differences. https://www.psypost.org/2020/06/men-are-drawn-to-border…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 05:16 PM
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And yet, something like 40% of kids in the US grow up with single moms. Huh? According to this stat, they don’t. You are another person who thinks child out of wedlock equals single mom when multiple stats I have shared show the majority of children born out of wedlock are born to mothers in cohabiting units. This is the case in Latin America and Europe as well. Btw single motherhood is statistically declining because of the rise of cohabiting couples, so your how hypothesis is wrong: http://www…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 05:10 PM
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I think people have repeatedly pointed out to you the rise of outwedlock births in Europe, Latin America and US is due to cohabitation but you keep ignoring it, why is that? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/izxfv2/comment/g6p5svd Also single motherhood is statistically declining: http://www.marketwatch.com/amp/story/single-motherhood-in-america-declines-as-unmarried-cohabiting-parents-soar-2018-04-26
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 05:04 PM
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Pew only asks if you have ever used it, which can be skewed by sample, the source I am using is actually based on government statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 11:05 PM
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23% of women have ever used food stamps whereas 12% of men have. (Pew) According to this chart the majority of snap users are male.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 10:45 PM
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The percentage of women between the ages 15-24 receiving public assistance is a minority according to the chart below. https://nces.ed.gov/pubs2012/2012026/tables/table_32.asp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 10:09 PM
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According to this chart below, there is not a dramatic difference between the percentage of men and women receiving public assistance. https://nces.ed.gov/pubs2012/2012026/tables/table_32.asp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:35 PM
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Ehh, I’m Latin American myself and I can tell you there is a huge problem with the glamorization of narco culture in the media. This causes some naive young people to want to be drug dealers or be a narco wife because of how glorified it is by the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:20 PM
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So your position is that the percentage of men who have seen prostitutes has dropped by 75% in only 60 years? Did you read any of the sources I’ve linked? They literally state the number of men visiting prostitutes has dropped because sex outside of marriage has become less taboo: For example, Alfred Kinsey's famous studies of human sexual behavior from the 1940s and 50s found that 69% of the men he surveyed had paid for sex at least once [1]! However, more recent studies suggest that the number…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:48 PM
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I never said it was only sailors and vagabonds, I said it was a minority of men. Which is exactly what my source stated, more like 15-20% Your source for your numbers comes from modern times. According to the National Institute of Justice, a study conducted in 2008 found that approximately 15-20 percent of men in the country have engaged in commercial sex. We are talking about times before the sexual revolution, you claimed that sexual standards for both men and women were equally strict in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:52 PM
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But you extrapolating that to assert that the vast majority of American men have always seen prostitutes is incredibly intellectually dishonest, and absurd on its face. Which you would have realized if it didn't suit your bias. Lol calm down, we are talking about paying for sex, not murder. You are the one who wants to pretend only vagrants and soldiers paid sex in the past, yep normal men never paid for sex. All those men in the Wild West visiting brothels must have all been vagrants and sailor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:08 PM
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The 15-20 estimate is for modern times, the other numbers are for the past which you claimed only a minority of men in the past paid for sex, that is not true based on the statistics we have. For example, Alfred Kinsey's famous studies of human sexual behavior from the 1940s and 50s found that 69% of the men he surveyed had paid for sex at least once [1]! However, more recent studies suggest that the number has dropped significantly as attitudes toward sex outside of marriage have liberalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 05:37 PM
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Prostitutes have always been used by a minority of men, 69% (Kinsey et al., 1948) to 80% (Benjamin and Masters, 1964) of American men to have engaged in commercial sex,
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:21 AM
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How are they treating average men like trash? By not dating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:09 PM
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I’m confused, the link you posted did not prove gay men are less promiscuous then straights it just stated the stereotype of gay men being promiscuous was harmful. I don’t see what the big deal is, several studies have repeatedly shown gay men report having more sexual partners. It’s makes sense a group that doesn’t have to worry about getting pregnant would have more sexual partners: MSM reported significantly more lifetime partners than heterosexual men and women at all ages (p <0.01 for each …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 01:13 PM
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Was there ever a time loser women were not bullied by others? Am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:41 AM
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I don’t think it’s prevalent, I think you are cherrypicking that’s my point. Majority of women don’t have even have bios much less elaborate ones like you are claiming. Yet my brother and other men also claim otherwise based on their online experience. It’s almost like having a penis doesn’t make you ultimate arbiter of truth and different men don’t have the same experience as you. What discussion is there to be have? What exactly do you want us to do about this? Have a stern talking to the rand…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:27 AM
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Again it doesn’t say that, it says 30% (the actual raw number is 23% but GSS numbers are weighted) haven’t had sex in the last year. Somehow you keep equating that to them being virgins, when virgins after a certain age are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:20 AM
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How can average guy be unlucky if the majority (over 2/3rds) are sexually active? That’s the majority men who can’t get dates are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:54 AM
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Discussion is the point of the sub. I’ve read your posts before and I don’t think you are interested in a discussion, you just want a circle jerk about how about how terrible online dating is for you. Why would your brother's Tinder have anything to do with the matches where I'm at? He’s a man, he lets me see his tinder matches and tinder profiles he comes across. Only twice in the probably thousands of profiles he’s swiped on has he or I come across this caricature of tinder women you and other…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:51 AM
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We have no idea of those 30% have never been sexually active, virgins after the age 20 are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:42 AM
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Dude I have read your posts, before, it’s basically you whining about how only women available to date you are fat and you post on whereareallthrgoodmen. Besides I think you are cherrypicking as an excuse to make a thread, because looking at my brothers tinder account the vast majority of women I come across don’t have bios like that. https://imgur.com/a/444DWy3 And this in the fricken Midwest. The majority of women don’t even have bios. It really just sounds like you made this thread as an excu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:33 AM
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Most women don't use them? Maybe not previously but they do now more than ever. Online dating apps gender ratio has gotten more skewed over time, tinder started out having a 50/50 ratio to now having a 80/20 ratio and that including bots accounts which are usually female. Most couples are contrary what people on here say, don’t meet on dating apps, as I explained here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:00 AM
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According to this thread under the age 20 likes are distributed evenly. I think really men have to get over blaming dating apps for their dating woes, when the majority women regardless of age don’t use them. It’s getting ridiculous now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:53 AM
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If you don’t like the quality you see on tinder where men already greatly outnumber women, use a different site. I am not sure what the point of your whining is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:49 AM
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I remember reading this reddit thread on this, it gives a much more nuisance view of the numbers. Somehow I still don’t think it’s that big of deal and you claiming they represent the majority of men is bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:40 AM
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More men name having friends of the opposite sex then women: A number of studies indicate that sex predicts whether or not a person will have cross-sex friendships (Booth & Hess, 1974; Reeder, 2003; Rose, 1985; Wright, 1989); men typically report having more such friendships. Among university-aged persons (as is our sample), Rose found that 100% of the men and 73% of the women reported having at least one close CSF. Notably, other research (Rubin, 1985) revealed that as many as two-thirds of tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:37 AM
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Because all those studies they post claiming there is a link between n count for women and higher likelihood of getting divorce or cheating show the same link with men...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:59 AM
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Obsession with female purity is a worldwide thing not unique to neurotic reddit nerds unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:55 AM
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The median heterosexual man or woman (age 18-60) reports somewhere between four and six opposite sex partners in their lifetime. Lesbian women, too, report about the same number of partners. Meanwhile, the median gay man has notably more partners—reporting between 16 and 20 same-sex sexual partners to this point in their lifetime. https://relationshipsinamerica.com/relationships-and-sex/how-many-people-have-americans-had-sex-with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:53 AM
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I’m I missing something from that chart? According to that chart the majority (72%) of young men are sexually active how does that translate to the majority are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:45 AM
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I’ve never heard the term gold star lesbian before, but yes I do know that in lesbian circles, women who have never been with a man are given more prestige. Interestingly, I actually know more gay men who have dated members of the opposite sex before coming out then lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:51 PM
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Tbh a lot gay men have fantasies about turning a straight man, so any guy who they think is straight is automatically considered more attractive for that reason. One of my gay friends who strips at gay club use to pretend he was straight because he always got way more tips then when he told everyone he was gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:48 PM
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Well you are minority on ppd in that regard, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:29 PM
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I understand but this statistic is for intimate partners, not just any random person off the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:27 PM
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You may not care about it, but many men on here have made it clear it’s their number one priority in a partner along with loyalty. Gay men are far more promiscuous then heterosexuals of either gender and things like open marriage are more common too due to how common infidelity is. I can’t see the posters who are constantly obsessing over a woman’s n count and how many chads she slept with being happy having the same worries while being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:24 PM
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Considering the fact so many men here tend to value low n counts and fidelity in their partner, no they would not have a better time being gay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:18 PM
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What’s also interesting is how many lesbians name male perpetrators: “For example, the CDC found that 89.5% of bisexual women reported only male perpetrators of intimate partner physical violence, rape, and/or stalking and that almost a third of lesbian women who have experienced such incidents have had one or more male perpetrators.” https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/publications/ipv-sex-abuse-lgbt-people/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:15 PM
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I was just going by the headline. There is nothing wrong or irrational about judging somebody for relevant past behavior. I could have been more clear about this I guess. The op explicitly compared having a violent past and being promiscuous, as if they were moral equals. Do you agree or disagree with this assertion? Because that is what this whole thread and debate is about. A very difficult situation, but those women should have disclosed that and maybe should have aborted those children. Virt…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:24 AM
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No? You said: A promiscuous partner is generally bad for a man, so it makes sense when men judge promiscuous women accordingly. That seems to imply you think being promiscuous is on par with being a violent criminal, if you think ops analogy make senses. If you think they are moral equals, then they should be punished equally. And paternity fraud should be harshly punished, and is at least as morally repugnant as rape. How would you go about doing that exactly? You would have to prove that they …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:26 AM
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So would you advocate throwing promiscuous women in jail since you see them as being morally repugnant as violent criminals. Some states used to force prostitutes to register on the sex offender lists, would you be interested in bringing those laws back?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:06 AM
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There have been only two incidents in my life where things escalated to violence. The first incident is when I pretended to ignore a homeless men yelling out sexual propositions at me, this apparently upset him so much that he threw rock at me, hitting me on the side of my face causing a bruise to develop which didn’t fully heal until after a month. The second incident was at a bar, a random older guy started hitting on my friend and I. We tried to friendly at first by talking to him back but he…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:39 AM
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I remember using Omegle when I was younger. IMO the site has a lot potential but it needs more moderation. When I first started using it, it was great until a bunch of exhibitionists invaded the site, and half the content became guys jacking themselves off on screen. Still, those few times where you actually got to chat with a stranger who actually wanted to talk was pretty cool. One of my friends even meet her bf on there, although the relationship didn’t last long. I would probably use a tinde…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:46 PM
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Good point. I had not realize teen pregnancy was high in other Anglo nations like they are in the US. I know in the US, Hispanic girls usually have a higher teen pregnancy rate then their black and white peers for a multitude of reasons some of which you touched on. But yeah I think there should be stronger sex Ed, and birth control access.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 11:35 AM
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Age of consent has nothing to do with teen pregnancy. In Latin America we have an age of consent lower then many European countries yet we still have the highest rate of teen pregnancy in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:01 AM
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How does it refute my quotation which is based on a study? It never said women do not respond stimulation but that the images they respond to are not always sexual in nature or of conventionally attractive men. Men generally respond to visual sexual stimuli, such as attractive nude or erotic pictures, or erotic films. Women respond differently to the same sexual stimuli. Some women feel repulsed by muscular, erotic male photos, and some are sexually attracted by emotional or lingual stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:39 AM
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That says nothing about attractiveness stop moving the goalpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:50 AM
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There more well groomed and stylish women then there are men, are really denying this right now? Most men are slobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:32 AM
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Men generally respond to visual sexual stimuli, such as attractive nude or erotic pictures, or erotic films. Women respond differently to the same sexual stimuli. Some women feel repulsed by muscular, erotic male photos, and some are sexually attracted by emotional or lingual stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:11 AM
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Based on what? Your guess? They were asked to rate people in photos if they we’re hot or not, not if they would date them. That’s a pretty direct way to gauge sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:56 PM
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I'm guessing you aren't a fan of Sam Harris, The apologist for war crimes committed by western countries and Israeli colonialism? Absolutely not, you are right there. but in his podcast with Jocko Willinck there was a great discussion about the lengths we went through to protect civilians, and many other things. Well it appears they did a shit job. It’s almost like there is no such thing as a benevolent imperial power. And I am not surprise a mouth piece for the military industrial complex would…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:53 PM
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They were asked to rate people by their physical attractiveness not by who they would like to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:39 PM
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Do you know to what lengths we went to in order to avoid civilian casualties in Gulf War 2? No, however I know about the economic sanctions Bush 1 put on the Iraqi people which lead to deaths of 1.5 million Iraqis and the Iraq war started by Bush 2 based on a lie which lead to the deaths of 2.5 million Iraqis.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:17 PM
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Nope. Cope. Imperialism and mass murder are synonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:09 PM
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I'm an ardent imperialist. Oh ok so you support mass murder, war and colonialism. Nice fellow you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:55 PM
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That’s actually not true, a study found that men usually had a more consistent standard about what they find attractive whereas women didn’t: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/06/090626153511.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:55 PM
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It really doesn’t matter what heterosexual men think, the attractiveness of a gender is determined by the opposite sex, you know the people actually attracted to that gender, if less women find less men attractive then vice versa then men are less attractive it’s as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:39 PM
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I thought we all agreed that the attractiveness of a sex is determined by the opposite gender, you know the people who actually find them sexually attractive. If less women find less men attractive then the other way around then less men are attractive in comparison to women, it’s as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:37 PM
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Try yandex too, it’s usually better then reverse google search.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:10 AM
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Do you have pictures of this women? One way to check if she is a catfish is to upload her image to google search.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:24 AM
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Also consider how, in spite of how oppressive the current global order can be, the greatest headway made against global poverty have been made under the neoliberal capitalist order of the last 50 years; That’s a lie how, while the inequality remains high as ever, the rising tide has benefitted all boats, and how, despite its sins, we wouldn't even be able to talk now if not for side-effects of its achievements. That’s another lie, increase in productivity and gdp has only benefited the top 1%. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:19 AM
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It's not specifically a problem of the American people, but of universal human greed and evil, and the competition for scarce resources and power. Yes the American empire which I draw distinction from the American people and country, is evil and needs to fall. The good news is, most empires eventually fall just when is the question. Many countries in the Middle East and Latin America had strong working class socialist revolutions and governments before they were put down by the CIA. I wonder if …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:31 AM
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Oh your liberal got it, so you probably excuse the imperialism and coups your country does abroad in the name of democracy and thinks the millions of Iraqis killed by the Bushes through economic sanctions, bombing campaigns and direct military action along with the thousands of Nicaraguans who were raped, murdered and bombed by cia funded contras in the 80s by the Reagan administration or the American citizens drone striked by the Obama administration without due process are just a blink on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:21 AM
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You are too distracted on Trump, whether it was Trump or not, the powers at be have been inching for the moment to further crackdown on civil rights and expand the surveillance state under the guise protecting democracy. They did something after 9/11, and have been waiting to up the movement to further consolidate power. Nothing good will come from it. Actual leftist who analyzed the events with clear emotional detachment have come to the same conclusions. Frankly as a foreigner all modern US pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:07 AM
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Most economic hardships and coups in recent years were orchestrated by the US and it’s allies in the West. The funding and training of contras in Nicaragua by the CIA in the 1980s who raped, murdered and bombed civilians is most recently egregious example of this. This lead to unknown breakdown in civil rest and economic instability in the region that still felt today. Just imagine if China and Russia were funding and training right wing militias in the US to terrorize fellow citizens, you proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:55 PM
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Just lol anyone who thinks this was an actually coup attempt not an entirely staged photo op by the powers at be. The police were given direct orders to stand down by the mayor who opened the gates to the protesters on purpose. If they had actually done their job they would have never gotten through. The only thing that will come from this is the powers at be will use it as an excuse to further crack down on civil liberties under the guise of protecting democracy just like they did with war on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:34 PM
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Honestly the irony of Americans complaining about foreign intervention as if their country hasn’t been funding and staging color revolutions and overthrow democratically elected leaders in the global south for decades under the guise of ‘much democracy’ has made this whole thing pretty funny. I guess karma and a taste of your own medicine isn’t that sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:28 PM
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From what I understand at home genetic dna testing kits in general are banned in France, right? Like if somebody wanted to do an ancestry dna test they wouldn’t be able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:01 PM
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It’s tiktok, you are seeing comments from a bunch of terminally online zoomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 01:50 PM
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The only difference is when you attack and make fun of men, you don't get cancelled. Lol you actually believe that?
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/21 07:10 AM
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That’s the point they are giddy about attacking others for characteristics they can’t change (gender, race sexual orientation etc) but get butt hurt when their identity is attacked by others.
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/21 05:55 AM
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This is going get removed any minute now since it breaks the no race content rule, but to answer your question op, it’s because they are racist and their only interaction with black women are through stereotypical depictions of them in the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:32 PM
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I think they are making fun of the so called politically incorrect 4chan edge lords who like to make extreme racist and sexist jokes under the guise of ‘free speech’ but un ironically get super butt hurt when the tables are turned.
/r/AntiFeminists06/01/21 10:18 PM
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I’m going just leave this study here. According to its findings there is no difference between the reported number of sexual partners of short men and tall men, only very short men (5’2-5’4) report having a smaller number of sexual partners. People with traits that are attractive on the mating market are better able to pursue their preferred mating strategy. Men who are relatively tall may be preferred by women because taller height is a cue to dominance, social status, access to resources, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 12:31 PM
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Most men are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:37 PM
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Also, women routinely separate men from their social network and socially isolate them to her only, or an approved list of friends she controls. If this is true then why do single men also complain about loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 08:05 AM
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Is because of weight? I really don’t think the average fit British person is that drastically different looks wise then other Europeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 05:26 AM
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If simply having sex with a drunk person was enough to be thrown in jail for rape then almost every college student would be sitting behind a jail cell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:08 PM
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You think every single mother has a hot stud of a baby father lol. No wonder all those deadbeat dad mugshots are filled with Calvin Klein models.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:06 PM
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R u srs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:25 PM
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What about other anglos like Germans and Dutch people, are they also viewed as less attractive? I think a lot European tv likes to cast average looking people on purpose for realism, French and German tv does the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:16 PM
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Even the fit ones? I’ve never been to England so I can’t judge, I’ve been to Ireland and I really liked the people which is why celts are number two my list.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:02 PM
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They tend to have long horse faces along with protruding chins in my experience and bigger noses, traits I don’t find attractive in women. I grew up in Latin America so I am familiar with their look because of there are a lot people with ancestry from Southern Europe here. Also anglos/Brits are not unattractive people, the average fit one holds up well compared to other Europeans in my opinion. But in general a lot whites tend to have these witch or goblin like faces I find unattractive, I am ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:34 PM
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Most Hispanic women date within their culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:31 PM
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According to latest cdc more men are obese and studies find men do have worst hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:21 PM
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The average Hispanic men is short so what may be short for other women is tall for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:59 PM
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Or date Hispanic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:55 PM
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Tbh I don’t find white people as attractive as compared to native people and Hispanics. I tend to like men with dark coloring which Mediterraneans are the closest to, I don’t really like blonde men. I tend like women with more native features,(high cheekbones, positive canthal tilt, round face etc) full blooded Mediterranean women rarely have those features and among white women, Slavics (excluding the Balkans) and North Europeans have them the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:35 PM
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Why do you admire chad? Because he can get laid? Almost every man can get laid a lot if they surround themselves with drunk horny women all the time, lower their standards or pay for it. It’s not really special feat and something to worship someone for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:28 PM
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These chad fanfics keep getting better and better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:26 PM
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The average American men is fat yet whines like they deserve supermodels. That’s just my observation as a foreigner living here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:25 PM
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That’s surprising, I honestly thought Australians had a reputation for being attractive which is why I found it surprising you thought they were bottom tier. I’ve never been to Australia so I can’t really judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:15 PM
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From best to worst Men: Mediterranean, Celtic, Anglo Saxon, Nordic, Slav Women: Slavs, Celtic, Nordic, Anglo, Mediterranean
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:11 PM
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Why specifically Australian? I think Irish men are pretty handsome tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:08 PM
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Exceptionally handsome and model like men are objectively such a small percentage of the male population it really makes me wonder why some men seem to be so sexually threatened by them. Every other post on here is guys complaining about how ‘Chad’ is ruining their future wives. It’s like the girls who are paranoid their bf is going to leave them for the Instagram model he follows to get a daily dose of butt pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:04 PM
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Remember, 7% of prenups are thrown out in court Any source for that stat?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 11:00 AM
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Latino is not a race.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:42 AM
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Among men, the prevalence of obesity was 40.3% among those aged 20–39, 46.4% among those aged 40–59, and 42.2% among those aged 60 and over. Among women, the prevalence of obesity was 39.7% among those aged 20–39, 43.3% among those aged 40–59, and 43.3% among those aged 60 and over. None of the differences by age were significant. When you combine overweight and obese individuals: Almost 3 in 4 men (73.7 percent) were considered to be overweight or have obesity; and about 2 in 3 women (66.9) wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:14 AM
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Statistically American men are fatter then American women according to the latest cdc stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:04 AM
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Also the lovely term mudshark too. I remember when I was browsing on /pol/ they would celebrate when a woman was murdered by her spouse if the woman was white and the man was black. They would say "Burn the coal, pay the toll". Hispanic men are pretty bad too but Hispanic women almost never get mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:34 AM
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Also from getting our kitty ate, foreplay and non lazy lovers: There is a notable gap between heterosexual men and women in frequency of orgasm during sex. Little is known, however, about sexual orientation differences in orgasm frequency. We examined how over 30 different traits or behaviors were associated with frequency of orgasm when sexually intimate during the past month. We analyzed a large US sample of adults (N = 52,588) who identified as heterosexual men (n = 26,032), gay men (n = 452)…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:50 AM
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I’ve posted this in a previous thread but according to the study the majority of couples meeting online are not meeting on dating apps. According to the study you linked the plurality of couples do meet online, about 39% of couples said they meet online, 20% said through friends and 27% said they meet a bar/restaurant, 11% at work etc. However, the study mentions that people often checked multiple ways how they meet their current spouse which is why the numbers listed don’t add up to 100%. I’ve …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:30 AM
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I work with high school students and what you are saying is absolutely false.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:21 PM
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I work with high school students and what you are saying is absolutely false.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:21 PM
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Most women do not hate and despise men they are not sexually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:25 PM
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What? I’ve seen plenty of people drag white women for fetishizing black men or saying they prefer them, like do you spend anytime on Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:23 PM
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Yep just add cooking, along with poetry replace pole dancing with cardio and we are good to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:15 PM
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Guys bully each other even before the age they become sexually interested in women, so it can’t all be motivated by impressing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:09 PM
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I guess you missed simeneta’s nice list below, next time learn to refresh your page and scroll down my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:01 PM
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I really love how trp posters simultaneously complain about how most bars and clubs are ‘sausage fests’ yet also claim women unlike men do nothing but drink and party all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:55 PM
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I really wouldn’t recommend doing that because most mail order bride schemes are usually scams. But it is your life, you don’t need our permission to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:32 PM
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Dude it doesn’t matter what you think, the opinions of heterosexual women, you know the people who are actually attracted to men has more weight and according to many women those guys are hot chads. I don’t care what your homoerotic idea of a ‘chad’ or ‘tyrone’ is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:07 PM
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Right out of the NY Court website: Ok so I just looked into New York’s paternity laws and apparently they have a ‘marital presumption of paternity,’ this statue seems really outdated and was established before dna testing became a thing to give children born into matrimony legitimacy. Based on what I could find there are avenues however, that husbands can take to disestablish paternity: If a husband and wife are married at the time that a child is born, then that husband is automatically assumed…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:01 PM
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The study doesn’t specify how couples are meeting online for all we know they can be meeting on anonymous message boards, or think because they first meet each other by sending friend request that counts as meeting online even if they most of their relationship was built offline. We just know the majority are not meeting on dating apps. Oh and stop with the woe is me attitude tons of average looking guys are in relationships or married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:44 AM
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The majority of couples who meet online are not meeting on dating apps, I’ve talked about this before in a previous post. According to the study you linked the plurality of couples do meet online, about 39% of couples said they meet online, 20% said through friends and 27% said they meet a bar/restaurant, 11% at work etc. However, the study mentions that people often checked multiple ways how they meet their current spouse which is why the numbers listed don’t add up to 100%. I’ve read the study…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:50 AM
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I just like arguing with people lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:21 AM
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Are you so socially inept that you can't tell when someone introduces you to someone they're fucking but don't call them boyfriend/girlfriend yet? This gets even better, a guy who only sees these women a few times a year, who just knows they are fucking knows better then an actual woman who has roomed, partied, and exchange person intimate details with them. Not model tier 9s and 10s. Yes they probably have lower N counts but they're a tiny minority of women. Above average women would be placed …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:12 AM
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So you seeing these people a few times a year at social events suddenly makes you an expert on their sex lives. This is even more delusional then I thought. Since we are only dealing anecdotal data as proof since you have zero statistics to back up your claim, (even your follow trp posters have posted actual studies claiming the attractive women have fewer sexual partners then unattractive but I digest) I am a woman who went to a big state school was friends with many sorority girls, party girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:39 AM
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You claimed every single time you see them they are fucking a new man. You also claimed the average attractive women has four different sexual partners a year, so you are only seeing them four times a year yet seem to know with absolute certainty they are fucking the men they are with. So how often do you see these young attractive women? Twice a week? Because if every time you see they are with a new man, that means you could potentially claiming that the average young attractive women has up t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:06 AM
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And I’m just sure by your power to read the future you know these women are fucking their new friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:29 AM
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Most white supremacists and radical Islamic fundamentalists don’t commit terrorist attacks, doesn’t stop their ideology from being dangerous for its potential radicalize people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:21 AM
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Like I said, there’s an active effort to get men to mentor women. Where’s the reverse? That may be entirely due to the fact there are more men in leadership positions especially in the corporate jobs then women. But yes there are programs like this perhaps not as many as the reverse but that’s slowly changing. At my own job many of the older female teachers mentor the new young male teachers. Yes men of color are men, but it’s a small demographic. Men of color are not a small demographic in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:51 AM
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Are men of color not men? And the programs do accept white men, especially those who come from adverse backgrounds (poverty). I personally have a male friends that fits that bill who was apart of a similar program in my state. The programs specialize helping men of color in particular because they are the most underrepresented but they make it clear it’s also to help men in general: New York City’s Young Men’s Initiative (YMI) is the nation’s most comprehensive municipal effort to tackle the dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:34 AM
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None of the celebs listed are Chads or Tyrones. I guess you could argue that Nate Parker is a Tyrone Lite. The rest are beta bucks. Affleck is the Brad to end all Brads lolol Now you are just trolling, nearly every man I listed has hundreds of thousands possibly millions of women lusting after them. There were nearly freak outs on Twitter for a week after Affleck got nude in a movie. Ansel Elgort has over ten million instagram followers and was considered a heartthrob. He’s accusation literally …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:15 AM
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Show men the company that has a “lean in” program for young men. They don’t because that’s considered sexist. In the place I work (education) literally has a programs for men and men of color only, there has been a consorted effort by the state and local government to get more male teachers and male teachers of color in particular, that there has been scholarships, hiring quotas, programs reserved just for them. Here is one example in New York(not my state): In January 2015, Mayor Bill de Blasio…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:36 AM
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I’ll imagine if several feminist in the past couple of years engaged in actions like the ones below, you wouldn’t just dismiss them as a few bad apples but want serious answers in how their rhetoric was radicalizing people. In late February, a 17-year-old walked into a massage parlor in Toronto’s West End just after noon with a machete. Paramedics were on scene within a half-hour, treating three victims for stab wounds. Ashley Noell Arzaga, just seven years older than her attacker, died on her w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:29 AM
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Don't believe me? How many Chads have been MeToo'd? https://www.vox.com/a/sexual-harassment-assault-allegations-list/ben-affleck/amp https://www.buzzfeednews.com/amphtml/claudiakoerner/five-women-accuse-james-franco-of-misconduct https://amp.usatoday.com/amp/1931691001 https://www.glamour.com/story/gossip-girl-star-ed-westwick-accused-of-rape/amp https://amp.usatoday.com/amp/3224507001 https://www.nydailynews.com/sports/athletes-accused-sexual-harassment-assault-gallery-1.3644757 https://www.nyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:20 AM
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Yet no statistics show what op is claiming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:00 AM
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Somehow I doubt you know enough single normal, attractive young women to be making sweeping generalizations about their sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:04 PM
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I definitely believe everything I read on the internet, Abe Lincoln told me so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 08:58 PM
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American society is already ridiculously individualistic, what you seem to be advocating for people even more selfish and self centered because you assume anytime men help women it’s because muh vagina not because they genuinely want to help them. How do you know the men mentoring women wouldn’t do the same for a man? At the jobs I’ve worked the leaders have mentored everybody who has asked whether they were male or female. So when you tell men to stop mentoring women to achieve equality you see…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 08:56 PM
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A random post doesn’t constitute a study, I hope you realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:53 PM
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stop mentoring them, stop encouraging them, stop supporting them. u/suck-less Can you explain this to me? In my culture and community it’s expected that everybody help everybody. That’s what’s called having a cohesive community. It seems as though you are advocating for a every man for himself individualistic utopia because you think that is what equality looks like. I know many men who still live with their mothers and don’t work, are those men freeloaders who deserve to be condemned or is it o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 06:59 PM
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Yeah Southern European culture is surprisingly still more sexual conservative then Northern Europe, I think is partly because so many still live at home at a later age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:33 PM
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Fat is unattractive on both genders, the men who think differently are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:28 PM
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Who is complaining? Most young women accept most young men watch porn, it would be considered unusual if you didn’t nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 03:45 AM
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The studies I am referring to usually ask men how many have ever paid for sex. Something like a third to half of men from the silent generation and boomer generation admitted to paying for sex while only 3-5% of millennials have, that’s why got the impression young clients are rare but it appears millennial men are just bigger liars :).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 03:26 AM
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I’ve heard from other sex workers in the past they are rare but maybe that is because where they lived, I’ve also seen statistics that suggest so, but maybe perhaps young men are just less willing to admit they seen a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 03:06 AM
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If they thought they were ugly they would try to change, but men rarely try to diet and are more obese then women. Edit: I just noticed most of your post history is you whining about no being able find slim women to date you. Dude you would be much better off taking your anger out on big agriculture and Pharma for allowing predatory companies to continue to stuff our food with high fructose corn syrup, added sugar and ultra processed food. That’s what causing everyone to get fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:54 AM
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Unfortunately, I am not humorless scold so no lectures will take place for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:49 AM
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Very beautiful people thanks for sharing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:47 AM
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How can men have such high standards if they are fat asses themselves lmao, you guys act as if only women are as fat as ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:43 AM
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Native people were never built to live on reservations that’s why there has been so much spiritual decline :/.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:35 AM
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Next I see guy on tinder joking about wanting a sugar mama I’ll be sure to lecture him on his unchecked entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:57 AM
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The emojis and haha at the end implies they are joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:26 AM
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Have any you actually talked to adults who were alive during the 50s? It was not this utopia as people make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:23 AM
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Damn, I thought she was taking another much needed one month hiatus.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:13 AM
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She was banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 12:42 AM
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Her comments always come across as thoughtful and well reasoned to me. I think posters here just get butt hurt because they expect this place to be safe space and circle jerk of their views and don’t want to be challenged. I had a guy accuse of being a pink pill feminist and man hater the other day simply because I actually took the time to address another posters argument by citing peer reviewed studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:54 PM
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Probably cause butt hurt ppd posters are constantly reporting her every comment and watching her every move like a wolf ready to pounce. I’ve seen many posters write way worse stuff then her and not get reprimanded.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:02 PM
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So you know better then me who has actually spent time with these guys one on one? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 10:55 PM
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They only seem to post during purge week, you can just tell this is the highlight of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 10:53 PM
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Their actions would be described as simpish it you saw what they were like with women one on one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 10:45 PM
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When they are with women alone they are. Just go online you can find tons of young gen z/millennial males who are trying to be edgy or are too immersed in hip hop culture tweeting things like, ‘she belongs to the streets’ or tweeting the Bible of misogyny memes, or talking smack about hoes n shit. I’ve talked to guys who tweet stuff like that one on one and they turn into the perfect simp gentleman as soon as we are alone. Most women realize this is just macho bravado men put on around other men…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 10:27 PM
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Lol, what makes poppy hateful? She usually tries to be fair and reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 10:20 PM
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That type of misogyny has been so normalized in popculture through rap music that most women probably don’t care anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 10:07 PM
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Hmmm, I wonder what posters like u/trethethrowaway or u/thejim66 or u/lounly would say in response to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:04 PM
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It’s it the clueless boomer 1970s male chauvinism misogyny or the incel radical Islamic ‘put women in rape camps’ misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:40 PM
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A traditional patriarchal society with high single mother rate doesn’t make any sense unless all the single mothers are widowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:29 PM
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Did you miss the point where I said I supported decriminalizing prostitution? I just pointed out one of the very real and statistically evident drawbacks to that is an increase in sex trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:22 PM
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same reason why most sex tourists are American. Well most of the sex tourist to my country are European and South East Asia that seems to be case as well. In general sex tourist tend to be from developed countries taken advantage of the economic privilege they have in developing nations. Italy has the highest number of international sex tourists in the world, says a leading organisation fighting child prostitution and sex trafficking. https://www.google.com/amp/s/skift.com/2013/06/06/italians-ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:08 PM
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Then what he is describing is not a patriarchal society in the traditional sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 07:49 PM
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Mexican Americans have a higher obesity rate then white Americans btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 07:48 PM
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The fact that males can actually abandon their children without too much of a financial burden Is there no social backlash to men leaving their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 07:29 PM
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I can’t find anything about that online. The proposal doesn’t appear to be popular or will go anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 06:31 PM
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There is no laws in Sweden regarding paper abortions it was suggested in 2016 by a party and hasn’t gone further then that. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paper_abortion#Sweden
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 06:17 PM
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Where are you getting this information from? I haven’t found it anywhere, just something from 2016 which outlines a proposal but nothing to suggest it has been considered or voted into law. In 2016, a regional branch of the Swedish Liberal Youth Party decided to support paper abortion for men until the 18th week of pregnancy, the time limit on abortions for women. The proposition was supported by some commentators, but not by the LYP's parent party. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paper_abortion…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 06:16 PM
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Boys by quite a bit whereas women have no strong preference either way, an equal number prefer boys to girls or vice versa. If gender selective abortions where to become fashionable again we have a good idea based on that statistic which gender parents would choose to abort more, this trend is already well documented in developing countries like China and India.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:59 PM
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Now, will legal prostitution change the SMP? I think it will in the sense that there will be less ultra thristy men giving women free validation as much. Hate to tell you this, this still happens a lot in countries with legal prostitution that was the entire point of my post and I have had first hand experience with it. It seems countries where prostitution is well tolerated, do have a considerable amount of men that have used them. The only countries where prostitution is widespread among men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:52 PM
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This ironically may happen in modern day as more and more women seem keen on aborting their male children to own the patriarchy (kek xD). Where you getting this from because most studies show that women unlike men by and large don’t have a strong gender preference, some studies show they prefer girls by a slight majority, others show they prefer boys. There is nothing to suggest women would mass abort their male babies if they could. https://news.gallup.com/poll/236513/slight-preference-having-b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:34 PM
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I find that hard to believe that’s just being propped by a small pool of older guys or married men who are cheating on their spouses like you implied. I am not basing this number off of surveys but from what sex workers themselves have told me and that is clients under the age 35 are rare. The size of the sex industry in Germany and America likely has to do with them both being sex trafficking hotspots due to sharing borders with poorer countries and having a decent size tourist industry. Notice…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:22 PM
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I didn’t say a small minority of men use it or nobody use it, I said the majority of men don’t pay for sex. Using the industry amount to prove they do is dumb because drugs are also a billion dollar industry despite the fact the majority of people don’t use drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:23 PM
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Not at all, you could have made the same arguments for strip clubs or pornstars but they actually have too many women. Pornstar managers have multiple females reaching out to them, not the other way around. Once it's legal you'd be surprised how much business they'd get. I don’t know much about the porn industry or strip clubs but the point about sex trafficking increasing in countries with legalized prostitution is true. https://orgs.law.harvard.edu/lids/2014/06/12/does-legalized-prostitution-i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:32 PM
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I’ve dated plenty of obese and overweight men before my weight loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:23 PM
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I’m not sure how that counters my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:18 PM
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From what I remember reading prostitution laws in Germany are the most liberal in Europe, astute capitalist businessman are just taking advantage of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:17 PM
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You know why? Because single woman is shamed, single mothers are shamed and are useless in the eyes of men, Which part of Eastern Europe you live in because Eastern Slavic states have a high single motherhood rate. To sum up the contextual framework, single-mother families are widespread in Lithuania, nearly every fourth family with children is headed by a single mother. The country is among the forerunners in the EU according to the widespread of this family arrangement, which has been in place…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:09 PM
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I remember reading a statistic that 38% of American wives out earn their husbands, do you know what the statistics are in Russia or Eastern Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:02 PM
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The problem with prostitution is not really a moral issue, I have no problem with consenting adults paying for sex. The issue with prostitution is a supply and demand one, there are far more people willing to pay for sex then those willing to provide it, sex trafficking helps fill that gap, which is why countries with legalized prostitution have higher rates of trafficking. Like I said in my post the issue with sex work which is why most men will never feel satisfied by it, is most of the women …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:57 PM
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Based on this video about Russian dating, it would appear men are expected to pay for everything, despite the fact that Russian women like their western counterparts have a high workforce participation rate and higher college enrollment attendance rates then their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:44 PM
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You realize all these women get STRETCHED by these men right? By and large they don’t hence why the women complain about the men’s behavior online. If they welcomed it they wouldn’t be complaining. Men hit on the tourists exactly because they are so easy to fuck. Just because a woman rejected some dude doesn't mean that another didn't spread her legs for him Did you miss the point about native women complaining as well? Any women who has traveled will tell you the thirstiest men are in India, No…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:39 PM
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The point isn't that there are no dudes like that in those countries, it's how many of them there are. In those countries it's much rarer compared to western Europe countries and the men are more likely to be players. How would you know? You don’t date the men. Just because a guy likes to portray himself as a ‘player’ or ‘ladies man’ doesn’t suddenly make him not an annoying sex pest in the eyes of women. If these were all just smooth players seducing willing women you wouldn’t have hundreds of …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:27 PM
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In the countries you speak of, the men aren't thirstier, they are bigger players. Hitting on chicks doesn't mean that the man is thirstier. Well depends on what you mean by thirsty. If giving unsolicited compliments to women online or in public makes you thirsty, then they are thirstier. If by thirsty you mean persistently asking women out on dates and paying they are just as thirsty. If by thirsty you mean putting up with bad behavior from women just to get laid, then they are just as thirsty. …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:15 PM
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If you mean by simping such as paying women compliments and buying them things then Southern Europeans, and Middle Eastern are the biggest simps, Hispanic are a close second but often are too poor to show off money wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:05 PM
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In countries where you have legalised prostitution, there's less entitlement from women and a much more egalitarian society Even in countries where prostitution is legalized you still have men bitching and moaning about how entitled women are etc online. I have first hand experience with this. Italy, Germany etc all have their own incel subculture: In the Italian incelosphere all users have a strong belief that Italy is the worst place for men and italian women are the most selective and narciss…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:03 PM
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Even when rape was re-define to also include "Forced to pentrate", men were still committing 77% of the rapes. Out of curiosity do you have the study that shows this? I would be interested in reading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 08:07 AM
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This is a debate sub if you want a circle jerk sub where no one ever questions the validity of your beliefs you are in the wrong sub, simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:54 AM
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domestic violence is largely reciprocal and generational, not man aggressor, woman victim. Nope: Research that shows approximately equal rates of dating and domestic violence by men and women has been used to challenge the priority given to services for abused women. This article reviews the scientific evidence for gender equality in rates of lethal and nonlethal intimate partner violence. Among the problems noted in studies showing gender equality are the ways in which questions about violence …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:33 AM
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Boy Scouts started admitting girls as a financial decision had nothing to do with feminism, they were going bankrupt and losing members after they were sued for covering up child rape committed by their scout leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:58 AM
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I’ll let my boyfriend know what mean nasty man hater I am 😜.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:42 AM
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LOL, that’s a good story you have put together there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 05:21 AM
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Do I have to continue Nope, I enjoy getting the last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 04:55 AM
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These stats quite literally don't refute anything the OP in the thread said, Just say you don’t like the stats because it contradicts your narrative, everything cited is peer reviewed and well sourced. Op claimed: That's because it's ignored when women do it. Look at all the examples of older teachers sleeping with their adolescent students and not being punished at all. I posted study showed it is not ignored in fact it gets a much more media attention. If you bothered to read the other study y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 04:36 AM
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I have made a point to quote and link every data point I posted. I’ll do it again for you: 1. Nearly 30 percent of the articles posted under FoxNews.com’s “Sex Crimes” category between July and December were focused on female teachers, with many of them promoted near the top of the site’s home page. Gilligan of the Center for Sex Offender Management — a project organized by the Department of Justice that was cited in FoxNews.com’s alarm-sounding article in June — said she was not aware of any da…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 02:48 AM
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Something like 1 in 4 domestic murders are upon males, but, unsurprisingly, all your focus is on the women. I’m focusing on women because you made the claim most women who are murdered are abusers implying they had it coming. That contradicts data that shows women are at their most vulnerable and increase risk of being murdered by a spouse when they leave them. Shocking. DV is also highest in lesbian relationships. According to the cdc, over 30% of lesbians name male only perpetrators: “For exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 01:57 AM
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I’m guessing you got nothing to refute the data 😊, it’s ok that has happened before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 01:24 AM
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1/3 of men aren’t sexless. The statistic says 27% men between the ages 18-24 haven’t had sex within the past year, the raw percentage is 23% but GSS scales are weighted thats why percent they published is higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 07:55 AM
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1/3 of men aren’t sexless. The statistic says 27% men between the ages 18-24 haven’t had sex within the past year, the raw percentage is 23% but GSS scales are weighted thats why percent they published is higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 07:55 AM
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33% of men aren’t virgins where are you getting those statistics from?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 12:50 AM
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I literally wrote: Ok must of missed it but here are the states they collected the data from: Data collection began in 2003 with Alaska, Maryland, Massachusetts, New Jersey, Oregon, South Carolina, and Virginia. Six additional states were added in 2004 (Colorado, Georgia, North Carolina, Oklahoma, Rhode Island, and Wisconsin) fol- lowed by Kentucky, New Mexico, Utah, and four California counties in 2005. https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Sharon_Smith19/publication/254097424_Sexual_Homicide_an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 11:43 PM
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So you are assuming that all the women in jail for drug charges have actually committed violent offenses but the judges let them plea to only drug related charges. Do you have evidence of this because the fact of the matter is statistic after statistic shows the majority of women are in jail for nonviolent offenses and committed no other offenses that would warrant them being charged with assault. Women unlike men are less likely to resist arrest which would result in a physical altercation like…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 10:45 PM
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Again without context that number is meaningless. Over a 4 year span in a country with a population of what, 330 million-ish, and a 1.1% death rate per year, 71 deaths out of 3.6 million per year sounds pretty small to me. Are you missing the fact that this data only covers 17 states? They are also underreported because some states don’t classify crimes that fall under that definition as sex related homicides. Yeah, I'm not sure why you are so fixated on this. Lust murders and rape murders are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 10:16 PM
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Being imprisoned for a non-violent offense is more lenient than being imprisoned for a violent offense. That doesn’t make any sense. You think sending someone to jail for possessing heroin is more lenient then sending someone to jail for stabbing someone. How are you coming to this conclusion exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:26 PM
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What’s your assertion? Why are women more likely to be imprisoned for non violent offenses versus men if the justice system is more lenient on them? Only 35% of women in prison are serving time for violent crimes versus 53% of male prisoners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:07 PM
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There was barely any controversy, he didn’t apologize and got glowing reviews from critics and audiences alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:05 PM
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Close observation. The power of close observation often looks like ESP to those unaccustomed to it, but really it’s just hyper-close observation. People are little different than newspapers to particularly conscious observers. So by the power of close observation you are able to know with absolute certainty that the women making a small friendly chat with a male stranger in a neutral setting are only doing so not to be friendly but because they secretly want to manipulate him. As I said previous…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:03 PM
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Gotten into trouble by getting a 20 million dollar Netflix comedy deal and going on to release three other Netflix specials afterwards while having a flourishing comedy career where he is allowed to book events wherever he wants? Getting into trouble must mean something different nowadays then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:21 PM
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I don’t actually, people have not been able explain in several posts why extreme sexual crimes such as lust murders or rape murders(where the rapist kills their victim after raping them) are mainly perpetrated by men if men and women commit equal number of sex crimes. In my home country of Colombia a serial killer named Pedro López raped and murdered over 300 girls a lone(police were able to link him to 110 rapes and murders.)Another serial killer in my home country Daniel Camargo Barbosa raped …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:17 PM
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I never said that. They most certainly can, they just typically don’t. How do you know? Can you read their minds or something? Likely because you are not paying close attention. Flying is a completely different experience for men whom women find particularly attractive than for your average man. Like I said, it’s almost embarrassing at times. Mostly it’s a lot of small things like free alcoholic drinks, extra blankets and pillows, a little extra and extra warm attention, but not altogether infre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:35 PM
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No not really you still seem rationalizing why men on anonymous fbi surveys overwhelmingly name male perpetrators as their assailants. Murder is a good proxy for violence if the overwhelming majority of men are murdered by men why would it not make sense for that pattern to extend towards other crimes? You also seem to insist that videos you see on internet which can be cherry picked are better evidence then actual statistics. Tbh 90% of fight videos I see on the web are men fighting each other …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:10 PM
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Well if you look solely at murders between men and women, men are more likely to murder women then the other way around. https://i.imgur.com/imUU5Mv.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:40 PM
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All this aside, are violence rates going up? Yes: A new report, by the Council on Criminal Justice, found homicides have increased sharply this year across 21 US cities with relevant data: “Homicide rates increased by 42% during the summer and 34% in the fall over the summer and fall of 2019.” Other data, from crime analyst Jeff Asher, found murder is up 36 percent throughout the year so far, compared to the same period in 2019, in a sample of 51 US cities. A preliminary FBI report also found mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:27 PM
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But our society has tempered men's violent tendencies and enabled women's violent tendencies. Then why has violent crime committed by men risen recently? Why has there been a explosion in the last decade in the number of mass shootings?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 03:43 PM
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Not very logical considering the fact that women are at their most vulnerable to being murder when they leave their significant other. Why would a man kill his abuser that’s leaving him? Research has found that a large proportion of uxoricide cases follow on from the male believing that his female intimate partner has been unfaithful or the female partner attempting to end the relationship. Research has shown that females often experience increased abuse following the termination of a relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 02:37 PM
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Rape and murder are two separate crimes Nope some are connected, I’m primarily talking about lust murders where the perpetrators derived erotic pleasure from killing their victim or sexually abusing their corpse think Ted Bundy or Jeffrey Dahmer or Mikhail Popkov and rape-murders where the perpetrator kills their victim after raping them, like this. For more information and statistics on lust murders read this and more statistics on rape-murders read this Men also underreport sexism crimes compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 01:54 PM
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If they are being imprisoned for less heinous crimes... how is it NOT being more lenient on them? That is what lenient means... If they were more lenient they wouldn’t send them to prison for committing non violent offenses in the first place, if a student forgets turn in his home work is sent detention along with a student who attacked their teacher, they may have both broke the rules so they are sent to the same place but one offense was more severe then the other. Even the links you linked st…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 12:34 PM
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No. I have no doubt the VERY small number of exceptionally heinous cases are committed by men. That doesn't prove that men/women commit sexual assault at dissimilar numbers. Except they are not small, between 2003-2007 there were 285 sexually motivated homicides in 17 states alone. An 18-year-old White woman was abducted by two suspects (one man and one woman) and taken to a hotel where she was repeatedly sexually assaulted, beaten, and strangled. Her body was found in a dumpster. The suspects w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 12:16 PM
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I'm pointing out that as women are seen as more independent they will correspondingly be seen as more responsible and the judicial system will be less lenient. Considering the fact that women are more likely to be imprisoned for non violent offenses then men, it would appear the justice system is not more lenient on them. Oh and it looks like your link has locked copy/pasting... so I'm not even going to bother with it. Neither link I used are behind paywall: http://law.ku.edu/sites/law.drupal.ku…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 11:46 AM
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There is strong link between sexual violence and homicides: Sexual violence is linked to homicide in a variety of ways. In this study the authors analyzed narratives that described the homicide circumstances of 285 homicide victims from 17 states who participated in the National Violent Death Reporting System during 2003-2007. The authors discuss a narrative analysis conducted using qualitative methods that revealed four categories of homicide linked to sexual violence, in addition to classic se…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 11:22 AM
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How is it feminism fault for draconian drug laws exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 11:17 AM
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The rising incarcerate rate for women is almost entirely driven by the war on drugs. Women are more likely to be imprisoned for non violent offenses then men. Over the past 20 years the war on drugs has caused significant rise in the number of women incarcerated and their access to adequate drug treatment. 40% of criminal convictions leading to incarceration of women in 2000 were for drug crimes 34% were for other non-violent crimes such as burglary, larceny, and fraud 18% of women in prison hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 10:56 AM
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That's because it's ignored when women do it. Look at all the examples of older teachers sleeping with their adolescent students and not being punished at all. Most people caught having sex with their students are actually male the ones involving female just get more media attention: Another offender characteristic that has been investigated is that of gender. For example, in their search of sexual misconduct on behalf of educators, Jennings and Tharp (2003) searched educator sexual misconduct p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 10:34 AM
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Research that shows approximately equal rates of dating and domestic violence by men and women has been used to challenge the priority given to services for abused women. This article reviews the scientific evidence for gender equality in rates of lethal and nonlethal intimate partner violence. Among the problems noted in studies showing gender equality are the ways in which questions about violence are framed, exclusion of items about sexual abuse and stalking, and exclusion of separated couple…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:57 AM
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Murders aren’t self reported, a dead body is a dead body, why are 90% of people who commit lust homicides or kill their victims after raping them men if men and women commit an equal number of sex crimes? Females were more likely than males to be the victim of intimate killings (63.7%) and sex-related homicides (81.7%) (table 5).  Males were more likely to be involved in drug- (90.5%) and gang-related homicides (94.6%). The relationship between the victim and the offender differed for female an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:46 AM
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No, men are just more likely to kill their victims after raping them or kill for sexual pleasure, that’s why 90% of lust homicides are committed by men. Females were more likely than males to be the victim of intimate killings (63.7%) and sex-related homicides (81.7%) (table 5).  Males were more likely to be involved in drug- (90.5%) and gang-related homicides (94.6%). The relationship between the victim and the offender differed for female and male victims  Female murder victims (41.5%) were …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:34 AM
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They are definitely more likely to murder someone after raping them that’s why 90% of lust homicides are committed by men, mostly straight men.  Females were more likely than males to be the victim of intimate killings (63.7%) and sex-related homicides (81.7%) (table 5).  Males were more likely to be involved in drug- (90.5%) and gang-related homicides (94.6%). The relationship between the victim and the offender differed for female and male victims  Female murder victims (41.5%) were almost …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:32 AM
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He enjoyed the manipulation because it made him feel like a human being (and therefore made him less of a potential threat) - which was exactly its purpose So do you think women can never interact with men in neutral social setting without being manipulative? Not every women has some type of secret motivation behind everything they do, they could be making small talk with the taxi driver because they are a talkative person and genuinely enjoy talking with others. I know that is case for me. From…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:13 AM
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Yeah he got into trouble for that. Not enough to seriously affect his career, he literally has a 20 million dollar contract with Netflix and went on to make another Netflix special after this, getting glowing reviews and ratings from audiences in both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:03 AM
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show me where a man has done this about the brutal mutilation of women and crowds of men cheered Sure In his previous Netflix special, Dave Chappelle makes a rape joke. He tells a story about a fictional superhero who only has powers if he can touch vaginas. No woman will let him just touch their vagina of course. “So he rapes them” Chappelle jokes. That’s it. Rape is the punchline. The audience bursts into laughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:31 AM
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Does the existence of the patriarchy or men’s rights movement suddenly make sexist jokes against men on twitter unacceptable? The fact is these jokes are widespread and have been used in real life by men to assault women, like in the video I just posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 07:49 AM
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Best case scenario is that they treat them as if they are in invisible. Interesting, I had a taxi driver a middle aged man of immigrant background tell me he prefers female customers because they are more likely to make small talk with him. Your explanation isn’t really clear to me, are you claiming women treat their male coworkers, family members etc as invisible or you talking about strangers? Because I can tell you as a mid twenties female I have never received this special treatment from mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 07:13 AM
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So is 'kill all men'. Therefore, as a dude, I should get all my Ps in a B over this? Not as prevalent as ‘the Bible of misogyny’ or ‘she belongs to the streets’ nor has been popular videos of a group of women shouting that phrase while attacking a man. So you tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:59 AM
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These memes are not criticized by the media and are very prevalent on Twitter, if you don’t believe me just type in ‘the Bible of misogyny’ or ‘she belongs to the streets’ on twitter. There was even a popular but disturbing tiktok video based on the meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:56 AM
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Nope they in fact become popular twitter accounts. Just take a look at Lizzo she was harassed off Twitter early this year and there tons of highly updated comments celebrating it some even telling her to kill her self and posting joke memes of her. It’s really funny to me how guys on here get really butt hurt about ‘men are trash’ memes on twitter but have nothing to say about the future bible of misogyny memes that are popular on Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:58 AM
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Because women treat men that they don’t find attractive disdainfully. In what ways? Given that it’s the belief of trp posters that women don’t find the vast majority (80%) of men attractive, you believe women treat 80% of men in their daily life who range from their coworkers, friends, family, taxi drivers, cashier, boss, friends spouse etc with disdain?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:49 AM
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The sentiment in his comment is a common talking point on here just watered a bit and dressed up in better language.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:43 AM
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I can go on twitter and find loads of comments from men saying the same thing about fat women or flat chested women or women over 30. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:41 AM
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It’s not about his relationship with women who are friends, family, coworkers. It’s strictly about women who he wants to form sexual relationships with. Then why is he applying his generalization to all women? Clearly if he had meaningful relationships with women outside of sexual or romantic sphere he would realize that the idea women want to genocide all men they find physical unattractive to be absurd since a large portion of the male population that women develop relationships with fit that …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:32 AM
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How would you respond to the following statement: I would think that person is crazy and I say that as formerly overweight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:29 AM
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Wanting to genocide a whole population implies you hate them, if you were indifferent towards them you would ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:27 AM
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A man beating the shit out of a woman needs a disclaimer that this program contains graphic violence. You sure about that? Linz and Donnerstein conducted a study on the way viewers reacted to sex combined with violence in slasher films, and found that "Studies show that pleasant, mildly arousing sex scenes that are paired with graphic violence can be expected to diminish aversive reaction to violence in the long run." [36] The combination of sex and violence is shown to grab viewers' attention, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:23 AM
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Family doesn't count and many times it can be exploitative. Plenty of daughters only appreciate their dads as far as his wallet Funny I’ve worked with older people who’ve complained about their freeloading children, the majority of the time those children were their sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:13 AM
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There are plenty of women that try to use their male coworkers for their benefit though so yes plenty of exploitation there. In what ways are they exploiting them? To exploit someone is to selfishly take advantage of them for your own benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:03 AM
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So women valuing their friendships with a male coworker or valuing their relationships with their father are exploitative?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:50 AM
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Again that’s just seems to be your belief, the fbi would consider that assault and a victim would have the chance to anonymously fill out a survey describing their attacker without judgement since everything is anonymous and only used to collect statistics. Under the fbi definition the one used by NCVS, what you are describing would be classified as simple assault, something if you bothered to read their survey they do track a long with other violent crime. This is their definition: Other assaul…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:47 AM
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So you never had a female friend do something unprovoked nice for you or a female boss help you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:41 AM
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Under the fbi definition that is considered assault and over 135,000 victims every year have the ability to fill out the survey anonymously, where they can name their attackers race, gender, and ethnicity with no problems. The fbi’s NCVS is very important since it tracks crime not reported to the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:36 AM
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Men require validation from women so whenever they get told "No" It's like a rejection of their character and their appearance because that 'no' basically translates too: See this is where I am a little confused, why do guys on here seek validation from women because many have made it clear that not only don’t like women as a whole on a personal level but would not even bother with with them if it weren’t for their sex drives. The whole thing seems to be about sex, even with in*els, the only rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:28 AM
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I think it's a projection of their own self-hatred Not only self hatred but like I said in another comment, I think they are also projecting their feelings of only viewing the opposite sex as useful for their sexual utility onto women. Most women value their non sexual and romantic relationships with the opposite sex, a lot men especially ones on here don’t. They project those feelings into women that’s why they think all women hate non ‘chad’ looking men, they think we only value the opposite s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:19 AM
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Do you think this type of thinking you are describing comes from the fact that men only valuing romantic and sexual attention from women? Many men on here have made it clear that don’t value women as friends, mentors or even companions but only as sex objects. Since they believe sex is the only worthwhile thing women offer, they measure their relationship with the opposite sex through the prism of their sexual conquests and project this thinking on to women. The comment I posted in the op is a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:04 AM
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Reading that particular posters posting history, I don’t think it’s hyperbole at all, and that they genuinely believe this. He is not the first person I’ve seen on here express the same general sentiment, which is women hate men they aren’t romantically or sexually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 03:42 AM
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I understand the point about wanting to be desired but to equate a woman not wanting to have sex with you or date you to be mean she wishes death upon you seems to a huge leap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 03:36 AM
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Give examples The comment in the op, he thinks women want to genocide all short and ugly men and don’t view them as human. How is that not hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 03:33 AM
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The crime victimization surveys crimes not reported to the police btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 03:27 AM
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She kinda of right though, if this is really the survey people keep citing to claim there is an epidemic of sexless among young men, then the sample size for the survey in my opinion is too small to have any statistical power. I would like to see the same survey conducted on a larger sample size preferably something between 10,000-25,000 young people, maybe it will show the same results or maybe not, I just think it would yield more accurate results.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 09:29 AM
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Apparently, a lot ppd users in addition to knowing the intimate details of the sex lives of complete strangers, also have supernatural powers which tells them that every women holding hands with a non chad in public is only with him for money, or because their 30th birthday is around the corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:47 AM
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The real question is, how do so many ppd users know the intimate details of the sex and romantic lives of complete strangers to make broad generalizations about who's fucking who, the attractiveness of the people they are fucking or refusing to date etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 06:45 AM
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Won’t work It’s already working, US farm industry would collapse without immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 05:29 PM
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Not a dog whistle, immigrants are vital for this very reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 05:28 PM
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If too many men start dropping out of society in masses like you are suggesting, then the government and corporations will just start importing more people from the developing world to take their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 04:41 PM
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Everyone capable of violence, but it is a statistical fact that men committ murder and violence at higher rates then women, we know this because statistics are the same in every country in that men make up 90% of murderers. What is rare is lone female murderers who act alone, the majority of women who commit murder usually act with an accomplice typically a male. https://mobile.twitter.com/SteveStuWill/status/1021350296239292422
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 04:17 PM
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It’s almost like it’s human nature or something and not a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 03:27 PM
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Guys hate it when girls do that to them, that doesn’t stop them from generalizing women based on the actions of a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 03:09 PM
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There are men who do that but make up a minority, the majority of men at least in the US and Europe don’t cold approach strange women, the minority who do tend to be annoying about it which is why women complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 02:56 PM
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My home country personally is in Latin America, the other countries I am referring to are Scandinavian ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 02:49 PM
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However, I also don't think approach means the same to both parties. Men on here often seem to be talking about cold approaching strangers, whereas most women I know would rarely do that but are perfectly comfortable making the first move with someone they already know. This is such a good point, what do people here mean by ‘approaching’ because you are right I’ve known plenty of women make the first move as in confess their crush to a friend or ask out a coworker etc, but go up to a complete st…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 02:37 PM
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The argument that women only approach men out their league seems to be so subjective that unless you have personally witnessed this hundreds of times it seems to be something you are making an assumption on, because it’s not although men only hit on women in their ‘league’ so why should women exactly? As for the other points, women approach men all the time, I’ve worked in a bar setting before and seen it personally. How often they do it depends on culture, in my home country women never approac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 02:25 PM
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A lot women are already do approach men, every time I hear these arguments it always seems to come down to ‘women should approach me!’ With the op assuming because women don’t approach him they never approach men in general when in actuality it’s probably the case that women don’t want to approach him so they act like women never approach in general or if they do it’s only to men out of their leagues. I guess that’s a better way to cope with the fact that no women finds you appealing enough to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 02:18 PM
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Whatever ways they are making money they aren’t making much, sex work is not profitable trade unless you exclusively have a high end clientele, that’s one of the reasons why the vast majority of women won’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 10:22 PM
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Anyone who works in this economy is getting a taste of ‘80/20’ rule, have you heard of income equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 11:22 AM
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The average sex worker on only fans isn’t making much: The top accounts make something like $100,000 a month (these aren't in my sample). The median account makes $180 a month. The top 1% of accounts make 33% of all the money. The top 10% of accounts make 73% of all the money. There are a select few at the top who make decent money, don’t let these viral Twitter or social media post fool you into thinking it’s everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 09:33 AM
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I really haven’t to be honest. What I notice is people tend to hookup and date people within their social group, so I haven’t noticed a big difference between the men my friends hookup with and the ones they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 11:42 PM
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It still doesn’t prove his hypothesis right, that’s just his inference from the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 10:13 PM
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It seems to me you were saying that men will not be open up emotionally because they are worried about women’s judgment, however men can open up with each other without having to worry about women judging them. You can easily talk with your male friends about your problems and open up emotionally without the presence of women. If opening up emotionally is something men are so against because of women are mean about it it seems like the easy solution is to turn to male friends for emotional suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 09:28 PM
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No where does he prove less women are marrying because of less economically attractive men, he just used demographic statistics to infer there are less marriageable men by his definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 09:25 PM
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Well then shouldn’t we be working to chang male culture to make it acceptable to be emotionally vulnerable with one another? You get two wins, get to open up to somebody without worrying about evil women lurking in the background ready to emotionally blackmail you. Let’s make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 06:16 PM
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That’s not how friendship ideally should work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 06:13 PM
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Well as long as many people view sex as something that corrupts women this over idealization of virgin women will exist. Virginity in women is fetishized often because they are viewed as more ‘child like’ or ‘innocent’ thus easier for men to mold as they think because she hasn’t been any other men before she’ll be easier please and her romantic/sexual standards will be lower. I’ve even seen comments by redpillers on here that have said that virgin/low n count women are an exception to the AWALT …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 06:27 AM
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I find the obsession with female virginity to be odd at times to but everyone is entitled to their own preferences or standards. What I find telling is how some of the men who proclaim to have this preference don’t just seem content to find a suitable woman who meets their needs, but also seem to want to punish the women who don’t live their lives in accordance to their sexual or romantic preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 06:18 AM
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How does that back it up at all? This is just one researchers hypothesis based on his own definition of what makes a man marriageable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 06:08 AM
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The redpill is no more right about female nature then radical feminist are right about male nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 05:15 AM
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If your talking about torture, then according to this forensic psychologist the worse torturers on a scale of evil are usually male. https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=129175964
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 07:56 PM
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Why can’t men be open and emotionally vulnerable with their male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 07:49 PM
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You act as though women don’t contribute anything to the finances of their household, when on average contribute 40% or more of the financial earnings of a household, so no the money is not all his.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 07:04 PM
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Does the study make a difference between trimming or completely shaving it bald, because in my experience most men will trim their body hair but rarely shave all of it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 06:02 PM
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millennial men are the first generation of men that actually shaves their pubic hair as a majority. Do they? That hasn’t been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 05:53 PM
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This hasn’t been my experience at all, its not men who are making appointments to get their private parts waxed every month.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 05:05 PM
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Both men and women can and do cruel things to each other but imo, the cruelty men inflict on women is often worse then the cruelty women inflict on men. I like reading true crime and still haven’t come close to finding a story about a group of women inflicting the type of torturous murder on a man like was the case with Junko Furuta.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 11:08 PM
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Both subreddits can be toxic in different ways, but fds is less bad imo, for the simple fact that they actually acknowledge at times that there are good men out there outside of those who don’t live their lives in accordance to their dating preference. I remember seeing a highly upvotes post of their subreddit of them praising a male firefighter for saving a bunch an animals. You would quite frankly never see a post on any manosphere related subreddits praising women for doing anything outside o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 09:06 PM
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I find it weird too tbh. I especially find the self proclaimed bachelors for life redpill/mgtow posters who bash women for not wanting to get married or have kids, to be curious; since they should be happy these women have the same life goals as them as it makes dating easier for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 03:07 PM
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Childless women are actually more likely to marry men with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 05:24 PM
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Do people realize that single men with kids exist to and not every single mother has an ex that isn’t in the picture? Most single parents get married or remarried to other single parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 04:01 PM
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Exactly. Why do men assume because women don’t approach them, that means women as a rule don’t approach men. Maybe they just don’t want to approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 04:34 PM
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I honestly wish women had as high of standards as people on here made them out to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 04:30 PM
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Last I checked on the data it was 18% vs 28%, so not 2-3x times like you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 03:35 AM
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So if someone was to go around and ask men if they would prefer to have sex with or date either a fit woman with an Instagram beach body who was employed and had her own place versus an obese unemployed woman who was still living with her parents, an equal number would choose the latter choice as much the former choice, is that what you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 03:27 AM
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You haven’t answered my question, do you think men in general prefer obese, unemployed women still living in their mothers basement? Does that sound like something that would be sexually enticing to the majority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 10:51 PM
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I am not sure what is the point of your comment. You can also easily find women in relationships with men who are fat, unemployed, or unattractive, yet people would still insist that women in general don’t prefer men with those characteristics. Are you really denying that men in general don’t prefer jobless obese women just because you know some in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 08:02 PM
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I looked at the article it said: 95% of Tinder users meet their matches within a week, who thought it would be so easy to secure a date? It does not specify 95% of women, but seems to imply that’s true for both men and women. It also doesn’t specify the source where they got that number from, for all we know this could be marketing, meant to trick potential users that they’ll have a really easy time finding someone off of tinder. According to the survey the article is based off, was conducted by…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 07:54 PM
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Those men prefer jobless, obese women or was that the best they could get and they settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 07:44 PM
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Curious where did you get that stat from?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 07:36 PM
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How many men do you know are sexually attracted to jobless, obese women that live in their mother’s basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 07:33 PM
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Most couples don’t meet online the plurality do, about 39% of couples said they meet online, 20% said through friends and 27% said they meet a bar/restaurant, 11% at work etc. However, the study mentions that people often checked multiple ways how they meet their current spouse which is why the numbers listed don’t add up to 100%. So it's a safe assumption to make that they meet through social media. It's also very easily observable to young people :P It’s pretty much just guessing or speculatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 07:19 PM
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It would be interesting to see if that study you are talking about specifies how couples are exactly meeting online. They don’t really say so in the study they just briefly mention the different answers respondents gave. The coding of the “how did you meet” question coded as many categories as could be identified in every open‐ended response. None of the categories are mutually exclusive. Some respondents met online and met through friends, for instance if the friend had made the introduction on…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 06:45 PM
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Your link doesn’t breakdown the gender ratio by age bracket, mine also is more recent(October 2020).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 06:33 PM
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If you look at the 18-24, age group like my link does, there are more men then women. That statistic seems to be for the UK only while mine is worldwide statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 05:15 PM
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9:1 ratio is in fact more accurate, many dating sites employ fake bots because of the uneven gender ratio, just look up Ashley Madison. “In the US, Tinder users skew heavily male. As of December 2019 it was estimated that 78.1% of Tinder users were male, compared to 21.9% female, according to stats published on Statista. In the UK, it was estimated by Ogury that 85% of the online dating market was male, as of April 2019. This imbalance was even more pronounced among Tinder users, for which the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 05:01 PM
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There aren’t really more women then men on Instagram is practically even, and in the 18-24 age group there are more men then women. https://www.statista.com/statistics/248769/age-distribution-of-worldwide-instagram-users/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 04:49 PM
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That’s largely because parents also play a role in finding a suitable partner for their children when it comes to arrange marriages, and in a very class based society like India, your family name, caste, skin color etc, are important qualifiers to be seen as a suitable marriage prospect, things that don’t matter as much to Westerners when making formal decisions like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 03:16 AM
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How are thirsty men clogging up OLD sites and mass swiping on profiles, proof of hypergamy exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 08:27 PM
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Average man struggles with OLD, because most OLD sites have a skewed gender ratio, this has been repeated before but many posters here never take this into account. December 2019 it was estimated that 78.1% of Tinder users were male, compared to 21.9% female, according to stats published on Statista. In the UK, it was estimated by Ogury that 85% of the online dating market was male, as of April 2019. This imbalance was even more pronounced among Tinder users, for which the ratio was 9:1 in favou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:37 AM
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Marriage rates are actually pretty steady for college educated folks, they are just waiting longer to tie the knot again the decline is among the lower class: Half of U.S. adults today are married, a share that has remained relatively stable in recent years but is down 9 percentage points over the past quarter century and dramatically different from the peak of 72% in 1960, according to newly released census data. The decline in the share of married adults can be explained in part by the fact th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:18 AM
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How? When countries that have legal prostitution don’t see this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 08:53 PM
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How common are handsome men in rural areas? Didn’t see a single one every time I’ve visited one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 05:08 PM
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What the difference between beautiful and just attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 04:11 PM
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I already mentioned I think women still look better without makeup so..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 04:03 PM
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Have you ever read ppd before? This is not exactly a subreddit where you will find male posters sympathetic or understanding of your friends plight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 08:45 AM
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Either the op is trolling, or is completely oblivious to the fact that this is one of the worst subreddits to ask for advice for his buddy especially since he is limiting this question to men only.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 08:28 AM
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Marriage rates are lowering because people are waiting longer to get married. But the decline is mostly a class issue, college educated are still marrying, the decline has mostly been among the lower classes. Regardless statistics show most people male or female are coupled by their late twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 06:35 AM
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Post examples, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 05:19 AM
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This is their graph, where they differentiate whether couples meet online, or on dating apps. However, it’s important to note they only include dating sites in the phone app section if they were created after iPhones(2007) like tinder but not legacy dating sites like match.com which were created before iPhones(1995) that’s just included in their regular meet online section.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 05:00 AM
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My point is they aren’t large enough to skew the statistics that’s it and unless you have evidence that male obesity has surpassed female obesity because hundreds of thousands of muscular men are being classified as obese skewing the statistic, your math is just pure speculation and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 04:28 AM
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Do you agree that muscular men are a small percentage of the male population?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 04:21 AM
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If we factored in these men they wouldn’t change the overall obesity percentage for men that’s why I said it’s pointless bringing them up, anyone with eyes can clearly see obese men faaaarrr outnumber muscular men. I already showed even if we take your guest into account there are still more overweight and obese men then women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 04:13 AM
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This discussion is useless, those men aren’t common, and certainly do not play a role in why obesity is higher among men now then women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 04:07 AM
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There are not enough to skew the statistics. Men with bodybuilder bodies are not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:57 AM
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And those men make up a tiny percentage of the population and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:50 AM
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What do guys mean by settling in their prime? There is this meme posted ad nauseam on redpill forums about women not wanting to settle down when they are 30, (average age of first marriage is 27) and using the fact that people are marrying later as evidence. What is never taken into account is courtship periods, the period in which a couple dates before tying the knot are also longer. According to this statistic the average couple today spends a total 3.5 years together before tying the knot. Ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:47 AM
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I wish I knew them so I could tell them to stay far away from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:36 AM
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Yes, I’m sure bodybuilders are the reason why men have a higher obesity rate then women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:35 AM
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According to the study you linked the plurality of couples do meet online, about 39% of couples said they meet online, 20% said through friends and 27% said they meet a bar/restaurant, 11% at work etc. However, the study mentions that people often checked multiple ways how they meet their current spouse which is why the numbers listed don’t add up to 100%. I’ve read the study before, it’s important to note that meeting online does not equal meeting on dating apps like tinder. If you read the stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:30 AM
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I thought you were going to message me? Please remove their picture, they are not public figure so I don’t want freaks to use their picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:12 AM
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Just because you fail to witness such relationships, does not mean it is not prevalent. I’m not failing to see anything, statistically these types of couples are not common and they have highest divorce rates. Most men, mid 30s and above, posses that charm. Thus, they are able to bed young females. Why are moving the goal post? I’m talking about middle aged men not men in their mid thirties who are not middle aged, even then in most relations the man is only older by 2-3 years, large age gaps ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:04 AM
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Anyways, I just saw another thread that according to that latest cdc stats from 2018(the stats I posted are from 2013) show that men have a higher obesity prevalence then women now, I’m sure your going to say this is due to an explosion of 300 pound muscular men being classified as obese skewing the statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:00 AM
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It is not strange at all, could just be there are more overweight men, regardless my statistic still shows more healthy weight women then men even if we go by your guest. Muscular men are just not common your going to need to accept this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 02:23 AM
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Most middle age men, who are overweight, are obliterating young pussy on the regular because these women seek stability than anything else. Delusional, most middle aged men are not swimming in young pussy. The only ones getting young women are the rich ones, and the ones willing to trick(sugar daddies). I am a young women, the vast majority of women my age don’t want older men, ewww. And most middle age, single women, are rejected for their younger counterpart. The men may attempt to get with yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 02:21 AM
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I’ve been to plenty of rural areas and none of them festivals I went to were hippy ones. Didn’t see one muscular man, and most men I see doing intensive labor jobs are Hispanic who by in large tend towards the short, chubby and stocky side.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 02:16 AM
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So? Getting wrinkles is also natural doesn’t stop it from being unattractive. Balding is unattractive as are most middle aged men that’s why women rate being approached by a middle aged more negatively then they do simply an unattractive one. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/jgttj2/comment/g9tl5er?context=1
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 02:08 AM
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Healthy weight women outnumber healthy weight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 02:06 AM
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Why you keep bringing up muscular men when they make a small portion of men classified as overweight or obese is puzzling. Most men aren’t like that so why bring them up? Even if we go by your statistics there are still more overweight and obese men. Muscular and fit men are rare. Almost 3 in 4 men (73.7 percent) were considered to be overweight or have obesity; and about 2 in 3 women (66.9) were considered to be overweight or have obesity. So if we go by your guest, which is based on zero stati…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 01:59 AM
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There are not where’ve been, and even in where they aren’t common they still make up a significant portion of those working those types of jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 01:55 AM
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Sure send them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 01:52 AM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 01:51 AM
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Not in my experience, saw just as many overweight men as women, and most of the men working the labor intensive jobs were Hispanic, who were mostly chubby and stocky not muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 01:50 AM
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If you find men more attractive on average, it maybe because you like masculine features more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 01:49 AM
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Her finding men less attractive doesn’t make her anti male, maybe she likes feminine features more, plenty of people here like men’s more than women’s, I don’t think that makes them anti women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 01:48 AM
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I was in both Seattle and Portland and later went out to the rural areas for a festival and to visit an aunt. I repeat, I didn’t see one muscular man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 01:46 AM
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I’m not just going by BMI but real life, I already know the BMI sometimes classifies muscular men as obese, I am saying based on what I see in real life those men( muscular men classified as overweight) are not common. I rarely if ever see muscular men when I am walking in public, they are not common and certainly not common enough to skew statistics significantly. Overweight men outnumber them by aaaalllloooottt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 12:47 AM
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We already know most horn dogs aren’t picky about who they stick their dick in. Most of these guys usually aren’t great looking themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 12:44 AM
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Not sexual attraction necessarily but more appreciation for masculine features, women can have masculine features too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 12:43 AM
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If you went to the PNW and didn’t see one muscular man, you’re blind, unless by PNW you mean Seattle and Portland. I have open eyes, I didn’t see one muscular man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 12:40 AM
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90% of the time in short term relationships hookups/flings the man is more attractive to significantly more attractive by a decent margin than said woman. How do you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 12:07 AM
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but 3% of the men classified as such are are actually just muscular ( Where are you getting the 3% figure? BMI data shows more obese women. BMI also shows more healthy weight women. Muscular men aren’t common, they certainly don’t don’t outnumber thin women, so why do you keep bringing them up?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 12:06 AM
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In the rural West and Eastern inner cites very fit (and muscular) men are significantly more common than thin women. Using rural areas, which have a small and declining population is dumb, even then I don’t believe you, I’ve been to rural California and the Pacific Northwest, and New York, didn’t see one muscular man. I saw plenty of skinny women even if they were in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:57 PM
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If you find men more attractive on average, it maybe be because you find masculine features more appealing, I find feminine features more appealing which is why I think women are more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:49 PM
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On a BMI basis yes. But (as discussed) the BMI basis is predisposed to count particularly muscular people as overweight. Yes and muscular men make a small percentage of the US population, the vast, vast majority of men are fat not because of muscles, you see far more fat men with beer bellies then muscular ones. Far, far more. Noting here that the BMI scale does not have that same bias in the classification of obesity, and as a result shows more obese women than men in the US. The results also s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:44 PM
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I still think women are better without makeup as I find feminine(softer, rounder, neotenous) features more attractive and pleasant to look at,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:39 PM
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You see more men with bodybuilder builds then skinny women? I don’t believe you, muscular men aren’t common at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:37 PM
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Is there statistics that show this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:29 PM
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Muscular men aren’t that common to effect the general BMI percentage. Be honest which do you see on often, men with bodybuilder bodies or marine builds or skinny women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:19 PM
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I think across the board you are more likely to notice women that look better than their men because across the board women are the better looking gender. I think it depends if you find masculine features or feminine ones more attractive on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:14 PM
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I certainly see a decent number of couples where the guy is more attractive. There's definitely been times when I'd seen couples than thought the guy should be able to do a lot better, or maybe he has the personality of a cardboard box, and that's why he can't get his looks-match. Of course, I don't know if that's actually true about his personality. I’ve seen couples where it was the other way a around, where the woman was more attractive then the man. I really can’t understand people claiming …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:11 PM
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There are more healthy weight women then men so..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:03 PM
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Why do you think the men are the prettier one, do you find masculine features more attractive then feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:00 PM
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I’ve never heard that in real life tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 10:59 PM
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Why do you think the man is more attractive? Maybe you find masculine features more attractive then feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 10:57 PM
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They are substantially more common than fit women, however. Healthy weight women are more common then healthy weight men so no. On a day to day basis you see more skinny women then muscular men. Some not insignificant percentage of BMI “overweight” men are actually fit and solid (like pretty much every NFL player), virtually no women are, yet women are about as overweight as men and more obese. Those men are rare, muscular men aren’t common at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 10:54 PM
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That’s just one picture, and the guy is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 10:50 PM
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Really? Because I’ve seen men fetishize thick or overweight women but never the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 10:48 PM
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They really are not. Fat men far outnumbered fit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 10:47 PM
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Muscular men aren’t common at all, vast majority of men are fat because they eat too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 09:09 PM
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Hasn’t the obesity epidemic effected men too? I’ve been to the Midwest before and fit men are not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 09:08 PM
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Y'all gotta accept that male features are just kinda naturally ugly lol I wouldn’t say ugly, but women tend to have softer more rounded features likely due to having more neoteny, and people are attracted to neoteny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:52 PM
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I mean if this type of coupling is super common it should’ve hard to find examples of it, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:48 PM
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Post an actual couple for comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:37 PM
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That’s very true, I’m from Latin America and most people are slim too. Maybe if American food wasn’t filled to the brim with high fructose syrup, sugar, and ultra processed food wasn’t super cheap and available everywhere, people would be less fat. Almost all my relatives have gotten fat since immigrating here lol. Tbh Latin American countries are starting to get fat too since we started importing American food, Mexico is pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:30 PM
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Judging attractiveness by one photo, is dumb, I looked at multiple and I don’t think he’s drastically above her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:19 PM
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Nah, if you are not going post examples of super common or typical coupling it’s pretty useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:15 PM
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Ah, in that case, she's an actress and probably looks just fine if she isn't made-up to look kind of plain. The actress who plays her, America Ferrera would be considered unattractive whether she is dolled or not in my home country. Get real. I don't take pictures of random couples to win internet arguments. If this type of coupling is super common it should be hard to find examples of it on social media and other sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:10 PM
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Very strange that a coupling that is super common is hard to post examples of... hmmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:07 PM
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The example you posted is not that great since the guy in other photos I’ve looked up doesn’t look that handsome like in that one stock photo. He’s cute and attractive but I’m not seeing how he’s drastically above his gf lookswise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:04 PM
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Not much because since you are unwilling to post examples of a coupling you claim is super common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:01 PM
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The dude became a meme because of how photogenic and good looking he was in that photo. This girl also became a meme for the same reason, later guys were saying that didn’t look that hot in other pictures. Sometimes people can look good in one photo but not others. The chick is obviously less attractive than him. They aren't looksmatched. You see couples like that quite often. Not seeing it he’s cute but not above her drastically in attractiveness like you are claiming.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:53 PM
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I’m very observant, how hard is it to just post examples? Sometimes people have different observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:47 PM
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I do go outside, I live in a very large city and I like to people watch, I'm not seeing what posters here describe which is why I want examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:45 PM
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I said I pretty reasonable in my judgement, so post them, again shouldn’t be hard to find examples if they are super common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:41 PM
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The example of an unattractive woman is ugly Betty, in Latin America she is considered the archetype of a stereotypical example of an nerdy unattractive women. I do however see a lot of fit and basically alright looking dudes with obese and/or ugly women. Post examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:40 PM
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If these couplings are the norm they shouldn’t be hard to post an example of...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:38 PM
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You want me to go outside and start taking photos of every come couple I come across and post them here? No but if it’s the norm finding couples that fit that bill on social media like Instagram, tiktok whatever shouldn’t be hard, right? I think I’m pretty reasonable about how I judge both men and women attractiveness wise, so post some examples so I can judge. I can easily post examples of attractive women in relationships with average guys, so if it’s more common the other around, it shouldn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:35 PM
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That’s my experience too, but a lot of people on ppd says it’s the opposite men are always the better looking ones and handsome men with unattractive women is very common. I live in a large city and I like to people watch, so I’ve been paying extra attention to the couples I observe in public and I’m just not seeing this..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:31 PM
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Ok if it’s super common post examples of what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:28 PM
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The guys I know who I consider handsome all date pretty girls or girls who are at least cute. Same, even if the guy is better looking the girl is never unattractive by any means, but according to many on here this coupling of handsome men with unattractive women is super common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:26 PM
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The girl you posted is not unattractive and the guy is not that attractive. https://m.facebook.com/ZeddieLittle/photos/a.363516030357761/368001576575873/?type=3&source=54&ref=page_internal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:24 PM
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Back at university there was this really tall and attractive guy that could've been a model and his girlfriend was short, overw Can you post an example or this couple?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:20 PM
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Why is it depressing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:14 PM
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Post examples of such couples since they are normal or the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:10 PM
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I mean yeah, judging who muscular men date is hard to do when muscular men aren’t even common to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:08 PM
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It’s just rare that I see attractive middle aged men, even in my large city the overwhelming majority are fat, balding, and wrinkled. If they are better looking then their ladies it’s not by much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:08 PM
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Post examples so I can judge, I think I rate both men and women pretty reasonably.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:06 PM
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But don’t most men get fat after marriage too? Most middle aged men I see are balding and fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:03 PM
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A lot of ppd posters, in most heterosexuals relationships the man is the prettier one according to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:01 PM
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I don't think I have ever seen that IRL, only examples posted online. Same but I’ve seen multiple posters claim it’s super common where they live.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:59 PM
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Thing it’s not only women who get fat after marriage or old age. Most middle aged men where I live are balding with pot bellies, not seeing all these George Clooney lookalikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:55 PM
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think underemployed gym bro with a 6/10 college educated sugarmomma is decently common, but women are less likely to acknowledge those couples as the guy being “hotter” bc said gymbro is generally unstylish and low value unless you’re fucking him. Most likely it’s because seeing muscular men unless you live near a gym or a beach is not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:53 PM
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It's very common in big cities and young people. Interesting, I live in a very large city, never once seen this coupling, even among young people. Can you post examples of such couplings you see?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:52 PM
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No statistically he is right, it’s mainly poor women who end up single mothers. Plus 45% of single mothers were once married to the father, so it’s not just those who had a child out of wedlock: Having a college-educated mother is associated with a much higher chance that children live with two married parents. For children whose mother is college educated, 86% live with two married parents in 2018, down slightly from 2007 when it was 88%.2 In contrast, 60% of children with high-school educated …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 01:07 AM
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What? Christian Hogue’s ex gf is super hot not below him in attractiveness at all. https://www.instagram.com/p/CEkA0C2AdFu/?igshid=c7csb1nrjf1v
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 06:33 PM
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You cherry picked How did I cherrypick when I said: There also more healthy weight women then men so... And I am correct there are more women in the healthy BMI range then men. Just being “overweight” doesn’t matter. Especially because men who lift a lot are technically overweight too. Those men make a small percentage of overweight men and are usually bodybuilders, how many men do you see with bodybuilder bodies in a day to day basis? Very, very, very few. Vast majority of men are fat because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 05:58 PM
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Yep: Almost 3 in 4 men (73.7 percent) were considered to be overweight or have obesity; and about 2 in 3 women (66.9) were considered to be overweight or have obesity. https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity#:%7E:text=Almost%203%20in%204%20men,be%20overweight%20or%20have%20obesity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 02:31 AM
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I said there is already an intense focus on female obesity not enough attention is paid to male obesity. Btw, there are more healthy weight women then healthy weight men: Almost 3 in 4 men (73.7 percent) were considered to be overweight or have obesity; and about 2 in 3 women (66.9) were considered to be overweight or have obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 02:31 AM
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Nonsense, finding a attractive man that makes a good father and husband is not hard for most women, most of my friends have managed to do it. But I have feeling your definition of attractive for men is basically some male model that incels like to jerk off to that make up 1% of the male population not normal attractive men you see in everyday public settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 06:08 AM
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It would actually make things easier, since they know what is attractive to them. My point is everyone has a type, not everyone’s preference are the same, what’s attractive to some women may not be attractive to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 04:14 AM
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She can't get super looks and money from the same man, as that man would either just mate with many different women or choose a very high status wife. Plenty of attractive men who make good money and make good fathers, so she actually can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 04:10 AM
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You would be surprised I have friends who just flat out refuse to date certain races, ethnicities, skin tones etc of guys no matter how they look, they can’t bring themselves to find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 12:30 AM
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I guess it depends on where you live, most people in my home country agree that the women are definitely much better looking then the men on average, most foreigners agree too. I can’t recall ever in my life seeing a handsome man with a ugly woman but I have seen several cases where it’s the other way around. A lot of bisexual women I know say they find women more attractive on average too, it seems that women try more in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 11:10 PM
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There also more healthy weight women then men so...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 11:07 PM
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Casual sex does not only happen because they guy was so hot and instantly inspired animalistic lust in the women, sometimes it’s more likely they are both drunk and it’s the right place right time. I think somebody a while ago linked a study that showed there was a direct correlation tweet how much drinks were consumed on the first date and how likely the couple was to have sex, with each new drink consumed raising the chances by 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:48 PM
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If a trend is going in a certain direction based on statistics doesn’t that merit some consideration?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:36 PM
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Actually 38% of women out earn their husbands: In 38 percent of heterosexual American marriages, the woman outearns her husband. Although that’s a long way off from an even 50 percent, it’s a significant improvement on what the numbers looked like in 1987, when less than a quarter of women were the primary breadwinners in their families. https://www.google.com/amp/s/fivethirtyeight.com/features/how-many-women-earn-more-than-their-husbands/amp/ Also as I mentioned in my other comment to you, olde…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:26 PM
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Not really, since the data includes all ages and researchers note that casual sexual encounters that lead to relationships are more common among millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:08 PM
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A fourth to over a third of modern relationships started out as casual sex encounters, so alpha bucks are not rare by trp definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 06:46 PM
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As much of a fourth to over a third of modern relationships start out at one nightstands or fwb, so many women are in fact securing their alpha fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 06:43 PM
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Hahaha thanks for quoting my comment, but you seem to have conveniently leave out this part: Not all women will find the same 20% of men attractive too, believe or not some of us have different taste. I have friends who only find white or black guys attractive or who only like skinny guys or find guys with long hair attractive etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 06:41 PM
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I think average women pursue casual sex with men who are on average conventionally more attractive (taller, more muscular, better face, dominant ect) than the men they are actually able to get commitment from. So when they get married it is often to a guy who is a downgrade compared to the men they are used to having casual sex with. According to this study as many as one fourth to one third of modern couples started out as casual hookups or fwb: Match released their annual Single In America sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 06:35 PM
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A lot of more people I know had fathers step out on the family, that’s the case in my country at least. Many guys complain about child support, but don’t know the only reason it exists in the first place was to force more fathers to be in their child’s life so the state didn’t have to bare the coast. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 08:12 PM
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If men stopped fucking fat/chubby chicks would they lose weight? No because the issue of obesity is more complicated then how it relates to sex and dating. And as another poster pointed out, the fact that fat men get less play then fit men hasn't stopped male obesity rates from rising in recent years, so why would it be different for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 03:28 PM
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Stereotypes usually have some hint of truth to them. In my home country, if it wasn't for child support a lot of men would not even bother to make an effort to be in their child's life. Thats why there is a huge backlash brewing among the younger generation against macho culture, because having to grow up and watch your mom constantly stressed to the point of an emotional breakdown because dad decided Maria down the street had a nicer ass is not fun. Of course there are tons of wonderful fathers…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:45 PM
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The sexual revolution largely occurred because of the invention of the birth control pill, I don’t think welfare really had anything to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:20 PM
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Unlike in past decades, most out-of-wedlock births today—58 percent—are to cohabiting couples. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4648627/ And Recent estimates suggest that 62 percent of births to never-married women are to women in a cohabiting union (Lamidi, 2016). And A report published today by the Pew Research Center finds that 35 percent of all unmarried parents are now living together, up from 20 percent of unmarried parents in 1997. In 1968, the first time the government record…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:15 PM
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Or, the sexual revolution ended the widespread practice of shotgun weddings, and marriage lost its importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 04:28 AM
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For all you who think single mothers only exist because ‘muh big government’ and welfare: https://i.imgur.com/l4YKGDe.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:55 AM
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The number is 39% and you realize having a child out of wedlock doesn’t make you a single mother? Cohabitation exists: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/i5cmvl/the_decline_of_the_traditional_nuclear_family_in/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:47 AM
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I’ve actually have in the past because I am naturally a very chatty person, and I’ve mostly gotten cold one word responses. My conclusion has been that New Yorkers don’t like to be bothered by strangers. Maybe it’s different in other cities or states.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 02:38 AM
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I regularly make small talk with the elderly men and women on my bus drive to work. Everybody else is either buried in their phone, newspaper, half asleep or give off a don’t bother me vibe, especially now with COVID.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 01:57 AM
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I mean aren’t most people like that with strangers they don’t know in a social setting unless they give them a reason otherwise? I doubt most of the men I walk pass on a daily basis think or give shit about me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 01:09 AM
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I was clearly talking about body fat not muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 03:11 AM
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Trp doesn’t just aim their talking points at redpilled men, but what they call the average frustrated chump or beta makes, and revolve their ideology around the dating struggles of what they call the average man. Given that the average men is overweight boderlining on obese, it seems odd to me that isn’t used more as an explanation as to why some of the problems trp describes( feminization, lack of masculinity, why women find the average man unattractive etc). I never said obesity was the sole i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:29 AM
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Ok like I never said women with higher BMIs are more attractive then those with lower BMIs, but that you will find more people who find women higher than healthy BMIs attractive then male ones with no muscle mass. It seems like you agree so I don’t see the point in this conversation, I obviously was talking about slightly overweight women and chubby women vs overweight men and chubby men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 10:57 PM
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Only because there are particular groups of men who find fatter women attractive (or are not as repulsed by them as other men)—most of these men are sexually desperate though, and if they had more options would not be choosing really fat women. Doesn't matter, there are far more men like this then their female counterparts, which proves my overall point, women can get away with having a higher bmi and being seen as attractive. And I very much doubt all men who like bigger women are all desperate…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 09:28 PM
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Ok so you agree with me that women can get away with higher bmis and been seen as attractive by people more easily then men? Then I am not sure what was the point of this conversation was, I never claimed women with higher bmis were preferred but that you find more people who find them attractive then men with higher bmis, which contradicts the op who I was responding to was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 09:19 PM
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So because women are fatter, that somehow, takes away the clear issues with male obesity on the male body, hormones, and sex/dating away? Why do people in this thread keep deflecting on this issue is something I find interesting. Also the vast majority of men classified as obese are not muscular men who make up a small percentage of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 09:15 PM
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I still don't understand how any of this refutes my claim that women can get away with having a slightly higher bmi then whats considered healthy and seen as attractive more easily then men with slightly higher bmis. Even if you claim the only men who like women like Kim Kardashian are desperate losers, you will still find far more men who like women with bodies like that you will find women who like men with bigger bmis outside of muscular men. I really don't know why this is such a contentious…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 09:06 PM
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I never said having a having a higher body percentage fat equals higher bmi, I said that women can get away with having a higher bmi or extra weight and still be seen as a attractive more easily then men, given that the baseline of a healthy body fat percentage is higher for them then for men, so fat on a woman's bodies look different then on them then on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 08:49 PM
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Maybe this is just culture difference, because in my home country, men generally prefer women with a lot meat on their bones, wide hips, big breasts, bottom heavy, etc, are seen as much more attractive then thin or lean women. Being skinny especially if you don't have visible hips, or large breast/butt is seen as more negative then just being slightly chubby even. Of course being fat is still biggest no, no when it comes attractiveness, but being few pounds overweight is not considered bad thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 08:00 PM
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Well, a lot men find them attractive, and Kim alone has over 150 million followers, so its not as though finding her attractive is a niche thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 07:27 PM
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Last time I checked, diaper-ass Kim was married to a bipolar egomaniac, and Megan was getting shot in the foot by her fling. Speaking in FDS terms (which you seem to be familiar with), these types of women are not exactly attracting "HVM." Not sure what that has to do with them being attractive or not, attractive women end up with shitty men all the time, and Megan wasn't dating the guy who shot her. Yes, and women also have fat going to their stomach and, most detrimentally, their face, which i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 07:23 PM
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Did you not read the my op? However, when the issue of obesity is brought up on this subreddit, it’s always framed as an issue in regarding female attractiveness, which is not something I am offended by, because as a former fat person I readily acknowledge that being overweight makes you less attractive. However, we know that obesity doesn’t just negatively impact women, it also negatively impacts men, and is probably one of the biggest contributors to a lot of issues trp talks about. I clearly …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 07:09 PM
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Studies show obese women women are less likely to report having a sexual partner in the previous year then normal weight women, so it does effect them. I knew as soon as I made this thread there would be posters deflecting even when I made it clear the posts is about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 07:03 PM
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Why do some posters keep bringing up women, when I clearly said that is about men, and that female obesity is regularly discussed on this forum as to why some women are undesirable but never men especially when given the special hormonal impact obesity has on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:59 PM
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On this subreddit I haven't seen much discussion, I see more people talk about hypergamy, OLD, etc, on why some young men struggle with sex and dating never obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:52 PM
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So the men that find Kim Kardashian attractive are desperate losers? Because according the bmi scale is she is considered slightly overweight, same with Megan Thee Stallion. Fat looks differently on women then on men, more fat goes to our hip, butt and breasts which is considered desirable. Look I never said fat women were attractive, I just said that women can get away with having a higher bmi and being seen as attractive by society, I am not sure what is so controversial about that. A healthy …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:49 PM
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To discuss the question I asked in the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:35 PM
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Here's a study I found: The researchers combined data from 14 studies comparing sperm count in overweight, obese, and normal-weight men, along with data from an infertility center. They found that overweight men were 11 percent more likely to have a low sperm count and 39 percent more likely to have no sperm in their ejaculate. Obese men were 42 percent more likely to have a low sperm count than their normal-weight peers and 81 percent more likely to produce no sperm. More research is needed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:33 PM
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Given that most dieticians believe that a healthy body fat percentage for women ( 20-25%) should be higher then a healthy body fat percentage for men (15-18%), I don't see whats controversial or wrong about saying that women can get away with having a slightly higher bmi on average then men and be seen as attractive. As we clearly see that with the popularity of 'thick' women in pop culture in recent years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:27 PM
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Not a debate but just a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:21 PM
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Obviously encouraging more people to get in shape and eat healthy is a good step, but the issue of obesity is not really going to be solved without massive changes to our food supply chain, agriculture practices, which requires governmental oversight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:11 PM
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Prevalence of obesity goes up with age, and most of the trp folks are younger guys, usually anywhere from highschool to young adulthood. Thats pretty mute point considering obesity has skyrocketed among the young, and in some states young people actually have higher obesity rates then older people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:06 PM
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Actually, I think its opposite, women can have a higher bmi, and be seen as attractive, because more of their fat is more likely to go to their hips, butt, and breast area. There a couple of female sex symbols in the media like Megan Thee Stallion, Christina Hendricks, and Kim Kardashian, who according to the bmi scale are slightly overweight. In contrast, with men most of the fat goes to their gut area, which makes them less attractive. Of course being very overweight, and obesity in both gende…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:05 PM
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The broader issue is of of trp not connecting the issue of male obesity to whole host of problems that effect modern men, and instead largely blame hypergamy, feminist, and women for everything. I remember when there was news reports of male sperm count dropping and many trper/mgtow posters were freaking out as they saw it as another example of a male feminization conspiracy by society and feminists. As it turned out, scientists who looked into the issue, connected the falling male sperm count t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 05:39 PM
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Obesity effects the male body in special ways, which is why I brought it up, I think its an under discussed problem. The negative ways female obesity effects women are already discussed enough on this forum and female centric subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 05:34 PM
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Connecting the issue to a wider reason why some young men struggle with sex and dating given the hormonal impacts obesity has on the body, along with making you less physically attractive to wider swath of the population, rather then just blaming women and hypergamy for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 05:30 PM
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It’s not complicated really, submissive women make them feel high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 06:29 PM
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You shouldn't reject men at all, IMO, unless you're already in a relationship. But that's besides the point. This viewpoint is just crazy, so if a murderer asked your daughter, sister, or mother out you would want to live in a world where she would have no choice but to say yes to his advances?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 05:22 PM
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Men joke about women being flat chested, having ‘pancake’ ass, being tall (tall women are regularly compared to men), weight, hair (particularly black women) etc. Stop pretending men are innocent angels that never mock or make fun of women, in fact there is a current viral video on tiktok of numerous videos of tiktok users(mostly male) making fun of a girl because her eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 07:55 AM
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Uh, it’s tiktok pretty much anything goes viral on that site. There’s a video of a chick smiling weirdly while mouthing to a song that has 61 million views.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 06:32 AM
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I think the main reason for it your supposed to be independent , a man, and figure your way out in life. I think this expectation is only a thing in Western culture since it stresses individualism and independence, in many cultures its not seen as shameful for men and young people in general to be reliant on your parents well into adulthood, but the norm. In my home country most people of either gender don't move out out their parents house until they get married or or in a serious long term rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 12:58 AM
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The study you linked does not say 30% of Gen Z women have no sexual interest in men, it says 30% of Gen Z women under the age 25 identify as LGBT, a statistic probably very skewed by the number of young women identifing as bisexual because its seen as 'edgy' and 'cool' to be bi nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 12:44 AM
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A lot of the negative side effects of not being in a healthy intimate relationship can be counterbalanced by maintaining strong emotional fulfilling relationships with friends and family. I think if we encouraged more men to form deeper bonds with each other and maintain strong familial ties, that could help improve the mental health of a lot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 12:33 AM
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The study looks at unwanted sexual advances which can be construed as sexual harassment depending on the circumstance, it does not look at rape or sexual assault which is a separate thing from sexual harassment. One is illegal and a criminal matter the other is not illegal and a civil matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 12:00 AM
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Thats a pretty mute point considering sexual harassment is only treated as a criminal offense when it crosses into other harassing behavior such as unwanted phone calls, stalking or sexual assault. Otherwise sexual harassment is treated as a civil matter not criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 08:40 PM
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This isn't a gender thing, numerous studies have shown that while men are less bothered by unwanted sexual advances by the opposite sex in general, both rate sexual advances as more disturbing when its by people they don't find physically attractive. Among both men and women, unsolicited sexual advances were considered more disturbing and more discomforting when perpetrated by an unattractive opposite sex colleague than when perpetrated by an attractive opposite sex colleague: https://link.sprin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 08:36 PM
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Um probably cause a black man posted it and drew that picture of what appears to be black women?
/r/AntiFeminists23/10/20 03:28 PM
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You realize statistically there are just as many fat men as fat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 01:51 AM
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Nobody is forcing them to date or have sex with these women, stop playing the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 01:46 AM
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Excessive weight on the human body is just plain unattractive regardless of gender, and I am saying that as someone who used to be very overweight to nearly obese on the bmi scale. It also signifies at least in the west, economic class (poorer people are more likely to be obese) and in many cases a lack of self control. Now there a lot of guys who are into women with more meat on their bones like 'thick' women or even women who are just plain fat, a lot more then people think. I use to run into …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 08:33 PM
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*Last name
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:24 AM
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I know what the study said. Im saying that the data from the study only goes back a few decades, which is nothing compared to human history. So to say that "this is only true recently" is dishonest. Look that’s what your study says, based on the data they collected take it up with them. This doesn't even make sense. Marriage doesn't legitimize sexual relationships, reproduction, property, etc. It makes them function smoother, for reasons such as the fact that having 1 mate for life leads to stab…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:21 AM
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There is no evidence that your pair bonding abilities like oxytocin production decrease every time you have sex with a new person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:52 AM
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Its not. The data doesn't go back far enough to say either way. Your own study says it is: Women with 10 or more partners were the most likely to divorce, but this only became true in recent years; Moving on: Marriage, as in a legal contract, is a social construct. But the basis of marriage is the idea of two people staying together long term, which is absolutely not a social construct. To say that its a "social construct" for two animals (yes, humans are also animals) to stay together is ridicu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:11 AM
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Or if she other things more important and impactful happen in her life. Not everyone puts great importance on sex and high school relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:49 PM
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Lol, I’m in a relationship, who would thought not remembering the last name of I guy I dated ten plus years ago when I was barely fifteen would get labeled a sociopath around these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:48 PM
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I am sorry that painful shitty awkward sex I had a grand total three times with a guy I dated for one semester is not something I look back fondly on or put great importance on. I must be a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:39 PM
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This has been a fascinating thread, apparently a lot people take in great importance in the relationships they had when they are barely fifteen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:33 PM
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According to the study: Women with 10 or more partners were the most likely to divorce, but this only became true in recent years; This trend is new. Using marriage to measure pair bonding is also dumb, considering marriage is a social construct not biological. There is no evidence human beings have evolved to be long term monogamous relationships to one person, at best human beings have evolved to serial monogamists. We have no idea if virgin marriages stay together due to outside forces like c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:31 PM
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Women with 3-9 partners were less likely to divorce than women with 2 partners; and, Your own study shows women with 3-9 partners are less likely to get divorced then women with 2, which disproves your hypothesis that there is a correlation between the number of sexual partners a woman had and her inability to ‘pair bond’ (as you define it).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:02 PM
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I know this hard to believe, but not everyone puts such great importance on high school relationships that happen more than a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 10:47 PM
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Ok, then post the scientific studies to back up your claim then. Edit: lol instead of downvoting me, just post those studies that prove your point true, since you are so ‘pro science.’
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 10:31 PM
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When I add up all other crazy things that happened to me over the past decade, a brief high school relationship that didn’t lead to anything serious, is on the list of least important things I did. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 10:28 PM
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Human beings have some pair bonding abilities, but we have not evolved to be monogamous but serial monogamists at best. And despite what trp says, there is no evidence of a neurological foundation of pair bonding in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 10:25 PM
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In grand scheme of things? No it’s not, especially compared to other things happened in past decade since I last saw him. Nothing against him, he was a nice kid who I dated briefly and lost my virginity to. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:57 PM
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Oh no it’s the end of the world I can’t remember the last name of a guy I dated freshman year of high school for exactly four months. The horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:33 PM
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The “pair bonding” justification is probably the worst rational I’ve seen, pair bonding as it’s described does not exist in humans. If that were true then almost every women would still be hung up over their first boyfriend or pining over the guy they lost their virginity to. I can’t even remember the last name of my first boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:15 PM
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I don't really get the logic of your comment tbh, I don't think anyone serious has ever claimed that golddiggers don't exist, we just dispute the notion they make up significant portion of women as they statistically don't; most people regardless of their gender primarily date and marry people in their economic class. Hypergamy as the traditional definition defines it, is uncommon in the Western world. Besides, many of these women in this movement don't call themselves feminists, Anna Bey regula…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 05:58 PM
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A long with that, in my experience men who are looking for a bailout to date you or constantly ask for money are dangerous to be involved with as they often get really upset or violent when the women says no or puts her foot down. This happened to my aunt, she is still traumatized about the experience 30 years later. Several studies have shown that being a female breadwinner in a relationship correlates with higher rates of domestic violence especially if the male in the relationship doesn't wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:38 PM
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Yeah thats been a big debate here too, as well the overdiagnosis of ADHD. Most school districts I know are trying everything they can to try to attract more male teachers particular male teachers of color as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 05:52 PM
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The problem is that there are men who don’t apply themselves academically who are not college bound and bringing the average educational attainment for men down. I work in education so the issue is something I am concerned about, but I think this is likely probably true. It seems like negative outside influences are more likely to cause young men to become wayward then women. It use to be the number one thing that hindered girls academic performance was teen pregnancy, but over the past decade t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 05:42 PM
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The phenomenal op describing isn't particularly new, just social media exposing all these guys, thats it. My aunt told me back in the 80s, a couple of boyfriends she dated tried swindle her out of money by coming with sob stories about why they needed cash at the moment. She paid the first couple times, but after a while she stopped when realize none of those men were ever going to pay her back. I have to ask do men not have male friends who they could ask for money? Maybe its just my imaginatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 05:36 PM
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The fact that girls outperform boys academically regardless of country, and that we are seeing women surpassing men in college admittances even in places where nobody sane would call feminist paradises, shows the recent issue of girls passing boys education wise is more complicated then the people in MRA sphere make it out to be. It can't solely be just evil feminists, and affirmative action (even though as of late affirmative action has mostly benefited men), something else is going on to expla…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 05:20 PM
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Yes and I am point out there is a contradiction in this subreddit on this subject. Some posters claim women can’t get with men more attractive then them for commitment, only sex, while other posters claim that it is the norm in heterosexual relationships for men to be the better looking ones. I’m just asking which is it, because these two lines of thought seem to contradict each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:53 AM
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I’m strictly talking about rmv, read the thread, they are talking about relationships not just fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:43 AM
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You're not linking those incels' advices on how to rape women either, where's the evidence. The subreddit was completely banned a couple of years ago because of it. Reddit has banned the online community of “incels,” or men who blame women for their involuntary celibacy and sometimes advocate rape, as part of a new crackdown on forums that glorify and incite violence. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2017/11/09/technology/incels-reddit-banned.amp.html Here is an example of such a pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:37 AM
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You are talking about fucking, I’m talking about dating. There has been countless threads on here proclaiming how men are the better looking ones in heterosexual relationships and guys listing a bunch of anecdotes about how they regularly see good looking men with average to below average looking women. Here is just one example of such a thread This isn’t aimed at your post in particular, I’m just pointing out this subreddit has two different narratives on this that contradict each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:30 AM
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I can’t keep up the narratives on here, one minute it’s guy chastising women for chasing men out their lead, saying that’s why they get pumped and dumped and they will only get commitment for guys that their “looksmatched.” The next minute you have guys whining about how they see a bunch of six foot handsome male models with below average looking and ugly women or how men are always the better looking one in heterosexual relationships. So which is it? Also the women you are photo is married to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:18 AM
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Incels were literally banned from reddit because they were giving advice to men on how to rape women. Not to mention several of their members have committed terrorist attacks in real life. Find me similar post on fds that advocates that extreme amount of violence or fds members killing people irl, and then we can talk about them being similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:36 AM
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