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| -2 | If somebody's wife hit on you, would you hook up with them?Not really in this hypothetical situation. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. If it isn’t with you, she will cheat on you with someone else if she wants to. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Hypothetical Women uprising?I agree. I was just saying that in my experience, many women don’t worry about effectiveness and lead with social appearance and empathy first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Hypothetical Women uprising?I agree with you. I was just saying why many women support those systems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Hypothetical Women uprising?Women support welfare programs because they are “empathetic” and it makes them feel good about themselves. They aren’t actually looking at whether or not those welfare programs are effective or necessary systemically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:22 PM |
| 7 | To the men who love for relationships on dating apps why do you pay for the premiums when they can be used for free?If you pay to skip to the front of the line does that make it a waste of money? Come on man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 09:52 PM |
| 4 | Would you do it all over again?6 weeks is unbelievably fresh dude. I am 3 months in and today has been my first really good day in a while. Don’t even think about dating, that will come in time. Personally, I’m still repulsed by the idea of women right now, but i know I’ll get back out there eventually once I heal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/26 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Post Divorce and Sex?I found that out in college. I couldn’t handle one night stands, they made me feel horrible due to the hollowness and disconnection. Some people don’t mind that, but I found that I did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/26 07:10 AM |
| 10 | Post Divorce and Sex?Don’t underestimate people’s ability to cope. She is very likely distracting herself from serious disharmony within herself. Find your happiness within, I believe in you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/26 07:09 AM |
| 6 | Post Divorce and Sex?Nothing wrong with being celibate for a long while brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/26 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Question for divorced men who hookup how do you find so many women to have sex with?I mean, is being divorced in your 20s really harming his market value that much? Women will put out for absolute losers and bums. I would think the fact that someone wanted to lock him down would potentially increase his value, barring any baggage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/26 04:37 PM |
| 5 | My (30m) wife (35f) has told me she’s moving out next month, after 12 years married. Canada.This is not all on you. It takes two to make a relationship work, and she is the one who checked out. You thought it was just depression, and that is a valid thought, especially if she didn’t communicate. You brought up the distance and tried to connect with her. Don’t be so hard on yourself, especially over someone who obviously values you much less than you value them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/26 05:25 AM |
| 1 | I'm so heartbroken. My Juliette left.World champion cornball maybe! In boxing terms, go back to your training camp and kill it in the next match. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/26 12:52 AM |
| 7 | It’s better…How long did it take you to begin feeling better? I am about 2 months out from separation and I feel like I will never find peace and happiness again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/26 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Rant about wife who leftThis is harsher than I would have said it, but he is right. She just doesn’t fuxk with you like that anymore. Vows mean nothing to women, only their feelings. Edit: and this isn’t red pill bullshit. This is just my lived experience with women. They largely only care for you as long as you are useful to them | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/26 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Rant about wife who leftWomen will never forgive you for your mental battles. It makes them feel unsafe, which is the worst thing to a woman. I am learning this the hard way right now with you. Go to therapy, get meds if they help, meditate and understand your thoughts and emotions. Heal, and come back swinging better than ever before! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/26 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Men of Reddit, what’s the best way for a woman to navigate with separation?If you can do it amicably without lawyers then for the love of god please do. Finish it quick and clean and remove yourself from this man’s life so you can both begin to reflect and heal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/26 06:24 PM |
| 2 | SeparationMuch like you, I have been struggling with those same feelings of self-blame and guilt. What has been helping me is understanding that relationships are a two way street. Like you, I did many things wrong—self abandonment, avoidance, catering to her every whim while ignoring and not respecting my own needs and boundaries. But what caused me to act that way was feeling alone in the relationship and my bids for affection being dismissed by her. Communication takes both of you, so it can never be o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/26 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Help pleaseTry to get some of the equity from it then. Usually the situation is flipped, but that doesn’t matter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 04:23 PM |
| 6 | How far along are you and how are you doing?(27M) together for 8 years, married for a year and a half. She came to me 3 weeks ago saying she couldn’t do it anymore, lost feelings, wanted independence, the works. The apartment is empty and echoes. Doing any of my hobbies feels wrong, like I am going to be punished at any moment. The few friends I have are being very good to me though, so I am grateful for that. It’s difficult, but now I have the opportunity to rebuild myself however I want. That is exciting and also paralyzingly terrifying… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/26 04:12 AM |
| 3 | How many months before giving upThere is a more tactful way to express this, but you are right. They will not respect you if you beg. They will not love you more, or regain their love if you beg. Hit the gym, makeover, enjoy your hobbies again. Become a man you are proud to be, and your person will come to you in time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/26 06:08 PM |
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