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It was a state police academy in the US
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 06:38 PM
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So at the academy they have you stand in front of a camera and start answering questions. Mid-answer, you get sprayed in the mouth and face. Then they ask what color your eyes are and when you choke out an answer, they say "Show me!" and make you pry open your eyes and hit you with another blast there. Then, you stumble over to the biggest trooper they can find and make you perform a take-down. He doesn't fight you 100% but won't go down unless you do it with good form, totally blinded and miser…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/04/17 07:10 PM
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The video ends less than a minute after he calls them. No where in the US is a response time expected to be that fast, unless it just happens to be around the corner from where the officer already is. And if that was a cop car in the background, then that means he was clearly already on another call. It seems like a long time in the video but they don't even call until several minutes in and even then, its not somethimg.they go lights and sirens to.
/r/MensRights21/01/16 04:40 PM
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There's a reason its known as Relaxin' Jackson
/r/PussyPass06/12/15 08:28 PM
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How about non-annecdotal evidence disproving what I say?
/r/MensRights07/05/15 05:15 PM
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Oh jesus christ. You know Im not claiming to speak for every single cop in the whole world so don't even try that. I am speaking about the general trends of law enforcement policy and procedure. The moment a department starts treating one gender differently, they will be sued. Are there exceptions to everything? Of course but your typical department is not arresting men and letting women go.
/r/MensRights07/05/15 04:41 PM
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Because a woman can be the primary aggressor too? As I told the other guy, cops are not walking around with their handy dandy Duluth Model guide. They don't give two shits about the genders involved. They show up, get the stories, arrest who they believe is the aggressor, if there is one at all. Nothing about the process changes if its two men, two women, a man and a woman. If the woman scratches her male partner, she will go to jail. Its as simple as that. Whatever model you want can exist, it …
/r/MensRights07/05/15 04:16 PM
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No its really not. I'm not sure what you've heard but police learn almost everything they know from their training officers on the street. There is no studying of books and theory, its all practical experience actually handling the call. Because I've never read the materials from the publishers of the Duluth Model (Im not paying thousands of dollars) I can't tell you exactly whats in them. However, I can tell you that police don't waste their time developing one method for men and one for women.…
/r/MensRights07/05/15 04:01 PM
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No, the nationwide change in DV is unrelated to gender.
/r/MensRights07/05/15 03:33 PM
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Irrelevent here. A DV call falls under the exgient circumstances exception. The current DV laws are really a remnant of an older policing culture. In the past, when most officers lived in towns they policed, their approach was a little more informal. They would show up, tell the victim of either gender to shape up and get their act together, then leave. The mandatory arrest laws have nothing to do with feminism, they have to do with poor use of officer discretion and changing attitudes of family…
/r/MensRights06/05/15 05:59 PM
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Look, you may be 100% correct about whats going on in their head but its not a PPD if they don't claim a PP and they don't. This sub is about 50/50 in having actual PPD and just whiny people who happen to be women.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/15 05:55 PM
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Yes but its still not a pussypass. PP is when you expect special treatment for being woman. They had a legitimate complaint and asked for normal treatment at a resturaunt, i.e. getting their food in a timely manner. There is a fine line between women just being obnoxious and actually demanding special treatment because they have a vagina.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/15 04:40 PM
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I'm going to say the same to you. I actually do this for a living and no we don't charge for that because, as I said, you would put everyone in jail. Almost every domestic has one party call, play the victim, then we show up and sort it all out. Calling and claiming to be a victim is not the same thing as filing a false report so don't talk about shit you don't know.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/15 04:20 AM
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Lets be realistic here though, if everyone was charged for lying to the police, there wouldn't be any crime because everyone would be locked up. They didn't charge her with a false report because she's a woman, its because its rare for anyone and takes an especially egregious instance.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/15 10:29 PM
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Thank you. People tend to forget the intent part of most crimes, which is why she didn't commit murder.
/r/MensRights28/01/15 08:40 AM
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This is badly needed. When a group decides its necessary to rewrite history, to do anything other than present the facts as they exist, you have a serious problem. You can see this in the whole "Bradley vs. Chelsea" debate. Who cares how you title the article? If someone goes by multiple names, go by the one most commonly known. That there was ever even an argument tells you these people have alterior motives.
/r/MensRights24/01/15 12:15 AM
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I am talking about healthy adults, not those with asthma. Asthma causes your airways to constrict, leading you to not get enough air, but still allow air to flow. Because some air is flowing, you are breathing but it might not be enough. There is a difference between "not breathing" and "labored breathing/struggling to breathe."
/r/PussyPassDenied07/12/14 11:42 PM
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Of course not, a bad attitude takes a lot more than a single yelling session. I'm sure you saw the guys who carried their attitude all through basic, no amount of smoke sessions can cure it.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/12/14 10:08 PM
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She was steering a fucking aircraft carrier off course? Thats some serious shit right there.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/12/14 09:25 PM
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Yup, its a liability thing. If it turns out the officer has committed some sort of misconduct, having him out on the street opens the department up to a lot of liability for anything he does. So, they put him on leave while they investigate it.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/12/14 09:07 PM
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If you can speak, you can breathe. You speak by forcing air to flow out from your lungs and over your vocal chords. If you've ever actually choked, you will notice you can't even make a noise.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/12/14 08:57 PM
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I don't need to. Not a lawyer but lets just say I am involved in a different profession that makes extensive use of criminal law. I know I'm right on the matter.
/r/PussyPass18/11/14 06:08 PM
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You're not a lawyer. Any lawyer would've prefaced his comment by specifying jurisdiction. In some jurisdictions, there isn't even a battery statute, there is assault and agg. assault, with agg. assault functioning as battery does in other states. Typically, what makes something assault is if there is a legitimate fear of harm. Her simply saying she will fuck him up isn't assault. But, if she raises a fist or reaches into her purse while making this threat or is holding some sort of weapon, then …
/r/PussyPass18/11/14 05:56 PM
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Doubt it, she had no problem filming all other sorts of private things.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/14 07:51 PM
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Yea, thats where it crosses the line from self-defense to a crime.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/14 06:13 AM
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Exactly. I saw people get laid the fuck out and require an ambulance. I for one welcome their intervention.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/14 05:16 AM
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Yup. Different bosses, different rules. When I worked retail, front-end couldn't chase people down but loss prevention sure as hell did.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/14 05:00 AM
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Don't forget, she conveniently stops recording before the police show up. Little doubt in my mind she only posted what would look bad for the guy and good for the woman. Didn't want us to see the black whale getting handcuffed.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/14 04:58 AM
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She fucking spoke like she was there to witness the woman not shoplifting. She shows up after the fact and just decides to pick her favorite course of events and present it as though she was there to see it. Fuck her.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/14 04:56 AM
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That response is so cringe-worthy..
/r/askTRP09/11/14 12:54 AM
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If she talks about her most recent ex, she's probably still emotional about it. Read the situation and judge if shes looking to hop back on the carousel and you're the rebound sex or if she just wants to whine. The former is good, the latter is end the date and find something else to do. However, if she's just telling stories about exes, she's trying to make them seem more alpha and make you jealous. Laugh along with her (theyre almost always cool stories about crazy, funny things) and then resp…
/r/askTRP08/11/14 08:21 PM
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Its not good or bad. Its just another shit test. She's seeing how you react. If she's complaining about a specific person, that person is on her mind. Tell her you don't want to hear it and consider ending the date, she's probably not interestes in anything getting an ego boost. You can salvage it still but with likely more effort than its worth. If she's complaining in a general sense, like "I always date guys like this (insert trait)" then she's guiding you to how she wants you to behave. Its …
/r/askTRP08/11/14 08:17 PM
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I agree, but I think we can assume if they are on a date, there is already some level of attraction. Tinder only works for decently attractive men, even if the women are ultimately looking for BB. However, thats missing the point: it doesn't matter what the emotion is, there just to be be high levels of emotion. Emotion creates the cognitive dissonence that allows them to hamster their way into disregard the feminist bullshit and white knights. No emotion and its easy for them to say, "Oh I don'…
/r/askTRP08/11/14 06:32 PM
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Oh agreed, never bring it up. But if she does, you need to maintain frame and regain control of the conversation.
/r/askTRP08/11/14 06:24 PM
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I think this works. "Whatever, I just take things as they come." and then just talk about something else. You didn't confirm which she was, the slut or the reformed-prude. This lets her hamster run wild and lets her be whatever she wants to pretend to be, leaving you free to escalate and her to react, not dictate.
/r/askTRP08/11/14 06:12 PM
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How would you agree and amplify that statement? Also, Im not sure you're right about the emotions, I think differentiating between "positive" and "negative" is ignoring RP. Women want emotion, they don't care what kind. You don't get women by "turning them on", you get them by getting them emotional. Its why things like make-up sex occur. Sure, you can make her happy and sweep her off her feet but you can piss them off and acheive the same end result. Men with high SMV can treat women like shit …
/r/askTRP08/11/14 06:08 PM
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Those long responses do sound stupid. Personally, I find ignoring to not work as well as acknowledging and dismissing. That makes it clear you don't care and will likely turn her on more. I'll sometimes say "I wont get jealous." or "You look like the kind of girl who could use another one." The second opens the door to teasing and push/pull when they feign being offended.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:48 PM
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They don't tend to make exceptions and they definitely don't do it outside of the statutes. Most of the statutes list exactly what the range is. Of course, it tends to be quite harsh on men and not so harsh on women which only makes it more confusing.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 03:52 PM
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Colorado's law is extremely liberal compared to most. You usually will see that the person needs to be of the same age or 1 year younger if neither is 18. If one is 18 then the other needs to be 18 as well. Colorado is the exception, not the norm.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:19 PM
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You're fucking delusional. You need to be medicated.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 02:10 AM
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You're fucking insane dude. You would be institutionalized if you ever tried to say this stuff in public. Please
/r/askTRP19/10/14 11:25 PM
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You clearly have no idea what you're even talking about. Do you know the definition of murder? This was an accident, they accidentally hit the crib with the flashbang. Attempted murder? Your brain must be defective.. Its funny too because when you look at the files for the investigation, you usually find out family members are a lot of complicit in the sort of drug activity they were investigating. You know, just like how everyone in jail is innocent too. And what solution do you propose to an u…
/r/askTRP19/10/14 06:27 PM
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Again with your vague and non-committal "examples." I'm sure if you provided the actual incident you refer to, the circumstances would be difficult to reconcile with your position. Which is obviously why refuse to provide an example.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 06:05 PM
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Physical evidence of Nazi crimes is a historical fact, you don't need to be present to know of physical evidence. This is entirely different than understanding an intangible attitude and culture that exists in a police department. So try again with your poor analogies. As for your grossly over-simplified "examples", you're purposely being vague and non-committal to prevent me from countering any of them. To give you any more of response than that would lend your nonsense far more credibility tha…
/r/askTRP19/10/14 03:06 AM
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How can you comment on the inner-workings of American police departments if you aren't in the US?
/r/askTRP18/10/14 08:30 PM
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The best thing is to be something recognizable. Like I have a costume thats Wilfred from the TV show. I guarantee there will not be another 6'4" giant dog walking around. Whether they know the show or not, they will recognize me as that dude who is a huge fucking dog. Even better, you can see my face so people will remember me even after Halloween.
/r/askTRP18/10/14 07:41 PM
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Man, you have no fucking clue what you're talking about. You are clearly not from the US, you are so fucking clueless
/r/askTRP18/10/14 08:23 AM
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Nope, that just isn't the case these days. Like I said, 30 years ago, sure. But not anymore.
/r/askTRP18/10/14 02:57 AM
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Bullshit. You as a civilian don't see the inner workings or understand what happens inside the departments. But police do not get away with that shit anymore. Police report eachother all the the time because if they don't they will lose your job. You only ever hear about the bad things because thats all the news reports. But far more often, cops stab eachother in the back because they will be better off that way.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 06:54 PM
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As someone who works in the field, the power police have when off the job is greatly exaggerated. Yes, in the past, it was the usual old boys club but these days, with the prevalence of lawsuits and the stringent eye of insurance companies looking to avoid payouts, police departments have seriously cracked down on this type of corruption. And yes, it is a form of corruption, using your status as a police officer for personal gain, even off the clock. So to suggest that, because she is a cop, she…
/r/askTRP16/10/14 05:15 PM
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Oh please. This has nothing to do with RP, its just an extension of the anti-cop circlejerk. There has been no advice given on the female aspect, only the clearly biased cop facet.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 02:02 AM
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Thats why they do it, for that kind of shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/09/14 08:07 PM
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I said if you haven't been drinking.. Don't refuse out of principal, refuse if you're drunk.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 11:40 PM
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There is what happened and there's what the report says happened. It can work in your favor or against it but it usually depends on your demeanor. There are ways to protect yourself without being an asshole. Don't be belligerent about not cooperating, be polite and soft spoken. There's a reason for the various disorderly conduct/malicious mischief statutes; they function as a catch-all and being a douche can get you most of the way there.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 09:29 PM
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The caselaw on this is up in the air depending on the state you live in. For instance, on requiring identification, every state allows the officer to ask even if he isn't investigating a crime. However, only a few actually require you to answer while most don't address it. That said, if you are doing anything that is age restricted or requires a license of some sort, they may ask for your ID or that license and you are indeed required to provide it. Point is, use proper judgement. If you do that…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 09:25 PM
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Be careful about the not blowing part. If you know you haven't had anything to drink, you will be safe to blow but in some states, such as mine, you will automatically lose your license for 6 months if you refuse.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 09:20 PM
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Basically, give them shit for things they already know. I was talking to this chick at the bar, visiting a friend. She mentioned earlier how she was failed a class or something, basically trying to play herself off as a dumb blonde. Later I asked her what her major was and it was something pretty easy sounding. So I said, "And you're failing that?" It had the result of her feigning offense and jokingly pushing me lightly. She's a slutty college girl, of course she is going to fail a class, we al…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 10:03 PM
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Your last sentence tells me your brother is not as bad as mine or OPs because he clearly has the power to think beyond himself. Mine cannot fathom that someone would be looking out for his best interests. If you don't want the same instant gratification as him, you are an enemy. You can't logic with a person like that, you just have to ignore them and let them fuck up.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 04:36 PM
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I have a brother like this, none of what you said will make any difference. You have to remember, blood means nothing. The little shit isn't going to change from anything you do. My brother has had run-ins with the police, fist fights with family members, all that confrontation you mentioned. It won't matter. People who behave this way live in a different world, a marcissistic one where they are the most important thing and always the victim. Best thing to do is to walk away and let them fuck it…
/r/askTRP20/08/14 07:21 AM
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Even the guys below you are full of shit. I have long, very thick hair and I use a pomade in it every day. I havent washed it in months and no one knows who I havent told. You just rinse it thoroughly with water in the shower. This hair stylist chick I know also said unwashed hair tends to be healthier. Just like your clothes, you don't have to wash something every day to keep it clean.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 09:52 PM
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No we dont. Many here are opposed to marriage in every way, many would say it depends, and many like the idea.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 05:40 AM
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Dont dont dont look up your exes.. Its a struggle every day haha
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 12:42 AM
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I guess it was more about attempting to salvage things. I feel like I could be in a unique spot. I was already planning to walk away and then came back. So now, I could basicslly reframe the relationship under the threat of leaving and actually have no problem doing it. Does that make sense?
/r/askTRP12/08/14 02:41 PM
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So what is the way to broach this subject with a woman?
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 10:08 PM
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I need to start using this measurement method..
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 10:07 PM
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As to your TL,DR. I always say that you should never be chasing women/tail/pussy/anything. If you are chasing, you are purely reactionary and lack any control. Like you say, build yourself up. If a woman can't the good things you have, she isn't worth your time anyways because she will never be able to appreciate what you bring to the table. Let women come to you, they sure as shit will. I have slowly worked to have an education, a well-paying job, a decent physique, and good looks. More and mor…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 07:31 AM
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I see some right and some wrong. I like the part about the femininity. How do you best understand the mind and attitude of a woman? By having just that little bit of them in you. I liken it this: Men are logical, women are emotional. From a social interaction stand point, it is masculine to be logical and analytical and feminine to be emtional. However, how do you analyze emotion if you have none? How can realize the proper course if you lack any understanding? The best men, the alphas have just…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 07:20 AM
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You're entirely right. Its a matter of selection bias. Many frats require good grades to stay in it. So obviously their members are more likely to have higher GPAs and graduation rates. The statistics are implying that frats attract such people when in reality, they select for them.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:50 AM
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I had surgury recently and put on a little weight while I was recovering. My physical therapist was mentioning that the best way to burn calories while lifting is do something with the opposite end of your body between sets. So do your main lift, then hit a bike for a few minutes or some light leg workouts. Nothing that will over-work the area that isn't being focused on but enough to get blood flowing that direction. The idea is that it keeps your heart rate up, makeing everything more effectiv…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 09:44 PM
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I was making out with this chick after going home with her from the bar. We are in her bed and she had already mentioned me spending the night so Im assuming sex is next. Then she stops and goes "Just so you know, I never have sex the first time I meet someone." I just used the trick I read about on here and said, "Okay, here's what I do: You get to say no one time and then I'll stop immediately and leave. Just to make sure nothing happens that you don't want." 10 minutes later and she's asking …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 03:41 AM
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Theres no fight over her. As soon as there is some petty bullshit, Im more than happy to just walk away. You shouldnt fight over women, that just validates their bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 01:40 AM
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Shit, I think I forgot between a thrust. Its off to the slammer for me..
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 06:47 PM
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Which also was a poor choice of words, thats not really what the plan was.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:06 PM
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Being alpha isn't about having game and being a master PUA. That stuff is stupid. Its about ensuring you have the power in the interactions you have with other people. Its about not allowing women to dominate your life and play the games they play with the less enlightened. Its like with any other relationship, you can be as nice as you want but you can't allow yourself to be manipulated or walked all over. Its like applying the techniques you use to get ahead in the business world, but with wom…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 01:57 PM
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You literally can say anything. In the interest of keeping specifics of the story to a minimum, lets just say my jokes were as bad as making racist jokes to that race. I was drunk, thought it was hilarious. Probably cringe-worthy if sober but it is what it is. Didn't seem to slow her down one bit.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 01:43 PM
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I actually never said I was. I think the whole label is kind of irrelevent, its more about how you approach situations. You can act RP without knowing RP, you can act alpha without being alpha. Its a spectrum and no one truly is alpha. They just act it out to varying degrees. I don't need someone to call me alpha to know my methods were the right ones.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 01:27 PM
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Nope. We're both attractive guys and he has fucked attractive women, even with his BP shit. I said below, his BP side really comes out in how he behaves emotionally with women.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 12:34 PM
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Thats why I said elsewhere, he's got it in him, just doesnt know how to use it. He can get women but then becomes overly emotional and attached and they walk all over him. And women mostly just fall into his lap, he doesn't have the balls to take what he wants.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 12:30 PM
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Got to love it. I had this one chick tell me flat out, "We aren't having sex, I don't ever do that the first night, you have to prove you're good enough to be with me first." 10 minutes later and shes asking if I have a condom. You just let them talk their nonsense and follow the non-verbal clue. I sure as hell wasn't in her bed to sleep was I?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:48 AM
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Oh okay, I thought you were saying Im just pretending to be alpha or something. I mean, I played off his BP side but isn't that part of it? I recognized his mistakes, took advantage of them, and used my frame to edge him out. I wont pretend to be some RP guru, but I think its okay to be proud of my success when its deserved. And that was what I was trying to say, I didn't cross any boundaries because he's not man enough to set them.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:44 AM
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I didnt have to, she offered. I wasnt even planning to that night really. I got her off with just my hands, then she goes "But you havent even seen what I can do yet."
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:15 AM
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Oh so credit doesnt lie with me, just with his fuck-up?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:02 AM
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Theres some history, Ive said elsewhere he was due for a taste of his own medicine. Im definitely a dick but Im pragmatic. Sometimes, you've gotta do what you gotta do.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 02:45 AM
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Nah, I am a dick, this just isnt the proof haha. But yea, no one in our circle of friends would be pissed, they all know this guy has done it before and has earned a taste of his own medicine.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 01:47 AM
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Dude has it coming. He's my friend but he has had some issues with picking who to fuck. As in multiple girls currently involved with friends. Shes not really my type but he doesn't know that. And he also didn't call dibs, he just said she's cute.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 01:38 AM
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Absolutely. I know hes got it in him, he does well with girls sometimes and I can tell he has no idea why. Once this whole story comes to his attention, maybe he'll see it.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 12:55 AM
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Thats the plan, she wants to meet up again.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 11:41 PM
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I tried, he's too much of a pussy to actually do it. Ive explained RP and he thought it made sense but he wasn't going to do it. I dont plan to humiliate him, I just plan to use him to get my new plate all hot and bothered.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 11:41 PM
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Dry wit/ sarcasm works great. I work at a restaurant and I use this on the girls I work with. Give them a little shit for minor mistake or a sarcastic joke. Then give a smile or a wink so they don't take it so seriously as to think they're actually reprimanded or something. As an example, I actually used this on a guy friend but you could easily do the same to a woman. Chef: Waitresses are always slutty. Me: (To my friend) Hey, wasn't your sister a waitress? You could simply look at the girl you…
/r/askTRP29/06/14 09:54 PM
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Wait. Shes 5'3" and on the basketball team?
/r/askTRP19/06/14 06:04 AM
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Certainly true. However, its not like they're mutually exclusive. They can be the same person. I've felt like TRP is about becoming that proper man. We stress working out, working on our careers, taking care of ourselves. Those would make us both the alpha male and the ultimate provider. We all have different goals but some men certainly want to have the RP wife and produce RP children and I think that is probably viable. Why can't the fux and the bux come from the same place?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:28 PM
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While I don't disagree with you, I don't necessarily agree either. I think the sex aspect of TRP is really just the manifestation of the larger evolutionary idea that its all derived from. Women want to sleep with alphas because evolution tells them they will be the best provider for their offspring. But that means what they're really after is the provider. They use sex to lure the alpha but they really want what he provides. Obviously we exploit this but I think women don't understand the natur…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:16 PM
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I suppose I didn't really make it clear, I don't think she really wants sex either. I'm pretty sure I could sleep with her if I tried but I've gotten the impression she really just likes having someone with more alpha tendencies around. She may not understand that that's the case but I believe it is.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:01 PM
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Its like arguing with someone who is clearly wrong but believes wholeheartedly that they are right. You will never win that fight because you will alienate everyone else before they ever concede your point.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:37 AM
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I've got the same situation going on. She met up once, texts all the time, but always flakes out at the last minute. The first time she didn't say a word, only apologized a week later. The next two times, it would appear she lied. So now, I gave her an opportunity to make it right and won't say another word, she can come to me. In the meantime, three other plates (including 1 she knows about) will be my main focus. I'm hoping it will work out. I think your solution is probably the best one. You …
/r/askTRP10/06/14 02:33 AM
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Men are not more prone to violence because of their size. Size only means they might be better at it but it doesn't make it any more likely. Women rape men, women assault men, women rape and assault women. They could half the size of a man and still do those things. You are at the same risk of physical abuse from a woman as you are a man. I know why you think you're at such a risk but thats part of the lie youve been fed. If you want to be scared, thats fine but you're doing yourself a disservic…
/r/askTRP07/06/14 04:43 PM
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Don't stifle the voices just because you don't like them. TRP isn't a circlejerk for whatever makes you feel alpha. If it is to withstand a true test, you must allow the critics and the misinformed an opportunity to speak.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 09:14 AM
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You're not getting it. Men have to trust women all the same. You don't get to categorize one bad thing as worse than another, then dismiss everything else. You're saying our issues don't matter because rape is worse. Okay, why don't I just say murder is worse so rape doesn't matter. Are you able to see why that logic is ridiculous? Women abuse men just as much as men abuse women. The reason a lot of people don't realize that is because women's abuse of men is institutionalized and society has de…
/r/askTRP07/06/14 09:12 AM
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This is huge. If you can't enjoy talking to someones grandma as much as you would a girl in a bar, you're doing it wrong. You shouldn't have a different act you put on, you should just have a personality and find something interesting in everybody. The reason that talking to everyone helps is because you learn that its really the same skill set. It isn't knowing the perfect things to say, its learning how to listen and respond with context and that occurs in every conversation, not just the ones…
/r/askTRP03/06/14 08:27 PM
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I think you need to have good situational humor. When something happens, you have to be the first one to say something funny. I personally humor in combination with frame. Some light-hearted jabs at the girl can deflate her nonsense pretty quickly while establishing that "funny guy" thing. People know to be careful around me and not be stupid because I will make fun of them for it and it will be funny, but not over the top mean. You have to be mindful of that line between being as ass and just k…
/r/askTRP03/06/14 08:21 PM
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You clearly already know what you should do: Either pursue it or make it clear she needs to stop. If you don't like something, why would you just let it continue? Based on what you've said, she is sexual harassing you at work. Does that statement seem a over the top? If so, then grow a pair and go after her. When I was 18, I worked with another guy my age and a hot manager who was probably 24-26. She hit on both of us, I pretended it was weird while my other 18 yr old coworker boned her regularl…
/r/askTRP02/06/14 05:21 AM
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All the other comments definitely analyze this well so I just want to say that this part: Me: Why did u exaggerate Her: (she sends some emoticons of bees) Me: Ooooooo That was pretty funny and decently clever. Remember too that this whole thing isn't like some chemistry formula where you put in all the ingredients and you will always get the same result. People all react differently and only experience will sort that out. In the meantime, when it goes wrong, might as well get some amusement from…
/r/askTRP23/05/14 08:56 PM
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I think this says it all. You're inexperienced so the who situation seems like it's awesome but do you even really know? It's not like you've had bad shit to compare it to. If she's the only girl you've slept with and it's been 3 years, your scale for judging women is almost guaranteed to be skewed. Tell her you need a break, give it 6 months and see what else is out there. I bet with some distance, she doesn't seem to great.
/r/askTRP18/05/14 02:41 AM
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Thats SNL these days? Wtf. It wasn't even funny. That one woman sounded like she was retarded, not foreign. And as usual, none of what they said was true. Satire is okay when it is in jest but literally making things up and presenting them as actually activism is irresponsible. It's the same as airing a sketch with Boy Scouts acting like Hitler Youth. Not only would it not be satire, it would be so absurd as to just be awkward. You have to make the joke obvious, you can't wrap it in claims that …
/r/MensRights09/03/14 10:27 AM
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Yea, it automatically set off alarms when she started fishing. I have learned to not give compliments too often, makes them mean more when you actually do say them. I just wasn't sure the right way to respond here. As you pointed out, she's making a demand and that's not going to fly, plus it's fishing. I figure it's a shit test because I'm screwed if I answer at all.
/r/askTRP21/02/14 12:44 AM
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So I wonder what the numbers are for single victim abuse.
/r/MensRights10/02/14 04:12 PM
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It says at the top, "duplicate victims." What does that mean?
/r/MensRights10/02/14 02:51 PM
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Oh I'm sure. Everyone is all for equality until it applies to them. Wait what, you mean I have to be equal to them!?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 06:56 PM
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These videos make me so angry.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 10:42 AM
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Opinions don't matter. If you are being called to testify, it is to only relay the facts that you know. Answer every question honestly and you will be fine. No matter what you know about either of them, it isn't your place to make any judgement calls or try to influence the decision. Let the judge and the lawyers do their job and don't do anything more than they ask of you.
/r/MensRights26/12/13 08:34 AM
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Ya, dontcha know?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 05:48 PM
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Sooo.. You're Canadian?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 05:20 AM
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Until OP has a lawyer present, he should make sure to not volunteer anything. No more tests of any sort, no more questions, no opening the door for them, no going anywhere with the police. As much as it seems like a pain in the ass, make them get a warrant for that kind of thing. I'm not saying that in a "Fuck the police, know your rights" kind of way, I'm saying that as a criminal law student about to become a cop. The warrant means they need to prove their claims with evidence that a judge has…
/r/MensRights25/10/13 02:45 PM
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Lol.. Seriously though, you'd be surprised at how much effort is put into training ethical, responsible, and professional police officers. You may not be fired for a bad shooting but you're damn well going to be gone if you lie about it. Everyone makes mistakes but it's the conscious decisions to lie or break the law that ends cops' careers.
/r/MensRights19/10/13 05:27 PM
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I'm actually doing a paper on this exact topic in my police ethics class. Many people don't understand that they can decline a search or don't feel safe to do so, leading to abuses of consent searches. Many people also don't realize that they have a right to limit consent searches. If Couch believed he was only giving permission to retrieve the backpack and then they search the car, a judge would likely rule that an implied limit to search. Many states don't even allow consent searches while oth…
/r/MensRights19/10/13 07:05 AM
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Oh right, because that's relevant to the discussion on discriminating against men. Let's bring up a false scenario where they aren't discriminated against because it all evens out right? So how long till the Jews are payed back and things are even with the descendents of slaves? Ridiculous..
/r/MensRights14/08/13 07:36 PM
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There is no good answer for that. If men can be discriminated against, then we have ground to stand on and it forces her start addressing the other side. Of course, if we can't be discriminated against then its like /u/avantvernacular said, we are so lowly that we are beyond discrimination, the ultimate insult.
/r/MensRights14/08/13 07:17 PM
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Not to mention, an erection is a physical response to blood flowing to the penis. One can get an erection without even being sexually aroused. One can get an erection without even being conscious enough to be aroused, which certainly isn't conscious to give consent. Saying it can't be rape if the man is erect is apt to saying it can't be rape if the woman is moist. We all know damn well neither physical manifestation of underlying bodily functions require arousal yet imagine how the feminists wo…
/r/MensRights25/07/13 12:02 AM
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