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Sorry to hear about your fiancé man, i hope you honestly take some time off, pretty sure that she sensed that you weren't fully yourself, which is totally understandable, maybe just take some time to yourself and like you said, not make yourself as available. Don't see this as a failure or i hope you don't get hurt from this, at the end of the day, you just had a horrible thing happen to you in the past and someone blocking you is nothing compared to that. Wish you the best man
/r/seduction09/01/19 09:10 AM
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That's exactly how i feel and yeah i want to expand my social circle, but the way i see it is that it is a lot easier if i start getting more popular online, so that when i dm a girl, she probably would be more inclined to say yes to someone with 500 followers instead of 150, you know what i mean? And i can snowball from there, but with the social circle that i have right now, it's extremely hard to do this online or in real life
/r/seduction08/01/19 05:09 PM
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Yeah but the 'good company' is hard to get, since like i said, if i ask my 'friends' they dodge the question or they just take a quick, low quality pic of the group, and when we hang out, we just go drink something, never really do 'cool' stuff, that's why i was hoping to do this alone, so i don't have to depend on that
/r/seduction08/01/19 07:29 AM
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Im trying, i swear i am... i don't even want to envision her getting fucked, but it's intrusive, it just pops up in my mind and then i think it's disgusting if she had a lot of partners... thing is, i'm still a virgin, but by choice, i've gotten blowjobs etc.. but when she wanted to put it in i just said 'no', i felt like i wasn't ready, and when i felt like i wanted to have sex, she didn't want to. On other instances i just refused another girl cause she had a bf and i didn't want to lose it li…
/r/seduction01/01/19 02:19 PM
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Ofcourse not, i literally said that it wasn't fair of me to be like this, but that alone doesn't get rid of this feeling
/r/seduction01/01/19 02:14 PM
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at 1. do you think that when it does catch up to you, you will be in deeper trouble? Cause why would you not tell her?
/r/seduction21/12/18 02:14 PM
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i dont know
/r/seduction20/12/18 07:09 PM
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Oh you actually wrote it? :D nice man and yeah thanks again
/r/seduction19/12/18 04:12 PM
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Thank you, Do you have any tips on how i can stop feeling bad about hiding that from her by any chance? I always tend to feel like i have to confess things like this, even though i fully know it's not a good idea, but it just burns inside me for some reason
/r/seduction19/12/18 04:11 PM
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Yeah i do know a girl actually, but we haven't talked in a long time, but i can definitely try that out, i've seen her take quite nice pictures of others, im already feeling a bit nervous just thinking about asking her about it lol.. why am i like this
/r/seduction19/12/18 03:18 PM
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I see, sorry for the questions but what about that feeling i have, knowing that she sent that to my friend, cause i think i can set it aside, but i feel like i would already be 'hiding' something from her, you know? I didn't see her nudes, i just know about it, but even that feels bad, do you know what i mean or am i just special? haha :p
/r/seduction19/12/18 03:15 PM
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forgive my ignorance, but i swear im not saying this on purpose, i legit don't know how i should take pictures then, like, what do i do after i told them that? Do i just find the nearest nice looking spot and just take a picture there, or do i tell them to take a picture of me doing things? Just thinking about it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable
/r/seduction19/12/18 03:06 PM
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I swear i've tried telling my friends, but they didn't help me out with this and i felt awkward saying that. I don't even know how that works, do i just say 'hey guys, can anyone take a picture of me doing random shit?' or what?
/r/seduction19/12/18 03:00 PM
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Yeah, i do tend to overthink things, but i think that comes from the need to be prepared for most scenario's, you know what i mean? The thing is, you say 'thanks for the add', but she didn't add me, im just following her on insta, she doesn't follow me back (though im not sure if she accepted my request or if she has a public account). And wouldn't she find it creepy or weird (since you're a girl, you might be able to give me a better idea on how you guys think), also, what about her sending it …
/r/seduction19/12/18 02:59 PM
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Wouldn't know how, we don't see each other, it was just a rare occasion
/r/seduction19/12/18 02:55 PM
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Tried it, no success, i don't have pictures and the ones i have are not good at all and all selfies
/r/seduction19/12/18 02:55 PM
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Damn, thank you for the read, it was a bit of a wake-up slap for me, since i did tend to like pics, though i don't post a lot myself, what he said about my attention being valuable and me just throwing it away like that really hit me, somehow. Ill try to keep this in mind, so thanks
/r/seduction19/12/18 02:54 PM
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Yeah.. fuck, i was afraid to hear that, but i guess it may be true... It's just i barely go out, or even have time go out, and when i do, it's only with guy friends and i never meet new girls with them, so this seemed like the only option for me
/r/seduction19/12/18 02:47 PM
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Yeah it doesn't matter that much, it's unfortunate, but it's mostly just the hiding it from her that bothers me a bit
/r/seduction11/12/18 01:31 PM
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a good start can be the app 'headspace'
/r/seduction10/12/18 02:46 PM
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Yeah, im actually doing so right now, i've figured out my weak spot 'jealousy' and im trying to fix it on here, but i still don't really know how
/r/seduction10/11/18 07:01 PM
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The thing is, how do i do that?
/r/seduction10/11/18 12:58 PM
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No i don't think of her as my girlfriend, but i just think about how this will pan out IF she'll be my girlfriend, but i can't explain myself well (especially not in english, so im sorry about that)
/r/seduction10/11/18 05:36 AM
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oh i didn't see this reply yet, but if i bring it up to her, she will probably start freaking out and texting her ex (my friends friend) who will then get mad at my friend for telling me about them and then my friend will get angry at me, you know what i mean? And im afraid that if i tell her, i would come across as jealous (which i probably am) and will just push her away anyway
/r/seduction10/11/18 05:35 AM
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Yeah, i know you're right, but don't you have this too? Knowing that your girlfriend wants to fuck your mate, wouldn't that suck for you? And do you really believe her history doesn't mean anything? Cause, like i said, i also don't really have an innocent history, but at the same time, im still a virgin, so it's weird and i feel like a hypocrite.
/r/seduction10/11/18 05:33 AM
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i didn't meet her on tinder though, i just sent her a dm on instagram, and it's more because of her matching with a friend of mine, you know? Knowing that she is attracted to and even was being sexual 2 months ago with my friend sucks. And now that i know that she fucked my friends friend (who i know and actually think he's a bit of a loser) who was/is engaged at the time and that she did drugs, makes this a lot harder for me. If she just matches with guys i know, it seems easier to take in, but…
/r/seduction10/11/18 05:21 AM
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Yeah trust me i've asked for help loads of time but then i get things like 'Dude, just dont worry about it man' or 'dont keep texting her, leave her alone and she will come back to you' (which is never the case with me, if i do that, they just forget about me), 'Just go out' (done that, haven't had a single pull or never really met a girl from friends groups) etc... And the thing is, it makes me feel like a hypocrite, cause i've also done things that might make some girls not want to date me eit…
/r/seduction09/11/18 05:02 PM
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But you said unless i was dating, but why would i date anyone if they are all like this? And how should i think my girlfriend would be different?
/r/seduction09/11/18 04:49 PM
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Thank you, but how can i practice charisma?
/r/seduction25/10/18 02:10 PM
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basically the same as 'i have nothing to lose', right?
/r/seduction24/10/18 06:04 PM
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Let's hope so, glad to hear it
/r/seduction24/10/18 03:51 PM
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What did you do in those 5 years to reduce the jealousy though?
/r/seduction24/10/18 03:26 PM
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Yeah, i realize it's a bad thing of me, but how do i get out of it, like, how do i get in his mental frame? Cause i told him and he just says 'dude, you just don't have to worry about it man, and i worked for this for years man', but if i 'dont worry about it', women just forget about me lol
/r/seduction24/10/18 02:01 PM
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What do you recommend?
/r/seduction24/09/18 04:08 PM
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i will definitely try to do this, i don't need to ask someone to take a pic of me playing basketball, cause we have a photograhper sometimes, so i should be good on that department :p
/r/seduction11/09/18 08:56 PM
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Got it, and when i use a timer in a forest or something, how can i prevent the shot from looking too forced? Cause when you said 'backside shots as you're looking at scenery' i couldn't imagine how to make that look not cringey, you know what i mean?
/r/seduction11/09/18 06:09 AM
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got it, and yeah it definitely makes sense. Just wondering, i think i can manage to get a nice photo of me playing basketball during a match (since sometimes there is a photographer present), but what about things like hiking or doing other active things? How do i get those pictures, especially when im alone most of the time. Do i just ask someone straight up 'hey, i was wondering if you wanted to go hiking so when can take cool pictures'?
/r/seduction11/09/18 05:30 AM
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I understand, thanks a lot man, i appreciate it
/r/seduction10/09/18 11:28 PM
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Sounds chill, im not sure if it has changed though, since im not too experienced with this either, but yeah i just wanted to thank you for the replies anyway, i appreciate it
/r/seduction10/09/18 11:10 PM
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yeah i think you're making valid points, i've even thought about deleting my instagram too (kinda need facebook for my sports groupchat etc..) but im scared of regrets. And yeah meeting girls irl is a big hurdle, cause i don't really have a lot of friends (or friends that ask me to go out with them), last year i was in a student dormroom in another city and i pushed myself twice to approach, once; a girl sitting on a bench, she had a boyfriend but it turned out in a nice night with her friends a…
/r/seduction10/09/18 11:08 PM
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i see, and what about girls you've known for a longer time? For example, a girl you've been in class with in the past, you're trying to get to know her better, do you also just immediately plan a date or do you 'ease into it' a bit more?
/r/seduction10/09/18 10:55 PM
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Yeah that's true, ill definitely try this out next time, thank you
/r/seduction07/09/18 12:31 PM
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Damn lol, that took some balls to say that to her :D imagine all the scenario's that could've gone wrong :o I always think of the worst case scenario, so in your example it would've gone something like this: You: Don’t text me about him unless it’s to say you broke up and you’re on your way to my house. Her: Euh, wtf Theory? That's disgusting Her: *Proceeds to screenshot and share it with her friends* And now everyone thinks you are rude/a creep etc.. But that's how my mind works lol, glad it wo…
/r/seduction07/09/18 11:55 AM
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Oh ok sorry i changed the words a little, i wanted it to come off slightly less harsh haha, but i got it, thank you
/r/seduction07/09/18 09:36 AM
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Yeah makes sense, thank you
/r/seduction07/09/18 09:34 AM
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Is this also the case with texts?
/r/seduction07/09/18 09:34 AM
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Oh shit lol, just like that? I mean, i like the girl, i don't want her to hate me :p I feel nervous just thinking about telling her something like that lol, have you said this to a woman before? and if so, what was her reaction?
/r/seduction07/09/18 12:54 AM
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I mean don't get me wrong, it's not like im trying to judge you or your morals or anything like that, i've done things like this before, but i just can't pick a side, you know? From one hand, i feel like a dickhead, but from the other hand i look at it like you do and just don't give a shit either. I do admit that i easily fall into the scarcity mindset, since i just don't know a lot of women, so that's another point i need to work on... Thank you btw
/r/seduction07/09/18 12:40 AM
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Am i not a dickhead for basically taking his girl out? And yeah i really wanted to tell her to just break up with him (i've done it in the past with someone else) but somehow it felt like i was being a beta male, for some reason, i felt like it was a test from her part to me. But you sound like you know your shit, so imma take it
/r/seduction07/09/18 12:18 AM
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Just like that? And how can i make the transition smoother? For example; Her: Pff, he always does this to me, he either leaves me on read or replies hours after i sent him a message, i only ask a bit of his time but that seems too much for him. Me: Yeah, i understand how you feel, but don't dwell on those thoughts, it wont do you any good. Me: So what cool things are you up to tonight? ​ It sounds so...'forced' or 'unnatural', if you know what i mean, doesn't it?
/r/seduction06/09/18 11:52 PM
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I have intentions, but showing them would just be a guaranteed fuck-up cause she has a relationship, i don't think she'll be like 'oh what? you want me? hold up, lemme dump his ass real quick', you know :p i don't wanna fuck that up And a lot of the times it happens over text, so i kinda 'have' to read it, in order to reply (i think)
/r/seduction06/09/18 11:05 PM
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Wtf did i just watch lol
/r/seduction06/09/18 07:53 PM
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Yeah haha i hope it works :)
/r/seduction06/09/18 04:28 PM
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i haven't tried hand sanitizers, i didn't even know they had that aftereffect, thank you for sharing that
/r/seduction06/09/18 04:25 PM
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Oh yeah, i understand
/r/seduction06/09/18 07:17 AM
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1) i have nothing to add to that, i think a lot of that is true 2) - I think everything you summed up there does apply though, i think maybe i wasn't prepared to be in a relationship (or with her), but i also felt like i didn't want to show her off either and that is for multiple reasons, for example, in pictures she never really looked good, in real life though, she was (to me) very attractive and i felt like i was always ready to jump her, you know? But i knew and if im not mistaken, even hear…
/r/seduction05/09/18 11:40 AM
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Pff, i've been reading this and i couldn't even come up with a reply to a lot of it,it felt like you hit the bullseye everytime lol. It's fucked up cause a lot of things just have to do with the fact that im inexperienced, and due to that, i make mistakes that end up fucking me over (like the bad mindset, bad/hard approach,..). Thing is, when that we were almost going to get in a relationship, and from one side it felt very good, but the other side was insanely terrifying. And it made me feel li…
/r/seduction04/09/18 09:37 AM
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Ah fuck, im such a rookie lol, i appreciate the advice though and thanks a lot, seriously and ill let you know how it goes
/r/seduction01/09/18 05:45 PM
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Hey, i wasn't sure how long it would take you to reply (i assumed you might have gone to bed or work or something) i ended up asking something like 'Say, since wednesday, i have been thinking more about you, want to talk?', it's not literally translated cause it's slightly different in my language. Also what you said i should say was very weird to translate in my language, i wasn't even sure how to make that sentence seem 'normal' in my language, if you know what i mean, so im sorry i didn't use…
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:36 PM
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I understand, but fuck man that sucks to hear haha, i did feel worried about coming across annoying to you since when you replied, you replied to my original question, so i thought you weren't interested in answering other questions or keep you too busy with other bullshit, you know what i mean? (i imagine you would think 'ok dude, you can leave me alone now, i don't give a shit about that') But luckily that wasn't the case :p So yeah, i should just set aside my ego and just send her a message s…
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:38 PM
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I will, the only thing stopping me is this 'pride/ego' battle that i have going on, you know? Appreciate the help!
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:33 PM
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I understand, thank you for the advice, i want to ask you a last question though. There was an online fwb that i had, i got mad at her and sent her a rant almost a year ago (back in december). Since then we didn't talk anymore, but i missed her, especially when i was 'sharp', if you know what i mean. But i couldn't text her first cause i didn't want her to think i needed her more than she needed me and didn't want to come off as desperate. But a few days ago (and i swear to you) i ended up calli…
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:05 PM
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Sorry my english isn't the best, so you used to say that you weren't in a relationship, women thought you were kidding until they found out you were actually still fucking around with other women and that made them want to get in a relationship with you, did i understand that right?
/r/seduction01/09/18 01:25 PM
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Yeah i also noticed something different about him, i have been watching Simple Pickup, Coach Corey Wayne etc.. I think it has to do with the fact that he talks to you as if you're just a friend and how he curses a lot, the setting (at the beach) etc.. Seems very loose imo, but i might be wrong.
/r/seduction01/09/18 01:11 PM
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I see, and sorry if im being annoying or something, but im just trying to learn and have some questions, but feel free to stop replying, i already appreciate the help. However, i feel like there is this 'battle' to see who wants the other more, you know? For example, i used to have an online fwb, but i got mad at her and just stopped texting her, almost a year has passed and a few days ago, i accidentally (i swear on my life) ended up calling her, but immediately hung up and felt bad, cause now …
/r/seduction01/09/18 11:59 AM
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Thank you for sharing, never heard of the guy but he was on point, i do tend to blow things out of proportion in my head and immediately think that she is special or that she is the one for me and that i might not find someone like her again etc..
/r/seduction01/09/18 11:51 AM
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1) - I mean, the ideal scenario would be indeed to have a serious relationship with a girl, exclusively, who is as horny as i am and doesn't fuck around behind my back etc.. Thing is, in my experience, the only girls that have showed interest in me WERE in a relationship (sent nudes to me, told me they want to fuck me etc..) or they were the ex of a friend of mine, etc.. That's why i am very skeptical about it, i usually don't have success with women AT ALL, so trying to have a relationship, kno…
/r/seduction01/09/18 11:36 AM
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Hey man, first of all thanks a lot for sharing that. And i definitely have noticed that too. The girls that showed interest in me were in a relationship (i even had a fuckbuddy in a relationship and felt horrible about it, so i try to refrain from those situations) but they were either in a relationship, the ex of a mate, or lived far away. It's actually pretty sad, that if you're in a relationship, knowing that your girl is probably doing all that stuff behind your back, which is why im more in…
/r/seduction01/09/18 10:54 AM
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I will, thank you and you too
/r/seduction01/09/18 10:46 AM
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What do you mean with my path? And what do you recommend i do?
/r/seduction01/09/18 10:46 AM
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On certain aspects, but mostly not. I do think im a fun guy to hang out with and i can be trusted and such, but apart from that i don't think im typically considered to be interesting, though i am trying to change it more, i've already signed up for sports again, but have no idea what else i can do
/r/seduction20/08/18 08:19 AM
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I understand, it's a very bad trait of mine, i tend to be very jealous when it comes to this, idk how to fix it. And yeah, about the advice, i find it extremely awkward to ask him advice, he really doesn't seem like the type and the only time i see him is either on court or in the locker rooms (where everyone else is listening etc), he also seems like a guy who doesn't want any competition and just wants all of the ladies, you know?
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:51 PM
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Because we aren't really that close as friends, asking him 'hey man, how do you get women like that?' would be a rather awkward thing to start saying, especially cause the times i see him are either on court or in the locker rooms, so you see why it would be weird to ask him? Not only that, but he comes off as a guy who 'wants all', and he already got inbetween 2 relationships from a guy i know (he 'stole' them from him), so asking him about it might make him not answer truthfully cause why woul…
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:46 PM
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Got it, thank you
/r/seduction12/07/18 11:48 PM
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Yeah, so how did you do it?
/r/seduction12/07/18 11:28 PM
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Sorry i don't understand the last part, what is a pad? And what do you mean with you'll just want a real woman?
/r/seduction12/07/18 10:42 AM
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Shouldn't be a problem for me ;p
/r/seduction12/07/18 10:41 AM
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Thank you, good advice
/r/seduction12/07/18 10:41 AM
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Yeah, i think my car would be better than at home
/r/seduction11/07/18 11:55 PM
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Yeah i guess so, so you do this too then, right?
/r/seduction11/07/18 11:45 PM
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I appreciate the warning/advice though, thank you
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:59 PM
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Yeah, but randoms who are (i assume) pick-up 'artists', so they most likely have more experience with these kind of things, but i might be completely wrong indeed
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:49 PM
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Im loyal to this forum though haha, no but seriously, there are quite a lot of shit forums out there, i'd rather ask people who are continuously involved in these things rather than a few randoms on other sites
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:46 PM
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I see, thank you
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:16 PM
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Last question, where does that hook up in the past need to be taken place in?
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:12 PM
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Yeah that's true i guess, just when i look around me, there are already quite a few guys who already live by themselves or are already building their own houses, so maybe women would compare them to me, you know? But hiring a hotel room for the occasion isn't a bad idea either then?
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:12 PM
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And that sexual past, is that the teasing that you're referring to?
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:10 PM
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Would you hire a hotelroom just for that? And how did they react to hearing you didn't have a place of your own?
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:07 PM
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And what was their reaction? Weren't they annoyed/disappointed or something?
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:06 PM
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No worries man, i appreciate that and yeah i guess that is the power of perspective :) I'd love to be/think like you one day, im working on it and hopefully when i'm not a virgin anymore, a lot of issues will solve themselves, only time will tell i guess
/r/seduction09/07/18 07:38 AM
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I'm going to trust you on that one i guess, cause at the moment, for me, there is no way to tell for sure since i have no experiences of it, but it definitely might be
/r/seduction09/07/18 06:57 AM
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What about that resentment she might be feeling? Like 'Fuck man, if only i married someone who was open to this, we would have the time of our lives' and will start feeling like im holding her back or something?
/r/seduction09/07/18 06:56 AM
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Tbh the first part, with the conversation, doesn't make it seem any better, if they pay her, to me that's even worse. Though you're probably right that this is because i feel like it's immoral, there is a difference (to me, not sure if you think that too) between a fwb and being intimate TOGETHER, ALONE, rather than acting a fool and posting it online for the whole world to see. Also, if i felt like a woman was only with me for my money or to fuck me, i would never fuck her, i would find someone…
/r/seduction09/07/18 06:55 AM
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' . As long as both parties are honest and it's all consensual about the relationship. ' Imagine this: I go out, with the intention to fuck. I don't care who it is, or when, but at the end of it, i will fuck someone. I go up to this girl and i put on this mask and act all nice, try to seduce her etc.. When i finally fuck her, i dump her. Tell me, even though this was consensual, is this not the very definition of using someone? Virginity is indeed a broad term, to me, virginity can only be lost …
/r/seduction08/07/18 08:00 PM
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' You said something similar happened to your FWB which I assumed was you doing things based on your post. Maybe you feel that you may manipulate women not in purpose. You talk about not having sex with your FWB yet have oral sex. ' Not sure what you mean by that, maybe you misunderstood me here, but my fwb got 'used' by someone else, who wanted to fuck her, but since she said she didn't want to, he left after she blew him. If that is not being 'used' i don't know what is... Why am i watching th…
/r/seduction08/07/18 10:21 AM
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Yeah, im trying to look at it like that
/r/seduction08/07/18 12:32 AM
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That's quite ignorant to say or think, that i manipulate people, so that's why i get angry, almost as ignorant to say that you get angry from hearing how women get raped, so you must be raping women yourself..
/r/seduction08/07/18 12:26 AM
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What do you mean with settle down again? Are already settled? And for someone with a rich past or not?
/r/seduction07/07/18 11:20 PM
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I just got back from going up to a random group of people, apparently they also didn't know each other, but it was rather boring, i barely interacted with any of them and i kinda feel like i wasted my time lol, got no numbers from anyone
/r/seduction07/07/18 11:19 PM
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Some people say that those are 'sluts' and that they aren't suited for marriage, do you agree? Edit: i mean to say, whats your opinion on that
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:45 PM
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Yeah i don't know how to do it best either
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:13 PM
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Problem is, where do you go if you don't even have friends to go out with or something
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:36 PM
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Maybe, i can't entirely argue with it i guess.. I kinda need to figure out what to do atm though, like what the first step is to take to move on from all the thinking, cause all the replies kinda made me confused a little lol
/r/seduction07/07/18 05:17 PM
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I know it's hard to find which is why i know my mentality is also a problem as well, it's just the thoughts and visualizations man, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FlYZnd7dEPw Look at that scene, and the entire movie is a lot of what im dealing with mentally atm
/r/seduction07/07/18 04:46 PM
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Yeah, makes sense, i guess i do need to learn to stop judging, i really hope ill manage to be fine at the end, thank you
/r/seduction07/07/18 04:36 PM
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I have no idea bro, don't know how her relationship is with her dad, i think it's pretty good tbh, cause she was talking to him on the phone friendly and texting him etc.. Can i ask what the problem is in that she comes to me with a problem like that? And let's say for example, im on tinder, i just wanna fuck, so i lie my way into the girls pants, she sucks me off, i think it's great but then she said she don't want to fuck me, i drop her just like that cause i didn't give a fuck about her and j…
/r/seduction07/07/18 04:13 PM
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Well yeah, so be it, i get what you're trying to say, it's just an inconvenient truth that i find hard to swallow
/r/seduction07/07/18 04:08 PM
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I guess so, im sorry, it's just a hard truth to swallow, you know?
/r/seduction07/07/18 04:08 PM
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I guess then you have to find a way around it, am i not enough? Then i would bring toys and see if it works then? She thinks im too skinny/fat? Ill work out more, I can't last long? Ill masturbate before or we will find another way, i feel like giving up because you're 'sexually incompatible' is not really love. What's up with amputee's or paralized people? They find a way around it don't they?
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:49 PM
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Might be, i have no idea
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:46 PM
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Then how come a fwb of mine called me at around 1 am crying like hell cause she sucked a guy off but since she said she didn't wanna fuck him he left her and ghosted/blocked her? They do get emotional and he did use her, he got a blowjob from her and when he realized he couldn't use her more, he left and she cried and called me
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:45 PM
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If she keeps sucking me and me alone, eventually she'll get better too and even more adjusted to personal liking, she doesn't need to suck different cocks to be good at it
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:43 PM
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Yeah, i've reached that 'crazy emotional' part. Just watched the movie 'Chasing Amy' and i almost felt teary, cause it was very relatable. I hope that i will find this out, thank you
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:43 PM
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But a girl can also be great in bed if she practiced a lot with you alone, don't you think? Why does she have to have fucked a lot of guys? If she fucked you over and over, she would know all about you and YOUR body, which should make things perfect, don't you think?
/r/seduction07/07/18 12:49 PM
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Sounds like pure confidence right there
/r/seduction07/07/18 10:46 AM
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Because i'd rather find out i can't handle things like this now, rather than find it out 2 months into a relationship and boycotting myself from a great girl. Honestly man, if she even worships you, please don't cheat on her man, you both get on really well etc.. why ruin that? Cause you still like fucking her and being with her, it's not like her past affects you to a point where you don't like it anymore (and im afraid that will happen to me)
/r/seduction07/07/18 10:06 AM
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But why not just drop her immediately? And why do you think she fucks those guys (maybe behind your back?), she might be loyal still, no?
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:48 AM
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Do you ever get those thoughts too? And do those thoughts get away when you think 'hey, its my turn'? Cause when i imagine a situation like that, i don't think it will go away when i think 'its my turn'
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:46 AM
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Definitely, it sounds amazing, don't get me wrong, i get you on that too, but you know i also think that if i find a girl who is constantly horny like me, we can fuck so many times that eventually, she'll be amazing in bed too, you know? It doesn't really have to be with loads of partners, practice with one partner can be better actually, since her practice would be perfectly adjusted to your needs (and you to her), you know what i mean?
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:44 AM
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I really hope that is true, but in my thoughts, it seems like that won't help me put my thoughts at ease at all. It will more be like when we're in bed and she can give amazing blowjobs, ill think 'How many guys did she suck in order to be this good?' you know?
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:42 AM
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I can't seem to find that movie, been recommended to me a lot
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:40 AM
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I really find that hard to believe, why the hell would i find that hot?
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:39 AM
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Yeah, atm it doesn't seem like it's going away anytime soon, i read a lot of different replies, a lot of different advice etc..
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:36 AM
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Imagine if she fucked 100 guys, you would just be 1 out of 100, i then realize that if she slept with so many guys, she hops on from one to the other, which will most likely happen to you too, as soon as she sees someone else, she will drop you for him,cause she wants a piece of that too, you know? And the chances are that one of those 100 people were a lot better than you, maybe she will start missing them while you're in a relationship, maybe she'll reach out to them, maybe they will reach out…
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:35 AM
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Sucks to hear man...
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:33 AM
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figured out step one, thing is, what do you mean with acting on the thoughts and how do i stop them, you know?
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:32 AM
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See, the thing is, imagine if this was your daughter, you heard or see her getting fucked by those guys, wouldn't you feel some type of way? And another thing, it's not because it was 'consensual' that she didn't get used. Imagine if i manipulated a girl into thinking i had good intentions with her (i swear on my life, something similiar happened recently with a fwb of mine) and she believed i had good intentions, so she consents, but i just fuck her and drop her, she got used
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:27 AM
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Because then you know that your friends have fucked her?
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:24 AM
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Really? Can i ask what your thought process was though? What exactly made you get over her past and when exactly was it? Do you think it was because of age or the experience?
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:23 AM
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What if your wife starts to miss one of those past partners or experiences? What if she wants to indulge in one of those things that you aren't interested in or can't give her?
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:22 AM
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Ill do my best, thank you
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:33 PM
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Hmm, i think i understand. But what do you mean with 'most girls don't just jump into bed with some guy and start a threesome...' Do you mean that even if you find someone you think you would be compatible with, maybe after a year she will ask you for a threesome? Cause im afraid im going to decline that offer and don't want her to find that a dealbreaker, or go do it behind my back
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:33 PM
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It's hard man, it's all hard, getting over this mental hurdle and stuff.. But i hope ill be better soon, it's getting really exhausting.. thank you btw
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:26 PM
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i hope i start to care less, in fact i don't even want to wait until im older, cause i mean, look at me man.. Look at how long i've been replying and working on this fucking shit, i've actually made someone who tried to help me mad by my problems,..
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:23 PM
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Ill do my best, thank you, i appreciate it
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:21 PM
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I think i understand, it's just a bit sad that if i do find that girl who i love, and want to spend the rest of my life with, but has a rich history... fuck man
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:18 PM
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But if i don't even spend a lot of time with her and happen to fall in love, should i then just say 'fuck it' and pursue anyway? Or did i misunderstand?
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:15 PM
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Im not in college anymore had to drop out this year im almost 22 and the first thing you said is a little true yeah, i think for example that if she had 50 guys fucking her in the past, im just 1 of the 50, instead of the more special 1 of 3, you know? It's like she was/is just hopping from one dick to another and most likely will bail on me as soon as she finds someone else, almost like she doesn't 'value' it as much as i do. Also it's not fun knowing that my co-worker and far friend fucked my …
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:14 PM
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Cause some guys have been telling me now that i shouldn't settle for someone with a high body rate, it's getting so confusing, i don't know what to think or what to believe, you know?
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:11 PM
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Thank you but hold up lol, so now you say the worst thing is worrying about something i can't control, so if i fall in love with a girl who has a rich history, it's out of my control, so i shouldn't worry about it?
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:06 PM
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But doesn't that make you a hypocrite though? If you have a lot of plates under your belt, but don't expect your partner to?
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:03 PM
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Yeah i need to chill, i've been going at it for a long time, constantly replying and hearing one thing, then hearing something else from you and it's confusing as shit
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:02 PM
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I did a lot of research, that topic is always something that pops back up in my mind though lol, and yeah, to figure out how to do oral well, i need to lay with a woman, and that is problem number 1 atm haha, it does sound comforting though, thank you
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:58 PM
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Fuck man, i actually feel like my head is about to explode... fuck this shit
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:56 PM
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Yeah, you talk a lot of sense. It's not that im not totally uninterested in kinky stuff, like a 'vanilla' girl does sound nice, but also boring (depending on what kind, you know?) Cause i do want her to be wild in bed, i just don't want her to parade herself or to show that she is 'cheap', like Mohammed Ali said, you have to dig to get diamonds, you don't just get them like that, you know? And i just compare it with if it was your daughter, you know? Imagine you saw your daughter in that clip, g…
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:55 PM
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Isn't it hypocritical of me to expect her to be an angel if i also have some kind of past though?
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:43 PM
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If i remember, i will, you too
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:36 PM
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Well, this shit is scary.. and it's opposite of what everyone else is telling me.. damn
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:36 PM
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Yeah, it's just the fear of 'will this be a dealbreaker to them?' you know? And yeah, you're 100% right, the fwb that i got, i did just straight up tell her 'guide me if im doing something wrong' and she did at times
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:35 PM
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I know you said to have a positive attitude (im not doing this on purpose) but don't women prefer thickness above actual length? I don't have either lol. And yeah i guess that's true, i will start playing sports again and see if i can hit the gym as well, i've been wanting to get big for too long now and i need to take action, maybe even take shakes
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:33 PM
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Haha, seems like it atm, especially when one says something and another says something else. But with my looks and stuff, i don't want to limit my pool to only those women, you can't choose who you fall in love with and i don't want to let the woman of my dreams go because of my own struggles you know? Which is why im spending so much time and replying, just in the hopes that i can fix myself
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:30 PM
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Can you elaborate more, cause this shit is getting confusing
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:24 PM
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I also have thought about having sex with 2 women, but i don't think it would ever be something for me, i think i need the emotional connection (which is why i also value my virginity), besides, even if i wanted to, it would be extremely hard for me to find an opportunity, i assume for a woman, it's a lot easier to go through with it, don't you think? You're definitely on to something, though im not sure how to feel about it if she was with a lot of women.. I can't seem to form a decent opinion …
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:24 PM
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Yeah there are actually a lot of thoughts i dwell and obsess over btw, one of the reasons is definitely that i am afraid i won't be good enough, maybe she will miss it, maybe they will mis her and contact her in the hopes of having her for a night or more, or her wanting to engage in more threesomes (which i totally don't want) etc.. there are a lot of factors there
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:17 PM
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Yeah, i hope that it might fix itself the more experience i get, i guess there is only one way to find out
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:15 PM
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Thank you for sharing that and the advice, though i think a big part is insecurities, you are above avarage lol, i don't think girls would really want to be with me, im just 'avarage' and not even anything spectacular down there either, you know? I'm also not handsome, so im really doubting that i can be attractive, no matter what book i read :p (Tinder is a nice example of that, had fuck-all luck on that thing, which is basically a test to see if you're attractive, let me tell you, females don'…
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:10 PM
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I actually read about it online, but it was just a stupid way to sell his fucking book and didn't help at all, i am seeing a psychologist, but it seems like im not going to get better through her either
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:06 PM
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Am i right in assuming you had those thoughts too then? And if i push through, are you certain it will be better?
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:05 PM
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im 21 atm, thank you for the compliment
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:44 PM
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Ill try something alone those lines, see if it might release some pressure, appreciate the advice if you have more, feel free to let me know
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:43 PM
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I know how stupid it is, i know it's 100% my fault and all of that, trust me, which is why im trying to fix myself, im trying to gather information, im trying to change, but as you might notice, this shit is pretty damn hard to do, im just fighting myself to not give up on this, cause i know that i will hurt myself in some way like this
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:42 PM
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i think women have something similiar, i've watched a video in dutch of women being interviewed on the streets on what they thought about a man who visited prostitutes, they said it was disgusting and he shouldn't lay with them if they found out, cause (i swear this was one of the arguments they gave) 'Do you know how many people have been in there?', so even they have a problem with women with a high 'score'
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:36 PM
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Seems like you have quite the girls at your disposal, you're well endowed, confident, probably good looking as well, not sure about the age, but you seem to have all of that going for you and you know what, i wish i was more like you, i wish i had this attitude of you, the experiences you have, the attention, etc.. you seem like you have your shit together
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:34 PM
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You know, you're 100% right, i also am scared of not being accepted for my (sexual past) which is why i think im a hypocrite, but (pls don't take this the wrong way) 'Let the past be the past and focus...' doesn't help me, it's like saying to a guy who fell into a deep put to just 'climb out', i need someone to either show me how to climb or throw down a ladder, you know what i mean? I need to know the 'how' of letting go and not letting it affect me
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:27 PM
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You know, i kinda respect that, even though after i see her interested in that bodybuilder, i just wouldn't give a shit anymore, let him work for it i guess, it's almost like (don't get this wrong) you're being a 'beta' as they say, you know? Like, 'hey, here bro, take this girl, i dressed her for you and i helped her flirt with you so you can fuck her, she is all yours mate', like fuck no, she wants to leave me, i let her leave, i won't help her get laid, if she had other problems, serious prob…
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:14 PM
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Yes, that gangbang vid i was talking about is not porn, it's 'real', it's 2 guys who sent that video to a snapchat account called 'gentstudent' which is extremely popular, they are students who do wild things, drugs, money, supercars etc.. And you see a lot of couples recording themselves fucking each other, giving blowjobs while driving etc.. So no, i don't 'think' all women do that, i know there are 'good' ones out there, but these are also just 'normal' women who are on that account, so it's …
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:06 PM
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I know sex isn't the entire relationship, trust me, i know. But why do i imagine that? Well, are you never afraid of your daughter doing that? What if that was your daughter? And those guys are just fucking her like a slut, like she isn't worth anything, even if they 'made love' or were respectful/consenting, how would you feel if that was your daughter? Well, it's a similiar feeling to what i feel. I don't like imagining those things, trust me, i hate that im like this, but i can't help it, kno…
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:53 PM
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Yeah, when i read that i just thought 'yeah, your dick was there, but so were 100 other dicks', even though i perfectly understand that your experience could've been mindblowing, and hell, i would love to experience that too, but i would think about it that way, and realize that my dick isn't special at all, it's just 1 of the 100 she had in her, you know? And i would be thinking that she would eventually grow tired of me and my dick too, cause if she had 100 dicks, seems like she just hops on f…
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:50 PM
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Don't take this the wrong way, even though it sounds amazing, it still isn't sure that she wasn't thinking about others, the fact that she initiated a lot might just be because she is extremely horny all the time, screaming might be fake moaning and im just not sure about the second one. But that's just what i think about it, trust me, i would love to be like you, just not giving a shit about it and just enjoying, but i can't help being like this, questioning everything and letting these things …
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:16 PM
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Another guy replied that her ability to 'pair-bond' would drop after her 7th, but 100 seems way too much, like wtf? And how can you be so sure of that? That she wasn't thinking of those other guys, how can you be sure she didn't fake it? As i heard a friend (girl) said that her friend told her that her boyfriend was trash in bed, but they were also together for a year and a half or so.
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:59 PM
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Do you mean that girls aren't loyal anymore or did i misunderstand, and in that case what do you mean with adapt, improvise and overcome?
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:31 PM
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It might be, but when i see a snapchat account where people send anonymous snaps too, there are these guys who sent a snap with the caption 'Gangbros :D' where you could see a guy fucking a girl doggy and the other just recording, like she was a slut/pornstar and they were just using her, fucking her like that, no dignity/respect, i imagined how that could've been a possible girlfriend and that made me angry inside, so it's more than just jealousy/insecurity i think
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:30 PM
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Yeah i just don't know how to let it go
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:28 PM
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Yeah it wasn't like her mouth was still stained with cum, but i just know that it happened that day before or the day before that
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:27 PM
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And what if im thinking about an ltr, what then?
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:21 PM
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Thing is though, there is this snapchat account, where random people send random snaps, like drugs, guns, sex etc.. i just saw 2 guys posting saying 'Gangbros :D' or something like that, showing his friend was fucking a girl doggy and the other recording. I kept imagining how that girl could be my girlfriend, and how those guys were just fucking her like that, just using her, fucking her like a piece of meat, like she was a slut. It was boiling me inside and i don't even know the girl or the guy…
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:21 PM
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How does this go away though? And how do you deal with it?
/r/seduction06/07/18 06:17 PM
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Thank god im looking for a way to fix myself then, huh?
/r/seduction06/07/18 03:44 PM
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I see, ill try, thank you
/r/seduction06/07/18 03:12 PM
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What are they like?
/r/seduction06/07/18 02:57 PM
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Im sorry for all the questions, but how can you be so certain of that though? You said you are still going through this yourself?
/r/seduction06/07/18 02:49 PM
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It's sad to hear that tbh, i was actually hoping something was just wrong with me, i can't imagine being in a relationship and always having this shit on my mind, it's making me crazy and mad inside and i don't even have a girlfriend yet, just the thought of my future girlfriend probably getting fucked by another guy as we speak is enough to make me lose my peace of mind... fuck man
/r/seduction06/07/18 02:42 PM
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Kinda reminds me of this though: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pdeMu-IC0mU I also don't know if you're more for open relationships or no relationships at all? But things like doing threesomes while im in a relationship whether with another male or female is not what i want either, i want her and her alone
/r/seduction06/07/18 02:36 PM
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So apparently this is common? Even though if i imagine, a conversation about it won't seem to help me tbh. How and when does it still bother you though? To what extent does it affect you/your relationship?
/r/seduction06/07/18 02:30 PM
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Is that also what you do? When you say you are still dealing with that, do you just tell yourself that you also have a past and that she has to deal with that too, and does that make it easier for you or is there something else you do? Cause i already decide that it's not worth destroying my future relationship over, but just thinking about how i have a past doesn't really make it any easier tbh, the thoughts/visualizing still bothers me, you know what im trying to say?
/r/seduction06/07/18 02:17 PM
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As much as that may be true, im looking to fix myself, like i said. Do you have any tips for that?
/r/seduction06/07/18 02:11 PM
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I wish i was like you on that matter
/r/MGTOW30/05/18 03:11 PM
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But 34 years old isn't too old though? I understand that you're tired of chasing them though, but i mean goddamn bro you are still very young!
/r/MGTOW23/05/18 01:31 PM
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God i lost so much optimism when going through this sub haha its fucking sad man.. but oh well
/r/MGTOW23/05/18 01:30 PM
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Im sorry to hear that man
/r/MGTOW23/05/18 12:09 AM
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My fear? When (i admit i made mistakes) i had gotten intimate with a girl who had a relationship, another girl sent me nudes even though i didn't ask for it (she was also in a relationship and is now married and pregnant with the same guy), and another ex-fwb who said 'i have thought a lot about going to you just fuck real good, but i cant do that to my boyfriend', my fear is loving someone so much that you think she is the one for you, that she loves you for who you are, that she wants to see y…
/r/MGTOW22/05/18 09:53 PM
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What about your girlfriend now? What makes her different and what are you both happy etc..? Can you tell me more about your current relationship?
/r/MGTOW22/05/18 05:36 PM
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Well that is good to read (finally), congratulations btw. Can i ask though, since you are in this sub, does that mean that you are also cautious about certain things? Like, do you always split the bill or do you keep your own savings? And how do you feel about when people on here say that women will leave you as soon as they see fit, as soon as someone else who is in their eyes 'better', a better provider, more handsome,.. comes along? Doesn't it bother/scare you to read those things?
/r/MGTOW22/05/18 04:11 PM
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Fuck man, it's depressing as shit to read these replies lol... Here i was, hoping to live a life, happily married, kids, house, nice car, travelling etc... all down the drain. The fucked up part is, i can't really disagree with what you said, there is just always that small part in me that doesn't want to give up on hope, you know?
/r/MGTOW22/05/18 04:08 PM
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I understand
/r/MGTOW22/05/18 02:32 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/MGTOW22/05/18 02:17 PM
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Thats also true
/r/MGTOW22/05/18 12:30 PM
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Yeah, i see what you mean and i guess that is true... damn
/r/MGTOW22/05/18 12:20 PM
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Yeah, definitely makes sense. I think i will probably go about it like you do, cause even though a lot of people are skeptical about it, i still can't help but feel that if i were to be on my deathbed, i would probably ask myself 'How would my life be if i just gave her a chance?', and i think it would crush me to have that hole in my heart, you know? But i will definitely be careful and if i reach my thirties and i still haven't found anyone who can change my thoughts, then i probably stop tryi…
/r/MGTOW22/05/18 12:19 PM
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Thank you for the advice, it does suck to read this tbh, but maybe the reality/truth isn't as nice as i would love it to be..
/r/MGTOW22/05/18 12:09 PM
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I saw a documentary about him and she was with him when he had nothing, but she kept believing in him, supporting him and loving him nonetheless, and now he is rich as fuck and successful, thats the only reason why i mentioned it, i didn't say it had anything to do with ImmortanV8, i just thought it was relevant enough to bring it up, that there actually are women out there who stay with you when you have nothing and aren't out on your riches, don't you think?
/r/MGTOW22/05/18 12:07 PM
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girlfriend then?
/r/MGTOW22/05/18 12:05 PM
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But if you look at the wife of Connor McGregor, don't you think that's awesome? A woman who not only provides sex etc.. but also supports you to do better and grow with you?
/r/MGTOW22/05/18 11:48 AM
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Well, starting with the first point, im 20 years old and a virgin, i am so curious how that feels. Masturbating is nice, but i dont think anyone can claim it to be as good as doing it inside a woman, feeling her, her warmth, her body, hearing her moan etc.. I might have too high expectations, but even then, it still should be much better than just jacking off. Honestly, when i jack off i even feel like a fucking loser, you know? I also understand what you mean with that last example, but i think…
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 07:23 PM
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Yeah, i guess you're right. Thank you for your help, i really appreciate it, and i needed it, so thanks
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 07:16 PM
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I understand, it makes sense. For me though, my libido is insanely high and cant be asked to masturbate for the rest of my life. You said there is an army of whores created for casual sex, where the fuck do you live lol, i haven't found anyone interested in that with me, i also wouldn't know how to find out if they are interested anyway, but jesus, im so jealous of guys i know who have friends with benefits and who are rejecting women/ sex left and right. For me, with my libido, i cant imagine m…
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 06:46 PM
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Well, this is exactly what i mean/feel. Its just, i have no clue where to start, what to do (how to act etc) What red flags i should be careful of (cause how the fuck am i supposed to know if a relationship is going to be bad, i know you said i should experience it myself, but i'd like to spare myself as much bullshit as possible). And im scared that im actually turning (or going to turn) misogynistic. Im sorry for rambling about it, but my mind and feelings are a huge mess at the moment.
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 06:40 PM
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Am i right if i assume a casual relationship is a 'friends with benefits' kind of relationship? What about visiting brothels? Also, do you think there is a possiblity (no matter how small) that one of those casual relationships can turn your mind around?
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 06:18 PM
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But how do you deal with your sexual needs and feeling 'lonely', like coming home from work exhausted to no wife, kids and food etc?
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 06:06 PM
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Yeah, its so fucking sad, and honestly i was hoping to find a grain of hope, you know? Cause i would've loved to find that other half of me, someone thats different from the others, but im losing hope and have no fucking clue what to do. Hell, should i stay single and just occassionally go out and fuck a whore and losing my virginity to one and keep going to brothels to fulfill my needs? Or will one of my needs be the love and companionship? ..i dont know
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 05:50 PM
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Yeah, i guess that makes sense, but fuck man, it sucks to realize this shit...
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 05:39 PM
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So should i just give up? I mean, it seems like you also dont really see a point in it, right?
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 05:39 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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