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It that's the case, then I need to buy a white panel van as I have a deep voice, shaved head, and a beard. Lol
/r/MensRights04/05/26 02:06 PM
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I would infer it's an attempt to strike at the man's insecurity as calling someone that tends to get men riled up. (Or it did) Me personally, as a straight asexual male, I'd blow it off with an emotionless "Ok" or "whatever," as in it's interrupted whatever I was currently doing. That said, it is amusing to hear women say that while claiming to be "allies." While I can't speak for all men, I'm confident enough to say that most of us wouldn't call a woman a lesbian if she blew us off. I got lucky…
/r/MensRights04/05/26 02:03 PM
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From the reels I've seen, the more vapid members of the female gender tend to think men should pay 100% of her stuff. His money is her money, her money is her money.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 05:46 PM
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Have it added to the decree that if she's late on the mortgage payments, you're able to sell the house as it'll wreck your credit otherwise. That's what I did for my divorce as there was no way my ex would qualify to be on it herself. I also mentioned that during mediation as my credit took a hit from the few times she was late on it. Guess who hasn't been late since.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/25 10:26 AM
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I wish we had more money. Not 6 figs, but definitely not living paycheck to paycheck. Granted, she became a lesbian, so I believe she spent most of her life in the closet. What was ironic is that my last year of teaching, I was making significantly more. So we could have lived comfortably. Unfortunately, she crossed a line that you couldn't step back over. In my current relationship, we make do and love the simple life. We talk about problems and haven't had an argument in the year we've been to…
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/25 03:25 PM
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Loss of my kids and reduced financial independence. Thankfully, my ex and I have a great parenting relationship, and I get to see my youngest every other week. Sometimes, we'll switch two weeks at a time. Now it's really financial independence, and that's only because I got burnt out from teaching and accepted a non-teaching position for less money. That said, I'm confident I can rebuild my finances to where they were. I actually enjoy the solitude.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/25 05:35 PM
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Wish I knew this knew before... now I feel trapped with a clingy, broken bird that dislikes it when I want to just spend time with my kids, work on college work, or not be disturbed while working from home. Or even simply spending an afternoon playing a video game because my attention isn't 100% on her.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/25 05:29 PM
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There was a male educator who was busted for basically the same thing, lacking engaging in intercorse, and he's chilling out with felony charges and no bond. So yeah. Double standard.
/r/MensRights31/07/25 12:22 AM
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The self-improvement videos from creators on YouTube aimed at men were genuinely helpful. They played a big role in helping me get through my divorce—especially after my ex had an affair with a female co-worker. Those videos made me more aware of the warning signs and gave me practical guidance for navigating the emotional and logistical challenges of divorce. That said, personal growth should be a lifelong pursuit. Unfortunately, it seems like many in the younger generations are content with st…
/r/MensRights28/07/25 08:56 PM
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It could be because they see him as an easy mark.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 08:41 PM
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The same woman a few years from now: "Why are these weak men choosing AI companions over us?!?! We're 'real' women!"
/r/MensRights27/07/25 06:55 PM
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I really don't GAF. It's like "rate my teachers." If I was on there from my former students, they would probably be whining about me being a hard ass and not letting them screw around. I have more interesting things to spend my energy on.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 08:49 PM
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My ex-wife used to watch that show... remember a long monologue from a doctor writing a letter about how he loved the woman he was pining for. She wasn't interested. Whole time I heard it, I kept thinking, "Jesus man, grow a set and move on."
/r/MensRights25/07/25 08:37 PM
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Cue the "wah, wah, waah" trombone sound.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 05:41 PM
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I don't hate my parents, but I wish they would've let it be my decision. Of course, there is the argument, "bUt YoU dOn'T rEmEmBeR iT." Usually, proponents of this barbaric practice have no answers when countered with questions on female circumcision or intentionally breaking a newborn's arm or leg. Or in the case where the procedure is botched and the boy is scarred even before they've had a chance. The person won't "remember" it, but it doesn't make those actions any less barbaric. This was a …
/r/MensRights20/07/25 01:30 PM
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As an American, I would agree with this statement.
/r/MensRights20/07/25 01:22 PM
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But water isn't wet.
/r/MensRights20/07/25 12:57 PM
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I believe it is directly linked to the fact that Gen-Z and the younger millenials are not getting married. I am not seeing the benefits of it, and I am a grizzled Gen-X'er who got off relatively easy on my divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 03:23 PM
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Some of the more devout groups still push it. I know the Mennonites will not allow outsiders to become full members of the community if they have been divorced due to the reasons you outlined.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 03:20 PM
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My sister's marriage ended due to infidelity and because she's a lifelong alcoholic. Like most addicts, it is never their fault. The support group I was in only had a few people in it. However the women cited similar issues like you referenced. My divorce was over my now ex wife deciding to throw over 20-years of marriage away on a lesbian affair with a subbordinate.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 03:18 PM
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I bet that was a riot.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 03:16 PM
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Considering that education is predominantly filled with women, it isn't likely going to happen. Though when I was a teacher, I would encourage my boys to focus on themselves and their education opposed to simping on the girls.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 03:12 PM
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Had a male friend from my college days make a FB post about red pill and MGTOW. I looked it up and started seeing what was happening. This was back in 2020. I have questioned for a while why men are always portrayed simple minded primates while the women possess the superior intellect. There is a company in my city specializing in plumbing, electrical, and HVAC. Their radio commercials especially, portray the husband as next level incompetent while the intelligent wife just says, “Call company X…
/r/MensRights13/07/25 02:28 AM
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Be thankful. Courts could have awarded her full custody.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 05:41 PM
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It is best to go your own way - forge your path before you without the chains holding you back.
/r/MensRights04/06/25 11:59 PM
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you rather she didn't say sorry to you? why? First one or two was accepted. It was the several dozen after that. I was tired. Felt used. Just wanted to sleep.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 01:33 PM
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how many of you guys have had your gf/partner pressure you into having sex with them when you weren't in the mood for it or when you were feeling to tired to have sex? Happened last month. It was a weekend, after 10pm, and I was tired. The GF pressured me into it. Finally gave into it to get her off my ass so I could sleep. It was all of 5-minutes. The worst part was she kept apologizing and smothering me after she realized I really wasn't in the mood.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 12:24 PM
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I lost interest in sex while married, and she labeled that as emotional abuse. Ain't that funny? emotional abuse when a man does not want it, it's also abuse when you want too much. You cannot win so don't get married The majority of my marriage was sexless until the last few years. After that, I began to lose interest. It was more from being exhausted from being a teacher, lowered libido from antidepressant and anti-anxiety meds, and her notbso8ng doing the cat boxes on her days, which set off …
/r/MensRights29/05/25 12:14 PM
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Therapy and antidepressants. Perhaps even a support group. I deal suicidal thoughts often. Not so much missing my ex but more from a lifelong sufferer of depression. I keep pushing for my kids, and because I know my story isn't done yet.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 04:26 PM
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Absolutely. I removed my ex from my friend list to keep her from appearing in my recommendations before stepping away from the platform entirely. Now, I only check in occasionally for updates on my high school obit page—beyond that, I hardly use it. My current girlfriend, however, keeps a close watch whenever I do log in, as if she’s tracking my activity. But that’s a separate issue altogether. Still, leaving the app was the right move. It’s been months now, and I feel much better for it.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 04:22 PM
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Thank you, brother.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 04:13 PM
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My ex is an extrovert as well. When covid hit, she was pacing around the house and ended up having to go on walks. Me? I was content in the AC working with my students online. That recharge for introverts is real. My current gf wants to continuously chatter about nothing when all I want is peace and quiet. It probably does not help that she is not academically minded. So mindless chatter doesn't annoy her. Like you, I bring books, tablets, my Steamdeck, drawing supplies, etc, to keep me occupied…
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 04:10 PM
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Ugh. Makes me want to remain single. She is at work at the moment and asked if I "missed her." I responded "a little," as I really have not been thinking about her. I have been enjoying the peace and quiet, at least as much as can be achieved with my daughter and her friend over. My ex certainly was not like that. She would ask for time together and would respect when I needed time to recover from a rough day. As she is an educator as well, it would sometimes involve Netflix and Chinese takeout.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 10:08 PM
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Why do non-introverts struggle to grasp this concept? When I am decompressing, my mind is not actively engaged in deep thought or analysis. Rather, I use this time as a means of mental recalibration—a deliberate process of clearing my thoughts and restoring equilibrium. LoL
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 10:04 PM
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I have expressed my need for space, yet the underlying tensions persist. I understand that her past experiences with untrustworthy partners have left scars, and while I sympathize with the weight of those memories, I cannot bear the burden of healing them. I am not a rescuer—I am simply a man, navigating the uncertainties and complexities of life after divorce, trying to find my footing again. Right now, I stand at a crossroads, weighing two distinct paths: Should I remain in education and pursu…
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 06:31 PM
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The continuous need for proximity has become overwhelming and stifling, to the extent that even my children have remarked upon it. While I do not inherently oppose physical contact, the relentless attachment has grown increasingly irksome. The expectation of constant togetherness, as though under perpetual supervision, creates an oppressive atmosphere. Her justification remains, "I simply wish to express my love," yet, regrettably, my disposition aligns more closely with that of a cat—I do not c…
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 06:20 PM
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Thank you - I was checking it out and based off the symptoms I have previously researched, it does not appear she suffers from that. At least not that she has exhibited. Definitely some strong attachment issues.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 06:12 PM
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From my understanding, the issue is less about a shortage of 'financially viable' men and more about the entrenched role of the 'salaryman' within Japanese corporate culture. The demands of this professional identity leave little room for personal pursuits, including dating and hobbies. With an expectation of unwavering loyalty to the company and an intense workload, individuals in this system often struggle to find even adequate time for rest.
/r/MensRights24/05/25 02:37 AM
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I’m weighing my options. I make a point to respect her time with her child and don’t feel the need to insert myself. Yet, when I attended a school function, she was upset that she couldn’t come—even though it was strictly for staff and students. I wouldn’t have been able to focus on her anyway; my responsibility was keeping an eye on the students. Then, when I casually mentioned I might go out with the 8th-grade team to celebrate the end of the year, the immediate response was, "Can I come?" So …
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/25 06:51 PM
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We spoke briefly last night, and she mentioned, "The girls will have to get used to me being around. I can stay in the bedroom while you all hang out." I have a feeling about where this is headed.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/25 06:38 PM
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It is amusing how a lot of men are like this. We do not require constant validation
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/25 03:45 PM
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Are you guys living together? We aren’t, though she spends more time at my place than her own. I mean if you feel this way after 7 months, imagine how it will progress after a year. That is what concerns me. In the beginning, it was fine. However, when I started my master's program, even warning her that I would need to focus on that, I began to notice the clingyness. It is difficult for me to visualize marrying her in the future. You got a lot on your plate with a job and masters program. Very …
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/25 03:18 PM
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Wow. Your situation is very similar to mine. I'm not going to attempt to offer advice when I, too, am stuck in this conundrum
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/25 02:36 PM
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I can empathize with the sentiment. While I was barely holding myself together, my ex was spending time with her affair partner. I took on the responsibility of picking up and feeding the children, and my eldest later remarked that it was one of the few occasions she witnessed me break down in tears. Due to the constraints of my teacher's salary, we were forced to cohabitate. I ultimately converted the living room into my personal quarters until I was able to purchase an RV, where I lived for se…
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/25 01:21 AM
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Throughout my master’s program, I faced criticism for not devoting my full attention to my partner, despite having explicitly communicated beforehand that my coursework would require intense focus. Last night, I turned in at 8:15 PM, utterly exhausted and overwhelmed, which only exacerbated her frustration. I had no desire to discuss it, nor did I need a motivational speech—I simply needed time to gather myself and replenish my depleted mental energy. Whenever I attempt to work on my computer, r…
/r/MensRights21/05/25 12:52 PM
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My ex had an affair with a female coworker, so I initiated the divorce. I listed my marital status on my profile, and when matched, I'd tell them. Ended up meeting an amazing woman as the result. If she asks, be honest about it. But don't let it control you. Use the experience to strengthen yourself and enter it as a new experience and new chapter in your life. Because that's what it is - a new chapter.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/25 04:08 AM
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It’s interesting that you bring this up, as I was reflecting on similar thoughts today. After discovering my soon-to-be ex-spouse's affair and subsequently experiencing the abrupt disappearance of a rebound relationship, I find that very little truly unsettles me anymore. Like many others, I have found immense support in stoicism, as well as in realigning my path with Christ. Although I am currently in a relationship, I do not feel any urgency for immediate responses to messages or interactions.…
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/25 11:45 PM
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I had never considered that possibility. After 21 years together, my soon-to-be ex-spouse engaged in an affair with a female colleague, ultimately coming to the realization that she was a lesbian—despite having previously opposed LGBTQ+ rights. The irony is striking. It seems that achieving a 25-year marriage, let alone reaching the 50-year milestone, has become increasingly rare for Generation X and subsequent generations.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/25 10:44 PM
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Started an OnlyFans page... On a more serious note, I have embraced several practices aimed at personal growth and well-being, including meditation, walking, reading, and participating in swing dance lessons. Additionally, I have joined a support group, returned to church, and will begin the process of earning my master's degree in educational leadership this summer. I recognized I was on the right path when my anniversary arrived last July and passed without any emotional significance. I even f…
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/25 07:18 PM
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It seems I was fortunate in that my former partner discovered an attraction to women, which has spared me from significant post-relationship drama—a welcome outcome. She violated our vows, prompting me to end the relationship, and thus far, I find myself better off for having done so, though I prefer not to tempt fate. Your ex's behavior reminds me of accounts where a girlfriend abruptly disappears, only to resurface months or even years later in an attempt to reestablish a connection. I experie…
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/25 07:13 PM
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Could respond with, "Did I save 15% on my car insurance?"
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/25 07:09 PM
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My 14-year old prefers to stay with me as she doesn't have to listen to the constant bickering between her mother and 22-year old sister. She's even asked if she could stay with me full time.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/25 07:03 PM
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My kids are my number 1 priority. If a partner is unbelievable to accept thy or does resentment, it's a sign to send them on their way. There's 8.5 billion people on the planet, with around 340 million in the US. She's not that special.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 09:46 AM
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This. It's the main reason I refuse to do service with a local plumbing/electric/HVAC company. Their commercials make the man out to be a bumbling motion who can't do basic things... like install a faucet, fix a pipe, replace an electrical outlet or light fixture.
/r/MensRights26/11/24 01:12 PM
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In my situation, my soon to be former MIL admitted she felt bad for me and the kids. My STBX had an affair with a female coworker. From what my eldest said, the MIL is NOT supportive of it. I've continued to demonstrate that I've been there for the kids as they're all that matter to me right now. I'm hoping to enter mediation soon to finalize this shit.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/24 12:02 PM
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I can only speak from my own experience and observations about the emotions part. If I give in to my emotions, I begin to think and act irrationally. If I withdraw, my world collapses. My ex is disconnected, barely does anything around the house, and is exploring her new sexuality. I've already stepped back to see what happens. So, while I recognize the importance of acknowledging men's feelings and emotions, I'm afraid the drive will be to weaken us as a sex.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 02:33 PM
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Always wondered, if a woman gaslights a man cleon they're "gay", what would happen if the men used that against them. Flat out, ask the harpy if she's homophobic, as her comments and actions demonstrate that
/r/MensRights27/06/24 02:07 PM
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I'd toss in "entitled white man" in the mix when white women use it.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 02:02 PM
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I'm thinking of a sub I belligerent is called "former redpill" or something like it. Stumbled opon it while looking up a MRA YouTuber.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 02:00 PM
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So true. Though in my case, my ex stepped out with a female coworker. She's out exploring her new sexuality while I'm remaining the rock and foundation for the kids. But I'm getting through things. I'm trying to use my resourcefulness to get my life back on track. Also helps I've been going to a divorce support group and am currently on Prozac. 😆 But where it seems they'll follow their emotions and continue down the same path expecting different results, guys will try examining the situation and…
/r/MensRights27/06/24 01:57 PM
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As others have said, don't. Live your life, pursue your goals and hobbies, and build yourself how you see fit. I equat it to casinos. I know mathematically the odds are not in my favor. I don't hate them, but I'm not going to waste my time and resources going to them. Same with the lottery. I'm instead going to pursue other things that'll bring me some growth, interest, or joy.
/r/MensRights26/06/24 06:18 PM
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Probably because it be used to target us as "dangerous" by the thought police.
/r/MensRights26/06/24 06:05 PM
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I first heard about this in 2019. I was still married at the time, but began to read up more about it and start paying attention. Now that I'm on the receiving end of an unfaithful spouse, I see really see if clearly in trying to look at the dating market. For now, my goal is to stay single and try to rebuild. Only women I'm catering too will be my daughter's and trying to be the best father they can get.
/r/MensRights26/06/24 06:02 PM
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What's funny is that during the 40s, women stepped up and went into the workforce to support the war effort. Comforts like AC were limited, yet they did it. They were bad asses and deserve the respect. Now, these TikTok "queens" would be crying over heat and hardwork, and how unfair it is.
/r/MensRights26/06/24 05:57 PM
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That'd be hilarious, almost a Babylon Bee article.
/r/MensRights26/06/24 05:55 PM
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Or teacher seduces teenaged student, "he took advantage of my vulnerability. "
/r/MensRights26/06/24 05:41 PM
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Part - B: Speaking from experience, the woman having an affair with another woman is still gut-wrenching. It isn't "hot" or arousing. Sure, you can't be cuckholed onto another man's "love child," but you're still living with that deep betrayal.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 06:46 AM
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Ha! Misandrist views are encouraged. But yes, it was odd. Especially as I've never made anything bad, even on the old MGTOW board.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 05:47 PM
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An algorithm does it automatically. As soon as I subbed to this, I was banned from r/askreddit for "incel, misogynistic, and red pill content." All I did was click "subscribe".
/r/MensRights10/06/24 02:50 AM
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You're a rational individual. Society will eviscerate a man openly saying he will not date a trans person. A small number of women are trying to raise "harassment suits" against men, refusing to acknowledge them The funny thing is I've been hit on by gay men in the past. They'd even ask if I was gay. Told them no, and they were like "cool bro. Who do you think is gonna win the game?"
/r/MensRights10/06/24 02:38 AM
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So true. That first week, I apologized to my kids several times as I was the one who asked for it. The youngest doesn't know it's due to her mom's infidelity. I'll still worry how they're going to fare.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 04:38 PM
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Started about 2009. I actually entertained the idea of an affair as I was in a sexless marriage for 6 years. I never crossed the line. Think I gave it more serious thought around '22, like looking at budget and places to live. Her libido improved, but I was tired of her attitude and borderline narcism. Which is funny as '20/21 were some of the best years. I think I finally admitted to myself that I was done around August of '23. Like when I was telling myself, "I'm done." But I couldn't rational…
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 04:36 PM
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I was going to say she had poor hygiene or what appeared to be suspicious bumps when he underwear came off.
/r/MensRights22/04/24 03:10 AM
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There will unfortunately be more dark times. I haven't been back to that level since then, but I have had some dark thoughts since then. It's not easy. To add to my fun, I had some parent complaints in late September they got me put on a PIP where I teach. So in addition to the failed marriage, I had the prospect of not being renewed. I resolved that by applying and getting hired on at a school in my county which opens more areas to find a place to live. I'll miss my students, but it's something…
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 07:15 PM
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One of things I learned in working with my therapist and processing the divorce, is that we're still human. So despite the "macho man" mentality, we're allowed to grieve. It's natural and part of the healing process. When I suspected my wife's infidelity, we'll more had the evidence to support it, I came home from work and locked myself in the bedroom. Loaded a single round in my pistol and was ready to squeeze the trigger. The following night, when I knew knew, I went for a drive. Put the phone…
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 04:32 PM
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I spent 45-minutes on the hot line after wanting to park my car into an overpass after near confirming my ex's infidelity. Even posted here about it. The next two weeks were really rough.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 03:15 PM
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For me it was anger. Rage. Guilt. Sorrow. My therapist and working on myself made me realize that it's OK to acknowledge the emotions that i previously tried to suppress and not push it on me. E.g. blame myself for it. My STBX is a borderline narc. Though she's accused me of that several times throughout our 20 year marriage and months following me asking for the divorce At the start, I didn't hate her. Still don't. I accepted we moved apart. I was pissed that she had an affair and didn't have t…
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/24 04:30 PM
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I filed after discovering my ex had an affair with a woman. Her strongly conservative mother highly disapproved of it. While I wasn't the ideal son in-law - had an issue with putting up with her daughter's shit tests - I hold no animosity towards her parents. If one of my kids is Facetiming her, I'll say hello.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/24 04:18 AM
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Thank you for your thoughts and comments. I can't fully speak for raising a son as I have two daughters. However, I do encourage my male students to focus on improving and building themselves first and not fall into the "expectations" and "norms" found online. I encourage my female students to do the same. But most importantly, be true to themselves. With the Internet being the Internet, you'll run into toxic men online. I personally don't associate with them or subscribe to their content. While…
/r/MensRights03/04/24 04:20 PM
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My ex denied me several times for close to 2 years of our marriage. I learned to accept it and redirect the urges. Suddenly, when her libido returned, it was an issue when I wouldn't be in mood. She either pissed me off with her attitude, I was exhausted doing most things, or she wouldn't help with things like the cat boxes. So no. I wasn't in the mood. Sued even make comments like "you owe me s3x." Like, I'm sorry. But I don't you anything. Of course, within three years, she ended up having an …
/r/MensRights01/04/24 11:12 PM
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Well, yeah. How dare he expect her to uphold the sanctity of their vows and marriage
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 04:29 PM
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There was a commercial for antacids about 20 years ago or so, where a couple is at a restaurant. The man's eating a steak while his wife is telling him she wants a divorce as she's met someone - his brother. He puts down the utensils, reaches in his coat pocket, and hands her a bottle of Tums. Simply says "good luck". Basically this, OP. Mourn the closure of a chapter, or rejoice, and be ready to rewrite a new one.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 11:26 AM
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Well, considering her infidelity with a woman is what drove me to file for a divorce in the first place, I simply "traded up".
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 11:15 AM
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I'm 47. It's definitely anxiety. I was upfront and honest with the woman I'm seeing at the start. We started off slow and didn't engage in sex for a month. Thankfully, she's understanding and I'm highly skilled in other areas to help pleasure her. So take it slow and understand it happens to the best of us.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/24 04:09 AM
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This. I'd run into that problem with my STBX. My antidepressants were changed. Haven't had that issue with the woman I'm seeing
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 03:15 AM
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Yes. Several times. Each time, she denied it. Even when I basically presented her with overwhelming evidence: having her hair down the day she crossed that line, being home late, not looking me in the eye, smelling different. I asked for the divorce when she finally confessed to everything. She's still with the woman, even though it's not the bliss she thought it'd be. Her career is severely damaged. Her work reputation is damaged. The crops she's sewn are coming to fruition.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/24 05:38 PM
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I am sorry you're going through. I just submitted the financial avidavit and petition for primary custody... my anxiety has been high with the bullshit I deal with from work, but now this
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/24 02:28 PM
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In my case, I left my STBX because she was sampling another kitty. However, she didn't give me the whole "i NeEd TiMe To ThInK" bullshit
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 03:26 PM
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Try this website - I looked for some in my area in December. https://www.divorcecare.org/ I'm in NE FL, but I looked at my hometown and the town where my grandparents lived, different states, and it pulled groups in each. So you should be able to find some in person groups of that's what you're looking for.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 05:55 AM
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Fuck. Reading shit like this raises my anxiety.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 05:36 AM
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I'm going through it right now. My room is the converted garage/living room, so I have plenty of space. I've been the primary caregiver for our kids while she's giving her mistress rides home and coming home after 8.30 at night. The woman I started dating is a divorcee, knows my full situation, and is very understanding. I've been crunching the numbers and it's not financially feasible for me to move out at this moment. If like to, but it's hard on a teacher's salary. We have a verbal agreement …
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 05:28 AM
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The irony is that she'll ask the same. My STBX came home and flat out asked, "what did you work on today?" (We're still under the same roof, sleeping in different rooms) Told her I told took the eldest to work, stayed with tge youngest, picked up the eldest from work and made dinner. Had a therapy appointment and worked on stuff for school. (Teacher on winter break) And watched TV. Maybe I could've/should've done more, but I didn't really feel like it. Oh, and I worked on a budget to see if out …
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 05:03 AM
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Ha! There is no "just a friend." My STBX had a "just a friend." A woman nearly 10-years her junior. We're getting a divorce because of her "friend", and after thinking I had aomw shit figured out, I'm now sick to my stomach as I can't afford a decent apartment in my area, and I can't afford to take on the mortgage by myself.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 02:27 AM
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I'd also recommend signing up for the Daily Stoic newsletter. For the past two years, I've worked to live a more stoic life. While I was a complete wreck three weeks ago, the week following me telling my STBX that I wanted a divorce was a great improvement. I returned to the logical thinking and have not been as strongly driven by emotions. I would further recommend reading up on the Bushido Code and applying it to life. While we're not the Samurai of ancient Japan, we are warriors within our ow…
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 01:33 AM
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I would infer things are not going as well as she planned or had hoped. Her reminder of no family could be projection on her part. As others have said, you need a first class ticket out of there, departing yesterday. Continuing working on yourself and get a nice upgrade.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 01:24 AM
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Have to admit I see a lot of the she shit my STBXW pulled. Only she decided to start a sexual affair with a woman carrying more red flags than a North Korean parade, and a back story even Jerry Springer wouldn't touch. 23 years together, 21 married. 21 brother. I'm 46 now. I seriously started thinking about ending it 13 years ago. But we got pregnant with our second. Talked to a lawyer in '19, but couldn't afford it. Started working out finances and looked at a couple places in September. But pa…
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/23 11:13 PM
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I feel you, brother. I asked for a divorce from my infidel STBXW at the beginning of December. Even posted on here about it. This past week was better. Like I felt better. I avoided the alcohol, but I have been to the gym regularly these past two weeks. I feel better, and I can already begin to see a change on my waistline. Then again, I've been able to have my kids today. Point is brother, use the day to mourn. But tomorrow, pick yourself back up, put the bottle away, and begin this new journey…
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/23 06:41 PM
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I was a summer camp counselor this past summer. Had a group of elementary kids along with my daughter at our last field trip. My daughter who was 12 at the time, took my hand as we were walking into an exhibit. Crowds make her uncomfortable. Should be noted, we look alike. Like there's no denying she's my kid. The assistant director walked up and said "I know she's your daughter and doesn't like crowds, but be careful. Some lady just gave you a dirty look." She was cool with it, but knows I'll f…
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/23 03:10 AM
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I took my eldest to a local part to play one day. It was just her and I, and I wanted to get her out of the house. Her mom, who I was still married to at the time, was working. You would've thought I was strutting around naked the way the coffee clutch moms were staring at me. I ignored them and hung out with my daughter. But I was fully expecting one of them to say something or call the cops.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/23 03:05 AM
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Can't exactly afford to go to Europe. However, I do happen to live closer to a particular old American city that I can enlist help from my amateur photographer daughter
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 03:09 AM
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Shit. That's what I'm afraid of. Her "mistress" is going to her to try and f-k me as she (mistress) knows the kids are my Achilles heel. I barely have the money to pay the filing charges let alone a gods damned attorney. Hopefully the STBX will ignore her Grimma Wormtongue lover and do what's right for or daughter.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 01:18 AM
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Good point. I need to get new profile pics.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 12:32 AM
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I feel your pain 100%, brother. I'm one week in, and I feel completely shattered. Even after today, which was mostly a good day. But now I'm home, with my kids... and she's still out with her f-n mistress... just like she is every f-n night. Oh yeah, I'm documenting that. Interestingly, I've looked at trying some new things. One thing in particular, singing. I've never tried that before. But my youngest asked one day on the way home, so I figured what the hell. Probably sound like crap, but it w…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 11:52 PM
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Tried that. Too many profiles are suspected scammers
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 11:27 PM
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I have. I came on here when she admitted a borderline emotional agitate affair right before covid hit. Plus I've been watching a lot RP videos. I had hoped I wouldn't be one of the ones at this point, but wanted to be as prepared as possible in the event it occurred... and here I am.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 11:17 PM
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That's what I'm hearing. Even her mom's not that confident it'll work out. But she's on her own.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 03:45 PM
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I commented that I have no idea where to begin: picking up pieces, dating again, ETC. She actually had the gull to say "wow. You're moving on already?" I mean, what the fuck am I supposed to do? You don't want me. You didn't wait for the divorce to move on.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 03:39 PM
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Yeah that's what I reached too. Just fucked up. Like have the balls to just tell me. But schadenfreude had her mom disapproving - she respects her mom a lot- her dad's not going to like it, her eldest doesn't trust her and hates the mistress, and youngest is going to be mad when she finds out the truth. But I am looking to get started as soon as possible. She thinks I'm waiting until January.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 03:37 PM
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I'm sorry brother. I'm fighting with my emotions and anxiety right now... our tradition was taking a weekend day by ourselves to go Christmas shopping. We'd get Starbucks and hit places, hand in hand... laughing, joking. Then lunch at Panera or Pollo Tropical. Then more shopping. We'd make sexual comments about Christmas ornaments and overall have fun. Sometimes I wonder if I'd be better ignorantly bliss.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 03:17 PM
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Nowadays, I'd agree 100%. Back then, I didn't see any outward redflags that usually popup in the early days of relationship. I mean, we were living together for two years before I proposed
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 02:35 AM
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Keep trying to tell myself this. Just seems that sunrise is a Venusian day...
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 02:33 AM
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That's the best part. So homewrecker doesn't consider STBXW a "girlfriend" as STBXW never "asked" her out. Homewrecker can't have STBXW over because she's still in love with her controlling ex-girlfriend, who lives with her boyfriend and a boytoy. Homewrecker is still in love with controlling ex and won't leave her, despite controlling ex not reciprocating the love. So in short, STBXW has destroyed the marriage for something that's likely not going to work, and has drug myself and our kids into …
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 02:32 AM
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We own. My eldest daughter and I are going to be working to convert the living room in my living space. Just need the STBXW to get the shit has in there out so we move stuff around.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 02:27 AM
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A well written post. She failed to provide any definitive answers to it other than “mEn NeEd To GeT bEtTeR” mantra. It is fascinating that she linked porn as the culprit, despite it being around for over a century. If and when AI is improved to have a “companion bot”, the narrative will shift and still blame porn. I remember dating in the 90s with the old matchmaking sites. I always found them a waste of time and filled with really low hanging fruit for my age group. I certainly wouldn’t jump ba…
/r/MensRights16/05/23 02:47 AM
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Remind me of a company survey I took several years back. It ended it with the “it’s not our fault, I’d yours because you lack a positive attitude”mantra. I didn’t take it the two years before i resigned.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 02:19 AM
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Saw a MGTOW post from a friend on Farcebook and looked it up. This was 2019. I’ve known for a while the shafts that men have received in the family courts. Usually anytime a child is murdered by the mom’s abusive boyfriend, she had full custody of the kids. Like others, I’ve become anti bullshit. My partner claims I’ve become heavily “anti woman”. I’m not, I’m simply not interested in their stupid games. If I was to end up single again, I’d remain that way. There’s been times I wish was now, des…
/r/MensRights13/05/23 03:40 AM
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This. Right here.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 03:08 AM
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You can add “transphobic” to the list of petulant insults for desiring a partner with two X-chromosomes.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 04:50 AM
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I’m game for it. Unfortunately the Antarctic Treaty would prevent that. But it’d be a hell of a place to set up shop.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 04:29 AM
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Don’t forget that idiot Don Lemon on CNN… he basically made a misogynistic statement about Republican woman, and it’s relatively silent. Yeah, his cohosts questioned it, but it’s nowhere near the backlash had he been conservative. Hell, with today’s insanity, a regular married Joe Schmo declining the advances of an extremely overweight woman would risk being doxed.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 03:21 AM
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Few years back, I had a PITA of a student yell “go back to India”, after accusing me of being racist. Told him it Puerto Rico. So he told me to go back there. 🤣 I kind of stood there and gave him the “you’re an idiot look” and ignored his antics the rest of day. I did write him up. Nothing was done about it. Now, when he decided to use a slur against the music teacher who was gay, he got suspended. 😒
/r/MensRights24/02/23 03:12 AM
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Latinos/Hispanics don’t count as we’re still “white” unless some leech of a politician or group needs to look good by claiming to stand by us… or they need a taco, yard work, scapegoat, etc. A college campus probably isn’t going to lift a finger.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 02:58 AM
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Yeah, especially if they annoy the cartels…
/r/MensRights24/02/23 02:54 AM
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If a man were to sink to her level, it’d end it pretty quickly with a “you have small/saggy/whatever breasts or a loose cat”.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 02:39 AM
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Or they were a teen and were raped by predator adult woman in a position power
/r/MensRights12/02/23 02:36 AM
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I look at it this way, especially as a CWP: I’m under zero obligation to intervene. Unless it becomes a direct threat to myself or my family, I’m distancing myself and following the “observe and report” MO. It does not matter if you’re male, female, child. I’ve read one too many articles and watched one too many videos of strangers getting killed, maimed, or legally punished by being the “knight in shining armour”. Not to mention, society’s anti gun rhetoric of “YoU’rE nOt A cOp”. Correct. Which…
/r/MensRights30/01/23 03:56 AM
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If a 13 yo boy was raped by a 42 yo woman and got her pregnant, he’d be on the hook for child support.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 03:42 AM
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In Florida, that can get you shot. The instant you cross the threshold of the house uninvited, your life is at the whim of the occupant.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 03:39 AM
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Guess it depends. Are you upset in the sense you’re super bummed & pissed about losing the progress you’ve made? Or are you upset in the sense that you’re crying and having a full on meltdown? Don’t get me wrong - I’ve been there before. Losing hours of progress in a game sucks. You may be able to recover it if the system was uploading the save file to the PSN.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 03:36 AM
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Let’s look at this for a moment and take into consideration the RP & MGTOW movements. Let’s do that. Every prepubescent male will be sterilized and can only be reversed if both parties agree. Feminism is now thrown out the window. Men have more power - actual power. Women think it’s bad now as they begin to hit the proverbial wall? It’ll be hilariously enjoyable when they’re hitting that wall and men now have to get a reversing surgery to give them kids. I’m sure as shit not getting the procedur…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 07:53 PM
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She said from the start that it wasn’t going to be the Scooby-Doo we grew up with. However I agree 100%z. Watching the first episode felt like watching one of the raunchy need-to-get-laid-before-graduation teen movies from the late 90s, early ‘00s.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 12:38 AM
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I didn’t have high hopes for this when I read about it a few months back… however, I’m half tempted to watch an episode to see just how bad it is. Funny he mentioned Harley Quinn as that show is funny.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 04:19 AM
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Basically. Even if someone has been found “not guilty” with tons of evidence supporting it, the media and unwashed mobs will continue to say otherwise.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 03:48 PM
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Not sure why you’re getting downvoted. The left feeds off reactions like a tick on a dog. It’s reason why feminists get so pissed when they’re blown off by a man with a calm demeanor. Especially if it’s with an indifferent wave of the hand. Not saying to be silent, but remaining stoic and calm, devoid of emotion is a secret weapon in our arsenal. As for MSN, they’ve been a royal shit show for at least 15 years… like on the level I’ve scooped a higher quality of shit from cat’s litter box.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 11:32 AM
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If a man does have standards, IE not wanting a 403, he’s shamed into being insecure or not “man enough”, then further shamed high count women saying they’re “happy with their inexperienced spouses”. I take the route of not giving a duck. My life, my wallet, my standards.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 11:39 PM
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No, they just lose their homes, children, and half their wealth in a divorce initiated by an infidel spouse.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 07:49 PM
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Be sure to have your phone ready to record in case she wants to whine to TikTok about it. She could easily report your inaction as threatening. I prefer the inaction route unless specifically asked. Even then, I’m likely only going to help an older lady - like a grandma - vs some strong and independent young woman.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 07:45 PM
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They get caught. They just don’t receive as harsh of a sentence as men do. When a female teacher does it, it’s played off and her victim is still on t he hook for the pregnancy.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 07:41 PM
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Thank you for the tip. I’ll check it and the show out. As for a recommendation, Bear McCreary’s phenomenal score for the reimaged Battlestar Galactica. I enjoyed the writing, but his talent breathed life into the show. I still listen to the tracks over 10 years later. For the cats, I’ve always been an animal lover. If I had the resources, I could easily run a cat rescue and have part of the house dedicated to suites for them.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 11:24 AM
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I like to listen movie soundtracks - instrumental mainly - as it calms the mind and lets me zen out before classes start. Growing up, people made fun of it. I don’t care. Hearing and picking out the different instruments is fun. I’m also a cat person. I freely call myself a “cat dad”. I have four of them that are mine - the youngest I bottle fed as a kitten. I like a dogs, and will probably get another at some point. But I like the independence of cats. Lastly, I like scents. It’s from my strong…
/r/MensRights21/12/22 05:22 AM
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I haven’t had either, but a hand massage is so nice. You wouldn’t think it would with as much we use our hands.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 05:11 AM
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Definitely unplug from things - social media, tv, movies, etc. They’re the fastest way to kill your morale. I’m down to FB, which I use to communicate with family. Even then, I’ve been considering deleting it. Have never had a TikTok, Insta, or Snap, and I ditched Twitter a few years ago. I haven’t had cable for five years, and only watch a few select shows. The instant they start the “mEn R sToOpId” (cic) MO, it’s dropped. I haven’t missed much. Outside of select few titles, the majority of it …
/r/MensRights21/12/22 05:08 AM
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The struggle is real. Unless you’re in a decent COL city, a divorce and getting a place of your own is going to be more than your mortgage… unless you like gunshots and your car stolen. Even then I’d have to give up two of my beloved cats. Either leave them or surrender them. So it’s a prospect of stay married and feel incomplete, file for a divorce and likely become homeless, or have accident…. No I’m thinking or talking about offing myself. However in situations, especially as described in the…
/r/MensRights21/12/22 04:31 AM
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I’m sure there’s plenty. Hell, the incel soiboi bitch, Elliot Rodger, whined about it in YouTube before he went in good rampage in ‘14.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 02:17 PM
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I’d say it’s a mixture. Though I don’t blame men for “going Galt”. Why contribute to a society that hates you? Why try to play a rigged game fueled by a system that doesn’t want you?
/r/MensRights20/12/22 03:35 AM
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Ok, so I did see something like that. Problem is that like feminist, they need sperm to fertilize an egg. Single men or gay couples will need an egg to fertilize to plant in the womb. On the bright side, it’ll be good for the premies.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 02:15 PM
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Especially if the artificial womb is ever created. Granted, feminist will demonize single parent men to no end. They practically do it now when a father brings their child to the park and there’s a bunch of hens pecking around.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 11:38 AM
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I immediately think of the POS title, Mass Effect Andromeda.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 04:25 AM
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Well they have to shame him. It’s what they do best. A man refuses to date a 403, ugly/disgusting ass woman, and he’s either “gay”, has a small penis, or is afraid of a “powerful” wahman.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 04:23 AM
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Hopefully the Tolkien estate puts their foot down on it. Tolkien wrote powerful characters of both genders.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 04:17 AM
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A feminist writer who probably never read a sentence of the lore or played a game game decided to write a fanfic of it for the show.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 04:15 AM
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I’d say it’s definitely projecting. I recently saw a topic of Facebook about the “loneliest” house on the world, featured on a beautiful island off the coast of Iceland. Everyone, men and women, though primarily women, were claiming how “bad it’d be” and how “high suicide rates are in Iceland”. I looked at it as paradise. No f-n people around to annoy the hell out of me. I’ll take the boat and go to the mainland for supplies and grow the rest. Indifference? I as a man value solitude. Perhaps it’…
/r/MensRights19/12/22 04:04 AM
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Funny. Except that it’s a farce. YouTuber, TribeofMen had a recent interview with a guy in Canada that nearly lost everything to a 304 falsely accusing him of harassment. The clincher? He had documented evidence she was the harasser, and even sent it to HR of his company. They sat on it until she accused him after she attempted to fondle him at a company Christmas party. I doubt it’d be very different in the US, save he could’ve sued the living crap out of the company.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 03:55 AM
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Reddit shut down MGTOW a few months back.
/r/MensRights12/12/22 01:25 AM
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All the glamour shots and not one of her with her son. Granted, it’s likely cherry picked, but seems like a typical narcissist.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 10:26 PM
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Understandable. Though depending on where you’re at when your time comes, you may not be alone. I remember during the height of the pandemic, there was a fear of people dying alone. I read several articles and posts from healthcare workers stating they were with the patients when they passed, so they wouldn’t be alone. In my experience, both of my parents waited until we weren’t in the room when they finally passed. My aunt was with my mom, and my dad’s second wife with him. So their kids were n…
/r/MensRights27/11/22 05:40 PM
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OP, while frustrating and annoying as these people are, they don’t know you. You know who you are. You live your life for you. Fuck them. Be aware what’s out there to be on guard, but focus on bettering yourself physically and financially. Don’t give them the attention they’re desperately craving.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 02:44 PM
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All the more reason to go Galt. Probably have to start small - go MGTOW and leave the dating scene altogether. Probably also stop sperm donations. I know some guys like it because they’re paid for it, but if femnazis are pushing this agenda, let them conceive without the other half.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 02:40 PM
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They’d probably ban you
/r/MensRights27/11/22 02:31 PM
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Probably gonna get worse if the whiney harpies on TikTok are any indicator.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 12:17 AM
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So what happens when more high wage earning men don’t want to play this game?
/r/MensRights26/11/22 06:45 PM
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Until the same rag writes an article praising women who have an affair, or women’s mags encouraging it entices her to follow suit
/r/MensRights26/11/22 06:44 PM
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Imagine if casinos followed the same mindset of women.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 03:27 AM
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What a load of horse shit. I follow the path that women don’t owe me a damn thing and I don’t owe them a damn thing. I’ll chat with my peers, but it’s strictly casual or work related, and I don’t flirt. If I chat with someone outside of work, it’s strictly casual. I’ve probably had women flirt with me, but because I’ve withdrawn, I’m likely missing it and not reciprocating outside of a noncommittal “thanks”. Then again, I don’t really care as I’m not looking for anyone or anything. I’ve found a …
/r/MensRights22/11/22 03:27 AM
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This. The post two years have shown what lengths an unnamed government will go to silence opposing views. From investigating parents questioning curriculum choices to tying people to a date in January for questioning an elected leader.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 03:01 AM
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I have two girls, so it wasn’t an option. But I didn’t want to steal that from my son if I had one. I didn’t have a choice. I wouldn’t care if it didn’t look like mine.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:41 PM
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Definitely. Reason I don’t have TT or watch the reels. Not to mention the damage it’s causing to our youth. Their attention spans are already short. This is making it shorter with 30-second bits. Not to mention the toxicity of everything. Begs the question on whether we’ll start to see the beginnings of the end.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:39 PM
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Men should walk and let the “strong” women do it. Let them move that heavy furniture or appliances… fix the car… build the infrastructure… go to war… Why is funny, is that Israel requires mandatory military for all of its citizens. I’d put their women as more “bad ass” than 90% of American women. Does that country have the rampant nonsense we’re seeing in the US
/r/MensRights20/11/22 06:07 PM
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I’m an average looking guy pushing 6’, (5’11”) and certainly don’t make 6-figures. But I’m also not pining for their attention. I could care less. If I say something to an “attractive” woman, it’s likely because she’s in my way.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 06:04 PM
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After viewing some of the TikToks posted by Taylor the Fiend and others, it certainly seems that way. The unrealistic expectations: Over 6’, 6-figure income, wants to pamper me, etc… I know it’s a representative of a sample, but I’m not seeing a lot of posts stating otherwise.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 06:02 PM
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Sounds like a feminist. Who hurt you?
/r/MensRights20/11/22 06:00 PM
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Considering it’s usually the mother’s choice, they’re essentially “controlling” someone else’s life decisions. The irony of course is that the US is one of the only non-Jewish/Muslim countries that actively push it. I say reverse the genders and for female circumcision and use the excuse “tHeY wOn’T rEmEmBeR iT”.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 05:58 PM
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This is the same organization that removed all references to the “tank man” on the anniversary of the Tiananmen Square in June. Do you really expect them be honorable?
/r/MensRights20/11/22 05:53 PM
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Hell, they didn’t even care if the male was even a teen. They shamed them for “not enlisting to fight for their rights”. There were several cases of young men committing suicide after being shamed. These harpies even shamed WWI vets from their “white feather” campaigns. Of course, non of them volunteered to be in the nurses corps or anything like that.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 05:49 PM
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Funny. I have a beard and a shaved head. Also could care less what self deluded homo Habilis thinks. I’m not the one on crying on TikTok and other platforms about being single and pushing 40z
/r/MensRights20/11/22 12:51 AM
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It’s the same shaming they fall back on when men don’t conform to society’s “standards”. A 403 is rejected by a dude? He must be gay, insecure, a virgin, small package, etc. Never mind the fact that the woman has an attitude and behavior patterns that’d make Cruella a unicorn.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 12:30 AM
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And the great prophet said, “From the streets she cometh, as shall the streets she returneth.”
/r/MensRights18/11/22 04:18 AM
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Safe to say which route she’s following/followed.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 04:15 AM
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So true. Except they use the rationale that a brain isn’t fully developed until the age of 25. Therefore, the little demon spawn that just the a chair at their teacher for scolding them not grope little Sally shouldn’t be responsible for their brain’s inability to tell right from wrong.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 11:27 AM
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It certainly feels that way. It’s probably why the dreaded “RP” is becoming popular with men. Focus on ourselves and leave society to collapse without us. I’m thankful to have people in my life that recognize when I’m facing dark paths. But I’ve also shared why I don’t want to seek anything higher as the stigma could be more damaging.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 01:43 AM
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I’m an introvert. Always have been. I’ve bonded with other dudes at work as acquaintances. Have even become Waldorf and Statler with them, poking fun of things. But at my core, I’m still an introvert. I’ve never been into sports, and not everyone enjoys going to the shooting range to pop off a boxes of rounds in my field of work. (Education). Not that I could if wanted to with the rising costs of everything. Don’t get me wrong, I’d like to find some dudes to hang out with and do shut with, but i…
/r/MensRights15/11/22 01:27 AM
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That’d be an ex wife.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 01:16 AM
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Grand irony - it was a bunch of cis white men that fought the Northern Army of VA after they camped out in Gettysburg. I’d pay good money to send the snowflake back to 1864 to see that.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 12:19 AM
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Cis white men don’t fall under that category.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 12:16 AM
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The saying I’ve heard multiple times and have always followed: never fish off your own dock. Glad it worked out well for you though.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 04:08 AM
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Honestly, with content like that, I fully advocate men “going Galt”. It’s slowly happening, but start hitting the fertility clinics. If men are so bad, then let these man hating individuals conceive a child without the donations. Move to walking away from construction, first responders, military, blue collar jobs. Stuff that keeps society functioning. As much as people, leftists, hate Ayn Rand’s “Atlas Shrugged”, it showed why could happen when people despised by society walk away.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 06:03 PM
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Ever read the comments whenever a strapping young firefighter or police officer is featured? There’s several making comments about him “rescuing/arresting” them. Women objectify men a lot, including making comments they claim is offensive when made towards them.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 03:09 AM
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According to /offmychest, we’re a bunch of RP incels.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 03:25 AM
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It is. Only time I posted was in defense of a guy questioning his moral choices with his HBC girlfriend
/r/MensRights11/11/22 03:20 AM
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Same. Got perma-banned automatically for responding to a post here. It’s like a Monty Pythonesque witch hunt or something
/r/MensRights11/11/22 03:19 AM
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Damn brother, sorry to hear you had to go through that. But good to see you’re doing better and you came back on top.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 04:07 AM
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I was instantly perma banned from the /offmychest Reddit when I replied to a post here, citing “Incel/Redpill”. I know I’m new here, but I haven’t reach many incel support threads on here or any of YouTubers I’ve watched supporting MGTOW or Redpill. But idiot sheep gonna hate
/r/MensRights10/11/22 04:01 AM
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Had a similar thing happen me in HS as your locker room incident. My sophomore year, I initially dumped over a girl. When I realized she was playing mind games, I stopped. But she’d still come and hangout with me during lunch. One day, she runs up to a PR teacher as I’m walking to dump something in the trash and tells her I was “bothering her”. The teacher immediately goes after me about “harassment” and what not. I bluntly replied, “I’m not even talking to her. Just throwing trash away.” Then w…
/r/MensRights10/11/22 03:53 AM
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When they’re in-line with the leftist agenda
/r/MensRights10/11/22 03:31 AM
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At least until an extended that presents itself and suddenly these proponents will demand men enjoy and fight for their right s
/r/MensRights10/11/22 03:27 AM
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According to the “article”, it’s just a “false” narrative. 🙄
/r/MensRights10/11/22 03:22 AM
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I had to stop reading that as wanted to throw up from the poorly worded prolix. Men aren’t “entitled” to sex or a relationship. Neither are women. Our wallets, our choice. Don’t see what is so difficult to understand such an elementary concept. “Great women” translates to vapid friends who friend zoned the “great” guys and are probably hitting a wall with high body counts. A strong and independent woman doesn’t need a man. So what do they care how we choose to spend our lives if we’re “unnecessa…
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:50 PM
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But… nOt aLl WoMeN aRe LiKe ThAt..
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:42 PM
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Tell that to the women who’ve filed for a divorce for the same reasons as the OP
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/22 02:52 AM
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I can only go for what I look for. How does she carry herself? Does she have actual confidence or she putting on a show? It’s easy to see. What is her education? I’m attracted to intelligence, especially in the fields of science. Does she have interest in that or even a degree in that field? There’s a joke to ask during sites dating, “Tesla or Edison.” If she asks who, that’s a hard pass. How many tattoos does she have? A few is ok, but if she’s inked out, she’s probably not going to fit into my…
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/22 01:29 PM
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It’s funny how many women and simps will shout “iNsEcUrE mAnChIld” or “NaWaLt “
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/22 10:13 AM
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I dunno, at the rate apartments are gong for in my state, FL, $150k/yr wouldn’t get you much.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/22 02:54 AM
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I tried Wellbutrin once. Told my doctor that I needed to try something else as I wasn’t getting any sleep, and my tempter was extremely short… like ready to fight someone short. I’m not like that. She put me back in venlafaxine and recommended I get a sleep study.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/22 12:46 AM
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I’ve been on 75mg of venlafaxine since 2016 - a year after my dad died. It helps take the edge off. I use it for anxiety and depression - the latter I’ve battled most of my life. The side effects haven’t been too bad. Libido is lowered, but I’ve been able to last longer. Granted, I’m also on BP and cholesterol meds, so that could have an effect on it. I don’t mind the lowered libido - let’s me focus on other things.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/22 12:44 AM
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I was going to say this - send a singing telegram if she’s a narcissistic harpy.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/22 12:37 AM
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I’m going to go with her having already crossed the line. Most people aren’t going to move across country without having explored the area.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/22 12:35 AM
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I’m sorry brother, but she’s got someone waiting for her there. Consult an attorney and file. Refocus on yourself, and be glad it’s only been four years and not over a decade.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/22 12:18 AM
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:Edited: I’m feeling your situation, brother. I’ve been having a hard time finding a place within reasonable driving distance to the school where I teach. The county I teach in is laughably unaffordable, and my home county will have me in the ghetto dodging stray rounds and waking up to find my car stripped/stolen.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/22 05:08 AM
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You do what you have to for yourself, brother. You stayed married for 32 years - that’s no small feat. Especially if it’s a sexless marriage. You deserve to live out your life in a happier situation.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/22 04:50 AM
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Glad to hear about the win brother
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/22 04:46 AM
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I wouldn’t say that I’m MGTOW, but I have evolved to have little interest in women outside of platonic relationships. Granted, I’m still married ATM, but if it fails, I’m continuing to invest and focus on myself and my career. The wife’s made comments about me meeting someone else after a divorce - something that’s raised my eyebrows on whether she’s cheating - and is surprised when I’ve replied that I’d move on, and bypass the rat race to focus on myself.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/22 05:08 PM
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Not only that, their son will be putting to alcoholism as well.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/22 01:07 AM
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A few points - unless they’re committing some corporate espionage or theft, HR is probably not going to care. With that said, I remember two managers getting the pink slip for going to another building for some extra curricular activities in a conference room. But that’s likely not going to be the outcome for your situation. Like others have said - gather your evidence, get an attorney, get your own place, file for the divorce. It sucks, but you walk away and start fresh. Don’t be a beta bitch, …
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/22 10:40 AM
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I’m 45. The majority of the younger women I’ve seen are vapid shells of a human on TikTok, fishing for likes. In short, I probably wouldn’t use them for a pump-n-dump. Certainly not wife material. As other have posted, focus on yourself, brother. Build your strength, wealth, and intelligence.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 12:44 PM
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It’s normal, but you need to focus on yourself and your kids. Only thing I’d be concerned with is whether whatever guy she’s banging is going to hurt the kids. Because it has happened in the past with national cases and is a valid concern.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 12:20 PM
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Preach, brother!
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 03:25 PM
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Very true.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 01:00 AM
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I’ve always looked at the red pill life as a casino. I don’t hate the people that work there. They’re just doing what it takes to “survive”. But I’m not going to go there as I know and understand it won’t work out in my favor. Especially if I was burned the last time I went there.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 12:17 AM
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Doesn’t surprise me. A few months back, I read a thread about a guy questioning his ethics as he had strong personal convictions about his girlfriend’s high body count. He was essentially asking whether he should break it off as he wasn’t sure he could accept her with it. The women pounced on him like bands of jackals, referring to him as insecure, weak, not man enough. They explained how she was better off without him. They further mocked him, claiming he wouldn’t find a woman erring his expect…
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 12:07 AM
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Couldn’t agree more. Although truth of the affair will get out on its own.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 02:58 PM
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My wife is likely going through that. While we should support them as husbands, there is a limit and boundaries that we shouldn’t allow: infidelity, physical/mental abuse
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 02:54 PM
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Definitely seek every other weekend - like others have said, you need time to decompress and seek solitude. I know kids are the world - I have two. But if you don’t take the time to care for yourself, it’ll ruin you. Focus on getting fit and building your experience and wealth. Increase your value. While I have not gone through a divorce, yet, research tells me to not jump back into the marriage boat. I’d describe the divorce process of going to a casino and loosing at the roulette or craps tabl…
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 03:09 AM
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I’m sorry to hear that brother. My parents divorced when I was 20 and my sister 18, so we were both adults. It was initiated by my dad. I know why he did it. My mom was an angry person. Unfortunately it’s been a learned behavior, or so says my wife. What you’re going through is rough - I’d be there for your kids, but need to make an exit plan. Hd a student last year who’s parents were getting a divorce. They admitted their mom was banging some Chad on the side while the dad got the couch.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 10:30 PM
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We’re all on the road together, brother, trying to figure shit out. Unfortunately it happens where we fall out of love with someone. I feel it may be my issue and I haven’t fully accepted it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/22 02:42 PM
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Wish I had an answer for it. For the better part of my marriage, my wife showed zero interest in sex. Refused to do anything about it - IE checking hormone levels, depression, etc. I actually talked to an attorney in 2019 about a divorce. Then covid hits. She suddenly has this newfound libido. I enjoyed it at first as I wasn’t super exhausted. I was teaching remote the rest of the school year. Even got a vasectomy. Then the new year starts. My libido drops. It might rise every so often, but I’ve…
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/22 02:26 AM
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I was thinking the same thing. Let her call her “Mr Right” to fix the Apple TV… or call Apple support… or Google it. Either way, it’s not your problem. As others have said, how an alcoholic has custody of the kids is beyond bewildering.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/22 02:43 AM
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Probably not like a lot of women were at the start. A lot of men probably never would’ve considered marrying the women they did if they saw their harpy side.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/22 09:32 PM
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Because it’s the “natural” process. I was reading an article around 5 years ago that said asexual/aromantic people are shunned within the LBGQT community. But society follows the biological aspects. We seek characteristics and attributes that’ll benefit passing our genes onto an offspring. Since we’re a community based species, it benefited the early tribes by adding to numbers or bridging a gap between two tribes.
/r/MGTOW224/07/21 11:31 PM
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I cannot echo what others have already said. You need to look out for yourself. I equate to “company loyalty”. Used to be, you could spend your whole life working for an organization. They’d have your back for life. Now? Doesn’t matter how “loyal” you are to them - they’ll have your replacement in mind before they throw you out. In your situation, it’s time to separate ways. She’ll survive. It sounds harsh, but in your situation without kids, you are all that matters.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/21 03:02 AM
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Yeah, I shook my head at that too. I’ve read enough threads to know women tend to be psychopaths or narcissists, and psychologically damage the father
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 09:19 PM
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Depends on whether she’s riding the carousel when he’s gone
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 09:15 PM
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This. And these moms often allow it to happen or ignore the warnings
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 03:25 PM
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I can speak from observation: those AREN’T the kids of career moms.
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 04:30 AM
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I’d like to see the study as well, though you brought up interesting points. Articles and “advice” for getting through the wife lacking libido is always the man’s fault. A man lacking libido? Still his fault. Except he needs to see his doctor or is “withholding it” as a weapon.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/21 04:01 AM
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By reading some of the posts, it seems they’re dealing with incels. I take the term “red pill” to mean men aren’t playing women’s games anymore. Men need to think with their big heads and growing their net worth. Not orbiting around a female in hopes of getting laid. Secondly, how many men are hung out to dry in the court systems after a divorce? Why in the hell would a guy want to try for round two in a society where the divorce rate is 50% and growing? This isn’t a lame assed, Nicholas Sparks …
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/21 04:34 AM
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I would agree. If you’re pulling a $45k salary and have zero debt, you’re better off than the person pulling 6-figs that is drowning in debt. One thing having to file for chapter 13 has taught me, is that you do not need 90% of the flashy bullshit out there. If only I had had that foresight 6 years ago. I drive a 2018 Hyundai Elantra that is paid off. In a few years, I plan to redirect the $$$ spent paying off the ‘13 towards getting rid of my gods damn student loans and building nest eggs.
/r/MGTOW225/01/21 02:39 AM
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I laughed while reading that, all the while, hearing a crying baby sound effect
/r/MGTOW225/01/21 02:22 AM
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It probably is
/r/MGTOW222/01/21 10:43 AM
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I feel you on the corporate world, brother. There’s a reason Office Space is still funny 22 years later. I took a different route and left to move into teaching. I wanted to serve and attempt to improve the world. I couldn’t serve in the military due to neurofibromas, and wasted 20 years in the corporate world. But I have found myself becoming annoyed with the consumerist, big city lifestyle. The irony of course, is that I’m browsing and responding to this thread on an iPhone while watching a YT…
/r/MGTOW218/01/21 05:44 PM
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I had one in July. Honestly, the biggest concern I had was that I was going to get a raging hard-on as the nurse was prepping me. She was attractive, and it’s a biological instinct. Interestingly, it was also very in unarousing. Outside of that, it was quick. The most painful part was the local anesthesia. But my doc was awesome. He asked how I was doing, I replied “like someone punched me in the balls.” But definitely take it easy. I didn’t have a lot of debilitating pain afterwards. Some soren…
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 09:10 PM
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I’ve seen some YouTubers that have converted cargo vans to their own Class-B motor homes. If you do it right, you can still have the home cooked meals. Me personally, I’ve always liked the “schoolie” idea. Take a retired school bus and turn it into a tiny house. Plus, you have the room to our a nice mattress in it. Not trying to sell you on it, but it’s something I’d consider more of I had the resources and knowledge. But like you, I enjoy being able to chill in my place and not be bothered by a…
/r/MGTOW208/01/21 02:24 AM
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I would refer to that as networking. I’ve done it at district and departmental team meetings. (Meeting with other science teachers in my charter school family or other teachers in the district) Sometimes you can receive a lead to something better.
/r/MGTOW205/01/21 12:12 PM
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Except Depp would fall into the “who hurt you” trope, but would ultimately find love as AWANLT. Or, he’d be the awkward, once virgin living in his mom’s basement and eating Hot Pockets.
/r/MGTOW204/01/21 11:15 AM
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This.
/r/MGTOW222/12/20 04:10 AM
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I was called a misogynist for saying a YouTuber was “pleasing on the eyes and a joy to watch.” Managed to piss off some feminists and some trans users. Not sure how that made me hating women, but whatever. Wasn’t worth my time to engage a bunch of Karens
/r/MGTOW222/12/20 04:06 AM
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You nailed it brother. I don’t look at it as “wahmen r teh bad.” But if the last one pulled a Lucy and yanked the football out, I’m not going to jump in with the next one holding the ball. I’m going to invest my time and energy into something more productive
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/20 11:47 PM
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I think I saw the same documentary - a lot women complaining that the men weren’t interested in them, preferring drinks with their bros or the waifu digital world. It did highlight a young woman that ended up committing suicide after she was being burnt out from the Japanese work culture.
/r/MGTOW208/12/20 11:39 PM
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That defines a beta to the letter. I’d go as far as saying it fits some of the alphas I’ve run into.
/r/MGTOW208/12/20 11:34 PM
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Count it as a blessing, brother. File and close this chapter of your life. Sell the house, pocket whatever profit you have, and begin anew
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/20 03:22 PM
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Could never figure this out. Kid lacks school supplies and a jacket, but has the latest Jordan’s. Guess I’m a miser. I have a pair of Sketchers that I replace yearly, and a pie of dress shoes that I wear when needed. That’s it. Have no need for a $100+ shoes that’s going to wear out in 8-months due to my legs being different sizes. Also on my feet all day, so need something comfortable. Edited as I hit the “Submit” button too fast
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 04:57 AM
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Funny. I heard of MGTOW from a full blooded Cherokee Indian whom I went to college with. The YouTube I watched is a black dude named “Coach Greg Adams.” I’m half Hispanic. So yeah, a lot of white supremacy going on here.
/r/MGTOW218/11/20 03:55 AM
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They usually do it for any medication. There’s a reason you can get paid to be a guinea pig for the different pharmaceuticals. However, you’re correct in that it takes years. It’s basic science. What’s humorous, are the politicians, media, and sheep blaming Trump for “ignoring science” while ignoring it themselves with this vaccine.
/r/MGTOW218/11/20 03:37 AM
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I especially like 1 - 3. I’ve cut back on my social media usage as it’s become a mind controlled fuckery, with the desire to keep up with the Jones’ 2 - I rarely take selfies as I don’t want them to used against me, especially as I’m a teacher. A picture of me drinking a glass of wine, scotch, or an ale could put my job at risk. Even if the parent needs to sober up to comprehend what they’re seeing. In fact, my FB profile pic is a cat in a pilgrim hat, and my Twitter is a gryphon. More important…
/r/MGTOW216/11/20 04:20 AM
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Toxic people, male and female, can wear you down mentally and physically. I’ll admit I’m not always a positive person - I’m blunt and tend to be authoritative as a teacher. I’ve also taken the route of “I give you XYZ, and you still refuse to do it, it’s on you.” Note: I’m not talking about the students who fall into the ESOL category or need accommodations. I’m talking about the “I’m gunna fuck around cuz I R kewl.” That said, I try to minimize my contact with negative people. I get to look for…
/r/MGTOW210/11/20 03:33 AM
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It’s off topic, but you mentioning the shitty movies reminded me of my dad. He’d snag the gems from the bargain bins at Walmart - it was a running joke with us. What I wouldn’t give to be able to sit with him again and watch his new purchase
/r/MGTOW210/11/20 03:25 AM
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Guess I’m lucky. I took a pay cut to move into teaching in my early 40s. Granted, I’m closer to pulling what I was when switched careers, but I’m happier. No one has really chastised me for it, short of my old boss, who couldn’t understand why someone would leave an established position to uncharted waters and a $7k pay cut. I’m reminded of the quote from Moby Dick: “As for me, I am tormented with an everlasting itch for things remote. I love to sail forbidden seas, and land on barbarous coasts.…
/r/MGTOW209/11/20 04:03 AM
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Thanks brother. I’m a Gen X’er, so I accept that I’ll be working till the grave. But you brought up a good point - I can continue to teach as I’ve seen several teachers doing it. I enjoy it, albeit questioning my sanity some days. 🤣 It’s the impacts I make on the kids.
/r/MGTOW208/11/20 03:38 AM
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After my parents divorced, initiated by my dad and no affair on my mom’s part, he always expected us to continue to call her regularly. Especially on the birthdays and such. However, both my sister and I were over 18 when it happened. I personally wouldn’t give the ex a gift, maybe a back of dicks or something. But I would give the kids money so they could buy their mom something from them.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/20 03:33 AM
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Despite the draw of the fair skin and auburn hair, they’ll still burn your ass and make it your fault
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 03:33 AM
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Congrats brother. TBH, I’m terrified. I’m in my second year of a Chapter 13, my minuscule retirement was cashed out after a career change to teaching in attempt to clear up some debt and replace a car. I have student loans, and I’m 43. I’d consider the electrician route, but I’m colorblind. I don’t want to be that old guy you see bagging groceries because he needs the money to supplement his social security. Or worse, the guy in the neighborhood collecting scrap, or panhandling at Walmart when I…
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 03:32 AM
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Edit: it was the White Feather campaign. The White Rose movement was a German student led movement, protesting the Nazi party
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 03:19 AM
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It happened during WWI. One of the victims was a young teen, not close to being eligible to enlist. He was so embarrassed that he took his own life. Meanwhile, the White Rose whores continued on
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 03:17 AM
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Why do you think the “White Rose” movement was ran by women? They were fearful of losing their “rights,” and went to great lengths to belittle anyone with a dick. Including ostracizing young teens, cripples, wounded veterans, and active duty personnel.
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 03:12 AM
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Several companies will pay for your CDL, and ask for two years of service afterwards. I can’t remember any off the top of my head, though I do know you’d want to avoid Swift. I was looking at it in ‘16 before making the decision to move to teaching. Part of me wishes I went the trucking route, but the other part of me enjoys the classroom.
/r/MGTOW230/10/20 02:52 AM
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Nice transformation, brother. Keep up on the positive path
/r/MGTOW227/10/20 02:02 AM
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I’ve been a “gamer” since the days of the Atari. I swap between the PS4 and Switch, and I’m in my early 40s. That said, my game time is limited during the school year as I’m focused on lesson planning, grading, and doing the regular shit on my off days. I also read and watch some anime sometimes. I have found it gives me a common bond with my students, allowing me to build the relationships with them. When I see them reading manga or talking about a game, I can relate to it and show an interest …
/r/MGTOW225/10/20 02:39 AM
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I started playing Atom RPG - it’s a post apocalyptic title based in Russia, and has the old school CRPG mechanics
/r/MGTOW225/10/20 02:33 AM
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Around 10 years ago or so, a WOW player saved his sister from a bear. He “agro’d” the animal to him, allowing his sister to escape. So yes, games do help build real skills if not allow for an escapism
/r/MGTOW225/10/20 01:58 AM
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The judges and attorneys profit off of it. Hell yes they need be to held responsible from feeding from the trough
/r/MGTOW221/10/20 03:06 AM
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This was happening in France around 15 years ago. The UK was one of the few anonymous euro countries. I see that’s changed now
/r/MGTOW219/10/20 11:16 AM
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I’d easily take a fully crewed Battlestar Valkyrie or Viper MK VII. Money be good too.
/r/MGTOW226/09/20 11:03 PM
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Problem is that the draw of a woman is strong. It’s like we’re genetically coded to follow it. Look at the males throughout the.animal kingdom. Even though some species knows that the male is going to die from the female’s actions, they still chase it to bust a nut. It’s why the alphas pound their chests in a form of testosterone laced competition against other males. It’s why the beta simps orbit the females in hopes of a slice of the pie.
/r/MGTOW224/09/20 11:56 PM
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I was there too, many decades ago. It heals with time - like others have said, focus on yourself and building your empire. What I wouldn’t give to be 17 again.
/r/MGTOW223/09/20 02:50 AM
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Well I’m a teacher, so I’m around women most of the town. All are married, and it’s strictly platonic. I reach out to one off and on to run science related things by her for the classroom as she has several years on me in teaching experience. The most I’d remotely consider, is pursing the new ELA teacher for a pump and dump. But it goes against my “don’t fish off the dock” philosophy. However, I’m cordial to them as they’re my peers. Though one I know no longer thinks highly of me as she’s on my…
/r/MGTOW221/09/20 03:24 AM
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I have one tat, something I got when I was 20, stupid, and stoned. But I was smart enough to get it in a place that can’t be seen. If anything, I’d get my parent’s initials on my shoulder as a memorial. Tats on women is tricky. I’m not going to begin to wonder the logic behind it. Though I’ve avoided the ones with the tramp stamps. That screams CC Rider
/r/MGTOW221/09/20 03:16 AM
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The Witcher on Netflix. Has some powerful female characters, but the main is a badass dude. Definitely not a feminist ideology. I’d say the reimaged Battlestar Galactica. Has some feminist marks to it, but certainly nothing like what is out today. I don’t recall seeing any social justice warrior crap in it. If you want to go way back, though don’t know how you could stream it, Airwolf. It’s pure 1980s sci-fi, with two dudes and a sweet attack helo.
/r/MGTOW221/09/20 03:10 AM
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Betas are afraid of the alphas, and especially the sigmas. Seems logical they’d do something like this to discredit/shame him
/r/MGTOW221/09/20 03:00 AM
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The ones closest to you are often the ones with the sharpest knives. I’m sorry you have to deal with that shit. I’d recommend keeping your thoughts to yourself and dodge the questions. Not saying become a basement dwelling recluse, but don’t keep them in the loop if they’re going to be that judgmental.
/r/MGTOW221/09/20 02:59 AM
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Funny that your sister referred to MGTOW as “beta losers.” While there are alphas in the realm, I’ve always perceived it as more of a sigma male mindset. We’re not bound by societal norms, nor are we chasing women - something both alphas and betas do. We’re out for ourselves. Then again, that’s my perception of it.
/r/MGTOW220/09/20 05:06 AM
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Like the red glow look of a CIC. I’d do that or blue, though dark red is my favorite color. Unfortunately, these old eyes need the regular light to see the students’ work to grade.
/r/MGTOW217/09/20 03:13 AM
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Unfortunately, Linkdin is still filled with BS. Got an IM the other day from some tosser wanting me to invest $1500 into his business for a facilities cleaning franchise. Nothing against the people who do that, but my profile says “teacher.” Not sure where I’d have $1500 laying around to “invest” in some arsehole’s business on the web. I still get crap from agents wanting me to buy into their systems to sell their products, even though I haven’t been a licensed agent for several months
/r/MGTOW215/09/20 02:46 AM
2

This. It takes action to parent. Or as Gerry Brooks says, “parenting. It’s a verb.” I’m a gen-X’er, and I warmed the behind of my kids when they acted up. Not to the level that I got, but if anything, I’m confident they won’t be one of these adult children running around, tearing the place up. They also have the desire to work, and have their goals set out for their careers. Perhaps it’s anti MGTOW, but I don’t want them dependent on a man.
/r/MGTOW214/09/20 12:23 PM
1

The conservative Christian side will complain about it. I remember them griping how in vitro was “against god’s plan,” and how they were “playing god.” 😒 Used to also be an insult when a person was off - you’d call them a “test tube baby,” because TTBs were obviously not full conception or some nonsense.
/r/MGTOW214/09/20 12:18 PM
2

Become a teacher - your libido will be reduced and you’ll be too tired to do anything else. The weekends about the only time I have the urge to purge. And that’s if I’m not busy finishing/prepping a lesson or grading shit. Quite honestly, I could do without the weekend distractions. But that’s just this 43 YO curmudgeon.
/r/MGTOW212/09/20 10:25 PM
1

I started remote in March and taught all my classes online. This school year, it’s 60/40 online. I’m glad to be back in the classroom as I teach my students better. As for changing, not much. I didn’t really do much before, though I’ve found myself banned from more than one politician’s Twitter or online group. But wear the mask when I go out.
/r/MGTOW211/09/20 02:56 AM
3

I’m an introvert as well, though I was starting to become stir crazy slung June
/r/MGTOW211/09/20 02:52 AM
2

I was thinking about that this morning. As a teacher, I tend to work with a lot of women. Part of my A.M. duties is morning car loop. Basically making sure the little ones make it into the building safely without coming into contact with a 2+ ton vehicle. Port of that is radioing to the front when the back of a lane is clear. Unfortunately, the woman up funny doesn’t listen very well, or don’t pay attention. Today, they were going back and forth on radio about a parent walking a kid in. She star…
/r/MGTOW211/09/20 02:45 AM
2

My youngest asked me to grow a beard, and people said it looked “different”. Got a lot of compliments when I returned from the summer last year. That said, I’m not going to style it crazy, but I grew a full beard to try to out. I’d shave my head if I knew I wasn’t going to look like a funny looking, Latino Buddha.
/r/MGTOW209/09/20 12:23 PM
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Coming from an introvert, I’m not going to stay out late at a party or a club. They bore me, and I usually have to be up early and alert for work the next day. Teaching is exhausting both physically and mentally. So yes, I’ve used the excuse of “need to let dog out,” especially as they’ve likely been indoors all day without a bathroom break.
/r/MGTOW209/09/20 12:19 PM
3

That’s an awesome letter. Sometimes the best revenge is not caring. It’s like the act of them knowing you’re not going waste the time dealing with them is more crushing than trying to one up them.
/r/MGTOW208/09/20 01:49 PM
2

Not a problem asking. I’ve asked myself that on more than one occasion in the past three years. LoL I was bored where I was at. I’d come in, and it’d be the same as the day before. Basically Office Space and Dilbert, but not to that full level. I found it hard to move up, because they’d place requirements on positions. When I did get an interview, it was hard because I wouldn’t answer their “STAR” questions in the right way. With teaching, no two classes/days are alike. I frequently tell my kidd…
/r/MGTOW208/09/20 10:07 AM
5

I don’t believe it’s as much an adolescent thing as it’s an “ugg, me bang chest. Me bigger man” dick comparing deal. I was talking to someone about old school science fiction and recent scientific discoveries, and some other dude decided to be cute and comment, “I didn’t do loser stuff. I focused on getting laid.” I responded that I simply mastered my primal instincts, and sought to further develop the higher level of cognizance of my mind. There was sex, but it wasn’t my primary focus. Still is…
/r/MGTOW208/09/20 04:02 AM
4

I don’t partake in the pharmaceuticals anymore, however when I was young, I did find I’d become more philosophical In that respect, after a few beers or a few tokes.
/r/MGTOW207/09/20 04:34 PM
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Depends on who you speak too. I had an intelligent conversation a few years back with a woman my age. She asked me what I thought about the multiverse theories, something I’m interested in, and it led to a two hour conversation about that, exoplanets, and the statistical probability of alien life in our galaxy and the universe. I was training her on a commissions system we were using, and she saw my wallpaper of a galaxy. We flirted off and on, but I have a philosophy of not fishing off the dock…
/r/MGTOW207/09/20 04:32 PM
1

But towards the end there dates were starting to feel like coffee with an Amazon Alexa. No, Alexa is better. She’ll order the shit you ask her too, and she rape you for your assets. Imagine when seed bots are around - put Alexa in it. Brand her, then have order refills for whatever.
/r/MGTOW207/09/20 04:16 PM
5

Except that your body will purge it if you don’t perform maintenance. Either through wet dreams or leaking semen when you drop a deuce. I tried full celibacy in ‘07, and actually lost sleep due to that bullshit. Honestly, I’d be perfectly content if I could just work my career without the necessities of life... sleep, eating, waste disposal, etc
/r/MGTOW201/09/20 03:01 AM
3

Seems legit. Once heard that a true friend will accompany you to the ends of the Earth because they’d know you’d do the same. Unfortunately, 2020 has made me very jaded and annoyed with the “human species”
/r/MGTOW231/08/20 03:14 AM
1

It’s really interesting since we have the accordion monkey that hung around the last leader opposing him. Country is in a royal shit show right now
/r/MGTOW230/08/20 07:34 PM
3

And death from giardiasis, cholera, botulism, E. Coli, salmonella, hepatitis a-c, measles, other infectious diseases, parasites, minor injuries, poor dental hygiene, non apex predator, and a slew of other ways to die to name a few
/r/MGTOW224/08/20 02:39 AM
1

A year ago, I would disagree with you. After seeing what has been happening in Seattle and Portland for the past two months, I’m of the opinion that humanity sucks. I recall the scene from reimaged Battlestar Galactica, when Edward James Olmos’ character said “You know when we fought the Cylon’s; we did it to save ourselves from extinction. But we never answered the question of Why? A young Ensign once asks me, ‘Why are we as a people worth saving?’ I could not answer him then and I can’t answer…
/r/MGTOW222/08/20 06:43 PM
5

A distrust in the system is not necessarily misanthropy. I recognize a casino is stacked is stacked against my favor, as is the state lottery. As such, I won’t waste my time and in money in those systems. I believe they label it as “misanthropy” as they cannot claim it’s misogyny. So claiming it’s a hatred/distrust of humanity gives them a “talking point,” allows them to lump us with incels. Me personally, I don’t hate casino workers. I’m just not going to play their game.
/r/MGTOW222/08/20 06:38 PM
2

That’s funny - he’s the one that sparked my interest in too. Just haven’t reached that point in my life yet
/r/MGTOW214/08/20 05:29 PM
3

If you have the resources, you could get your own custom rig that’d be a mini home on wheels, compete with amenities of a motor home. I believe Wells interviewed a owner/operator that went that route. Driver said it was awesome - he didn’t have use the questionable facilities at truck stops, and only had to stop by a camping spot to dump waste water and refill his tanks.
/r/MGTOW214/08/20 05:28 PM
2

I was banned from a Facebook group on godly relationships for espousing what I was unaware were “red pill” thoughts about 10 years ago. Edited for hitting submit too fast. Be funny to read the comments from women on your post
/r/MGTOW214/08/20 05:16 PM
3

I’d pay off my shit, then get the hell out of Florida. Buy some property in someplace like Montana. Or a cabin in the mountains of NC/TN. A place where I could go to be at peace. While a MGTOWN would be an interesting location, it’d run into legal troubles in the US. Women would sue for equal housing and employment opportunities. It’d quickly devolve into Femville and become a living hell. You’d be better off establishing your version of Galt’s Gulch, then work on getting judges that are sympath…
/r/MGTOW214/08/20 04:14 AM
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Can’t say I’d get an escort. Talk about riding the cock carousel, these women make an Indiana cornfield look chaste
/r/MGTOW211/08/20 02:33 AM
2

That is a downfall. One of the reasons I considering a “schoolie”. It’s more room, but it eliminates the stealth aspect of it. It’s also harder to bug out in
/r/MGTOW204/08/20 01:48 PM
1

Nice! I’ve seen some nice setups on YouTube where they installed solar panels in the roof for stealthing out. Some even have built a small shower inside. But I can see the appeal to it. The ability to travel and not have to pay for a hotel. Stop for maybe a restaurant meal and to wash clothes, but you have no other reason to leave it. Only concern I’d have, is that I have three cats. I know, dude who has cats. But if I parked somewhere and the APU running the aux ac was to fail, the heat would k…
/r/MGTOW204/08/20 01:04 AM
2

Entrepreneurs in Cars constantly says that if you’re going to cohabitate with/marry a woman, she needs to compliment you. That’s awesome though.
/r/MGTOW203/08/20 09:30 PM
1

Now always. These hedge managers - the ones pulling the major strings - aren’t doing it for pussy. Oh sure, I’m positive it comes alongZ. But their major drivers are controlling kings.
/r/MGTOW203/08/20 09:26 PM
2

To be fair, showing up in a blacked out van would put anyone on edge. I’d wonder which political hack did I piss off, or did I do something to piss off a cartel. 🤣 Jokes aside, I’m looking at the van life for retirement. Convert it and live in it, and travel the country. But what you said was spot on. Always amuses me to see a US Service member, some of them have several combat tours, bow down to pussy. Look at how the males act around it. Whether it’s humans or animals. I made the mistake of te…
/r/MGTOW203/08/20 09:23 PM
3

This. Death is weird. When I lost my mom, be 10 years on Wed, she waited until it was only her sister in the room. My grandma has gone home to get some rest, and my sister and I had stepped out of the room. My dad, gone 5 years now, waited until I left the room to work out some financial details as I was low on PTO from FMLA. I can’t say that I’m afraid of it. If you’re lucid, you often nurses coming in and out to check on you. But most times, people are unconscious. But there’s always someone c…
/r/MGTOW203/08/20 09:01 PM
1

Sorry, there are kids. 17yr old and 9yr old. Chapter 7 is out of the question as I’d lose to much. Primarily my pitiful IRA and more importantly, my car. I can’t Uber to work, and I don’t have family to borrow from. All of the debt is mine.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/20 01:23 PM
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Nice! I’m looking at possibly leaving the classroom to pick up something that pays more to be able to afford the bullshit. Thankfully, my eldest turns 18 next year, and youngest will be 14 when my chapt 13 is over.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/20 05:44 PM
1

I am getting a screenshot of this. I spoke with one attorney in July, and based on my timeline, advised to wait or try to work it out. I’m going through a chapter 13 right now, so no way I can afford that, child support, alimony, and surging myself with my current situation. Though she did advise to leave if the STBEW even hinted of claiming spousal abuse. I downloaded a recording app. That is done good advice though. Last thing we want is a Louis Tully who will cave under the opponents counsel …
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/20 05:17 PM
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One could say that it’s their nature. The irony is that the Zumba instructor will very likely pick up several additional “monkeys” in his lifetime.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/20 07:20 PM
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It’s essentially saying you’re a business partner. I have a feeling my marriage has devolved to that
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/19 02:49 PM
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Her cock carousel broke, and she’s out of tickets. There is some good karma in that.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/19 03:16 PM
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Glad you made the jump. I talked to an attorney in July, and they wanted a 5k retainer, plus $500/mo into an escrow. Plus the $300/hr fee. I teach middle school. I don’t have that kind of cash. Thankfully she’s not a full on narcissist. Wish you the best of luck
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/19 03:23 AM
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