GunsnOil Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
96	Interesting at FDS there’s a trending post about a woman having to give her boyfriend the card to pay so that he wouldn’t feel insecure.		GunsnOil	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/21 08:45 PM

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1	[Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet) It’s all economics at the end of the day bro. In the anglosphere there is a shortage of attractive women and a high demand for them, so they have control of the market. That’s why there are high standards placed on the men. In contrast, when you go to other places in the world, you actually find the opposite dynamic where most men look ugly but all the women are gorgeous. In that context, women are the pleasers and have high standards placed on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 04:07 PM
2	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. There’s no reason to overthink this. You need to sort out what kind of life you’re wanting to live. If you want a family, a strong loyal relationship with a woman without much experience, then so be it. There’s no reason to stress yourself out about women out there who live the rockstar life. If you yourself are a man wanting to sleep with as many women as possible, then you definitely should have no problem with certain women doing the same. A lot of this shaming comes from both men and women w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 06:21 PM
1	Female Dating Strategy It’s interesting seeing how negative, bitter and angry subreddits like FDS, TRP, and MGTOW are. I would really advise all men and women from following those movements. There is a positive direction that both men and women can take so as to create win win situations for everyone. That does not include these social networks which focus on the negative aspects of the opposite sex, on how to “game” the other person while being unfaithful and sleeping on the side, or on being extremely self-centered …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 04:18 PM
2	Pros and cons of picking up at grocery stores instead of bar scene Hahaha! That’s golden!	/r/seduction	20/03/21 04:06 AM
44	Pros and cons of picking up at grocery stores instead of bar scene People downvote this because you’re speaking to an audience mainly from the anglosphere. It’s been ingrained into people that socializing with strangers outside of a bar and during the daytime is strange. It’s not by chance that it’s also the culture of feminists who police encounters between men and women. There’s simply a loss of romantic imagination here. Honestly, the best experiences and sex I ever had was with girls I approached on the street or at some other casual location. Regardless of…	/r/seduction	20/03/21 04:05 AM
2	6 TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR RESULTS WITH GIRLS. Bookmarked! Great post. I’m really starting to get more serious about getting good at seduction lately, but you’re right, it’s not the end all be all. As James from tnl says, you need to plug all the holes in the boat for it to not sink, otherwise hyperfocus in one area simply leads to atrophy in another. Writing is key too. I have not written what I know about social skills and game in a while, so thanks for the reminder, I’ll have to do that soon.	/r/seduction	19/03/21 04:16 PM
2	Live your life your way you wanna live it not the way you think other people do. You only live once ☝️ no FOMO just do it You said it man! You gotta create your own life and speak your mind	/r/seduction	15/03/21 07:45 PM
3	Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills? It’s tough to get out of your shell sometimes. In your shell, the world can seem pretty rough and unkind at times. The same applies to perception of women. Women seem wicked when you’re unwanted. This can create a vicious cycle where anytime you think of doing something, you get negative feedback from your perception of women, then you go back into your shell and repeat the process. To put it simply, some of us are stuck in negative or cynical thought patterns that we can’t escape out of due to …	/r/seduction	13/03/21 07:25 AM
2	Is it a good thing to date in your 20s? Honestly, I focused a lot on my career in my 20s. I would intermittently date, but never committed because I just felt like I wasn’t at my best quite yet. If you feel like you have a high ceiling, don’t prioritize dating but that’s just my opinion. Having a relationship while you pursue your goals I’m sure is great but it always just felt limiting to me.	/r/seduction	09/03/21 01:57 AM
1	Blew it. Not necessarily. A lot more goes into influencing a person than simply internet and social media. For example, culture is a huge part of this discussion. What are the mannerisms, values, and ideas present within a culture? I’ve been to Eastern Europe many times in the past decade and can attest to the fact that women are different there. Sure there is Facebook, Instagram and online dating there but it is not worshipped to the degree that it is here. I would even argue that Europeans in general a…	/r/seduction	06/03/21 03:18 PM
1	A woman's POV Don’t worry about that. Just be social and experience different people’s personalities. Not everyone is going to like you.	/r/seduction	06/03/21 01:08 AM
22	A woman's POV This is why we guys need to take the initiative in real life and talk to girls!! Stop wasting your time on your phone and start actually being social with people.	/r/seduction	04/03/21 07:48 PM
3	It seems like being well dressed doesn't matter to women. You’re not the woman, you’re the man. For a man, a woman who looks good is pretty much good for them. For a woman, a man who looks good peaks interest but it’s up to the man to escalate that to attraction and seduction.	/r/seduction	03/03/21 11:22 PM
1	Blew it. Amazing how common this kind of behavior has become and we now have even grown to accept it in our culture. This is going to come back to bite our generation in the ass if you ask me. As a man, what is my motivation to pursue women in our culture who have become extremely egotistical, shallow and anti-feminine? A majority of American women can’t even take care of themselves and men are left with a small percentage of women to compete for. When you consider how the dating economics are stacked ag…	/r/seduction	03/03/21 06:18 PM
1	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. I can’t help that you’ve been indoctrinated to view people who don’t measure up to your social expectations as “gross” or disgusting. In my book, that’s pretty antisocial and elitist, which in addition to the aggression I hear in your response, also borderline authoritarian. Social scenes are social scenes for a reason. If we went by your cliche perspective on the matter, we would approach no groups outside of our own until some sort of proper eye contact or invitation was submitted. Sounds like…	/r/seduction	01/03/21 09:51 PM
16	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. Not even. I was raised by a loving and caring mom, as well as a responsible dad, so I don’t have any issues with social iq or aggression. In addition, I even read some books about body language which certainly have some inkling of truth to them. The burden of learning is not on me in this case, but rather on you. When I go out and am approached by an aggressive homeless man, a drunk women, or a nosy salesman, I don’t behave as if I’m royalty and they just infringed on my sacred space. I’m nowher…	/r/seduction	01/03/21 08:45 PM
8	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. This obsession with branding humans as creepy in the Anglo sphere is hilarious. People are out trying to be social. Just because some are not calibrated properly to the setting, doesn’t mean they’re subhumans. I can think of so many people who are awkward in public, yet intellectually and substantially brilliant minds. Ironically, some of the biggest social butterflies I’ve met have very weak characters and minds. Don’t judge people by some pseudoscientific behaviorist conceptualization of their…	/r/seduction	01/03/21 08:13 PM
16	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. Nah I disagree with the idea that you’re bothering people when you do cold approaches. Approaching strangers and talking with them is social. Discouraging others from speaking with humans and branding them as “random” or “creepy” is counterproductive and antisocial. If you go out to a bar, don’t expect to be left unbothered like at a library.	/r/seduction	01/03/21 08:05 PM
1	2 Crucial Things to Remember in Game Ahh will definitely check it out. I read MM in the past and watched some RSD until I lost interest with how inauthentic it became	/r/seduction	21/02/21 06:26 AM
2	2 Crucial Things to Remember in Game Maybe if you (not you specifically) stopped being so self-centered and started giving to people, even to those girls where it doesn’t work out, you’d be surprised to find that people won’t abruptly ditch you. I think a lot of this game theory has bred even more selfishness in people. Start giving to the world, build communities, throw parties, become friends with girls, connect social circles, etc.	/r/seduction	21/02/21 02:42 AM
2	How to be approachable It doesn’t matter if you can list exceptions. It’s a statistical unlikelihood for a woman to approach a man. Better to focus on maximizing your odds with the bulk of women whom are waiting to be approached.	/r/seduction	25/01/21 10:24 PM
3	How to be approachable You have it backwards. You’re not the one being approached. You do the approaching. The question will then be “How do I approach?”. The best advice I can give there is by approaching and speaking to many people. Through time, patterns emerge. Good luck.	/r/seduction	24/01/21 10:48 PM
0	3 dates and hook ups later, she wants to "just be friends" False.	/r/seduction	27/02/18 04:33 PM
-11	3 dates and hook ups later, she wants to "just be friends" Oh boy, all the ridiculous events that unfold in dating American women. Personally, I don’t see long term value in any of them. They’re all one night stands to me. One day, when I want a wife, I’ll go to Eastern Europe and find one. Easy peazy.	/r/seduction	27/02/18 05:00 AM