GunterforPM Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How to fix this Please block. As someone who became involved with a distant person, it became harder and harder to distance myself the longer it went on. I realize it might hurt to hear this, but the way he’s communicating is showing he’s interested in the attention. You’re entertainment to him. No great love story starts with “it was really hard at first because he was so inconsistent, and I questioned my own self-worth SO much”. I can see you know this intellectually. Next time you feel an urge to contact him…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/20 06:48 AM
2	"This isn't the girlfriend I ordered, should I send it back?" Don't forget THIS is the kind of low value character we want to avoid. This is truly despicable. He sees her as despoiled rather than a survivor of sexual violence.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 07:27 AM
10	Sex: Why Should Men Wait for What You Gave Lesser Men for Free? Right on, sis.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/20 01:58 PM
1	Imagine having this level of audacity This reads like a troll to me. The way the language uses SO! MANY! key phrases to justify his warped perspective is too slick.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/20 12:38 AM
24	Catfish MTV: Women that aren't a size 0 being rejected by ugly LVM or NVM With that one I’d say he actually had a delusional disorder. I don’t think the show should have broadcast it. He seemed legitimately unwell.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/20 07:40 AM
1	We need to push back against female traitors Check your internalized misogyny, please.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/20 03:24 AM
2	Doing my best to internalize this when reminiscing of how 'nice' they are in the beginning. 🤗 I’m so sorry that happened to you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/20 09:56 AM
11	The AUDACITY!! Anyone else from that sub remember this post? It haunts me, like WTF Haha like a raccoon 🦝	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/05/20 10:14 AM
1	You can always rely on me. Except when I’m too busy or don’t want to when you’re most vulnerable, then I’ll just let you know. 🙄 Ah yes. That moment when you check the OP’s posting history to see if there is a chance she’s dating your ex....haha. I think, as others have said, this smacks of him controlling the narrative. He’ll never actually be available. You should know he cares though, OP. He cares sooo much! So much that it’s overwhelming for him and he just needs some space mm’kay? But you should know, despite a complete lack of actions on his part to support his words, that he does care. So much. Therefore, please do…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 12:49 AM
2	This post enraged me! Seriously glad I don’t have a husband anymore. Today marks my and my daughters one year of freedom. I also had a husband that cared about this much about me. Yes, it’s a passive aggressive swipe at her for being focused on something else other than him I’d say.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/20 04:48 AM
1	Once a cheater, always a cheater? This is a good point - why did he tell you so early? It smacks of him changing the narrative... I’d be careful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/20 11:23 AM
2	Is it ever a good idea to confront the other woman? Can I ask what you realistically feel this will accomplish? The “other woman” is not responsible for the actions of NVM, as much as his violence towards your friend might be heightened by her presence in his life. I understand your anguish and how heartbreaking it is to watch someone you care about be enmeshed in a DV situation (I’ve worked as a women’s DV counsellor) but I doubt this will have a positive impact for anyone involved.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/20 03:08 AM
1	An ex contacted me out of the blue today... I’m almost insulted that he thinks I’m this stupid. “Not even sure who this is” 😂 I die.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/20 04:55 AM
1	I think I’m dating a HVM I would probably be taken aback by the way the STD comment was phrased. I AM sensitive however. How did you find out about his ex calling him? Did he tell you?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/20 12:32 PM
6	The first time I saw the Narc Prayer - I was blown away “I’m trying my best”.... Therefore, you shouldn’t have a problem with it. Therefore if you do, you’re not understanding or caring enough. Therefore, there is something wrong with you. God that phrase sends shivers down my spine now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/20 10:24 AM
38	Swedish model gets rape threats after ad shows her unshaven legs. Meanwhile... I've found this a good barometer for misogyny myself - are they so repulsed by the human body being a BODY and not a fantasy vehicle they'll screw up their face in disgust? Make little comments...?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/20 05:03 AM
2	I had to find out from his Pinterest account that he’s moved on. He gave me the silent treatment for three weeks and when I asked if he wanted to break up he said “I’m not in the right mindset to make that decision. I’m too stressed out right now. I need a clear mind” so today he got this message. How did you find out via Pinterest? Sorry you’re going through this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/20 02:43 PM
1	Friendly reminder to ALWAYS keep a mani/pedi This isn’t really my thing. I think it’s more for women who value that type of self-care. I can see how having a regular reinforcement of it would be helpful though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/20 07:31 AM
2	This. After he cheated on me & ruined our 15 year marriage. I am happy! Happy I got away from you. I’ve found her blog incredibly helpful!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/20 05:16 AM
3	My bf ghosted me for 4 days because he was “stressed” This is a little different than the conversation tapering off and him then not picking it up again for four days. You tried to get in contact with him repeatedly, which makes this a deliberate choice on his part to ignore you. It doesn’t sound like he’s open to the idea of commitment at the moment, even if he would like to be. Please really look at his actions - would you accept this behavior from a friend?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/20 09:56 AM